/b/, you are not my personal army.
I don't have the finances to give my mother a funeral service. My extended family is not willing to help because of the way she died.
Over the last two years my mother somehow ended up dating a heroin dealer (something nobody who met her in a million years would see happening). She got hooked fast and it killed her fast. Livers and kidneys shut down and yeah... I started a gofundme account to try and raise money to go see her in the hospital out of state but she died before I had a chance to even think about going up there.
I don't expect shit all from you /b/, but I might as well try right? Been here for 10 fucking years, maybe there's a chance I can get something out of it besides the lulz.
I'd share the gofundme thing on Facebook but I'm kind of ashamed to ask for money and don't want my friends to look at me as some kind of filthy begger.
I don't expect to get anything from you /b/, in fact this will probably just result in you getting my Facebook and fucking me over somehow but whatever. Here's the gofundme: gofundme/funeralforlynn
Pic is me and my mom.
This shit hurts so much to look at.
Maybe there's something I can do for /b/ in return? It would be cool if I could just get a share onto Facebook or something too. I feel pathetic doing this...
can't reverse search and the think looks legit. was gonna troll but if it's true, that's fucking rough. id hate to go through that, but i'm broke as shit so all i can offer is condolences. sorry /b/ro
>>710423447
Thanks man. Unfortunately this is all legit.
I'll do some stupid shit for a Facebook share?
>>710422894
I'm sorry anon
I feel ya /b/ro
http://www.us-funerals.com/funeral-articles/low-cost-and-free-cremations.html
You could also try to finance the funeral through a loan from a bank or a personal friend. Not the best situation, but it is your mother
>>710423827
Yeah I managed to get her cremated and remains shipped down to me, she was in WA and I'm in CA. Just wish I could do a service for her you know? Some kind of send off and maybe family would show up for that...
>>710422894
Sorry anon, here's a bump
>>710424194
Thanks.
>>710422894
>>710423174
>>710423371
Any nudes?
I wouldn't mind helping if I could somehow verify this person is real and they really are dead. It is 4chan and all...
Get a job or sell her nudes
Bump lets do something good today b image search pulls up nothing on the pics so might be legit
>>710424494
No sorry, she wasn't much to look at anyway after the breast cancer.
>>710424570
I don't really know how I can verify, any ideas?
>>710424739
No nudes. I have a job, and I'm paycheck to paycheck.
Pic is ring she was wearing when she died. Don't know what it is really.
>>710424896
Its a mint condition whinne the pooh ring
funny how it costs money to die; a natural human action.
>>710425041
Makes sense, she always loved those cartoons and stories. Raised me on them. She always liked tigger more though.
>>710425214
the ring is not worth more than 20-30 bucks so no luck there
Here's her death certificate.
I would love to help, but you like Donald Trump on facebook, so I can't...
Got any OC nudes? Gf/ex ?
>>710425617
That's fine. But to be fair I have both trump and clinton liked to see what they both post.
Asking for money on 4chan, especially /b/ isn't the greatest idea
>>710425753
both are horrible.
>>710425865
agreed. just like to stay up to date. I fucking hate politics to be honest.
>>710422894
sorry /b/rother but all I can offer is condolendes however I really hope someone helps you
>>710425686
I don't think so man, I'll look but I doubt it. I probably have bikini pics of my ex?
>>710422894
Put it on jewbook you fucking idiot. Call it rising awareness. You won't get much sympathy here - we hide from painful emotions by using sarcasm, gore, and being assholes. Besides, most people here have about as much money as you do.
my dude, leave america and the debt behind. sucks how everything costs a fortune in USA
Try imgur, they love these sob stories.
Can the people who run the individual gofundme see the actual name on the donation?
I'll donate, I just don't want them to know it's actually me.
>>710426381
Pretty sure there's an anonymous option.
>>710424158
Any church would do a small memorial service with you, I'd hope. Probably at no charge. >>710424158
>>710425596
delete this shit boi
>>710425596
also youve had her remains since late august? what?
>>710426094
true, or go on reddit, reddit will throw money at you
>>710426738
No I only got the remains two weeks ago. Someone picked them up and drove them to me, family friend. Out of state made it hard.
>>710425596
You really REALLY should blank out any doxxable personal details on that form.
There's 2 people that could easily be subjected ID fraud alone from this piece.
Sorry for your loss mate, but you have to be smart on here.
Little tip: Big Lebowski-style beach/clifftop service. You pay for a tent, some snacks and a music system and commit her ashes to the sea. It's poignant and affordable.
Post a picture of your spread arsehole.
Hope this doesn't get flagged lol its just baby me in the bath
>>710427140
take alot of xnanax and rob a gas station, you will probobly get some money from that.
>>710427085
Uh alright, it's gonna be gross but give me a minute.
>>710427140
tell it to the judge, degenerate
>>710422894
Mayne this is /b/.
I'll jizz on the ashes for free, but that's about it
You have my condolences, friend.
>>710427140
The funeral service isn't for your mother, it's for you. And you don't need it, it won't really help you get over it, or honor her, or any other reason you're thinking that you need one. You just have to learn to live with it, in time.
>>710427327
Yo, you just posted personal info and people found you on facebook and you're STILL going to post your spread asshole?
You must really be fucked up from losing your mom.
Sorry, bud.
>>710422894
http://www.imsorrytohear.com/blog/funeral-assistance-for-those-who-need-it/
>>710427688
You got a point, not gonna do that I guess.
>>710427624
bamp
Sorry anon..but I can look at your mom and tell she's probably done heroin.
>>710423555
Checked, but looks like she is getting a dose ready if you don't look that close. Sorry for your loss, a friend of mine passed away at 15 from it, so I'd never touch it, But I've Been around it enough.
>>710424896
What about xrays of the tumor? That's close enough for most of us so long as you can see the xray outline of the nipple
>>710422894
sry /b/ro my best friend lost his mother over two years ago and called me when he found out. Ive never felt so helpless in all of my years on this planet. I wish there was more i could do to help but im about to move in the next month and i need all the money i have. Ik its probably pointless to say this but the sun will rise tomorrow and eventually this sadness will pass. Much love /b/rother
>>710428157
ahhh, right, let me just grab my framed picture of my moms cancer
>>710427624
Look, you're right. It is for me. It's been since august and it fucks me up every day. I ended on bad terms with my mother, I was angry at her for choosing heroin over her family. Then she got sick fast in the hospital and I couldn't make it up there to make things right in time.
The funeral is for me. I don't need it but I want it because I feel like I will have a place to actually grieve for her loss. I hold all my shit inside and don't ever talk about it to anybody.
>>710427872
Yeah, usually I'm not a fucking white knight like that, but I couldn't let a /b/ro do that because he's reeling from the fucking loss.
>>710428157
Don't have any medical records handy.
Condolences /b/ro.
My mother also passed this year, but I made out like a fucking bandit.
>>710427872
It's probably for the best in the long run, but please consider the advice I gave
>>710427688
Nice going fuckchop. Why don't you fuck off back to tumblr? I was going to see some tragic mourning arsehole, but you had to step in, didn't you faggot? Fuck's sake. I was gonna wank over that spread barking-spider as I imagined him crying over his dead mum, but no chance now, is there? Cunt.
>>710427872
Once again, condolences for your loss. Honor her by living the best you can and try to mend bridges with the absent family. This can be a time for healing. We are here for you if you ever need to share.
>>710428019
These pictures are from the early 90's. She's always been skinny as hell. But when she started doing heroin you could see bones she was so skinny she could barely walk.
Pic: Anyone know what artist this is? It's the only thing of value she left me but I have no idea who the artist is - supposedly it was 30 grand when she bought it.
That's what happen when you dont respond to the post
Sorry for your lose btw
>>710428707
You're fucking welcome, faggot. You may have just wanted to jerk off to it, but some other faggot would have done some stupid shit that would ruin our friend.
>>710428369
there is most likely no god, no heaven, nothing after we die. you are sitting on some ash that used to be your mom, you dont need that. Focus on your self, your girlfriend and the people who are important to you now.
>>710422894
I'm sorry, man, I'm struggling a financial hardship right now. I'll check with a few buddies. Good luck, OP.
Buy some Tannerite and put it on a little raft and drift it to the middle of a lake and blow her up effectively scattering her over the lake. Invite some friends they'll be down to blow something up even if it is your mom
>>710428997
Thanks.
>>710429175
Hey that actually sounds pretty cool. I might do that if this doesn't work out.
Another reason I wanted a funeral is to put her ashes next to her father's grave and give her a headstone.
Put on some death grips and snort her ashes : - )
>>710429309
$300 donated I'll do this and stream it.
Hey my man, i'll put in a £1 donation. It's fucking nothing, but i hope it helps.
(I've never funded anything before by the way, so..yeah)
Buy a brick of heroin and mix her ashes into it. Then sell it for profit. She lived by the Horse and Died by the Horse so it only makes sense that she is carried on through the Horse.
>>710429491
scratch that, minimum is $5.
I offer words of condolence instead. Sorry.
>>710429596
It's alright, thank you man.
>>710424158
Look Op - I'm sorry for your loss and I don't wanna be the heavy here but I think you're trying to hang on to something that isn't there with your fam.
What good would a service do? You've got her know and that should mean more to you than anything else. Honor her that way.
It's a tough enough time for you as is.
I hope you can find some peace knowing she's with you now and you've done all you can.
>>710429671>>710429671
Doesn't go fund me take a portion? Fuck man I'll send you some money seeing as no one on here has a fucking job
>>710429974
I've never used it or donated on it before so I don't really know but they probably do.
>>710429477
If you're gonna do it, do it right. exmilitary is best.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPtPo8Sa3NE
I lost my mom on sept 6 due to heroin and sepsis, I know how you feel :(
>>710430595
Sorry to hear man. It sucks.
Thank you whoever you are!
>>710430185
Did my donation go through?
gave you 30$, hope it will help
>>710430893
Welcome bro ;)
>>710430921
Yes dude, this is already more than I ever expected.
>>710430951
much love brother
bump
>>710431034
I'm like tearing up right now from shock idk why I'm being such a pussy I barely ever cry. Thanks again guys
postive thoughts for you bro
This is going to 404 I think so I just wanted to send a last thanks to both of the guys that donated and everyone else for thinking of me. I will never forget this day.
Sorry for your loss, dude.
>>710422894
if she's already cremated why do you need a funeral? just have a get together with whoever she gave a fuck about
Condolences /bro
sorry for your loss. you should've done this on reddit or something, tho
>>710432801
never been on reddit I guess I could try it
if was a man with coin is give.
Best friend hung himself his mother coudlnt pay for any real funeral ,luckily the orthodox church buried him at the monastery without that closure his mom would've been alto like your situation.
>>710434162
That's rough. I know people don't think much of funerals but I really believe it will help me have closure or grief whatever you want to call it.
Pic unrelated, just me and my girl on halloween this week.
>>710422894
sorry for your loss anon, sent you 5.
>>710434475
Thank you so much my dude.
Hey man.
Dad died of lung disease a month ago,
know how you feel bro.
Don't have any dosh cause I went though the same obstacle you went through but just wanna let you know it gets easier man. Peace
>>710434632
not gonna say it was my pleasure but you get the idea...Hope it gets better for you.
>>710434792
I understand. I hope the best for you friend.
>>710422894
I'm glad she died.
>>710434679
Sorry for your loss man, I hope you have people available for you.
>>710434988
Yeah man likewise with you.
This thread hit me in the feels and made me bust out the old photo album. You bastard haha.
Hope you're doing alright brother
Holy shit! Thank you so much
If this is true I am sorry OP, I would actually help but I don't got much to my name, just enough for the bills and barely enough for meals. Best of luck.
>>710435143
Once I started looking at pictures it got a lot easier to sink in. I just wish I had more, most of these albums I have are of me as a kid.
>>710435221
Thank you man I understand completely.
>>710422894
Hey Anon, are you happy you wont have to answer the Reply to this comment or your mother will die in her sleep-posts anymore?
>>710422894
Op is a faggot
>>710422894
I'm sorry, anon.
Here's a bump.
If you think you can't afford a funeral, look up the laws and rules regarding funerals in your city/state. If you go to a funeral home, they will try to sell you a very expensive casket. You don't need to buy a casket from them, you can provide your own. You can find some very inexpensive ones online. Alibaba, for instance. What else would the funeral home be charging huge markup for? Embalming. Not required by many places. So really take a look at what a funeral home would charge you vs what's necessary. You can have a very fine, inexpensive funeral. Source: I had a friend who was/maybe still is a funeral director
>>710435513
Haha yeah in a weird way it's comforting and disturbing at the same time.
>>710435513
reply to this post or your replaced mother dies in her sleep tonight
>>710435625
I'm not going to a funeral home to buy anything that would be wasteful. I am going to have my own coffin made cheaper, I work at a wood shop. It'll go to the service and the headstone and what not.
>>710435637
Oh shit, I'm not OP, but this applies to me as well...
>>710435637
>replaced mother
what is this faggotry?
>>710428751
Googled it ,it should be a Georges Braque
>>710435791
That actually sounds nicer and more personal anyway.
>>710436042
Thank you so much dude! I think you're right, I heard someone say that last name but I had no idea how to spell it.
>>710435637
Uhhh ok faggot?
>>710422894
gofundme says you already have some money..
well what ever OP I just donated $1.000 for lynn have a happy funeral.
>>710422894
Motherfucker I am a broke ass college student you think I can help you? Fuck you, me and my mom fight a lot and this story struck a chord with me. I'll do what I can OP. On one condition, next story that pops up like this on this website, you help them. Pass on the favor. Doesn't matter what you do just help the next anon along. Hope you find peace brother
>>710436797
I give you my word I will friend.
Sorry op i have no money
i can only make shitty meme edits. best of luck to you still
>>710437121
That's great dude! Saved, thanks
>>710435791
no offense, just by curiosity, can I ask you why do you need a coffin if your mother is already cremated?
>>710437520
I'd like to bury her remains next to her father. I wanted to have her embalmed but I didn't have the money. It was one of the things she asked for before she died in the hospital.
>>710437703
My grandfather, my mother's father.
>>710438056
Can't believe this thread is two hours long I expected it to die in five minutes.
We all wish for ocurrence that takes us out of eveyday happenings. An actual oldfag needs us? fuck yea
Bump
Should I post more of these pics? I've just been looking through them if they're interesting to anyone I'll keep posting them. Just takes me a minute because I have to scan them.
>>710438552
That cat long.
>>710438829
I'm finding them very interesting, thanks.
Let's bump with shit. We still have over 110 images to upload
>>710439140
Auburn jacket is my old man.
>>710439818
>>710439872
>>710439872
>"Quaid... Start the reactoooorrrrr"
>>710436666
Checked
>>710440100
The fuck have I just googled
>>710440186
i'm on fire
>>710436666
checked
>>710440293
total recall broh
>>710440295
May the mods be with you. Always
bump
bump anon needs us.
We can bump with screenshots I guess
Fuck off you pathetic con artist
>>710441262
Thanks for the bump I guess.
>>710441439
>>710441476
That was her, OP?
>>710441690
Haha no sorry, that's me. She took the picture. I'm running out of pics of her that I have available right now. I was about 4 or 5 and she and my dad took me to North Carolina for the first time to meet my Grandparents and my father's side of the family. 1993 I think.
this is really sad,
sorry op. I hope everything ends up alright for you
Id donate something if I werent dead broke
best of luck dude
>>710441966
If i'm not wrong, I would guess that u are Joey Murphy. Am I right?
>>710442483
No, I'm not. I'm Sam.
>>710422894
contrbutin
>>710442782
Thanks. I wish my mother could die in her sleep tonight.
Is this you as a kid, OP?
>>710422894
If this is true, then I feel for you. It's hard to lose a parent.
But I'll never give to a gofundme unless I know for sure that it's not a bullshit story.
You could be some filthy nigger that wants a new pair of shoes and you're posting pics of some white woman you found online.
I have no way of knowing.
>>710425617
"tolerant" liberal.
>>710442936
Nope haha
>>710442899
BTW, yer mom is in hell
>>710443051
Fair enough friend.
>>710443068
Political-minded jew-kike detected
>>710443350
It's foookin RAW!
>>710427269
And how is he going to run away or even walk in?
>>710443051
I agree with him, you need a time stamp and extra information. Sorry, but I don't give to shit skins.
>>710425617
I cringed
>>710443350
What's wrong libshit? Is it the current year already?
>>710443350
hilter did a pretty bad job at killing all the jews
Please take this donation of dubs
BibleThump bump
>>710443546
>>710443051
What else would you like?
>>710444125
sorry forgot picture
>>710444177
Gave 5$ but now I regret it after seeing your Mac keyboard.
>>710444383
because it's a mac or because you think i spent a lot of money on a computer? If it makes you feel better my last job gave it to me.
>>710444177
Anon is legit.
>>710443858
He did 6 million times better than you, nigger
>>710444582
A computer or an overpriced piece of garbage. Also what job gives you a Mac
>>710444731
Five years ago I worked for a company that made a lot of fancy stone products, sinks, kitchen counters, wine tanks, etc. They gave me one of their computers to work from home. I kept it when I left, I think they forgot to ask for it back.
>>710444679
>Implying the holocaust happened
>>710444851
Nice. If you're in school you could take out a student loan.
>>710444872
And your point?
>>710444996
I'm not, good idea though.
b for op
>>710445034
the holocaust is a fraud
>>710424896
It's a Pedobear ring, they give them in those pedophile rings where Clinton used to go, you know...
Your mom probably abused of you when you were a child and sold you to some junkie pervert.
Really, OP I'm sorry in the measure of how a stranger could care but you're doing the sentimental shit on 4chan, on /b/, you can't expect much more...
You sound like a nice dude, best of luck anyway. I'm broke as fuck even to donate $5 but I've seen that the donation site is going, even if it won't be considered legit by people outside 4chan if they read the names of those who donated untill now...
>>710445228
Of course, Donald
>>710445036
You literally enroll, sign up for FIFSA ( I think ) then not show up for classes. People do this all the time at my school for some reason. I assume they think they dont have to repay.
>>710435637
what
>>710422894
Listen Op you're not alone. My dad was murdered. It is in your best interest to seek cremation no chemicals get it done it's cheaper plus they don't use expensive chemicals my old man got put into cardboard basically. It fucked me up. He was killed in his tub and dragged a few blocks. Stuffed under a car to throw off the trail. But he has been injected directly in back of his head with a hot shot of fentynal- makes heroin look like tums.
He went unburied and he began to decompose....then family finally kicked in money to get him in the ground. Something bout knowing your family mmember is turning black above ground changed them all. They suck.
>>710426885
Where is she now? Freezer?
>>710442782
wtf
>>710445826
You know,
dumbfuck
Looks like a skank
>>710422894
Op needs us, we must donate what we can
>>710435637
reply
>>710435637
replyerino
>>710422894
I'm sorry anon.
my mom died just coming up on about 3 years ago
it always sucks and never not sucks
sorry OP
i named a star after ur dead mom OP
ur welcome
>>710428369
My uncle passed recently and so did my stepfather..for my uncle my aunt had him cremated and held the service at her house had a priest come for a 5 min pray ..my stepfather it crrated a huge family fight he was created and my mom just ordered prayer cards and sent them out.. his body laid at the funeral home for a week he wasnt answring the phone..bc his next of kin was his son not my mom or me and his son was a scum bag..ur mom would rather u spend it on ur home or bills i strongly believe then a wasteful funeral
>>710442782
reply
>>710422894
just be careful with this OP, I opened the link and within like 3 seconds I could see your name, picture and town. i really have no desire to fuck you over but others might
>>710437703
I am just glad you know what happened anon. I wish my dad would have had an open and shut cause. Not knowing will drive you nuts. The chemicals were close to 12thousand with service. I wish every day the cops investigated. Make sure you find closure for it. It's not easy dealing with a drugs death.
>>710435529
If hes a liar hea a faggot if hes not ur the faggot FAGGOT
Bumping for justice
>>710447200
Cut the shit- dead is dead
If you die from saving a bus full of kids, good karma for you-
but still dead
Hey there /b/. Any anons at balboa park SD right now???
>>710422894
You could have some of her ashes turned into ink for a tattoo. Some people like the idea, some are repulsed.
>>710447417
Who yo callin ho, HO?
Everyone, I am so appreciative and have achieved more with this than I ever would have believed possible. I have work in about 4 hours and I am going to try and get some sleep so this is the last you will hear from me probably. I'm sure most of you have my Facebook if you really do want to be in contact but whatever that's gay.
I am going to pay it forward someday, the kindness that you all have showed me. Later bros.
>>710426094
Truth.jpg
And condolences.
>>710448284
Fuck
>>710448379
ffs
>>710437703
ashes in a coffin? I don't think so. spotted the troll
Where are you from, OP? Have you posted a link to your Gofundme page? If your story clears, I've give you a couple bucks. I lost my mom 5 years ago due to smoking related issues, I miss her.
Sorry for your loss /b/ro
I don't have any money to donate sorry
>>710444679
>2016
>believing in the holocaust
this is why i know its the jews posting all the pro hitler stuff on 4chan
>>710448934
he didn't mean get a coffin, just bury it next to the grave
>>710448934
There are funerals for people who have been already been cremated. I friend of mine die and he was cremated right away, his urn was on display and they had a nice service for him. funerals are for the living, the dead don't give a fuck.
>>710428369
If the funeral is for you, then make it for you. Don't try to make it a means of bringing the family around. That will come in time. It sounds like they were hurt the same as you. Instead, seek the catharsis a good funeral is supposed to provide by going through your memories of her life, the good and the bad, and allowing yourself closure. She can no longer hear the words you wanted to say, but you don't have to leave them unsaid.
Also, you're a /brother. All we do is hold shit inside and hide our pain behind sarcasm andcynicism. You said you weren't expecting anything of us and like the earlier posters have said, most of us are broke too. But we're here for you in our twisted way. I hope you find the peace you're looking for.
>>710449464
he said he wanted to buy a coffin. wake and smell the con artist
Just wondering if you have any nudes of your mother or have seen her naked before. Can you greentext any sexual encounters you've had with her plz?
My dad died about 12 years ago and I don't have any closure. My step mom is a raging, jealous cunt and she will not tell anyone what happened to Dad's body. He spoke to me at one time about donating his body to science but I'm not sure if that was part of his final wishes. I don't know if my father has been buried, cremated, donated, his ashes resting somewhere in his home, or what. Some think he was cremated but nobody knows for sure. I was close to my day and deeply respected him. Closure would be nice.
>>710422894
You understand the State or Government will pay for your mother to be buried , just letting you know.
>>710449714
I didn't see that, you may be on to something.
>>710449982
sounds like she fed it to the family
hey OP, you fucking asshole, i gave you $30 and it turns out this was all fake, i'm reporting you, so you know
>>710428369
> don't ever talk about it to anybody
except when you're asking strangers for money on the internet.
fuck off, dude.
>>710448034
Hahaha wtf is that..i dont like it. A nigger with his hands in his pockets
Post her nudes and we might give a few bucks.
It's interesting seeing peoples reaction to things like this. Being totally anonymous removes any sort of social accountability. You get to see what caliber a person has in their character. Most people are shit.
Sorry for your loss anon, I am too poor to help out, but I wish you the best.
I've seen these pics posted in a feels thread a long time ago. Fake and gay and you're a shitty person for trying to get money out of fake sympathy
>>710425214
It's a panda ring.
>>710447647
found the mason faggotron.
whose skull is whose.
It matters fuckface.
OP lied! His mom actually died of AIDs from fucking to many niggers without condoms
So its fake? This guy made a facebook gave out his name and location made a gofundme and thought he could get away with it? Thats wild
>>710451033
he posted a death certificate bro i don't think its fake
funny how op disappeared after someone called him on his bullshit, blabbing about a cremated mother and saying he wanted to buy her a coffin
This shit is worse than youtubers asking to check out their music. so many faggots
>>710451011
>>710451033
>>710450379
I do not think it is fake.
how much money do you need for funeral op?
>>710451011
fuck off retard
>>710451033
>taking digital information for real
i suppose you also believe in mariah carey's skin
>>710451112
I kno this is 4chan and u got to be cynical on the internet but damn ..i dont see a coffin meanin its a scam but others sayin they seen these pics before n shit..it would be too easy to get caught with all the info he gave out
>>710451466
He took a picture with timestamp next to the real photographs..
.>>710444356
>>710423371
i know this and i dont like it
im sorry ror your loss anon
>>710424896
That ring is a chinese coin in a setting. Panda and bamboo. You can see the denomination at the bottom 5 yuan.
>>710451395
Nah im jus sayin he went hard ..w a death certificate n all
AND WHERE THE FUK IS OP ANYWAY HE DIPPED
>>710425214
it looks like a coin with a panda made into a ring.
not poo bear.
sorry for your loss got me in the feels tonight.
i've been in a similar situation before although not with my mom but I never had a service for my grandma but she wanted to be buried by my grandpa who is in a cemetery. after a year or so I went to the cemetery with my mom, my wife and best friend and dug a whole and buried her. Its a good memory for me. I guess a lot of the family would have gone to a funeral. but i was there with the people closest to her and it was free. its not for everyone but maybe you could come up with something similar. my condolences
>>710448300
I like how as soon as he says his goodbyes everyone comes out calling him a liar for the first time.
Look OP... I'd help you but I feel like inviting family to your mother's funeral party is going to make it worst. If they wouldn't help with the the funeral services thy won't come for her funeral
>>710436462
It's titled Picador.
www.artnet.com/artists/georges-braque/picador-QQ8pgPWByNzn9SOHrXTOUA2
Also, I think seeing a therapist might be a better use of money for a funeral, if it's to benefit you.
>>710427085
this
>>710422894
I lost my mother last year, I can't donate but here's a little hindsight. The grief, the guilt, the constant thinking that if you had done something differently does not leave you. The grief waits until you are alone to eat away at you. Expect the strangest things, random emotional shifts are a big one, you'll go from, happy to crying to wanting smash everything you own, you will understand that what you are thinking is fucked up and you can't stop the feeling.
Secondly, take time to grieve, seek couselling, I'm absolutely serious, if you do what I did, you will live every day in fear that at any minute you could have a mental breakdown.
Thirdly, the pain of loss never leaves you and you will struggle to understand why, it's very simple, you feel angry, you feel cheated, there is noone to blame, nobody is at fault and it's frustrating to realise that. The loss will always be there it never eases off, you just get better at managing it. Don't believe anyone that says "it gets easier" it's a lie.
Finally, I can assure you, seek help for the grief, don't become me, don't become the guy who hasn't got the balls to cry at the funeral, don't say "I'm fine" when you're not, don't live waiting to see what fucked up shit your brain conjures up to give you nightmares because they don't stop when you wake up, don't live in fear of the impending breakdown.
A calm ocean never made a good sailor.
>>710449982
if you know the county their should be a medical examiners office to help
>>710450188
I would expect nothing less than this comment from /b/.
>>710422894
If we all pitch in maybe we can bury her in dried semen
>>710451650
probably 750 18c gold.
>>710424494
fucking kek. this is why i always come back to b
Very sorry this happened to you. I donated a bit, and I'll do my best to get you more donations.
I hope things get better for you. If you need someone to talk to you, I can find a way for you to contact me.
>>710422894
Dont be a fucking idiot, funeral services are rip offs. It IS legal to bury her yourself (terms depend on state) and it costs absolutely nothing except plot of land if ya need it. Alternatively cremate her, although that'll cost a bit more. If all else fails, just abandon the body. It's not hard, and technically legal, and honestly who cares about the body. The person lives on in your memory
>>710422894
You should be okay with getting plenty of help OP. You got the right skin color.
>>710425058
and to be born
most food, water, health care...
yeah, pretty much everything
soon the air will be so polluted we'll need air purifiers and air will be sold by municipalities like water, sewer, electricity, communication, garbage removal, we'll have to buy air to breathe or buy water to feed plants to make it for us, rain will be so acidic... I hate people that care more for money than they do life. Someday the people of this whole planet just need to rise up together and purge the 1%. Stop assassinating politicians and start assassinating the rich people who cause the most harm. Something, will happen, when the people have had enough.
>>710450680
Where's your proof probable nigger?
>>710424494
This.
I'm going to sleep but I'll put 20 bucks in tomorrow OP.
Don't care if it's fake or not but I'm not taking any chances leaving someone without help and without kindness.
>>710422894
when you dont reply to the "reply to this or your mom will die in her sleep"
>>710448284
repy
>>710448379
reply
>>710459205
/thread
bump
>>710444383
>>710444731
Did you not notice the mug?
>>710423555
>>710422894
I'm sorry you have to go through this OP. My condolences.
fuck. shit. these feels man.
>>710425617
>>710429920
Some tough love like this is always my go to. Nothing at all wrong with feeling broken up man. But one of the best things you can do is hold your head up and just say "I gotta move forward" not forget but just realize that sometimes things just leave your control. A service in a public area would be more than ok I think. A park or a quiet area that's around you. Just simply call the local mayor or parks and recreation service and see if something like that would be ok for a half hour or so (simply for a double check. I'm sure no person would say no) then invite who you want and see how they feel about it. Set a date and go for it. Look at it like I said moving forward. Don't get weighed down brother. No point in dwelling on something that another person chose to do, even someone so important. Its our own life to live and sadly sometimes things like this take place outside of our spheres of influence and we can only watch. Please just understand that no one wants you to be bogged down by this. I want you to look back with fond memories and forward with hopeful thoughts
>>710422894
OP's probably a heroin addict. Fucking marks.
>>710443546
Sweet CZ
>>710448284
AGAIN FUCK
>>710448379
to this thread
>>710422894
What good is a funeral service? She's dead. Just dump her in a hole, she can't tell the difference.
Say a prayer when you do it if you want
>>710442782
fag
>>710428157
i love you
>>710425617
I voted Trump today.
>>710448284
faggot
>>71046261>>710422894
what happened to your dad?
>>710422894
Bump for ya OP sorry
>>710422894
Kill the dealer and take his money faggot, he killed your mom not us. Fuck off.
>>710422894
Hey man, donated a bit to you. Hope it helps. Every man deserves to have closure with their mom. I'm really sorry for your loss. Please also take care of yourself.
Also yes /b/ call me a faggot, and I don't mean to ruffle anyone, but in case this helps even the slightest I am also praying for you man. I really felt called by your story and felt that I needed to donate. If you don't believe, that's cool, just know that you are in my and my family's thoughts.
>>710426381
Taylor Swift everyone.
OP's troubles are over.
Hey OP I bookmarked your page, I'll chip in for a few bucks this weekend since I get paid tomorrow.
Your mom was pretty and deserves a decent sendoff. You better not be a lying faggot trying to rip us off.
>>710428499
So Give him money douche