/b/ how do I subtly convinve my gf to slim the fuck down? shes 100/100 everywhere but shes just gotta slim down
Uh, suggest working out together to get healthier?
Tell her you mostly want to do it for yoursel,f but having her do it with you will help motivate you.
If you're already doing so, still tell her that having her do so with you will help motivate you.
Yeah, honesty is always best in these situations. Simply set her down and have a conversation about her weight. She probably doesn't even know that she's getting a little chubby.
She'll thank you for it afterwards.
she has 0 motivation to do this, ive tried many times but she wont budge.
i understand that but sometimes when we are fucking i just want to pick her ass up and throw her around the room like a toy. cant do that if she is 60kg
she gets shit like that from her friends and family and says she likes me cause i dont do that shit, bit theres a limit where even i start to notice her chub
nah my dicks too big for her to leave
>cant do that
>perfect tits and body
You should start working out, you fucking child, get over yourself you fucking malnourished faggot of a human being.
There's only 1 way to approach this situation without moving into the doghouse for a couple months; ask her to workout and run with you.
Any other question you ask, relative to her weight, will end terrible for you.
Op I feel yea man.
My gf is working out but it's not fucking changing anything about the fucking fat around her stomach/crotch and I love her but God fucking I'm so fucking sick of it.
It feels emasculating. I love her. But she's not fucking slim enough for my personal taste.
God Damn relationships
for the record i do go to the gym, i bench like 500 and squat 350. I can lift her but its just not practical
a big issue is that i am scared her boobs will go if her lard does as well
Yea, all I can think about is wanting to fuck younger leaner chicks. It sucks when you live with someone and they are part of your life so entrenched.
And all you can fucking think about is 19-20 yr old sluts
I miss sluts yo
>she has 0 motivation to do this, ive tried many times but she wont budge.
Time for new girlfriend. Anybody who won't take care of their own body is not someone you want that close in your life long term.
Don't try to be a hero. It won't work. You can't change something this fundamental. She might change it, eventually, or not, but you can't predict when and you should waste your life waiting.
>Big fat virgin detected.
Every anon with a wife or gf knows the last thing you can tell a woman to her face is that she's fat.
OP has a genuine problem. I don't have a solution but whatever you do don't tell her to her face.
>Anybody who won't take care of their own body is not someone you want that close in your life long term.
Shes 5'3 and 132lbs. That's not fat, OP just wants to fuck super skellyman.
Tell your girlfriend not to eat for 3 years and she'll be exactly what you want OP
Honestly I have this problem too. My girlfriend is not just a little chub, she is bordering on health problems yo. She's put on weight since we've been together these 3+ years. I've had the talk with her and she understands it's a problem but she just won't budge either. Actual advice for us other than the bullshit you guys have been saying?
General ideas are:
Go on a diet, ask her to do it with you to keep you motivated
Invite her to the gym or whatever else you use to stay in shape
Basically whatever excuse you can use that seems like you're using it as an opportunity to spend time with her, she'll want to do it all the time.