Feels thread.
No HilaTrump shit
>>711112038
Too early for feels
>>711113260
>>711112038
Im in!
>>711112038
Whats wrong. Why a feels thread?
>>711113710
Everything
>>711114049
>>711114049
>>711112038
What's up anon, I can lend a sympathetic ear(actually it's sympathetic eyes, but you get my point) if you need it.
This thread fucking sucks. I feel like im looking through some middle schoolers tumblr
>>711114418
>>711115165
At least OP's image was pretty cool if you like pixel art. Do a RIS, there are a bunch of those gifs about retro Japan.
>>711114659
I feel her slipping away and dont know what to do.
>>711115284
Talk to her about it. Not in an accusatory way, just in a genuinely worried way.
Something along the lines of "I feel that you are distancing yourself from me and I would like to resolve this. Is anything wrong?"
After that she has the ball in her court, either she is going to confide in you and you have a chance of fixing it or she confides in you and your relationship might end.
Either way, you know what's going on and have a chance to deal with it.
>>711114301
>>711114418
edgy
>>711114465
so is everyone
>>711116136
Really? Who the fuck allows this shit?
>>711115869
She is not my gf butbwe dated for sometime. now when i ask if she wants to do something she is busy. She also asking allot about a friend of mine. In this situation should i still tell het that im feeling she is slipping away. Or just leave it?
>>711116589
This changes things a bit, you could ask her if she is interested in making your thing a proper relationship. If she doesn't, that's gonna hurt, but then you know where you stand and have a better chance of taking care of yourself. Communication is really the key when you want to figure out what is going on.
>>711116136
STOP WITH THE FUCKING BABY SHIT
Feels threads are a fucking joke
>>711117082
Why join it then?
Threads like these helped me during my stress induced anxiety and depression. If you feel no need for a thread like this, why join it?
>>711116956
Thanks man. Just gonna ask whats up. Kinda fucked tho. That she is asking me about my friend..
>>711117429
Let her know how that makes you feel. Again don't be accusatory, just honest.
If you say something like "I'm starting to develop genuine feelings for you and it upsets me that you ask me stuff about my friend. It makes me feel like you are indirectly rejecting me while using me to find someone else".
As long as you keep it focused on your subjective feelings about the situation, while letting her know that you are saying this to find out what is going on, you should have a decent chance of working it out like adults.
>>711116136
Anon, I think there might actually not have been dragons in the past....
>>711118174
yeah sounds good. Hope it turns out ok.
>>711112038
>>711118855
So do I, good luck anon.
>>711117082
Like your life?
Dumped my gf of 2.8 years.
I fell out of love and told her.
She's devastated, she thought we were getting married.
I've been crying cause I do care about her and had a great time as a couple.
What would you do anon?
>>711119555
at least you gor trips
>>711119555
story?
>>711119600
Did the same thing this weekend to girlfriend of five years.
Feels really shit
>love my bf
>everything is going great
>even though we were getting married
>he dumps me
>he doesn't love me anymore he said
>I can't live anymore
>>711119740
damn bro
what's your story?
>>711119661
I don't know...
>>711119998
A friend? You girlfriend?
>>711119600
Are you genuinely regretting your actions?
If so, contact her and let her know. If you noped because of problems that could be solved with communication, you should make efforts to rectify it.
If you really feel like you wouldn't be able to make the relationship work, grieve for the loss and then work on improving your situation.
>>711120086
Best friend. We were almost a thing a year ago but I got cucked by a former friend. I don't know what the fuck going on right now.
>>711115175
It's more like how sociopaths rationalize things to keep themselves from killing themselves.
>>711120243
Your friend might just need some space anon. Let them know you are there if they get to a point where they want to talk.
>>711120243
Do you feed feels him to much?
Anyone got the 'when tomorrow starts without me gif'?
>>711112038
Just popped one extra antidepressant pill, because I couldn't bear myself today. Now I feel nothing but the heat from my radiator
>>711120100
I'm an asshole for saying this but half the relationship I wasn't satisfied with her mental abilities/drive in life.
I told her a couple of times that she needed to read and cultivate her mind, she then cried and promised she would try harder, but nothing ever changed.
Her parents are poor, mediocre and have a loveless relationship. I guess it has to have an impact on her way of thinking as she's an only child.
Maybe I was her ticket out of that world.
I fell for her cause she's cute, artistic and has the biggest heart I've ever seen.
Fucking hate myself for hurting her.
Heh, funny. This is what I was doing before coming on /b/. Cutting myself and rubbing whiskey in the cuts because it's pretty much the only thing that can make me feel anything when I'm alone. Close to killing myself this past month but I'm a little numb to the idea. Quit my job, dumped my boyfriend and moved all within two weeks and now I'm just an alcoholic who smokes too much. But I'm really fucking happy everynight when I see my friends so I just try and get through the other eighteen hours in a day. Barely sleep, barely eat, just walk around and try not to shoot myself. Pic related it's my coffee table.
>>711120709
Sounds like she needed support to get that drive and mental abilities. Since her background is what it is, there probably wasn't enough support in her childhood.
You gotta weigh the pros and cons, if her artistic streak and big heart is worth it, investing time in helping her to cultivate her mind is valid.
She might not know how to start on her own.
>>711121075
You should seek help anon, if you are dissatisfied with your situation, only you can start the steps to recovery. Do your friends know how you feel?
>>711114638
Wtf
>>711121369
Coffee shop customer girl writing feely fanfic about coffee server.
>>711121083
That's exactly what's in my mind bro.
I did try to help her, cause a relationship is a team.
Didn't see her getting better and I'm afraid her family genetics will fuck my children.
Apparently, most of the people I've told about the breakup are actually happy for it and told me she wasn't good enough.
Feel like shit for hearing that.
im a fake
ill never be real
im not even a good fake
every one can with one look at me see how much of a fake i am
ill allways make people uncomftable
>>711113891
woah fuck
>>711121315
They probably do, in part. I just have a hard time opening up. It's hard to be the first one to call and say "help". I just don't want to be brushed off. It's easier to be happy that they're there instead off calling one up and that10â„… chance of them saying no. I have a lot of shit that I'm getting over. I was in an abusing relationship for three years and got dumped and then dated two other guys for about a year each that abused me (I didn't like them, the abuse just reminded me of the one I still to this day love). I'm a very self-destructive person. I think I'll call up one of my best friends/fuck buddy tonight and go over to his place so I can sleep next to someone. It's been a few weeks and I'm getting lonely. It's 2 pm and I'm already drunk. I hope the roof falls on my head today.
>>711122042
Well then it comes down to whether you find her worth it or not. Be brutally honest with yourself anon. Do you honestly feel like you can help her improve or do you believe it's a lost cause?
Look on the bright side, you feeling so bad about this, shows how great your capacity for empathy is.
>>711122053
You'll only stay a fake if you don't decide to be genuine. I've been where you are and I had to bite the bullet and start being honest. It's fucking scary I know, but after a while people started liking me for being me.
>>711122384
Asking for help is scary, but most true friends react with willingness when asked. You just can't expect them to have the tools to do anything other than being sympathetic to you. They can however support you in seeking out professional help.
>>711122623
>Well then it comes down to whether you find her worth it or not. Be brutally honest with yourself anon. Do you honestly feel like you can help her improve or do you believe it's a lost cause?
>Look on the bright side, you feeling so bad about this, shows how great your capacity for empathy is.
Idk if this empathy is what got me here.
Trying to be someone else's crutch; living for someone else.
I'll think about it bro. Feel like the decision was taken months ago and I didn't put it into action until now.
Love-hungover is fucking terrible.
>>711122623
I go to the Canadian mental health association pretty much everyday. They're really helping I just stopped talking about my feeling recently because I feel like everything is my fault. I learned that I'm apparently a really fucking good poet yesterday though, which is nice. I have pretty much everything going for me, I'm young, attractive, relatively smart, and talented in something's with balls full of social confidence. I just fucking hate myself. My personality is to abrasive to find a nice boyfriend or girlfriend (I constantly make witty insults, and appreciate them back) so I'll just die alone or settle with someone shitty enough to put up with me calling them a fuckface.
Google really is a fucking buzzkill sometimes.
I only searched it because I realised today that literally everyone who isn't contractually obliged to like me (parents etc) fucking hates me and only puts on a thin veneer of tolerance.
Fuck this gay earth.
Also none of the results were helpful, they were all telling me to get help. Bing would probably have been a better choice.
>>711122053
Why are you a fake?
>>711123109
I've been where you are, trying to save girls I loved because I saw a glimmer of hope in them. The thing is though that trying help people before they are ready for that help is bound to fail. Keep your empathy, but try to stay rational so it doesn't trip you up. Luckily time heals most wounds.
>>711123230
Sounds like you are spending too much time inside your head criticizing yourself. You should find a mindfulness class to attend, it can help you to accept your emotions without beating yourself about them. When you can look at them with a cool temper, finding solutions for them is easier. You're carrying a lot of guilt that doesn't sound like it should really be attributed to you. I've also had a self hating phase and once I realized that it was a thought pattern that worked like a merry-go-round from hell, I began trying to make new more positive thought patterns. This has worked for me, through the help of others reinforcing those thought patterns with me.
>>711123763
Hey man, before you die do something cool. It's worth it for that two seconds of joy before you're crushed.
>>711115165
Same :/ I want some oc
>>711123763
cry some more
>>711123995
What sort of "cool" thing do you propose? Because I'm not like normal people, I don't go in for parties or drinking or concerts or sports (extreme or normal) or anything else that most people would consider "fun".
You know in office space where he says "I did nothing all day and it was everything I thought i could be"? That's basically my life. The only time I'm remotely approaching anything even resembling "content" is when I'm just lying down doing fuck all.
>>711123845
becuse im a dirty tranny
thats why
>>711123938
>trying to save girls I loved because I saw a glimmer of hope in them.
This hits really close to home.
You're right bro.
Thanks for hearing me out.
>>711123938
I did mindfulness spring 2015 and it really did help, the meditation was a part of my daily life for a year untill I crashed again and now it I try to begin meditation my mind fills with memories and I just want to run. I was jogging and such for a while but I fell and dicked my tailbone while drinking (I know, my fault) and it hurts so fucking much to run. What thought patterns help you? I'd really love to get better. I miss happiness so much.
>>711124252
Go to the park one night and stack all the picnic tables. I did that one night when I wanted to die and it made me feel better. Just do something fucked that will confuses and bother people. I find that helps me.
>>711124400
No problem anon, I do this because others did the same for me.
>>711124531
You should join a class again, doing it on your own is very hard if you are feeling bad, being with a group can bolster your resolve. One of the first good thought patterns I started is "No one else really judges you as hard as you do yourself", after that it was "It might not feel like it now, but when people tell you something they like about you, it's most likely because they really feel that way and not because they are trying to be nice".
Also striving for happiness can restrict your progress, it can basically be you kicking yourself for not being better, instead of going "well I'm not 100%, but at least I am on my way". It's valid to feel bad about negative things that happened to you, those emotions are okay. It's what you do about them that counts.
>>711124277
What's wrong with that?
>>711112038
trying to get a job again but no success so far, funds run out soon ... fuck
>>711125209
ill never be seen as a real girl :/
>>711124687
That does actually sound like fun. A picnic bench might be a bit of a struggle for me to life though, those things are big, and knowing my area probably cemented to the ground.
>>711125165
The next class starts in the spring (the fall one in already underway), I'll join it when it comes around. Thank you for the help, this is honestly the first time I've opened up about some of this shit so it was nice to have someone listen. I usually stay away from to much professional help because pill pushers (I've never had a good experience with perception drugs, even the birth control pill fucks with my bi-polar and the bi-polar pills fuck with my stomach and the stomach pills fuck with my blood kinda' thing). I hope you spend the rest of your day knowing you truly helped someone else feel a little better. Dweeb.
>>711125828
Mess with someone yard, move their gnomes. Paint an entire pavement street rainbow. Do something.
>>711125865
I'm glad to help anon, it helps me feel better about myself as well. I'm still fighting my inner demons and doing stuff like this gives me ammunition to fight them off. I also tend to stay away from medicine unless it's really necessary. That's why I recommend mindfulness. I can also recommend cognitively based psychology, that has also been a great help in my past.
>>711114418
Too edgy this post cuts itself
>>711126046
I dunno, even as a man who is once again planning his own suicide, petty vandalism still isn't me. I'm too attached to the laws of society to even break them on my deathbed.
>>711115237
1041uuu is amazing.
My grandmum is on her literal final 2-3 days but I have to study for all these exams in the next week.
Help me /b/. She meant so much to me.
>>711118543
were you there?!
>>711126963
Just gonna post the follow up to that photo, because loads of people did actually go to his party in the end.
Still kinda sad that they had to put out a general call though.
>>711124277
You'll be okay.
>>711126683
That's okay, we'll figure out something fun for you to do. Take chalk and colour a bunch of things downtown. it'll wash off, that's something I do at night when I'm bored sometimes.
>>711126768
Fuck I don't l know why that didn't post right. I asked you what country you're in, I'm Canadian obviously. I was wondering what services you've used for mental health and what else you would recommend.
>>711127080
This one too.
And I know it's not exactly the best advice, but if your gran means the world to you, you probably mean the world to her. She wouldn't want to mess up your exams and your future because of her.
I kow that's easier said than done, but be strong /b/ro.
>>711111111
>>711127080
1. Lol anon keeping track on obscure shit like this.
2. Good story though. I'm glad it worked out that way.
3. That girl tucked off to the right of the frame looks hot. That developmental stage is right where I start get'n a boner'n.
>>711127297
This always cheers me up.
>>711127395
Do you have bigger version? pretty cool
>>711127521
no sorry
>>711127199
I'm from Denmark, since I had a nervous breakdown a little over 4 years ago, I've been on government support. I asked my local commune(it's basically the local extension of the government) how to deal with my stress induced anxiety and depression. They sent me to a place that had a creative workshop, a mindfulness class and a cognitive psychologist. It helped a great deal.
After that I spent some time as a waiter in a café/restaurant which cooperated with the commune to help people and who had experience with people with mental/social problems. Now I'm taking part in a place that provides me with a mentor who helps me deal with shit and which has classes of different types that helps me. My mentor has helped me find an education I might like.It's called a forest and nature technician. Which is basically a lumberjack with training in maintaining the ecosystem of flora and fauna. I've come a long way over these years, I feel almost normal now.
Fuck this one hit me hard
Hey you faggots being sad in here? GOD EMPEROR TRUMP REIGNS SUPREME.. GET HAPPY.
I found out last week my mentally ill baby brother hung himself after he was messed with by some pedophile named "Tim," tried to burn down our moms house -since he thought if his home was ash he could go live with the pedophile- and got sent to a correctional facility, were he manipulated the nurses into thinking he was not ill and was given a room with bedsheets, which he used to hang himself.
I had no idea any of this was even happening because I am away at university while recovering from cancer and doing my best to *not* speak to my baby brother because I thought I would be teaching him a lesson that he can't let him illness get the best of him and treat me badly and expect me to be okay with that. I let time get away from me with school and the whole cancer thing. I had not talked to my little brother in a year and a half because I was trying to teach him a lesson and that I could always talk to him when he got a little better. Now I will never get a chance to talk to him at all. I spent three days at the hospital with him body, sobbing in front of all the nurses and babbling at his dead body how sorry I was and how much I loved him.
Anonymous of /b/, if you are reading this and care about your siblings at all, call them and just tell them you love them. For all you know they might die tomorrow and you'll regret not spending enough time with them. It's never enough time.
http://obits.dignitymemorial.com/dignity-memorial/obituary.aspx?n=Maisie-Knowles&lc=1638&pid=182409793&mid=7159822#
>>711128273
I'm a horrible person.
>>711119661
>>711119760
>>711120434
>>711128938
Nah man, you just had your own shit to deal with.
Your regret just shows how much you actually loved your brother. Go be with your mom and focus on supporting each other. Also a grief counselor would be a good idea.
>>711129262
He emalied me so much just asking me to talk to him and I ignored him because I thought I was teaching him a lesson. I ignored my little brother for a whole year and a half, when he needed me most. He told other people he loved me and that I was the only stable person in his life, and I left him alone. I committed a horrible person.
>>711118442
I've read this so many times and it never gets easier. Poor Bernd.
>>711112038
Does anyone else love feeling edgy and alone in a world full of uncertainties?
>>711130167
Yea but it sounds gay as fuck when you say it
>>711129996
Well now you have to figure out how to go on from here. Use this guilt to do something for others like him. Taking back what has happened is sadly not possible, but you can be there for your mom and let her be there for you. In time, you will hopefully be able to forgive yourself.
>>711130303
I'm not trying to offend you bro, but it seems that there is a perception of masculinity or hetersexuality stuck in your head which is not healthy at all. I love fucking women and I'm not attracted by penises but I f.e. sometimes sit with my legs crossed, let a tear drop, write a poem or look out of the window with a melancholic glance.
What do you call it when you feel like you are half unconscious all the time only to wake up from time to time, noticing how you almost can't remember what you did the last 3 hours as if they were a dream
It feels like I am broken
>>711131033
Disassociation I think. Has something traumatic happened to you recently?
>>711131153
No not really
My parents fight rather often (reason for coming to this thread right now as well) but I don't want to pinpoint it to that
I experience a lot of the symptoms of Schizoid Personality Disorder too, but I am not diagnosed
more feelios please
>>711112038
Yoshinoya sucks fucking balls its like my least favorite food in japan
>>711131500
Well I can only recommend seeking help then. Diagnosing yourself isn't super helpful, it's better to have a professional look at what's up.
Getting the info that your parents fight a lot is important though. A stressor like that can put you in a fight or flight response, where you go numb to you surroundings to protect yourself.
>>711131827
What sort of food is it?
>>711131918
Beef bowls. Kinda shitty.
>>711132552
With noodles and veggies though?
>>711115871
im happy
>>711132704
You can get it with vegetables, yes.
>>711114301
>They all clapped
Ha, people showed up, you don't know pain.
>>711132922
That sounds tasty though, but to each their own.
step it up niggers
>>711133035
Well it's fast food, it's like a McDonalds food compared to a gourmet food.
>>711118442
Ha had a similar one happen to me, these two girls were talking me and a buddy up at a mall, anyway long story short, they both wanted my friend, only nice to me because I could drive.
>>711133366
I still think I'd prefer it over McDonalds food. Noodles, beef and veggies are bound to contain more nutrients than the wannabe food they serve at micky d's.
I mean heck, their hamburger would be classified as a dessert if it weren't for the pickles in it.
>>711133879
Yeah, and it is probably tastes better.
>>711121745
I must be retarded or something because I never got it until now
>>711135045
Sometimes you miss little details, happens to everyone anon.
>>711119157
>>711130311
Thanks.
>>711118442
first time reading this. generally I stay away from these threads because it's so easy to shatter my fake wall of a stable persona....So anyway, I'm sorry b/rother. I really am.
Feels, feels threads are the only reason I visit /b/, anymore. It's my only interaction with people, it's the only time I get, to reflect on the decisions I took to put me where I am, now, living in a small apartment, where I don't turn on the lights because I can't pay for electricity bills with them being used, being eaten by depression and anxiety, it's just easier to stay away from people.
>>711118442
This genuinely upset me
More so the fact that he felt he let everyone down
As a brit I'm sorry our women are trash.
>>711136001
Are you pic related?
>>711124216
Moron
>>711114249
take a antidepressant you depressing fuck
>>711128209
Make it look like a thread or something as it is it's pretty obvious
>>711131858
Shouldn't it wear off after some time then? It's like this constantly. The only thing I can feel consciously is fear and sadness about having lost the ability to see the world's beauty
>>711114049
kek
>>711128152
god bless denmark
No 404 Pls
>>711136274
I guess I am. Yeah..
>>711121075
if legit, do you wanna talk ? we can figure something out through sm.
>>711126922
love these gifs. anyone know of a game thats very close to this?
>>711128209
obvious
>>711125694
That is because you are not a female, you are a mentally ill male
>>711119760
Sonya?
>>711136782
You sound depressed anon.
>>711136782
>>711140327
Also sorry for waiting so long to respond, I was eating some dinner and watching a show.