Why aren't you having a wife and kids?
Rape is never the answer, goy
Not rape, she wants to fuck. Right now she's on implant birth control but that's due to be pulled out about 5 months after our wedding.
She just needs to be convinced that having our own baby is better than adopting some random
I ask myself this quite often. The more I try to find excuses the more I become depressed about it. I tried and failed is the appropriate answer I guess.
It's more that she feels bad that we could be helping a kid that already exists, but I disagree.
We haven't even really talked about it that much. Just that she wants to adopt and that I want my own. When the time comes when we can have our own, I'm sure that's what will happen.
fuck that. drop that bitch.
You are actually okay with your partner not wanting your baby? you picked a partner that you can't even do the only biological thing you were made for.... cuck.. top cuck. tip toppiest fucking cuck.
I'm not even affluent. We've both got mounds of student debt and I'm at least 2 years out from getting a well paying job. So, barely a wallet. I do fuck her good tho as far as I know. So maybe it's just the constant penis she doesn't have to work for. But hey I love her and I see nothing from her otherwise that would show she doesn't.
>not financially secure and in a chaotic line of work that would probably prevent me from being a good dad
>women be crazy
>manhating legal system that will immolate a father "for the best interests of the children".
>Won't be able to make a dent in the demographic shift undertaken by a civilization that decided to suicide before I was born.
Mostly in countries with designated shitting streets
For many it's the reverse...
Because adopting a kid will lessen financial burden versus birthing one.
Keep telling yourself she loves you, meanwhile you will literally be raising some one else's off spring because she doesn't feel you're man enough to give her a proper child.
My kids are annoying as shit. I love them because I made them and I take responsibility for that, but fuck, not everyone thinks its the best thing in the world. Everyone tells you its awesome and you'll change your tune but then you don't and that's when things really suck.
Like I said, we're more than a year out before she can even get pregnant.
So fuck off faggot, and stop being analpained that this anon is happy in his relationship.
I dont want a child 100%, having a child is a choice I can't really undo easily and besides, the world is already overpopulated
doesn't matter if you love her or she loves you. if your partner doesn't want kids with "you" there will be problems in the future. You are going to get married to her and you said you don't even really talk about it. You two sound like stupid kids. You are supposed to plan your life together before you are married and find out if you share the same sights for the future.
just because you love someone doesn't mean they are perfect for you and that you are supposed to marry them. I married my wife after we planned our future and what we wanted to do. When we first started dating one of the first questions was if we want kids.
You are probably american because americans don't give a shit about marriage and do it on a whim.
Because i'm supremely selfish and value my free time over everything else. I work 8 hours a day and sleep 8 hours a day I want that last third to do exactly what I want whenever i want.
Also, I haven't seen even a fictional example of a woman i'd want to keep around forever.
no it won't dumbass. do you know expensive it is to adop or how long the process is? what about all the check ups by people making sure you aren't an idiot and can take care of the little crackhead you adopted.
beacuse i dont wanna be a wage cuck having to work for a wife who wants my money for luxuries and feeding extra mouths that just wine for the latest apple products.
i rather keep money for myself, also i dont want kids, my sisters kids alone anoyed the fuck out of me when i used to baby sit
It's cute how when anyone here can't fight back they just resort to calling virgin and newfag.
Hah, nah man, you think it's equal but let the bitch come into the court room in tears. Let's see how that case goes. Humans can't not be biased.
I'm too fucked
So is the world
I have anger issues
I have a 10-year-running weed addiction
Bad genes; mother is heavily bipolar alcoholic, grandma had her first stroke when she was like 45, know nothing about either my grandfather or my own dad.
But...i am having a child, but we're not married. The military keeps fucking how i plan shit.
>inb4 welfare queen
>inb4 you had me at tricare
>4 year relationship where two years are before joining
>inb4 jodie baby
it's not equal at all dumbass. my boss's wife cheated on him and had a kid with another man that he raised for a year before his wife's sister told him. she wasn't paying their bills and used all the money on drugs. he left took the kids and has been in court fighting against her for 2 years now. she is a druggie and has failed multiple drug test and lost her house which was given to her for free. she hasn't had to pay any expensive legal fees because she is a woman and doesn't have a job. she doesn't go to court hearings and still hasn't been arrested. she is actually suing him for not paying for the kid she had with the other guy that she is with now which is an ex con who did 10 years for a severe assault which almost killed a man.
guess what he is still getting fucked and he has literally done nothing wrong.
I know my gf is constantly disappointed that I have no intention of proposing. I just don't see why I need to have a ceremony to "legalize" my commitment to her. I'm with her. I love her. I care for her. Why isn't that enough? People constantly give me shit for not marrying her, they say "it'll make her so happy." Yeah that's great, but what about what makes me happy? Im happy the way things are. Fuck those people.
you're not addicted you're just a weak-willed zilch
People have become materialistic now. Women are brainwashed and still being brainwashed that they don't need anyone but themselves. When men earn and save money, it's hard for them to trust women because they've seen what's going on. Materialistic women everywhere. Both genders are being brainwashed. Let's say, both of them have a decent career, if they decide to have a kid or two, most of the time, those kids would end up in a daycare or a nanny. Women chose career over family. Oh, excuses of paying bills. Stop spending money with material shit. Kids are only kids once. When they grow and you're old, they will dump your old ass in a nursing home and will only visit you when they have extra time.
Marriage is a garbage that little girls are brainwashed into wanting as the end all for their lives. There is literally no piece of paper in the world that can physically stop anyone from cheating on you, to stay with you and support you all your life.
Yet, all of America is rabid about this shit, and we have a massive divorce rate. Coincidence?
I live in WA state and it says right on the bag of legal marijuana "habit forming"
you are a stupid faggot if you deny medical science considers weed smoking an addiction
a stupid stupid stupid faggot
and I will fight you faggot
Imagine this.. You guys are together for 30 years. When you introduce her to people, what are you gonna say? Here's my gf..we're together for over 30 years. Kinda pathetic, no?
I have my own house, all my own shit. I would get cleaned out in a divorce. If I ask for a prenup people would say why you don't need that!!! Well, statistics say otherwise. Marriage, the only way to win is not to play.
US society is uptight about its purpose
it's seen as lazy to pursue individual happiness, you have to fall lock-step into a tradition geared for long-term reproductive behavior
if the US were more permissive about sexuality, including pedophilia, this shit wouldn't be a problem en masse.
Bitch, if you really love me, you'll respect my decision. If we're still together after 30 years, then, I'll undo it.
If she agrees, then, marry her. If not, then, dump her materialistic ass.
>implying that's why people want you to get married
>implying that she is already planning on leaving you
>implying that on opposite day men have equality in the American justice system
What the fuck does it matter how I introduce her as? I could say this is Jane. She's been my main bitch for 30 years. It sounds like your saying that people should just get married to avoid uncomfortably explaining a relationship, when in fact it is none of their business in the first place.
no. just because you aren't used to the sound of something doesn't mean it is pathetic. I know someone who did exactly that. They are both happy. All they do is travel around Europe. In their 40s with no kids and have all the time they want to themselves and each other.
because women and children are the most expensive things in the world
and I'd rather fuck them than support them
Probably most people were on board with you until the random pedophilia bit, like what the fuck. Like you might as well of said "and also hitler was totally right about most things".
because i'm done with women. MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) is the way to go
Kinda funny Joe Rogan couldn't put the stem on the apple.
Literally has nothing to do wtih pedos, why specify that?
Sex isn't the problem, you can fuck what ever with out legally binding documents.
The problem is mostly media and communities brain washing little girls into thinking that they have to get married, that it's some unmatchable pinnacle of relationship, like being married saves and elevates a relationship.
The cold hard truth is, it doesn't save relationships, it more often breaks them, it doesn't make them better, usually after people stop trying to improve the relationship because that ring means you're stuck now and you don't have a choice (unless you're rich). Marriage is an issue, not because of sex, but because it's flawed as a whole.
Why wouldn't I?
inb4 mgtow gay brainwashing shit
Who cares about bloodlines? I'm not starting a dynasty. And a simple last will and testament can make sure your money and assets go to where you want them to when you're dead. No need for marriage.
Probably most people were on board with you until the random Hitler bit, like what the fuck. Like you might as well of said "if the US were more permissive about sexuality, including pedophilia, this shit wouldn't be a problem en masse.".
HITLER DID NOTHING WRONG. CUNT.
I know who's behind this post....
Seriously though if you're in this thread and you're white you should be having kids. White birth rates are dropping at a disturbing level
>inb4 hurr dur I don't want to bring children into this fucked up world
Just do it. For the sake of the white race. Do it so the jews and the gays and the liberal white hating media doesn't win.
It's also immoral and illegal. Masturbation is too, and you don't ruin a child's life by doing it.
No, seriously, you have no fucking clue what you're talking about. I've personally seen that shit with my best friend.
His dad was a hard working guy with a house and cash in the bank. His mom was a gutter skank crack junky who beat her kids. She won. Came in crying, sob story in trail, and they glanced over all the fucked up shit and she won complete custody of all the kids in the family and the dad got fucked.
I don't know who you're trying to convince, but you're retarded if you think it's equal in court for a man and woman.
I would freak the fuck out if someone took a picture of my kids.
I'm not having a wife cause I have too many substance abuse problems. I'm not having kids as of now cause I'm not financially stable
MOM SHUT UP IM BEING EDGY ON 4CHAN!
Anon, stop saying shit because you think it's how you're supposed to think when on 4chan. Stop trying to fit in and develop a personality for gods sake, you're so transparent it's comical.
Not having a family != Not caring about the community or your own family. It seems like you're just angry that anon has less responsibilities than you do. Guess you should've thought twice before enslaving yourself?
2nd Degree Black Belt in Taekwondo
Blue Belt in Judo
Black Belt in 10th Planet Jiu-Jitsu under Eddie Bravo
Black Belt in Brazilian jiu-jitsu under Jean Jacques Machado
I think you'd get your ass kicked, bro.
The niggers and Mexicans and arabs already won
You think all of them are financially stable? You think they put having a wife and kids on hold so they could spend their whole life getting a degree? Fuck no they pop out babies.
>I don't care about wife and kids and re populating this earth
Fine then don't complain when there are no white people left faggot
Well, I still might, but up to this point I've seen it as a trap and I couldnt really afford it through my 20s. Once you have kids women have you by the balls, you're officially their slave for at 18 years.
Do what you think is best for you but if you're white, then, all you and your ancestors' hard work will be just history because none of you will survive if most of you think that way.
Because this world is so fucked up I would never want to bring another life into it.
Unless there is some kind of massive wide scale genetic cleansing in my life I will keep my swimmers following their tails
I envy successful people who have a great chick and kids. I have had drug problems for most of my adult life and after I hit 40 my appearance took a turn for the worse unfortunately. Now I am just a pervert who thinks of what could have been instead of trying to improve, my mind just won't let me.
hate fucking weddings hate everyone who I would have to invite. I tolerate my girlfriend so I don't have to live a lonesome existence but I actually don't think I'll ever get married.
Marriage is the ultimate cuck. If she gets tired of your ass she'll divorce you, she'll be spending your money while fucking dudes in your house. But at least you tried to do it the "right" way!
I'm poor af and going into uni in the fall. Also going into career where I'll be traveling a lot. Not exactly conducive for a family. Also, idfk how to raise kids, and could barely handle my sister before losing my fucking mind.
I have a wife. And she NEVER wants kids. Which is the best thing you could hope for. Don't have to waste my time or money on some little faggot for 18 years. My circle of friends currently Are mad as FUCK we don't want kids. One night they angrily asked why not and I said because I'm not a sucker and they all got offended
There's no pedestal placing here, at this point I don't even care. I stopped trying for a relationship a long time ago, last date I was on was '09. Meh, what ever.
Nah, I experimented with a guy, not only no erection but it just didn't feel right to me and I regret it
Reading this thread makes me realize that guys are just as crazy as bitches.
As for me, fuck having kids. That shit's a joke, your life is fucking over and you can't do the shit you wanna do. Not only that, the little shit is a money sinkhole.
No, plenty of folk are having kids, I'm good.
Using that word warrants that you kill yourself.
I don't think you're a cuck. I think you're not a sucker like everyone else who thinks having a kid will replace some lost happiness in their life when it's the EXACT OPPOSITE
Because I'm young and not financially stable.
Well, you've "experimented", so you're gay. No doubt about it. Intamacy with a dude? Check. Not interested in females? Check. That's it. The entire list of what it takes to be a faggot. I think the problem is that you don't realize you're a catcher, not a pitcher. So go get your shit pushed in.
I didn't want to go thru what my parents did.
We were 7 wild Indians.
They were responsible, and we were ungrateful jerks.
Sacrifice...work, then get an FU at 14 or 15 yrs old.
We did that to them.
because i'm 20, not financially stable, i haven't graduated from uni yet and my girlfriend and I have only been together for a year.
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Because I'm scared of my wife getting bored or whatever shit, taking me to court and financially and emotionally gutting me. Bachelor life is pretty fucking nice IMO. I sleep lots, hang with bros, go to parties/bars and just generally give a surprising low amount of fucks. I kinda want to stick with that.
Because I hate my bitch girlfriend of several years but I'm too much of a chicken shit coward to get rid of her... Even though I tried and she keeps talking me into getting back together.
I'm waiting until I have enough wealth to prevent my child from watching TV and talking to children who watch TV without being a monster
in the USA, this is impossible, overseas perhaps not
No - was just watching the NHL playoffs.
That's the gay person answer to everything... Faux News.
Yes. Is this a serious question? If you took the picture for a school assignment for anatomy class you'd be in the clear. Or if you just wanted to know if it was asthetically pleasing, then it would be OK. But to jerk off to a pic of your own balloon knot? That's super gay, and frankly, a bit conceited.
So at the very least, you're an egomaniac with unresolved homosex issues. I've been told by several girls that I have a beautiful cock and balls, but I don't photograph it and jerk off to it. That's Trumpian.
Nah, you just reworked it to fit your argument bro
I am very interested in women, I seen a girl today at the local comic shop that made me go "damn" in reaction and she smiled back. I'm socially retarded though so I didn't pursue.
I tried with a guy, not because I wanted to be with a guy, but to test myself to see ify inability to perform with girls was that I was actually gay. I couldn't with him either and it gave me some pretty bad feels on top of that. Was the act gay? Yes. Am I gay as a person? No, because it didn't do anything for me.
I don't likey ass being played with at all, I'm not a bottom but if I'm fantasizing alone I get the biggest orgasms when being a Dom in a situation and having the girl worship my cock.
No, sorry, I'm not gay but I am pathetic as a man.
See, here's the thing... In my hometown, there was an old guy that worked as a fireman for 50 years. He rented the apartment across the street from the station. His whole life revolved being a fire fighter. Everybody in town called him "Fireman Tom". Then one night he got caught giving a blowie to some random dude in the parking lot of the local tavern. Guess what? No matter how many fires he put out from that day until the day he died, he was no longer known as "Fireman Tom", he was known as "Cock Sucker Tom".
>tl;dr - suck one cock, and you're a cock sucker forever
So your logic is since he was sucking your cock, you aren't a faggot? C'mon, man.
Look, I'm not judging you - I just feel badly that you aren't enjoying life. This is exactly what I was saying - your mind is fucked up with some sense of residual masculinity that's keeping you from giving in and being a bottom. Being with girls isn't your thing, and apparently neither is being a top. So take the advice I gave in my first post - go get your ass stuffed.
Fuck me I'm married with 4 kids and straight as an arrow but I would of nailed that sissy in the ass.
Don't let these faggots distract you from getting (boi) pussy.
Fucking guys is fun, you get to be so much rougher, women would report you to the police for punching them.
Simple OP, I'm waiting until I am not only financially stable so he/she doesn't have to go to school in the ghetto, but also mentally stable so my insecurities don't become my kid's problems, unlike my parents (and most others i the US)
Fine, faggot. Go ahead an do your GIS - it's legit. Any other questions, virgins? Sent it to my wife last weekend while she was visiting her parents.
well... because im alone and i have no one to share my life with. even though i have some friends and im like social and stuff...
im 28 and since i dropped out of univ. im convinced that i'll either be alone until i die or im gonna be with someone and then happen the same shit everyone is talking about here, getting dumped lose kids and everything AND be considered the bad guy. dunno how or why, but thats my bet.
>not judging you
Literally exactly what you're doing lol
No, I'm not gay because o never reached full arousal. I was flacid the entire time no matter what he tried. Again, the act was gay, but overall proved that men weren't my thing. You aren't catching that I'm not into being the bottom, are you? Lol
Meh, doesn't matter at this point. I won't be able to ever get it up, I'm fat, not good looking and socially incapable. It really doesn't matter