How's life going without her /b/
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How's life going without her /b/
>>685161678
Its going.
We split in July of last year and since then, I haven't really had the desire to have another relationship. I've started going to the gym more often and running every morning before work. My band is going on tour in the UK for three weeks soon, so that'll be fun. Might look at getting a new car sometime later this year, as well.
Life is what you make of it, I figure. You can sit around complaining about you situation and how everything is pointless, or you can go out and make something out of yourself. Build a good life for yourself, that you can be proud of. You have to look at yourself every morning in the mirror; if you're not cool with the person looking back at you, how is anyone else supposed to be?
>>685161678
Ex-wife of 5 years.
First girlfriend from 7th grade.
2 year old son together.
Now dating an old mutual friend of ours.
>pic related
>>685161678
Well I've been drinking everyday since she left even though the booze makes me think of her more but I get a moment of bliss when I'm totally trashed and can't think at all
this thread is like salt in an open wound ...
joke's on you, never had a gf
When I die the family tree can safety be cut down and used as my coffin. My wife and son died in a car wreck three months ago..
Meh I only went out with her for 3 weeks so pretty OK actually
>>685161678
Lately it feels like she's been so cold towards me.
We use to hang out all the time and now everytime I ask if she wants to come over she says no. Her text messages use to be long as essays now they're just 'k' and 'lol'. We use to keep each other awake on Skype until the sun rises but now she just leaves without saying good night.
I think I'm done with her.
We were only together for 2 years, and have been apart for 5 months and I still feel pretty twisted. I loved her with everything I had, she didn't cheat, and neither did I. It was in the end self harm that tore us, nothing else, and to t his day that fact kills me inside. I will never not wish from the bottom of my heart that she fines help and absolute happiness.
It doesn't get better anon, but the feelings die after awhile.
Easy anon. Relationship about 10yrs. We broke. I'm 27 and she is 25. Now she is dating an 44yrs old ugly fag and I fuck a 19yrs old with perfect tits^^ everything is going to be awesome
>>685164115
Sorry anon, but sounds like she's not into it anymore .
Shitty. Sort of. But I'm making progress. We were together 6 years and have been apart for one year. She somehow met a britfag online and now they started a long distance relationship. I'm actually ok with her seeing someone else. I just feel like an idiot for ending it. And I feel like a failure for not being able to get her back and for not giving her the marriage etc she wanted.
>>685164115
Just walk away buddy.
>>685164558
Yeah I figured. Probably going to break it up for both of our sakes.
>>685164911
Why don't you ask her what is going on and how she feels about the relationship? Maybe there's an issue and she's trying to give you signals. At the very least she may tell you she's not into it anymore and you can have some closure.
>>685161678
Turns out she had herpes.
Didn't even fuck her.
Wanted to, didn't.
Conflicted beyond my current comprehension.
>>685161678
Cool with her sleeping wherever the fuck she wants. Picking her up at 7:30. Gonna bang all night if shes off her rag
>>685161678
Just man the fuck up faggot
can anyone give advice if it's the fucking opposite? been going through this for a month now and i feel like shit.
>>685165553
I have asked her a few times in the past months. She always tells me that nothings wrong and that nothing has changed but I know something has. All this time I was hoping she would move out of this "phase" and everything would turn back to normal but now I don't know if things will return to normal.
I'll talk to her again for sure just to see if anything has changed.
Pretty good I came home from work she was gone, my wife of 4 years had shacked up with a Romanian dishwasher, that was last Sept I haven't looked back I get wasted and fuck around with random girls I pick up from the local bar smash and dash
>>685163407
How old was your son anon?
>>685164115
Doesn't sound like a good friend, /b/eau. listen to the others, shut up your heart, and don't make contact with you. She's acting like you're not worth her time, so I'd say she's not worth yours.
>>685161678
Been friends for ages. Won't let me move out of the friend zone.
Suggestions?
>>685161678
Jokes on you ive never had a gf
You nigger
>>685163407
That's weird I got into a wreck 3 months ago while I was drunk and killed a mother and her kid
>>685163407
No fucking way. Where?
>>685161678
I feel like I'm not living, I'm just killing time. I've been unable to feel anything since. I'm dead inside. That was 9 years ago now. I want the old me back.
>>685164166
There's a Phoenix in your heart anon
>>685167839
just ignore her you fucking pussy.
>>685167892
wew lad, that kek was a little much
>>685167631
Seven months
>>685167793
This, so much this
>>685168344
As a father of 2 kids I can't even imagine what you're going through... I hope you can find peace anon
>>685162405
/thread
Eh, still think about dat ass. But honestly glad it ended because if i didn't things would've ended way worse.
Dat ass tho...
Caught feelings for my coworker. She's a sexy little mexican with a mean attitude, which is exactly how I like them. I always had a crush on her but she was dating some other asshole who ended up becoming abusive. After she left him, I asked out her a couple weeks later.
Her and I are talking but the problem I have with this chick is that I know she is dangerous. She is literally everything I look for in a female in terms of physical attractiveness and personality. Unfortunately, she is addicted to xanax. She was taking a shit ton of them daily and then she ran out of money and pills so she couldnt take them anymore and ended up having a seizure because of her withdrawl symptoms. her family sent her to rehab which is where she is currently. Shes done some shady shit to her exes even though they probably deserve it. And im not sure how trustworthy she is.
I tried to stop talking to this chick like 3 or 4 times already but then shell end up talking to me or wanting to hang out and ill fall in love all over again. I also happen to be a virgin, although we have had one sexual experience. Emotions are a bitch..
fucking awesome.
can finally watch anime without that bitch telling me its taking over my life.
now when thinking about it has destroyed my life.
well fuck that sitll got anime to watch.
>>685168961
I don't even know where to start man... One day I had everything I could have ever asked for and in an instant it's gone.. I keep watching videos of us on my phone until the battery dies. I wander around my house still expecting to see her on the couch watching her home repair shows or laying in bed. I stay up all practically all night listening to the baby moniter hopeing to hear him make some noise, anything. But it's quiet. It's always quiet in my house now....
Pretty much like this
>>685170553
Embrace it bro. Embrace the peace. Embrace the fact that you can now spend 24/7 doing what YOU wanna do, because YOU wanna do it. You can spend all of you time and money doing exactly what YOU wanna do. In YOUR house decorated how YOU like. You can watch what YOU want on tv, eat whatever YOU want whenever YOU want to.
Living alone is fucking awesome. Everything is where you left it and how you want it. Not one bit of stress, ever. I've lived with housemates, girlfirends and on my own in the past. I can't see myself ever wanting to cohabit with somebody for as long as I live.
>>685162405
Holy shit, didn't expect to get hit in the feels this early in the thread.
>>685161678
Lost my wife and son in a terrible incident a few years back. Life is meaningless without them.
>>685161678
100% focus on work, perfect wymin left me so now I just make money and I'll see after what I do
If I don't work enough I just want to cry all day long so... will keep working and try to forget her
>>685172126
You ever seen Reign Over Me?
>>685172126
What happened?
Idk man. Women seem wicked when you're unwanted.
Been doing a lot of heroin
>>685161678
not too well not too bad
been 3 years nearly, needed 2 of those to get over her
and am starting to think more and more a bout her since the thing with the last girl ended half a year ago
how time flies...
>>685172126
Your Miserary brings me joy. I hope they died slow
>>685172292
Cry? Fuck that bro. You keep stackin' that cash. Treat yourself to some nice small batch bourbon and some cocaine. Live a little. Fuck a hooker. You will soon forget about crying.
>>685170320
Thanks for the kek m8
Not good op
>>685172487
Edgy cunt. Kill yourself.
>>685172305
No why?
>>685172355
They were sadly killed in an air strike in my hometown. My father lived outside the city, and I thought we would be safe there. My son was excited. He could see the jets from the car window. I told my wife, "Don't worry. They're fighting in the city. We're miles from harm." And the dust cleared, and the screaming stopped. It took me two days until I found their bodies. My father still holding my wife and son in his arms...
>>685161678
Totally thought my life was over, and then I realized I've got so much going for me right now that there's no point in worrying about women from my past. Life is fuckin' great for me regardless. Plus I'm only 23 so my past is basically my retarded HS years.
The only times I feel really shitty are when I think of how I could have maybe treated a few of those girls a little bit better instead of acting like they were completely expendable.
Call me a faggot. I don't care.
>>685172487
Your edginess makes me cringe.. I hope you kill yourself soon
>>685172420
door
>>685172305
Just watch it bro
>>685172599
Fuck off back to tumblr summerfag
>>685162253
Very similar case, except phD in engineering instead of music tour, and gpa is 3.9 kek.
Makes me proud to see people like me instead of complaining. Well play anon and courage.
>>685172847
>>685172599
Samefag
>>685172478
bumping the thread
been thinking about getting back in touch with her
might text a mutual friend, althogh a year ago, when we talked, he said he didn't have as much contact with her as he used to so dunno
>>685171663
I don't want my single life, I want my old life. I want to hold my son again, I want to kiss my wife. All the material and superficial things never mattered to me. I just want my family back..
>>685172918
>summerfag
Oh boy here we go.
>>685171603
Movie?
>>685161678
>How's life going without her /b/
Pretty good, say hi to her for me, son.
>>685173152
500 days of summer
>>685161678
>implying there ever was a her
>implying that i look normal
>implying ALL women arnt shallow
>>685170553
Anon.. I wish I could at least buy you a beer.. I'm sorry about all that's happening to you
>>685173321
>/b/: the movie
>>685173127
Summer's arrived early for you hasn't it.
>>685173321
newfag
>>685173524
cancer
>>685163319
Haha, me too...
Starting to wonder if I dodged a bullet, cause I've heard of guys who fucking killed themselves over a girl.
Then again, that must have been pretty good if you thought your life was over once it ended.
>>685173540
summerfag
>>685162405
Holy shit man. I wish the best for you.
>>685173667
DICKS
>>685161678
Pretty good. Lots of time spend with friends the last 2 months. It was hard the first 3 weeks but after that I didn't care anymore.
Started dating again since 2 weeks ago and got another tinder date planned on Monday.
I'm able to live life again.
>>685173614
been there a few times m80. like this fag >>685173092
i've been blinded by love.
i didn't realise at the time i was much better off without those cunts. fuck wimmin.
>>685173611
Faggot. Did me saying mean things hurt your feeling. Take up feminism it'll be right up your street.
I bet most of the people calling others summerfags in here don't even know why they are calling them summerfags.
>>685161678
You only get one chance at real love anon. I ruined mine, and I could never find that kind of love again.
Many whores have passed, and I finally quit the search in 2010.
Now I'm fat, drunk, with an empty house and money, but nobody to share them with.
Any day now.
>>685173950
get away from my safe space you cunt
>>685174092
kek
>>685173970
>once upon a time /b/ was 'good'
>then summer came
>12 year olds on school holidays
>influx of newfags
>/b/ becomes 'shit
>butthurt oldfags keep coming back and bitching
Fuck off oldfag. /b/ is for the newfags now. You are the cancer.
GTFO my /b/!!
>>685174085
Hello me.
>>685172652
Must've been tough watching them Avengers get away.
thinking about who? life going perfectly fine
>>685174266
>>685166535
what?
>>685174209
Samefagging your post
How do you /b/ros deal with mixed signals?
>>685161678
Absolutely perfect.
>>685174085
Well... that's all reversible.
True love is a myth, just find someone who you can stand to be around most of the day and have a relationship with her.
You will overcome.
Also, DON'T GET MARRIED.
The deck is stacked against you if you do.
>>685174470
yup
Only kissed and slept with one girl one time one night in August of last year, never had a relationship or anyone(that i know) whos ever liked me. Ive been alone so long i cant comprehend what a relationship is like or what it entails so ive givin up on even trying theres too much wrong with "ya boi" for anyone to want to be with me and i wouldn't subject someone to being with me anyways so i guess its bitter sweet idk i cant feel all that much so idk what to think anymore
>>685174500
Rape
>>685174500
ask for a clear answer
>>685174500
With chloroform
>>685174767
Zing
>>685174719
I did. I asked her to be blunt. All I got was more mixed signals, and she hasn't changed her attitude or actions one bit.
>>685173395
I just want to wake up.. I want everything to be normal. They were everything to me. I.. I.. Just don't know what to do anymore I'm completely lost..
>>685174085
>You only get one chance at real love.
Yes, but the thing to think about is, if they don't stick with you, it wasn't real love. Meaning your chance at real love is still out there.
So anons, have hope, if you believe in real love. Cause, it's there. There's always someone for someone.
>>685174904
bitches aint shit
>>685175034
>faggot
>>685175081
I've been trying to tell myself that. It seemed like it was starting to come true, but now I'm back in the same pitfall.
>>685172487
hows middle school?
pls seppuku faggot
>>685174719
The only real, non-edgy response. Also, you could just continue playing as yourself and wait to see which signal begins to outweigh the other.
>>685175286
Isn't it sudoku?
>>685175137
Oh look, a kissless. How's life for you, mate? For that matter, what are you even doing in this thread?
>>685161678
going to her place tomorrow
fucking all week end long
>>685175318
Yeah. Someone gave the advice to just not play the signal game and choose to opt out. They said that eventually she'll get sick of it and tell me that she's interested, if she really is.
>>685175589
Pretty much. If you act upon it, you have every chance to fuck it up.
Pretty bad actually, started taking anti axienty pills since I broke up with my gf of 2 years 5 months ago, now I can't feel anything, all I do is play csgo all day long
>>685175829
Reason for break up?
she left me for a Korean guy
>>685175977
She cheated on me
>>685175712
What happens if in the end she's jus too shy or whatever bollocks to tell me? Is her interest just not worth it if it's not strong enough to get over herself?
>>685175829
I know how you feel. I started taking them not too long ago too. My social anxiety is still there and I have no motivation to do anything anymore. Also still thinking about my ex that walked out over 4 years ago. I've had other girlfriends since but I always thought about her instead.
>>685176135
At least you didn't stay to give her another chance like most poor dumbasses do. Kudos to you man.
>>685176316
Pretty much the same, but at the time that I was with her I used to go out and have fun, and now I lost all my friends I don't even know how to be social anymore
>>685174085
Money doesn't buy happiness,
money buys things that makes you happy,
go pay a migit to dress like a leprechaun and walk around the city shouting at people with a bottle of whisky in his hand.
Imagination is important
>>685175033
Seek help anon, therapy.. Support groups in your area.. It's not easy I know.. But you don't have to go through this alone.. Nothing can bring your family back.. And time certainly doesn't always make it less painful.. But maybe you can find closure and peace of mind somewhere.
My best wishes to you anon..
>>685176265
If by that point, you do see her feelings for you are stronger, then act, casually. Don't scare the girl. I was in a similar scenario back in school. It took a third friend who saw that we liked each other to urge us toward it. I was actually a bit shy myself. But, I finally jumped on the chance and asked her. She was practically like "fuck yeah!" without saying it like that.
>>685176135
That's a good reason. That means, alls you gotta do is remember that she's now a bitch. You'll move on, dude. Smoke some weed, drink a beer. You'll be good.
>>685176940
Thanks anon, means a lot
>>685176660
I know how you feel guy. That's the exact same situation I'm in right now. I'm kinda glad I'm not the only one.
We've been together on and off for 7 years. She just kicked me out today. It's my birthday.
Now my self esteem is ruined and I can't even flirt with girls properly.
Fuck that bitch.
>>685175372
no you're thinking of some weird Islamic chess game
>>685175503
It doesn't help m8
>>685176954
There was a proxy at one point that urged us together, but times have changed, I guess. Got any advice for what happens if she starts shutting her feelings down because she thinks I'm not interested because I'm acting "normal" again? Can I just not do anything at that point?
Dubs=hitler thread
>>685177212
The only advice I have for you is exactly what you said: fuck that bitch. Realize that if she treated like that, then she's an asshole, and doesn't deserve you.
>>685177322
That's not what I meant by acting casual, man. Show that you have feelings for her. Get 'accidentally' close. Subtle shit like that.
>>685177384
Sorry, Hitlerbro, today's not your day.
>>685161678
Pretty fucking great, actually. We were together for 3 years.
It sucks cause I loved her, but she got somewhat abusive around the 2 year mark, so when we broke up I just stopped talking to her.
I managed to repair some of the friendships I lost due to her, and I've started dating a new girl for about 2 months now. Finished this year at school with a solid GPA, and got a new job for the summer. Life's looking good, for now.
>>685177644
Alright, man. Thanks for the advice. Sorry for being a wreck
/b/: Full of rekt threads, nudes of exes and pics shouldn't be shared, cancer, and love advice.
>>685177814
not him but dont feel sorry for yourself. just love yourself. I want everyone to love themselves. It's something I cant grasp. Maybe I used too, I would be able to remember now anyhoo.
>>685161678
Didnt even date her.
She just one day stopped talking to me and started dating someone else.
Its been 3 years now...
Im dead on the inside
>>685178186
Feeling sorry for yourself is one of the worst things you can do. Instead of whining and moaning, make a plan. It'll get you on the right track and really help out with problems.
I had the literal girl of my dreams and I had to slowly strangle our relationship to death. I cant smoke pot but at least I have my guns... Sucks they cant love u back
>>685178458
10/10
>>685177814
Just remember, if shit doesn't end up working out (you gotta prepare for this possible chance), just don't end up being like >>685178243
It won't do you any good.
>>685178120
Thanks for reminding us. I almost forgot.
>>685165555
>>685172487
You're a fucking dick. End of story.
>>685166666
We got divorced maybe 7 months ago while I was in the brig. She said she wanted to start her life already and I agreed with her. She got everything we owned because I let her take it. I have no use for things if they are not things that we share. We still talk on the phone and text everyday. She's living in Oregon with her ex boy friend and my best online friend. She's happy because she's taken care of but he sucks in bed she says. He cums way too fast and she's left to try and satisfy something I knew how to handle and handle well. I miss her everyday and hope that when my parole is up we can try and get back together. To show her I'm not the person now that I was before I got sent away. It's just going to be hard to prove I can be trusted again.
Decently, Morgan was my side bitch still think about her but whatever I can't be catching feels on hoes
It's tough. We were together for 7 years, been apart for 2 years as of tomorrow. She's been seeing someone else for more than a year and he is extremely jealous and doesn't let us have any contact whatsoever. A month or two ago I got a text from her in the middle of the night, saying how we were such a big part of each others lives and if I ever needed anything she'd be there for me. I said I would obviously do the same; trying to be civil after two years apart ya know?
Going through some shit recently with work, and sent her a text asking if we could talk about it. Still haven't heard back..
All I can say is as much as it still hurts and how much you miss her, there is a light at the end of the tunnel. I took my time to drink and be alone in my sorrows after we broke up, a lot longer than I thought. But things get better /b/. I loved the goddamn shit outta that girl, but if it didn't work out than it was for a reason. Sure, I still think me + her could get back together and sort out the differences one day, but for now she seems to be happy with her new guy. Nothing I can do to change that. As much as she was the favourite thing about me, I still have her in a way. Old letters, keepsakes, pictures that I bring out every once in a while to remind myself of the person I've become because of her. If we never end up rekindling or crossing paths again, she'll always be a piece of who I am, and for now that's enough for me.
>>685170553
God dammit. I wasn't expecting all these feels, anon.
thought I might drop some positivity
2 years ago, I got brutally dumped by my oneitis. I'm not much of a robot and fairly sexually successful. I simply was not mentally prepared to be done that brutally.
Essentially, the week of our two year anniversary she cheated on me, left me for said guy, blamed it all on me (no its not you its me for this bitch) absolutely shat on me.
this was after 2 years of emotional maniuplation and my self esteem being at the bottom. i was lost, suicidal, losing my mind.
2 years later, I'm in the career I've always wanted (network engineering) I'm in the best shape of my life and I'm in the most fun least drama relationship I've ever been in.
it really can get better, brah, but you have to 100 percent fight off the depression, fight off the mania, and fight for a good life.
>>685167839
ask her to set you up with a friend of hers