My girlfriend met a man at work last week, and confessed that she isnt sure about her feelings to him. She said she needs time to think about and is going on holidays with a girlfriend.
I feel helpless ...she never looked unhappy to me.. we are together since 4 years and I even thought about marrying her.
What do I do now?
>>767622749
get swole, get over oneitus, and dump er
>>767622749
>is going on holidays with a girlfriend.
is that what she told you?
my dude she's going to pound town
>>767622749
Yeah dude, things almost never get better after doubts seep in.
The cynical side of me says shes gonna fuck this dude while on "holiday" and if they are sexually compatible, shes moving on. If not, your none the wiser and she can be like "i realized how happy you make me and how much i missed not being by your side".
If i wanted to be positive and say she is just going out with a friend, then she doubts your relationship so much shes willing to let it hang in the balance and basically has ZERO RESPECT for you. She thinks no matter what you'll be waiting with bells on. Fuck that. Thats what we did in high school.
TLDR; shes probably gonna fuck him or someone else, and its over already even if she doesnt.
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=swQWUa5-9TM
She is unsure because this new man offers mystery, confidence and excitement
You’ve been together a long time and things might have gotten boring, spice things up and don’t sweat it but rn you should give her space, don’t beg, don’t whine, don’t show insecurity and she will come back like a boomerang for sentimental reasons then once she reaches out you start being spontaneous and playfully tease her and take her out and look good for her and shit like that
Best of luck anon
>>767622749
This information is going to sting my man but you need to be the alpha here and break up with her immediately. There is no coming back from this in a relationship and you are saving yourself grief later on. Plus there's always the chance she regrets the decision and you get to bang her later (cut contact after post breakup bang DO NOT re-initiate relationship). This breaks women.
>>767622749
She's going to spend that time with the new dude.
Time to execute your exit strategy, if you don't have one, let it be a lesson and have it the next time.
Ask her for the threesome, now or never
>>767622749
Break up with her if she doesnt come back crying you move one if she does make her feel bad enough so that she doesnt get her "feelings" confused.
>>767622749
I’ve been through this. Initiate an exit strategy immediately! Call around and find an apartment asap. Pack your shit up. Best is if you were gone before she returns from her „holiday“
>>767625560
Wtf is that what if thats hes place fuck that bitch throw her shit out the day before she comes and go party the day she gets there
>>767622749
She's taking a holiday in that dude's bed. RIP you
abort OP.
Never get comfortable with a woman, they are not loyal and they do not think, they only feel.
Buy an Ar-15. Your gonna need it.
>>767622749
Destroy her stuff while she's away, then let her know that you dumped her. She'd be btfo so hard.
>>767622749
get rid of her things are never the same once she consideres breaking up, there is pussy everywhere and one of the worst things you can do to yourself is tie yourself with a woman that isn't even sure about you
>>767622749
Dump her. It's already over. She might even fuck him when she goes out with her "girlfriends". Find a new one.
OP do this
>>767625560
OP toss her into the trash and find another one who will suck you off for the next 40 years.
Women don't think logically. Right now she is thinking that this lousy sentence can excuse her of any actions she commits against you and the relationship. Ignore and move on, next thing she might accuse you of rape get pregnant with a stanger and you are fucked with alimoney.
>>767622749
>>767622749
>we are together since 4 years
>I thought about marrying her
Wow, you are a moron. If you want to keep her you will forbid her to go on a holiday without you and you will forbid her to go to work and confront the guy who's been hitting on her. Godforsaken betafaggots.
>>767622749
time to start looking for a new one. this one is done
>>767622928
this
>>767627272
>>767622749
Jump her and ravage her. She'll love you for that
>>767622749
Obviously does see u as an alpha (20% of males women find attractive) so she found someone that was. U can ether work up to that standerd and start fucking 80% of women out there, cry about being a beta, or cuck up and let her do it because u know she wants to fuck a man not a pussy, and if she's gonna fuck a pussy it's gonna be a nice one in front of the guy she likes not you.
It's not rare for things like this to happen. Hang in there, maybe this other person won't be around for long. If push comes to shove, girls are suckers for beggers. Also, if you guilt her enough, she'll def marry you.
Just hang in there maybe this will all blow over.
>>767622749
She's going to cuck you if you don't break up with her. You don't want to be a cuck do you?
>>767622928
No better way to exact revenge than this. Sure, murder is easier but you really want their pain to last right?
>>767627831
Yeah it will blow all over her when she fucks that other nigger
All people don't know what they want till they get it. You can see this in children all the time. It sounds like she has a case of this, she is probably gonna go with the other guy because it's human nature. Better to have a backup plan and wait up, a brat drops the old thing for a new one even if the old thing is better.
Think fast, and be a goddamn man OP.
Find the new man, break into his house or approach him somewhere else secluded then beat his head in.
I don't mean fight him either, put a gun in his mouth, beat him so bad that he will be too afraid to go to the cops or tell anyone about it. Make it clear that if he even speaks to your wife that you will bury him in the woods.
And if you're too beta to do that you could always just shot him, shoot her then shoot yourself.
>>767627831
don't tell him to "hang in there" don't tell him to just take the fact that his girlfriend is considering another man, you donut. we all need to encourage him to leave her before she leaves HIM
>>767622749
>met last week
>going out with girlfriends
yeah nah son shes not yours anymore. 4 years is a long time but she doesnt feel shit apprently
>>767622749
>going on holidays with a girlfriend.
It's over man, dump that cheating whore in most cruel way you can think of.
Let's hope she gets raped some day.
>>767622749
Don't dump straight away, revenge against the other guy is stupid and a waste of your time, let him know you know about him and tell him to keep quite but that you understand and he should go for it. He'll let you know when it happens and if she denies she ever did anything you'll know how much of a snake she is, prepare your finances for leaving her, if she is living with you get ready to kick her out and change the name of anything you own and temporarily give it to a family member so she cant take it from you. Any malicious things she says about you make sure to record them so that if she goes to the police with false accusations you can have dated record of when they have been made and how they are false. Develop your skills and your own prospects in life, look for another women in the meantime and dump her when you are ready.
>>767628645
>And if you're too beta to do that you could always just shot him, shoot her then shoot yourself.
And if you're too beta shoot yourself.
There i fixed it
>>767622749
Don't listen to some of these very negative fucks, but trust ur gut and dump her like a band aid.
>Yfw
>>767622749
>So, I found who was behind of it...
It’s not going to work my dude.
I was in a similar situation last year. Girl of 4.5 years wanted to go on a break for a month to figure herself out. That month was the absolute worst. After everything I did for her I felt like it wasn’t enough and it was my fault. In the end she broke up with me and it was the most painful thing. But that’s what had to happen.
Once there’s doubt it won’t go away. That trust is shattered and you will never be as happy as you were again. Bite the bullet and break up first. She cheeted and there’s no excuse. Break it off and hang with people that make you feel safe, friends and family. Un-friend her on all social media. Don’t delete anything or trash things, that only makes it worse. Take some time to reflect and when you’re ready move on.
I could have swarn my life was over but it gets better.
Keep ya head high OP.
>not sure about her feelings
>going on "holidays" with a girlfriend
OP you are one dumb nigger. when will guys learn girls other than your mother are only there to use you? I bet Jody is fucking her right now.
>>767622749
https://youtu.be/7nqcgUDoV_M
>>767622749
>we are together since 4 years and I even thought about marrying her.
There's obviously some reason you havent married her and started a family.
GF,, 4 Years......
>>767623823
terribly underrated post a.k.a. /thread
>>767622749
Does this girlfriend have a name? Hmm?
>spoilers: it’s him
>>767622928
this is actually not bad
however, you need to toughen up. Never take anyone for granted, get yourself where you like to see yourself
>>767623823
it can be over, once she told him about him
if she's just that cool and upfront and they are having that an honest relationship, then your post applies exactly tho
>>767622749
KYS
>>767622749
>Hmm, I found who was behind of it...
>>767622749
It’s gonna suck but honestly dude just say you want to “take a break” because you’ve got shit you need to figure out.
You go do whatever you want, she’s gonna do what she’s gonna do, and you just don’t come back. Leave it. It’s easier than trying to cling on to something.
It’s gonna start here but even if nothing happens it’ll just build until it happens again and continues on. She wants something else. How do you make a hit hurt less? You lean into it.
literally same thing just happened to me
gf of 3 years cheated on me with coworker out of nowhere
we were planning our wedding
once a cheater always a cheater dump her
>>767622749
Break up and move on
She's on a vacation to cheat and forget about you-- she doesn't have to tell him shit all
DUMP
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with all this leave advice, can't help but thinking the beta part of just making it so easy
op, honest. are you ugly?
>>767622749
Dont be a beta dump the bitch. She's already fucking him.
Anon, she doubted her love for you for some guy that she just met. Stop thinking about her and start thinking about YOU, YOU DESERVE BETTER. I
