How do you guys cope with social anxiety/ self esteem issues? My own family are calling me a lazy asshole and a pussy. What should I do? Haven't left my house in 2016 and thinking about killing myself. I don't even come out of my room except to get food/drink or use the toilet.
xanax or weed
>>674307061
Thanks, I like the meaning of this. Even if it's not in my grasp without drastic changes to my life. I want to hike to the other side of Britain and become homeless and just start over, but I've been able to find absolutely zero information on the likely outcome of doing so. For example would an English council provide me with housing and help, or would they kick me back to my home town?
pfft, havent left your house in 2 months
theres no advice that will make anything better for you, whatever you do will hurt, it will hurt and frighten you, but the alternative is being 40 years old and your mother bakes your slippers and your sperm filled sheets. who wants that? thats the route to being a fucking serial killer
nothing will help, nothing will make it better, it is going to suck and frighten you
get out and go somewhere else, you cant starve to death in your country, and you cant end up on the streets unless you are either schizophrenic or addicted to heroin, get a shitty night job at a pizza place, dont talk to your shitty family, dont get any loans, in 5 years maybe you wont be shit, good luck you fucking faggot
>>674307613
I'm not serial killer material though, I just have this terrible anxiety I can't shake off. I wouldn't hurt a fly.
>>674308267
you should piss on a fly if it looks at you funny
>>674307325
how about you be realistic, get a job or skill that earns you money and rent your own house wherever you want.. do you actualy think it will just be given to you when you run away? are you even 13 yet?
>>674306293
Are you from Germany?
>>674308267
I've been there fam. Honestly, it fuckin sucks but you need to work on removing your refrigerator hum of anxiety through meditation and other shits. Start meeting people and try to find the good in people because your shitty frame of reference as everyone is a menance or secretly talking shit about you is just in your head. You'll meet many people, find something that interests you, pursue it, reach to a mastery after learning to work hard, and make yourself more into a person who gives value to others. You'll probably meet a 7/10 who will make your dick hard and you'll get over your loli/trap addiction after fucking some real good pussy. and then you realize the whole journey was because wasnt as hard you imagined and all because you decided to do something about your life.
Headstrong. Care for nothing other than yourself and act like no one other than yourself. You'll quickly find the world will bend to your will.
OP, Ive been where you are. Ive taken all the drugs, ran away, volunteered with orphans and poor families in Africa and China, and then had orgies with underage girls in Bangladesh and Russia. Been in the middle of a tornado and dived down to where the South American and Asian tectonic plates meet. And after all of that, I learned one thing.
It doesn't get better. It never does. I'm considering ending it because there really isnt any point in it, never was. You'll make your own decision but if youre waiting for something, then just save yourself the time. Some people arent really meant to be ok, OP.
Go to a fucking doctor and sort your shit out
>>674308789
I wish I could find a job. Also one I like. I'm 28 and counting.
>>674308942
United Kingdom
>>674306293
I need money so I have a job. I work in. Kitchen, where people usually don't give you shit about you if you can do your job. Though the pay is shit.
>>674306293
Fuck you OP, you're a pussy.
Posted a good image though, so let's turn this into a /comfy/ thread
>>674306293
Seek out help from a place that isn't /b/, first of all. You want to get advice from people who actually have their shit together.
I dreamt about suicide every day since middle school, but I changed it all with this one simple trick. Doctors hate me.
Do drugs and get hobbies. So you can do your hobbies on drugs.
>>674306293
Are you ugly, OP? If not, have you considered dating websites? Where do you live, I could help you, if close by.
>>674307061
Saved. This made me feel.
We are pussies op, i know your feel
But only you can yourself. You can do it if you really want it.
>>674306293
I'm 31y and I'm still with your problem. I once had a job in a factory with some nice female co-workers, but the economic crisis came and fucked my chances to heal. I didn't even bother to search for a job again because unemployment here is around 20%. Couldn't study due lack of financial support and that my parents made me feel a lot of unstability, and also, because my anxiety hurt me from birth and I never treated it.
I also get the "lazy" shit. They'll never understand.
My advice: please, please, go out even if it hurts you. I think you'll feel happy by the end of the day every time you try believe me. And without even taking meds.
Work out, it'll raise your self esteem to the clowds, you basically drug your brain with exercise.
I'm the one killing myself here because I'll never have a job again and there are way to many things from my past that hurt me, but please dude, don't stay at home, dont make my mistakes.
Sorry for my english, it isn't my mother language and I wrote everything quickly.
Jeez just stop being a little bitch holy shit
