Another bf ghosted me
What the fuck is wrong with men God damn it you guys are fucking bastards, this is the third time I've been ghosted by a man and I think I'm done
>inb4 288 lonely, gullible teenage boys who think they're talking to a real live girl and spend the next 90 minutes screaming for tits, timestamps and sharpies in poopers
Ever think you’re just a shit person and guys are just in it for the poon?
Majority of people are either uninteresting or the chemistry isn’t there. Either become more restrictive in who you pick or become more relaxed in your standards.
Or by all means complain here.
>3 bfs ghost me
>never thinks the problem is her
>Ever think you’re just a shit person and guys are just in it for the poon?
Well I'm trans and I think that has a lot to do with it. On our last date the day before yesterday he said he would be disowned if anyone caught wind he was dating me, besides that I'm interesting as fuck, what tranny isn't
As insightful and enlightened your response is, we here at /b/ require proof that a femanon is, in fact, a femanon. Please respect the rules by not answering what is, in all likelyhood, a troll.
If you run into somebody in your day, and they call you an asshole, that guy's probably a dick.
If everyone you run into thinks you're an asshole, YOU are the asshole.
I'd start looking at yourself at this point, rather than try to shift the blame towards ALL guys in general.
You're probably an unbearable cunt. Start there.
You're probably clingy, and demand constant attention. Like right now. On /b/ of all places, seeking relationship advice. Thinking just because you're a chick we're gonna fall over ourselves trying to give you some magic summary to get the "perfect" boyfriend. Newsflash toots, we're not.
TL;DR tits or gtfo
if you've been ghosted three times by three different guys they must have found you so unbearable that they felt it necessary to completely cut you out of their lives, and give up getting pussy as well in the process. apparently they don't want that drama in their lives.
alternatively, but far less likely ( less than 1% ) you got extremely unlucky and picked three assholes, in which case you have terrible judgement / taste in men.
either way you're an idiot. tough luck. also, tits or gtfo bitch.
>You're probably clingy, and demand constant attention
Yeah and? Every guy ive been with can't go a day without shoving his cock in my mouth, how about you guys stop being horny monsters
>been ghosted again
>well I'm trans
It's amazing. You still pretend to be surprised.
The world is something else than the one you wish. Even if it changes, you were born too early, or too late if you miss the ancient greek sexual culture.
Face REALITY. People strives everyday to make something good, something real of themselves. Not talking about family building or shit, I'm talking looking in the mirror and don't see a deranged shit in the reflection, but at least somebody society still accepts.
You have to make ends meet staying amongst your similar "unidentifiable" genders. You can't still be amazed people ghosts you after fucking you. You represent an experience, not a long term commitment. You're like the guilty feeling somebody used to snort coke feels after the 100th time they hear "it's the last time" from their own voice. But drug abusers don't go shouting in the streets about what they snort or inject, they keep it secret.
They will always keep you a secret.
If you're gonna let them shove their dick in your mouth, why wouldn't they? No sane guy is gonna turn down some head. However if afterwards you're crawling in their laps, and demanding they praise you for being the good girl, theyre gonna get tired of it. You LET THEM shove their cock down your throat. Don't expect special treatment after.
>well I'm trans
I wonder where the problem is, buddy. by the way, you're about 50% more likely to off yourself after your little transformation, so see you on the other side of the gun barrel.
>However if afterwards you're crawling in their laps, and demanding they praise you for being the good girl, theyre gonna get tired of it
Why? I'm like a human kitten i live to cuddle
My main ex was my fiancee for 2 years and we met off /fit/ and he showed me to all his family and 3 months ago he said he found someone else and never spoke to me again.
Ok so I learned men don't like to cuddle and don't like affection well thanks for that, I'm gonna just date women then
Also I still have my cock
the internet? 4chan? only some of the people are are degenerates. i just come here for porn.
also yea if you're trans expect to get all the guy drama when they'll fuck you but not show you to their families etc. sucks but you were born maybe 100 years early. can you date women?
I don't want sex I want marriage, maybe that's why I scare men away, I had only been dating this guy for a month and i mentioned my ex too much and I mentioned my desire to be a house waifu too much
>I don't want sex I want marriage
>I had only been dating this guy for a month and i mentioned my ex too much
>I mentioned my desire to be a house waifu too much
Holy fucking shit
nah, you're a guy that wants to date guys, and guys want sex. you can have all the other stuff too, but if you want the typical guy and for you to be the housewife, you're gona run into issues with them.
you can be a little cute waifu all you want, just stand on your own 2 feet more
One of the following is true:
1- you thought the relationship was more than it really was
2 - you have bad taste in men and date little boys
3 - you are a bitch
4 - he is moving you to the backburner as backup add on call
Welcome to being a trans faggot, faggot...
What, you just thought you could hormone treatment some tiddies on, grow out your hair, shave your body, and pick up a loving husband like a real woman!?
Go join the 42%...
And it sounds like you don't have anything else to offer, since you just want a sugar daddy.
How would you rate your value on the market? I'm guessing it's much lower than you think.
>I'm gonna just date women then
You'd have a better shot at that if you didn't already make yourself grow tits.
There's 5 factors in being 'trans' that might cause people to be utterly revolted by you.
1) Face: If you have a masculine face, then you're fucked.
2) Shoulders: This is an automatic dealbreaker, unless you want faggots. No heshe alive has ever had womanlike shoulders, that's a fantasy only true in anime.
3) Hips: You got narrow hips? You're narrowly fucked then.
4) Voice: This is also an automatic dealbreaker because it's literally impossible to sound 100% like a woman if you have male vocal chords.
5) Behavior: If you act too feminine or too masculine, then it's an immediate dealbreaker. Too feminine and it looks like you're trying too hard, and too masculine makes you look like a faggot.
In conclusion, you have fucked your body up beyond repair and now have to live like that for the rest of your life. Soon age will catch up to you and you'll go from looking like a semi passable 'trap' to an old fag.
Sorry to tell you this, but if I don't then you'll never learn.
No matter how feminine you feel your soul is, it's not. You were born a man and will die a gay man.
My advice would be to stop being an obedient bitch.
You are not forced to suck their dicks on demand, eventually people notice that you are a submissive shit and take advantage of you, you are a fetish, they will fuck you until they get tired and leave.
Learn to love and respect yourself more and if you have any opinion just make it clear.
From my straight male POV, I prefer women who have their own objectives and opinions and are able to tell me to fuck off than one that just says "yes" to anything
Making yourself happy? At what cost?
You're simply a puppet who only sees purpose in being controlled by the hands of their own emotions.
I have to be blunt with you because I was once at a crossroads myself. When I looked in the mirror though, I realized that I would age, and that my voice would always sound fucked up no matter what. No amount of surgery would fix that.
We're not calling you a faggot because we hate you, we're doing it because deep down we care about you and don't want you to fall into this misfortune.
Thank repressing tranner
Well I'm in buisness management school and I own 3 cars, it's not like I'm a loser, but yeah I act submissive as fuck and it's led to me being used buy guys in bed
Screw it though, I'll just get a dog
You're asking a bunch of virgins and people in failed relationships why guys are idiots. Wrong crowd.
Most people cheat. It's normal. Relationships can be hard. 3 guys being dicks could be bad luck.
Psychology shows that people in relationships that face discrimination tend to have more problems. Since your trans, your relationships get auto-pinned with some extra stresses. Working through those and dealing with those can be difficult (like a guy not dating you because of family).
Lots of guys want long term relationships and lots of guys like cuddling and shit. They just aren't the type of guys you'll find trolling forums. Ask IRL friends to introduce you to friends they know that are like that.
As you get older, you'll find more people looking for relationships for the long run. It's usually young guys only looking for casual sex. And it's often because they still have a lot of insecurities and need multiple partners to feel self confidence.
>On our last date the day before yesterday he said he would be disowned if anyone caught wind he was dating me,
Yeah, he totally seemed like the one. Try calibrating your boyfriend finder
>besides that I'm interesting as fuck, what tranny isn't
Oh boy, you sound like a catch
I am not calling you a loser, i dont think you are one.
But from what i've read here, you give your parteners too much power right from the start and that is not healthy for the relationship or for you.
Not telling you to NOT be submissive if thats what you like, but you should be submissive after you gain some love,respect and affection with your partener, and that doesn't happen in one or two months.
>not a loser
>on /b/ complaining about being a loser
You are. Cars and shit don't make a person. How many bank managers or salesdicks have you met that are complete asshole idiots. Shit, look at Hollywood, rich as shit and all fucks.
>turned himself into a sex toy for faggots and guys who don't want to admit they're faggots
>complains because it's not what he wanted
Love like that doesn't exist, it's just a chemical in the brain that urges you to find a mate and have a child.
The closest you can get to real love is the maternal kind, the kind between mother and son. It goes something like this:
>Mom has babby
>Babby needs to stay with mom so she can teach babby
>Babby grows up to childhood, loves mom, stays with her
>Mom teaches kid and at the right age, teenager leaves and goes off into the world to start the cycle over again
We are all simply intelligent animals running in circles until we die.
>a partner to walk with me
Where the fuck did you get that from, shitty movies? If anything, marriage just adds another layer of complexity to the life that already is. I think you cucked yourself.
I don't disagree with you, but I must correct your bullshit.
2&4 are false. You can get woman shoulders if you start hormone treatment before puberty and just googling "how to sound like a girl" gives a decent list of performances virtually indistinguishable from the real thing.
0.999 = 1
>Indistinguishable from the real thing
You obviously have never heard it then.
If you have, then it's probably because I'm good at picking up subtle details in audio.
I just can't fuck someone who sounds like a nasally man.
Male vocal cords are too different. You have to be very lucky to be born with just the right voice to sound exactly like a female without no one thinking twice. No matter what, the XY chromosomes create fundamental differences no matter how many hormones you take. Some of these differences can't be overcome.
Then it's simple you're a fucking degenerate and you belong with the rest of the trash.
Exactly... You wanted to attract a nice guy, and instead of just being gay, you turned yourself into a sex toy for insecure weirdos who want to play with dicks but don't want to feel gay after...
This is what happens when you listen to the internet, anon...
Thats what happens when you date weak men. Sounds like he was a faggot anyways. I mean; cant even break up with his partner?
>going out with a twelve year old
You need a real man with goals and aspirations and who doesnt waver at obstacles, and that includes your own relationship. There needs to be reasonable negotiation between you two
Quite frankly I completely agree with you. You shouldnt be treated like a sexual object. But people who do come to /b/ and announce their presence do so with a few socially established rules in the culture. This place is for social outcasts who are neglected by society. If they feel to be a social outcast they must force any to conform to their culture then what more do you expect from these situations? You can promptly disengage from the fact that your gender exists - and that equates to disengaging from your emotions. If you ask me it just sounds like your own head is up your ass
I agree with that statement too. So people who are going to go out with this person have to be okay witg being open about that fetish. Its not me or you. And thats okay. But no reasonable person would hate them purely on that.
>inb4 not hating OP automatically for being a faggot
>have to be okay witg being open about that fetish
The problem is that transexualism is literally only a fetish to those who aren't actually transexual... And those who live the transexual life either do it for the love of filling that particular sexual niche and being that freak, or are suffering from deep-seeded mental issues... Or, like OP, are just trans-trenders who don't understand that it's a fucking fetish revolving around a mental disorder, and not just a fashion choice...
I don't hate him for being transgender, I hate him for being a fucking retard...