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Gf of over a year wanted a break for space so I did and she texted me back in a week for dinner. What do?
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>>707737590
Do you love her?
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she just done fucking some other douche and now has regrets. drop her and move on.
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>>707737717
Yes I love her
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>>707737590
Post more for analysis
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>>707737903
I can post the text message she sent me
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look at it this way, would she have reacted the same if you said this to her? Probably not. If you wanna keep fucking her go for it but she wants other dicks in her mouth besides yours.
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>>707737858
Give her a chance then.
But if she fucked another dude, drop that bitch ASAP.
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>>707738076
Oh for sure. I could handle that shit if she had another dude kiss her
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>>707737590
Don't be a cuck
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>>707737858
If you love her, why the fuck are you sharing a pic of her here? Fucking asshole.
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>>707737903
Hey babe,
I'm sorry I haven't really been in touch lately. I know it's probably been stressful, but the truth is, I just haven't had the heart to talk to you about how I've been feeling. You haven't done anything wrong, at all, but I've been feeling weird about our relationship for the past couple of weeks. At first, I told myself that I was just being stupid and the feeling would disappear, but I've come to realize that it's not going to. What I mean is, I don't feel the same way you do about our relationship. I'm not getting excited like I used to. I don't feel the same way, and nothing can change it. I guess I'm really not in a good place for a relationship. I don't want one, and I feel as though I've been taking it out on you. You don't deserve that. I'm sure that the only way I'm going to get myself ready for the rest of my life, and doing so in a positive manner, is if I take time by myself to get to know who I am and what I really want. I don't want to hurt you by being half-heartedly being in a relationship, you need a girlfriend who will go the lengths to make you happy, not someone who is struggling to be independent, and doesn't really know how to. I really do care for you a lot, and I don't want us to end on a bad note, but I do think that what would be best for me is to let this end, and not drag it out to the bitter conclusion we can't even just be friends later. I'm not expecting anything from you, please don't feel like you did something wrong, I just need to find a way to be happy, and I' m only going to figure it out by giving time to myself.
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>>707738227
The man is right you know
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I honestly doubt she would tell you if she fucked another guy.
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>>707738227
Not sure maybe cause I feel revenge
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Been in that position before anon. Forget about her and move on. Just don't immediately start dating.
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>>707738479
If you want revenge post more pics
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>>707738309
Fairly certain either she wanted to fuck some other dude and didn't want to feel the "guilt of cheating" that she somehow thought she would avoid by "taking a break" for a single week.
That, or she's stringing you along, or she tried to get some dick and failed.
Regardless, dump her OP. If she was worth your time and you guys were as good for eachother as you thought she wouldn't have done this in the first place.
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>>707738309
>I don't like you now that the hormones are fading and I'm too much of a pussy to actually say it
Ftfy
Just tell her not to worry about it and move on, you two are obviously not compatible and nothing you do will fix it.
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>>707738609
>Just don't immediately start dating.
This guy gets it. You're gonna be emotionally needy because of getting dumped. You'll dive headfirst into shit you should appreciate at a distance for a while first.
Besides you now also have an opportunity to do something for you, that would take a commitment from you. If you've got the right chick it's worth it to lock down sure, but if not, you have a lot more freedom than if you have to mind someone else the whole time. Do something crazy, sign up with a citizen mobilisation force to fight ISIS or some shit. Go slumming in Italy for half a year. Get a loan and set up a bar in Thailand. Go get into some adventures only singles can get into, your older self will thank you.
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>>707738637
Like what. Depends
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>>707737590
Op, how old is she and what about you ?

Had a similar story, we took years to break up. And it was awful. Cut the rope quick.
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This happened to me too. What my ex told me is that she wanted a break, and then fucked somebody during that break. Because we "technically" wasn't together she was adamant that she didn't cheat. 11 months later I'm currently in a new relationship and my ex is still stuck in her dead end job, she wants to quit as she has slept with 2 other countries workers. My life is much more successful than hers and yours will be too anon.
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>>707738687
I asked if there was another guy and she said no. I think her friends don't help with the situation. Either way it's sucks
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>>707739033
Co-workers fucking autocorrect
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>>707739059
If there isn't already there will be. You shouldn't dwell on her.
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>>707738974
I'm 23 and she is 21
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>>707738687
this OP

One of my exs did this shit to me, I got back with her after a week or "space". Turns out there was some dude hitting on her for like two months, she wanted "space" so she could fuck him and not feel bad about it. Long story short, I found out, I left her, and he blocked her number after that week.

>>707738609
If you decide to keep things going, follow this advice. If she had a week of no strings attached, you deserve the same. Go out to the bar and pick up some drunk slut. Or go get a happy ending at a massage place. You deserve fun too anon.
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>>707739117
I wanted a future with her and she says she still wants me just needs time.
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>>707737590
People committed to one another so not need "space"

Just go your Separte ways and enjoy being single
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>>707738687
There was some guy you sent her a bunch of snapchat shut tried to think nothing of it and brought it up to her
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>>707738309
>>707738687
listen to this guy. i've gotten plenty of texts like this. the fun part is over OP, you guys might fuck again but its time 2 go.
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She doesn't squat. Dump her or fap to loli and dump her.
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>>707738687
this
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>>707739185
What is she lying low from Russian mobsters or something?
Sorry OP, but it's just not in the cards. Really the best thing you can do, for your own health and happiness, and to be a decent guy, is move on.
You'll grieve, but just make that break clear in your mind and move on. Get some breakup pussy, score some poon off dating sites and get some friends with benefits going.
I can't stress enough how you should get more than one simultaneously. It'll make you feel much better, you'll be swimming in sex for a while, it'll be your best vacation ever. And you won't get the whole building emotional commitment you'd get if you were plowing one chick, then you're gonna end up in a rebound, you really don't want that.
Take it easy for a while and reevaluate your life while living like a Greek aristocrat.
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>>707739318
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Ive been you op. Dont ever let a woman fuck with your emotions. Next time she trys to talk to you just blow the cunt off...she wants other dick..
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>>707739124
Hmm this kind of sounds like a familiar case. Gonna be hard seeing her tonight
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>>707739185
leave with your dignity
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>>707737590
Been there. Expect a good 3-6 months until its all over again. If you can detach emotion, use it as a chance to do all the weird shit you didn't do the first time. Don't expect it to last; it won't.
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Op here. Just sucks cause I can see the end coming I just don't want it to end
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>>707739185
>>707739507
Besides OP, if you're gonna cling during this time and submit yourself to the overhanging doom of your dream relationship bombing, it's just gonna destroy your bond with her more.

You need to initiate creating distance here, and maintain it while diverting your focus to other broads. She'll want you like black tar heroin if you do this for a while, provided she hasn't moved on. She's gonna be the one thinking about you banging other chicks, and dealing with her separation being unfulfilling to her. If she has you soothing her whenever she's looking at her phone, it's gonna work against you.

If you act like Heffner for a while not only is it gonna center her, it's gonna make her desire you and regret her choice if she's partly into it. But by that point when you get the option of taking her back, you might look differently at it, and you really should.
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>>707739718
I figure if she left me once than that's enough rejection to move on and forget about her but she was so hot and I loved being with her
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>>707739185

/b/rother, she is just stringing you along until she can find something "better".

I'm sorry you are in love with her, but she is not in love with you, regardless of what she says.

Do NOT jump right back into this relationship with her, tell her YOU need some time and space now to think.
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>>707739751
It's already here.
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>>707739829
>is it gonna center her,
*gonna center you, I mean
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>>707739872
Yeah if I was gonna let her back in my life it would have to be slow and she would have to show me that she wants it back
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>>707739900
Damn you
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>>707739751
someone else will make you forget about her. head up high and get some work done
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>>707739118
We were at that time in the same age range. Don't go under 25yo
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>>707739185
I didn't read the same message then. It sounded to me she was breaking up as tactfully as she could but leaving a little lifeline so you wouldn't experience the shock of a breakup and more drama, which she didn't want and to keep you as back up if the new guy didn't work out. This shit happens all the time and has happened to nearly every guy at least once. You go back and you'll learn the hard way and if she said there is not another guy she is lying
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>>707740075
Holding onto this pipedream is gonna wreck you mentally.
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>>707740133
Yeah I could make hella bucks so my life is easier in the future
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We were inseparable when together but I graduated school and she is still in school
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>>707740200
exactly. just work on you. thats what a good girl finds attractive, a guy who's trying to get shit done
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>>707740075
No, /b/rother, this relationship is all but done - she might continue to be a quality slam piece in the future, but for now you need to stay FAR away from her.

I promise you the minute you start ignoring her and her attempts to contact you, the more frantic and frenzied she will become trying to drag you back into her life.
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>>707740075
>she would have to show me that she wants it back
What? She puts you on ice via text and now you are willing to take the bitch back if she does the right begging? You are a fool OP. Are you reading any of the replies? Nearly everyone is telling you that you will get the short end again.
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>>707739751
your bitch is just stupid. hormones fade, that's natural, but being in a certain hormonal state, causing e.g. the excitedness she talked about, is NOT what love is about.

real love is about thinking and acting as a unity. she obviously doesn't do this and I guess you don't either. to love somebody, you don't even need to have had butterflies ever, it's a rational choice, a principle you set that determines they direction of your activity. you should both think about if you want to do this with each other. if not, then there's only random feeling that can bring you together once in a while with frequency dropping over time.
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>>707740495
I know. I have some faith and that might be misleading for me. Once I see her and see what she wants exactly the. I'll leave that shit
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>>707739837
Ya, again I sympathies. I had a little spinner and we were together for 5 years, apart for 1.5, then met up again. It lasted 6 months the second time. You'll find(or her) that the reasons you left still exist. Plus, pardon me for saying this but you both are really young. Take it from me - don't be serious about anything in your 20s (heck, early 30s even). DO NIT GET MARRIED IN YOUR 20S!!!!
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post pics then OP and ill give you the best advice anyone can give.
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>>707740572
I know we pass the honeymoon phase and I accepted her for who she was and wanted to live life with her but this is her first real relationship and I guess she froze
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>>707738309
She doesn't love you anymore, seen this before. You can fuck her for a bit if you want, but it's time to move. Things will *never* go back to how they were.

Your best bet is to try and guilt her into a threesome then move on.
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I've been there to op so I know it is no fun but you just need to move on. This experience will pay for itself 10X in future relationships and being happy.
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>>707737590
she's been away fucking BIG BLACK DICKS

and now she needs money

you're just a wallet for her
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>>707740763
you're both young. it's likely this will happen again to you. i'm not saying be more reserved but if a relationship makes you happy then it's worth waiting for. the right girl will be your best friend
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>>707740693
I know I don't wanna have kids til 30 but I'd marry before then to be with her in my 20s and have fun
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>>707740763
she didn't freeze and who cares if it's her first relationship. it's only about thinking the right thoughts and doing the right things. it's all built upon the choice whether to be unity or not. she obviously does not think correctly, if she says that she's not that excited anymore and thus does not know if the relationship is what she wants.
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>>707740995
That's how I feel about this one though
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>>707741043
I know. I just want a face to face conversation before we let it all go. The fact that it was over text make it petty
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>>707741045
You'll feel that way about each one.
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>>707741045
naw, you're deceiving yourself. look at how you feel right now. look how she is acting. look what she is thinking. do you really think you could be happy forever with her the way she really is? to answer this question: are you happy with her behavior now?
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this is your girlfriend when you're not with her
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>>707741129
it wasn't petty it was shitty of her to dump you like that
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>>707741218
No im. It but that not how she normally acts and I guess that answers my question too. If she acts like this with me then...
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>>707741253
Is that Danny Glover?
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It's been a week and she still has us together on Facebook
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>>707741045
>>707739751
>>707740763
my PARTNER doesn't leave me wondering
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>>707739507
>>707739829

Listen to this and nothing else bro
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>>707739185
>I wanted a future with her and she says she still wants me just needs time.

she can't get off the BBC train, she sees you as a wallet, nothing else
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After the dinner tonight if it happns. I'll let you /b/ros what happened and depending on the outcome there will or will not be nudes tomorrow
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>>707741610
The fact that you're leaving it up to her says enough really.
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Don't be an idiot. She fucked another guy, dump her and move on

/thread
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>>707741549
lol I'm pretty big and I could even fit in her all the way. Doubt she wants that shit
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>>707741659
Well yeah to me I'm a reactionist
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>>707741760
No you're submissive because you've been emotionally broken.
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>>707741835
True and not sure how to react since there isn't really anything to react to. I didn't contact her til she texted me last night asking for dinner
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I'm gonna be strong when I see her and keep my head up and don't look back
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>>707741973
Call her and tell her the dinner's off.
Don't be a dick, just tell her that you don't really see this working out, and if you're gonna stick around you're gonna need to prolong the space.
Really, don't get angry, don't try to fuck with her, don't get invested with her. Go do something else the next few weeks.
I'd really recommend talking to some other chicks. Otherwise maybe some vidya to cool the nerves or something.
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>>707737590
I'll tell you the same thing I told my son...and odds are you won't listen either.

She wanted a break so she could fuck someone else guilt-free. So don't see her until you fuck someone else during you're "break."

I've been down this road as a young man...it doesn't end well.
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>>707741399
Change that, and don't bother with the dinner.
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>>707741687
Picks or it didn't happen
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>>707741002
>>707741315
>>707741399
>>707741610


OP you sound pretty retarded not gonna lie. Stop being a pathetic little pussy, grow some balls, DON'T go to dinner with her, and DON'T entertain the notion that she has ANY power over you. Lose her, find (several) new bitches to fuck, and move on. She might come back begging, and it's your choice then. Personally I'd still dust her.

You deserve better bro.
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>>707742118
As of now I'm sure it's gonna happen anyway. I told her next tuesday is good but then she asked if it could be today and I'd said maybe since a friend bailed on me for the bar tonight.
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>>707742230
Wanna see my dick?
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>>707742290
Look man I'd tell you to blow her off completely but I really don't think it's gonna help you. In a minute she's gonna tell you to jump again and you're gonna ask how high.
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>>707742239
Thanks man. Needed that
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>>707742350
Yes. In her tight puss puss
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She's going to end it tonight- call her and end it first, you want as many cards as you can hold in this, trust me.
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>>707742216
Harder than it sounds
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>>707742239
>I'd still dust her.
Yeah there's really no coming back from a break.
Shes salted it, it's done.
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>>707742448
Ok I probably just won't text her again
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Only you know who she is OP, none of us. If you think she is the type, or has done so before, had a string of relationships, is an outgoing party type or anything of the sort, then she's full of shit. but if she is none of those things, then she is being honest in just needing time. My girl done the same, but I was her first boyfriend, first kiss, first everything. So I knew she wasn't trying to fuck someone else etc. After no contact she barely lasted 4 days without me and it's all good.
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Do not get back with her.
Tell her thanks for the good times and move on, and never call her again. If she can take a break, then she can ask for a divorce.
She is about to go full slut.
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>>707742547
Yeah she's not like but her friends are. She would rather sit on the couch with me than go out with her friends. She seemed stressed about school, work, and keeping her friends but I'm not sure. It's the uncertainty that kills.
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>>707742427
Onesecond
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>>707742517
Don't be avoidant, make a decisive break.
See how passive you're becoming? This is why she's dumped you and she can't think of you as sexually attractive anymore.
You're in a vicious circle and there's no salvaging this relationship, this image is now etched in her mind.
Making a clean break and moving on to focus on you is your only shot at making yourself attractive again. But I don't think you can redeem this relationship, the trust is broken.
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This might be the most helpful advice thread i've seen on /b/ lol
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>>707737858
What a faggot
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>>707742705
Just tell her you understand in her needing time, and make it very clear if she gets with anyone else, they'll be no chance of getting back together. Tell her you'll wait for her, but only if she waits for you.
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>>707742792
>>707742816
Nevermind
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>>707738309
Gaaaaaaaaayyyy
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>>707742427
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>>707742860
LOL no that is some pussy shit! Girls want a man whos in charge and going to make a decision for them.

>"Tell her you'll wait for her, but only if she waits for you."

Thats leaving her with a decision.. girls cant make decisions... end it OP
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>>707742860
Ok only wait for a little while. No promises though
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>>707737590
>wanted a break for space
Translation was she wanted to fuck around without having to worry about you. Dude she cares about you but doesn't love you. Dump her
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>>707742999
Not all girls are dumbasses, and you can't give them something like "you've got till next week or I'm leaving for good" this isn't some random bitch we're talking about, it's about someone like OP, who's been with her and has a lot of feelings for each other.
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>>707737590
say her that you are busy
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>>707742860
No ultimatums never work.
Just break it off accept the fact she has or wants to get gangbanged
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>>707738309
OP, I hadn't bothered with this tl;dr message. But after skimming it let me give you the tl;dr translation

She wants to sleep around.

That is literally all she's saying. She doesn't want to commit to one partner. She's not into you that way, and she doesn't want anything long term. You're a good lay, but she wants more.

The angsty teen diatribe about "independence" is a euphemism for wanting to fuck more people and wanting to keep you on a leash in case she might need a fallback, but she's not concerned with anything long term right now.

And OP here's the most important part you need to hear - She does not love you.
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>>707741002
You can have fun and still be monogamous; we have the technology. I just got married for the first time in my mid 30s and I'm already wondering why I didn't wait till my 40s.
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>>707743064
Ya agreed. OP if you don't balls up and just cut it off (before she cuts it off for you) you're gonna leave me disappointed in the manhood of common humanity :/
Don't do that to me bro :/
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>>707743214
Yeah that's an idea and kee her on the leash out to dry for a bit
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>>707743202
Respect his trips nigger
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>>707743296
What if she comes back soon wanting me back
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>>707743296
:/
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>>707742999
Also, checked B)
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>>707743202
Hopefully she tells me what she wants cause I know what I want and I'll go from there. It take two to tango
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>>707743488
Fuck her asshole and let her know she's just a bag of meat
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>>707737590
go, she'll probably wanna fuck or something. enjoy it, but don't get too wrapped up in it, that way if she leaves again you're fine.
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>>707743582
Not that kind of guy. Some say I'm an old man
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>>707743488
You really want to be the rebound of the guy she dumped you for? You are just insurance if she fails to get what she wants ,you are Plan B when you should have always been Plan A
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>>707743488
Then your a huge cuck and you should start watching sissy hypno porn now...
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>>707743649
Yeah. Play it safe it it doesn't get back
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>>707742517
Op you are hopeful she has changed her mind but with her insistence you guys meet in person she's going to end it. Just text her and say if her intent is to end it a text will do like before. You don't have to be present
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>>707743660
No I don't wanna be and I don't think she's that kind of girl.
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>>707743488
Then YOU hold the cards.. I've only had a few girlfriends but holding the cards is always where I've felt right.

It's your decision at that point, if you take her back, take her back with skepticism. But I think you should try and move on, there are soo many other females in this world that are equal or better for you than her. Fact.
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>>707737590
If you go back to her you are unironically, in the literal sense of the word, a cuckold.
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>>707743731
True
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>>707743799
Yeah I just don't like searching for it
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OP why do you ask for advice and then make us cringe by running in the opposite direction?
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>>707743752
Anon, 99% of the time a girl needs 'space' it's just to fuck another guy and not feel guilty about it. IF shit works out with the other guy ,she might stay with him. IF not she hooks back up with you, but you have made a deal about the 'space'thing so she figures she can't pull that stunt again. This leaves one option too her, getting dicked behind your back
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it's more of a loose for her since I'm the one who has a bright future with money and looks and everything in the world going right for me
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>>707743928
Theres a good chance were being trolled
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>>707744027
Loss
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>>707744044
IDK, I think this guy is actually this pussy whipped
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>>707743928
Nah I just don't know what to think and I'm seeing what the option are. I'm gonna follow to most of this advise for sure. Seeing how other people handle different situations
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>>707743913
Searching for what? Other girls that might be compatible for you? In that case you are a lazy ass op and I give up. Good day
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>>707744024
That would suck. Gonna keep that in mind
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>>707738309
This is absolute bullshit. Translation, i just want to fuck around with a load of other guys and 'find myself'.
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>>707744126
Yeah I think so too
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Besides OP the only kind of chicks you should be locking down with before 30 should be the ones who approach you about making it long term, not the other way around. This thing is doomed I promise you.
You're still incredibly young, you should get a cadre of fuckbuddies going and swap them out throughout the week. Get some nice, saucy sluts into your circle that are fun to hang out with and could strip the chrome off a tailpipe.
You're only gonna get this shot once. If you're 40 it starts looking totally different if you (try to) gather up some teens for this.
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>>707744233
Nah just as of now. I'm not in the spot to be searching. I'm sure I will soon. It as of now no
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>>707744126
You are probably right... if its not trolling then i think OP is secretly wanting to be cuck'd
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>>707744171
This isn't a different situation, you are just such a novice when it comes to relationship that you can't see the obvious. This is the same kid shit you should of went through in middle/high school . The fact that you are going through it in your twenties is depressing. Ask your rl friends for advice, they are going to say the same thing we are saying
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>>707744171
That's a copout for pussying out by being ambiguous and ultimately leaving your fate up to her, which we've already learned is what you consistently do.
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>>707742290
OP if she wanted to reconcile she would be at your house right now and not wait for dinner in a public place, so she can rip your heart out and you cannot emotionally react.

Do people not speak by phone anymore?
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>>707738309
>>707744319
Also just text back 'okay'.
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>>707744403
No sir
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>>707737590
Tell you're busy out in space
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>>707744377
Yeah I figure that my age didn't help with this relationship that I thought was serious
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>>707744589
Wait hold on, what are your ages? Is there a big age difference?
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>>707744027
and yet she holds all the cards
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>>707744543
OP dont deny your inner cuckness, you want giant cocks to fuck your hot ass girlfriend
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>>707737590
ive been in this type of situation. my only regret is i didnt end it as quick. the dinner would be perfect opportunity.
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>>707744429
Yeah true move on and you are young but follow what you want to
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Well if you can cope with the fact she was fucking other dudes during the week you guys were "broken up" and the fact that when she wants to fuck other dudes later one and "break up" for "space" then get back together with her. If you can't cope with that then say "The only reason girls break up for a week at a time for "space" is to fuck other dudes, and I can't really deal with that, that's something that cuts me deep. Sorry." and move on with your life. Personally I'd go with the second option. If you're cool with being a cuck, then do you bro.
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>>707744493
Life lesson right there
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>>707744643
I'm 23 and she 21
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>>707744660
Yeah cause I feel pretty hard for her
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>>707744669
Negative 100%
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>>707744871
Cuck
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>>707737590
>space
you fucking cuck, you dont get it do you. shes fucking other people
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>>707744945
I'm not going to lie, I fuck 20 yo'd behind their boyfriends backs a lot. It's not that hard to hook up with a girl so young
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>>707744969
Fuck no
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>>707744871
Oh. Well in any case, use the opportunity OP. Make the break clean, keep things nice and cordial (you might hookup for a bang later), start poaching other pussy.
Start lifting while you're at it. Focus on your career, keep some friends with benefits on the side. Treat them right, put their footprints on the ceiling in the weekend/evenings.
Keep this up for 5 or so years, you're gonna be thankful to your old self I promise you.
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>>707745123
Cuck
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>>707738309
best case, shes been flirting with other guys and has new crushes. worst case, shes already fucking them.
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>>707737590
She's fucking another dude
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>>707745227
Yeah that's what I'm thinking. She is hot and it getting hit on inassume cause I did and would
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>>707738309
oh i havent read this when i wrote this
>>707744722

"im ending it, but ill wrap it in some nice bullshit so i dont have to feel guilty about fucking someone else in a few days".

dont even think about going back. sorry.
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Well I think after this thread I'm not gonna have dinner with her and just not text back since I'm be out of service this weekend til Monday. The best lesson is experience and the reason I came here was for that experience and I think I've learned what to do. I'm gonna cut it off before she does it to me.
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>>707745227
That bitch is getting deep dicked right now and youre on 4chan trying to figure out if you will take her back. Goodluck bud!
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>>707745287
Sign your add up with a dating site right now and spend the evening trawling profiles. You'll feel much better.
First tell her that the dinner is off though. You keep wussing out on this. Do it nao fgt Come on, let /b/ genuinely guide a young fag through rehabilitation tonight.
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>>707745287
IM her that you guys are done as a couple, and be done with it . Say I don't want to have to share you every time you feel like you need some other guys dick
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>>707745287
this is the con of hot girls. they are always going to be an object of desire for everyone. that means a lot of competition

you have to continually romance them. if you slack of and get lazy, they start indulging themselves with the attention they get from other guys
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>>707745552
*Sign your ass up
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For the love of fuck! Please post more of her nudes!
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>>707745576
Yeah I think I just figured this one out. I mean we would hang out and go out to bars but I work when she is free and there hard times to connect for a while without days in between with out seeing each other
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>>707745576
>if you slack of and get lazy, they start indulging themselves with the attention they get from other guys
Or if you become as submissive as OP.
Basically she's wearing the pants now, and those pants are being stripped by other guys who have a much more casual tie to her, who only leave an impression when they're putting it into her mattress, so they have a a virile, sexual, in control image.

OP is coming across sniveling and passive, he's sexually repulsive.
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>>707737590
>Break
Unless you enjoy sucking another guys cum out of her, move on.
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>>707745835
Hell he's probably just repulsive to be around for too long.
She constantly has to guide his actions and during his many freakouts where he starts to doubt himself, she has to soothe his emotional weaknesses. It must be exhausting and depressing, constantly having to steer this guy away from the brink of depression.
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>>707745777
Here
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>>707746034
Ok it's the other way around. She has mental
Issues with herself and self image. I just maybe get poessive
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>>707746009
He's way to pussy whipped, Best case scenario he winds up with an STD, worst case he winds up with another mans child and an STD
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>>707745576
Bollocks.
Suck up to them, and you're boned.

Or rather - she is.

By another dude.
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>>707746044
Thanks OP!!! I take back all the cuck shit i said about you :)
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>>707746263
This is truth
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>>707746044
Who took this picture?
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>>707746378
Tyrone
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>>707746378
I did lol
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She's probably going to break up with you
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>>707746452
I'm thinking that
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>>707746483
Well one thing is for sure, it's an automatic mark of a slut to allow pictures like that to be taken of her
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>>707746509
Long dick style ;)
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>>707746191
>She has mental
>Issues with herself and self image
Yeah shes got other dudes.
Congrats OP. You just popped your cherry on cluster B chicks.
Now go find someone who won't be on anxiety meds and a chlamydia treatment in 5 years.
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Gonna do me for a while and cut her off. If she come crawling back maybe I'll talk. It if not then that's the best move and go forward with my life and do the dreams that I want to do and accomplish.
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>>707746496
she already did, here:
>>707738309
OP now wants to pay her dinner
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>>707746739
>anxiety meds and a chlamydia treatment
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>>707746626
She didn't allow it. I snuck the picture
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>>707746845
Wow, that's just a beta thing to say. Why are you defending her?
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>>707746944
lol /thread
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>>707746944
OP is such a cuck and he doesnt know it
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>>707746752
you'll find a good one OP in time. Really, it's difficult to be in a relationship when young and every day a buffet with appealing options but without the wisdom not to binge.
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>>707747154
Maybe change things up with a cute trap.
Why the fuck not, he's 23.
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>>707738917
Underrated post
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>>707747350
Haha, cause I don't till that way. Sounds like you really recommend it though
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>>707747447
Had a pinoy one as a fuckbuddy briefly, only got head though. Still, best head I ever got.
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>>707747447
OP any more nudes? Your girl is sexy AF
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>>707738309
She fucked another dude and now wants u back cuz u can be a comfy consistent familiar betabux . Break it off cleanly and never contact her again you fucking idiot.
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OP just take in the 99.99% unanimous advice that /b is giving you. Yes this is a fucking quagmire of a place, but the majority of us have experience and have had broken hearts.
>dont be a cuck
>take the advice now, things will be better
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Thanks to all the /b/ros for their help and giving me advise. I'll be back here soon to let you guys know how it went. For the help here's one last picture.
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>>707747655
This guy gets it
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She just got done banging Chad and now she wants to you be the beta provider, OP.
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>>707737590
go to dinner faggot
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>>707746263
its a balancing act. my main point to OP is the obvious fact that hot girls are harder to keep because of the constant competition
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>>707747760
She's insecure about her chest
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>>707747760
How about you do a dump and we all get off together?
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just tell her that you're ok with her fucking tyrone, just that you want to watch sometimes
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where's she from op i think i saw a dutch flag on 1 pic
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>>707747904
For sure. I'm. It that bad myself but she is a little above me with looks
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>>707747760
i say go for it, get some closure at dinner, end on a good note.
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>>707747916
Maybe next time
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>>707747962
She's from the US and I'm Dutch
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>>707747920
is that a movie?
link
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>>707748082
Start lifting faggot
I swear to fucking god I'm gonna stand outside your place with an airhorn at 5 AM every day until you do
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>>707748082
its nothing to do with your looks. if you look at models and movie stars, you will see none of them can. what hollywood or famous celebrity couple has ever gotten married and not divorced in 2 years after one of them cheats. its just the nature of humans. hot girls are always going to have the best pick of guys. she might just also feel shes a bit different than you personality wise, i dont know. you cant take it personally, im sure there are girls you would date but not marry. think of it like that
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>>707748191
Wait wait, this isn't cyberdating is it?
What's the fucking deal here OP? Is this an online thing?
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>>707746690
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>>707748348
It's shot in Sexvilla, actually a really goot ero-game, it's on piratebay
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>>707748416
that said, use dinner to just ask about why she feels the way she does. you could learn something useful for your next relationship
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>>707748454
Nah. I went to college here and met her and I have citizenship here and I'm staying here
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>>707748416
Yeah like my last ex. Never marry her but this one is marry
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>>707748473
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>>707748556
My thoughts
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>>707748564
Then I have to double down on this >>707745135
I'm telling you OP you're looking at a path here that splits off into freedom and luxury on one end and a breakdown on the other.
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>>707748454
what's the thing if it is cyberdating? coz im kinda im the same "problem"
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>>707748729
Eew
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>>707748473
damn i wish i had a dick that big. if thats you OP, i bet she just lost that connection with you. also they call this generation the instant gratification generation, chicks just move from one guy to the next and guys do the same. people dont realize that meaningful relationships will slow down from the honeymoon phase. once you live with a person, even the hottest chicks get boring after you pound them day in and day out. how old are you guys anyway?
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>>707748786
Yeah what I'm thinking, change is hard
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>>707748793
Then it's not a real relationship and I can promise you she's fucking other dudes.
You don't start to build real intimacy until you start fucking her and physically being close, it's a chemical thing.
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>>707748812
Not what OP's girlfriend said...
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>>707748722
sucks man sorry it happened. gotta move on though. youll find someone better. and who knows maybe you guys will reconnect later, i get the feeling you arent a 50 year old so you got plenty of time
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>>707737590
Did you ask her how many dicks she sucked in the last week?
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>>707748550
>Sexvilla
I searched that and futa stuff shows up.
it's only gay shit?
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>>707748830
Yeah that's me, I think she just got disconnected somewhere. Yeah that's what is seems like. She wants someone with her all the time and since I moved 30 mins for a job it's been difficult. I'm 23 and she 21
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>>707748550

it's called the klub 17


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>>707748980
You thought
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>>707737590
Had the same thing happen to until I found out she had gone over to some guys house I cut her off real quick
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>>707748956
she's 100% virgin tho... we dated a couple times and then she needed that "space" for like a week then she came back saying that she didn't wanna lose me and all that BS
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>>707739236
This. Excellent point
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>>707748989
Haha nah I'm 23 lol. More than half that age
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>>707749063
No
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>>707749070
You can set up scenes in different locations, with 2 or 3 characters.
There's scripted presets and just open ended sex scenes with all options enabled.
The characters can be shemale, male or female, in any combination. The models are totally customizable and there's a ton of presets, half of them modeled off irl porn peeps, actresses and so on.
So you can get gay shit in there, or straight shit, or have 3 futas buttraped by tentacles or whatever.
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>>707749137
yeeah man at 21 she doesnt know what she wants, you are too young to settle down too. keep playing the field you will do just fine
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