what do you do when your girlfriend of 2 years texts you pissed of because you wont let her fuck other guys
>>675227875
You end that shit because she clearly isn't invested with you
We need some circumstances.
>>675228276
/thread
When she can't prove that she's completely interested in you, then she isn't worth your time.
>>675228687
Shes going to another state for a year and decided she doesnt want to settle down. She wants to get back together when she comes back though and get married
Niggur you better leave that shit quick
>>675228891
Then end it like the others said. If she's going to another state and doesn't want to settle down there's zero point. Don't get cucked.
>>675229438
whoa hey there partner slow down, it looks like you're misusing a popular meme phrase that is mostly spouted by newfaggots who learned of it in 2015
if op was a legitimate, real person (which he isn't), he's not a cuckold, he's not watching anything happen. he's just an idiot. that is, if this thread wasn't bait.
>>675229973
I understand that but it's gotten so broad at this point that I didn't think people cared.
>>675229973
definitely a real person. I'd give names if I wasnt afraid of what /b/ would do. I mean I'm trying to work it out. She leaves in August and I said she has until that time to prove that I'm what she wants, or its over (here's hoping for change). I just posted here because complaining on the internet helps me feel better
>>675228891
So she can come back after having miles of dick in her. get rid of her son.
She's just a selfish person in general because she is rich and spoiled, but I've gotten her to realize when she's wrong before, and Im hoping this is a realization i can put through
Tell her because you don't need to raise somebody elses stupid kid and you don't need their stds? Pretty fucking simple.
>>675231706
Oh I'm well aware of what she wants. She said Im just not attractive anymore so she wants to have sex with someone who is enjoyable. To be fair I have gotten gross, but I was already kind of gross when we started dating
>>675231602
Best of luck to you then, anon.
>>675231958
Obvious she doesn't want you then be the man of the relationship and get rid of her
>>675227875
Fuck other guys first. let her see how she likes it.
>>675232075
I was considering it, but the first year and a half was the happiest I'd ever been. Im just hoping this is a phase. Like I said I gave until the end of August
>>675231706
In no reasonable way should you let your woman ask this of you its obvious she isn't happy not saying its your fault but she is being selfish by leading you on and no dealing with the apparent problems instead she is trying to be happy with other guys don't be beta get solve it or get rid of it
>>675227875
Having read through the comments here I'm gonna have to say ditch her.
You got a gf and kept her with you for 2+ years so obviously there's something redeeming/attractive about you (despite being a user of this shithole).
You managed to pull a girl in once, you can do it again. Not to say that girls are 'replaceable', but this one just isn't 100% into you and you don't need to keep that in your life.
>>675232336
I know this is a joke post but it reminded me that multiple times I've mentioned being hit on and she gets pissed off. Going to bring this up when she is awake
>>675228891
either end it or be a cuck like the rest of us faggots
>>675232075
>dat pic
>>675232469
Ayy the first comment to give me a little hope if things go south. It just hurts because I wanted to marry her. She was perfect for so long, then all the sudden, everything changed
>>675232501
Start dating another girl right before she leaves and get first dibs in this "not settling"
okay so you're gross, maybe she's even been patient with you at some point and encouraging and you still don't exercise, that's a foul on your part. but if you love someone (you're talking about marriage, jesus fucking splinter in the ass, how are you NOT a bait poster) you don't need anyone else in your life. it's that simple
look at your thread, what have you told us about her
-negative thing
-negative thing
-arrogance that you're actually trying to justify "she's just spoiled"
-bad thing
you have nothing good to say about her. what do you think that means
have a serious real discussion and make a choice like a man but if you go the easy way know that it's at least 85% likely she's going to be fucking random guys while away for an entire year no matter what you say
You fuck her mom/sisters or any other family members you can dick out.
>>675232688
If it changed randomly all of a sudden I'd go out on a limb and say she is already doing shit and is just securing her position just incase you found out
>>675232833
considered this
>>675232958
It's because of how she used to be. She was literally everything I wanted. My dream. Then everything fell apart because she decided to go to school in another city for a year. It was pretty much the day she was accepted that it all fell apart
>>675227875
I start dating adults.
>>675232501
Real talk my gf started getting flirty at bars and what not.
> she gave me the whole dont worry its all in fun.
> that lasted right up until we got picked up by what we thought was a swinger couple.
> she was all into it but oops it was a cuck couple.
> I was invited to their hotel room while she and the cuck stayed at the bar.
> told the lady we should start in the shower.
> while she was in the bathroom rummaged through their luggage.
> stole almost $200.
> would have fucked her but I had speed dick. (fucking amphetamines man)
> went back down to the bar
> told gf and cuck I couldnt do it
> gf was fairly attentive and frisky for the next week.
> dumped her when the sex started drying up again about a week after that.
She's not worth it man just move on
test
>>675231958
So she basically wants your financial support, while insulting you and fucking other men? How have you even been in the relationship this long? If you're not going to dump her GTFO back to the bernie and cuck threads.
Sharing is caring
>>675227875
Tell her to dump you so she can take as much dick as she likes. If she wants to be a slut let her be one.
>>675232637
Speak for yourself faggot.
>>675233867
I dont even offer financial support. She lives on her own. i just buy her a pair of pants every now and then or something. Her entire family is rich
>>675234864
ah so she's a spoiled cunt, that explains it. If you're never going to see the money just ditch her. Plenty of women anon. But here's what you do, self improve.
Lose a shitload of weight and start lifting. Once you start to make progress ditch her.
Fuck her mother.
>>675231958
> says ur not attractive anymore
> u confirm this yourself
Wew lad prepare to be cucked big time!
She's gonna do it with or without your approval, might as well rip the band aid off now and get it over with.
> better than getting snaps of her with some other guy's dick in her mouth
Trust me man, I was in ur situation back in senior year in hs. My hs gf was going to college, and wanted to have the whole xp. But she still had feelings for me and didn't want to break up.
We eventually agreed to break up and do our own things and said "if we're meant to be, we will end up together."
I'm so glad we did that.
> she comes home talking about all the cute guys she's hooked up with
> she usually dressed pretty modest when we were dating, but when she started college, I started seeing more and more booty shorts and crop tops.
> I felt a little sad, but then I remember she was mine no longer, and I felt a sense of relief
It's been 3 years, and we are so different from each other now compared to how we were in hs.
I personally believe that I've changed for the better, but her? Not so much.
> became a raging feminist
> is huge hipster who believes her watercolor finger paintings are worth actual $$
> constantly talks about how she "just wants to be heard!"
> joins the Jewish faith so she can date "interesting" skinny ass Jew boys
> majors in film and documentary
> can't make an interesting or socially important documentary (it's all about women's rights or gay rights)
> has literally become a giant bag of emotions and crying and instability
Cut your losses now m8, love ain't worth all the hassle, especially at this age.
Be like the rest of us on /b/ and kek at your soon to be ex and her future short comings
>>675227875
You stop being a sexist jerk and let her do as she pleases, she's not your property. If you haven't cheated already like 90% of males do you probably have the same fantasy. Grow up
>>675235699
> this this this
No matter what a woman says, they're just as vain and shallow as any man out there.
They give a shit about looks, and if there is one thing you can do to start pissing them off, it's to make physical improvements, not for them, but for your self and for other women.
> it will kill her to know that u are moving up in life and that she isn't the focus of all your attention. That youre focusing on yourself, and the others around you.
After a conversation, she isnt going to fuck anyone, but still wants to on coffee dates and whatnot because she never had a dating experience with anyone but me. I get that honestly so it's not a big deal. I mean it's a year and I'm allowed to do it too so I don't expect her to just stay in her room. The other guys will also know that it's just a date and not going any further. Any hint of that not working out is the end for me. Not having it. Just don't want to lose out on the girl I love if this is just a phase
>>675231602
If you tell her she can't fuck other guys, she is most likely going to do it anyway, behind your back. Might as well cut all ties now.
>>675238036
How old are both of you
Be brave and end it. Protect your dignity. Don't be a cuckold
>>675238684
20. Young I know, dont plan on actually moving forward with any permanent plans until at leas 25 so that it leaves room for shit like this. But she has gone through several phases in the past 5 years and I think this might just be one
>>675238036
>Not going to be fucking anyone
Clearly you haven't been listening to any advice so please just fuck off and spare us all the cringe. She is in damage control mode right now and is lying to you.
>>675238889
I want to print this out and hand them to every kid on the college campus
>>675239093
Waiting for 6-8 months when OP comes back crying over how he saw pics of his girl wearing a mini skirt and sucking 3 dicks at once
>>675239093
I get what you're saying but you can usually trust what she says. She's too afraid that you'll use anything against her in future arguments or call her a liar. She has a lot of pride
>>675228891
only if shes like 20/10 and you are 3/10 with no hope in sight otherwise fuck it
>>675228891
End it you dumb fag. Literally the only one who would benefit from this proposal is her. Even if she says that she won't do it, end it anyway because when she comes back you know fully that tyrone and all his niggas hit that shit.
>>675238945
> She's gone through several phases in the past 5 years
> ages 15-20
> when the age for mature development( physical, mental, and emotional) extends from early teen, to late 20s
Dude this is time for development and change. Of course there are gonna be changes.
That being said stop being a bitch and let her go. avoid the unnecessary heart break and pain.
I'm so sick of hearing these 20 something year-olds talking about how they can never find true love. Jesus Christ just stop it already! Very few people are mature enough or even stable enough (mentally, financially, or occupationally) to have a serious, long term relationship when they're in their 20s.
Besides, there's more to life than finding le wifu.
Grow up, before you hurt your self.
>>675240455
Its not that I cant find someone else, I want what I had and it hurts that it's gone. I know worse comes to worst I can just move on, but like I said, complaining on the internet makes me feel better
>>675241016
If you get stuck on what you have/had you'll lose your ambition for the future
Also if it isnt obvious, I was having an emotional reaction and exaggerated a lot. Her reason for wanting a "trial separation" is that we have been pretty much together since she was 15, just officially dating since 18. She's never done anything without me and wants to try out single life. I'm still sticking with the rule of anything i disapprove of is an instant goodbye message but I understand what she wants
>>675241412
Wow. That gave me a lot of hope either way. If things work out, then hooray. If things dont, I get to find a new way to be happy
>>675232373
if she wants other dicks while she's away she was getting them when she was around too.
I'm sure you weren't the only guy who had that good year and a half from her.
It's not a phase, I guarantee it.
>>675232833
She's already got first dibs, she's probably been fucking tyrones through their entire relationship.
If OP gives her the OK on this I can guarantee she won't leave the chads and tyrones behind when(if) she comes back.
>>675242055
Given that I'm with her almost 24/7 I cant imagine thats the case. I mean even when I'm at work she comes and hangs out. It's one of the reasons she wants a break
