So my gf of 6 months has recently been clinically diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. What do you think guys, is our relationship kill? Any advice moving forward?
I have schitzoeffective disorder and I can say I am worth being with.
>>673282227
Make money fuck bitches.
Leave her.
>>673282318
>I have schitzoeffective disorder and I can say I am worth being with.
lol bullshit you crazy bitch, you will just dump the guy will you lose internist , your probably selfish also
>>673282227
>What do you think guys, is our relationship kill?
get rid of her NOW before she fucks you up mentally
Get the fuck out, unless, you want false rape charges.
>>673282227
Run
>>673282711
Damn is it really that bad? I haven't really noticed anything severe besides extreme highs and extreme lows. But I just attributed that to her being a girl
>>673283320
>Damn is it really that bad?
yes I went through a realatiohsip with a girl who was bi polar schitzoeffective disorder and maybe borderline, she WILL find any excuse to either not talk to you, break up with you, cheat on you, it ant worth it, she will drive you crazy, get out now
If she's just been diagnosed, you've seen the sort of shit that's been going on for a while. if you could live with it before, you can probably keep living with it.
If you were hoping it would get better though, it wont. this is just how she's going to be forever. That shit can gradually wear you down. I know from experience.
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Holy shit, dude. I agree with these other guys. Was in a relationship w/ a chick w/ bipolar personality disorder for 2.5 years.
get
the
fuck
out
now
go go go go go go
i'm lucky her attempts to trick me into getting her pregnant didn't work
>>673283918
Thanks man. When you say gradually wear down what aspect specifically. Is it the fact that shes happy one moment then mad at the me the next and I have no idea what I did wrong?
>>673282227
Leave her now. Do not continue the relationship. There is no win. Do not have a child with this lady. You cannot fix crazy.
>>673284112
Hahaha dude shit she wants to have babies in >4 years
I also suggest you run
Is her name Marley by any chance
>>673282227
My mother is mentally abusive. Dad dealt with it for 23 years, I've been dealing with it for all my life. Aot of the shit she's done points towards B.P.D, and my mom's even been misdiagnosed with bipolar disorder (Bipolar and B.P.D are rather smiliar)
Get. The. Fuck. Out. Leave, no questions asked. If it isn't physical abuse, IT WILL BE MENTAL. Do not put yourself through that shit. It isn't a character flew, she's just fucked up.
>>673284276
yeah, you get some pretty fucked up positive and negative reinforcement. you can do everything right and she'll explode at you. It's hard to believe that it's not at least partly your fault.
The gradual wearing down, for me, is the constant drama. years of never making it through a couple of days without shit going wrong, never just getting a break to relax and be completely happy.
Every person is different though. She might experience teh symptoms differently, she might be more aware and open to you suggesting that she's overreacting, or you just might be able to wall that stuff off. Who knows?
>>673284276
Mentally abused anon here. Same shit with my mother. Seriously, there is no fix for it. Most of the time people with these sort of disorders don't believe that there's anything wrong. That they're always "right", and they'll refuse help or normally not believe what they're being told.
Therapy never works, they're normally compulsive liars as well.
Seriously, end that shit.
>>673284866
This shit is 100% true.
>>673284691
Nope, can't recall anyone with that name. >>673284866
Dang thanks, I was wishing that it would eventually just go away.
>>673283724
What this guy said.
There is no escaping from the torture. You think things will get better if you do this or that. Truth is things will die down then suddenly shit will start happening again. It's just a cycle, my girlfriend has it. Unfortunately I put a kid in her before I realized my mistake. So I'm stuck. Get out while you can anon.
>>673282227
is her name Mackenzie?
>>673282227
>Borderline Personality Disorder Diagnostic Criteria 301.83 (F60.3)
>A pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-image, and affects (moods), and marked impulsivity, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:
>1 Frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. (Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5.)
>2 A pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relationships characterized by alternating between extremes of idealization and devaluation.
>3 Identity disturbance: markedly and persistently unstable self-image or sense of self.
>4 Impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating). (Note: Do not include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5.)
>5 Recurrent suicidal behavior, gestures, or threats, or self-mutilating behavior.
>6 Affective instability due to a marked reactivity of mood (e.g., intense episodic dysphoria, irritability, or anxiety usually lasting a few hours and only rarely more than a few days).
>7 Chronic feelings of emptiness.
>8 Inappropriate, intense anger or difficulty controlling anger (e.g., frequent displays of temper, constant anger, recurrent physical fights).
>9 Transient, stress-related paranoid ideation or severe dissociative symptoms.
sounds real fun anon
.......get the fuck out
>>673285261
it'll go up and down a bit especially if they put her on meds, but it's never going away. The best you can really hope for is it's not going to get worse.
>>673282227
LEAVE NOW. Don't even tell her that you're dumping her, just block her number and disappear. If you try to talk to her, she will convince you to stay.
These people are manipulative monsters. They use people and you get trapped in their bullshit. There is no hope for her to ever have a normal relationship. You will destroy your life if you stay.
>>673282318
That is not the same thing as Borderline. Not even close.
>>673285448
>The best you can really hope for is it's not going to get worse.
it will get worse, they always do
yeah get out of that one now. just stop contacting her completely. she would ABSOLUTELY and probably will do the same thing to you, very soon.
"A pattern of unstable intense relationships, such as idealizing someone one moment and then suddenly believing the person doesn't care enough or is cruel"
you can't stop this, it will happen.
>>673282227
>Borderline Personality Disorder
Translation: she's a cunt.
That's just par for the course for a female, there's nothing psychiatric about it...
>>673282227
So they confirmed she is a female... Basically.
>>673285727
>>673285591
>They use people
forgot to add this, she used me and only cared about herself, they are very selfish and cold heated
AVOID. Will manipulate you
>>673282227
Also, she's cheating on you. With more than one guy. The ones with Borderline always are. They can't get what they need from just one person. She may have told you she's poly.
>>673285690
mine certainly did, but I don't have much experience aside from her.
She definitely fucked me up a bit. 6 years with her of what amounted to steadily increasing mental abuse, haven't managed a stable relationship since. I'm sure I will eventually.
>>673285349
Only time you can leave is when the kid is old enough to understand. I was 16 when I helped my dad leave to get away from my mother. He needed my help because he had no job, he was rarely ever trusted with money, and he never was able to speak to family and friends -alone-.
Hell, even now I don't have a good relationship with him because my mother wouldn't allow him to get too close to me and to be alone with me.
Borderline Personality Disorder men AND women are dead ends. I swear I've never felt so anxious on 4chan for an anon ever.
>>673285975
THIS IS TRUE AS WELL! My mother cheated on my father, and even know, is speaking to MULTIPLE men! if I ever speak ill of her new "boyfriend", I swear she'll get so heated to where I believe she'll suddenly smack me.
>>673285934
cold hearted i meant
>>673285373
>>673286084
I'd hug you, anon. 18 years of mental abuse here from my mom.
>>673285373
>five OR MORE of the following
Even if you pick the five "best" ones... oh fuck
>>673286167
Unfortunately kid has autism. So he'll never understand. Constantly get asked if mommy is mad.
>>673282227
Well she had this for the 6 months you were with her... Only know she can be treated.
>>673282227
I have bpd and I've been in a monogamous 5 yr relationship. No infidelity. I mean I used to flip shit really badly like 2-3 times a year but I've calmed down.
If you love her stick with it. It's not the end of the world.
>>673286768
>I have bpd and I've been in a monogamous 5 yr relationship. No infidelity. I mean I used to flip shit really badly like 2-3 times a year but I've calmed down.
>If you love her stick with it. It's not the end of the world.
disregard this post
>>673285975
My girlfriend might be borderline. She hasn't really gotten a proper diagnosis. How do i know if she's cheating?
I have BPD. Relationships are extremely difficult. Imagine feeling like a different person every day but with the same memories. She may love you one moment and you will literally not be worth a second thought the next. This may all be a random bunch of sentences but that is how we think.
>>673286683
Oh jesus christ, poor bastard.
>>673286768
Everyone is different with this sort of thing, so you are correct, in a way. But depending on this woman's reactions/symptoms and how often they happen, that'll change everything.
>>673286959
Disregard that anon's post. Not all borderlines consistently cheat. B.P.D =/= cheater. Don't mix that shit up, this stuff is serious.
>>673282227
Run for the hills, op. My ex wife was diagnosed with that. It's just an excuse for her to be an absolutely massive raging cunt whenever she feels like it. She'll treat you like shit and then turn around and blame her cundishunz. Fuck that, bro. You can do better. There's literally not a set of tits or a pussy on this planet worth putting up with that for.
>>673286882
Fuck off you diskless faggot. You don't know me or my relationship. Just because you can't get pussy doesn't mean you have to exaggerate how bad bpd really is.
Op for real people in this thread are big man babies. Think for yourself. Don't listen to these shit stain bronies.
>>673285098
I can see why your mother always shit on you. You're nothing but a fucking toilet.
With the correct medication, anything can be controlled.
>>673286882
>>673287516
Dickless. I meant to say you're dickless. And a huge faggot.
>>673286959
If you aren't the extremely jealous type, if you think it ever, it's happening. >>673287020
Stuck with a bitch, a retard,and just as much of a bitch daughter.
>>673287516
>Just because you can't get pussy doesn't mean you have to exaggerate how bad bpd really is.
they are bad and you are probably lying right now you manipulating bitch
>>673282318
Sure you, crazy
>>673282227
Don't let a diagnosis scare you. Do a little research and know what to *maybe*expect. If you care about her, try to make it work.
Why would it be over? If she had it before and you didn't know about it this shouldn't make any difference, right?
also I have BPD so pls be kind to her. We arent all fucking psychopaths
>>673287516
Nigger what? I'm the anon speaking first hand about myself and my father's experiences with my mother's BPD. I'm the CHILD in this relationship, so this shit hits me harder.
>>673287690
Sounds like something someone who hasn't experienced shit from someone with BPD. Get the fuck out of here faggot.
>>673287910
This.
>>673287987
>Don't let a diagnosis scare you. Do a little research and know what to *maybe*expect. If you care about her, try to make it work.
disregard post
>>673286882
>>673287787
Shit I meant to say you're dbckless.
>>673287516
His point was that you can't trust someone who's condition involves being extremely manipulative. Since you have the condition, everything you say has to be treated as a lie. Simply talking to you is poison. You cannot be trusted, and need to be disregarded for the safety of normal people. If you're allowed to be considered rational, you will infect us.
>>673286371
thanks anon. I hope things are working out better for you now.
>>673287218
>4 Impulsivity in at least two areas that are potentially self-damaging (e.g., spending, sex, substance abuse, reckless driving, binge eating).
Broke, cheating, druggie, wrecks, fat
> pick two
>>673283023
/thread
>>673287690
Please tell OP how having his GF on meds will make things better, Then explain why the shit will hit the fan when she wants to become pregnant and goes off her meds to start a family.
>>673288147
>His point was that you can't trust someone who's condition involves being extremely manipulative
that's exactly right bi polar people ALL OF THEM are very toxic
BPD guy here. I've done shit and have it under control. Shea just been diagnosed. Leave her. You will have to deal with some intense bullshit, more stupid crap than a normal woman. She'll waste money, cheat on you and threaten suicide if she doesn't get her way. LEAVE HER. Seriously. Don't look back.
>>673288022
My mother, father, sister and myself have Bipolar 1 disorder. Try again kid.
>>673287910
Kek
Hooooly shit. I'm the one with a disorder (I'm also schizotypal), and look at who's getting all mad and acting crazy.
Get a life. Don't give people advice until you stop being so maladjusted. And redirect your hatred towards women to personal growth and change.
>>673288189
Unfortunately I'm living with my mother, still. My father's life hasn't gotten better either (His family is pretty shit). I'm still in high school, I'm a senior finishing up. Knowing my mom, she'll force me into college.
My boyfriend is poor, and he's working hard, so I don't expect him to rush up as a sudden prince charming in his jeep with a u-haul attached to get me the fuck outta here.
I'm taking it day by day. I'm looking for work, and I'm just waiting for my basic schooling to finally be done with.
>>673282227
I'm a borderliner (male) and I can tell you to saddle up for unstable emotions. It's not a disease, despite the name, but it won't go away. Bumpy, but manageable with proper care. Also, it's not the same as bi-polar.
>>673288370
Medication makes shit better. If she wants a child so bad, she can have her egg and his sperm transplanted in other carrier so she can remain on medicine.
Do you not think these things through?
>>673288618
Shit, I forgot about that one. Yeah, she'll threaten suicide if you say you'll leave her. That's why you can't actually dump her, just have to block her and disappear.
>>673288642
BPD is Borderline not Bipolar. You don't even have the right disease.
>>673288669
>and look at who's getting all mad and acting crazy.
I'm not mad and you're one to talk about someone being crazy
>>673288944
And? I'm not wrong.
>>673288440
I know a few bipolar people who aren't at all toxic. high maintenance but not toxic.
Some bipolar people are just ordinary people with weird highs and lows. Some are real fucks with only a vague grasp on humanity.
>>673288642
Mother is BPD along with depression and PTSD. My father's mental health is damaged, and he's not around anymore (He's in L.A., I'm hours away) I have chronic depression due to being around this bullshit everyday. Anything can happen to me.
I'm stuck with my mother for now, and I don't have many friends to help me out of this hellhole.
How about you try again? Seeing as our situations can't be any better, or worse.
>>673289060
>I know a few bipolar people who aren't at all toxic. high maintenance but not toxic.
>Some bipolar people are just ordinary people with weird highs and lows. Some are real fucks with only a vague grasp on humanity.
disregard post
>>673288671
well, fuck. From the sounds of it you're in the US so I'm guessing there's no easy programs to get you out of that situation?
Being aware of what's going on doesn't make it easier, but can help you getting as damaged by them. It sounds like you've got your head on straight and should be able to pull through this albeit with some parental and maybe trust issues.
>>673282227
Its a losing situation no matter what. You'll never know if you're safe. Anything can set her off. Leave. She'll verbally assault you for no reason. Thin ice man. LEAVE.
>>673288819
protip: Don't make any major investments with her. You cant have a clean break if you're figuring out how to split the house and who gets the dog and shit like that.
>>673289509
try again newfag
>>673288642
You're toxic. Period. Meds only mask the problem some of the time.
Meds aren't a cure all. Doesn't make your problem disappear, just makes it more manageable. Like having to clean a bathroom with a piece of shit in the floor or a bathroom with diarrhea in the floor.
>>673289146
How pathetic can you get?
>Hurr durr I'm an adult and I can't do things by myself
>>673283023
>Guy with experience rapping crazy women.
You just got to beat her down and show her who's boss.
Write down or record every time she lashes out at you.
Bring it up every chance you get and demand sex while threatening to leave her ass.
She'll be a bitch sometimes but will take the dick and constantly worry about you leaving her.
>>673289739
>Toxic
Go back to Tumblr you fucking baby
>>673282227
Read up on borderline. Recognize and identify the patterns, and find an understanding for the irrational behavior when it occurs.
>>673289509
>>673289734
Just one is me as well. That's like six or seven people, imbecile.
>>673289319
Well, I am the younger one in this situation. Dad's 50, so it's damaged him hard.
>>673289509
Try again.
>>673289876
My life isn't anywhere close to being considered 'normal'. Try again.
>>673288814
This takes several thousand dollars. Way out of Financial reach of most people.
>>673290006
>Read up on borderline. Recognize and identify the patterns, and find an understanding for the irrational behavior when it occurs.
disregard post
As someone with several family members with BPD, all I can say is to run like hell. Now.
>>673289008
Yes I am one to talk. We can smell our own. Only difference is you're just a pussy ass bitch who's emotionally and socially unstable. I at least have a disorder to explain my sometimes shit behavior.
Quit whining and quit acting like everyone with bpd is the same. They aren't.
>>673282227
I don't know much about the disorder OP. does it change what you've already seen in her? If it only puts a label to things you already knew about and tolerate, I don't know why it would be.
If you love her, you'll at least give this thing a try. If this scares you enough to want to seriously consider bailing without much more effort, then that's a sign that your relationship wasn't going to be able to survive on a healthy level for much longer anywho.
>>673290443
>Quit whining and quit acting like everyone with bpd is the same. They aren't.
yes they are, stop your lies
>>673289969
Dude you need to face it. You're a burden on people you have intimate relationships with. Always will be. I have PTSD, I've already accepted that I'll always be toxic.
Trust me drugs aren't a fix like you think they are. You don't shit rainbows and kittens, at best you shit nuclear waste.
>>673290101
I never said you were normal you fucking dumbass. Obviously you're a fucked up little kid who can't take care of himself without his psycho mother's help even though she's directly contributing to your situation.
You're a fucking cuck
>>673287910
>manipulating bitch
Exactly. One of the worst aspects of bpd. These fucking cunts will destroy you if you let them.
We don't know the specifics of your situation retard.
>>673290670
>Implying I have intimate relationships
People with PTSD are such little girls
What are you afraid of? Some loud noises and lights? Fucking pussy
>>673288008
Yes. Yes you are and if you have an ounce of humanity in your fucked up personality, you'd leave whomever you're with and kill yourself.
>>673282227
Lost a 3 year relationship to that plus type b bipolar. Physical abuse isn't worth it bud, don't risk getting headfucked and dealing with shit. Get ready for ten time the hell if you decide to get married and have kids. Longterm thinking time anon - what kind of a family life do you want?
>>673290809
>Boohoo some pretty lady was mean to me and now I'm an expert on every person with bpd ever
Bitch please.
7/10 its not going to be worth it. Has she exhibited any toxic behavior yet? It really depends on how much she works at managing the illness and is aware of how it affects others. She needs to be very committed to getting better. I was diagnosed with it my sophomore year of high school, and was definitely in no place to be in a relationship at that time, or even up until my junior year. I can tell you that in my years of therapy (now a senior) its entirely possible that you can be in a healthy relationship as long as there is good communication between the two of you and you're both not emotionally retarded beyond that typical of the average human bean. Depends on your grill though. Ultimately your call. Under no circumstances should you ever feel obligated to be with her, and if you ever do, that's a red flag to run. Without looking back. Even if she threatens to kill herself.
>>673282227
If she's crazy, she can't consent. Stop raping her.
>>673290786
Oh, because MAYBE, my mother is a manipulative cunt who's practically controlling every aspect of my life. Just like she did with my fucking father.
You're another faggot who thinks it's so fucking easy to get out of abuse households and relationships. It's not that easy, it NEVER is. Go fuck yourself faggot.
>>673282227
do you love her?
if youre too retarded to answer that question then your relationship was kill anyway
>>673289968
Cringe
>>673291375
Sounds like your dad's a huge fucking loser just like you
Happy your mom got out of that okay.
>>673282318
For now...
>>673291392
trust me anon, it is not always enough.
I loved my ex, but I couldn't live with her. loving her gave her more power to hurt me.
>>673291375
You literally know your mother is manipulating you yet you choose to stay there. You're fucking pathetic in every sense of the word.
It is easy, pack your fucking shit, open the fucking door, and start new. It's a simple fucking thing to do you little whiny bitch.
You have two choices in your shitty life.
A: Get the fuck out of that shitty situation
B: Have the rest of your life fucked over because you chose to stay in that shitty situation.
I have no sympathy for cucks like you
![B_8Hq79U0AA4V02[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/9moju6C.jpg "B_8Hq79U0AA4V02[1].jpg")
>thread has become a place for the crazies to quarrel with each other about who's the worst
>>673291016
> such pussies
Coming from a dude who literally by definition of his disorder is a bitch.
Mine came from trauma, you're genetically flawed. Mine came from watching friends get killed. Big difference between watching a rekt webm and having your friend's brains splattered on you.
>>673291662
a romantic relationship requires two things:
you to love them
them to love you
if both these conditions are truly, genuinely met, you can conquer anything together. if there is something you cannt conquer, there isnt enough love on one side or the other to sustain it
>>673291016
> basement dwelling virgin
>>673291592
>>673291814
No wonder why third wave feminism is a thing.
>>673291984
Oh boo hoo. You got a little blood on you. You're such a fucking hero for saving them too btw. Nice job. You could have been noble and sacrificed yourself but no, you're a selfish little bitch who's now afraid of loud noises and bright lights.
BPD is irreversible doom. Not curable, not meaningfully treatable, and a life alone would be better than both being tortured and watching your BPD human gradually implode.
You cannot fix other people.
You cannot fix other people.
You cannot fix other people.
Get the fuck out and keep running. Medication is temporary at best and often backfires. Ignore those who contend it's a fix. They are in denial.
A long relationship with a BPD will leave you exhausted and destroyed. Been there, done that. It doesn't matter how intelligent you are, how good your social skills, how deep your understanding, you cannot fix bipolars.
Go forward, cut ties completely and live your life. Bipolars will devour your life. They cannot help it.
>>673292156
Top Zozzles
>>673291375
i got out of an abusive relationship one year ago. you are a retard.
1. pack shit
2. put packed shit in car
3. drive
it is fucking easy, youre just a fucking idiot. stop letting her ruin your life
>>673292194
What the fuck is 3rd wave feminism? You're either for equality or you're not. Quit fucking labeling everything like it's some new age trend
>>673291814
Anons dad probably sold him some sob story instead of owning up to being a useless faggot, and anon bought it.
Probably cause mommy wouldn't buy him the new COD.
It's awful. Get out. I had a gf with BPD and she bit a chunk of my arm. I ended up arrested for her random spaz attack. She had marks on her from me aggressively pushing her away so they said I was the attacker. The case was tossed out the next day once they saw her medical record and realized her story didn't ad up but it was so much shit and the bite was incredibly painful. Bottom line. They are uncureably crazy and will kill you in your sleep. Get out.
>>673292140
kek
I appreciate the romance novelesque thoughts anon, but unfortunately reality intrudes.
good luck with your 16th birthday tho
I have been there buddy.
It was really good for awhile, but then she just changed really suddenly. Then it'd get good again. Back and forth for awhile of great and shite then one day she just leaves a note on my stuff saying she wants to break up.
>>673292464
Don't even bother trying anon. These people are as thick as bricks.
>>673292199
Le ebic tuff guy meme XDXD
I dated a bipolar girl for 4 years who refused to take meds. I wanted to kill myself trying to love a crazy person. They have to help themselves or you have to leave for your own sanity
>>673292194
Why, because most men are bitchy little pussies?
>>673291244
You must be in the midst of an episode. Please do everyone around you a favor and kill yourself.
>>673292991
>Le edgy 4channer top kekzozzles
Do not stick your dick in this female again.
You will regret it.
Nothing good will come of a relationship with crazy bitches.
She will cut your dick off.
Now post nudes.
>>673292199
> sacrificed myself
You're just baiting now. But I'll bite.
Not much you can do for someone who took a bullet to center of the forehead and now part of their brain is on me and the other part is slowly oozing out their head. You watch people die violently in person, very different than your edgy shit saved on your computer.
Only certain noises
light has no effect on me.
>>673293151
Such edge much wow
>>673292496
i dont think you get it. nobody ever does, because generally the world is getting a shallower and shallower definition of love by the second. ill try to explain.
scenario: you believe you love her. she believes she loves you. you accept she is an individual human, she accepts the same. you both want for each other to be happy.
"life intrudes."
lets say it's her life thats "intruding". something is happening to her that you cant deal with. WHY can't you deal with it? if you love her, accept that she is an individual with her own life, why the fuck cant you deal? the answer is because you dont actually love her. you think you do, but you dont. if you did, you would deal.
>>673293151
Nah I'm good. Gonna ruin some lives instead.
Found this pic, thought youd like it
>faggot
>>673293406
>Not trying some of his brains
I don't have edgy shit saved on my computer. Nice try though
So what if I sneak up behind you with a cap gun? Are you gonna faint like a pussy?
>>673292444
trips dont lie
>>673292313
the problem is your obsession to "fix" them. they are what they are, you either stand by them or you dont. of course they arent fixable. that doesnt mean you should completely abandon them
>>673293637
it'd be more likely he'd kill you than faint.
>>673293637
You'd be in the same boat as my friend, large caliber round in your head.
>>673282318
It's schizoaffective.
You have a huge ego and no self esteem.
Die in a fire.
>>673286768
I was deeply in love with my bipolar wife, and she with me for twenty-four fucking years.
I stuck with her because she was the most amazingly versatile and talented woman I've ever known. She was a skilled aircraft and motorcycle mechanic, did professional bodywork and painting, renovated our homes for fun and when she was bored crocheted Victorian bedspreads out of thread. That's a SHORT list with no exaggeration.
I didn't identify her as being bipolar for a long time. She had PTSD from childhood sexual abuse by her white trash uncles. (Yes, PTSD is very real and many of my vetbros have it from combat stress.)
She drank since youth to cope and to sleep. Meds didn't work. We had good years and we had bad, but it got worse over time as her health declined from Lyme disease, post-Lyme syndrome, breast cancer and drinking to cope. I held her hand in hospice as she drew her last breath.
I am very strong but I could not do it again. I was committed for many years before shit stayed out of hand, but everything in the preceding posts by other Anons about the misery of BPD for those in the blast radius is fucking true.
My wife fought it hard and was the kindest person (when not raging, but anything could set her off) I've known among many. She still lost and so did I.
OP should run like his ass was on fire and feel no shame. They can't help it, but neither can you. You only have one life. Don't live it in that shadow. Just....don't...
>>673282227
She calls the cops on me and i end up spending a day in jail
Leave her because shes crazy stubborn
3 months she texts me we somehow get back together
I leave her again due to the same reasons
Several months later, she appears at my front door step and threatens to make a scene if I dont let her in
Cont.?
My girlfriend is bipolar and I'm going to marry her. Take that for what you will OP.
>>673295134
Continue.
>>673291984
POG detected
>>673293986
>>673294156
And then you'd be in prison like the cuck you are.
>>673295351
>Take that for what you will OP.
Translation:I am on the spectrum
>>673282227
Dump her asap. Borderlines are incapable of relationships.
>>673294893
>was the kindest person (when not raging, but anything could set her off)
This here.
They are kind as can be when not raging. Just don't know when that's going to end and them flip shit.
>>673295667
Two different people, and he'd most likely end up in a mental ward rather than prison. You would be dead, and he might actually get off on a PTSD deffense if it is well documented
>>673282227
I have paranoid schizophrenia. It's not bpd but with any mental illness it has an obvious effect on social relationships. It's up to you if it makes or brakes your connection, but I guarantee it will never be like an average relationship. There will be plenty struggles, but that doesn't mean that there won't be good that comes out of it. Ask yourself these questions not the internet.
>>673294893
This is a very touching story. I'm sorry you lost her.
Bpd is borderline personality disorder, though. They're different things.
>>673282227
Just did my term paper on this. Main characteristic of the disorder is inability to control emotion, extreme feelings of isolation / emptiness, and difficult and rocky relationship management. Your decision, but this is what you are up against.
>>673295667
What a fucking faggot you are anon. Like, legitimately. I'm glad you have a mental illness. Not everyone deserves it, but you certainly do. Enjoy being a pissy bitch you cunt
>>673295539
> One tour in Afghanistan
> Two Iraq
> implying I have a computer
>>673295667
Looney bin or just therapy.
Already had assault charges that became biweekly therapy sessions for a year.
>>673282227
Cont.
Ask her what she wants
She wants me and my number
Gave her A number that I use
Fast foward a month later
Eat her pussy and fuck her
She wants me to stay forever
>>673282227
As a person with this disorder, id just use her for as long as possible for free sex, discontinue feeling for her, and keep myself in the advantage position of using her disorder as a reason she is always wrong. Probably how she see's you cause i know i would
>>673295667
Stop embarrassing yourself please
>>673296895
He's bipolar. They're easy bait.
>>673293491
I cant deal with it because 'it' was several years of emotional and mental abuse. I could deal with it at first, but it accumulates.
Doesn't mean I didn't love her, but she had no control over what she was doing. I had to choose between us and me ever feeling happiness.
>>673295877
>>673296664
>>673296895
>>673296747
My fucking lord could you 4channers get any more sensitive?
>Real men don't get PTSD
>>673291847
>crazies
>all the posts on 4chan are done by one person
welp
>>673297334
edge lord detected
ITT: Trolls trolling teens with autism
>>673282227
Also, all indicators of the cause of BPD are hereditary. So the family is most likely the same way, and so would your potential children.
>>673292313
There seems to be som confusion here, and in this thread generally: BPD is borderline personality disorder. Bipolar disorder is its own thing. Are you interchanging the two, because this thread would be completely useless, down from almost completely useless.
>>673297645
Newfag detected
Learn to recognize bait.
femanon with BPD here, AMA
>>673297929
Did the diagnosis come from the prestigious WebMD, or are you just here for attention?
>>673297905
> recognize bait
Doesn't recognize trolls trying to troll each other.
>>673297929
Is what everyone saying true about being a manipulative bitch.
>>673298157
>Doesn't recognize this entire thread is trolls trolling trolls trolling trolls
>>673297334
Except thousands of war veterans. But you're much more fucking tough then them? What have you done again? Spent your life acting like a silly bitch and pretending to know shit about anything? Hmm, thanks for sharing you worm
>>673297929
How many of your family members also have BPD? How many do you believe have it but undiagnosed?
>>673282227
I dated a girl with BPD about 18 months ago. It wasn't even a serious relationship but it left me with a bunch of underlying issues that I only really tackled once I got more serious with my current girl. You might like her, you might have a good relationship at the moment, but she'll flip and ruin you. Especially if you're an emotional homie.
That's not to say it would never work - but unless SHE DA ONE fuck it off
>>673298301
You're on slash B slash trying to act serious.
Try again kid.
>>673298253
>The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
>Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
>>673297905
newfag detected.
Learn to recognize bait.
>>673298573
You just proved my point. Thanks
>>673298639
Newfag detected
Learn to recognize bait
>>673298692
> implying you had a point.
>>673298759
Newfag detected
learn to recognize bait.
>>673298133
Diagnosis came from an actual doctor. Was unofficially diagnosed when I was 12, officially last year.
>>673298174
I can be a reeeeeally manipulative bitch, yes. However, I am in control of it most of the time, and am getting better at controlling it through therapy.
>>673298370
None are diagnosed, but I suspect my mom and grandma have something similar going on.
>>673298854
> Le green text XD XD
>>673298571
>/b/ so edgy
I have the faggy thing about me where I occasionally act like an empathetic, adult human being. Teach me how to be cool like you, grownup.
>>673298902
Have you ever cheated? If so any sexy stories?
>>673298856
Bait recognize to learn
Detected Newfag
>>673283023
Honestly yeah, this bitch who I worked with when I was younger had borderline. Gave her a ride home. False statutory rape chargers cause she was 16 when I was 19. Eventually get's settled and she leaves me alone but way too close for me to ever suggest staying close near a girl like that.
>>673299186
> maximum trolling level
>>673299227
You said it, not me.
>>673283023
i had a GF with border she hit herself and acuse me of attempted murder
>>673299393
>>673283320
Girls are weird but you can usually connect one thing with another with them. They're bonkers but they don't just go off the handle all the time. If she's just changing shit up on you for no reason, just leave trust me you'll be better off.
>>673299520
Probably why I found myself typing it. You're so cool man
>>67329959
>The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood.
>Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
>>673299314
recognize to learn bait
newfag detect
>>673298902
I've read people with BPD often have intense feelings of loneliness / emptiness. Also common with BPD are unbridled fits of rage followed by guilt. Do these feelings persist after well after treatment? Do they become manageable? If so how long did it take?
>>673299279
Never cheated but honestly I would at the drop of a hat. I don't know if this is a me thing or a bpd thing though, sorry.
>>673299636
> maximum overkek
>>673299943
This describes me to a T. I only began treatment recently, so right now I'm more focused on trying to not let those feelings affect others.
>>673284276
Imagine it like this. You have a shit day at work and I mean shit. You're boss yells at you, you don't get performance you want, you get off late, you forgot you had to run some errands, you get home, and she doesn't comfort you at all. She might even snap at you irrationally. If you can stick through all of that shit fine, then you're good but know that's a lot of shit and it won't just get better one day.
>>673299895
Bait to learn newfag
Recognize detect
>>673300192
Thank you for the answers. Good luck on treatments and such!
>>673282227
Stop going on reddit lol jk
>>673283023
Can confirm also
>>673299950
So you'll help me with my cuckold fetish?
>>673300386
newfag to bait learn
recogectecd
>>673300581
Fag
>>673300452
Thank you!
>>673300553
Yeah I don't think my boyfriend would like that.
>>673282227
This just in: Psych diagnoses cause disorders!
We have OP here reporting on this breaking faggotry
>>673299846
You said it, not me.
>>673300861
new
>>673300937
thanks champ
>>673301100
Learn to fagbait
>>673300887
You said drop of a hat.
>>673301397
recognize to bait
nigger
>>673301533
It's a figure of speech.
>>673301762
Nigger Nigger Nigger
>>673301791
It's a speech of figure
>>673301922
Nigger Nigger Nigger
Nigger
>>673301958
You're just being a bitch.
>>673287516
Yep spoken like a bipolar cunt.... this Op will be just a taste of your life from now on.
>>673302078
I like penis.
>>673302243
Yeah!Ya do!
>>673302129
bitch you just are being
>>673302243
Damn autocorrect.
I love penis.
>>673302473
You're enjoying this game with me and can't even put out.
Also
> tits and time stamp
>>673282227
if you've dealt with her up to this point you're good
she's probably gonna start getting better from here now that she's been diagnosed and can actually start learning how to deal with the disorder
I had sex with her
http://flockdraw.com/8odstj
>>673302963
>being this stupid
Sage Goes in All Fields!
Op...... this thread.... all of it.... every last post, is a good representation of you future in your relationship.
bail or buckle the fuck up cupcake
>>673303160
> implying I don't already do that with all my posts.
>>673303398
Look who it is again, ID Heaven. I'm fed up with your shit faggot. The other day when you called me a newfag, yeah, haven't forgotten about that yet.
Fuck you I've been on here for months and probably get on here more than you anyways. Don't you know that you make yourself look like a newfag when you call others newfag?
Just because you learned how to hack your name and change it to "Heaven" does not give you the right to disrespect anyone at any time.
>>673303580
> I leave the basement on occasion.
>>673303953
>jokes on you i live in my mom's attic
>>673304130
I was talking about myself but ok.
If you get her pregnant, your life is over.
>>673301156
No no no, thank you my friend.
But in all seriousness, thank you for your service.
>>673303953
just so you know she left after
>>673301791
Anyone have a theory on what causes BPD? Like what, for lack of a better word, triggers it?
>>673305178
having a vagina
>>673302210
I have borderline personality disorder you dip.
Also, you're a huge faggot and you're just mad because you can't get anyone to fuck your sorry ass. Bet your dick is real skinny too.
run as far as you can in the other direction, I've delt with many it never has ended happily ever after.
>>673305178
Genes, childhood trauma, etc. Women and men both get it
My mom had it. My dad stuck with it. My dad got used to it, but she came up with new, inventive ways of trying to hurt him. She beat my brothers and I to get to him. It worked. They are divorced. Get the FUCK out of there, anon.
Game theory has a bid describing the ways Handsome Jack has borderline personality disorder. Who wouldn't want to date Handsome Jack?
>>673305240
kek
>>673306155
You, your brother and your dad are fucking losers. Go away you cuck
Mother had bpd, life was hell with her around. After decades of the mental and physical abuse I am honestly glad she divorced my dad and walked out of my life. It will only worsen with time OP, do yourself a favor and get out now.
GTFO yesterday. I married a BPD cunt. 8 years wasted. She attacked me with knives twice. Tried to wreck my car once. The crazy never stops. I spent 2 months in jail because of her. She claimed I beat her up after she broke my nose, tried to strangle me, ripped out a bunch of hair and kicked me in the nuts. If you're smart you'll leave. No pussy is worth the abuse and craziness that's in your future.
>>673282227
Dude op, I have 2 kids with a woman with BPD. GTFO before you have babbies, I'm stuck with this horrible human for the rest of my goddamn life and have subjected my children to a BPD mother.
GTFO!!!!
