/b/ me and my girlfriend have started an open relationship i already have my eyes on someone i want to fuck. she however said that the guy she likes is black. should i go through with it ? maybe we can have some sort of rules.
enjoy HIV
Open relationship means dead relationship. OP cancel it now or lose her to someone else. Also pics of gf since its open
>>680198624
i'm sure she would use protection.
Fuck you. This shit makes me angry. Hope you enjoy your used up girlfriend.
Especially Heinous.
>>680198443
if you are both fucking other people, you may as well be single. you aren't in love. youre just in an unhealthy relationship. you both need each other as a crutch, but want to fuck other people.
>>680198443
You are a troll, so kill yourself.
If you are serious then, yes you should go through with it, what do you care what race the guy is?
>>680198891
I am so sorry anon, it must be difficult to be this retarded.
>>680198776
why ? and it's just 1 guy she would still be far from used up
>>680198443
Do it. I'm in an open/swinging relationship. Married 20 years. I:
- have fucked hundreds of women
- have done mmf, mff, mffm and group play with up to 10
- fuck my wife 3 times a week
Be safe!
DO IT!
>>680198891
i know it's not conventional but there are people that make it work
>>680199114
not even the same anon but you're a complete retard if you think an open relationship is a relationship. she's a natural whore but its even worse since she likes to fuck black people.
grow up
>>680199175
this
Lol enjoy the end of your relationship
>>680198746
no she wont, shes a whore who wants to fuck black men
>>680199114
Its true dumbass. If it was actually "love" thats allowing this to happen why is OP fucking crying that his gf wants to fuck a black guy. OP just wants to make sure he has garunteed pus while he tries to get other women.
Tldr OP is a faggot
>>680199277
>open relationship
>relationship
there anon, we've established it's a relationship.
>>680198443
>open relationship
OP is a cuck, girlfriend isn't satisfied.
>>680199028
>what do you care what the race the guy is?
welcome to 4chan newfag, enjoy your stay
>>680199370
open relationships are awesome, but I assume op is crying on here because he is a troll.
>>680199175
So you're a pussy cuck fag who cant tie down in a relationship because your wife is a whore
She's cheating on you.
>>680198443
cuck king
>>680199432
>been here since 2004
:(
>>680199416
classic beta missing out on having more sex than just one girl
why aren't you out fucking more than one girl you whiney little bitch?
>>680199028
Implying that fucking a nigger isn't bad
>>680199527
She's not a whore. She's a slut. A very happy slut who raises my kids, sucks my dick and holds my balls while I fuck Becky.
>>680199660
>implying that you arent a nigger
>>680199432
>pretending /b/ was always racist
Go back to eBaum's World.
>>680199552
she hasn't cheated once in all the years we've been together, this was a mutual decision
>>680199699
Lol I hope your kids get to grow up and realize what a faggot their dad was
>>680198776
been in an open relationship for years and its great
regularly have sex with other girls and plenty of fmf with my gf too
>>680199660
>implying it is bad
>>680199776
Don't listen to the virgins. These slack-dicked losers can't believe anyone gets enough pussy to share, since they get none at all.
leave her and be fwb
did she bring up the idea or did you?
are you ok with her being with other men?
>>680199622
dubs confirms he's right
>>680199839
>it is
>>680199806
wanting to fuck more than one woman
>faggot
uhh ok dude
>>680199991
/b/ virgins are lousy with things like logic and English.
>>680199976
>is not
>>680199114
>>680199240
I know a few swingers, and honestly it's usually the girl being a whore, and the guy going with it out of being afraid of being alone. OP is actually just worried that his gf will fuck 10 other dudes while he grinds away trying to get laid by 1 or 2 girls.
>>680198443
>>680199416
>>680199527
>>680199554
i'm not a cuck, i get to fuck someone else aswell
>>680198443
dump her
>>680198443
I disagree with the fags in this thread that say open relationships can never work, but it's not for you. If you have that much hesitation, it will bother you too much on a subconscious level to ever be comfortable in the relationship.
An open relationship can work, but only if both partners have the rare ability to be entirely trusting and in love with each other, while truly not being bothered on any level by the idea that the other partner is fucking other people. Most people have it too ingrained that sex = emotional intimacy to make that work. You both have to be truly, entirely aware that it doesn't, and trust that the other partner has no competing emotional interests regardless of whose dick they're taking.
>>680200079
>and honestly it's usually the girl being a whore, and the guy going with it out of being afraid of being alone.
sounds like you and your friends are pathetic. or else the people you 'know' are actually just things you read about on 4chinz
>>680200079
There is a lot of bullshit in the swinger world. "Guy wants pussy doesn't want his wife to fuck other guys" is a common thing. Those couples usually stop coming around.
>>680200193
Dude, there's no shame in being a cuck.
>>680199991
nice almost quints.
>>680200066
nice full house bby
>>680200193
a cuck is the husband of an adulteress
she might be a little wide after though OP, maybe ask her to only fuck one hole so you still have one left where you can actually hit the walls
>>680198443
Your stupid
She'll totally fuck more guys then you will fuck girls. This will most likely damage your psyche as a man.
>>680200443
A cuck is a guy who gets so much pussy he can share. A virgin gets no pussy. Check a nearby mirror.
>>680200443
so he's not then is he
you moron
>>680200279
look at swingers you know then. The wife is almost always fine as fuck, and knows it. She wants to get fucked. the guys are usually just along for the ride.
>>680200598
we're not all as insecure as you my friendly beta pal
>>680200326
>>680200443
There's no shame in being a willing cuck. Fetishes are nothing to be ashamed of. Some guys just honestly get off by seeing women fuck other dudes.
What is shameful is letting your woman fuck other men even if you're uncomfortable with it, cause you're too scared or subservient to say no.
>>680200764
um....yeah, no.
>>680199175
Cuck fagg
>>680200326
>>680200443
we're BOTH fucking different people
>>68019843
op you are just a retard ahhaaha
GF? Just call her bitch because she is
and fucking a nigger is rassenschandenhure
>>680200913
are you a retard or 15? possibly both
not everything makes everyone a cuck? jesus this fucking meme word of the month is becoming so annoying already
>>680200923
I know. I'm just saying that there is literally nothing wrong with being a cuck. Don't be defensive when someone displays their hateful, virginal ignorance.
>>680200598
That moment when you realize your friends aren't hanging out late on Saturday night because they like you but because your girl is openly inviting them to fuck her. Don't forget to make a souvenir t-shirt
go through with it anon, you'll make her so happy
>>680198443
>the guy she likes is black.
The relationship has ended. Her family ought to execute in an honor killing.
>>680200598
>your stupid
>your
jesus wept
>>680200193
>>680198443
Here's how your "open relationship" is going to go down OP
>you both pursue other people sexually
>you have just as hard a time as you always did
>have to take girls out on "dates" but your dating pool is much smaller because most women won't be a side chick unless you're 6'2" and ripped
>you maybe fuck a few chubby girls
>Your "girlfriend" gets a steady stream of thick pipe running through her vagina on a nightly basis because she can literally pick up her phone, text anyone she knows, and have a guy balls deep in 10 minutes
Your relationship is already over. She's going to fuck other guys anyway so you might as well make your casual sex life easier by not having to explain your "relationship" to potential partners
>>680201206
>this is what it is like to be an angry virgin
>>680201206
>>680201206
how's it going tex?
>>680200618
>>680200686
>>680200813
>>680200923
All Im saying is how much pussy you fuck, or how accepting you are changes nothing about whether or not you are a cuck. Simply put, a cuck is the husband of an adultress.
My wife and I got lucky with our first couple. I got to fuck an Asian and she got to fuck a big black guy.
Then we fucked them and watched them fuck. He is 6'2", 220 pounds, athletic. She is short, Asian and Asian. And hot.
>>680201253
>Jesus
>Jesus Christus
>>680201127
she wouldn't just fuck anyone we've been very communicative so far, she'd tell me if she was interested in one of my friendss
>>680201334
>>680200618
Also, you're so fucking stupid. I think your mistaking a swinger for a cuck.
>>680198443
ITT: OP is a cuck
>UHHEERRRRGH IM NOT A CUCK FAGGOT
>>680201334
Ok. I am married to an adultress. I'm a cuck.
- What do you call a woman married to a guy who fucks other women? "Cuckette"?
>>680201554
I honestly dont give a shit, just explaining the definition to these idiots who dont seem to know what they are saying.
>>680201620
Cuck queen
>>680201573
According to the assholes above, ANY guy who's wife has sex with other men is a CUCK.
Whatever, this cuck is way happier than the fucking virgins of /b/.
>>680198443
Open relationship is a fucking joke. You are just fuck buddies.
>>680201620
Cuckquean
>>680201620
im not sure actually. maybe?
>>680201254
i already have someone who's into me that i don't need to date.
and this is just 1 guy we're talking about. though maybe i could ask her not to do anal.
>>680201783
You mean the marriage license, the kids, the retirement, the house...all of it is irrelevant to marriage? The only thing that matters is where the genitals go?
Damn, the stupid burns!
>>680201723
The point is everyone else is attempting substance and you are attempting pedanticness
This is you. No fuck you this is me I'm flying high on my rainbow sled with Hitler like a boss watching you wear your souvenir the shirt from the night your girl had a group session with your cousins
It is very easy to see which posters are amerifags and not.
- [insert non logic reason why open relationship is not ok] [end sentence with cuck]
God Dammit amerifags, I wish I could nuke you. All of you.
>>680200595
i'm pretty sure that's a myth. even if it is, bigger isn't always better
>>680201620
lol first image when i searched "cuckette"
>>680202146
FUCKING HILARIOUS
>>680202077
but americans are aaaalways right
look at how well we vote for our presiderps
>>680201885
That's something at least. But honestly the relationship is dead.
Young people shouldnt bother with open relationship crap. Be close friends, love each other, be single together.
If you wind up together and swinging in the end then great but why chain yourselves to each other in the mean time?
>>680199716
The new smell on you is strong, newfriend.
>>680201748
probably more truth to that than you know
>>680202192
you mean HILLARYOUS?!
RIGHT?!
RIIIIGHT?!?!?!
>>680201937
All of that hinges on faithfulness. Sorry, I used to agree with you, but I completely 100% agree with the anti-open relationship people. Women simply have a different view of trust and faithfulness than men. Women look at it more in terms of convenience to themselves, men look at it in terms of convenience to their partner. Open relationships just open a can of worms that you won't be able to close unless the relationship ends
>>680198631
all of this
>>680202322
SHRILLARIOUS!
>>680201795
i read this as (cuh-kwee-on) perfect term.
>>680202077
Haha, had a feeling the euros were the ones being cucks. You guys have lost your heritage and your national pride, may as well lose your manhood too
>>680202356
We've been doing it for 20 years. Get back to me in another 20. In the meantime, I'll keep going to sex parties on weekends.
Nigga you need to leave
Remember no matter what she can can laid faster than you.
>>680199114
shut up cuck
>>680202077
too bad we wont let you build nukes. be careful getting riled up now, we might have to give you a little pat on the ass.
>>680198891
People say their happy but the are clearly not, 2 fucked up people who dont know what loyalt is. So i agree with you.
>>680202520
Then you're an outlier. Women really don't handle this stuff well. And btw, the only men that need to brag about how much pussy they get on 4chan are anime pillow hugging kissless virgins
>>680202077
Watch out anon, you could get arrested in the UK for posting threats like that on the internet
>>680202077
it's like watching a fucking bunch of chickens writing in here
cuck, cuck, cuck
cuck fucking cuck
The virgins of /b/ never fail to entertain. If you need:
relationship advice
mental health help
help meeting women
help with anything to do with sex
come let these virgins guide you with what they imagine to be the "Truth" about relationships. After all, Rosie Palm never lies.
>>680199175
Have fun being fucking dead inside you backwards ass hat
>>680198443
niggers will ruin this, been here long enough to see this situation blow up a few billion times.
>>680202128
>>680201885
you better beg to save atleast 1 hole for you.
>>680202935
dont you mean cluck? YOU FUCKING CUCK
>>680198443
Kill the black dude, so she will not leave you.
btw this is fucking stupid and you should jump into a nuclear reactor.
>>680202793
I know dozens of women who do just fine. Debbie fucked 4 guys last weekend and has fucked hundreds of men and women. She has a good job and a husband who helps with the kids.
>>680203021
dead inside? how so?
you're the one living like the bible says virginfag
>>680203122
dude this has to be shopped
>>680203044
ruin it ? what happens? i don't hate black people i just always felt a bit weird around them.
>>680203021
I'm so dead inside! Oh wait, I'm gonna bust a nut with the third chick today!
>>680203122
Shit looks like a fucking esophagus exam
>>680199716
silly nigger, ever heard of hobbo?
pools closed on this argument
>>680203217
dude id fuck your wife with you. It is pretty hot to run a train on a woman who loves to be fucked.
>>680198443
"open relationship" she's already getting the D elsewhere faggot. You've already lost her.
>>680199593
>replying to newfag accusation
>google when 4chan was founded
>"here since 2004"
fucking roody-poo candyass
>>680203217
You could say you know hundreds. They'd still be outliers. That's not the norm. I personally have been part of the kink scene for many years. I see that situation play itself out as them entering into a polyamorous relationship. They both enter it thinking "oh we're so progressive, we love each other so much." Then the woman just starts rolling in dick, while he just stays home and jacks off, or plays video games. The relationship ends when she decides he no longer provides any use to her. I've seen it happen so many times
>>680203517
>hobbo
>orginal /b
>12 year old child
>>680202856
It's ok, America isn't a real country in that sense..
It's more like a garbage heap of immigrants and rednecks.
>>680203672
I've done MMF with her, but never more guys. We did a DP on my birthday. I got the ass :-)
>>680203812
its /BEE
To be honest, I find the idea of controlling someone you love to be repulsive. This includes telling them who and what they can fuck. Long as they use protection I could really care less.. The whole possessive-relationship thing is an outdated evolutionary model and we would all be much better off without it.
Notwithstanding, it is very possible to meet someone who is a perfect match for you in every way except sexually. What do you do then - deny the person you love (and yourself!) the sexual gratification you both deserve? Cut them out of your life because you can't pull up your man-panties and see sexuality for what it is? What a load of shit, lol.
Some people really need to live a little.
>>680200595
this. she's get so many more dudes to fuck her than you'll ever fuck other girls. ask her to keep her pussy or ass for you so you still get some enjoyment,. otherwise they'll be balls deep in both holes and you'll be left with nothing.
>>680198443
Might as well, if she told you about it she's probably doing it already.
>>680203903
/thread
also why do they go on about the moon all the time, what the fuck good did that do for them?
>>680198443
protip: she already fucked the black guy and the gal you're after won't have anything to do with you
OP is asking opinion of /b/.
Disregards or insults anyone telling him it's a shit idea.
/bread
I thought we were having a good Ole fashioned bigger bash but all these faggot want to talk about their feelings.....
>>680203975
Some people have lived, and know that our generation hasn't somehow transcended millions of years of evolution, and that sometimes these "tired old oppressive patriarchal" traditions are there for a reason
>>680198443
You're jealous because you know that she's going to love getting slammed with a giant horse cock and not want your pinkie anymore. Dump her and fuck Asian turbosluts.
>>680203750
I hear you. The swinger world is a little different - couples usually have rules about who/when/where you go to fuck. Most couple have "reciprocal sex" arrangements, where they must play together or at the same time.
But I've seen lots of relationships go bad. The assumption that an open relationship fails because it is open is suspicious.
>>680203679
>>680204030
why do you think she's already cheating ? we're still making the decision. my friends would've told me if she tried anything weird when they hung out
>>680204222
LOL
>my friends would've told me if she tried anything weird when they hung out
>inb4cuckedbyallyourfriends
>>680198631
this this this
it pisses me off so much, if you let someone else fuck your gf you're a cuck, nothing more. no man goes into open relationship
>>680204279
>inb4being15andstillusingLOL
>>680204222
You're having a conversation with angry virgins. Don't expect anything except hatred, consternation and stupidity.
>>680204202
I actually think men can handle open relationships just fine. Women can't. Loyalty is treated and approached differently between the genders
>>680204185
not all black guys are hung like a horse. besides i can't see her wanting anyone much bigger than i am, she's small
OP is a cuck to the almighty BBC
>>680203913
was it snug? i've dp'd my girlfriend with toys, and i can feel the toy like it was rubbing on my dick directly. i wouldn't mind it being a dick, knowing that my girls pussy/ass hole were getting drilled between the dicks.
>>680204326
I did, because I was bored and wanted to fuck more girls but also wanted stability of a fun relationship
I just like sex with more than 1 girl, and I got bored of hiding it and cheating all the time
>>680204135
*nigger
Sorry my new phone hasn't been appropriately racistly indoctrinated yet
>>680204407
If I had to guess, I'd say men are worse at open relationships because of jealousy. Look at the comments above. Most indicate jealousy.
>>680204407
Yes and research has proven the opposite of what you said.
Loyalty for men means the wife doesn't fuck around.
Loyalty for women means the man doesn't love another girl.
Here we go again....
>>680204222
Confirmed troll. also, nice trips.
>>680204279
i could maybe understand it if it was just 1 friend but all of them keeping quiet ? nah
>>680204375
23 ):
>>680204520
let me translate
I did, because she wants to fuck some nigger andd i don't want to be alone
>>680199175
/thread
>>680204516
Oh yeah, it was snug. It was a lot hotter than using toys, especially when the other guy, on the bottom, went crazy out of the blue. Everybody came and then she made dinner.
>>680204149
Its not really about applying cliches or stereotypes to the situation. It has nothing to do with 'transcending' anything, insomuch as taking a step back and considering possible alternatives to a rigged system.
But of course, this is /b/, and everything is black and white, right?
I'm curious, what positive reasoning do you see behind this "tradition"?
>>680204509
i'm not a cuck to anyone
>>680204691
Kek that thread. Was there. Someone post the story pls
>>680204602
It really comes down to who's the more attractive spouse. Once an open relationship is established, the more attractive has absolute leverage over the entire relationship.
>>680201254
>>680204448
petite girls still like them. she'll be ruined afterwards OP,
>>680204926
Monogamy is very practical - no diseases, mixed up pregnancies, simplicity, etc.
I have no problem with it except it's fucking dull. So I let my wife fuck other guys and sometimes he and I double fuck her.
Sometimes she holds my balls and kiss me while I fuck another woman from behind. That's my favorite.
>>680205086
Perhaps, but some people won't care about keeping score.
>>680203217
Jesus I didn't think this was a cringe thread. What the fuck happened to being a man? If you were a real man your 'wife' wouldn't be fucking every guy she could. As a man fuck side chicks if you want but don't be in an open relationship. Are your kids even yours?
>>680199341
This. No self respecting human would fuck one of those monkeys. If she's willing to do that she's probably got one eye on your family pet too.
>>680205403
Real men don't let their wives fuck other men!
Real men cheat on their wives!
Real men only raise their own kids!
You're fucked in the head. Real men have sex, please their wives and take care of family and business.
>>680205573
I think he has something here.
Just get a big black dog and get a mechanic shirt for it that has stains all over it and a Dariq or Kobe name tag and watch her get railed.
She'll never know the difference and you can try to stick your pathetic Dick in her friends
>>680204671
Women ultimately see you, the man, as expendable. Sorry, that's the truth. If you enter into a relationship, and there's love, she's looking at all the things you're doing for her. If you aren't providing her with any sort of value, you're out the door. Value can also include "the tingles" or a good sex life. If you aren't providing her, she is going to start looking elsewhere. That's why they always say, whenever a woman says "I love you" always add "right now" at the end of the statement. They have a very resource/economic approach to love and loyalty.
If she already likes this guy i bet she already fucks him and just wants your money/love while getting better dick....
>>680205742
And let other men fuck their wife as well right?
>>680205742
lol holy shit dude your the fucked up one, enjoy your STD's and raising other guys kids
>>680205108
i already have 1 girl who's willing. and why do you assume my girlfriend will do all kinds of weird shit. she'll probably just stick to the 1 guy aswell
>>680205245
You're getting let down easy. Either you propose or just continue with the 'open relationship' but prepare yourself for the split.
>>680205935
She'll fuck a ton of guys and will just stop talking to you about it
>>680198443
cuck
>>680206022
Honestly, OP, this. 100x this. If she was the one that proposed this, she has likely already cheated. If she hasn't cheated yet, you have already lost her emotionally, and it's just a matter of time. Cut her off. Show some respect for yourself.
>>680206022
i don't see why she'd ditch me for him. i've got a better job, my own place. it would be definite step down
If you set rules, she will break every one of them. That's just how women are.
Most niggers carry disease. No niggers.
>>680206364
she'd use condoms
>>680205896
If the couple decides to.
I don't have a problem with guys who prefer monogamy. It's not a bad thing. But I don't think letting my wife fuck another guy is a bad thing. Sometimes, it's hot. Maybe I'll get in there too!
>>680206274
So you can still be the cash cow while she's out milking all the cocks she wants.
You're a troll or a retard. If you're a troll nice bait for making me respond.
>>680206274
Your job and your own place are the only reasons she isn't breaking it off with you in the first place. She wants her cake and to eat it too
>>680206321
this. she won't be able to resist. she'll do her ass regardless of any rules
>>680198443
C U C K
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>>680198443
C
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>>680206867
HOT! How soon??
>>680198443
even an ass ugly girl can fuck a guy who works out all the time if she tries hard enough/gets him drunk. the same cannot be said for guys, don't do it OP
Open relationship is fine, I'm in one myself, BUT this isn't going to work if you don't already have a girl for yourself. If you have trouble meeting women you're in trouble. You will quickly resent the fact that your partner, being a female, can get laid basically at will while you struggle.
So I sure hope you already had your girl in hand or can readily get one of your own.
>>680207180
how soon till what ?
>>680198443
Rule # 1: No blacks.
>>680207352
Wisdom. Take the opportunity to become a player. If the relationship fails...well...you should be getting pussy anyway.
>>680206404
And if you trust your life to a flimsy piece of plastic you're more stupid that I thought. Condoms break. Often.
>>680207467
How soon can that guy get his cock up OP's wife's ass??
>>680207352
yeah i already have atleast 1 who's willing. already talked about it, taking final decision tomorrownight
Nice titties on that heffer, my gf of 2 years wants to do 3soms with girls. Now my question is, do i go out and find the girl or does she? Should they fuck around first and get comfortable or is it all in balls deep from the start. Keep in mind i dont give a fuck if i lose this one so..
>>680207620
if we go through with it wed probably arrange something for this weekend. but i'll ask no anal. we've only recently did it for the first time.
>>680208067
if you think you love her, don't do it. If you guys are basically fwb that hang out alot it could be pretty cool
>>680203484
>esophagus exam
>shows larynx
>>680208067
I hope you have a blast!
My preference is MFF, but I have had great encounters with MMF. The other guy matters a lot. I have to like him a little bit. If I don't like him, I let her go alone.
To everyone that says there isn't a reason to have an open relationship, you do realize we are the only species of mammal and pretty close to only animal that swears monogamy to someone for life? It is nice to always have someone to do something with, that helps around the house, and that helps raise a kid with you, while neither of you want to just fuck one person for the rest of life. If you truly love sex I'd imagine the swinger life would bolster your bond and coupled satosfaction more. The people spewing shit about "disloyal" and "cuck" are just your typical small-man syndrome fuckers who probably drive big lifted trucks and own 5 AR15s to make up for their inability to satisfy their own self worth much less a woman.
>all these white forever virgin permabetas angry ITT
Kekekekekek literally the best incentive to fuck white women
>>680208460
How full is /b/ of self hating virgins? The evidence is clear:
Guys who claim to have sex are routinely dismissed as liars. If you're a virgin who can't laid, it makes sense. Applying your life experience to a situation out of context is a foolish idea because you have no idea about the lives of others. At least you're just a virgin, not a lying virgin?
Q: Who does the /b/ virgin army hate more than guys who get pussy?
A. Guys who give it away. Cuckolds, swingers and people in open relationships are betas who don't know how to manage their relationships. The virgin army simply can't believe that some guys have enough pussy to share. Geez....how much pussy is that?
Tons. If you have a problem with other peoples' active sex lives, it probably just means you don't have sex, you bunch of mean, jealous fuckheads.
>>680207837
Don't fucking wait. If she's game, get in there. Remember part of what helps keep your main partner loyal is the continued perception that you have worth and resources and are desirable to other women. And your own resentments will be greatly reduced by having an outlet of your own.
As for him being black, well, that's always been a popular taboo and it's only gotten more fashionable lately, so it's not really a surprise. Part of the point of the open relationship is exploring and indulging things you would not get to otherwise. Just make sure she's being safe (the pill, not condoms) because niggers are hell-bent on knocking women up, it's a cultural trophy for them, and when you're getting your brains fucked out and you're cumming yourself silly women too want the man to cum inside. If she's on the pill, no worries.
Give me her number and I'll talk to her for you okay buddy?
>>680208067
asking her won't matter, he won't ask either.
>>680208830
i'm fine with her seeing someone else as long as i am too but i'm not going to help other guys.
>>680208621
Are you autist? Your post makes no sense.
>>680200067
>is too
>>680208460
How many mammals can build buildings? What about leave the atmosphere and return? Or conquer every continent but one? Do you think that single difference may play a part in our astounding success as a species?
>>680208701
>Don't fucking wait. If she's game, get in there. Remember part of what helps keep your main partner loyal is the continued perception that you have worth and resources and are desirable to other women.
THIS. The guys advising you against the open relationship have never had sex and never had a gf. Read the posts. FEAR FEAR FEAR
If you can attract women, go for it. The woman you have now will see the value you bring and treat you better.
>>680198443
let's just say it was a prank https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8b37rOhBwYQ
>>680198443
Lol have fun during the break up. To have a slight chance of open relationships working you need to set up rules and boundaries, it can't just be a free for all.
>>680205137
what's her name?
>>680209139
Would you help them if they helped you? That's literally the deal in the swinger community. I send my wife to Tim's house and Tim sends Debbie to mine. Maybe on different nights, as Tim and I both like MFF.
win/win/win/win
>>680209545
>THIS. The guys advising you against the open relationship have never had sex and never had a gf. Read the posts. FEAR FEAR FEAR
I've been married for 10 years and I'm telling him to not do it.
>If you can attract women, go for it. The woman you have now will see the value you bring and treat you better.
That or she's using him as a crutch while she's out looking for a better situation.
Since my wife and I have been married we've seen a bunch of friends relationships fall in the shitter. Out of the 3 that tried an open relationship all three ended in divorce.
In regards to the OP attracting women there's something to that but really only if he were to go out and cheat and not her. If he went out and started deep dicking his secretary or something like that there's a chance his gf would see that she's been treating him like shit and she'll overcompensate to keep him.
>>680210281
She's gonna treat him better after he cheats? Somehow, I doubt it.
>>680198443
Fuck all that.
The nigger things just makes it worse.
Will not end well, trust me. If you really feel for this girl, and if she feels the same..these is no need for that. Buy toys, lube and other ways to spice it up if things getting stale.
>>680210281
I've been married 12 years and open relationship is working juuuuust fine, and has done for 6 of those years. :^) Obv. individual mileage may vary and you can never be certain what another person will do. But it can be done, if you trust, love and respect one another, and remember to COMMUNICATE.
All relationships have trouble, open or not. The trick is not giving up when things get rough, and being careful in your choice of a lifelong partner. Lovers will come and go, the partner is a constant.
>>680198443
>tfw watching porn with my girl
>she picks "ocean man destroys brunette with his huge cock"
once you go black we dont want you back
dump her if you have any standards or self respect
>>680210602
this
>>680210436
It doesn't seem logical but a friend of my wife found out her husband was fucking a coworker and it worked out like that.
She really was a miserable cunt before hand but afterwards she became like a super wife.
She wasn't horrible looking, but I think she might have thought she couldn't really do better? I honestly can't tell you why it brought them closer together.
>>680210949
Pre-selection. Women are as competitive as men, and it helps you narrow down your choices if you see a man who has already proven to be acceptable to someone else. It also shatters any illusions one might have about being irreplaceable. Humility is a wonderful thing for mellowing people out.
This is why having a wedding band on can often get you as much pussy as taking it off before you head out to cat around.
>>680210281
Something to consider is that using open relationship as a band-aid for an already trouble relationship is likely doomed to failure, just like counseling and having another baby or any of the other stuff people try can be ruinous. My relationship was just fine when we decided to explore having lovers, and so there was no acrimony or resentment to poison the venture.
Obviously it had it's problems and it caused stresses at times, but if you just keep working at it and remember to listen to (and put first) your main partner, you can get through it. Like anything, it gets easier with practice.
>>680199716
oh god I'd forgotten ebaums. help me to forget again
>girly balls
>>680201397
make fun of jesus. but you leave Christmas the fuck out of this
>>680211988
this
>I get girls trying to hook up with me when Im in a relationship and Im average as fuck
>be single and no one even looks my way
>>680210436
can confirm, wife disrespected me for a whole year while i stood there being beta as fuck. got fed up fucked her friend and told her i wanted a divorce. she begged me to stay. we went through counseling and shes done a 180 going back to someone i can depend on. NEVER be afraid to walk away. it's the only real power you have. people are easy to become complaisant. and its easy to forget the effort and reasons you went after someone when you think they will always be there and that you don't have to put in any work anymore.
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>>680199552
is it any surprise the average 4chan poster is this violently insecure
still not realising that love is literally a choice that an adult has to make, and terrified by the prospect that at any moment the girl they somehow tricked into falling for them will wake up and disappear
