Alright faggots, Im having a moral dilemma and I need help.
This scumbag cheated on his wife a few months ago and I found out. Im not one to fuck around in other peoples business, but I dont think she knows and it sucks to see shit on facebook about them being happy when you know the guys fucking around on the side
It would be easy to drop the bombshell, I have an anonymous facebook set up to message her but It would stir up so much shit.
So what do? Do you think she deserves the truth? If they seem happy do we just do nothing and let life go on?
inb4 Im a white knight faggot trying to get rebound pussy. The couple in question are both porkers living in a different city and I have a girlfriend
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None of ur business. She has the right to know, but not from you.
> whiteknightfag
>>674809560
She's not going to nosh you off for being the kind hearted chap who spills the beans.
So don't tell her.
Fuck with him
>>674810429
What the fuck does that even mean? The truth is the truth no matter who says it
Op your so fucking retarded.
>Seduce her
>Fuck her
>Tell her
Its a win-win. You get pus pus, and they become even.
She needs to know. If he wanted to keep it in the low he should of kept it on the low. He fucked up oh well. Be a whiteknight and save the day Op.
>>674810685
She wouldnt even know it was me, all anonymous
>>674809560
>>674809560
>porkers
>what do
Unlike them, shut your fucking cakehole
>>674811001
Shes a legit landwhale. Not even joking 0/10
>>674810874
He means don't be a nark, who the fuck are you to ruin someones happiness. If she finds out let it be,
>>674809560
Where you from op? I might know who your talking about. Does the guy begin with a A
>>674811274
its not real happiness if she's gettin played
>>674809560
Tell her if you want to but don't make it personal.
>>674811386
Nope
Where you from op? I might know who your talking about. Does the guy's name begin with a letter
I don't know why you'd care, if she was a good friend that'd be one thing, but since your talking about doing it "anoninymoosely" I'm assuming she isn't. Whiteknighting into her business isn't going to accomplish anything. That said, it applies on the flipside too, if you feel like it just do it, who gives a fuck.
>>674811274
>>674811461
This. Would you rather find out your partner was cheating or prefer you never actually know and they just keep doing it?
>>674809560
Confront him about it, and go from there. Cheating shouldn't be tolerated, but speak to the cheater before getting yourself involved.
>>674811274
But dont you think she'd rather find out sooner rather than later?
>>674811198
You insult them both for being fat
You don't like him for cheating
And you seemingly, if you do tell, have not the balls to do it from your own profile.
You don't sound close to either of these people/
Delete them both from your facebook and save us from this fucking shite.
>>674811461
Fuck real happiness, fake happiness. It's both happiness. You'd be an ass for taking that away. Just let it happen on it's own ,if it happens.
>>674811534
wow it does, we must b neighbors
>>674809560
Normally Id say yea, you should tell her. But it depends on allot, like what kind of person she is, for example if this just happened to be by ex that you know then Id say dont bother, she fucking deserves it because she cheats too.
>>674811615
If it was me I'd rather know so I could leave them
>>674811663
Not necessarily and even if she does, that's just more time wasted with the prick.
You don't gain or lose anything by telling her, so imo if it's bothering you, which it seems like it is, tell her. Fuck cheaters, who gives a fuck about the fallout for him. Sit back and enjoy.
>>674811386
I know fat people are repulsive but it is not so rare fatties are in relationships that this can only be about 1 couple.
>>674809560
she deserves the truth
but not by you
>>674809560
>One thing:
>NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS YOU FAGGOT
>>674809560
Jesus Christ you are a faggot.
You want to to tell someone else's gf
they that are cheating on them so you can cheat on yours. An hero please
>>674811841
>so I could leave them
Exactly! I'd want to know so I could decide whether or not to be with someone who was cheating on me, not be strung along let alone with people knowing and not wanting to tell me.
>>674812247
Read the post again fuckface
Do you have strong evidence that you can present to her? If not, don't bother, because she might believe him when he denies, and if so you'll upset her for nothing.
>>674809560
>Im not one to fuck around in other peoples business
The don't faggot.
>>674811641
Why though? Why even give him a say? So he can cry at me and tell me it was a mistake? Fuck that
>>674812653
are you calling me a faggot
>>674809560
There is literally nothing wrong with cheating. Stop being a faggot.
Nope. You don't know if she already knows but lies to herself about what he's doing so she can keep the life she has. If she doesn't see it, if she has no actual evidence, she can pretend it's not happening. Once that lie is shattered, things are going to be different and she might be OK with the current situation. What if she confronts him and he says fine, I'm busted so let's split up, and she can't afford to make it on her own? That won't be helping.
I'm not defending a scumbag's behavior, just saying that it's not automatically right to blow up someone's marriage even if you have evidence of cheating.
>>674812751
>faggot
Fine. I'll rephrase: Then don't, dude.
>>674811733
Anyone who prioritizes possession of happiness over the Truth is ignorant.
Ignorance isn't a virtue, and in most cases it isn't a "sin," but to deliberately deny someone the possession of the Truth is to deny their basic human yearning to understand the world around them.
>>674809560
Well, OP, I applaud your thoughts, and I think you should do so, but I also think it might be better to somehow guilt him into confessing it to her and trying to apologize.
That might be the best way to handle this situation, since it wouldn't be as subversive and cause one to be pitted against the other quite as much.
Having a third party always makes things worse if the third party is the one who makes it known.
However, she does not deserve to THINK she's happy when everything is fucked up. That's not good, because it would allow him to potentially get away with doing it again (and again...), but she'd always be in the dark living a lie. Furthermore, it'd be a total shitstorm if he gets some other woman pregnant, and she finds out that way.
I think the fact that you know, in and of itself brings a certain level of responsibility to the issue.
You could try to anonymously cause him to confess.
If that doesn't work, though, you really do need to let her know.
>>674812818
Cuck
>>674813024
You dont think the truth will come out sooner or later?
C'mon, this shit already happened. I'm not talking about blowing up the marriage but she shouldnt be kept in the dark.
It should be her decision to make to dump his ass or forgive him but she cant do that if she doesnt even know
>>674809560
Mind your business dude. Thats the best advice I can give you.
>>674813322
dub dubs of truth. buddys a cuck
>>674813247
Contacting him anonymously and dealing with his shit is just so much work though.
>I think the fact that you know, in and of itself brings a certain level of responsibility to the issue.
I agree, but its just easier to drop the facts and bounce
One hand it's none of your fucking business, get a life
On the other, kinda fun to ruin theirs
Stay out you don't know anything about their relationship
>>674813150
Now were getting all philosophical in this bitch
OP, this happened to me, I got an anonymous letter one day saying my girlfriend had been fucking someone else for 6 months and that I'm an idiot if I don't believe it. I confronted her, she had a nervous breakdown and denied denied denied. Me being 18 at the time was dumb enough to believe her. She came clean a month later and it ended up being the worst thing I ever experienced. But if that letter hadn't arrived I would have never have known, and believe me when I say I'm glad to suffer with the truth than be happy in a lie.
I would tell this woman anonymously and state a few facts so that she doesn't just dismiss you and call you a lying troll, since he will deny it until his balls fall back into his man pussy.
I would rather know and I think you would too if it was your relationship. You're not stirring trouble, you're letting Truth prevail.
>>674813426
Is the guy doing this all the time? Or was it a short fling that's over now? I think this is a important part of the story.
>>674813426
OK. Tell her then. In fact, fuck it. Give us her facebook and I'll fucking tell her.
And tell us who you are so I can make sure she knows which one of her [facebook] friends calls her a landwhale too.
You really are a champion mong, OP
>>674809560
>>674809560
do it. cheaters deserve what they get. anyone who disagrees is underage.
>>674813853
>>674813886
>>674813476
>>674813247
>I think the fact that you know, in and of itself brings a certain level of responsibility to the issue.
As soon as you know,OP, it is your business. You cant hide from the truth because the truth is all there is
>>674814006
OP here. It only happened once as far as I know. But I mean if it happened once itll happen again right?
>>674814009
Thanks, friend
>>674814009
being a landwhale is just a fact. we can skirt around the issue and be politically correct all we want but in the end all landwhales are landwhales
So what I'm getting from these replies is that if you're out with some married bros and one of them gets drunk enough to hook up with some bar slut for a quick one, you better rat him out to his wife.
Even if it was a one-time thing, he regrets it ever happened, and is determined never to make that mistake again.
No mercy, ruin his marriage. Even if it was one time.
>>674815053
Oh fuck off. If you get married thats it, and if youre gonna fuck around you deserve to have your marriage ruined
>>674809560
Tell her. If they are happy together they'll be together and work things out. Don't get what the fuck they're all talking about whiteknighting and shit. If it was the girl that cheated 9/10 would tell you to spill the beans.
Go for it
>>674814800
Not disputing that. And if it is such a fact it should be even easier for OP to justify to her calling her a land whale.
If OP cares about the fatty knowing the truth about what her fatty husband living in another city is doing then he should tell her.
Or he should stop being jealous that the fatty is getting poontang twice and he isn't.
I really don't get why he is asking for help. If he wants to do it for shits and giggles then its not a moral dilemna - just fucking get on with it.
If her cares about her as a person obese land whale or not then just fucking tell her with his real profile. But then you wouldn't be abusive about someone you cared about.
OP wants her pussy and is jealous he can't get it even though hubby is away and getting it elsewhere.
>>674809560
dont be a snitch you piece of shit. talk to the dude at absolute most, if you tell the chick you are a giant fucking ass
>>674815436
I'm not defending it. Cheating is wrong and a terrible abuse of trust. But people make mistakes. And if someone make a one-time mistake, I just don't think that is worthy of telling the spouse. It can't be un-told. And when that trust is ruined it takes a very long time, if ever, for it to be recovered. And sometimes it breaks up a marriage that didn't have to be ruined over one mistake.
>>674809560
Leave them alone, snitches at the very least deserve ditches.
Tell her, OP, but make it completely clear that you're telling her all you know and then you don't want to be involved any further at all.
>>674809560
You would want to know if you were in her position. I vote tell her op
>>674809560
meddling in others business is a good way to get caught up in drama and bullshit. especially without proof. I think you should tell. I would. Becasue even though it isn't your life, it could one day happen to you, and wouldn't you like to know? why would you let that bitch continue lying? and would living in ignorance truly be blissfull? This guy needs to know. Be a bro, not a hoe.
>>674813322
How is it being a cuck if I do it?
Virgins need to stop throwing that word around.
>>674815798
OP here again. Just clear shit up they both live in a different city. No real profile because I dont want to be caught up in the bullshit.
Well guys, fuck. I wasn't expected so many contradicting replies but I guess the way of /b/ for everyone to disagree with each other.
Some interesting opinions here, definitely put some things in perspective.
I dont give a fuck about the fatties. But at the same time I agree that if I were in the situation Id want to know. So I'm gonna do it. Fuck it, I put too much thought into this as it is.
>>674817763
Thread over, you can all go back to jerking off to traps now
>>674817138
nigger if your girl cheats on you and you let it happen then you are a cuckold. thats like the literal definition
>>674817763
Will you have any way of finding out what happened if anything?
Fuck you. Mind your own goddamn business you pussy nigger cunt. Fuck off and die in a ditch. That has nothing to do with you and if she sees you're the one who tells her she'll never fuck you and I know that's the reason you want do it. Don't fucking lie to me.
