>ITT we post what's been bothering us and other anons offer advice
Way to much ugliness now a days let's get some good vibes flowing
Dude I remember a time where /b/ was somewhat fun, steam trade threads, celeb death rumors, that time we got people to nuke their phones
Like any muscle in your body your penis needs time to recoup after a workout, but if you slowly build yourself up you'll get it
Something that's been bugging me, is I have this wonderful GF she's sweet, kind, supportive, and caring, but her previous guy raped and emotionally abused her, which she is recovering from, my problem is is that I like extremely hardcore sex, but a lot of what I like triggers her, and I'm trying to change that but man its freaking hard to do
Slow night for /b/ I hope you guys are having a safe Cinco De Mayo
If this where a trap thread I'd be drowning in replies, and traps
The final form that dragon ball never showed us
I was just playing a game with a friend, all seemed fine.
But while were talking in discord his GF called to talk about dinner or some shit.
I could hear her talking, and I heard her groan at the mention of my name.
Like it went like this:
Friend - "Oh, I cant I'm playing games with Anon"
Friends gf - "Ugh, nice" (with HARD sarcastic tone)
Friend - "I know.." (With HARD sarcastic tone)
I dunno wtf it was about, or what I did.
It's fucking wit my head atm.
Maybe she doesn't like the fact that your friend still likes to hang with you, honestly that's between him and his GF, but if your friend starts acting like a dick to you I'd say something
It literally happened like 30 mins after I confided in him that after every social event I spend the next day reviewing the gathering under a self hating microscope, and I'm super paranoid that every time I have a beer I alienate everyone around me. It was actually really tough to talk about.
Then that convo happened, it was like an affirmation that I'm not just being paranoid, but I actually am this cringey fuck no one actually wants to be around.
Just bad timing I guess.
Thanks for the kind words though anon.
i have 20 bucks to last me til tuesday. i have very little food stocked up. have eggs, pb&j, milk, butter, cheese and some sausages in my fridge right now. I have plenty of weed because my priorities are ass backwards. i guess i could be doing worse.
Honestly, if you like her, and are really sure to where you want this to go, you give it time. I was in a similar situation as you, difference is that she was the opposite, and really wanted to go all out, while I was more relaxed and easy going. With time, we both adjusted to what we both were okay with, and I'm going to ask her to marry me very soon. Not because of that, but because everything went in order as time went by, because we learned everything about each other. Don't rush it, or don't do it with her. That's my best advice. Else it will be a pain later on, and a lot of wasted time.
Sometimes, when people haven't been in a somewhat similar situation, they tend to act this way, although I'm not saying you are right or wrong, it might just be a misunderstanding of not actually being in the conversation, but just see how he acts around you, be nice to his gf whenever you get the time, and if your friend acts like a douche around you anyways, dump him, or call him out and ask why. And that you didn't tell him those privat things to annoy him, but because you trust him as a good friend. Ignore the private conversation him and his gf had, maybe he's just like that because she's just like that, and actually he didn't mean it.
Relationships are hard ass work my man, it's true what everyone says. I've been with my girl for 6 years now, and it took me 2-3 months before that before we were actually together (bf/gf) not sex, just because we wanted to see how everything would go. Trust me, if you are sure, it will all be worth it, and you will both adjust.
I keep falling in love with asexual girls. It hurts. I feel like all sexual thoughts I have will always be dirty and unwanted, and I'm scared I'll become one of those guys who can only get off to porn.
Boss is talking shit behind back and it got back to me.
Nothing to do about performance or me fucking up. He just caught feelings about me almost taking another job that was offered to me
Ehhh like I'm more of a kinkster, I like being dominate, but out of the bedroom I'm a completely different guy, her other ex didn't start out being an emotionally abusive ass, sooo idk man
I don't know what's going on, but I wouldn't be suspicious of your friend.
Why would he want to play with you in the first place if he's annoyed by you?
Sounds more like a classic girlfriend complaint about how your buddy is spending time with his buddies and not with her. I would guess you misinterpreted any notion you think your friend has about you.
She must be boyfriend-free, cute, nice, funny, white...
Lol nah. I feel like I have a reasonable spectrum of turn-ons and turn-offs. I tend to prefer smart girls, but I don't THINK there's a correlation between that and asexuality.
Uhm, how is that your problem? How much of a little bitch is your boss that he talks behind your back because of you apparently being qualified enough that you get offered other jobs?
If anything, this should light a fire under his ass to keep you if you are indeed that valuable.
I'm very compatible with my oneitis, we both like the same music, have the same sense of humor (extremely fucked up), and she laughs at anything I do to seem funny. I feel like she loves me back but I'm worried about fucking up the friendship if it ends up being me just reading too much into it with wishful thinking (which it most likely is)
thank you anon, felt good to get this off my chest.
I'm too worried about ruining the friendship
I'm falling in love with my roomates GF. We all live together. She's been trying to get close to me and wants to hangout with me all the time before he gets home from work among other things. I'm scared I won't be able to control myself, he's like my brother. What do /b/?
It's not that I think sex is bad, it's something I know is important for me to have a successful relationship. It's more of an insecurity thing where I feel like (from experience) that no one will ever want to share that part of my life with me.
Dude my best advice would to be take a step back and think about everything positive in your life, and the take some deep breaths, sometimes we spend to much time in our own heads so taking a step back and looking at everything going on in your life can be a tremendous help
Maaaan I really wouldn't throw away a 10 year friendship for some booty, like best case scenario y'all have a open relationship and plenty of threeways, worst case everyone is mad
If she truly cares about you, it won't ruin anything. As an example, I dated one of my best friends in high school. She's the one girl I ever said "I love you" to. We had to break things off for various reasons, and of course we needed to spend a little while apart. But now we're absolute best friends again, we text and hang out every week. It's just a part of our long past together.
I realize I may have gotten incredibly lucky here, but I just wanted to point out that romantic feelings don't always have to mean the end of friendship.
Thanks, man. I'm sure I'll meet somebody some day.
Wouldn't doubt it, a lot of "friends" will trade in a brother like friendship for ez pussy. If you get it, he will probably eventally find out and end the friendship. It will hurt him more than you short term. Long term, all the bad mistakes will add up or a friend in your future will do you dirty and you'll remember what a good frind was like. A friendship with trust. You'll call him up and he'll forgive you because he moved on with his life. Settled down with a wife and kids. While your alone and a little cold with no one but yourself to blame.
Doing this shit also hurts your future relationship's because you can't even trust yourself with your "brothers" girlfriend. What a sad state of affairs that you cant find your own pussy and your willing to trade it for one good fuck before everything crashes.
All my friends did this exact same thing to me for my ex. I guess it left resentment and hate in me. I don't really care for anyone anymore. I just want that connection again. But I respect your opinion based on the minimal information I have provided. I don't know you from atom, but thanks regardless.