This is literally me. I am 28 now and I have only ever been with/dated girls <20 years old. (At the inception of the relationship) I simply have a strong preference for younger girls.
Sexually it’s obviously been amazing. I’m just starting to get nervous there might be something wrong with me. Why can I not date anyone my own age?
I’m just starting to get into relationship mode with an 18 year old and I can feel my friends and family being like “fuck, again?”
Does anyone have similar experiences?
Young pussy is great and all and showing off a young cutie is nice but it's kind of validly shooting your self in the foot.
Having things in common gets harder with that kind of gap.
Having a meaningful connection. With someone that much younger probably isn't based on anything real if it's ever formed. Your chasing youth but disregarding the better part of being your own age which is knowledge gained. How can you not get annoyed with snap chat and short term knowledge on pop culture relevance?
Conversely you may just be immature as fuck Peter panning until you hit a wall a decade to late and try to grow up emotionally speaking.
Hell maybe your just afraid of someone who could challenge you mentally or emotionally.
>>768558563
Vapidly * my bad
>>768558281
I have the same issue. 29 and I find the most attraction to 15 - 22.
Though for obvious reasons I don't go after anyone under 18.
Women my age are so full of stress and drama. Like life-breaking shit. Tired of dealing with other people's crap.
The older I get the more I realize I just want to be alone with a decent fuck.
>>768558281
I'm talking to a qt but I found out she was like my sisters age and tht really turned me off I feel like a creep like I thought about licking her and made a face like a cat that licked something gross I mean I think it's legal tho but like I dunno how to get past feeling like a creep I should just kms
>>768558281
I'm 28 and started talking to a15 year old.
She's down as fuck but the law here is 17+
I want so bad though.
>>768558765
You find adults more dramatic than *teenagers*?
>>768559461
Dude for real sounds a bit cowardly of real problems outside of some teeny bopper complaining about her parents
>>768559461
Teens just got highschool drama.
Adults my age deal with jobs, failing marriages, kids, custody, house bullshit, college, debt... So much crap.
Meanwhile teens just want to be told they look cute and get food.
>>768559414
Where ya from mate?
>>768559573
Watched one of my parents die, the other is dying. Lost my home, my dogs, most of my friends, and almost lost my job.
I'm tired of dealing with other people's shit. If that makes me a "coward" than so be it but it's not my responsibility to deal with everyone's shit
>>768559693
Fuck off Chris go make another shitty show.
>>768558563
>>768559573
Why would you go into a relationship looking for a "challenge"?
>>768559651
So instead of navigating that you just revert to barely legal chicks and wonder why none of it works that long or probably all that well? (In a sense of having any true meaning or connection)
How can you be actually happy with such a face level charade?
>>768559822
Challenging emotional growth believe it or not makes for a better rounded and adjusted adult.
>>768558281
32 here. I'm short and have always looked young. Even now I can walk into a junior high and nobody would bat an eye... regardless of hairstyle, fashion, or anything else I do to appear older.
I have the same problem as you, but in the sense that women my age or older want nothing to do with a guy that could pass for their son. I gave up on dating several years ago knowing that dating women that young isn't going to amount to anything.
That may be why your family rolls their eyes thinking you're just fucking around and not looking for anything serious. You and I are still relatively young so plenty of time to date and experiment. Just don't have any high hopes of lasting love with emotionally immature women.
Just keep it legal, anon and enjoy the ride.
>>768559893
The real world is brutal enough for all the emotional development you're ever going to need.
>>768559738
So you equate youth with freedom from the burdens of age? Time is linear dude "they" might be getting younger be you for sure aren't.
Your dying parent might find peace in you finding some semblance of love outside of fickle teenagers eyes.
>>768558281
Impregnate your current girlfriend. Break the cycle.
Im 30 and get to be around 13-17yo. Teens are easy to fool/attract
You don't go with older women because you don't have to. As long as you look attractive enough toget younger girls, you will always choose the young taught body and taught vagina over the aged body of an older woman. The only reason men start to date older women is because they have to. There isn't a straight man alive who wants a female over 21 unless he absolutely has no choice. and older women know this. They hate nothing more than competing with younger vagina. i was the same as you for years. in fact., I am much older than you and still get chicks as young as 19 who want to fuck me. Most women hate me for it. Guys high five me. and some women say hey, if you can still do it, do it.
>>768560059
I mean for fucking totally.
I just can't see an 18 year old stimulating anything other than my dick. Which is cool but why "date" that?
Like I'm sorry how is no one in this thread able to find a connection with someone just because they're younger? Are you really that shallow?
>>768560181
absolutely. for fucking is all I mean.
The worst is when you date a younger chick and when you shoot her a Cheers reference she's like, what's cheers? Yea, don't go out with them. Just fuck them.
I mean. relationships in general are overrated anyway. You only live once. Think about how lame and selfish relationships are. You have to spend all your time for the rest of your life trying to make one person happy? Fuck that. think about how productive you could be in your community. think about all the friends you could be there for. Think about how well you can advance in your career and hobbies if you didnt have to waste time making one woman happy, who by the way, will never fucking be happy. Waste of time. and for what? To have someone cry at your funeral? Fuck that. Ill take having nobody give a shit I died for the freedom I'll have in life.
>>768560340
I agree. I have connected well with women 20 years younger than me. Im actually going through that now with an 18yo. I havent slept with her yet, but we have a close bond. i would never ask them to be my girl though because they have their whole life ahead of them. I like them live their lives, rather than trying to chain them down and possess them. Its lame.
>>768559414
>>768559827
>>768559976
Got a point. I guess I use it as an escape. Same as why people turn to drugs or booze. Don't want to face reality so you escape from it.
I'm supposed to schedule an appointment with a psychiatrist per work. Met with HR about some shit and they found me someone in network.
Maybe I need to make that call after all.
I did the whole date younger than in my early 20s. I was dating a bunch of 14-17 year olds. I even moved in with this 15 year old girl I was dating back when I was 20. Lived with her for a year and we fucked like crazy but emotionally she was detached for me. Still the best pussy I ever had though. I first started messing around with her when she was 13. I just couldn't help myself and her mom was perfectly cool with it all.
>>768560348
Touche'
At least you're not trying to justify dating teenagers as if it could have meaning beyond blowing your load.
>>768560429
That's an interesting perspective although it's rare for someone to only have one relationship in their entire life so it's not chaining anyone down unless they're deeply religious or something.
>>768559414
how would you even meet a 15 year old without going really out of your way
>>768560515
I have had bonds. I have had close and emotional moments. But I would never try to wifey anyone them young bitches. Because the truth is, I want the next that comes along too.
>>768560451
I had someone I loved deeply before. She was 24 and I was 26. I wanted to marry her, but she left me for someone who abused and hurt her. I eventually found love again, but she feels nothing for me.
I'm tired of finding love that hurts me. I'm tired of dealing with loss. I'm tired of dealing with pain.
I've been suicidal for years now. Idk what to do anymore. Been feeling numb for half my life. The only thing I can truly feel is anger now. But I don't want to hurt anyone.
Idk. I'm just so tired. I just want to be alone.
>>768560451
Hey best of luck /b/ro a therapist can work wonders on navigating introspection.
>>768560552
If you're halfway decent looking, they come to you.
>>768558281
How much pot or other drugs do you smoke?
>>768560528
well the truth is, I think if a young girl was really really adamant that she wanted to be with me forever, I would struggle believing it. Because its easy for them think thats the case when the world and all its options haven't presented themselves yet. When they do, a girl can stray very quickly and love can be very fleeting.
>>768560552
tinder good sir.
she set her profile as 18 so she could meet older dudes.
honestly didn't even know till she told me.
>>768560451
LMAO
You're literally paying a roastie to sit you down and tell you why you should date older chicks. May as well turn in your man card.
>>768560594
You can hide from it and the hole only goes deeper my dude.
A part of being a man at least the parts that really are hard and generally defining is facing the music of reality instead of plugging ones ears so to speak.
>>768558281
You can't date anyone your own age because they've all either got kids, are ugly as fuck, or are try-hards. Those are the only kinds of women that exist at age 28.
Either way, you're set up to either take care of another man's bastards, or to spend the rest of your life in either the subservient role or competing with your girl. Or dating a fucking monstrosity, I suppose, but I don't think you'd pick that option.
>>768560680
If finding your own true love is your objective then the quality of the sex or even how attractive your partner is basically irrelevant. It all depends what you want out of life I guess. If you really wanted to take the second guessing out of a confused young girl's head you'd knock her up and tie her down that way and she'll learn to love you for your display of dominance and commitment. You're not worried too much about her straying then.
>>768558281
Dated girls my age all through college - Most recently I've been having relationships with 19-23 year olds. I am 32... What I think it is - now bear with me. We are so used to knowing how to flirt or show interest in a person who is younger, that they don't understand how to deal with it. Like our "game" has been molded from clay over trial and error... My most recent ex is 38, so there's that.
>>768560594
I had someone I loved deeply before. Catwoman was 24 and I was 26. I wanted to marry her, but she left me for two-face who abused and hurt her. I eventually found love again, but she feels nothing for me.
I'm tired of this tight bat suit that hurts me. I'm tired of dealing with villains. I'm tired of dealing with Joker.
I've been suicidal for years now. Idk what to do anymore. Been afraid of bats for half my life. The only thing I can truly feel is my batarangs now. But I don't want to hurt anyone.
Idk. I'm just so tired. I just want to be alone.
>>768560590
At least you're not kidding yourself into Wifing some vapid teen.
Hopefully young snatch doesn't get to old as you do.
>>768560897
If we were attracted to 30 year old women we'd figure out how to flirt with them very quickly. I don't think that's what it is.
>>768560874
really bro? Nah. Im good with kids and raising a family. I want to be free bro. Thats the suckes life. Look how fucked up all you little shits are. Youre someones kids. no thanks.
>>768561003
I'm on the 'fuck having kids' train myself. That doesn't have to be the nail in the long term relationship coffin though.
>>768561003
>>768561174
This is how the white race dies.
>>768561174
LTR's are lame. Period. For me anyway. Someone else wants that shit they can go ahead. Im good. I want to fuck as many women as I can before I die.
>>768560810
this pretty much.
tbh i cant stand people under 20 anymore so i dont know how you could manage that unless you pay them.
just jerk off like the rest of us.
>>768561214
yup. Cause white men take care of their kids. So we make smart decisions regarding having them. Only stupid people have babies now. That's why the world i getting dumber.
>>768560977
I've been with plenty of them my age... I think it's just a natural desperation about them. Like they have seen all of their friends marry and have kids. So I either like go to younger or older. Older women have already achieved stuff and have accepted their life as it is... younger women don't know what they want yet... women my age are just... awkward.
But hey, get to the age of 32 with no kids, no divorces and no diseases? You get to choose who you want to date.
>>768558281
>when bugs... become real! nicee
>>768561214
Oh god here comes the "the only thing I have going for me is my arbitrary belief of feigned superiority based upon my genetics I herald as pure but have done nothing with myself" guy
>>768561416
butthurt non-white detected
>>768561540
I am white. It's ok at best don't pretend it's some mythic skill set. At best it's gotten me out of some shit with cops.
>>768561595
the white race is superior
>>768561659
You don't think you have anything in common with niggers?
Does devolving every topic into being about race sound like nigger shit to you?
It does to me at least.
>>768561759
>You don't think you have anything in common with niggers?
I don't.
>Does devolving every topic into being about race sound like nigger shit to you?
I was memeing, you're the triggered faggot here.
>>768561853
It really is hard to tell who actually believes that and who doesn't on here.
>>768558281
That’s how we were designed. We were not designed to be locked in a relationship..
>>768560348
Hello Schlomo! How are you doing, Rabbi?
>>768562009
We were also designed with rape, murder and racism. Not giving in to your biology defines modern civilization.
>>768558281
I have been dating steadily older girls, First one was younger than me 1 year, then older 1/2 year, then older 1 year then older 3 years then older 1 year then older 3 years 15 year
>>768562294
lol
>>768562294
is this a lv80 moralfag
>>768562456
>>768562436
Thanks guys i almost forgot we weren't swimming around here in the septic tank of the internet for a minute. Really, I'm not even being sarcastic.
>>768558281
Biology. You're attracted to women who are fertile. So, if you're honest with yourself, you're probably attracted to women as young as 15.
"A woman is over the hill as soon as she’s old enough to drink"
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3243803/Research-shows-men-attracted-women-early-20s-no-matter-old-get.html
I'm 38 and have fallen desperately in love with an 18 year old girl. Frankly I tried to resist it but she kept letting me know how much she was into me until one day when she really professed her feelings and just broke my will.
Fuck you if you think there's something wrong with it.
>>768562832
So you've basically fallen in love with what you wish was your surrogate daughter?
>>768561328
EXACTLY FUCKING THIS.
Middle aged American women are absolutely FUCKED IN THE HEAD. You are a RETARD if you want to have any relationship with an American woman in her thirties. A RETARD.
>>768562929
No, I don't wish she was my surrogate daughter. What the fuck is wrong with you?
We are wired to seek young, fertile mates to reproduce with. That's what nature wants us to do, so biologically, it is normal, I think. However humans and society are more complex than that so you should look for similarly aged partners, but there's no denying that our instincts make us want something different.
>>768562989
I mean if you date her that's kind of what she'll be. Girl probably has morphed her love obsession with her need for a non existent father figure which both roles you'll be conveniently filling.
>>768563080
I know her father. He's a great guy who loves her very much and us very good to and supportive of her.
Again, something is fucking wrong with you.
Because 18-20 year olds have no real stress or responsibility in their lives and are easy fucks. I give no shits that I'm pushing 30 and balls deep in 18 year olds. I'm only going to live once so I'm going to live how I want to.
Inb4 "blub blub relationship blub blub"
Fuck that. If I want to settle down I will when I'm old(er)
>>768563179
I mean I'm not seriously dating a girl 20 years younger than me as though her lack of life experience and gained knowledge is level to mine being 20 years older than her.
>>768558281
It's simple. You're an emotionally undeveloped, immature, selfish asshole with a double digit IQ.
>>768563255
And I'm not sitting on the internet at 6am judging other people's lives without knowing what I'm fucking talking about.
I'd much rather have the love of an astonishingly beautiful 18 year old than bitch about other people's lives on 4chan.
i know a few people like you, and sorry sir, they are all loosers.
If youre 28 and date someone under 20 you're either a retard or a nerd, sorry mate. thats the truth
>>768563368
We're both on /b/ right now dude clearly we aren't that great.
I'm just stating if it hasn't become painfully obvious yet. You're gonna spend a lot of your time raising this girl rather than growing on a emotionally sound level playing field because she's 2 decades younger than you.
>>768561416
I'm pro diversity. Long term, this means race conservatism.
>>768563080
>there's an age gap therefore she is your biological daughter
k
>>768563558
The least shitty answer I've ever heard to that conundrum.
Gold star to you.
>>768563635
Surrogate was the word I used. Kind of the a replacement for biological in most uses of the word.
>>768558281
Every man ever. It's the norm.
I'm 41 and the oldest girl I've ever gotten with was 16.
Look at this pic. She's only 14
>>768562832
hi Dane Cook. your comedy sucks as bad as your social media bragging
>>768563801
im jealous as fuck.
>>768563660
I think this should continue until the human race legitimately breaks into separate species. This is the most entertaining and aesthetic future.
>>768560926
I kekked
>>768562543
Shut up and pick my cotton, nigger
>>768558281
>Why can I not date anyone my own age?
Women your own age don't take you seriously.
>>768559952
your case is totally understandable imo
>>768560594
lol@batman guy, but dude, just dont kys, i mean fuck it, life throws you rocks disguised as lemons, just take them and make some lemonade yknow?
>>768559966
The real world is brutal, so you need as much emotional growth as you can possibly withstand.
>>768560348
Your fucking retarded Cheers references should be binned anyhow. It's a boring ass show and you should read a fucking book, faggot.
