How to break up with current gf with least amount of bullshit
>been on and off with current gf for a few years
>hot as fuck. completely my type
>thought I"loved" her but that seems to be fading
>she had a child who was a baby when we met
>child is now 4 and annoying as all hell
>going to be turning 5 in a month and still isn't potty trained
>she's constantly pushing me to spend more time with her kid and referring to us as a "family"
>constantly talking about wanting to get married and have another kid
>I never want to get married or have children of my own
>tell her this and she freaks out
>she is completely emotionally unstable
>sent me a picture of her cutting herself because me and her were fighting the other day
>hate her stupid fucking kid to the point where I get weird tension/sensations in my arm and fist whenever she starts being annoying (ie: always)
>I care about this girl but can't see a future with me as her child's "father"
>not sure how to break things off without her killing herself or something drastic along those lines
TL:DR- Girlfriend is emotionally unstable and a single mom. Hate her kid. Strong feelings for the mom but know I need to break up with her. Don't want her to kill herself.
>>675453385
Kill the child and move to the woods.
>>675453575
brilliant
>>675453385
get cucked faggot. otherwise you will let down all the expectations your delusional whore of a gf has for your new family.
>>675453732
It certainly is.
>>675453385
Get really drunk and sleep with her kid.. The jealousy will eat her alive, forcing a break up.
Bumping. In similar situation.
>>675454116
>>675453385
>child who was a baby when we met
>going to be turning 5 in a month and still isn't potty trained
kill yourself.
I'm not saying to saddle yourself with the kid.
But if you don't leave your gf, you have to make your gf understand that you need to be able to discipline and reprimand, and potty train the kid. You can make that kid better than she can make it alone.
>shit or get off the pot
dump your gf, or raise the child to not be a piece of shit
also, check child support laws in your state, if you already live with her and help her financially, your state probably already has you trapped
she's an attention whore obv. so stop feeding the troll and move on. you don't care about the kid anyways and the only reason you're still with the chick is because she fucks you occasionally. go find another woman and break it off that way. jerry springer style
>>675454562
/thread
>>675454798
Also /thread
>>675454805
>>675454839
yup i'm a samefag
>>675454636
Nope. Don't live with her and have no money to support her anyway. Everything I make goes to my rent/bills.
>>675454562
We've been off and on for years. I didn't even see her for almost a year and a half.
>>675454805
it's not his kid. why should he have to potty train the thing? or are you surprised he got into the relationship in the first place? us guys always thinking with our dicks
Get out now.
Dump the bitch like a sack of shit. It's not like you're not married and by this point it sounds too late to try be an actual parent to this kid. He'll never respect you completely because you're not the biological parent, also cuck.
>>675454857
well at least you admit it. and thanks!
>>675454960
if he stuck in there the kid would grow to respect him. i mean he's been there since it's been a baby. so the kid wouldn't know anyone else besides him to be the father. and at that point i would just be glad to have a dad than have none at all.
>>675454884
in that case I don't have good advice for you
be completely honest with her about how you feel about her child
if you think improvement in the child's behavior will change how you feel about the situation, tell her that, if you don't, tell her that.
Was in a similar situation minus the self harming and kid not being trained. Kid got less annoying once we did more family shit together. We get on really well now and the mom is way more rounded (turns out she was magnesium deficient; since she started taking it the BS stopped, been over a year now)
If you love her, stick it out. It gets better. If you don't, leave.
>>675454562
Nearly 5 and not potty trained
Are you fucking joking? Jesus christ poor kid has some useless fuckstick for a mother, call child protective services before you go for the love of god.
As much as you hate it its not the kids fault. Red flag up the ass.
>>675454908
Not saying it's his responsibility but damnnn i'd get that shit into gear one way or another. at least bitch at her to do it.
>>675454908
If you're going to live with the child, and build a relationship with the mother, you are the one who's going to face the consequence of the child not growing up right. Not the guy who fucked the mother 5 year ago.
Since you'll be the guy that will be annoyed by the kid, you are also the one who need to do thing to avoid that the kid to become annoying.
>>675454960
this is a total falsehood, I completely respect my father. He entered my life when I was 2, and married my mother when I was 5. My issues with my father come from realizing he wasn't my bio during middle school, not from a lack of respect. The respect I have for him causes problems by making me feel guilty for having nothing to offer him in return
the guy I am responding to either had a bad dad or is not speaking from experience.
>>675455181
>call child protective services before you go
this actually isn't a bad idea. let them know you had to break up with her and she's known to be mentally unstable, and you're worried for her kid. she'll be pissed at being ratted out on top of being dumped, but maybe she'll actually get the help she needs. hopefully she doesn't flip out and come after you or some shit.
>>675455227
OP clearly stated he doesn't want kids and all that. So really it's his own damn fault for getting in this to begin with, all for the sake of getting pussy. The kid might need a father but OP obv isn't fit for this position and needs to move on before the kid gets too attached.
>>675453385
get the cops involved ASAP.
you have to get some sort of enforcement to be aware of the situation before she does something crazy...
too many storys of female in a cazy fit then calling the police about domestic abuse just cause things are not going their way.
child is not potty trained? child protective services YOLO
>>675455569
she has no evidence of abuse as far as i know. unless she starts smacking herself with a frying pan lol
>>675455661
If the bitch is crazy she will.
And they all are.
>>675455569
Cops are already somewhat involved. She went to jail a few months ago for fighting her mother (that she lives with) so now she isn't even legally allowed to live there, which she is doing cause I refuse to let her and her spawn live with me. Child protective services were supposed to interview her kid for something but I'm not sure what happened with that.
>>675456226
dude get away from this basket case before she drags you further into this. FUCKING RUN!
>>675456378
I want to dude. I've made up my mind that I'm going to do it but I'm just trying to figure out the easiest way to do it. I just really don't want this bitches suicide on my conscience
>>675455181
>>675455400
I used to work for child protective services. Don't do this. I can confirm that the kid is 200% better off living with a crazy bitch than living in care.
Also, she isn't going to kill herself, just break up with her. Cutters are in it for the attention. The trick to getting her to stop is act bored by her cutting. If she sends you a photo of herself or some shit, you are better off not reacting in any way rather than reacting negatively because you are still reinforcing the behaviour by reacting to it.
>>675457118
Depending on where you live, calling child protective service, doesn't always result in living in care.
In civilized places, mother are given help to get better are raising their children.
>>675454636
This
The second you decided to get easy labor loosed up pussy was the second you sealed your fate. If anything you're as mentally unstable as her but you're not conscious of that. Both of you need help, and she's only feeding your disease
>>675453385
>off and on for years
>you knew she has a brat kid and that she fails at being a mother
>you dont want kids with her
>you cant support them
>YOU DATE OFF AND ON FOR YEARS
wtf is your problem you fucking selfish fuck, GTFO OF THERE RIGHT NOW, YOU NEVER SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN WITH HER AFTER THE FIRST TIME
YOU CANT PULL ANY BETTER WIFE SO MAKE A DECISION TODAY YOU FUCK ASS
>>675457501
I mustn't live in a civilized place then.
just bring the kid places where accidents are prone to happen, might backfire and you end up with some cripple
>>675453385
>>not sure how to break things off without her killing herself or something drastic along those lines
There's not going to be a magic sequence of words to lessen the chance of any of that. Just break it off and hope you don't wake up one night with your dick cut off.
>>675453385
Get the kid on your side then break it off with gf
If your gf cares about her kid, she'll probably give you some slack
>>675458505
yeah if she's 5 year old, a good idea is to volunteer to help migrants, she'll probably get rapped to death
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>>675458719
>rapped to death
>>675459067
Kek
Dude do people honestly think op can disapline a kid that's not his? No women are stubborn and will only raise there kids the way they want to if your the father it's a different story
>Murder child
>Go to Jail
>Never see mom again
>??????
>Profit
you're fucked buddy
>>675456786
conscience is overrated anyways.
>speaking from experience
She got herself in this situation just leave op you would be a shitty father any ways.both of them need a man in there life your a child.
>>675453385
I would do some research on when kids are fully potty trained because no one i know was potty trained by 5..
Pic of gf?
>>675453385
>she had a child who was a baby when we met
Thats the mistake you've made, mate..
>>675456086
Listen to this nigga
>>675457501
Im from west europe netherlands and in here child protective services are shit and prefer to take custody of children for the money they receive, im not the guy you replied to but in general the people there are not there because they think they can better someones life by helping them but either for money, not gettinga better job or molestation. Every year there is some scandal that gets covered up with child protection services. and they are in a negative enviroment that will surely put them on drugs/alcohol and other bad habits
>>675456786
There really is no easy way to do it bro. Just man up, find your balls and cut the bitch. The sooner, the better.
>>675453385
Fake death, move to Argentina, start your own dildo company
>>675463971
Yeah I am from Australia and while it was slowly changing it is pretty much the same. Every once in a while the media will get wind of a story like a 12 year old getting pregnant in care or something and the public will loose their collective shit, but that kind of thing is happening all the time and it is just being covered up. Also, I would say that about 1/10 people that work for them actually give a fuck. Most people just want to put it on their resume and get the fuck out and then about 2/10 will be complete scum who will probably try to fuck the clients if they get the chance.
>>675453385
tell her you need more cutting pictures then post them all here please? :D
If she actually sent pictures of her cutting herself, then just show them to the authorities. They'll probably work to get her committed to a mental institute and they'll deal with her bullshit so you don't have to.
>>675453385
dont be a dick, man the fuck up and marry her or walk away, beta cunt.
