So anon, when was the last time you we're in a fight? Why did you fight. and how did it end ?
>>767447861
17 years ago, because I had drunkenly mumbled something to a girl about cannibalising her boyfriend and he had drunkenly taken that for an invitation to violence, ended with me headbutting him (and kissing his gf later while he was waiting up the road to jump me).
>>767447861
About 3 years ago now. I was playing some Vidya games and heard some bitch screaming bloody murder. Went to the backyard and peeked over the fence and immediately made eye contact with this wimin who was getting her shit all fucked up by her husband. I started yelling for my brother as I'm going into the alley to confront this dude. We exchange blows. I get some good hits in, take him to the floor and punched his head a few times. Yell for my brother again. Go to the ladies house which was only three houses away. She's crying "how could he do this to me" cops show up, I go home. I go into my brothers room and he's ironing and I asked if he heard me yelling and told him why. He said "oh shit. Thought you were gonna show me a spider."
>>767448355
they still together ?
Well it was more like me trying to be into the fight and being carried away.
It was my bday party in december..ill try and greenest.
>be me, having a good time sitting at a table in a bar with my friends
>bf and friend are playing pool with these 2 random guys next to our table
>seems like things are going well
>suddenly in the corner of my eye I some odd movement and I can feel "tension" in the air
>can't really hear much due to the music but look and see my bf standing with arms crossed and chest puffed out while random guy playing pool with him is starting to get in his face
>the guy shoves my bf
>I black out
>all I remember is hoping off my barstool and running towards the guy who pushed him
>our friends hop in to join because the faggots other friend tries to join.
>I didn't care who was around or what was around
>all I know was the faggot who touched my bf was my target and I was determined to reach him
Now this is what my friends said I did during those next couple seconds (since I can't recall)...
>I'm trying to reach the guy but I'm basically in a mish pit of guys now and I'm basically being thrown around like a doll.
>friends try to grab me to pull me to safety but I keep shoving them off to reach the guy.
>finally bf grabs me and manages to drag me away
It took me about 30 minutes to snap out of it.
..i can honestly say i never felt that kind of rage.
What caused the fight btw?
My bf was wearing a metal band shirt that had an upside down cross.
Faggot asked him "do you believe in god?" My boyfriend politely said he didn't and faggot decided to try and fight him in the name of the lord
None of our friends or my bf was hurt....one of our friends managed to punch the other guy in the face.
The faggot and his friend were kicked out and we stayed.
The bartender knew we didn't start it
>20 years ago
>5-years-old
>chillin in the culdesac
>kid threatens to poke my mom's eye out with a fishing pole
>naturally we square up
>he punched me once in the gut hard (as hard as 5-year-olds can I guess, lil nigga already had a blue belt in karate in my defense)
>fall to the ground and cry
>black neighbor carries me to my front door
>his mom makes him come over later and apologize
About 10 years ago. Outside school and some lad (jock/chav type) threw stuff at my mates (we were all dirty goffs with long hair). I screamed at them to come over. Some lad who humg out with our group insinuated I was retarded. I made fun of his dead dog. He pushed me. I swung for him. Ended up ontop of him pounding his skull. He surrendered. Tried to shake his hand but he brushed me off. Some other jock/chav types chased him and beat him up further.
>>767448415
No. He moved the same week. She moved about 3 months after. He owns the home though and will go over to check things out every now and then, so I still see him. I'll wave and say hi and he won't acknowledge me at all.
Few months ago road rage type deal and fight ended because I won and lady was parked on the phone didn't see the need for another round and the cops literally pulled up on him i was already leaving and I assume he told them it was all good because we shook hands and that was that
>>767448580
Always good when it ends in a handshake.
>>767447861
Its been a while since i dont start shit anymore
I used to be the kind of guy that wakes up with beat up hands and friend would tepl me "yeah when i walked home yesterday i saw you in town pinning some dude to thw ground, punching him."
Now i remember
Last fight was in cancun, mexico. Gf, 3 good friends and me got those 3 mexicans (two guys one girl) to drive us to the beach
Got unholy drunk there
On drive home dude starts giving me shit
"Im in a gang if i want i kill your whole family"
When I'm drunk nothing scares me, so i laugh him down. If you were in a gang you wouldnt tell me, unless youre an idiot.
Boom. Suddenly we have a full on car crash. I black out. Next thing i know im on top of the gang mexican, good control of his back, triangle choke in place but not putting any pressure on. Im yelling at my friends to "get the other one" while my gf is freaking the fuck out, yelling "let him go we must run!"
Hilarious but weird.
I explain myself like this
I either thought they are going to rob us and misunderstood the crash for a full brake, or
I thought they might flee the scene, leaving me or my potentially hurt friends behind to get assraped by the cops
Tl;dr I pinned down a mexican gang member in cancun because my drunk self doesn't take shit and loves fighting
>>767447861
Last time I was in a fight was about 2 weeks ago. Girlfriend spent more money than I allowed on groceries so we ending up fighting and she ended up falling for the right hook like she always does. Ended up with only cracked molars cause I held back.
>>767447861
Also, the lady that was getting her ass handed to her in the alley, she used to walk her cat on a leash up and down the alley. She'd come over and talk to me sometimes. She'd wear this old SeaWorld t shirt a lot, on what seemed like her days off. Anyways that shirt had a little hole in it that was well below her tiddy. She walked up to me to talk and her nip was placed perfectly in the little hole. It wasn't something that could've been done on accident. I thought maybe she stuck her nip in it and forgot but then it happened a few times after that.
>>767448680
kek
>>767448680
Fake and gay
>>767448654
Don’t take shit from those assholes. Those Mexican gang members think they’re so tough but they’re pussies.
>>767447861
I don't usually get into fights. As a kid I was 6 feet tall and 200 pounds by age 12, so whenever I hit anybody it was usually seen as complete abuse and I would usually get the worst of it.
I remember a kid in particular.
>Be 12. Kid was 11.
>Don't know him, never talked to him.
>He starts teasing me during recess.
>Whenever I turn my back he will come up running and slap the back of my head. He is small and fast, so by the time I try to grab him he is already gone.
>One of those times I got a hold of his arm.
>Literally raised him up to my face as if he was the bride on a wedding.
>I could see the fear on his eyes.
>Let him fall on his back
>Kid starts crying on the ground. Got sent to a tiny room for 3 months during recess.
As an adult, it never really goes beyond a struggle. I don't really like fighting. I wouldn't mind some honest fight, you know, 1v1, no head stomping while on the ground, but people just take it too far.
>>767449162
>when you've never been in an adult relationship
sure thing, kid.
>>767449234
O right lad
>>767449234
I'm 28 and have been in one for years and we haven't even yelled at each other let alone be violent to one another.
I think it's you that needs to be the adult lol.
But that doesn't matter because your lying anyway
>>767449433
Every time me and my wife are alone for more than 30 seconds an argument breaks out. We‘ve never stricken each other though
>>767449234
I hope u r trolling. Not because I have some short of worry about you being violent to your gf, but mostly because this white trash behaviour implies poor upbringing, difficulty to deal with anger and just a bunch of problems with little to no solution and with consequences that go beyond the health of your relationships.
>>767449433
>one year
I said an adult relationship faggot, not some little kid shit. I piss out a year.
>>767449591
Keyboard psychiatrist over here. If she wanted me to stop, I'd stop. Fact is she doesn't say it bothers her and we're still together.
>hur dur, I don't like it and wouldn't do it so you shouldn't either.
>>767449501
I can't even imagine fighting with my bf.
It's been years and the worst we've had was a "silent treatment" kinda thing that st it's worst can almost last a whole day but always ends with one of is like "ugh I'm sorry I'm being moody babe I love you" and it's all good from there and even then that's only happened maybe 3 or 4 times
>>767449747
Who said one year?
I said YEARS faggot
>>767448416
You started the fight when you jumped off your stool and ran at him. What were you going to do? Hit him with your handbag? You're lucky he didn't crack your skull. Leave the fighting to the men
>>767449776
Who gives a fuck, you're 28. Mine as well be 1 week. Talk to me when you're an adult, faggot.
>>767449747
Not a psychiatrist at all. It doesn't take one to understand that being violent towards people around you is a stupid trait to have in a society.
Not to be confused with being dominant. People naturally submit to dominant characters. Violent ones just generate fear and are at constant risk of being alienated if the chance comes up.
To be honest, you and your girlfriend deserve each other. She had poor taste and you need someone to take a beating for you to remain civilized when you leave your house. Do you have any particular reason to dso this short of thing? is it just impulse? now I'm just curious as to see what you come up with to justify it.
>>767449972
I said why I did it, read the fucking post.
A few hours ago I was at the club getting lit with one of my hoes (have like 30-40 diff. girls I can fuck and party with any time I want)
Dude walks up to my hoe and starts flirting with her. After i see this i walk up to him and ask him if he's having a good time, he said yes and then I choked slammed him on the floor and asked him if he was still having a good time. Dude gets scared as fuck and pisses himself and runs out of the club as fast as he can. This is why I lift
>>767450039
No, I understand that your girlfriend spent more money that you would have liked. But people face conflicts like that often and they don't use violence to solve them. It's not about what caused you to be violent towards her, I'm rather asking about why do you find violence to be a good solution.
>>767449921
No the fight was already starting when I jumped up really.
My friends basically reacted as fast as I did so it was not like all of us jumping up at the same time. To me though i felt like my response was incredibly quick
And trust me I got a lot of shit from my bf and my friends for jumping in.
And even I know had i reached this guy I probably wouldn't have been able to do much but it was something I couldn't control.
I'm not a fighter nor do I start shit... I'm pretty peaceful.
Though when it comes to my bf he's the only thing I love and care about and I won't hesitate to do my best to attack anything that tries and hurts him.
All sense of my safety in that moment flew out the window.
Id like to say i won't do it again but id be lying. That's just a fury i don't know if I can control
>>767450194
Gaaay.
>>767450264
Well ok...?
>>767450282
That's your response? Gaaay.
>>767450194
You're putting him in more danger when you do that, because he has to defend himself with one hand and defend you with the other. Unless you know what you're doing you're a liability
>>767450424
Do all faggots fight one handed since they are jerking off dudes with one hand and trying to punch with the other?
>>767450476
Faggots dont fight, their wrists are too limp
>>767450165
Some do and some don't. I don't care if it's a good solution or not in your fucking opinion, it's a solution. period.
Not all of us have the fucking time like you NEETs do.
>>767448680
Lmao smack that bitch up good
8 weeks ago.
Charity boxing match.
I won.
>>767450633
I knew that faggot was lying about his fight this whole time
>>767450664
Cool, dude. I wasn't expecting a reason anyway. The ad hominem just made it that much more typical.
Anyway, would you say you had a hard life? Comparing yourself to the average kid in your country, how bad did you have it?
>>767450340
Yep pretty much.
>>767450424
Yes yes I know. Trust me when I tell you I had an earful of this all from bf and friends.
I understand 100% that it wasn't smart to do but logic and safety were not in my mind the moment I saw that.
And like i don't think I'll do anything differently if it were to happen again.
I don't love much and if you mess with the most precious thing In my life I just can't sit back and watch it happen
>>767450707
Ever been knocked the fuck out?
Not my last but last when the other guy got a hit in . was in car with mates and couple randoms n one says he called the cops on a guy earlier so I called him a narc.he says stop the car its on so I run around and rip into him he goes down and as I go to give him the coup de grace his gf jumps on my back and he pulls my top over my face and starts hitting my face screaming "what's up now!" Then mate pulls his bitch off me n I rip off my top n proceed to break a knuckle on his nose lol funny thing is we pulled up right outside a different mates house n they were cheering me on the whole time (although I didn't hear at the time) and later that night the broken faced narc burnt mates house down lol good times.
>>767450854
No, it was a one off. I'm far from a boxer.
>>767447861
>Hmm, I found who was behind of it...
>>767450905
So what led you to box in that charity event?
>>767450889
Dude stop being such a damn faggot please. It's making me cringe.
>>767450923
Signed up when I was drunk. Decided it'd be a good idea to raise money and get fit.
>>767450956
Props to you then. Sounds like things worked out.
>>767450946
Thats my only post in this thread what do you mean
>>767451016
Sorry, wrong faggot. But my comment still stands.
>>767451016
>n proceed to break a knuckle on his nose lol funny thing is we pulled up right outside a different mates house n they were cheering me on the whole time (although I didn't hear at the time) and later that night the broken faced narc burnt mates house down lol good times
It sounds made up. Not that coincidences don't happen, it's just like something you say just to make yourself look good without openly saying it.
>>767450844
Learn to fight if you actually care, instead of just spazzing out
>>767450956
Rate your experience. Im thinking of doing the same thing
>>767451069
Oh I thought it was a fun day had by all . it said last fight stories I do have better and more brutal but they are a couple years back. Any clue i can have as to what is cringey about it? Besides my syntax as this is a text based forum
>>767448355
>>767451192
>>>>>767451124
Think of it as chicks adding "and everyone stood up and clapped" at the end of their stories on facebook.
>>767451192
Because everyone is responsible for themselves, faggot. Especially men, which are much stronger typically than women. Fighting for other people is only going to make your life even more of a mess than it already is. And I say that because most people's lives are a mess.
>>767451124
If I was at home I could get me accident claim forms on here . cost me 6 weeks of work. If there wasn't cops involved I could even include names and addresses . if anyone that was there read this I could be in trouble as it is . it was also a middle knuckle I lost I can maybe take a photo of it.
>>767449166
HAVE YOU SEEN what the cartel does to people?
no fucking way do you want to mess with them
>>767447861
Probably about 12 years ago. Used to get in to fights all the time as a kid, and I was pretty horrible. Slammed some guy's head in a gate but his arm was in the way so it didn't do much damage, thank fuck. I wouldn't hesitate to punch a cunt if I was told they were talking shit about me. Then within a few months something in me changed and I just began to avoid conflict. Was still angry, but just learned restraint I suppose. Now I'm aware I'd get my ass kicked but fortunately I've learned how to lower the tension and calm people down.
>>767447861
>be me
>18, so 3-4 years ago
>eating tendies playing vidja one day, just lazy day.
>Stepdad comes into the room drunk as shit
>"Whatcha doin there you little faggot?"
>"Playing vidja and eating tendies, retard"
Should be noted this is how we normally talked to eachother, there wasnt any malice behind it or anything.
>Shitforbrains goes full drunken rage
>throws his 4k HD huge ass tv onto the floor, shit breaks everywhere
>Ohfuck.png
>He stumbles over the tv, then the end table trying to swing at me
>step to the side and headlock him
>start wrestling to put him down
>mom calls cop neighbor
>cop busts open the door
>get on the floor
>everyone walk the dinosaur
>>767451142
Well i don't want to fight in the first place so I've never really been interested in learning how to.
>>767451351
The cartel will make you rape your mother. Then cut your heads off.
>>767451383
shut the fuck up you are pants on head retarded.
>>767451302
I didn't fight for anyone else he started a fight with me and I defended myself. My mate was his neighbour and he didn't know me from a bar of soap so I guess his drunken revenge was burning the house down unless there was more to it. I can't say more because of insurance claim
>>767451383
Seems like you do want to fight if you literally can't stop yourself from fighting. Even when it puts you and your boyfriend in danger
>>767449756
That sounds like a nice relationship. I’m really happy for you.
>>767451213
I'm not going to say what this guy did was justified or anything, but I dunno why someone would think they can go on and hit another human like that with impunity - and he looked pretty wasted too
>>767451306
Again. Not saying that it didn't happen. It's the way you tell it. Don't take it personally. You sound like a decent guy, just by being open to criticism. But it sounds like a story told by a teenager trying to show off. It's too heroic, too perfect, guy gets his house burned down so casually. It sounds too good to be true.
>>767451404
Do what the Arabs do, suicide west and threaten to blow everything up
>>767451351
I live in South Texas. Of course I’veseen it. Fuck it. Difference is, south of the border, those cartel members are the only ones with guns. We have guns here. Don’t mess with Texas.
>>767451441
No...ive been in plenty of verbal fights and I've had people try to escalate them.
(Basically any bitch I tried to be friends with ended up wanting to fight me In the end)
And it never got physical because I always decided to walk away or I just laugh them off and calm them retarded and they get pissed that I'm not stooping to their level.
So did I wanted to fight I would have done So the many opportunities I've had.
And yea those times really made me pissed off but I was still in control.
It was just seeing my bf get messed with that out me on a completely different level.
>>767451526
Americans are so cute
>>767451482
WRONG
you should never hit another human being because a terrible accident could come from it, and as a man you should never hit a women.
>>767451616
we get it, you are pretending to be a women. Pro tip, mentioning that you have a boyfriend every comment does not make us think you are a woman
>>767451620
I’m an immigrant in this country.
>>767451492
If I wanted to show off I could tell stories of people hospitalised with bottles boots or axes,me getting jumped with a wheel brace and coming off much better than my attacker, Asians getting deported. can't tell any gang ones unfortunately for obvious reasons .I'm in my 30s but live in one of the most brutal places in new Zealand. I always carry a bottle full of water. Anyone from this city that reads that will know who I am
>>767451482
It's like a child throwing rocks at a dog behind a fence and chained. It starts with a shove one day, then a bit harder, then a light slap, it's just a matter of finding boundaries, and when you are a woman hitting a man there's quite a bit you can do without much response. The smart abusers know where the boundary is. Where the other person might snap. Then there are the abusers like this girl. Imagine the shock when she got hit. She is just dumbfounded, doesn't even react.
In the end it's natural to feel empathy for someone who is seen as been abused rebeling. In my country there have been many protests lately. Most of them without police violence, but a few have had fights break out between protesters and the police. You can see a cop standing there, taking the verbal abuse for 10 minutes without even batting an eye. And suddenly the insults aren't enough, so they retort to shoving the cops. At which point they get the living shit beat out of them by a group of men trained to beat the shit out of people. The protesters didn't really deserve to be punished that much, it wasn't proportional, but it felt justified in my eyes. That's the power of empathy.
>>767451482
he probably cheated on her and he took the slaps until she said that she cheated as well and then he lost it
>>767451471
It literally couldn't be any more perfect honestly.
I'm sure we make all of our friends sick lol
When we hang out and I'm with the girlfriends they're always bitching about the fights they had and it's like about money or jealousy or drugs and other fucked up shit and then i try to pop in like
"Yea the other day my bf hardly cuddled me at all. I was so pissed"
And they look at me like "is this bitch serious?"
Sorry that's just about the worst our problems get Lol
I hope people can feel the kind of love i feel one day. It's the best
>>767451713
Wow you sure do sound very tuff mister. You must be really scary!
>>767451713
New Zealand sounds rough from the outside in some places. How violent does it get?
>>767451691
Uh no me being a woman makes me a woman lol
Is this your first day on here lad?
>>767451957
>>767451937
>New Zealand sounds rough
>>767451885
You should get married. Honestly, marriage is fun. I raise my glass. Here’s to you.
Some drunk asshole came into my yard and started bumping chests with me at 3:00 in the morning.
The fight ended with me and a cop helping two paramedics put him on a stretcher. The paramedics requested our help, because the two of them together couldn't do it.
ITT: No one loses their last fight apparently.
>>767452072
We plan on it once we officially live together...i mean we basically do (I'm here 6 days out of the week) but I technically have all my stuff still at my parents. I just basically back to grab some shit I need and I leave lol.
So to him since I'm still not officially moved in he thinks it's weird if we marry.
Though by August my parents are moving so for sure I'll be moving in with him soon
>>767452167
People who get into fights seldom just get into one. By the time a man reaches an age where it's no longer necessary to fight, having gained the reputation of someone not to fuck with, he's usually acquired enough experience to win them.
>>767452267
Good luck. Key thing to remember, aftef marriage, nothing changes except you can say “wife” and “husband” now. It’s pretty fun. And big ceremonies don’t matter. What matters is being together.
>>767452167
I made this thread in hopes of i would hear somebody be honest, but so far all i got from it.
Everyone is a bad ass on b apparently
>>767452359
Hey I was honest. Fuck everybody else.
>>767452305
This
>>767447861
It wasn't a fight, but it involved trying to hold down a huge dude on drugs who broke into my house
>Be erasmus student in england.
>Best friends tags along to learn english
>Since he isn't a student we can't live in the university. Didn't want to anyway, but we have to look for two spare rooms.
>We end up in a 5 bedroom house in the outskirt of town, there are a few hundred houses in our neighborhood, they all look the same. This is important.
>Our three roomates are british, my friend, a brit and I have the second floor of the house, the other two sleep downstairs.
>One night I hear loud bumping noises. It sounded like someone was fucking hardcore and the bed was smashing the walls.
>I thought it was one of my roomates who gets tinder chicks constantly, so I just try to sleep.
>Then I heard a loud cracking noise, like something had broken down, so I get out of my room, initially to laugh at my roomamte for breaking his bed.
>My roomaate isn't home.
>The lights are off, I see through the stairs a tall dude standing in the middle of our hallway downstairs. Next to him on the floor is our door.
>I turn on the lights, the guy looks at me and doesn't say a word. He is clearly out of it. You can see he is muddy from falling over in grass and his elbows are bloody.
>Since I can tell this guy isn't aware of what the fuck is going on, I start talking to him calmy and ask him what is he doing here. No response.
>I walk downstairs and keep talking to him, ask him what his name is and what is he looking for. No response.
>Out of nowhere, he tells me that his friend Jim lives here. He is looking for him.
>Noone named Jim lives here.
>Dude starts getting scared after realizing something aint right.
>Makes a break for the stairs while shouting that Jim leaves here, his room is that one, while pointing at my friend's room.
>I go after him, but he caught me offguard, so he is already halfway up the stairs when I start chasing him.
cont?
>>767452305
>having gained the reputation of someone not to fuck with
>he's usually acquired enough experience to win them
>implying that's you and everyone in this thread
kek
>>767452598
Yespls
>be 6'6 and bouncer
>be drinking at one of my favorite bars
>fight going on
>bouncer instincts kick in
>pull them apart, start to put bigger one in full nelson
>dude freaks out, turns on me
>#40lbsheavierthanme
>glass breaks as we roll out the front door, me barely dodging his punches
>both on the ground
>#groundandpoundmode #igotthisshit
>put his fat ass in an arm bar
>he squeals and submits
>tries to call me a pussy for putting him in an armbar
>did some blow with the guy a few weeks later
>>767452665
When are you going to realize that 4chan has been a mainstream website longer than it hasn't. I hate to break it to you, but your kool kids klub got taken over by normal people in 2009.
It isn't a refuge for you all to cry to your weak friends that sympathize anymore.
>>767452352
Oh yea we already decided we aren't doing any ceremonies. They cost money that we would rather have invested into our future.
We just plan to get the good ol courthouse marriage and then after that we will throw a little backyard party for friends and family
>>767452878
>implying what I said was wrong
keep talking tough guy. maximum kek
>>767452665
>27,700,000 unique visitors per month
>you think they're all neckbeard virgins because that's what you are
>>767452934
You're here too, idiot.
>>767452675
>>767452598
>Dude is opening my friend's room. As he is doing it he keeps repeating that Jim lives here, Where's Jim, JIIIIIIIIIMMMMMMM
>Seeing that this dude has lost it, I just jumped on his back and pulled him right out the room.
>My friend is scared shitless.
>I push the dude downstairs, he falls like a ton of bricks, the entire stairs are now stained with blood and mud.
>Dude gets up, bolts through the doorless frame of my front door and starts tackling the nextdoor neighboor's door.
>By that time somebody had already called the cops. Not us. We have a grow tent in the closet, the house stinks of weed. We don't like cops.
>Cops show up and arrest the guy. Since everyone tells them that he first broke into our house the come in to ask us questions about what happened.
>Friend and I are on full damage control mode, playing the whole thing down like it was just a funny accident.
>Cop is stranged by how easily we forgive the dude for breaking into our house. Ends up just leaving with dude arrested on the back of his car.
>Landlord doesn't want to press charges. Dude's parents send her a check for the damages.
>never found out his name or whether Jim ever existed.
>>767452937
>>767452966
>when you don't fight enough to know that you'll lose one eventually.
wew lad, all tough guys in here. lol fuckin pussies making shit up.
>>767452994
>when you don't fight enough to know that you'll lose one eventually.
Confirmed for illiterate
>>767447861
Never been in a fight
>>767453035
Sure thing, tough guy.
How am I supposed to get into a fight when I never go outside?
>>767453057
(You)
>>767447861
Stupid faggot eat shit and die
>>767448082
True story I'm sure m'sir
>>767448654
Russell Crowe?
>>767451937
Its rough because guns are rarely used most fights are face to face and usually not 1v1 if blacks are involved. There are cities (you'd probably call them towns) where entire suburbs have gang connections and many have family in opposing gangs, meth has caught on in the last ten years like crazy every second cunt is on it, it is ten times easier to score than weed and it doesn't agree with the Polynesian population, almost as bad as their horiffically low alchohol tolrrance .there is also a huge gap between rich and poor, even the drug kingpins basically live ounce to ounce .
>>767453280
Would you say it's a big problem for the country or is it just minorities being minorities?
>>767447861
two storees
>number one
>be me
>little less than a year ago
>smoking joints with two good friends of mine
>ofukwesohighhehe.gif
>one of my friends is talking to one of her friends who lives in another city
>my friend (lets call him cunt) is really baked and decides to start moaning into the phone (he likes the girl that shes on the phone to)
>whatafaggot.jpg
>he hears me call him a faggot
>what the fuck did you just call me Anon
>Faggot strength kicks in
>he tries to push me
>doesnt do anything (surprising since i was a lot smaller than him at the time)
>he grabs my by the arm and tries throwing me about
>again nothing
>mfw im not even fat
>decide i cant be bothered with him anymore and punch him in the jaw
>he holds his jaw and cries for the next 5 minutes
>mfw (pic related)
I live in a pretty white city now but from what I've seen the white trash is a small step up from the blacks we can at least handle our meth and alchohol better. The prison down here is still 90% black although the population is 70%white. Once in prison the blacks simmer down smoking weed instead of meth and with no alchohol to be had its pretty cruisy I was the only "white" white in the wing for 3 weeks one time and never got jumped but if I saw the same jigs on the street it would be instant toe to toe. I have a few ww2 tattoos haha
>>767453350
Also in new Zealand the race thing is strange as there are pure blonde blue eyed whites in "black power" gangs and we have lots of black or part black neo Nazi racist murderers lol the black Nazis seem to think they have to make up for their lack of purity with extreme prejudice . front line infantry I call them
>last time in a fight
Thanksgiving day
>why did you fight
Brother was being a dick. I was leaving in like 30 min so I played a couple games until he threw a bitch fit
>how did it end
Accidentally cut his nerve to his middle finger
>>767447861
My oldest friend tried to drive home about 3 years ago shit face drunk so me and another buddy hid his keys. I’m about 5’7” whereas the other two guys are over 6 feet. So the drunk friend, being incredibly drunk and kind of a pussy, starts shoving me around demanding his keys. Eventually I get fed up with his shit tackle him and just put him in a head lock until he stops struggling and calms down. I let him up and he starts walking around getting pissed off and shoving me again. We go to the ground again and this happens a few more times until he gets fed up and starts walking to his mothers house (the house my two friends were renting was in the neighborhood we grew up in)
Still I love that dude to death, he ask me to officiate his wedding in a few weeks. Really nice, caring guy when he’s not 14 beers deep
>>767453479
>story 2
>couple of months ago
>annoying little cunt in the same year as me starts to pick on me and my friends
>me and friends think nothing of it cause he was like that in our classes year before
>the kid is about 5 foot tall but hangs about with some pretty hard cunts so we just ignore him
>one day he starts going really hard on faggot from previous story
>faggot doesnt know how to deal with him so he starts being really cheeki breeki to little cunt
>ends up in small fight with him
> mainly pushing nothing serious
>little cunt threatens to kill us out of school
>lolokaycunt
>next couple weeks he starts really going hard on my friends
>isnt really doing anything to me but i decide to talk back cause hes really getting on my friends nerves
>im ready to take abuse if it means my friends are left alone
>get called same small vocabulary of insults by little cunt and his crew
>my favourite one was him yelling "youd get pumped open faggot"
>pump means shag(fuck) were im from
>me and my mates laugh our asses off at it
>next day he starts pushing me about on way to class
>my ADHD is starting to get pushed to limits
>dont think i can control anger anymore but dont want to fight cause it would mean im not allowed to do exams
>that lunch he decides to come up behind me while everyone is walking to the shops for lunch and drags me down by the neck
>no one thinks its funny excpet him and his one mate
>get up and walk towards him saying "youre not impresing anyone cunt"
>he says "are you gettin cheeky with me" and proceeds to throw a punch at my face
>mfw it didnt hurt
>mfw i look at him directly after
>still standing
>with nothing but a cut on my lip
>mfw he goes bright red and usain bolts it around the corner to his big friends who dont go to school anymore
>go to the shop toilets to clean blood off face(shop got to enjoy me shouting "hes a little faggot i'll beat the shit out of him" to my friends)
>next unit i go to toilet
cont.
Got the fuck flogged out of me 3 days ago.
Night on the town and shit got rowdy with some randos, pretty sure I was cracking on someones gf but the penis knows what it wants.
>>767452167
A fight is what you win
A beating is what you lose.
>>767454079
Thinking back it must have been about 4 years ago. He lived at the house we were at and it was around 4-5 am so there was absolutely no reason to leave. He was also about as drunk as I had ever seen him, he would not have been ok if he had driven. We told him he could have the keys back when he woke up in the morning but there was no way we were letting him leave in his car
>>767454154
Most British thing I’ve read all week
>>767454243
>A beating is a outcome of a fight.
My god how do you put on your socks in the morning
>>767447861
>organised fight
5 months ago, lost and got a shitty injury that lasted for 8 weeks.
>rando encounter
Guy manhandled my gf and I fuuuk'd his ass up.
>>767454815
I fight them onto my feet
>>767454847
kek
>>767454822
>>rando encounter
>Guy manhandled my gf and I fuuuk'd his ass up.
please tell more
>>767455137
Was at a gig, some guy grabbed hold of my bird, she shoved him off, which is fair enough, not going to kick off for that. But he went back and grabbed her again, I punched him in the face about 4/5 times and stopped when he wasn't fighting back.
>Coming home drunk from da club to uni halls
>girl i know comes up to me asking for me to save her and her friend from pushy group of nig nogs
>go up to nig nog whos grabbing girl's friend whos clearly trying to get away
>say 2 words before group of 4 tall nig nogs are all grabbing me trying to punch me
>they don't know how to punch. Picture how girls throw baseballs
>me m8 grabs one by the afro from behind and pulls him to the ground, raining punches
>i punch out of their grapple, keep distance, knock one down
>they back off
>go into my flat and throw up from drink and adrenaline
>nig nog leader knocks on my door to "apologize" (i think he was made to because a bunch of people saw that i was attacked unprovoked. Everyone was pissed at them)
>apology consists of "sorry but i gotsta stick with ma bois"
>had to decide between accepting his apology or sparking him out
>lots of people watching
>accepted apology
>should have knocked him out
>>767457203
How did you punch out of being held by multiple people? Weren't they doing anything? Lol. Sounds like you punched someone hugging you.
>>767457993
>The stories and information posted here are artistic works of fiction and falsehood. Only a fool would take anything posted here as fact.
>>767458070
Blackbuster'd
I physically attacked almost everyone who tried to bully me so it never lasted long. I had a reputation for not being worth it and being perfectly willing to drag my bully down with me into a behavior citation or suspension. Most of them didn't even bother to fight back, I developed a reputation for impossible to avoid sucker punches that got me in a lot of trouble, some of them to girls who fancied themselves above being hit.
I was kicked out pre-school at age 4 for stomping another boy while he was already down because he had attempted to steal my pudding cup. I broke his left ankle.
>>767458070
>artistic
Autistic fify
>>767459225
When I went to upper school in the UK, it was a brand new school with £millions thrown into it - filled with council estates across Bradford North. Everyone was like this, and it ended up with everyone fighting everyone for about 3 years until it settled down and everyone from the first wave finished school.
>i was kicked out in year 11 right before GCSE's kek
>>767447861
>used to get in lots of fights in elementary school
>never lost
>usually went for a choke hold
>flash forward to highschool
>been a long time since I fought anyone
>go to friend's birthday party
>sleepover
>we're all playing pokemon on gameboys
>get bored
>friend (birthday boy) wants to fight me
>everyone circles round
>beat the shit out of him
>his mom comes in, asks what's wrong
>he says he's having asthma problems, puffs inhaler
>she didn't suspect a thing
>I still felt guilty as shit
>never got in a fight after that
>>767459741
Chill out its only a fight. It makes you both better regardless of outcome.
>>767457993
They let go after i punched them. One had me by the scruff of my shirt and was trying to headbutt me, but i didnt let him get the distance to pull back. one was behind him trying to punch over his shoulder and the other 2 stopped to deal with my friend. None of them knew how to throw a punch or fight, i would have been fucked otherwise
>>767448082
>>767447861
Started fighting out of boredom/for fun with friends. Last fight was on sunday, still got bruises & cuts on my arm and hands and some on the torso. Got him bleeding too though with some kicks.
Doing it for the adrenaline rush. Well worth it.
>>767447861
charlie day was a true janitor back then in season 1-4, now he's just like a hollywood star pretending to be a cool guy
>>767460074
wew lad, tyler durden over here. Faggots
>>767460074
Spotted the slav
>>767460074
>Started fighting out of boredom
the fuck is wrong with your generation, kids?
I've been jumped twice and had the shit kicked out of me both times.
I thought about learning to fight but thinking about it, I'm just not the sort. If I get jumped again and I can't get away, I plan to just take it. I'm not a fighter at all.
>>767460074
You do know that fight club was a critique of toxic masculinity and not an instructional thing, right?
>>767460283
lost
The last time I was in a serious fight of any kind was on Sixth Street in Austin Texas. It's basically an eight block row of shitty bars, hobos, and drugs. Frat bois frequent every single corner of that slum looking for the chance to roofie someone. Obviously there are tons of fights. You can tell when a fight started because everyone will converge on that spot. You can tell when someone pulls out a gun because everyone runs away. I happened to be near a fight that went from Zero to KNIFE in about 2.3 seconds. My training (years of not being stabbed) kicked in and my body decided today was NOT the day to start my career in getting stabbed. So I grabbed the guys wrist and tried to redirect his knife to the ground. He slashed my other arm ONCE. TWICE. Then dropped the knife and got tackled by the cops. I say, I'm going to grab some bandages from inside! And leave out the back door of the bar so I never got questioned or caught. One thing I know for sure, even better than how-to-not-be-stabbed, is that having a medical emergency with cops nearby is a good way to make them violent and irrational. To this day, I'm glad I did it. The scars are fading but they look pretty cool.
Every other fight I've been in since then has been a spar so I'm excluding those because fights must include an inherent threat.
>>767460252
Thats a bit gay. With rudimentary knowledge you can learn to defend yourself pretty well
>>767460252
In your own way, anon, you are a fighter. A survivor!
>>767460334
>Austin Texas
>fight
what dude? :)
>>767460339
I know that and I don't want to, I don't want to fight even for self defense. I'd do what I can to protect myself but I couldn't swing for someone or try to hurt them, not even in self defense. This wasn't a decision I made lightly either, it was something I figured out after a lot of introspection.
>>767460399
The fuck kind of reason could you have for such a self destructive decision? Even then there's throws and holds you can learn that dont do any real damage to the assailant.
>>767460507
>The fuck kind of reason could you have for such a self destructive decision?
Pacifism and being true to myself, I'd be being someone I'm not to hurt someone else like that.
>Even then there's throws and holds you can learn that dont do any real damage to the assailant.
Which would involve learning some kind of martial art/combat, which I don't want to do. I don't carry a weapon, so I don't want to train my body to be one either. I want to be passive and unarmed.
>>767460612
Is it a good idea to be true to yourself if your true self is a passive door mat? Any predator is going to sense your weakness and take advantage. You wont fight physically but would you fight legally? Whats the difference if you won't fight but you'll call a cop to do it for you? Or would you just leave it and be completely submissive?
>>767460966
>Is it a good idea to be true to yourself if your true self is a passive door mat?
I'm no door mat and I can stand up for myself just fine, I just can't justify using violence to meet that ends.
> Whats the difference if you won't fight but you'll call a cop to do it for you?
Well, I never spoke about police. I'm not sure why that's relevant.
>Or would you just leave it and be completely submissive?
Not violence is not submissive per-se, it's just non-violent.
Passive in this case does not mean I'll let people walk all over me, it just means I don't think any good can come from being violent, regardless of circumstance. I've yet to be proven wrong in that regard.
The only time I'd consider violence, and even then I'm not sure I'd be able to actually do it, would be to protect someone who has not made the conscious decision to remain non-violent that I have. Say I saw a kid getting attacked, for example; they have not decided to be passive and are simply passive by circumstance. I'd consider violence in this kind of situation.
>>767447861
When I was 12 because I am not a retarded man child.
>>767448422
I'd chalk that up as a win
>>767461199
What about if a crack head is trying to rape your girlfriend? Or steal your wallet? Attack you for any reason? You think its better to let him do that than learn to throw a punch? I dont understand where you're coming from. It certainly doesn't come up a lot but there are a handful of situations where knowing how to physically defend myself and my girlfriend has saved us both from unimaginable trauma.
The police is relevant because im trying to figure out how deep this vow of passiveness and non violence goes. Its not non violence if you get the police to throw a man in a cage to defend you and get justice on your behalf. So would you call the police in a dangerous scenario or not?
>>767451713
south auckland? or we talkin up north in the shitholes?
>>767453829
I used to have neighbours that were old mongrel mob and they were good cunts, used to always invite us round for dinner. I think the biggest issue is drugs especially p in nz
>>767461199
Eugh nothing more disgusting than a harmless man. You a virgin too?
>>767461837
>What about if a crack head is trying to rape your girlfriend?
Then it's not self defense, it's defending someone else. I explained my thoughts on this already.
>Or steal your wallet?
I'd give them my wallet, no skin off my back. It'd be a shame but I'd sooner lose property than let my values slide.
>Attack you for any reason?
As I said this has happened before and I came out fine overall.
>I dont understand where you're coming from.
I can tell, but you're not trying to understand. You're trying to win some argument that, as far as I'm concerned, we're not having. There's no right and wrong here; I'm happy to explain my line of thinking but I feel you're just trying to poke holes in it rather than actually come to understand why I feel this way.
>The police is relevant because im trying to figure out how deep this vow of passiveness and non violence goes
I think violence at the hand of the state is still violence. I think it should be avoided, but I also see I am powerless to stop such violence at any major scale. I think I'd avoid seeking to have the police intact violence on my behalf if that's what you're asking, but I'd be fine with them reclaiming my property or whatever if it didn't mean beating on some random crack head.
>throw a man in a cage
There is cause and effect to actions. You commit a crime, there is understood consequences to that. I don't think that is unethical if there is a fair treatment of people in the criminal justice system, though that's another debate entirely and not one I'm interested in getting into.
I am responsible for my actions, not the actions of the state.
>>767462286
Nope, I don't see how the two are linked other than in terms of your preconceptions.
That said I'd happily not have sex if being violent was the only way I could get my dick wet.
>>767462292
I am trying to understand, but its completley alien. You said you'd defend someone else but we both know you wouldn't be able to. That crackhead is raping your wife, stealing your wallet and fucking you up. You only got away fine the first time because of luck, next time you're curled up in a ball getting beat on you might not be so lucky. Why risk it to just be "true to yourself"?
I doubt youd avoid calling the police if its 3am and you see a dude with a gun trying to break down your door. I bet you'd want the boys in blue with their weapons ready to unleash some violence on your behalf. Or are you saying you'd let them come in and do whatever they want?
>>767462503
Women tend to want a man who can defend her. For practical reasons
>>767463164
>You said you'd defend someone else but we both know you wouldn't be able to.
Possibly not, no. I never said otherwise; I'm self aware of these things.
>Why risk it to just be "true to yourself"?
I've explained; my values are important to me. One of those values is pasivism. I can explain why I think that way if you want, but I think you won't like it.
>Or are you saying you'd let them come in and do whatever they want?
I never said that at all. Like I said, this isn't an argument so you don't need to try and poke holes in it, least of all not with a straw man.
In that situation, I'd leave the house and contact the police later to try and recover my stuff I think. I wouldn't know though, as I've never been in this situation. I'm saying how I think I'd act; I'm not saying I'm some virtuous pure messiah so maybe I'd act differently if presented with this situation.
I'd appreciate it if we could drop these hypothetical, as we'll be here all day if this is going to go like
>But what about if XYZ happened? Huh, what then?
like good job my dude, you pointed out that non-violence is sometimes hard. I knew that already.
>>767463256
Pure speculation based on stereotypes, and anecdotally I've not found that to be the case. What a boring reply.
>>767463426
Yeah non-violence seems pretty retarded to me/pointlessly self destructive/impossible to achieve. But go on, let's hear what reason you have to uphold passivism above your girlfriend being raped and you being turned into a vegetable by some low life scum, or whatever combination of avoidable trauma you'd like to imagine
>>767463905
Mate you're clearly quite annoyed at me being this way, I'll happily chat with you on good faith but if you're just going to seethe about it I don't see the point you know? I'm not mad at you, it's fine if you disagree.
Again happy to explain whatever you want if you genuinely want to understand but I'm not going to waste my breath either. A post showing you're in good faith would be nice, and then I'll answer whatever you want. No hard feeling my dude, have a pepe as a sign of goodwill
>>767447861
>2 years ago, had an amateur Muay Thai fight
>because I thought at the time I wanted to go pro
>I got knocked the fuck out, I’m told it was from a knee but I don’t remember it
I got beat up for telling my dude who his girlfriend fucked. We were stoned and I just was like she fucked so and so cause he asked me who she fucked
The guy jumped me in a parking lot with 2 buddies a couple days later
He choked me out and I Blacked out at some point and eventually made it home it was fucked
It is a confilicting situation for me. I felt like I did the right thing telling my friend who it was because he was really depressed and acting weird because of it but also at the same time I feel like I should never get into someone else’s business lol and I haven’t since. That went so poorly for me I just have not engaged in any sort of gossip or whatever since
>>767464171
It is annoying yeah, to me you're saying you'll put your values above yourself and your gf or anyone you're responsible for. To me you're avoiding your responsibility to yourself and your family if you refuse to protect them. I am genuinely curious what value anyone could possibly place higher than the safety of themselves and theirs. Those values arnt going to be worth much if you're dead
>>767447861
Work as a bouncer. Guy is declined because he's too intox. Starts staring at me with bloodshot squinting eyes. I look at him back, he cannot sense any fear. Carries on as friends try convincing me he's fine to let in. I say no, they go to leave, they say something, I say something confrontational towards his behaviour. I turn to say bye to a friend, he shoves me into a glass door, it does not break. From here it's mostly a blur, I went to engage him, he may have advanced on me first, I guaged him as enough of a threat to enter a stance. He grabs my arms and tries to pin me, he has an extra foot on me, plus 10-20 years. I try to restrain and hold him by pulling him against me and holding his arms. He's strong and the lack of strength I'm using and the brainfart from being caught between not wanting to escalate and knowing exactly how I could maim him make it difficult to do an adaqute job. The women scream, his friend yells and starts trying to do the same. Brain fart continues and so does the wrestle. His friend starts calling for me to let go and leave them alone, I do, it's easy, I was barely pushing them in the first place. They walk, cops show up, I point out instagator, he spends a night in the drunk tank.
Not a real fight.
>>767447861
Two days ago.ibroke his arm and his nose.
Mother fucker broke my sunbed,and gave me shitwhen I asked him to pay for it
I very rarely loose a fight
>>767464598
>It is annoying yeah
Why? I'm not saying my position is better than yours and I'm not taking your ability to defend yourself away. If I hadn't have posted it wouldn't have effected you at all.
>to me you're saying you'll put your values above yourself and anyone you're responsible for
There's not 'to me' about it, this is accurate. However I disagree with
>To me you're avoiding your responsibility to yourself and your family
because as I said, I don't let people walk all over me. I don't feel my stance on violence makes me or anyone I care for vulnerable and as I said; I've yet to be proven wrong even when faced with violence. I hope it'll show my kids that things can be resolved peacefully, I'd be very proud if they had that understanding and I think that's showing responsibility in a different way.
>Those values arnt going to be worth much if you're dead
I'm aware of that and yet I chose to be passive all the same. The chances of being on the reciving end of fatal violence is very slim thankfully but I am aware that my stance on this makes it a possibility.
As I said, I'm not sure how I'd respond if it was a family member in trouble. I can make the choice to be passive myself but I wouldn't decide that on their behalf necessarily. I just hope I never have to find out to be honest.
> am genuinely curious what value anyone could possibly place higher than the safety of themselves and theirs.
Themselves is easy; I have no real attachment to my own safety. Obviously I don't want to be hurt but I'm confident in saying that I would be non-violent even if it put my personal safety at risk.
My family is another story and it'd be very emotional so I can't say how I'd act but I hope they'd be a non-violent solution. If not, I hope I'd be able to protect them by putting myself in harms way instead; taking a beating on their behalf or whatever. As I said though, who knows in the heat of the moment?
As for 'what value', harmlessness. I think that's important.
>>767464392
He behaved pretty irationally, a friend worth having would never do anything like that, don't give up on the potential to help others.
>>767460370
Fighters win, survivors don't.
>>767465258
Winning is totally arbitrary in this example, there is no winning at life. By my terms I am winning and that's as valid as any term you'd use to define it.
>>767460370
Sorry missed your post but thanks desu
>>767448416
You're a good bf, he should be grateful.
>>767465154
Might be a good idea to learn how to protect your body if someone were to attack you.
>>767447861
Today.
He looked at me the wrong way
I didn't wait for the ambulance to come
>>767465380
Probably would, you're not wrong. Problem is I can't think of a way of doing that without self defense training and I don't want to do that for the same reason I don't want to carry a knife.
I know how to protect myself very basically and so far that's kept me safe
>>767465332
You're making yourself into a victim, the fighters mentality is not to survive it is to win, imagine the differences in the meaning of the symantec connonations of the words.
Surviving is not taking responsibility for your destiny.
>>767447861
It ended in me in pain, and the other guy being tossed into a truck... Fucking rednecks
>>767465502
You could just take what you want from a practical self defense class, you wont be able to remember or preform accurately moves you don't train.
>>767465529
>You're making yourself into a victim
Not at all, you are just telling me I'm a victim. I'm not being victimized.
>the fighters mentality is not to survive it is to win
I don't have a fighters mentality and I've been very open about that. What's your point?
>Surviving is not taking responsibility for your destiny.
I am in control of my life. Destiny is a meme. I have responsibility for my actions, as evidenced by how I make the choice to be non-violent.
None of this has anything to do with 'winning', it's just sentimental rambling.
>>767465719
That's a fair point actually. Still not sure where I stand on it but I'll consider it whatever the case.
You the anon I was talking to originally? I'd be interested to hear your thoughts on what I said if so.
>>767465154
Its annoying because your innocent wife, kids, mother, whoever is going to experience some potentially fatal trauma so you can uphold your values. You're failing in your duty to the people you're responsible for. You're responsible for yourself too but i don't really care about that, but there's probably some more innocent people that do care if you're turned into a veg.
You say it doesnt make you or anyone more vulnerable but you also said you would be unlikely to be able to stop an attacker attacking you or your family. Not least because you wouldn't know how to. Whether you like it or not you are much more vulnerable than the person who's done an ounce of training. It would be nice if we could solve all our problems without resorting to violence but this just isn't the case. Some people are dangerous and you can be trapped in a dangerous situation before you know it
>>767448355
you dont know anything just seen a bitch screaming and attack a dude for that?
FUCK YOU WHITE KNIGHT FAGGOT
>>767465745
So if someone preformed extreme violence against you then you would not be a victim of their ill intended wants? Or is it that you are willing to accept violence preformed on you as if the occurence were an opportunity to express a true want? Just explain if it's niether.
Few humans are born with what we are calling a "fighter's mentality".
My point is a pat on the back for surviving seems a little redundant if defined as independent from your own will. Unless you're so ingenious that you know the outcome of their actions and that you will be left in percicely the condition you intend.
>>767465922
>Its annoying because your innocent wife, kids, mother, whoever is going to experience some potentially fatal trauma
Am I responsible for everyone around me? That's a debate in of itself.
Whatever the case you don't know this to be true, and in fact it's likely that A)That won't happen and B)If it were, I wouldn't be there to help anyway.
>You're failing in your duty to the people you're responsible for.
See above. How do you assert it is my duty to be violent on the behalf of other people?
>You say it doesnt make you or anyone more vulnerable but you also said you would be unlikely to be able to stop an attacker attacking you or your family.
Not a contradiction, I have not made them less safe from this point of view. They are just as likely to be on the receiving end of violence as they would be if I thought differently.
>It would be nice if we could solve all our problems without resorting to violence but this just isn't the case.
That's debatable, and you're talking as though it's an absolute. It's not cut and dry, so talking from authority on this issue is kind of redundant.
> Some people are dangerous and you can be trapped in a dangerous situation before you know it
What a limiting way of living your life, constantly in fear. I could get hit by a car, doesn't mean I avoid crossing the road. I could get an infection from a sporting accident and die, but I play sports all the same. In this example I could be the victim of violence, but I don't let that effect my life just as in the other examples. I choose to be pacifist regardless.
It sounds like you're choice to respond to violence with violence is having a bigger effect on your life than mine is, I am able to live without concern about my safety and yet it seems to be a big concern for you. Such a concern that someone having a different opinion about it gets you annoyed. Makes me think I'm right in my conviction to be non-violent; accepting violence filters into the rest of your life.
>>767447861
cant really call it a fight, some fat faggot was making fun of me so i slapped the bitch across the face and was ready to give him a good ass kicking but he just fell on the floor and i guess that was good enough to not keep going
>>767466119
I've been through most of this in thread already, please read those posts as I don't want to repeat myself.
As for
>Unless you're so ingenious that you know the outcome of their actions and that you will be left in percicely the condition you intend
I accept that I am not in control. Any feeling I have of control is an illusion. With that in mind, why should I expect to be in control of violent acts against me? I'd rather accept not knowing, not having control, than grasp for it desperately.
>>767465837
I'm the only anon you are talking to at the moment.
Sounds like you're seeking an opinion similar to your own but I'm not here to stand in oposition to you, just share my opinion as it is.
I can understand why you might not want to preform violence and have it's use restricted to only the most reasonable of circumstances.
I think that knowing how to protect your body from damage would serve you practically and not conflict with your ideology, perhaps some methods of breaking out of holds very lightly deflecting or possibly even restraining people might be suitable.
I only worry for your wellbeing. I realize that sometimes an offense is the best defense and my willingness to sacrifice well being for the sake of the will of evil is so to the point that I would use extreme but necessary measures to protect it from the source of evil.
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>>767447861
A little after last Thanksgiving I got jumped by 3 Vietnamese niggers and they couldn't knock me out or even get me to my knees. I knocked one out but he was up on his feet in like a minute while the scuffle was going on. Then they get back into their car and driving around me in circles yelling and cussing and I pull out my knife just in case, and I am yelling back white niggers fuck your women no girl wants you short shits lol. Then they starting shooting a fucking bb gun pistol at me and I was like wtf, next thing I know cops show up and and ambulance. I guess someone called the cops and then the cops called an ambulance. Turns out I got hit in the neck with a bb stuck there, my face was covered in blood from a gash on the back of my head, and my nose was broken. But thank god it was not crooked or anything afterwards, when I went home I tried straightening it as much as I could before it healed so I wouldn't look ugly or like an ex boxer.
Lesson I learned was do not get black out drunk and overly yell at a car with tint that cuts you off on your bike in a parking, because you do not know how many people are in that car. Thinking back know I might have escalated a simple situation of hey fuck you watch where you're going and move on with your life.
And still don't know how I got the gash on the back of my head, they might have had brass knuckles or something but I dont even feel the old scar on my head because I been picking at it every since the staples were removed to "smooth" it out.
Been in dozens of fights and never lost even when it has been 2 on 1. Nowadays I don't go looking for shit like that night but I still don't take no shit from no one like before. No one wants to fight a crazy person and when they do no matter the size, they are scared and already disadvantaged mentally when the fights begins.
wow I been typing forever.
>>767466516
does not matter the size*
>>767466481
Thank you for your concern. The reason I am unsure about it is partly >>767466448
>ny feeling I have of control is an illusion. With that in mind, why should I expect to be in control of violent acts against me? I'd rather accept not knowing, not having control, than grasp for it desperately.
and partly that training my body as if it were a weapon is violent on some level even of itself. I have not put enough thought into it to decide if there's a mid-ground as you describe but you might well be right, I think I need to mull it over a bit.
I'm not seeking any opinion really, I just like talking. I find it helps me structure/understand my own thoughts better and maybe my words will influence others in turn.
>>767466448
I have read your posts, I think my question still warrents an answer.
A moment ago you were saying that you were still in control and that destiny was non existent. So which is it?
Though you may not have the free will to control your circumstance you have the choice to prepare yourself for it.
>>767466686
I am in control of my actions, and that is as close as you can get to being 'in control of your destiny'. I see that expecting to exert any control over the external is fruitless, and believing I have that control is just ego.
>you have the choice to prepare yourself for it.
And I believe I have prepared myself for it sufficiently, if only ethically/mentally rather than practically.
>>767466665
Me too mate.
Love you, goodnight.
>>767466831
Love you too my dude, stay beautiful.
>>767466340
Yeah i'd say you're responsible for protecting your family. If you don't have that, where is your worth? In being harmless? Is allowing harm to happen not the same as violence? How can you just bank on not being there when someone you care for is attacked? What if you are there?
I really don't understand your point on how they're not any less safe. A nut job literally tried to set my girlfriends house on fire. I solved this problem with violence. In a universe where i didn't exist i think its very likely she would be dead at this guys hand. Im responsible for her safety because i love her and i'm capable of protecting her. Violence in my life is unavoidable. Maybe you live a very sheltered, privileged life but it only takes one nutjob one moment to fuck up everything.
You could get hit by a car so you look both ways before crossing. You dont play sports without the gear. Its the same thing. Otherwise i would tell you to go and hide in a hole forever.
>>767467052
> If you don't have that, where is your worth?
What a sad relationship it would be; to have your worth reduced to committing violence.
>ow can you just bank on not being there when someone you care for is attacked? What if you are there?
As I said, I don't know. I'd try and resolve it non-violently, then I'd try and put myself in harms way as I can make that choice, then I'm not sure what.
>Is allowing harm to happen not the same as violence?
That's just the trolley problem and I think far greater minds than us have not been able to answer this. I'd say inaction is morally neutral in this situation.
>Im responsible for her safety because i love her
That is a choice you made; you'd have been just as justified to say the arsonist was responsible for her lack of safety. Again, this is a trolley problem.
>Violence in my life is unavoidable
I don't think that's the case, I think you choose to not avoid it. As I said I am not sheltered, I've been on the receiving end of quite a bit of violence really. More so than most of the people I know.
>You could get hit by a car so you look both ways before crossing
This is a good rebuttal to my rather weak comparison. I think there's a difference still; there's is no violent action in checking before you cross. I suppose I do take precautions against violence though, you speak as though I have no heed to it at all. I keep myself as safe as I can and take precautions, I just don't do so violently.
About 2 months ago. I fought to keep our universe from getting erased. As for the outcome, well, we're still around.
>>767467330
When im lying in bed full of existential dread that we all get i go "hey, as useless as i am, at least i was able to save my girlfriend's life" my being a loving boyfriend and all that other stuff really pales in comparison to that fact. You wouldnt be able to say the same thing if it happened to you. I do hold the arsonist responsible. I was the only person with the capability to truly hold him responsible. If i had done nothing there would have been a lot more suffering. I even believe the arsonist himself suffered less because i chose to act with violence. Of course i had the choice to do nothing, but that wasn't really an option when i can choose to basically sort everything out and protect my girlfriend.
One day you will find yourself in a situation where you will fail your duty and you'll be left with nothing but guilt.
>>767448416
Lol, muh proud open display of atheism got me and bae into a fight.
Such edge
Much pride
Haven't been in a fight in ten years.
Used to fight a lot in High School but then after a car accident a doctor told me another concussion could be critical.
Now I live a life in careful avoidance of a bump to the noggin. Sometimes it really sucks.
>>767450091
>>767469985
Kek that movie
>>767447861
> last time you we're in a fight
Somebody misused an apostrophe so I punched his stupid face.
>>767447861
>Three years ago.
>On my way home
>Walking with crutches due to broken leg.
>Get jumped by three niggers trying to rob me
>Try fending them off with my crutches
>Doesen´t work very well
>Niggers run off with my vallet
