So I'm with a girl that I love for 6,5 year now. I lost my virginity with her when I was 16 and we had sex at least once a week since then. Recently something has changed. We live together now but we share a flat with our friend. We have almost no sexlife since we moved in 2 years ago. We've talked over this many times and she always says that she wants to have sex but is too shy when our friend is around (he has his own room which he rarely leaves). What should I do? I honestly don't know. I'm 21 btw.
this is the end
break up with her before she does it first
If she isn't, she wants to
or is fucking someone else
all signs point
functionally, it doesn't even matter whether she is or isn't
she's still done with you
>It’s going to be much more embarrassing when she cheats
be a man and pre-empt the bitch
I have been with her for 6 years and I know that she is too shy to cheat on me. Also everytime when my friend is out we have sex. She feels ashamed that he may hear us (paper thin walls)
>We are in college and we are broke
go fuck in a park or the woods or an abandoned dead-end street then
more fun than a motel anyway imo
>She feels ashamed that he may hear us
invest in a ball gag and hold your breath when you nut
no, getting caught fucking in a park is a good way
use your fucking brain and that wont happen
Dude, if you gotta do it do it loud, this is certainly not gonna be the last time you have this problem, imagine trying to work that shit out when you have kids, plus I'm pretty sure the roomate isn't gonna think much of it. I would just fucking ignore it and put headphones on or leave.
Even introverts can say one sentence. If you’ve been together for 6 years, it’s not like it’s going to be news that you’re fucking. He obviously knows. Don’t use the introvert excuse as a cop out, because I know you’re plenty of introverted people capable of MUCH more than asking a roommate to leave
Anon, this is literally just life.
If things are good apart from this just settle tbh you won't find better and familiarity is the best quality you can find in someone.
I wouldn't be bothered going to the effort of getting to know someone new just so you can have sex more often.
Just jack it when you're bored and have sex when it's convenient for both of you like most other adults
Fuck me, has anyone in this thread ever actually been with a woman?
Dude, it’s been 6 years. Most relationships wind down sexually over time, even at your age. If you’re otherwise happy in the relationship then have a wank or see someone discretely on the side. If not, talk to her and accept that it may mean a break. That’d be tough since it would mean a massive upheaval. But them’s the breaks. What do you think a bunch of retards on /b/ would offer? This is just grown up shit you have to deal with. Good luck
>I’ve had sex so I automatically have a more valid opinion then everyone else
Newsflash dude, the majority of people that browse /b/ aren’t actually autistic neckbeards. Those are just the poster boys. I would say that probably like 80% of people on this board have had sex. Stop fucking flaunting like you know anything. ESPECIALLY because you’re wrong. The way OP framed his posts shows a direct correlatiin between having sex and the roommate being there.