My girlfriend of two years broke up with me 1 month ago, and i was devestated... Now she's already dating a new guy, she told me she had feelings for... What the hell do i do? I think it's disrespectful to just go with other guys so shortly after
That's life son, get on with yours.
>>676014736
Welcome to women. She had a replacement lined up even before she moved on from you.
>>676014854
Should i give up on her?
>>676014736
get over it. She doesn't deserve you
>>676015031
Thank you.. I'm trying, but it feels worse and worse each day that passes... I don't know how to work it through this
>>676014736
I hate to throw in a tumblr picture, but this is seriously the most accurate thing in the world.
just move on m8.
>>676014736
i made a similar thread the other day
>other guy being my best friend
and according to 4chiners, u just have to suck it up, man up & deal with it
Getting out of a long term is never easy. It will take time and yes it is disrespectful what she did but it's all the more reason not to be with somebody like that. Give it time, get closure in whatever way you need and enjoy being single for the first time 2 years.
It's not disrespectful. When a relationship is over a relationship is over. No one is obligated to wait for you to grieve to get on with their lives
>>676014736
He's probably a rebound. Not gonna last long.
>>676014736
lily pad effect
women don't just leap in the pond without having somewhere else to jump to unless something bad happens to push them off their original lily pad.
>>676014736
Get a new gf and stop being such a bleeding vagina. You're welcome.
>>676015198
Well, even though it's opposite in my case since i'm the man, i hope you're right
>>676015167
When you miss a shot in basketball, the game doesn't stop for you. You gotta catch the rebound, son.
>>676015198
This is actually pretty damn accurate. I read a study a while ago that somehow quantified how men and women reacted to break ups over time. Men almost always took longer to get over it than women.
Why do you care? Grow a fuckin pair and ignore this bitch. No wonder she dumped your ass.
>>676015499
If you only knew what it felt like asshole
>>676014736
Get a new bitch, stop being a fag
>>676015019
Yes. I was once in the same position but met a beautiful young distraction who helped me realize there's no use to wallow in post-breakup depression, just embrace the new freedom
>>676015276
Ofcourse i know i can't stop her from moving on, but it's disrespectful because she promised me to not see other guys for a while, because she still cared for me
>>676015635
Poor little hurt faggot. If you acted like this big of a bitch when she was with you it's no wonder she got sick of it and left.
>>676015499
lol you're adorable
>>676015635
If you want a fuckin pity party, this ain't the place to be. At least she had the decency to break up with you first. I've been cheated on, so yes, I know how it feels. That's when I figured out being a little bitch about things is the absolute worst way to handle such a situation.
Christ. Fucking dumbass kids these days.
>>676015962
I know i'm being a total bitch about it atm, but seriously, you know it's bad when i fucking ask 4chan for help, jeezez
>>676014736
Thats what women do, they ride your ass till the find someone higher in the "social structure" then they drop your ass.
>>676015815
No joke you sound like a little kid.
>waaah! But she pwomised!
>Muh feelings!
>I wasn't able to move on yet so it's unfair!
>waaaah!
Seriously where's your balls man
>>676014736
hahahah
She totally scouted another guy out and then dumped you to get with him, just so she didn't look like a slut.
kek, classic slut move.
>>676016197
Yep, fuck her, still hurts as hell though
>>676015003
Just like a monkey. They hang on until they know they've got another sturdy branch to grasp onto.
Move on annon.
>>676016103
Yeah, and this is the best advice for you. You gotta make yourself get over it and not act so goddamn needy around women. They don't like that shit.
Your best idea is to ignore her, delete her, forget the bitch lived.
You will get over it but in the mean time stick it to that bitch by just erasing her from your life
Do somr REALLY stupid shit, fuck some other girls, get drunk, do your thing man. What will all this retarded, reckless behavior do or solve? Make you realize she doesnt give a shit and life moves on yo! Have fun and do some really stupid shit...it always makes the best stories :)
>>676016788
I know i should to that :) Thank you, i'm better than this, just had a weak panic moment, because my friend just sent me a snap of her making out with someone else
>>676016907
Hah! Me and a friend is gonna have a weed-party next week, so we're gonna have fun ;)
>>676017010
>>676017136
God you're a faggot
>>676017261
I'm twelve, and what is this
>>676017136
A weed party? You sounded quite 12 but if you mean a party only involving the cannabis then alright...dont forget ghetto pizza mang
>>676017413
yup
>>676017136
>>676017413
This faggot is clearly still in highschool. Underage b& detected.
>>676015775
Agreed.
Dont worry /b/ro you'll find another nice girl
OP
block her on all social media.
Stop talking to her if you haven't
Start doing shit for yourself.
Workout, get a new haircut, new cloths, etc. make yourself look awesome.
Go on dates. Nothing serious.
Bang some chicks if you're ready.
Just stop being a faggot and watching her every move. Watch yourself, moron.
>>676018064
Trying :) Haven't watched my phone for a week
>>676014736
Try 7 years then she's already fucking someone after a month.
>>676019277
That happened to you?
>>676019467
Yes Sir. A little advice my man.....if you're gonna get involved with women expect a whole lot of crazy ass shit.
>>676019779
Wow... What a fucking bitch! I know i can't help heal your wounds lol, but keep going, know the feeling
>>676014736
Forget that bitch. If she broke up with you, it's perfectly okay for you to go with other guys "so shortly after". She can't complain if she's the one who broke it off.
>>676017010
>my friend just sent me a snap of her making out with somebody else
Sounds like you need to find yourself another friend while you're at it
>>676019981
Part of life my man. You win some you lose some. I just hope you make it out okay. I know it hurts like a motherfucker but I bet you'll find "the one" on down the line.
>thanks bro appreciate it.
>>676020517
Some friend.
>>676014736
Move on /b/ro expect a woman to be worthless filthy slut ALWAYS cuz they all are they don't leave unless there's another dude ready cuz they ARE worthless filth never forget that
>>676014736
1. She probably cheated with him on you or just had feelings and wanted him instead.
2. You need to move on. Get rid of all vids/pics and return anything of hers back. Take her off of all social media and never check them.
Girls move on faster because they are heartless, best you do the same or she wins.
>>676014736
Build a bridge and get the fuck over it. Everyone goes through a breakup, you're no different.
>>676021175
no, they move faster because they can...
even not-so-pretty girls have men constantly call them, waiting to hook up with them.
They dont have to do anything to find someone to help them forget about u.
They just have to answer the phone.
its different with us males, we still have to do most of the work
see >>676015198
The best thing you can do is go out with friends, get fucked and live life.
You'll torture yourself to insanity if you even bother with her at this point.
>>676014736
>Women
>Respecting anything or anyone
You got what you deserved, innocent boy.
>>676021981
Kek fact
>>676015019
>Should i give up on her?
Absolutely. The quicker you do it the sooner you´ll start feeling better.
Get a rebound and be honest about your situation to her. Do not get in a relationship just for the sake of it. You moving on may stir up some feelings in your ex, but be reasonable about it if she tries to get back in your life. Now it´s the perfect time to do things in your own terms.
Some breakups hurt more than others, but I´m absolutely sure you can find happiness in this life in several relationships. It´s a cliche, but there truly are plenty of fish in the sea. It´s never too late.
at least she broke up with you first. you'll move on man, time heals all. won't be the first, won't be the last.
>>676014736
Most women jump from dick to dick man. Dont waste time on her and move on. Sorry bro
>>676014736
>fuck someone else like she is
just did and it works wonders for getting over dumb hoes, would recommend 10/10
>>676022339
bro, you know girls don't break up first cmon
>>676015003
It's sad but it's true at least your gf wait a month before going with someone else I wasn't so lucky
There's a cure for an obsession over a girl like this. Go out and fuck a bunch of other broads and you'll realize she wasn't all that.
>>676014736
>I think it's disrespectful to just go with other guys so shortly after
>being this beta
I love how a majority of you who even manage to date have the mind to even think this way. She broke up with you, she had the decency to date some new fucker after a MONTH.
I've been a cruel motherfucker who would be the middle of breaking up with one chick while hooking up with another in the same timespan.
Get over it OP you stupid cuck.
>>676023338
Some of us aren't douchebags.
>>676014736
>i think its disrespectful bla bla bla...
It doesn't matter what you think, she can do what she wants. She always could, so fuck you.
Who are you to tell her when she can fucking date other dudes?
>>676023565
Oh but implying ALL women are heartless, cruel wenches? I mean a good majority are, no doubts about that. I should know about that easily.
But that's not for all women. Much like how not all men are dumbfucks, or how all men aren't complete elitist assholes. I seriously cannot believe that there are people out there, mainly men, who believe that women are the spawns of satan and that they shouldn't be respected/treated like any other human beings. People are cruel, people are heartless. It's not one gender specifically.
It's just how the world fucking works. Pick up your boots and deal with it.
>>676023990
This.
>>676024041
>douchebag detected
>>676014736
What is good for the Goose is good fopr the Gander.
Go out and get yourself some new cock to suck on.
Try NOT GIVING A FUCK
>>676024245
>another cuck detected, really.
>>676024420
>douchebag
>>676014736
Enlist to military and become a man. Enlist to Marines and learn some discipline you faggot. Stop being a little maggot.
That's what's wrong with today's youth. A bunch of fucking douches.
>>676024845
dude... that bitch looks evil... like.. really.. evil..
>>676014736
Obviously, you must kill him.
>>676015003
/thread
same op,
>two years
>she's already dating someone new
But the thing I did different to you is I actually accepted it was over and moved on. I stop being sad and started doing whatever I could to better myself.
I achieved more than I ever did in this month than I ever did in those 2 years. Now, I've met someone new.
This could be you, try it for yourself.
>forget about the bitch
>go out and do things that make you a better person
Plus, if the bitch ever comes back don't talk to her. You're worth so much more than a second option.
Pic related. It's the girl I'm seeing now.
>>676024845
is that Satan?
Just stop being a a whiny bitch OP and go out and get yourself some new pussy
>>676014736
when I was 21, my girlfriend of 3.5 years--who I was living with--broke up with me (on Valentine's day) and started dating someone new in a WEEK.
Well, i realize now i can't say it's disrespectful and all that shit, i was just over my mind and feeling pity for myself... My question now is just: What the hell do i do to get over this bitch? I don't even want her back the way she is now, but it's still hard to let go... Help guys, tell me what to do
>>676014736
Quit being a bitch is my advice. Women move on faster. Get to fucking or keep being some beta fag who won't move on.
>>676015019
yeah ffs
You just fucking learn that life is not fair, don't make the same mistakes, go on with your life and learn something from this experience. It may seem hard now, but you'll stop caring about it someday
>>676015276
thought i was the only not a fagot
>>676025733
I've tried not to care everyday since it happened now, it still doesn't feel any better, even though i scream when i think about her to make the thoughts go away
>>676015635
i feel you bro
>>676025995
>I scream when I think about her
Whoah
>>676026057
Yeah, it ain't easy bein a G', but sometimes you simply need a mental boost, that's what i'm trying to get now ;)
>>676025899
dubs of truth right there
>>676025614
Go out and fuck a bunch of other girls is probably the most effective way to get over someone.
>>676014736
>>676026277
Dubs don't lie just do it
>>676026277
It's now easy to find girls in my small ass town :( Everyone knows everyone, if i lived in the city everything would be easier
Well my flirted like months with another one. Then broke up as she got awas from her family ( i took care of her because otherwise she would be homeless) and guess what : After she got her own appartment she dumped me. I had to pay 1000€ afterwards for rent where I never saw a penny from her. I she got still techstuff from me. This girl even stole 4gbs of my fucking Ram! Ram!!!
So what do we learn ? Dont be the guy who suffers from shit like that. She dates another? Well time to move on for you! It may sounds cruel but hey thats how the world is. Use yout chance to be happy and dont let someone ruin your life.
>>676026344
Hahhahaha wow that's a funny meme spiderman from the 50's hehe XD
>>676014736
>What the hell do i do?
1)Stop being a faggot
2)Post more cats
>>676026566
this
>>676026512
Wise words, thanks, sorry for that bitch btw
>>676014736
My ex got engaged to another guy 2 weeks after we broke up and got pregnant a few months after that. Fucking get over it, you'll be broken many more times.
>>676026566
Almost quads bro
>>676026566
Now who wants to see sad cats? :(
>>676015815
kek deal with it son. she was seeing him before the big dump. the fact he wasn't their for the break up is as much respect as you get in life. shits rough. give it a week the get a hooker
>>676026748
Or i could just fuck her best friend, i don't think thats too hard ;)
>>676015499
At least OP had a gf and is older than 13.
>>676014736
Why the fuck have you not moved on, think of her as she is, she is no longer with you and with another guy, you don't even want to be with her now anyway! But if you do want her, even now, you're a fucking cuck, cuck.
>>676014736
take it from a guy married for 20 + years. don't let go. be their we she turns around. follow her, watch her, always know what she's doing. leave her small reminders that you still love her to death.
>>676026657
Thank you! I appreciate it. I mean things can be tough but ones you realized that your personal happiness is not bounded to her mercy you'll have the chance to move on. Really time is to short to drown in self-pity
>>676025614
Fuck off I'm lying hear on the verge of a heart attack going through drug withdrawal. And I keep fading in and out of conciousnes to scared to even smoke a cigarette in case it takes me over the edge. Ive been having palpatations for days and just got back from the hospital after they decided that since my heart had gone down from 120 to 90 I was safe to go home. This is lying completely still, I'm a twitchy fucking mess oh and BTW my brothers throwing a party right now so I'm surrounded by drugs as well but still I'm waiting it out because at least there's a chance that I might live and be fucking happy with my life for a brief moment so honestly just get over it I don't fucking care at least you had a woman that loved you I just fuck whores that are trying to get something from me and I don't even enjoy it.
>>676014736 >>676022339
What he said. I had to find out that my ex had been fucking the guy she got with after breaking up with me because of "school and work".
Just live for yourself for a while and you'll feel much better for it.
>>676015019
yes ofc you idiot
>>676026738
33 y/o fag here: OP, people come and go. The day you realize that, you will be free. After cheating, being cheated on, falling in love, marrying, divorcing, being friendzoned, friendzoning, etc. etc. etc. You realize everything is transitory. You will survive OP, give yourself the chance to griekve, do not listen to the faggotry they tell you here, the only way to learn is to make mistakes, pain teaches you, educates you and makes you a true man. Tears are ok, feeling like shit is ok... When you have cried your last tear, then it's all the way up. At the same time, enjoy the things you have left, see your friends, visit your parents, go workout, you find the best people when you do things you like.
>>676028330
All the way up after the last tear... That's totally right, thanks! I decide from now on that i have cried my last tear, and i'm gonna show her and everyone else i can live without her!
>>676029083
Try to be sure about that first, OP. Take the time you need. You don't have anything to demonstrate to her, but to yourself. Ah little OP, I've been down that road so so many times... Just remember what I told you: people come and go, so enjoy every person to the max, and when it's over it will hurt less cause you know and accept it has to end someday.
>>676029850
The same with jobs, homes, friends, trips, loved ones, life in general.
>>676028330
For once, someone on /b/ isn't a faggot. Solid advice dude!
Thanks to all the ones that actually tries to help me :) Someday the rest of you will know the feeling (for the first time) and realize it's not a good one
>>676030353
I know the feeling it's not that bad, there are worse feelings.
Your just being a bit of a bitch you do this shit with ur girl a lot?
>>676031260
No, i never was a bitchy needy faggot with her, but atm i have to let it out before i explode... When you find someone you truly love, and they just bail on you, you will react the same way as i do
>>676031488
I have and didn't I know the pain of a broken heart. I also know that depression is not that bad.
I'm always depressed contemplate suicide daily ect I don't even fucking care no one else does half of them are even in the same boat. It's nothing just fucking get over that shit.
So i just found a song that helps a little bit.. Weird how music affects our lives kek... Watch the flames - denace
>>676032062
I have it the excact same way man, so you tell me.. What's the fucking point in living a whole life, when it's all just great things that you're gonna lose... I don't see the meaning in life
>>676014736
She's not with you anymore. So she can do what she wants. Now, deal with it and masturbate u little cunt.
>>676032394
Trying kek
>>676032318
Why die when you can live? maby God will exist and give me a gold star at the end for not offing myself.
>>676032318
Carpe diem
>>676032692
Because it feels like life is all about being king of the world, then getting smashed into pieces... What's the point in having temporary happines that ends in pain
>>676024845
>Dude on the left
Cyka
>>676032992
There is no point or there is whatever you want to belive in. I just do it because it's my biological imperative, I could probably overcome it but I would get nothing for all my work only one last horrible experience on the way out.
Not a way I could respect myself for going out. To live is not hard all I have to do is that so I will keep on living as long as I can.
Poor poor OP, same thing to me only she left me for a more beta male. In a day, on the same week that our two year anniversary was gonna happen. Not saying mine was more worse, but it was.
>>676034238
Feel you, it isn't easy either way
Hi /b/
How to get prometh with codeine? Im from Europe.
And if you want to buy, you need a recipe here.
Help.
Thanks a lot.
Find one of youe mutual friends and tell them youre marrying a stripper
Shell get jellly and text you. Then be a huge asshole. Never say youre sorry to her ever
>>676034615
I'm 18, i know i'm young an life goes on and shit, but being young doesn't make it less painful.. Either way, i don't think she'll be jealous
>>676014736
You're allowed 2 weeks of grieving for every 6 months you were together.
So basically, you have to get over her in the next month. Start talking to other girls. Get something started
>>676034849
I know man :) I'm trying to move on, i just keep wondering if she misses me, if i ever meant anything to her etc...
It hurts seeing her on snap-stories out drinking every weekend... She never did that before
>>676034833
Your going to be OK /b/ro trust me
>>676015198
It helps when hundreds of dudes are showering you with attention. I remember how hard it was for me to find someone, losing my wife would not only mean losing her but having to find another needle in a haystack...Girls can just bounce onto another guy in a few days.
>>676036957
True man, it doesn't heal the wound, but having some mental support (like this) actually helps soothe the pain... It helps when you guys tell me your stories, and how you got thtough it
Wise words is what gets me through this
