I'm 20, and I'm dating a 16 year old, is that wrong
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I'm 20, and I'm dating a 16 year old, is that wrong /b/ros? I mean she's really into to me, and I'm really into her, but I feel like it makes me a borderline pedophile even though the age of consent in the state I live is 16. I'm conflicted, and need help.
>>675625980
It may be just a Phase for her. She's young and will probably leave Sonner then someone your age.
>>675625980
Depends what she looks like? AOC is 16 here and there are plenty of 16yo girls that I would want... (I'm 24)
sauceee on OP's webm
>>675625980
I'm in the same boat, she looks quite young though (her parents still order her the kids portions at restaurants lel) and I look a little bit younger when I shave, they think I'm 19.
I don't see anything wrong with it if her parents are cool, and she is so into me like I can do whatever I want and she still loves me lol
>>675626390
Violet Monroe - sexually broken
>>675625980
and you think shes virgin lol
lets see a pic of her!
Did the same, been together a couple of years now. As my friends put it: if you hit it and quit it, it's weird, but if you stay together for a while, it's not.
Naw, it's cool Anthony. She's a good kid and turns 17 soon enough. Just don't hurt her.
>>675625980
yeah you're fine. i'm 19 dating a 24 year old and that's pretty fucking weird. just do you, dude.
>>675626164
That's what I'm afraid of. I've put too much time and effort for it to be something like that, we still do all that mushy gay shit aswell. Which to me is a good sign.
>>675626334
I think she's cute as hell. She's plays vidya, watches anime, does the arts. She's really fucking cool. Honestly probably the coolest girlfriend I've ever had.
>>675625980
Just do what I did.
> Be me
> 19
> Meet cute girl
> Tells me she's 17
> Cool, let's hang out
> We arrange a horny fuck session because I've not been laid in a while and she's a little open to guys diving in
> Meet up, fuck like rabbits
> Go for food after, meet her friend.
> Friend says "You know she's 14, right?"
> I panic inside, but pretend to not hear her.
> We leave, I go back to my place with girl I banged
> We bang again, I flip her over and do her from behind, with look of dread on my face.
> Figure out a plan, I'm leaving town in a few days and never coming back anyways, so fuck it
> I full on blow my load inside her, totally coating her insides in it
> Tell her I love her, want to be with her
> Next day, bags packed, hop on a train and travel 700 miles away to live with friend
> She messages me a week later, she's pregnant.
> Well there's nothing I can do about it from here, sorry lol
> mfw this was 4 years ago and I have a 4 year old Daughter now.
> tfw i'm a white guy too, and not even the scummy kind because I'm also a uni student that's not in debt and I use my own money for everything
Please dude leave this girl alone she is young and cannot control her lust you are not only toying with her emotions which are wild as fuck but her perceptions of dating and what men are like and you'll just taint her life right now is that what you want ? But if it is go at er man just don't do anything fucking stupid and you'd probably be able to talk her into LOOOTS with enough suave
>>675625980
If its legal ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
>>675626602
I know she isn't a virgin, but she did like me take her anal virginity. Shit was cash
>>675626719
Gotchu fam
Started dating my wife right as she turned 17. Been together over 5 years now. If she's cool with it, and her parents are cool with it, then why worry? While there are negatives: school, can't go out to clubs together, and the issues that she WILL HAVE with insecurity over her inexperience, the positives far outweigh them. Treat her as an equal, and expect her to act that way. You'll have no baggage to deal with, and more than likely, and open minded partner who is more willing to experiment in order to make you happy.
Plus, if you talk to your parents and get some advice on positive living, such as finances, housekeeping, etc., you can teach her and not have to deal with bad habits.
>>675626968
>not even the scummy kind
I've got some bad news /b/ro
>>675626623
She would totally not like the fact that I'm doing that, and I'd rather not lie to her. I've tried getting her into 4chan, but She can't like it
>>675626968
cool story bro
>>675627236
I was a scummy kid, also I put 19 when I meant to put 18.
But yeah, I'm in a nice house now, got engaged last year, i'm living off my own money, never been on benefits. Heck, I can't even leave my house without cleaning everything.
It was just a spur of the moment back then, and shit went south fast, just like myself the next morning.
>>675627375
Not for her. Can you imagine going through the next few years of high school, already knowing that everyone knows you're a slut, and now you're pregnant?
Shit got tough for her, I haven't heard from her in 3 years. She stopped talking to me after I started sleeping with an ex.
>>675625980
Sauce now! Also keep up the good work G get anal for me
>>675626974
No. I would never Fuck with her emotions or manipulate her. Our relation is actually incredibly healthy, and it's Fucking awesome. I'm used to dating crazy girls, and I'm glad I finally got a break.
>>675626505
High five
>>675626938
OP are you me? That sounds exactly like my gf, like 100%, she plays almost more games than me, watches a few anime (normie level) and does a lot of acting and theatre. Also the best one I've had, maybe we are connected
>>675627552
Violet Monroe - Sexually broken
Already done fam
>>675626968
Kek
>>675625980
From a moral standpoint, for most people, it sounds bad. Biggest thing you have to worry about(aside from niggas trying legal bullshit against you), is the huge difference in mentality. I can be with someone that much younger at such a young age.
Other than that, 4 years isn't that huge of a difference later in life. If you were 30 she would be 26 so..
>>675627570
Just be wary. She may not be crazy now, but if you've tuned her into liking you the same way you like her, and she's latched onto you then you might have a future problem.
In the event of a breakup, she'll go full on fucking apeshit. Be warned.
>>675627737
I can't be with someone that much younger at such a young age*
>>675625980
idk man. i think whatever you do it's going to be wrong, because life is honestly shit, and we should all kill ourselfes.
met a 17 yo when i was 22, she was into me, i was into her, but i feld weird because of her still being a schoolgirl and all that. i thought it would be awkward and the wrong thing to do. so i told her that she's too young. a few months later she had a bf that was the exact same age as me, stayed with him for a good year, until i told her that i still have feelings, etc, knowing that she wasn't happy in her relationship. she left him for me a few weeks before her 20th birthday, we're dating now.
but the thing is, that i'm a fucking cuck beta virgin by trade, i've hat my first time at 22, had sex with a few girls i felt nothing for, never had a relationship or sincere feelings for a girl before her. and knowing that i could have been her first aswell but literally gave her to this other guy because i was too scared to do the exact thing he did really fucks with my head now. also she never really forgave me for telling her she was too young back then.
idk man, i guess just do whatever feels right, or maybe not. or maybe do. idk, if you mess it up we can meet up and anhero together.
>>675627361
>she can't like it
then she can't like you
better to move on sooner than later /b/ro
>>675625980
Fuck the haters. Enjoy stretching that high-school cunt until she gets bored with you.
Well, I'm in the same boat kinda. I'm 28 dating a 19, how fucked up am I guys?
>>675627663
Dude! We weeb Our alot, and she actually watches good anime like Berserk, Hellsing, Claymore, etc. And I'm slowly trying to get her into Dank souls, since she plays Monster hunter. We are spiritually connected fam. Lets do some synchronized anal until we split an atom.
>>675626697
I have a weird feeling we both know this OP as i know an anthony in the exact same situation.
>>675625980
No it isn't. Be aware that it's ultimately doomed because of the pressures of life and that she's going to change rapidly and have fun while it lasts.
>>675625980
well being 20 to 16 isn't really that bad.
however being 24 like this faggot >>675626334 makes you a "loser" as society likes to call it.
allow me to explain why, the fact that you fall for younger girl might be considered being a loser. it is because you are underdeveloped emotionally, you're mentally not ready for the grown-up world so you try to live through the younger girls' age and her radical fucking hormon-disturbances that belongs in the teenage years. you claim to your friends that you're a hook-up pimp cause you got this hot 16 year old. that is also something that belongs in a teenagers world. you see, when you're in your twenties you start to grow up for real, becoming a more self-concious individual where you realise action/moving forward contributes way more to your image than bragging and being a loud-mouth. the transition of changing values and personality is often something that alot of "bullies" from highschool cant figure out how do, exploit or act upon which is why its a common saying that "my bullies from my old school can't do shit today"
>>675625980
same problem, except she's 17 and I'm 20, extremely immature and dependant on me, texts me when she has a headache, (call her on it for texting me all her problems, gets upset that did that) and I can't have so much teenage bs drama in my life. interested in another girl (19) but I wouldn't do anything without first leaving this one. hlep b
>>675627835
Virginity isn't shit dude. If anything, you most likely wouldn't want to deal with that. If I got with a virgin that was my girlfriend I'd be disgusted. Not only do you have all the bullshit that comes with having sex the first couple of times, but I know when I lost my virginity I wanted to feel other girls.
And not forgiving her for being too young? that's a 5 year age difference. She still sounds immature as fuck.
>>675627835
It just seems like your own negative feelings got in the way of your own happiness. You did all that to yourself, and now suffer because of it.
Sometimes you really need to step back, take a panoramic view of the world, and go "Fuck it, I'm not going to be here forever."
When that happens, you'll start embracing the little things.
Twisted your ankle? That piece of earth was in just the right place for you to trip on.
Got a splinter? Shit son, free piece of wood.
Someone broke into your house? You obviously had good belongings that someone else wanted too.
It's the little things, man. Just take it all in.
Lol, faggots. "Waaaah, I'm fucking a legal bitch 3 years younger than me. I might be a pedooo wahhh."
Unless she's 12 or some shit, you're fine. Even if you were 50 and she was 18 you're normal.
Fucking cucks.
>>675627420
who gives a fuck if you clean your house and make money, you impregnated a 14 year old and left her and your own daughter to rot in welfare somewhere far far away. your own flesh and blood has never seen your face. because of you she grows up without a father in her life, and a whore as a mother. how can you get angaged, and live your nice comfortable life knowing that you have a daughter that probably will and up selling her ass for dope because you neglected her?
>>675628041
Playas gonna play, don't hate the Playa hate thw game.
>>675625980
I don't think it's necessarily wrong, and it doesn't make you a pedo. If you're concerned that young girls are the only ones you're attracted to and you like this girl because she looks young, then you might be a pedo. But it's legal, and the older you get the less weird it is to fuck someone four years younger. I'm fucking someone seven years younger, but I'm 28 and no one gives a shit.
You should be prepared for the likelihood that it's not going to work out, however. She's in high school, she's going to go to college or work, she's going to want to date a lot of people and try things out. at the same time you'll be wrapping up that phase in your life. You'll come across like you're holding her back, she'll seem like a slut for wanting more. So be prepared for it to not last long.
>>675628345
>don't hate the playa
i dont really. i dont care what people do or want to do. i was just trying to explain why he might feel a certain doubt.
>>675628470
Haters gonna hate
>>675628242
You think that just because I don't speak to her or know where she is that I don't support her?
I have money, therefore I've put her through school. I pay my child support, and I give her a little extra. She was in collect last time I heard, she still lives local to my cousin and mother.
They're getting on fine, life took a different turn and they're just making the most of it.
I think what got me more was that she was my second sexual partner, I was her 8th. And at her age and my age, I took it all to heart and just resented her for it.
Also, next time you write out a rant, please punctuate it. I almost had a fucking aneurysm trying to read that..
>>675627737
Her parents are totally cool with it aswell, and yeah, I've already gotten shit for it, but they can eat shit. It really isn't that big of a difference.
>>675627757
Don't worry. This isn't the first time I've dated someone under 18. My last girlfriend was 17, while I was 18 going into 19. We dated for about 11 months, until she went apeshit. Now her life is in a downward spiral, and she still keeps trying to make my life miserable. So I definitely have some experience with crazy.
>>675627835
Christ dude. You can't let that shit get to you. There are over 7 billion people on this planet, and that was just one gril. Your odds of finding someone else are extremely high.
>>675628566
ye sorry mate, i'm just a bit bored tbh. also, my punctuation is fine, i fucking, swear.
eh I was 24 and my gf was 16. I lied to her parents at first but then came clean. they respected that and let me babysit their kids and my gf's 12 yo sister.
best pussy I've had in awhile. when she turned 17 she got fat and everything went downhill.
should've fucked her mom and sister, kind of regret it.
>>675628746
I forgive ya, buddy.
We're all here just blowing off some steam.
I've learned not to hate what people say on here. Everyone's got their own reasons for shit.
I hope your day gets a little more interesting, anon. I can't stand being bored, tbh. So I wouldn't wish it on someone else.
>>675628219
>Edge
>>675628405
I appreciate the advice /b/ro. Hopefully it doesn't get to that point, but that isn't how the world works.
>>675628062
Get out while you still can