Not gonna post his name but holy HECK I think I have a crush on him
Lisa. I had to break up with her a year ago because her father wouldn't let her date someone who wasn't Chinese and threatened to stop paying her tuition. I did it for her but she's moved on. I never will
Jessica I basically am in love but i am to beta to even ask fro her number and dont really know how to flirt or anything anybody got some advice on how to progress things further than sorta friends?
well idk i would talk to a tree if it approached me and if you are someone they know just drop your phone number to him maybe as he leaves and say to text you later he will probably do so and it would be easier to talk to him over text i imagine
Just be yourself around him, if you want him to know you like him, flirt with him etc. Smile at him a lot, look at him during class. He will get the message. Just don't go overboard. Also, girls can ask guys out too.
Odds are in your favor. Men will rarely reject a woman's advances unless the man is already taken. Even then, they might still try to pursue you. The only way you'd fail is if you're fat, a bitch, or don't ask at all
Make her something. Make a big meal and eat it somewhere nice. If you're an artist, make are a piece of art. You could also write her a letter and write one thing you love about her per month you've been together. Couple this with the dinner and/or art idea, and you're good to go
I tried 2 months ago. She said uhh idk. I got upset then we didn't talk for like 3 weeks. Then I told her some bullshit like, ya know maybe a relationship isn't good for us right now. She agreed then we fucked.
We still fuck like once or twice a week. Call almost every day, and i stay over once or twice a week which we never did before that. I'm on the phone with her now talking about work.
I don't really feel much about her. Just guilt. I should never have slipped. Or trusted her.
You can fix the ugly part by having a better hygiene routine and getting a decent haircut and dressing well, combined with being confident and witty. It takes time but for now, work on the appearance and hygiene. If you're having a hard time being clever, just focus on being kind and honest. You can find love as a "/b/tard" if you: stop using the phrase, don't use internet memes/jokes in public unless you're with someone that also finds them funny, and develop hobbies outside the Internet. Read a book, watch movies, listen to music, go see plays, but develop a part of you that is real and relatable and things will turn out fine. Also, post a headshot with your eyes covered so we can see how attractive you actually are (and not give away your identity). I'm assuming you're not actually ugly, but just average. If that's the case, there's someone out there that you'll be a 10/10 to
>5 year long relationship
>very in love
>love and trust her
>she wants to go to nightclub
>not feeling it that night
>okay with her going with friends anyway
>cheats on me with best friend
>spiral into alcoholism and depression
>try an hero
>pick myself up
>She comes along some months later
>makes everything okay again
>call her Luna because she likes the moon
>she calls me Les Etoiles because I like the stars
>leaves abruptly leaves before anything ever really started
>can't look at the moon with out thinking of her
Fuck it bruh, whatever.
I miss her so much get fucked b/
As sad as it may sound to you now, it will fade eventually, and then you will know true peace.
Please learn to love yourself and be independent.
The best advice ever given to me, from a girl, haha!
Take care /b/ro.
Anon, you're one of the kindest and most helpful people I've ever come across on /b/. Thank you.
Here's my face, no eye censor because no editing app. I guess my main problem is that I look young for my age. Other than that, I'm just ugly and not what guys like.
You have very beautiful eyes! I definitely think you're kind of a cutie, but I'm just some anon on the Internet and what does my opinion matter to you, eh? Honestly, you could just use an atitude change and you could be talking to guys in no time. Besides, you don't really need to try with dubs like those.
Could we possibly see the rest of you? This is only for analytical purposes of course.
I ain't the guy you were talking too, but how the Frick do you think you're ugly? If that really is you that is. The girl in the picture is pretty attractive imo. Good luck to you.
Thank you, that's very kind of you!
And no, sorry, I see that this is probably going to lead to someone asking me to follow the "rules". I know the rule of /b/ and never follow it but I will not gtfo.
See, but this is where you are wrong. I was simply asking for more because I was truly intrigued by your situation and why you would feel this way about yourself. I feel like you could do a lot better than you THINK you can, but are more afraid of having some asshole affirm the fears you have about yourself. Once again, I'm just some random on /b/, but eyes like that are something quite special. Just take care of yourself and once you start feeling better it'll show in your actions. All human beings are attracted to confident and healthy people. You won't have any trouble once you realize the world is your oyster. Just bat those long lashes at em and they'll fall right over.
It is me (pic w/ time stamp for proof) and heck, thank you so much. I'm just extremely socially awkward, only ever dated one guy but he broke up with me 3 weeks ago. and I currently might have a crush on someone who doesn't like me back. Siiiigggghhhh.
Heck man, you're too kind.
And sorry to jump to conclusions. But I usually get asked if I know the rules any time I mention I'm a grill.
People like you are what we need here on /b/.
The only thing I'm noticing is the acne, which is a pain in the ass, I've dealt with it myself. Acne isn't a deal breaker, it's just annoying. The stuff that seems to work for me is Cetaphil Derma Control. It seemed to work for me and it's not harsh enough to fuck up your skin. It's not a pain in the ass to use like Proactiv, just a normal foam wash. I don't mean to be a shill, it just worked for me. You can get it at Rite Aid.
Longpost Anon here,
You've very pretty eyes and overall attractive face. Another anon said it, but you'd look better with longer hair. If I saw you your acne wouldn't make you less attractive to me, but getting rid of it would help your confidence. Be sure wash your face in the morning (after brushing your teeth) and at night and to change your bedsheets and pillow cases once a week. Also, looking young for your age isn't a problem in finding guys, but unless you're at a college party or something with people who know you're the same age, some dudes might creep on you for looking young. I'm also the guy who posted about the Chinese ex gf at the top of the thread. I've dated quite a bit and you're cuter than anyone I've dated. You just need to be confident in yourself as a person first. Are you in school and/or have hobbies?
Yeah, I'm a bit too kind and have about the same problem as you. I'm not extremely socially awkward, but I find friends more capable of pulling women at parties and in general, but I'm not the kinda to lament about it. I'm sure things will work out in your favor, seeing as you are a grill and all. Also, you have superb taste in music judging from your Gorrilaz shirt, so you already have that in your favor.
Cetaphil is pretty good shit in general. A dermatologist recommended the brand to me. Everyone is different so I can't make any guarantees, but it's better than the shit that dries out your skin and does nothing for the acne. By the way, a little lotion on your face can help. It may sound counterintuitive, but if your face is dries out, your skin compensates by excreting more oil, so more acne. Hope that helps.
A little below shoulder length might be what you're looking for, then.
HECK DUDE GORILLAZ IS MY LIFE THANK YOU
And thank you so much for the advice and encouragement, this is the most positive response I've ever gotten from posting on 4chan, ever.
The rules are not meant for every grill.
Old fags will remember that it's only used for when someone says "I'm a grill and my opinion is this...."
It's too keep it neutral because you can have an argument without bringing your own personal self into the conversation. Your points are sufficient.
But in this case it's ok to say you are a girl because you are talking about yourself to begin with.
It's to ward off attention seeking girls who used to get all the betas to side with them because of their gender.
Maybe he brother will see this bc i know he goes on here. Maybe he'll even tell her he saw this, idc. The only reason I got a new girlfriend was so I would stop thinking about Marisela, I thought it worked for about 2 maybe 3 months: it didn't.
Then you shouldn't worry too much about the relationship stuff right now. You'll have all of that fun in college. Be sure that you know what you want to study before going and the rest of college is a breeze as long as you show up to class and study. Also, join an interesting club and/or study abroad. You meet tons of great people and it'll get you experience in socializing. You'll meet a guy along the way, so don't worry. Side note: all guys want to have sex. Some guys are just willing to be in a relationship with a girl and wait a while before they do. It's not all about sex, but it's part of every relationship. When you meet a guy you like, other than noting his personality and hobbies, ask yourself "would I feel comfortable being naked and alone with this guy". It's also a big trust thing too
This. Socializing in college was way better than highschool. It's generally more relaxed because a lot of the students have gotten over their obsession of "being cool" and just chill. It's easier to find a group with your interests and everyone else is too busy to give a shit and tease you for it. Don't get me wrong, there will be assholes, but your situation is likely to improve.
Didnt expect you too look really pretty. grow out the hair, take care of the acne, and youll go from 7/10 to 9.5/10 in no time. And ask the guy you like out, maybe you would make his year by asking him out. If not, move on and goto another person you like. But always develope a friendship first, you dont want to date a complete stranger. PS. would date/10
Thank you. I honestly don't browse /b/ or 4chan in general to just be nice to people, so it means a lot when someone reconizes the times I am genuine. A lot can be learned about a person from their taste in music and I'd say you're definitely an interesting person to me. You seem pretty fun as well, so just have pride in who you are and be honest. I'm here on this thread because I've gone through loss and dealt with the same things as you and the other anons here. My "her" just happened to be named Corey and she liked all of the same things as me. She was so beautiful and free-spirited. We would listen to and make music together. Unfortunately I had to leave the state and that caused a lot of problems for us. It really makes getting through college hard knowing now that I don't have to stay here, being free from my parents and all, but you have to be successful somehow, huh? Not all of us are born with a vagina and are given the chance to blog, take selfies, and be a housewife for a living. Hey, it's all good though. Im studying mathematics, so I'm busy and interested in my field.
Just don't care. Talk to her how you talk to your friends. Maybe less swearing and ask her about herself, find common ground. Be funny, but don't try too hard. Don't forget to be yourself too, if she did somehow fall in love with someone you pretend to be then your relationship would be fake. Also, try to dress nice, at least look like you have some self decency and showers regularly. Take this advice from someone who used to be a beta for a long time.
Dress well, take care of your body, talk to her like she's a normal person, talk about shared interests, as if she wants to grab coffee sometime. If she says yes, talk about shared interests there and at the end of that ask if she'd like to meet up again "next weekend". It's a pretty standard pattern. Rinse and repeat~
Shaniqua. She has my v-card and took me on a spiritual journey. It's because of her that I became a history major.
None of them. The last one kinda broke the facade I had going on, thinking that relationships were a good route to take. Women are retarded, they don't know what they want, so they settle with being mistreated, thinking that it's love. Marriage isn't the way to go, fellas.
problem is, im always thinking about her. even though i shouldnt.
her name is jasmine, she hurt me, and i cant stay away.
she says she's happy right now with who she has, but she keeps calling me all the time. its been a while since we were together but anytime she calls i go running to her.
i drop everything im doing anytime she asks me to. im pathetic and i know it.
nobody but her has seen this side of me. but they say love is giving someone the power to hurt you and trusting that they dont.
but at this point i dont trust her anymore, but i cant help it, i love her and she once loved me.
some nights i almost convince myself that's enough.
she hurts me so bad. i asked her once when we were together if she trusted me. she said no...
i cant even allow myself to fell anything worthwhile with any other girls just in case she calls me and i need to be somewhere.
captcha is right this time..I am not a robot
Not the one you replied to but my names Jack. I had no reason to point that out. Hi, I'm Jack.
me and a friend of mine got into a big fight and it's made shit kinda awkward with the group, to fix it our mutual friend made is making us get together and talk it out tomorrow. usually this wouldn't bother me but our friend showed me texts in which she said she loves me, etc etc, i have feelings for her but I've gotten hurt by her multiple times before. what do i do /b/.
My sister. Got into a huge fight with her. She barely talks to me lately. Feels shitty.