Do I take her back b?
1/3
2/3
3/3
>>711704622
Take her back OP.
>>711704677
/thread.
But seriously, don't take her back. She should have realized what she had before it all went to shit.
Why ask? You're just gonna do what you wNt to do anyways
She obviously just wants your attention because she lacks it from someone else, if she hurt you in the past she will do it again in the future.
in other words shes using you to feel better about herself.
No, don't give her any closure. Also, >>>/adv/
>>711704804
No, keep her in reach. Make her think you'll take her back. Keep your options open.
>>711704622
>>711704687
>>711704733
Send her a dick pic and say "This aint for you no more slut"
>>711704622
I left my girlfriend of seven years, six months later I realized how much of a mistake it was.
She wouldn't take me back because I hurt her so badly when I left her.
>ff three years to day
Crippling depression
Obsessed with my ex
Can't hold down a job
Socially fucked up to the point of being a pariah.
She lives in San Diego with her new boyfriend.
Do it before it's too late. You don't know what you have until it's gone.
So that's a yes to anal?
>>711704733
Who cares about your internet long distance gf you unbelievably gay faggot
>>711705050
Don't take advice from this fuckup at life OP kek
>muh depression
>cant do a simple job
>muh faggotry
She'll be more appreciative than most now, and as shitty as you probably are, OP, I'd be appreciative back. Everyone gets one mulligan. If she still treats you like crap, then you know she learned nothing.
Do it man. My girlfriend and I are on break and it hurts so bad. Yeah I'm a pussy but goddamn did I love her. The pain is unbearable. I know what she's going through. Take her back man.
>>711704922
>>711704622
This. String her along for a bit and let her think whatever the fuck she wants, which she'll do anyway because at this point OP is a secondary consideration to whoever else she's fucking as well.
Don't give her the luxury of being able to come and go however she wants, it'll make you look weak, she won't respect you, and she'll just do it again.
>>711705884
>yolohannahswag
Fucking 14 year olds is illegal you sick fuck.
>>711704897
Same shit happened to me OP, bitch used me to feel better about herself. Back the fuck out. Maybe you'll get lucky like I did and she'll move to a different state. TittyBump
>>711705884
good choice OP
It literally reads like shes already almost over you lad.
Reminder that women when they exit a relationship have a line up of dick waiting to take them out and fuck them to make them feel better and to try and take your place.
Just fuck her and walk away
>>711705558
No this.
She asked me to meet with her and talk on campus Wednesday.
My plan is to address where she fucked up, fuck her, then freeze the bitch out.
If she's serious then she'll have to fight for every but of my attention.
>>711704622
No. Don't be an idiot. Block her for good and never think of her again.
You never take them back. Ever.
Have rough make up sex, then tell her you don't like her anymore.
Naked muslim thread, or other shit like that.
Need more of this to fill my folder!
>>711704622
People make mistakes. I say give it another shot- worst case scenario you end up where you are now anyway.
>>711704622
take her back, be the best lover you can be for 3/6 months, acquire nudes, shoot some photos with a slut(even a paid one) and broke her heart in a important day (Valentine's day, her birthday, the day when she graduates etc etc)
Then you send your photos to her and her nudes to all her friends and family
You're welcome
What exactly was this 'information' she obtained that made her completely change her mind?
Like honestly, its like she has e new perspective on life or something
>>711704622
What's the back story here?
>>711706711
>>711706719
Idk but I'm gonna ask her
>continue?
Reply with this
I'll tell you what. I have a pretty big heart, and since I have so much love to give you can go fuck yourself and pretend it's me.
>>711704622
Without telling us some background information we can't make an informed opinion. But I don't really care what happened.
Fuck her, come in her eyes, wipe your dick on her bed sheets and leave.
"Take her back", hate fuck her. Record the whole thing in private. Then block her, dump her, and tell her "HAHA JK JUST WANTED ONE LAST FUCK".
Fuck that girl!
Or be a beta pussy and take her back then break up in a month.
Up to you faggot
REEE
>>711704733
I need your tit
>>711706880
Basically we dated for a month until some drug dealers broke my leg.
>she broke it off because "too hard"
>learn later that she's been in contact with her ex since day 1. Her friends told me they were dating
>>711704622
Your reply should be tl;dr
>>711707057
fucking quit that bitch, there wouldnt be her ex if you would be her "number one"
>>711705050
Haha weak beta pleb. Don't listen to this faggot. You don't need a partner. There are plenty of gals out there for sex if that's the only reason to be with her. Focus on yo self, Faggot.
>>711706831
continue.
This would honestly provide me information that would be appreciated.
In short; i had a gf in which had a mindset of an oblivious sjw, and lets be real here, the word psychosis is very relateable to how many girls look at themselves compared to the real world.
>I wonder if your ex has realized something most girls in the media hasn't
>>711707057
underclass filth detected
>>711704897
true
shes probbably pregnant with some some alcoholic or a nigga
ask for boobs. then we decide
>>711704622
That's the kind of things you say in person, the fact that she just texted means she's not worthy
>>711707057
For a month????! LOL
>>711707450
>>711707819
>>711704622
What did she do to you?
>>711704622
If you take her back then it validates her behavior and gives her the signal that what she did she can do again. Fuck again if you like, then dump.
What did she do
>>711705050
lmao are you fucking serious? I'd tell you to man up, but then I realize there's nothing man about you in anyway.
Either kill yourself or go gay if you're that desperate for a partner.
>>711704622
Ask for pussy pics just to see if she's down to please you now
>>711707964
Yes, please elaborate
Hey OP, how were dem tits? Lets see some pic related
>>711708086
Thank you
>>711704622
Just drop her, she isn't loyal to you, and she will betray you again if you let her.
>>711707057
I live in a well established town where the drug society is relatively safe compared to most other places. But my ex was too inflicted with personal problems that made her think her opinion about everything in this world was the opinion that everyone should listen to.
If you cant face facts, dont speak up, you inflict more problems which is a snowball effect, just like sjw fucktards operate.
>fuck her, which provides more information to you, stay objective, which will result in you leaving her
>>711705050
get the fuck out of here with that pussy ass shit. man the fuck up live your fucking life and stop acting like a fucking nigger
>>711708112
Basically we dated for a bit, she gave me full stop warnings about her borderline clinical depression which I of course, ignored.
>drug dealers break my leg
>"it's not feasible" and "the way you've been trying to contact me has been creeping me out
One day when she said she wasn't feeling well, so I decided to go cheer the bitch up. I was in her doorway when she asked me to leave, saying she was gonna have a panic attack
>ff a month to learn her roommate was standing right behind me with her ex
She seems like the type of chick who acts like shes super interested in you but ditches you when things settle down tbh, stay away from these type of people, they're a real mindfuck and will fuck you mentally.
>>711708512
i feel like the answer is very clear
fhritp and then leave and never talk to her again.
>>711707848
what i get from this, is that she in realistic terms, is slow. Very unprogressive. She would have had this information about you if she really wanted to be included.
There is a difference in wanting to control aspect of someones life, and opinionate thoughts towards aspects of their life.
>>711708512
Leave it OP, got enough to deal with in the world without having a psycho bitch latch onto you to make her feel better about herself.
From what I see OP, she is an attention whore. I am not sure if anyone will allow her to find hapiness. She may be fun because I have found the attention whores love to please so much. Also being a bit crazy also increases the bedroom excitement points.
Crazier the bitch=better in the sack.
It will be fun while it lasts.
I would get even a bit. Ask for nudies. Flirt a bit. Then drop that shit
>>711708512
Just tell her to fuck off she had her chance and blew it
>>711708512
dont let her course you into getting back together by using the "depression" card. if she ever says she will kill herself if you dont get back with her, let her do it she is a waste of life.
>>711705446
When a woman says she needs space or some time for herself, what she really means is that she wants time to try new dicks. She wants to fuck randoms she meets at a bar, or is already fucking them and just doesn't want to feel guilty. Until she gets bored or she'll come back to you and by that time she'll be a used up cumdumpster. Sorry to say. Believe me, I went through the same shit except mine was a 6 year relationship. Accept it, move on with it, and leave it in the past.
>>711708976
fucking amen anon amen amen amen
>>711705189
>>711707412
>>711708099
>>711708481
edgy
wait till you fall in love, you're in for a fucking surprise
>>711708976
Same happened to me gf of nine years
you're considering taking this slag back? think of how many women are out there.
also tell her the chins told her to fuck off.
>>711709084
>Fall in love
>Leave her
>>711704897
This. Once a woman has crossed that bridge she can never go back also if you have mutual friends let them know what she did before she slanders you. Women get vindictive when they dont get what they want.
>>711709084
bingo. Go fuck yourselves anons. Some bros are trying to help. Leave the thread and go find a dubs decide thread to talk shit in.
Sorry OP, Continue bro
Bitch will never change, get out while you can this will only become a nightmare if you go along with her again.
>>711709084
You call it edgy, we call it being realistic towards the expectations that our society has standarized.
I have indeed 'loved' someone before, and will probably do again to some degree, maybe more, maybe less.
>>711707848
you can make it work. this is your chance to get out, but you can really make it work if you wanted it to. If you're not sure, i'd say do it.
>>711709254
You will learn someday, that there will be people you fall in love with that you simply can't be with.
>>711709254
Idk the situation I'm not the guy who posted that shit.
I'm just saying being in love can fuck you up. The shit is like drug addiction.
>>711705060
rolling for this
>>711707848
Hold up Op, what court case?
>>711709084
ive fallen in love, and had my heart broken 10 days before my weeding with the women i love. i know what love is and i know that if you lose that it doesnt do any good being a piece of shit no good lazy mother fucker who cant stand up for himself and prove that life does move on and the sun rises in the morning. You can be a little bitch for the rest of your life feeling sorry for yourself or you could do something that makes you proud and hope they see and realize they made a mistake.
>>711708512
What the fuck? Move on, you scrub.
>>711709416
you know what else is like a drug addiction? Drugs
>>711707848
If you take her back , she will not learn the lesson she should learn , and neither will you . It will be an act of collective denial . You know what to do
>>711709562
thats illegal
>>711709305
Mmk
>>711709416
I understand but you should love yourself first, if you can't do that why would that woman want to get back
>>711709750
I don't even have to read the texts to reply
Here is your plan of action.
>Agree to meet her but she has to do everything by your rules
>Tell her what to wear (in and out because she will be out of it before the night ends)
>She must obey you completely or all bets are off
>Make sure she understands that she is basically your slave; she can leave anytime but if she does that's the end of ever contacting you.
Now the fun begins
Think of the most depraved things you can do.
Do them all to her and with her.
Eventually she will become your total sex slave/slut
or
She will be so broken she will want to leave you.
>>711709750
Ask for titties!!
>>711709416
If you treat love like a drug addiction you must be mentally ill. I have friends who are 'addicted' to drugs, and people who are in love. Telling yourself that you weren't good enough for someone, or that you are dependant psycologially towards a substance(dopamine, serotinin and such, which are released both with drugs and love) just means that your brain is so dumb that it cannot comprehend what is happening and is starting to fictate reasons for you to blame and justify your actions. The actions are looked at, from a 'normal persons' perspective as irrational, illogical and dumb. Catch up with the world people, you are definetely slacking behind
>>711709777
Trips dont lie
>>711709787
wow OP block this bitch right now. she is mad because you wont take her back right this second over a fucking text. What a worthless fucking bitch.
>>711709836
Oh she loves that shit
Used to ask me to hit her in bed
>>711709836
Man do this!!
>>711705050
yea don't take advice from this fucking loser. In fact never take advice from someone who can't be "whole" without a woman in their life.
This guy needs to do some serious fucking soul searching. Of course she didn't take your broken ass back after she saw how you were nothing without her.
As far as the OP goes, that message gives zero context towards the situation and you shouldn't expect any kind of worthwhile advice until we know what's going on.
>>711709787
>>711708512
Ask her how her roommate and ex were. Did they double-team or takes turns in a tag team deal?
>>711709562
not if you have a script
BOOM
>>711709960
True
>>711709787
She's trying to pry you open and shame you for not betraying yourself.
She's definitely junior league. Not worthy of an LTR until, at least, she learns that having a cunt doesn't guarantee all doors will open for her.
>>711707057
lmaooooooooo, break up you dingus
>>711704733
She's not sincere. She wants you for her escapism.
>>711707057
>been in contact with her ex since day 1. Her friends told me they were dating
Uhh... so why bother? If you go back to this girl you are telling her you have zero self respect and she can treat you however she wants.
I fucking guarantee you the only thing she wants to do is get you back so she can end it on her terms. The best thing you could possibly do is GHOST THIS BITCH.
There is no situation where this ends positive for you and her. You take her back, she instantly loses any respect she has for you. She's creating a situation where you are the bad guy so she can feel better about herself.
I'm only going to shit post this once anon. You can take her back but just know that 90% of anons responding to you have done the same thing and look at what's going on here.
>>711709787
Confirmed for vindictive self righteous cow.
Stay the fuck away mang
>>711709652
>>711709901
someone gets it
>>711709787
she is trying to manipulate you into getting back with her. She is making you feel bad for not wanting to get back with her. FUCK HER OP STAY AWAY FROM HER!!!!
>>711708512
>her borderline clinical depression which I of course, ignored.
Dude what the fuck.
reddit.com/r/theredpill
Never date BPD girls, holy shit. They only want to drain you of attention and destroy your life.
>>711707057
Shit man, should got way bigger problems than whether or not to break up with this chick . Dumper quickly and definitively so you can deal with your own problems.
>>711710442
Exactly OP DONT TAKE HER BACK
she is a crazy bitch
/b/ knows a crazy bitch when /b/ sees a crazy bitch
>>711705050
Whats your Exs name?
Im in SD
>>711709787
you fucking pussy, why are you sharing any of this with her? All you are doing is validating her need for attention. She NEEDS to know you are still hurting over this shit.
Jesus fucking christ, you have no idea how to be in a relationship do you? Here's a hint, try opening a fucking book. This is just another topic that has been studied for thousands of years and here you are trying to wing it.
DO NOT SHARE YOUR STUPID FUCKING FEELY WHEELIES WITH HER. Do not be spiteful to her, just MOVE ON. Let her fade into obscurity and move on. Anything else you do is just signaling to her that you are still hurting over this shit and she's eating it up.
>>711710722
What's that
>>711709787
>thats a bit harsh
Its not about you, OP
she doesn't give a fuck about you or your feelings. She just wants to feel better about herself.
If I didn't know better I'd swear this was my ex, almost word for word the kinds of things she would say. Leave the crazy bitch and move on. You deserve better
OP here, this was an experiment to see the true beta faces of /b/ fucking losers
>>711710824
San Diego, dummy.
>>711710944
Nope I'm from Ohio
>>711710762
>DO NOT SHARE YOUR STUPID FUCKING FEELY WHEELIES WITH HER. Do not be spiteful to her, just MOVE ON. Let her fade into obscurity and move on. Anything else you do is just signaling to her that you are still hurting over this shit and she's eating it up.
Fucking this
>>711704622
Fuck no.
>>711704622
meh. use it. tell her "you my booty call now, if you commit enough then I can think about it more" basically make her your sex slave. fuck her senseless but never let her stay for the night. come in undress (or even come in naked) fuck her/suck your dick.. .do whatever dirty things you could never do to her because she didnt want to/couldnt/you were too much of a faggot to do it.
Use her to the same exact extent she used you. Bcs it seems she fucked you over and shes crazy so she'll probably do as you wish. Drop it as soon as she starts to point "soo maybe we can move to the next stage"... "no. theres no next stage unless I say otherwise".
Don't need to be cold, be calm, but straightforward and confident about it.
That's it.
Either way you do it you have to remember one simple truth. Your life is yours to live. She, or nobody else for that matter won't live your life for you. So you have to care for yourself and keep your self at the pedestal. Your happiness is paramount. Your well being is a primary objective. Everything else is secondary.
Do as you wish. But take care of your self.
dude, you dated her for a FUCKING MONTH and you make this much fuzz about her? fuck off faggot
Why are "relationships" like this? weird egoistic social games, its fucking crazy
>>711711019
I wasnt asking where you lived but forget I asked what your exes name, youre kind of slow.
No, OP, you shouldn't. When people break up, they go through a phase where they want the person back and feel stronger for them than they did in the relationship. It's actually a biological response that I can't remember the name to at this moment.
What I'm trying to say is, she wants you now because she doesn't have you. Try to remember the things that made the relationship go south to begin with.
If you want to bang her one last time. then do it, but only if you can keep your feelings separate. I am thinking this isn't the case. Honestly bro. I think she seems too much.
If you ever have to ask why should this relationship be so difficult. that answer is easy. It shouldn't be. I am not saying that things are never worth fighting for, but when things get too crazy...
>>711711259
Nigga her name is Hanna and I don't know why it matters, you gonna write my fuckin biography?
>>711708512
At this point you are testing /b/ , cuz it is obvious to anyone with enough intelligence to post, that this girl wants the good things, but is powerless to stop letting bad thing as in to ruin them.
After all you said, I can't be sure she even typed the messages you shared with us. Could have been roomie, or ex, or sumsuch
>>711711259
Who cares? Who do you need details on OP? Dumb fuck. There is a reason why everyone here is ANON. Go to facebook assfuck
>>711711487
I'll resume. One month relationship gone wrong, whore wants to get back
>>711704622
take her back,
have her move in,
cheat on her,
let her know,
dump her.
>>711711599
>One month relationship gone wrong, whore wants to get back
lol.
Does a dog go back to where he shits? Don't play these games OP. You are more than this crazy bi-polar depression bitch. You are worth more, your time is worth more. You should be gearing yourself towards success.
>>711711599
for fucks sake, all this bullshit over 1 month. Just move on you pussy.
>>711711442
Lmaoo, I know who you are. Hahaha I might as well write one.
>>711711925
Enlighten me troll
>>711704622
Simple solution to this whole thing
>Be an hero
>>711711442
kek
>>711711925
>>711707057
Stop don't be an idiot
:^]
>>711707057
Don't take her back, it's not that hard. She's a fucking whore and let her know bro. Anyways, green text on the drug dealers breaking your leg?
tl;dr red flags
OP there are better girls that are more worth your time. Don't settle for familiar and don't be a sucker, youre just her feel-good go-to and she's only pandering to you bc shes sad and lonely.
guarantee 100% in a year or less you'll meet someone just like her but without personality defects so wait for the one
get to know all the other chicas theres so many great ones out there
tell her sorry girl but we are clearly not meant to be together and we are searching for something in each other that we are making ourselves see. tell her to go find some other sucker to be her cry pillow
phrase it however you like.
dubs get
>>711710836
THIS
How long has it been since you guys have been in contact?
>>711706310
Do it
>>711712922
>best friend of 6 years moves in w me
>gets addicted to coke/xanax and wakes up needing to cry in my arms every day
>GTFO
>works at a front head shop and moves into a trap house
>turns into a pos
>mutual friend visits, robs him
>thinks I was "on the wrong side"
>after 2 weeks of threats 2 of his dealers followed me home from the bar and beat the shit out of me in my own bed
That's a better story tbh
>>711710836
Well said. Anon.
>>711706310
>My plan is to address where she fucked up, fuck her, then freeze the bitch out.
Yea okay tough guy, you were just asking for advice on how to deal with a 1 month relationship because "muh feels"
Let me just repeat this to you one more time. Dogs don't even go back to the places they shit, but you do.
>>711713050
A few weeks
>>711713451
A month is a long time when you're a grown up
>>711706310
>She asked me to meet with her and talk on campus Wednesday.
You are already stepping into her frame, complying with her demands. You are not prepared to do any of the things you said you were going to do. You are behaving like a little bitch and she SMELLS THE FUCKING BLOOD.
Enjoy learning this one the hard way, apparently she has total control over you after one month.
>>711713600
I was the first to say that I wasn't gonna text over all the BS, I'd rather meet up
>>711706310
Don't try. Just let it go
>>711707057
A month? Let it be man. She isn't worth it if she isn't committed to you from the start. I imagine if you take her back, she already has talked to somebody behind your back, so she will do it again.
this shit is still going on?
>>711713983
OP is a big man
>>711710836
yup. leave that bitch.
>>711713549
>A month is a long time when you're a grown up
apparently not long enough.
Apparently not, you're too fucking deluded to even admit you still have feelings.
The situation you are looking at is no good for you. You are meeting up with someone who is going to twist your ability to think rationally and critically. She is going to poison the well with emotion.
Think about it, there is nothing she can say or do at this point to redeem the relationship. Any basis of trust and more importantly respect are completely gone.
Do yourself a favor and go after other women, or even better work on yourself. Find someone who is worth your time. You do not need to accept her apology to move on with your life, or to find peace. You do not need anything from her to be whole.
The only thing you're going to do by going to her, is diminish your image even more. She didn't even care enough about you to stop entertaining old dick, to think she's going to respect you now is laughable.
>>711709777
I know. Like I said, I'm not the guy who posted that shit. I'm not in that situation and I doubt I ever will be.
But I know what love feels like and I know that if/when it comes crashing down it can fucking ruin people.
>>711709901
That's really easy to say and it's all true but when you're in the situation you don't think rationally. That's what I'm saying.
It creeps up on you.
>>711704622
Make her work for it, OP. You can lead her on for a while and get her to do things she wouldn't normally do, if you catch my drift. Just don't wait too long or she will lose interest.
What you do is show her an opening to getting you back. If she truly feels how she says, then she will go for it immediately. Then, she will do whatever she can to hold on to you. That's when you have the chance to ease her into doing things she isn't normally okay with. Do something that will humiliate her or something that will show you have dominance over her.You can start out with some smaller things, like during sex, only and exclusively use positions that put you in control. Eventually you can work up to things she probably wont enjoy like anal, choking, clapping, and making her obey your commands during your activities. Eventually you can make her your slave if you do everything correctly. If she misbehaves, punish her. She will do whatever you want as long as you show her that she needs you and that you are above her.
>>711714324
Already her frame tbh
She asked me to punch her in bed
>>711704622
>I'm not looking for/expecting you to...
It's obviously a no from my part.
However, you can keep her there just in case you don't find someone better. She might be for real, you never know.
Be in control, anon.
why a no from this turn of sentence ?
>>711704733
All anal all the time now
>>711714769
>>711714968
meant to quote
fuck that bitch if she leaves the first moment things get bad she won't be there for you ever
>>711709787
Yeah when a person gets mad at their apology and admition of wrong-doing not instantly healing the damage they caused is just a huge red flag. She doesnt give a fuck about you, ahe just wants to feel less guilty. And you, in your every right and completely understandably, arent near ready yet to feel better about it. And you explain that clearly and politely. And her response is "thats a bit harsh, Ive apologised, what more can I do?" She's bad news mate. If all she cared about was your wellbeing, she'd be able to accept your response and give you time. But no, she just wants to fix what I assume is a mighty fuck up on her part by a fucking apology. And that first text she sent u was rehearsed to fuck, that was not a naturally formed message. She thinks that merely apologising is a huge act on her part, when really, its the fucking least she could do.
Fuck her man. You deserve better.
>>711714674
Then fucking do it, beta. Make her hurt and make her feel like your cockholster.
>>711709787
Ok. If you're gonna keep up with her, fucking alfa out, man. Look how she's already turning it around, and how she needs to be in control.
Tell her you'll let her know. And if she keeps harassing you, block her.
Again, before you decide anything, let her know who's in charge and who's got something to lose. Don't let her fuck you up again.
She put a lot of effort into that message. I'd say yeah.
>>711714287
Rational thinking has a direct corrolation to mental health, how you view the world and how you place your own thoughts compared to others.
It creates an unbalance in the results because you are biased.
>you are as rational as you want to be in any circumstance
Personally i think this is they main root that splits the two kinds of people in the world, and you choose which side is most progressive towards doing actual real world shit, and not fictional realities that makes us 'feel' better. Live better goddamn it!
How I fucking wish my ex would text me that. I'd actually do anything for that.. Can't believe how I fell in love with such a bitch and still am even though she set me aside and probably doesn't care about me at all
>>711715256
Take note, OP.
>>711715739
Face the facts and life a better live.
Dont chase the dragon for a 'better feeling', work towards living a better life.
>>711713686
You're a fucking idiot. She's gonna rope you back in. You aren't gonna play her by fucking her and leaving, she's gonna play you and you're too fucking stupid to see it.
>>711715048
It just seems like that's exactly what she wants. Notice how, even though she's apologizing to OP, she's acting like she's the victim. Also, as soon as OP doesn't accept it right away, she gets angry, which tells me she doesn't even give a shit for him.
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>>711704687
>>711704622
If you're male and she want wants you, you have to comply.
>>711716027
Would an opressed individual who caved to his insecurities say.
Give her control and do what she wants, Anon.
>>711715872
Thanks man, really appreciate it, gonna try
>>711715739
if I can help you - do you care about her ?
If you still long for her, face that longing. Why do you long ? I mean with your whole mind, immerse yourself in it. face it , don't turn away from it. Emotionally, the answer's always in the problem. It will hurt, sure, but you'll get over it way faster if you face it - if you don't you will suffer a lot more in the long term.
Also,>>711715872
>>711715973
I agree with your message, I thought you judged her just because of those words.
Dude trust me im stuck in the trenches with my ex rn and it sucks get out before she turns the tables on you again.
>>711716221
Yeah, we went from being in a relationship to being best friends basically to being friends with benefits but she didn't want to commit into a relationship because she felt like she was too young to be with someone for the rest of her life or some shit. She wanted to grow up first before she was in a long term relationship. I tried getting her back, a few times. But I'm not gonna try it again, still some pride in myself left to go try it again. She said last week she didn't want the fwb anymore so I'm just gonna stop contacting her and move on with my life now I guess
>>711716944
Translation: I want to ride the cock carousel, then let you deal with the fallout when I hit the wall and the bulls move on to fresher meat.
>>711704622
Don't get back together with her. She needs to learn. You deserve better.
>>711717116
Yeah probably, idk, she really did care a lot about me though, not sure if she still does.. She said multiple times she couldn't live without me.. But oh well.. Just gonna focus on myself now and try to stop caring more about her then about myself. It sucks so much to care more about a person than the other does about you
>>711716944
Yeah. Thats the best way to handle it. Ive had the same. A girl who was at various parts my friend or gf or fwb, just an all-over-the-place relationship where feelings would come and go and conflict. Eventually, it just ended up being toxic. Havent even seen her in 5 years, barely talk to her online. Go back to when we were teens and we got along like magic. This sort of shit is good at ruining relationships. If youre not both on the same page and wanting the same things, then you need to just walk away from each other. If amything was ever meant to be, then it will end up that way down the line. But for now, youre right. Forget about her, walk away, let her do the same, live separate lives. Do it before things go toxic.
>>711716944
A similar thing happened to me.
>>711717533
I can relate so hard to this.
I think moving on is also avoiding the problem in a way.
>>711717533
I get that, but often that results in you caring more for another person than yourself, which basically makes them in control of their and your life.
In the end, you should set standards for youself, and a person who can appreciate those standards should come along and support, not take over.
>>711716944
>>711717533
>>711717577
>>711717811
A nice cluster of dubs
>>711717811
>>711717533
to elaborate on this, I think you should do this>>711717986
set standards, and allow her one last chance.
No OP.
Follow golden rule.
Fool me once shame on you.
Fool me twice shame on me.
Don't let her fuck you up twice.
>>711717577
>>711717811
Thanks guys, really appreciate it, sometimes you just need someone to tell you to man up and move on I guess. Really hard for me because I always hoped she would take me back somehow
post the fucking nudes OP you faggot
>>711715739
Change the she to a he and I'm right there with ya anon
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>>711718170
whether you try to contact her or not,You should feel free to move on.
As in, you should feel like your happiness doesn't depend on her.
Imho.
>>711718143
>Fool me once... shame on you.
>Fool me twice...
I can't get fooled again.
Itt: virgins try to make op single.
op, don't listen to everyone.
>>711718170
Ah buddy Ive been there too mate. Ive let myself be mistreated because I was so desparate to feel like she wanted me again. And I know what those rose coloured lenses can be like.
You certainly need some good time away from her. Detox, get her out of your blood. Be firm in what you've been saying: that youre not ready to talk about this yet. If you have to, throw her a bone and make her feel less guilty. Maybe a "I dont hate you, I feel alright", but always follow it up with "I need time." Be firm on that. Do not let her rope you back in. You need time away from her.
>>711718298
Really sucks doesn't it.. Just telling myself there's 7 billion people in the world so I doubt that I can't find anyone else and she's the perfect one you know, we both deserve someone that loves us as much as we love them back
>>711709461
reroll
>>711718756
Yeah you're absolutely right, gonna tell her next time I talk to her that I feel like I'm not going forward in my life and I need time for myself to think about stuff and move on and work on myself because obviously it's not working out this way
>>711704622
shes an ex for a reason
Don't be a cuck OP. Fuck her. Move on with your life.
GOD... Dont be fuckin beta pusies. My ex slut left me after two years just to suck some other dude dick. I was devastated but after fuckin 5 days i realised shes not worth all my pain. After 1 month i moved on with my life. There is plenty of girls. Why be attached to 1 pussy when you can fuck 5?
>>711704622
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCabT_O0YSM
>>711718951
Truer words have never been spoken.
This guy was supposedly my perfect match, according to our personalities, interactions, chemistry, even by horoscope's standards...
But I refuse to accept my perfect match would treat me and make me feel anything less than perfect for him.
I'll never settle, so I hope you won't either... We deserve the happiness that awaits us just around the bend ;)
>>711704622
tell her to break some other lads leg so he cant run away from her, drugged up misery ass