Cheating bitch advice please.
So my /b/ros, my gf is talking to a hench fucking dude on f/b she met at a pub last week and she left her self logged the fuck in when she was round mine, so i cracked those puppies open.
she has been basically pretending i don't exist and that she has recently had a break up (we havent) and she claimed, to me, everything was perfect with us 2 hours ago when i went question time.
We work at the same place, everyone where we work,plus her family all adore me and have no idea about these messages or feelings.
Need Advice.
have nudes, and some messages screenshotted from earlier
you're actually a cuckold kek
Just dump her bro and move on with your life
Trust is hard to come by these days eh?
Just straight up ask her about it. But I mean no matter what she says it won't justify her shitty actions lol
Dump her /b/ro. The moment the relationship loses trust, there's no longer any hope, and she ruined it by herself.
No second chances, it'll come back to haunt you later down the road. And if you give her a second chance, any future relationship with anyone else might think she can do it too cause you forgave your ex for it.
She’s gonna do it to you shes gonna do it to him. So yeah... bring home some flowers and confront her.
How long you been together?
>>768895766
Don't even bring flowers
>>768895815
Its to cover the fact he has accessed FB unauthorised and is technically on the wrong side of the law. Also, it might make her melt and not follow through. Trust me.
>>768895774
6 months
most recent messages
>>768895760
Not to mention he will probably always be wondering who she's hitting up/if she's hitting another guy up and it will cause nothing but problems
>>768895936
drop this bitch mate
>>768895885
is there actual violations of me screenshotting her chat history logged in on my pc..?
>>768896001
yeah i plan to, but i need to know how.. is it worth making her suffer for it or am i gonna shoot myself in the ass?
>>768895936
Well shit.
She is shopping.
>>768896015
I think you’ll be fine but she won’t be and will use the breach of trust on your part to validate her leaving you and well, that sums it up. 6 months is nothing, move along. I take back what I said about the flowers, thats not a flowers worth- thats contempt for you she is showing.
God damn.
>>768895936
Break up. Only been 6 months it's not worth the investment and wasting your time. Get out now before you're in too deep
>>768895936
previous messages,
Was thinkingof friending this guy and "warning" him to ruin their chances..
Drop her name and FB link. Let us handle it. Pack your bags and walk out.
>>768896058
Don't bother just drop her and move on
Fuck. I straight up play with my gf doo doo to nut
>>768895936
I mean if it's only been 6 months and she's already hitting up another guy, drop the hoe
>>768895936
Done. Move on.
>>768896282
The xxxx after every message is cringe worthy top.
Damn dude. I'm sorry to say it dude, but
>>768895638
you can clearly tell from the chatlogs that she's shopping my guy, dump that bitch
Im 25 i need to stop coming on 4chan
Bunch of juvenile 14yr olds and you all talk like niggers fuck
You must have some habits she doesn’t like in a man, such as using 4chan and being stuck to the computer instead of making extra coin or putting a house over her head.
The next one will be better OP, learning learning learning pal.
>>768896436
>>768896436
oh no doubt, She has few female friends, and she loves them to peices, but they also all adore me.. is it worth showing them or am i going to look like too much of a cuck..
I am going to end it, i just need ideas.
>>768895532
here is some advice to every girl you meet pump and dump rinse and repeat
>>768896501
Not OP. I score over 150 on the robot test.
I have authority to say OP is probably a faggot.
>>768896559
either that or i don't look like a fucking quaterback
>>768895532
Do you love her enough to let this slide or is she nagging and arguing and bossing you around like a bitch?
If so you should probably dump her ass.
Have you been mean to her, have you done something you regret doing to her, is something with you actually wrong?
If so she should probably dump your ass unless you correct the situation somehow.
>>768895760
>>768895999
I had a girl cheat on me one time. The relationship was never the same and I left three months later. You'll constantly be wondering if she's where she says she is, you'll be wondering who she might be texting, and you'll constantly be trying to figure out why she did what she did to begin with.
Honestly OP, if you can't do a clean break overnight, I highly suggest that you get the ball rolling as soon as possible. Contact an attorney if you're married, be ready to move out if needed, things like that. Also OP, I highly suggest that you get tested for STDs if you've been having unprotected sex with her. You may not be showing signs, but it's better to know than not know.
All the best.
>>768896580
They will take her side and warn her, don't even bother
>>768895532
Sorry but if you haven't dumped her yet you are a waste of oxygen
>>768896580
i mean if they're HER friends that also like you you're never gonna show you some shit that'll make them turn against her, and secondly you shouldn't give a fuck about it
just dump the unfaithful cunt and if her friends ask what happened to you and still wanna remain in contact show them the chatlogs etc and then you can tell them, but running to them with the evidence after dumping her is pretty autistic
>>768896058
The worst thing you can do to a woman is ignore her. Drop her, take your shit and leave and never say why and dont contact her again.
I would just contribute to the conversation. You're leaving her anyways. Tell her to come get her shit and leave in the chat as her. Call her out.
>>768896647
Ok, thats going to such for her but, lets think ahead- it’s over man. You can come back on 4chan when you’ve got yourself established as a bread winner and dope wizard of manly things first. God speed anon.
>>768896629
actual op, potential for that, but this is not the point, point is getting some petty payback .. maybe show her with her parents around..? (she is 21 and loved by them)
for ultra cuck - "pick my sister up" code for, with me, being gently questioned.
>>768895532
>>768896792
Message that guy from her chat and ask if he has a truck to pick up all of her shit
>>768896653
I have literally done nothing to cause this, (not just me seeing myself high and mighty), she openly admits im amazing to her, also decent enough in bed to tell her friends
Just do what any sensible person would do and post screenshots of her conversation to Facebook and tag her in it. Call the bitch out. What's she going to do? Who cares?
>>768897029
Haha shamed
>>768897029
we are both employed at the same place, managers and alike will see it and it will be gossip of the fucking century for this shithole, may lose job and alot of mutual friends..
>>768896058
Ghost her. Take a day off, get all your shit out and go. Don't tell her why, don't respond to any texts or calls. Nothing will fuck her up more
>>768896896
I vote for this. Message the guy as her, explaining everything, drop the address to him and have him grab her shit. You move it all on the street, he realizes he doesn't want a whore, she comes home to no man on either arm and all her shit out in the rain.
>>768896890
Ya know some people just don’t gel and it takes some about 6 months to figure that out. I’d recommend you keep it mature and don’t show yourself up as a massive insecure tool. Know when the game is up and move on. Word of your potentially immature actions won’t shine too brightly on you to other potential mates in the locality. Don’t fuck it up for your future self. Be an adult.
>>768896890
I don't think her parents will care, it will probably just make you look shitty to them. At the end of the day its their daughter lol
>>768897109
Just do it. Shame her, make a bitch realize they can't be fucking around. Post proof.
I mean....? She's the one who dated a coworker and cheated on him. It's her own fault. It's not your problem. Either they feel bad for you or they aren't your friends.
>>768897195
you're assuming the other guy would care and isn't a pathetic sad cunt. look at the way he talks to her.
>>768897142
And if she plays the victim card, then post the conversation
>>768897264
not a coworker, i even see messages from her to her girly fuckbuddies(also at work) that she is worried about me thinking something is wrong, when it isnt (but it clearly fucking is)
>>768895532
kill her.
>>768897334
Yeah you are right. The guy would show up regardless.
Fuck man those messages are cringy.
Op needs to get out and do shit for himself for a few months.
>>768897394
Found the incel
>>768897334
Guy thinks she's single though
>>768895532
Get rid of her mate, it's a matter of time.
Tell her the truth about why, if she denies it, just look at her like a parent looks at a stupid child.
Then later if she tries to act like you're all paranoid and shit, block her, post the proof online and be done with it.
>>768896896
I'm 100% for this. You need to let this guy know that she's still living with her fucking boyfriend and messaging him. It might not even be worth it because he probably just wants to fuck her. I tell him to come her her shit. Let's see how committed to get laid.
>>768897142
good fucking idea, unless she is actually just planning to leave and then be true to what she has told this guy, "recently been through a break up" in which case it would be an excuse for her.
>>768897436
Let's say you are a half decent guy who doesn't enjoy sluts.
>Call me a faggot
I prefer a woman that doesn't run around and do shit like this. If I were the other guy, didn't know tmshe was in a relationship, and op said he was her BF, I'd drop it all.
Also OP, if the guy doesn't know you are with her, don't take your anger out on him.
>>768896896
op approves, considering this.
you know by posting her nudes it isn't really doing anything? oH WOW MORE GUYS WILL THINK SHES HOT AND LIKE HER WOOPITY
Post nudes of the hoe
Don't come near me or my wife's boyfriend's son ever again.
>>768895532
Read all those messages. Christ she's a ho. Also you sound like a fellow antipodean so I'm automatically on your side anyway. I say fuck with her. Also get in touch with the dude she's talking to once the cat's out of the bag. You probably have no sympathy for the cunt but he doesn't know he's doing anything wrong or what he's getting himself into.
>>768897570
good advice anon, thankyou
this is a legitimately solid advice thread
So, OP, I guess there's nothing about her facebook profile that'd indicate she's dating you? No pictures, no posts about things you do together, nothing that'd clue this guy in?
I'm not buying it. I don't think you're her boyfriend. Pretty sure you're just some friendzoned stalker that doesn't want her dating some guy she actually likes.
>>768897606
no but it does actually bring interest, the price i must pay for solid info.
>>768897604
Please God do it. Post screenshots. I have to know how this ends. I was about to go to bed, but I'm too emotionally invested in this now.
Just friend the guy on Facebook. Don't say anything, just let her see the little notification that you're now friends, and she can stew on that for a while.
>>768897751
You still need to prove your point and let her know she can't play this game, or you will be letting the next guy get fucked with.
You need to shame her, and publicly, because if you just confront her or leave you can be played off as the bad guy.
Tell the dude to come get her shit, post the conversation, packer her shit up and change locks or leave, depending on who's name is on the lease or deed.
>>768897795
i haven't used facebook for over 2 years, that shit is just annoying
>>768897795
Oh shit.... I didn't think about this. That dude HAD to have gone through her bio and pics.
>>768897795
Not everyone is an attention-seeking faggot who displays their entire life on facebook. My wife's the first person I've ever bothered changing my relationship status for.
let the other dude know when you're done with her and out of the situation
with some luck he'll drop her too
if you play it right she wont even know why
If you live together: destroy/defecate on everything she owns.
Else if you have nudes: post them here/on craigslist/wherever else with her personal info
Else: find a slut with an std. Capture some of her cunt juices and smear them on the outside of a condom right before sex.
Fuck cheating sluts
>>768895532
drop her and dont tell her why. maintain the power and act like you dont need her. itll drive her crazy
>>768897795
Not entirely abnormal lol some people don't share every aspect of their life
>>768898009
>Not everyone is an attention-seeking faggot who displays their entire life on facebook.
Very true. Some facebook users are male.
>>768897978
She's claiming to be fresh out of a relationship - the dude would have assumed OP is just the ex.
>>768897978
>>768897795
there are some pictures from like fucking feb this year of us together but not much since, she doesnt use it so much either, besides now.
>>768897914
And she said they JUST broke up, still could have posts etc and not "deleted them"
>>768897855
they hath been checked
>>768897570
faggot
>>768898133
Yeah, almost seems like she got super lucky or has been building and planning around this lie.
>>768898202
Finally. Thanks
>>768897855
Right I want to leave but too invested now
>>768898209
not luck. shes smart. even if he confronts her i would be willing to bet she manipulates at least most of the people at work against him anyway. something that suddenly did to her that made it okay.
This thread is bait to make us hate women, we already hate women so you don't need to make this thread. It's obvious any guy in that situation would drop the bitch asap. No need for this thread. If you're not going to post nudes go to advice
>>768898305
unless she pays your bills drop her
Also maybe she WANTED you to find it..I mean don't you think she would be super sketched about you finding out and would make sure to log out. The plot thickens
>>768898389
love/sex can make people blind
>>768898389
you forget about betas with no backbone that get lucky and then grow way to attached to a shit girl
>>768895532
Don't shit where you eat.
You cucked yourself. Hope you didn't sign a lease together.
>>768898445
that is a large hole, now that you mention it
>>768898466
yea women
>>768898337
Not smart enough to log off her account
>>768898466
the sex is good, she is hot a/f
is it worth trying for 1 last fuck or is that gonna make it worse..
>>768898547
Just call me sherlock
>>768898617
if you don't fuck her at least one more time you are not a man
>>768898547
>>768898445
not really. bitches are just dumb
>>768898617
Of course fuck her one last time.
>>768898089
Just ask her when she's going to meet up with Harry. Tell her that if she wants to look around for another relationship, that's cool, but it's kind of slimy to do it behind your back. Ask her if that's because it'd bother her if you were out there looking to upgrade too? If things aren't as great in this relationship as she'd like them to be, maybe working on that with you, rather than window shopping, would be a better way to handle it.
And yeah, you invaded her privacy, and that was bad. It's like stepping on someone's foot while they're mugging you. You should probably apologize for reading about her secret little romance without getting her permission first.
>>768898545
nah we dont live together, she told me she was at the pub tonight with her Dad, who is having a tough time bla bla while most of this was going on, but clearly wasn't and she has been disuading me from going to her house.. maybe i could just ask him ..?
>>768898389
>go to advice
Funnily enough you get better advice here.
>>768898710
they are great with lies and manipulating. and that is a good one. covers many potential bases if this guy had background on her some how. she covered it before he even asks
>>768898641
No dude you always fuck up my clue grind
OP is my meme funny?
>>768898617
yea of course fuck her once more. then tell her to leave and never call her again.
she'll know why and anyone who sides with her just show the screenshots
>>768898753
you're a fag
>>768895532
Tell her parents, take pictures and send them to her parents
>>768898822
problem is I have the moral high ground as it stands.. she knows im trustworthy as it fucking gets, if i turn into "just another dickhead who wanted the sex" i might lose that advantage..?
>>768898762
You don't live together?? Half your work is done. You don't even have to kick her ass out.
>>768898809
i will save this and let it remind me of this fucking situation for the rest of my life, thankyou anon.
>>768898753
I can't tell if this faggot is being real with the last sentence but a cheating bitch gets no privacy you dumb cunt.
>>768899024
half her shit is in my house still. she lives in her parents in some weird converted thing without me.
>>768898930
Sorry, I'm not, but keep looking. You'll find Mr. Right someday, and then you won't have to hate women so much.
>>768895532
First of all realize that she doesn't love you, fuck her. Now how much damage can you do to her social life?
Tell her it's over right now. When she asks why just say you're not feeling it anymore.
If she gives two shits about you she'll come running back to you within a couple months. When she does, you can take her back, or really fucking make it sting by showing her the screenshots.
And you know that she'll only have come back after being rejected. It's all about slow playing it
>>768899066
Well, she's inevitably going to try to make it about invading her privacy if he confronts her. Point is, acknowledge that yes, he did do that, and it's nowhere near as bad as being a lying slut. Keep the conversation about her unhealthy, trust-destroying self-absorbed behavior and what she intends to do to fix things.
>>768898753
OP here
, i like the first part, alot, but i literally just load facebook, for the first time in a while and she is logged in, with blinking red fucking messages, how can i not look when the first word i read is "fucking me" or something like that.
Just be honest and be firm.
Bye bitch
"Why"
I suspect you cheating with Harry Potter
End of
Unless you want to be creepy and spy on them together. Catch them fucking and record it. Then send the recording to her parents
>>768895936
Dump the bitch and move on.
I've cucked multiple guys AMA
>>768899102
Dump it out the front, its not your responsibility bro..ghost this bitch hard she's not worth anything else. Take the shit worth money, pawn it and ghost the whore..
>>768899102
So, she doesn't want to be committed.
Just gather all of her stuff up and call her parents t come pick up her stuff. Tell them that you can't see her because it hurts too much or some shit. They will forever know their daughter is a whore and be disappointed in her life choices.
>>768899279
Point is, you wouldn't be here right now if you wanted to just dump her, so all of the "dump her, ruin her life, fuck her first and then leave her" shit isn't helpful for you. So I tried to offer advice that you might at least consider.
>>768899268
but she has not actually done anything physical yet, i am fairly sure she isnt mentally stable enough to sleep with the dude without breaking up with me first, so this could turn ugly for me is what i'm thinking..
>>768895671
>hivemind
or just common sense?
>>768899036
Here is a pic of my wife of 20 years who I meant when i was 17 on the internets.
I hope you live, learn and love long time.
>what goes around comes around amplified by a magnitude of 3.
Seems to be a universal law i noticed that works. I hope it comes in handy. Works positive and negative.
>>768898953
no you have all of the advantage. and will maintain it as long as people know she was literally saying you were out of the picture and most likely fucking other guys.
this type of cunt when confronted will just say the most hurtful shit she can to justify her actions. best bet is to let her stew on why you(the trust worthy type) would leave her.
she will know
>>768899268
There's a difference to claiming responsibility for something and apologizing.
You don't apologize because OP had obviously suspected with his gut something wasn't fucking right and this bitch has ALREADY broken the trust in the relationship.
Apologizing for anything right now is a sign of weakness and she will only think OP is more pathetic than she already fucking does.
>>768899110
i hate dumb cheating cunts and anyone who would forgive this is a fag.
open relationships dont work and its always the womans fault
>>768899413
yeah i mean, up until 4 hours ago i was convinced i loved this bitch, i dont hate her yet. or want to ruin her life.
>inb4 faggot
>>768899375
Do this. Parental involvement is the best solution. She will forever be guilty and it might change her for the best
>>768899433
Dubs of the true true
>trips would have been satanic.
>>768895760
This. As soon as someone goes behind your back like this, it's over. Even if she pleads and promises she'll never do it again, all you'll be ever thinking is "she might".
If you're telling the truth and she explicitly said she broke up with you, to him, then your worries are grounded in fact, not paranoia.
>>768899509
Best thing you can do for her and yourself is tell her parents and leave her. She needs the guidance and judgment from them, and you need to get away from that abuse
>>768899509
but shes just fine with ruining yours.
in fact shes probably doing right now as you type. she doesnt really care for you and simply for your mental health bro dump her.
tell her you found the messages and she will most likely try the "invaded my privacy bullshit" just stand firm and dont let int get to you
>>768899510
Then years from now they will be watching your life on Facebook and feeling happy that you moved on "maturely". Meanwhile, this bitch is jacking off a new man every week. You will become their new son.
>>768896283
You too?
>>768899629
Seriously, no such thing as privacy in a serious relationship anyway that's bullshit excuse cheaters use. If privacy is a concern it was never serious to begin with
>>768899621
OP here, if i could give you a fucking gay hug right now i would, seriously considering this, or something like
>>768897914
>>768899603 >>768899509
speaking from experience this is true.
you will always be on guard and will keep prying in a roundabout way until she uses one of these times to leave you and you will always regret not being a man and just ending it.
>>768899804
also this nigger is right 100%
friend the dude, tell him that she's lying to him (with proof)
both dump her at the same time
maximum kek achieved
>>768899421
She's looking for the next guy to jump to, in case you don't work out. If you were talking to different girls, planning out your options for your next relationship, that'd hurt her. She knows it'd hurt you, which is why she doesn't tell you about these things.
If Harry turns out to actually be the jerk she's heard that he is, she'll quit talking to him and start talking to someone else. She's shopping around. Since you're not married, there isn't really anything technically wrong with what she's doing, but it is pretty selfish, and it's not very effective at making your current relationship better. Frankly, it's childish, though she'd probably get all butthurt if you pointed that out to her.
Real relationships take work. Hell, your car needs regular maintenance. If your response to having the oil light come on was to look at new car magazines and daydream about owning a Ferrari, that wouldn't be a very effective way of keeping your car running in peak condition. This is pretty much the same thing.
>768899999 Get
We're almost there.
Hey op here is a song for this situation
https://open.spotify.com/track/3aDfVelwwcv5aNm6bp3h60?si=pLbVglvdRLOWgS9Y2JSMLQ
Also related to the meme you saved.
I seriously hope you can find the silver lining in this. Opportunity knocks, she wasn’t the one.
Bro you need this bitch out of your life immediately. Don't associate with her, stop talking to her. Get this, and any ideas for payback, out of your mind. You're above this, you're above her, and the sooner you stop thinking about it, the better off you'll be.
>>768899629
OP,
Also appreciate this, the next thing is do i look like some scum if i tell her and my (fairly close) work friends or show them any of these messages.. we still work together 7/14 days
>>768899829
consider the backfire.
>look at what a slut your daughter is, punish her and pity me
>how did you get these messages
>i got into her phone and looked through her fb messages
>>768897914
thinking of the next guy is a bro move.
these dudes think shes single or was so they are not yet to be considered assholes. even though that one guy sounds like one.
if they get involved on her side tho they are fair game
I want the gets in this thread
>>768897855
Dubs means you have to m8
4chan is gay
I need this.
Traps arent gay
>>768899999
CHECKED
>>768899935
>thank
The swishmeister is back at it again.
>>768899999
>>768899999
LUL
>>768895532
Leave her. She's not worth going to jail over.
>>768900096
this just became face17
>>768899829
>>768899961
she left her shit logged in
>>768899889
this is either a nigger or some cuck. do not listen to fags like this they get played all the time and dont even question it. shopping is unfaithful thot behavior that should not be rewarded or even thought about wifing
>>768899961
OP HERE,
>She was logged in on MY pc when i loaded fb and saw this, not 100% intentional
this is the sort of bullshit argument i dont want.
>>768899999
>>768899999
God has spoken. The debate is over.
>>768900147
>thinking that sounds better to a parent
would your mom let that fly? your girlfriend went into your fb and read your shit
Anyways...
You really should just talk to her parents. Don't come out of the gate trying to guilt them or anything. Just tell them that you need someone to come get her stuff and you really don't think it's best that you see her right now. Then, dad or whatever can come get her stuff and maybe you can open up to him a little bit. I don't know what kind of relationship you have with him
>>768899999
>>768899999
QUADS OF TRUTH, I CAN FAP IN PEACE NOW
>>768895532
Sounds like you need to quit being such a woman. You're weak, you are consumed by your feelings, and you need to talk about them. You need attention and advice because your personality is more feminine than mascline.
That's your real problem. But you probably won't address that.
>>768899961
>Best plan
> Tell the friend and also tell her parents
>Make some shit up about how you saw the messages
>Keep her in the dark as long as possible
>See how things play out
>>768900159
impossible. she can not be that retarded this story can not be real you are a liar
>>768898617
If you only fuck her butt and ruin it for the next guy.
>>768900210
i dont give a fuck what my mom or anyones mom thinks.
if the bitch is talking to other guys logged in on my pc then shes not as sly as she thought and her parents probably already know how much of a slut their daughter is anyway
>>768900246
Seems like ALOT of projecting m8
>>768900243
Those are quints you fucking imbecile.
>>768899999
>Checked
OP here,
This is how the facebook conversation began, 16 screenshots worth of it. just for mild intrest
>>768895532
Reveal the deal, make her feel like the shit she is, shame her in front of loving beings and make to the new one (future cheated boi that's actually with the cheatin' biatch, who will never change) that she is not to be trusted
>>768900147
You: What she did was cheating and you should dump her.
OP: What she did is a problem and I want to work it out with her for a variety of valid reasons
I was answering OP, so if it doesn't quite mesh with your angry little belief system, that's probably because it wasn't intended to.
>>768895532
it's simple. dump her, the end
>>768899999
/thetrapquestion
>>768900308
>I dont give a fuck
>continues to give fucks to parents
then what is the point of going to the parents if you "dont care"
>>768900252
What "shit about how i saw the messages"
and what about the mutual friends and whatever at work?
>>768900336
the problem is shes a cheat and probably fucked around behind op's back.
she deserves a beating but since we cant do that dump her and move on to a better more loyal woman.
cause this relationship is done.
>>768898617
Yeah fucking her one last time is worth it unless you could end up catching something.
>>768899966
Word the beginning of this conversation with the dude for me anon.
>>768900372
im a different guy faggot.
the parents are inconsequential to this story.
its simple: drop the cheating whore
Dump the slut. Xxxx
It's kind of sad to think I have to get my good memes from these depressing threads because /b/ is generally shit now-a-days;
A message from your friendly neighb ohood lurker
tldr; Cuck OP's gf is going to cuck him with another beta cuck who has to ask over Facebook messenger if he can even kiss her.
>>768900608
well i was replying to op about his want to go to the parents so i don't get what your deal was then, guy
Run run run run run run away.....
Literally run. Away.
And thank God you found this out now (not to say it hasn't been going on for some time in some shape or form). Stop talking about now. You've gotten enough feedback, positive support, and opinions.
Dump her.
>>768900637
When these are considered "good", you know it's a slow night
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>>768899999
This happened for a good reason.
OP. This is god. Please grow up and become success.
>download Tubular Bells.
>learn to play it.
>>768900539
nah, i know her well enough to know she hasnt slept with anyone else YET, not 100% mentally stable or capable of being comfortable around anyone.
>>768900744
What do you mean "mentally stable"?
She have Downs or what?
>>768900320
Don't need your validation "m8", because I have spent a long time learning to stand on my own two feet. All this drama about some skank who will be worm food in 30 or 40 years. Stupid. If OP were a real man, either he wouldn't have been such a cuck or he would know what to do.
Especially considering there are a lot of resources on the internet and in the real world about how to live your life. The only conceivable reasons he would post here of all places is (1) for attention, like a woman or (2) to provoke someone, like a troll.
OP here,
Thread is dying, thanks for some actual solid advice, will post results tomorrow.
>>768900744
You're describing your soon-to-be ex, but it sounds more like my cat
>>768900712
yea and i was saying that there is no need.
just drop the hoe and post the screenshots all over your facebook.
lose your job? find another
lose friends? they would rather hang around the slut so fuck em
lose her parents respect? who tf cares. op said they already like him so it shouldnt really matter
just post the proof before thoty can spin everything
>>768900913
pictures. what is this cats name?
>>768900513
It appears she got asked out for a beer buy a good looking guy in her group of friends, and accepted. Now that guy's hitting on her hard and instead of shutting him down she's playing him along. It might be because he's got a reputation as a player and she's not looking for a side-guy but shopping for her next boyfriend, or it might have something to do with some reluctance to cheat. Maybe both things. Either way it's not cheating yet.
All of this advice trying to get OP to dump her, calling him a cuck, that's just immature edgelord bullshit from a bunch of children.
At some point, this girl is going to have to grow up and have a real relationship, and that's not going to happen automatically - some guy is going to have to teach her how to be a decent adult, and show her why her high-school games aren't going to work for her when she's 40.
Maybe OP wants to be that guy. If he doesn't, he'll dump her regardless of advice from anon. If he does think she's worth the effort, that she could potentially be a decent girlfriend, I'm trying to explain how to go about that.
Feel free to continue hating women for not dating your fat neckbeard fedora-wearing brony ass if you want to. It's not your thread.
>>768900726
>gif
Why do fat lazy people think they can do activities that require a person to be lean and active?
>>768900894
Good luck anon.
May the wind blow in your favour
>>768900829
nah just bullshit people have these days like anxiety and depression. but it was obvious when it took her so long to be willing to actually fuck in the first place, she thinks she is a good person, she thinks she needs to trust somebody bla bla bla, but really she is just a slut i now know.
>>768897876
This, but after this be quick.
she'll try to find a way to play the victim card or some bullshit like that.
>>768900412
OK I read more about OP's situation, so she did it on YOUR PC and you just stumbled into it... Well shit, don't have to make shit up, just tell the guy and her parents, EZ
>>768900955
yea, and all of that should be obvious and he still didn't see it so i showed him what is the more likely outcome when he goes. what aren't you getting. that you were 3 steps behind me and confused? lol
>>768900981
Claire.
>>768901056
If her parents confront her about it and the dude (by chance) tells her "not cool" she can't go to the guy, and shel be crying for your forgiveness in no time
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>>768900726
It's been a slow last 4 years anon.
>>768901131
Don't fall for it, fuck her a few more times then dump her.
>>768895532
OP You gotta confront her and accept it may all be over. I would say that at this point consider the relationship gone. Trust me- if you don't you will regret it.
>>768901005
Because they are beautiful and empowering
>>768900996
i dont date cheating cunts.
a loyal gf would shut him down and not hide it.
this whole at some point she'll grow up shit is basic bitch settler shit.
she has blown all credibility as a gf by not shutting down guys and actively telling them she has broken up with OP
>It might be because he's got a reputation as a player and she's not looking for a side-guy but shopping for her next boyfriend,
>or it might have something to do with some reluctance to cheat. Maybe both things.
>Either way it's not cheating yet.
spoken like a true cuck call me an edge lord all you want but you're a massive fucking cuck if you wait around to be cheated on instead of finding someone true who actually wants to be with you
>>768895532
Letting your girl go to the pub on her own. lmao Trouble from the start m8.
>>768901031
She absolutely will, you need to talk to the guy and her parents ASAP
>>768897876
Lol
>>768899999
Aren't quints like 1/10000.
>>768901117
thats a nice cat. looks like she has some scottish fold in her
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>>768901373
this again?
>>768901073
no you're just retarded and care to much about what people think.
im telling op that he should dump her regardless and not turn into some big plan
Nair hair remover in her shampoo. Works every time.
>>768901319
I do have to agree with that. Not that trust is the issue. You go to a bar to flirt or hook-up if you're by yourself. That's the entire point of a bar. To met new people.
>>768901349
Hmmm
>>768899375
This.
Best advice so far
I guess we just shitpost now?
>>768901183
Oh the irony
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>>768901415
it's like you didn't even read the thread lol
>>768900744
Not capable of being comfortable around people, yet she goes to bars to hang out???
I mean I don't even consider myself THAT anti-social, but I'd NEVER just go to a bar to hang out...
>>768901315
You're very rigid about the kind of behavior you'll accept from other people, and that's fine. If you don't want to consider the idea that people might grow and change over time, that's okay too. Date only women who are perfect the day you meet them, by all means.
OP's girlfriend isn't like that, apparently, and since he's not you, your rigid standards don't apply. If you wanted to help him, you'd be doing that. Instead, you're just trying to prove that you're more alpha than him, to a bunch of anonymous strangers, in order to feel good about yourself. Whatever that says about you, it's probably unflattering.
>>768899375
This is the only valid advise. OP act quick and be a fucking man. Grow some man balls and do this shit now
>>768901415
This. If the hoe has the power to make you do something to lose your job or go to jail, you're a beta cuck.
I'm your gay hug anon OP, make your moves sooner than later, your emotional well being will effect all other aspects of your life.
>>768901502
u listen here u lil bitch. u answer with cats only.
>>768900955
If you give a hoe the power to get you fired, you're the ultimate beta cuck.
>>768901735
this just slayed me
>>768901836
no...but i do that sometimes. i only reply when i feel frisky. i am not even here often.
>>768901639
never said perfect. i just dont suffer a thot.
cheating is not forgivable. she made a conscious decision to lie to these guys. her growing does not change the fact that she had no regard for OPs feelings or their relationship
it anonymous you fag im not trying to prove anything. im giving him solid advice while you're telling him that his gf actively searching for a new guy while shes telling him the relationship is perfect is normal and cool behavior cause she'll "grow up one day"
you're a faggot cuck and deserve death
Did OP dump her yet, did I miss it?
>>768901666
trips of truth
This one kills me every fucking time I look at it.
>>768901898
I'm disappointed with you.
>>768901836
>kys, u faggot
>>768902006
surely there are more people that reply in only cats, or often cats. there are plenty of cat threads here
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>>768902071
what'd you just say to my guy?
and this one
>>768902136
>being this retarded
kys
>>768901117
she's a beauty
>>768902071
listen here u huge sack of shit. why dont you run home and tell daddy that youve been a shitty son and he will tell you he had no belief in you what so ever, from the start. only then you can start to forgive yourself from being a sack of human waste and shit.
Take the screen shots and post them onto her feed.
Trust me, if you walk away from her without at least a little bit of revenge you'll feel cheated for the rest of your life.
>>768902243
We have acquired a new one two weeks ago. She's been jealous
This was a good thread OP.
>>768895532
fag
>>768902165
don't even step to this
u don't want none, bitch
>>768902443
Latent piss jug drinker
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>>768902458
Doesn't even compare to this
>>768902397
two cats is purrfect
one for each hand to pet
>>768902458
my man....you better come correct
My cat is missing for 6 days
>>768902282
go on bring dat shit, nigga
bring all yo frens 2
cuz you finna be bout to need all they ass up in here for real nigga
>>768902811
That's sad. I hope he/she comes home
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>>768902811
well it look like the nigger is in space did you check there?
>>768902810
nigga, don't even
i ain't even playin
>>768902965
Gurl u aint evn a cade
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>>768902965
Thx
>>768903038
this picture represents your life. because i will end you
Get a bowl cut™ that usually tells bitches when they are caught and done.
>>768901639
Why are you so hellbent on defending someone who is emotionally manipulating people for her own benefit? She knows what she is doing is wrong, if she doesn't feel guilt it isn't up too OP to "fix" her.
It's not your partners job to make you into a better person it's your job to be a better person for your partner.
>>768903347
you can tell this is a girl because
>perfect
means
>doesn't cheat
>>768903171
man, ima finna bitch slap dat bitch ass if yall aint bout to stop being a bitch in about a minute for real nigga
>>768895936
OP
Worked for me
Get another girl/bitch anything you want
Obviosly you need to like the new one a little so it can work out for you
>>768903479
you better eat your wheaties in the morning for your whole life, because you're fucked
>>768895532
Make sure to correct the record with her new dude.
Something along the line of, "This is her bf, we're not broken up but you can keep her, her shits in the front yard for you to pick up."
If he's a bro he'll stop talking to her and you'll have more bed space.
>>768895532
went through a very similar situation. tried to salvage it and turned into an emotional wreck. it's really not worth the effort, I suggest you leave her a letter, move all your shit out, and preemptively tell all your mutual acquaintances so that she can't turn it back around on you.
gl
>>768895532
Break it off with the lying cheating bitch.
Don't burn bridges. Be an adult. Just inform her that it isn't working out. That you're done. If anyone asks, tell them that you caught her trying to cheat on you.
