Ask a psychologist anything.
I'm h-here for you, Anonymous!
I like people on a person by person basis. Why would I dislike a whole group of people when I've never met all of them?
Why is it that EVERY SINGLE TIME I start drinking or get blackout drunk I wake up with messages to women I would never dream of hitting up. Basically hit up any woman possible on my messenger wtf?
I have had a brain MRI and CT (both negative), every time I ejaculate I have a mild head ache, I frequently get anxiety which my quick fix is to pop a valium and try and get on with life, still think im dieing or sick all the time
Because alcohol lowers inhibitions.
Because you put yourself into the shoes of the scuba diver. And it's pretty freaky.
Valium doesn't kick in that quickly; you are using it as a placebo.
As for ejaculation, have you gotten your prostate checked?
If beef is so good for you, why haven't I lost any friggen weight?
I'm not against it, but as an asian, why would I have a place in it?
What do you mean? I'm right here, trying to help you.
It's not, who told you that?
Is it okay if i am afraid of large groups of sandniggers? They all laughed at me and pointed because i was wearing work clothes (pic related), I'm not fat and i have never been mean to a muslim either. Do they really have the right to judge people when we give them shelter here?
It's not as if I can charge you on /b/ man.
The name is "Rando".
I'm 21 and haven't had a GF. I fucked prostitutes a few times (tho only because mates wanted me to come with them). I'm very happy with my life and i dont feel the urge to go out and find a girlfriend, i don't even think the time is worth to go get a hooker. I thought maybe i am Asexual, but i masturbate daily and actually enjoyed the sex i had so far,yet i value the time i spend there to be not worth it(i'd rather be on the internet/playing vidya/watching movies/anime). As i said im living my life pretty happy but people say im weird. Should i just ignore them and keep doing my thing or is sth wrong with me?
You can always accept Steam games as payment. What do you get out of this anyway?
NEET for 7 years because I have a painful but non life threatening skin disease. I'm scared to leave my home in fear of being in pain. I have aspergers and I lost contact with all my friends. What do?
Why am i a sosiopath? Why is it that growing up i thought that everyone around me whas faking feelings. I felt like when someone foreksample where missing home, that they just recreated something that they saw in a movie or something, now i start to relaise more and more that it is just me :(
You should definitely check Clubby the Seal.
There's a lot of schools of thought on that.
It's probably because they are similar to you but slightly exotic; that pulls from two different pools of attraction at once.
I'm not sure what you mean. No one put a gun to your head and told you to enter this thread, did they?
Sure. No big deal. Also, why is that....what is that worthy of laughing at again?
If you are happy and enjoy your life, then just ignore them; it's only bad if it has impact on your life.
Live how you want, Anonymous! Only you can.
I give steam games out, I don't accept them. No time for games these days.
No, pot isn't a good treatment for most mental illnesses.
You should never stop taking meds without help from a doctor.
Clearly, you can't, or you'd have already done it; thus why classes and therapy are useful.
What skin disease?
Sociopathy and psychopathy are criminal designations, not medical ones. Not my field of expertise.
Could be ASPD though; have you seen a doctor?
Twenty three years old and a virgin. It was by choice to be honest. Never really hit it off with another lad. Got into an accident a few month back which left me bed bound. Wanted to put myself out there again, as i don't really have any friends coming out to visit.
I have always been a loner, even though people invited me out, i just prefer to be on my own most of the time. Got bullied quite a bit growing up, betrayed, manipulated, used, etc,.
I thought i learned to deal with my depression and anxiety. Thought i finally had my shit together, then my accident happened. Recently went on grindr and there was a nice guy but it didn't really work out. We never ended up meeting and i cried for like two days straight.
I never cry. Well maybe when drunk. I always got through life knowing someone out there had it worse than me... Always thought that you can turn it around as long as you have the willpower and put the work into it.
I have always been good at preparing a face to meet the faces that you meet. Its just that i feel like i literally cant do it anymore. I don't know who i am or how to act. Maybe its cause i'm vulnerable (doing physio but still a while from recover and even then wont be fully back).
What would you recommend? I kind of want to talk to a therapist but it would take so long to go through everything that's happened to be quite honest. I don't want to live in the past anyway, i just want to move on but i feel like everyone can see past my mask now.
Seems like Sakuya decided to wear her pads today.
Morning. How was your night last night?
I, for one, don't.
Have you been to a doctor? If you have depression and anxiety, they can help a lot more than anything else is going to.
The idea that it would take a long time to go through and therefore it is worthless is.....strange to me. The more material you have, the better they can help you.
The past defines who you are today; if you don't deal with it, you can't move forward. Seek help Anonymous; I believe in you.
You should definitely listen more to Self-Preservation Chan she's great at giving advices.
>I, for one, don't.
I believe you that you believe it, but chances are, your emotions are as fake as mostly everyone's. It's some shit you learned by checking how other people do it. It has nothing to do with real emotion.
Bullshit there has to be something you're getting out of this.
I'll give you a shovel you might wanna get a bit deeper.
>Bullshit there has to be something you're getting out of this.
Psychologists feel worthless. Helper syndrome is compensation. Plus they only studied the subject to fix themselves. The females are sluts, the males a bit like Himmler.
The thing is that i have an avid interest in psychology. Read a lot about it growing up. Always thought of how people acted and why they acted that way. It isn't that i feel like its worthless, it most certainly is not. I saw a therapist before and she helped me a great deal. I understand why i feel the way i feel. I have had too much time to reflect on it to be honest.
I also believe past experiences shape your character. Fuck it, i think i will schedule an appointment with someone. I fear i may continue to shed pointless tears.
Tossed and turned all night. No idea what was up.
Every day is pad day.
Oh dear. That's terrible, that's a really debilitating disease! I'm sorry Anonymous, I'm so so sorry.
I've only done some synthesis work; I left to greener pastures. Sorry if that's disappointing.
Yeah, except no. People smile when they are happy; that is innate. Even Ray Charles did it, despite never seeing a smile in his entire life
Your philosophy just doesn't match science, Anonymous.
Says who? You? You aren't me; don't tell me what I can and can't do.
Empathy is a skill; it needs to be worked out to use effectively. Also, how old are you? If you are around, say, 20, a lot of the family members you lose may simply be ones you don't have many bonds with, depending on how old your parents were when they had you.
Going to just ignore you now that you've shown your ignorance.
I don't feel worthless, but good armchair psychology Freud. Also not why I picked up the subject.
Holy bazooka are you cereal? She's like super famous here geez have you been literally living under a rock or what?
You can do it anonymous!
Feel free to contact me at [email protected] if you need further help; my name is Alice.
Why the fuck does my doc tell me to get more exercise and prescribes me shitty pills that don't work right, and nothing else?
Then a year later when I haven't improved, he simply comes to the conclusion that I must not be depressed if the pills aren't working right?
I bet you run away from bullies too.
What am I, a guard in a logic problem?
...listed? What country are you in?
What did he prescribe you? Lay it out for me.
>Then a year later when I haven't improved, he simply comes to the conclusion that I must not be depressed if the pills aren't working right?
My psychiatrist thinks I'm not depressive because I admitted to working out and taking walks.
Don't you ever sound different than his textbook.
Thanks for the reply, I'm only 18. I guess I should have written sympathise, I always get the two mixed up. I can tell how a person is feeling, it's just the caring that's hard. I've lost close family members, and I've had to force emotional responses at funerals because I was the only one not crying.
Is it a debilitating disease or am I weak as fuck? For years my family kept telling me it was in my head and i needed to just get over it. No medication my doctors have given me helped. I feel helpless anon
Things are warming up wait let me grab some popcorn. Oky doky feel free to argue now!
My mother is very abusive to me everyday (emotionally, physically and mentally). Everyone says it's my fault because I'm a bad son no one understands me and I don't know what to do anymore. I act out because I want my mother's approval but I know I'll never receive it.
I gave out my full name and address five years ago, doxxing myself when I became Alice.
I'm not afraid.
You may simply not express your emotions or sympathies in the same way. As long as you can empathize, you are probably okay.
Unfortunately, that's a big problem with general doctors.
It's real. You've been to a doctor, right? Gotten a proper diagnosis?
I'm leaving for work in 10 minutes, so don't get too settled in.
I'm sorry, I'm not too confident on the Norway laws. There's not too much I can do for you.
Just recently i broke up with my 1 year relationship with my gf, it was kinda like an abusive relationship becuse of her jelousy and etc.
And now, sometimes feel bad, even knowing that our relationship was a ship-wreckt
What`s happening to me?
Sorry for bad englando
We just found the white knight of this thread.
If you knew someone was just fucking hopeless and would never get better would you tell them? Or would you just keep charging them for sessions that you knew for a fact wouldn't accomplish anything?
>What did he prescribe you?
Shit you name it, i've been on it at one time.
started with celexa, then added abilify. and over time ive had lithium, zoloft, serequeal. I can't remember all the changes we've done.
>Says who? You?
Yeah me, you could be getting paid for this. Don't do anything without getting something in return.
> implying /b/ is still dangerous
This place is a neutered shell of it's former self. What's a summerfag /b/-kiddie going to do? Send her some gore that he saved from the last gore thread?
If you realize the problem, you also realize the solution: if someone isn't going to give you what you need or want, either you will suffer or you will change.
I'm sorry Anonymous. I'm so so sorry you have to go through that, that all you wanted was something and it's impossible to get. I wish I could be your mother, if only for a moment, and tell you how much you mean to me, how much you are worth, how proud of you I am.
But I can't do that. No one can. So as sad and terrible as it is, you need to seek something else to fill that void. Therapy, hobbies, something.
Or she'll tear you apart even when she's in the ground, for the rest of your life.
I'm sorry Anonymous; I know that isn't comforting. But it's the truth. Don't let her break you.
My feelings that suicide is the only option for me are getting more and more intense as soon as the sun has set.
At 0300 I am usually ready to jump/slice/swallow but I never go through with it.
why is it getting worse when it is night?
So yeah I don't know what I'm doing with my life.
Currently I do 2 things sleep and work
I work in a nightclub getting minimum wage at part time hours
I scrape rent by the skin of my nuts most months
Be last night, miss work, lost track mod days, need to pay rent Thursday but don't have enough, probably fired, might even be homeless.
I have no motivation in life, but I want out of this shifty life. I'm throwing applications at IT support roles but hearing nothing back,...
My life sucks and its all my fault
That has worked for me for a long time.
But now i have a girl friend who is constantly crying because i cant open up to her, i want to tell her im open but nuthings there but i feel like icant.
Awww that is a shame, well i knew this had to end sooner or later, see you tomorrow then, really hoping to find another amazing fight.
I've done faster.
That's normal; don't give into it. It takes up to 2-4 years to get over a relationship.
You can outlast it Anonymous; you deserve better. I believe in you.
I don't believe people are like that; I don't buy into the idea someone can be beyond redemption.
Also, that's not my career Anonymous; I'm not a psychiatrist.
So mostly SSRI's huh. What about welbutrin and trazadone?
No I couldn't; I'm getting ready for work. Who is gonna pay me to be on /b/?
Also, I do things without getting things in return all the time; your philosophy doesn't match me.
Because you are alone with nothing but your thoughts. What was your diagnosis? You went to a doctor right?
Sociopathy and psychopathy aren't real; those are criminal designations. The dark triad is the same.
For information on ASPD and BPD, please consult your copy of the DSM-5.
Alright guys, got to go to work
See you again at 8PM EST
How do you feel about the spectrum disorders in the DSM-V?
Are you ready for the shift to ICD-10?
Where did you attend college?
What is the maximum allowed dosage of risperidone for a new patient?
Please explain the predominant symptoms of peurperal psychosis and the appropriate diagnosis code.
>This should be easy for you
As well name 6 medications used to treat anxiety with no repeat chemical similarities beyond a margin of 1/2.
>BA Developmental Psychology
>Nothing better to do than counsel 4chan in my free time and call out people's shit
What should I have for dinner tonight?
In all seriousness, how does one feel self-worth? I'm constantly putting myself down and the only times I can feel anything close to confidence is working out at the gym, or at least I feel decent for a time before I'm saying to myself that I'm going to die alone or that I should kill myself.
Sorry friend, but I've got to go; if you've got no work and nothing to do, how about sticking around and helping these good people while I go to work?
I'm gonna call you "The mighty carpet that's loud at eating".
>What was your diagnosis? You went to a doctor right?
I did not and I have no diagnosis.
But when I was 16 my psychiatrist said that I had a depressive phase. I stopped seeing her 4 years ago.
My parents want me to do therapy again, but I have never even considered going to a medical doctor.
But yeah, the thing about being alone can hardly be right, since I am alone about 90% of every day, making the nights not much lonlier.
thanks for doing this btw
Shhh don't be so loud the others may discover what's really going on here!
I don't think I've ever met someone as dumb as you.
You're late the """"""""""Doctor"""""""""" is already gone.
Cause you failed to realize that she left minutes ago.
Not OP but BCABA PhD here, you've been socially conditioned that your actions and input is worthless. This could be from childhood bullying, or perhaps you're quiet or timid so when you do or say something it's not noticed; a lack of social reinforcement has often been clinically shown to elicit similar results to punishment.
Break out of your shell, talk to new people. You might be surprised
ye no one really notices me lol and if i am im what i have to say is ignored. but i have been making new friends recently its been a personal goal of mine and have been feeling better. thanks for the advice
The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
maybe he/she just wants practice, which you can get pretty much best at such a board
or maybe this is a field study he/she is trying to sell / use as his/her final work
Any advice op?.
I feel sad, hopeless sometimes..
My gf, doesn't seem to have any type of trust on me, before she was my gf a few idiots broke he hearth, we, right nos have 4.5 years un oír relationship and she doesn't change her perception about me.
I would agree that while most psychologists chose the profession to help themselves, like I did, and this is based on my opinion lest studies otherwise prove, we are bound by identity expectations from the moment we first breathe, no one escapes identity, if you cannot create one, your brain will which usually splits your personality.
When we learn that no one can help best than us ourselves, we take action based on experience, we conjure facade to fill the niche that we call life.
Why do we go to /b/? This place is a reflection on what we become, what we were before, and what we will be. The more we browse, the more repetitive it becomes, sometimes, a big thing comes up, we enter and we participate, we laugh and we cry, thus creates a sense of home to everyone, regardless of what their opinion about home.
All in all, regardless of what you think, feel or do, never feel helpless, because it is true that you are never alone yet you are, you are dead yet you're alive.
I've been a consultant my whole life, and I've told my patient who lost their home about /b/, a place full of mirrors and faces. This place produced a sense of home for my patient, it got rid of their insecurities and made them feel a bit normal. Most of them have not seen the world for what it is, I believe /b/ is as real as the world can be.
So, I just want to say thank you. That is all.
MSc in Clinical Gerontology
General Adult Psychiatry and Old Age Psychiatry
Consultant Old Age Psychiatrist for the Dementia and Cognitive Impairment
I don't think so, no without any advice.
And this is what makes me really fucking sad, I have plenty experience on shit related to love I was able to save a few relationships but mine seems like a car without breaks.
Holy fuck same thing is happening to me. I thought you were a guy at first. Yeah i have identity and trust issues, plus I feel like suicide is not an option but I think about it often. It is like being in purgatory.
You do realize that there's no point in posting shot now since no one will answer you right? Just wait for another of ""her"" threads to pop up.
sometimes i feel like im batshit crazy..not sur eif its a mixture of boredom, anxiety, depression, pervertedness and an overthinking mind. I feel who i am around my mates and my family and myself are all different yet im all three..i dont think i have split personalitys but i sem to be a different person in all ways yet they are all me? im not sure if im going nuts but i constantly think about it and im seem to be in my own head a lot yet im quite talkative and out there. Im aslo in some weird way extremly extroverted an dintroverted at the same time. could you give a a sort of short crazy or not quiz or quesitons to answer?
if it adds to it i do party drugs pretty much every weekend for a good yea rand a half now ive fucked with psychedelics prescriptions ampethamines you name it ive done it other then heroin and meth. although ive probbaly done both cut in stuff. I also smoke bud almost daily even though i dont enjoy the high as i seem to enter psychosis like highs evrey time. im now 19 days clean( not from weed but) as ive noticed my mental health is going down hill
i have been talking to this girl on and off for about 4 months now. we studie at completely diffrent places (24 hour by car), but we are from the same town. When both of us is at home, we talk alot and we have had dates. but when she is at det place where she studies, it is hard to talk to her. She says she have this bubbel, i dont know if i belive her.
But, at the same time, why would she let me follow her home, take a detour, talk to me for about one houre after we arrived and brake an appointment she had.
is she being nice to me, or is she interested in me?
Is it weird that I like to poop in public places with people watching me. I've been arrested several times but it's been totally worth it. Nothing like dropping a tight coiler while an audience of people watch in horror and disgust.
>they are fair and petite
"schools of thought" you sound like a mega virgin
They have to share everyone's existential crisis, not just their own. It confirms those problems rather than alieviates them
Because you are a crappy asian.
Do the people saying you're weird bother you? You have to change them or your situation if so. "Above the influence/ignore it" is non realistic info.
>some half decent advice and soft trolling.
Mediocre asian at best.
why do I like fighting, beating up people and punch my wall? pic related.
I sometimes randomly get a surge of emotions out of nowhere. It's sometimes sadness, anger or fear.
My head gets real heavy and i find it extremely difficult to breathe and when i'm angry and someone tells me to chill i almost feel a murderous anger.
What's wrong with me?
I hate coming to these threads...
I have anxiety, depression and ocd (all diagnosed by psychiatrist).
Sometimes I have memories but I'm not sure if they're real or I dreamed them or made them up.
I hardly ever remember my dreams, maybe 10 per year.
Still, you're here every time, like a moth drawn to a flame.
oh kokodil the drug? nah and yeh i am brain dead thats why i be quitting to fried need to start long journey back to being not a disabled junkie im not takiing offenc ebroi am
Demn apologizing someone is the very hard thing.
I can't connect with people anymore, I only feel dread, like it's just rising up inside me but I can't express it, I can't cry how hard I try, on friday I got really drunk, like lmoa drunk, and I had like 14 "friends" and I just cried for a hour straight, I was feeling so terrible, and fuck, it wasn't for the first time, I am just getting worse and worse, started loosing weight, idk how and I just feel bad, so my question is, how do I make my self happy, like forcefully happy?
Don't you mean Ikaros?
Because I want to tell someone something important
< 20 > Today I will be leaking these 3 videos which I think /b/ will enjoy/ https://www.dropbox.com/s/jr0nqjh4pz5ezs2/4CHANWIN.zip?dl=1 Few minutes and it will be removed :)
Hold your explanations, you told me what the story's all about yestersay. Can't you remember?
Yes you are the guy that was in love for the dog slaying girl. Welcome aboard once again.
I didn't tell anyone the story yesterday
How come everyone I talk to and try to make friends with thinks I'm just a desperate piece of shit?
How can I talk to people without coming off as a desperate piece of shit?
Why does every person I talk to end up hating me one way or another?
He's feeling better
we just got unlucky
make the best of it anyway
no, im in love with blood chan
kazura is cute tho
good very good
You must be an asshole or something
How are you?
I feel the same way honestly, all trought i have just stopped giving a fuck, you should just move on because you are the person you are and you should't give a flying shit what others think about you, be yourself man.
-gives you a charismatic mask- wear this where ever you go and people will like you
well im not op, but my advice is do things to help other people. doing that gets your mind off the pain and makes you feel good in the process. volunteer, work, help random strangers. it'll help volumes.
Yes but that's not telling the story, it's no one's business
Believe me anon I have, although I think I've lost all respect for any form of boundary or limitation
I've literally lost all forms of respect for authority and feel I need to be constantly rebellious now
How do I learn to know when draw the line?
im fair. been having a lot of fun posting on /mu/ instead of those stupid circlejerks all the time. much better place for me. how about you?
Emulate the traits you envy in others. Try to be less self serving and more empathetic. Ask your gf if she thinks you're worth it. Based on how childish her response is, keep going or drop it for your non codependent health.
Genuine anons ask away. Promise not to give those lukewarm "here for you" responses.
What the fuck, this thread is utter garbage, I came out with my actual problem, and you weeaboo fags started roleplaying as this anime trash? What the fuck how the fuck is /b/ even relavant
I already wear a mask anon, I call it my IRL Persona, it's who I am day to day to everyone around me, maybe I should just hide who I am entirely and wear it everywhere. I just feel like the internet is the only place where I get to be honest with myself but then I become an asshole in the process
At least i was right about something.
Why do i have a hard time with not understaning if something really does suck, or if its just my perception that it sucks? It ties in with not asking for help or allowing myself to complain, and makes my life hell.
Virgos come off as faggots... I know..
That's wonderful. /mu/ is actually a better fit for you. And you should stay away from those toxic CJ threads. I'm blah... I don't know how I feel
-politely sits on your lap and wiggles-
Maybe you're just really blunt about things :/
Are you tried being more polite?
What were you right about?
^This is me
I keep having rushing thoughts about how I may have different mental health issues like ADHD and Bi-Polar and have even done self analysis/comparisons to myself and the symptoms in the past
Can't see a psych atm either
This is gonna sound gay but...don't be desperate. Concentrate on building pride in yourself and daily life and good friends will come to you in time. Friends you have to seek are always fairweather friends.
that's okay. you have a lot of big changes coming up—how do you feel about that?
good, and no, you're not crazy.
why can't i get these panties on!
About the fact that we had a conversation.
I feel like I am way too polite sometimes, I concern myself about others and always wish to ask about my own things, I think I have just so much shit on my mind 24/7 that I need to push on others which I guess means that I'm blunt as well, every day this week so far I've tried to talk to someone but I always say something that pisses them off and they just leave without any explanation :/
Not to mention that I have co-dependancy issues from what I can see
Hey i come to your thread every time its up. You helped me a bit ago when my fiancee left me after 2 years and i had not eaten in a week. dont know if you would remember but i just wanted to thank you. im doing better now. Have a good day at work!
I still feel down about not getting accepted in the military. So now I'm thinking about becoming a tattoo artist but i don't know
Who are you? And nice get
Thanks anon, I have self-esteem issues among much other shit really which definitely doesn't help but all the friends I do appreciate or had just got pissed after a while
Even longstanding ones
Everyone needs their own things and time. No one matches society's image, so I guess we all wear a mask sometimes anon. A hobby is a really good way to get out of this thinking loop. A loop as in, you can't solve it by thinking more about it.
Pretty much self explanatory. Nah, kidding just a person that loves this kind of threads.
im not op but good for you anon. just as long as youre doing your best thats all anyonr can ask.
well, youre swimming in time and have lots of options, so hopefully you dont feel worried. i know youll do great whatever you choose. dont rush into anything
You write too much >_<
Oh I see you care about people too much and you end up suffering in the end. You should try meditation and maybe hypnosis to help yourself relax. You're too frustrated and you're doing too much at once and you take it out on people by mistake
What is your name? Your internet name I mean
I really find it hard for myself to get into things nowadays, and when I do I REALLY get into it and get burned out or get myself ejected out of it by others by being just too enthusiastic
I guess I'm just a desperate person in general with co-dependancy issues :/
I live a floor above my parents and every time they ring it, I get insanely mad and annoyed, seeing as I have to stop whatever it is I'm doing to go see what they want.
I also cut the skin off my feet and eat it what the fuck is wrong with me fam
I have to rush, once I'm 18 my mom is kicking me the fuck out
Do you hear them having sex every night?
Ohhhhhhhh i get it. Call me Colorful Cat.
As you felt yourself slipping you may have leaned on them more and more instead of facing that your lifestyle needed changing. Unfortunately, leaving was the best way your friends could get you to realize this. It is tough love, but any friends not scorned can still be reconciled once you're healthy. Why do you think you have a poor self image?
shell be back
do you have enough saved to get a cheap place or working on it?
That I do, apologies but as I mentioned I can get really trigger happy when it comes down to it >.<
Thanks for your suggestions, I'll try them out later and yeah, that pretty much explains it I guess
Explain? I'm an Ausfag but I aint no nigger
Hmm... do you come to these threads a lot?
Lol all my money goes on food and I can't find a job here v.v
A mind trick to transfer self diagnosed guilt to another individual by seeing the exact flaws in another that you subconsciously percieve about yourself.
It works in the dame way that you see someone less fortunate than you and feel better about your lot in life.
hmm. wEll i havent had to worry about that in my own life, but certainly many have. im sure youre doing your research on options once that happens though
Yes, those threads are like a school bus, i's easy to meet interesting people, having conversations, this kind of stuff.
Don't let parasites attach to your conscience mind during your meditation... they're very hard to take off
Yeah, I used to be really good at keeping everything inside but as soon as I found how much better it felt to let it all out I must've kept doing it more and more, you saying I should try keeping it in more? And I think I've done too much damage with many of them
I have a poor self image because i legitimately am just a useless leech that sucks the life out of others and can't do anything for myself, as well as I just generally am not someone desirable in any way
I've had the talking too much issue since I was really young >.<
You mention co dependancy a lot. I'm going to level with you - this makes me doubt you have a problem with it. But what you are describing DOES sound vaguely bipolar. Apologies...gotta give you the standard "you should probably talk to someone". Trying to self meter your energy is quite difficult.
When my mom kicks me out I'm going to live with Alice since she lives like 10mins away from me lol
Oh are you an extrovert? I'm jealous >_<
haha interesting. if that shakes down let me know how it goes.
I do hope that's sarcasm anon o.o
>You mention it therefore it mustn't be a problem
I don't think that should be how it works, you think I WANT to bring harm to others like that or just exist to take from others?
Believe me, I do really want to talk to my psych about all this but I just can't since we're away somewhere else for at least the next week :/
I won't be there for too long, just until I can find work... shouldn't be too hard.... v.v
I'm not totally an extrovert, let's just say that i'm kind in the middle .
It's not, I had two attached on my upper back for a year, it was very painful
Do you have an account on Alice's chat?
I'm trying to adapt a more confident and happy mindstate, but sometimes for what feels like no reason I just hit complete rock bottom. Anxiety and sadness out of literally nowhere and I don't know what to do. I have trouble making and keeping friends, probably because when I get too close I start freaking out and I block people out of my life completely. I hate being alone but I hate having my heart fucked with more, so I'm stuck in a state of 'fuck everyone I don't care, but I'm so lonely and could do with a friend, partner or whatever the fuck'. I don't know, maybe I just suck at this
please don't leave me...
Considering the fact that i don't even know what that is probably i do not own one of these. Anyway what's that?
how do i stop the cycle of drinking too much, then eating shitty food, then staying up late drinking whilst my gf goes to sleep in our bed without me, then feeling fine for a day because im hungover and and didnt drink and then get drunk the next night and repeat
i'm 27 years old, broke up with GF 6 months ago and start dating with GF 5 months ago, new GF it's 9/10, smart and great at sex but she has a 6 years old kid, i don't know if i'm not happy with her because of her child or because i still think a lot (like 90% of the time) in my EXBF, i only want to be happy and i don't know what to do. BTW my ex have this new BF and she says she loves him so much but keep leaving messages for me in twitter
Happy medium anon. Having secrets is...in a fucked up way, part of being content/happy. Never show your entire hand. You'd like to think you "know" things right? Well, most times when you fully disclose with people, all they hear is you calling them stupid or inadequate. Most people do not prepare facts/conversation for the next person that they meet. People want to be part of your life/conversation...not a side note or tool to be used.
You have to realize most "stable" people do not cycle between happy and sad. They anchor a few steps above sad and drop anyone who tries to bring them down.
You are able to realize it and that means you're growing, changing. You can change, just not tomorrow.
Your current design may be undesirable, but not the person underneath. If you're really interested in self improvement (but afraid of rejection) start journaling your days and maybe critique yourself/change a little bit at a time. Then you can literally monitor your progress and have confidence in it. Plus you won't feel the need to talj so much about the stuff you already wrote down as you won't be looking for others to validate it.
Why I don't feel anything for anyone anymore? I was pretty normal before I starded browsing 4chan, 8 chan, deep web and wierd porn. And how can I fix it? But I can't stop browsing all these things.
Lol I was 15 once too.
No my body and conscience mind or (soul) are always attached with a string. Parasites see it and like to feed off the energy from the string. The string can stretch through trillions of light years across the void of space so you'll come across a few parasites in your lifetime
Can you abuse me?
You'll have to get away from those dark places and detox from it
You must seek real help
>don't level with people confirmed
You THINK that arguing is going to get your questions further answered when asking for help is a form of submission?
I THINK your self diagnosis isn't useful because it obviously hasn't helped you combat anything new.
Hm? You didn't write anything in your reply anon
try talking to your parents, once you talk to your parents on the same page life becomes more clear.
I talk on the phone with my dad 2 or 3 times a week, allways puts things in perspective.
No I hate movies
how do i stop the cycle of drinking too much, then eating shitty food, then staying up late drinking whilst my gf goes to sleep in our bed without me, then feeling fine for a day because im hungover and and didnt drink and then get drunk the next night and repeat
Thanks anon, although I do prefer being honest with people if I can, it's just that no one wants to be around me and in some cases use me instead
I guess in a way I have been monitoring myself, just more mentally then physically doing something about it
This is pretty much me as well anon
Why is it that I become so attached way too easily? Like talking to a girl for 3 days who understands me makes me fall head over heels for them. I hate it and I want to know why I do this.
I didn't because sometimes a picture is worthy hundreds of words.
When her kid turns 18 you can fuck her too, don't be dumb
Ask Alice to make an account for you since you're hear all the time
Hypnosis can help with addiction
This is true, I really am an argumentative prick when it comes down to it honestly although that may come from me just wanting to know everything and thinking that arguing is the best way to go about it idk
I have problems spacing out. A lot of people ask me if I'm okay because at work I will get real quite and not talk. I can't stop thinking. I never have a moment of not trying to plan or figure stuff out. I have these super in depth scenarios all the time in my head of different stuff and it can cause me to have adrenaline rushes and stuff. I have violent fantasies of kicking the shit out of people sometimes killing. But have never had serious intentions to do so. Because I know it is wrong. I do not want or like these thoughts but they happen. And when I was a kid I thought I was god trapped in a mortal body waiting this life out to see how it is from this perspective. Anytime I drive a car I have schematics in my head of all the moving parts. Or so I think. Because clearly I do not have that information. Am I crazy? Oh also I have hella bad anxiety.
I had this dream about me fucking a hot chick. But after some point, she began shitting and I was eating all her shit with a passion. And even helped her to get the last turd out with my teeth, which pleased her very much.
What does this dream mean?.
im not OP and im not making a joke here but are you a virgin?
its allgood if you are, but that mindset of falling in love with someone that agrees with you will disappear once you learn how to talk to women without thinking about sex
I'll check it out in two weeks lol -puts it on my to do list-
Oh I can't see imgs on my phone
That's really fucked up. When you get out of there seek help on your own. You don't want it to get worse and please don't kill yourself, I will never forgive if you do
Sure i'll add that to my to do list!
Too many fucking people
No wonder Alice always lashes out at me
That was a succubus
It's likely because you have control issues, not because you're trying to know things. A rationalization.
Who micromanaged your life? What important figure broke your trust?
These are good questions.
I feel so tiny and worthless, my life serves no purpose and nothing would change if I weren't here.
I feel like I have to make something great or I've lived in vein. How can I get over this
Be careful around her Alicefags.... they're overprotective
Nope, I've fucked 8 girls or so. I had a one night stand the other night with a girl who I thought was immaculate. Her and I were talking for like 4days and I couldn't stop thinking about her, but then she just kinda distanced herself even though she said the sex was incredible.