HELP ME PLEASE, I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO WITH MY MOTHER'S BF
last month my mom's new bf, a 37 years old black man, came to live in our house with my mother, me and my 14 years old sister.
they dated for like 3 years and i think soon they'll get engaged.
he's a very rude guy, he's unemployed so basically my mother work to feed three people ("my bitch" "shut up" are the sentences he usually use with my mother, sometimes he slap my mother's ass in front of me or my sister) and act like the owner of the house.
he usually says that i look like a "retarded frog" or he call me "frogface", "mozzarella and cheese" and he call me "the whitey that live in my house" when his (loudy) friends come over.
my mother seems really in love with him and when i tried to speak about it with her she said that i had to accept him and the fact that he's not like my father.
what should i do to stop this?
i'm very sick about all of this situation
You have to man up OP. I don't know how old you are, but what you need to do, is get yourself a job, an own place, and leave with your sister. This probably will take years, so you have to bear with it. It is mentally challenging, getting out of such situation, but I know you can do it OP.
i'm 17 years old, i can't go anywhere now, i'm still in highschool.
he's very a stressing situation he says that i couldn't even beat up his sister (she has some mental retardation or down syndrome, i don't know) and that my face looks like a pizza that was thrown on the floor.
sometimes he steal my moneys, i don't know to do what since my mother pays everything he wants
sorry about your dad man. I was actually in a similar situation in HS. Mom's 3rd husband was a good for nothing, let's make a child and live on welfare guy. Last few years of mine was listening them argue every single fucking day. almost without exception. I feel sorry for my little brother who was born from my mom and this guy. So I decided to go study in a university, and get myself a good job after that.
For your situation, this would be a solution on the long run. But right now? I don't really have an advice unfortunately.
he once said that my sister in two or three years will be a "very nice bitch" and that one of his "fams" is already planning to date her.
also when him and my mom get laid i can clearly hear them having sex even if our bedrooms are on different floors, i think he does it on purpose
Don't be a pussy, I moved out of home when I was 17 and still in highschool because my mother's boyfriend pissed me off. It was fucking awesome. I was the only person my age with a place so everyone wanted to go there. Shit was cash
Fuck him in the ass.
Next time you see him, just bend him over the counter and thrust your dick in his ass.
You will automatically be the Alpha male of the house and he'll leave you alone.