If your healthy weight girlfriend started putting on weight and became overweight, would that make you less attracted to her?
>>768402193
yes
Yes, I'd help her lose weight and become fit.
>>768402193
I'd quietly encourage it and enjoy watching her get a fat belly.
>>768402193
If that behavior isn't indicative of what I know to be her normal behavior, then I would be more interested in understanding what's going on with her before reserving judgement. It's pretty unusual for a woman to put on enough weight to change my opinion of her without something going on with her. If she's willing to deal with it, then I would be supportive of her. But if she doesn't give a shit, it's hard for me to. I would be less attracted to that attitude than simply a weight gain. A woman's weight fluctuates given a lot of different factors, hormones, menstruation, etc. I guess what I'm trying to say is it depends.
>>768402193
At first would be concerning, I'd ask about her wellbeing as gaining weight could mean depression; if non is involved then yes not only physically but also mind wise, the weight gain means her activities are changing towards those I dislike.
>>768402193
yeah, and I'll tell you why. Because the minute I choose to change something about myself that attracted her to me, like how much money I make, and how much vidya I play, she'll become less interested in me. So if she got fat, it would be the same for me. Women are hypocrites like that.
>>768402193
if you shouldnt then you never were attracted to her psychique anyway
Only if it got to the point where it begins to affect her ability to do things or her self esteem. A little extra meat wouldn't bother me. I'd probably enjoy the bigger tits/ass assuming she wears it well.
>>768402193
Yes
>>768402193
hypothetically, yes.
>>768403507
>t. sissy hypno
>>768402193
unless you're a fat lover, that kind of change would always lessen physical attraction
you may still love her tho
>>768402193
Yes
>>768402193
>my gf
Let me sto you right there bud
>>768402193
Yes. I wasn't attracted to a landwhale when I first started dating, why should that change now.
I'll still love her but attraction would drop harder than dubstep
>>768403166
reminder
implying i have a girlfriend
>>768404279
well, only when someone gains a certain wealth, may it be money, power or looks will you learn something about their true nature
looks like the poor fellow fell for a whore
>>768404279
that happend to me irl
>>768404208
You're going to introduce him to Star Trek Online?
>>768404682
where you the one getting dumped or the dumper?
>>768402193
Yes, I'd dump her if she put on more then 20 lbs and didnt attempt to get back in shape promptly
>>768402193
yes.
gluttony and complacency aren't exactly prize-winning traits for a healthy relationship.
>>768403507
nice dude, it seems like you sure know a lot of stuff
>>768402193
Depends on the proportions and how she'd look. My girlfriend has an awesome figure despite being unfit as fuck, but if she packed a little weight and the chub just made her look cuter, I'd deal with it. But if it didn't, or if it was just escalating into something worse, I'd get that thot on a treadmill daily.
It's not like anons preferences changes just because the weight of gf changes
does the pope endorse the rape of young boys? of course
>>768404279
Tbh the guy on the left looks cooler. Guy on the right is wearing shit clothes and is particularly attractive
>>768405541
But it does
>>768404279
Chads get Staceys.. If you wanna get a real girl that's worth having around, go bear mode.
>>768402193
yes
>>768402193
Yes. Fat girls make my dick soft.
>>768403083
/thread
>ITT: lard loving americunts
Define "healthy weight" first.
I've actually broken up with a long time gf because of this. She gained probably 80-90 lbs over the course of the relationship and actually became offended when I suggested diet and exercise. Fuck fatties.
>>768407192
Not morbidly obese???
No, because she's asian and fat asians are oddly hot.
>>768402193
Yes of course. Take fucking care of yourself if you want me to also take care of you. I fucking expect the same of myself. If i dont take care of myself, why would she?
>>768404279
You juat made me go mgtow.
>>768404279
Yup, this shit is real. I don't play that build a bitch workshop. Get em while they are hot and don't spend your time trying to fix them.
I like me a little chub. My girlfriend is fat though. She lost about 60 pounds when we got together, now she's starting to put on weight again. Fairly unattractive.
>>768402193
Of course. Fat is almost as unattractive as shit colored skin.
White and slim FTW.
I have left women for this, so obviously yes.
The irony is I find chubby chicks attractive, but I just wanna know what I'm signing on for.
Before some dumbass says I wouldnt like it if the tables were turned, I wouldnt like it but I would accept it
>>768409311
Men are ostracized for even being a few pounds over the "athetletic look". Even back in elementary school, men had to be athletic and not fat to be attractive, and that is what those women were told as well and grew up being told the same.
It is only recently women are allowed to be fat ("MY BODY MY CHOICE") while men are still held to the same old standard.
If she become thiccer than a bowl of oatmeal
>>768409936
Big differentce between thicc and just fat
>>768409920
I already knew that the modern (post-50s) socialization for women as being on a pedestal of attention is bad for them but thanks for the confirmation.
My sister is 52 and even she is an absolute attention whore loser but I guess she's at least in shape.
>>768409920
Men are ostracized for being under 6ft, something they have no control over.
>>768410237
And at the same time they are like "I CANT HELP IT IM GENETICALLY FAT I COULD RUN 100 MILES IN ONE DAY AND I WOULDNT LOOSE A SINGLE POUND"
But the girls that are like that are the shallow cheating types as well. They arent by any means the representation of women as a whole. You may find more of them on social media dating apps because they dont have any other place to turn too...
>>768410237
But they're right. Short men are inferior
>>768402193
yes because i love her and want her to be as healthy as possible.
>>768410237
>niggers and landwhales
So people you wouldnt even be interested in in the the first place lol
>>768410237
I know it's cool to trash women and all but can you blame nature and evolution for making females want the best male they can get ?
>>768410976
What prevents a high T 5"5' guy from impregnating and birthing 10 children?
When the 6"8' has low t and cant get you pregnent often only birthing 2 children?
>>768402193
You god damn better believe it
>>768411066
I can't see a 5'5 guy getting any action, unless there's fame or a lot of money involved.
>>768411317
And yet they do...
>>768411509
Much less often and usually right at the lower end of the scale, manlets and prime pussy don't go together. The tall men with the good genes get the top women and pass on their superior genetics while the short men sometimes get the dregs and are allowed to procreate because we live in a civilized society where we let the weak breed.
>>768412101
You're showing extreme outliers with shalow women who's only source of men is from social media apps, which is a very small percentage of use. Normal men and women go to bars and arent landwhales. People on social media apps have 1 exact set of requirements and they will only accept that one set of requirements instead of basing their attraction on the personality of the person, something you cant get from an app and text messaging.
So again you're posting outliers and statistics prove your false assumptions wrong
>>768412430
Well it's a fact women go for tall men, it's a built in biological drive, no woman dreams of having a manlet on her arm, no they want someone who can protect them and make them feel safe, tall men fulfil this desire.
"70% of women say a man 'wouldn't stand a chance' if he was under 6ft"
>http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2344324/Men-dont-stand-chance-women-6ft-Bad-luck-Tom-Cruise-Daniel-Radcliffe-Jack-Black-Seth-Green.html
>>768412976
>thinking dailymail is a citable source
BAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAH
Here is actual quantitatice research that proves otherwise.
ALSO, it is just women saying they wouldnt date someone under 6ft, not that there arent women who do. Shallow women will focus only on their height and nothing else(well maybe money).Not the mans reflective abilities
>url has celebrities nams in it, women will never have a shot with said celebrities, this further invalidates your link faggot
use an ACTUAL source faggot
"In conclusion, we have shown that all previously documented preference patterns for partner height are at least qualitatively realised in actual pairings. We note, however, that compared to random mating the magnitude of these effects was generally low, suggesting that mating preferences were only partially realised. These results are in line with a recent study that showed that traits considered strongly related to attractiveness, such as height, are not necessarily strongly related to actual pairing"
~https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3546926/
>>768413307
The shit you manlets will spout just to curb your insecurities is fucking hilarious
>>768413307
It's more than lack of sexual partners:
>If you're 6 feet tall, you probably earn about $6,000 more than the equally qualified 5-foot-6-inch"
>an extra inch of height can be worth an extra $1,000 a year
http://edition.cnn.com/2007/US/Careers/02/02/cb.tall.people/
http://www.slate.com/articles/arts/everyday_economics/2002/03/short_changed.html
>manlet glass ceiling
>90% of CEO's are above average height, only 3% are "manlets"
http://www.jonathanrauch.com/jrauch_articles/height_discrimination_short_guys_finish_last/index.html
>We found a twofold higher risk of suicide in short men than tall men
http://www.cbsnews.com/news/height-and-suicide/
>Dr David Frederick, a psychology professor at Chapman University in California, said: 'These findings confirm that height is relevant on the mating market.
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-3255040/Sorry-gentleman-size-DOES-matter-Short-men-fewer-sexual-partners-taller-peers.html
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-biggest-lies-in-online-dating/
tl;dr
6K less annually.
1/10th the chance of advancing you career relative to and average/tall person
2:1 suicide rate to tall & average men (while only being 33% of the male population)
less chance of finding love
>>768413453
I'm 6"5' faggot
>>768413563
>none of my sources hold actual scientific data
>>768413563
This may or may not be correct, but friendly tip anon, linking CNN as a source on any subject is the quickest way to discredit yourself
>>768413728
>angry manlet detected
lol
Actually I prefer that she has a good amount of fat. Im not attracted to skinny girls and wouldn't want my girlfriend to be skinny. Especially not muscular or "fit." To me chubby/fat is a good thing. Big tits, fat ass, jiggly legs turn me diamonds. As long as her belly doesn't go past her tits then I'm all for fattening her up without actually telling her of this.
