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>find girl
>ridiculously good looking
>smart
>funny
>bigger gamer than I am
You know how this goes. Can I get a feels thread, /b/ros?
>>703872571
fuck her anon too many girls out there to be hung up on one
>>703872674
But how do I not get hung up on the perfect one?
>>703872810
Stop tellin yourself that she's the perfect one
>>703872810
clearly isn't the perfect one if she's still hung up on some other guy. if she was really into you she would make a choice and not sand bag it.
>>703872571
beat her face until she's not perfect. OP
>>703872810
the perfect one starts off as a girl who wants to be with you, you epic retard.
how so many people miss this truly obvious point is a mystery of the fucking universe to me.
>>703872571
Trust me Anon, you will do way better without her.
She don't deserves you love, she only wanted some attention so she could feel better about herself on demand.
I know that feel bro, hung up as well, but you know there's other "perfect" ones out there
Just give it time
Not OP.
It's such a long story, I don't even know what to make of the situation yet, but I miss her so much /b/ros.
I hate this feeling. I've never felt like this before.
>>703873375
sit down drink some tea my dude what happened
your pain will dissolve when you realize the concept of true love is a myth, and that what this amounted to was an infatuation with someone who shared similar interests to you while also fitting what you've learned is attractive. there was nothing spectacular about either of you, and there are better people of greater value than you suffering in greater measure but it doesn't matter be cause you and everyone are nothing.
>>703873375
Tell us the story, Anon. I'm getting a bowl loaded right now
>>703873420
>>703873505
FUCking kek
>>703873505
i lost
>>703872971
>and not sand bag it.
>>703872571
Omfg stop being a whiney little bitch and fucking do something about your problems instead of crying like a little Faggot in the interwebs. Jesus fucking Christ you faggots fucking kill me with these threads. Seriously. Stop being pussies. Be fucking men for a goddamned change.
>>703873418
>>703873455
It's a long complicated frustrating story don't judge me.
Met her 3 years ago, we quickly became super close friends. That friendship naturally progressed into romance, but that didn't last long because I ended up moving across the planet, so we decided to break up and stay in contact as friends.
But we kept growing closer and we ended up falling in love with each other. We confessed our feelings and decided that because of the distance we weren't gonna get into a full relationship just yet. Not until we could meet up and person and discuss us and our future together. She was gonna visit in the summer. We were saving our virginities for each other too.
But until she visited, we agreed that we weren't together yet, and we could see other people. The rules were no sex and we had to keep each other informed. We abided by these rules and didn't have any issues.
Until I kissed an ex at a party a month ago and she flipped out. I didn't expect it but she hates me now. I fought for a month to try and save us but that probably did more harm than good because I failed to give her space like an idiot. She's blocked me on everything now and turns out she's seeing someone new now. It's only been a month.
I don't know what to do. I miss her so much.
We were formed from friendship too, so I value her as a person beyond the romantic shit. I hate that she hates me. I didn't break any rules but I hate myself for kissing that ex and I blame myself every day whether that's right or wrong. Like I said, I don't know what to think of the situation yet. All I know is I'm broken and I cry myself to sleep like a bitch every night.
>>703873824
seems like you fucked yourself anon, not much to do other than move on tbh
>>703873932
I know but it sucks.
I never wanted to hurt her.
>>703873824
Never give full disclosure
>>703872810
>perfect
Fuck her for 6 months and tell me how perf ft she is
>>703874004
know your feel, but best thing to do is let her go my dude, find someone else
>>703872571
Be nice to her, then cut her off. Run into her somewhere by "Accident" in a month or so and things will change. It always does.
>>703874023
What do you mean?
>>703873759
>bitches about seeing whiney faggots on unrelated threads
>bitches about seeing whiney faggots on a feels thread
lol ur not too smart are u
>>703874071
Right now I don't want anyone else.
>>703872810
>>703872571
Had the same story this year.
"Perfect" girl and I are really close, she has bf that treats her like shit but she still loves him
Opened up to her, tells me she's not ready to leave her bf and that she wanted me to stay in her life because I treated her so well (politely told her to fuck off)
So yeah OP sorry to tell you this but the same will happen to you if you stay around her like this. If you wanna be with this girl, it's either you or the other guy.
If she chooses you, boom you're in
If not, leave and she'll maybe realize how well you treated her and how much she needs you
>pic related
Some anon answer to my thread
>>703872810
don't get hung up on her, always look. always search.
>>703874111
You never tell them everything. It wasn't kissing the ex that fucked you up it was telling gamer girl about it. However it's likely she was just looking for a reason. Don't beat yourself up, consider it lesson learned and go get laid
OP this particular girl is dangerous.
She keeps you around as a second option, keeping you guessing whether she has feelings for you and making sure your feelings for her don't die in case the other guy breaks up she can run to you.
One of the most toxic kind, steer clear man.
>>703874234
We promised we'd tell each other.
This wasn't the first time. As I said, we were allowed to do this until we met up in person and discussed getting into a relationship in the near future.
I don't think she was looking for a reason. I mean she was planning on flying across the planet to see me.
>>703874328
You are so naive
>>703873010
Ah the War Machine offensive.
>>703874373
Explain.
>>703874190
Anything else happen with "perfect" girl? Or did she actually fuck off for good when you told her to?
You got pics man
>>703874390
Promises like that can never work. Another thing is that unless she had purchased the ticket to see you then you have nothing but her word that she was coming to see you. You're better off without her man
>>703874190
This story is almost exactly my situation with gamer girl. Appreciate the insight, man.
>>703874526
I guess, but she was the one who was pushing it the most. I do believe it was real.
It's frustrating though. I'm not a relationship person. I'm not a feelings person. I would only go for something if I believed in it. There was an ocean between us but I believed in it like I've never believed in anything before. So this is tough.
>>703874839
Seriously man, get laid by something better and you'll feel better
>>703872571
feels the same man
>>703874947
I don't know if I'm ready for that yet.
I'll probably break down crying mid stroke.
>>703874991
>>703875307
a song for those who've lost someone,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5swOObHrKos&index=47&list=PLQZirZPMm33U1OraOOp0kTeUVd3ilgYv8
you know she didn't write the second half of that text herself, right?
Thats why you don't do such things via text message. You get fucked with, moron.
>>703874428
Told her right after last day of Uni (was early June) and didn't talk to her since
I'm back to Uni tomorrow though so we'll see
I don't really care, I expect her to come to me and whine but I'll stick to my line
So my best friend is in love with this girl for years. Like literally will not give any other girl the time of the day because he is obsessed. But she has never shown any interest in him. So he is just wasting his time thinking about her. And they haven't talked to eachother in a long time. Well I've been pretty good friends with her for a couple years and lost contact as well. But recently I messaged her just to see how she was doing. That weekend we talked on the phone and we really hit it off again. I live across the country now so I can't really ask her if she wants to hang out. But we start talking literally ever day. She starts telling me how much she really likes me and shit and I tell her I like her a lot too. We keep this up for a couple of months and she starts saying how she sees a future in me. Blah blah blah, can't wait for me to come home and visit so we can be with eachother. Well it's about a month before I come home and she tells me that my best friend asked to hang out with her. She asks me first if it's okay cause she respects how I feel. I allow it cause like I said she's never been interested in him and doesn't know about his feelings either.
>>703876022
If you go out with this girl, you'll lose a friend
And as she'll dump you because you're a cunt, you'll lose the grill
Grats
>>703876022
They go out to eat and hang out. Nothing happens. She says if I don't want them to hang out then all I have to do is just say so. I'm cool with it cause I trust her. Fast forward to two weeks before I come home and she tells me that he texted her confessing his love for her. This is what he sent her.
>>703872571
I'd rather not share the whole story but tonight was seriously fucked.
>Love girl 3 years
>She lies, cheats, has drinking problem.
>Actually don't care because I myself am fucked. Cheated on her too when I found out. Drug addiction for years.
>After losing everything I try to show her my love.
>Grill not interested anymore? On/off like crazy, destroys me mentally.
>Tonight calls cops on me based on lies.
>Watch her scream and cry while I'm sitting in cop car. Wants to talk to me so badly but she's held back.
>You're free to go sir.
>It's over.
>>703874190
similar story here:
so there's this girl, who after a year still longs for me
yet decided at the beginning of that year she needs to go back to her ex
why?
because she, and that we both established
>fears to be alone
>knows what she's getting out of him
>thinks he is immature (she is his first), childish at times and inexperienced
>she sees me as her mature, experienced guy
>she's clinging on to that teenage relationship because every other failed around them and she wants to show everyone that it can exist
two days ago
>can we get some more distance between us? aka not write with each other?
>need to make myself clear what i want
>writing with you is making me sorta just look into one way
her birthday is in about 2 weeks
we're on no texting right now
since i am that guy she chose to get her out, should i send her a birthday card?
>>703876308
So I'm pissed. And she says she feels bad cause she doesn't want to ruin the friendship between us. I tell her not to worry about it. I really like her and I don't want this to ruin the chance we have to be together. We argue but she agrees to give it a shot. I finally come home. First night I'm back she comes over and we have amazing sex for like two hours. We fall asleep together naked and just have an amazing night. Couldn't have went better.
>>703874190
that pic is literally what i am thinking about a similar girl
holy fuck
>>703876520
The next day she's kinda weird about it. I know she likes me a lot. But there something bothering me. So I ask. She says she just feels bad that she's with me when my best friend is in love with her. And that it's not right cause she doesn't want to ruin the friendship. I try to just get her to forget about that but that's literally all she talks about for the next two weeks. She finally says that maybe we shouldn't be together cause it's not right what we're doing. I really like this girl. I trust her so much and I've never felt this way about anybody else. But you know that old saying. If you love something, let it go. And maybe it will come back.
>>703876520
He's not the bad person in this story, you are. Friends don't date their friend's crushes especially without taking to them first. You're a terrible friend.
>>703876733
Dude who the fuck cares you're like 19 and this bitch doesn't want a pussy. If it was really so amazing just go fuck her again and make her remember.
>>703874190
This sounds like pretty terrible advice.
If a girl is this mixed up and can't choose you over another anon you need to walk away. It's as simple as that.
Doubling down and 'being there for her' sounds really nice and all - but you can't be the only one making that step whilst she's still with someone else.
Sounds like you did the right thing by stepping away though.
>>703876472
You need to do the same thing.
>>703876885
>You need to do the same thing.
meaning, be that guy? show her the way?
eventhough she told me she needed some time off to think about what she wants?
a birthday card would be something subtle, yet emotional enough right?
>>703872571
>ridiculously good looking
>bigger gamer than I am
are you fucking retarded OP?
fucking red lights, you tool
>>703876472
You pretty much said it, she chose to get you out respect her decision (at least for now)
The occasion to fight for her will show up later
>>703876415
>>703876846
>>703876857
>>703876885
This dudes about to walk off a cliff and you guys are talking to this fool?
>>703877029
so play the waiting game and probably end up her telling me, once again, that she can't leave him because of dumb reasons?
cause that's what i'm thinking is going to happen
>>703876472
hey couch!
reiß dich zusammen alter, kek
>>703876733
I'd have a serious talk with your friend.
Tell him that it's not cool to say that to another guy's girlfriend and that he needs to chill out or fuck off.
You can't be friends with him if he's lusting after your girlfriend openly - and I can't imagine staying friends with someone after they've fucked up my relationship.
Don't make life too complicated for yourself. You don't want people in your life who can't man up and act like reasonable human beings.
Same goes for her.
>>703876733
I'll make a long story short. She ends up going to a concert with him. Tells me it's nothing. Hangs out with him more while I'm gone and can do nothing about it. Ends up dating him. I'm just like "wtf, you broke up with me cause you didn't want to ruin a friendship but that's exactly what you're doing now with him" lose my best friend. Lose all mutual friends. Don't know how this happened. Should I tell him what he doesn't know? Or just let him be happy...
>>703877132
KEK
>>703877138
Well the thing is he doesn't know about my history with her. I didn't want to tell him cause I didn't want to seem like a dick. But now he's with her and doesn't know the full story of who he's with.
>>703876927
No. If she doesn't want to be with you then you need to step away.
Christ, you should be out there enjoying yourself and meeting people who want to spend time with you.
As someone who waited 8 fucking years before ending a relationship that wasn't working - I promise you that any relationship that complicated is not on stable enough ground to ever make it too far.
the only choice you have is when you want to let go
>>703877151
Telling him would be more entertaining, at least to me, but it's also painful and truly the end.
Keeping it to yourself makes you noble I guess, but you won't have any reward in the short term. Long term you could benefit immensely by actually being the better man.
>>703877322
ah, well i am enjoying life to its fullest, on my own
her decision isn't going to influence me at all
it would be nice if i was together with that girl yes, but on the other hand i don't want to be with someone who broke up for someone with someone else
>>703876885
About the advice, at that time I didn't tell the girl that I was interested. I was kinda down because at my birthday party I had multiple occasions to kiss her and didn't do shit.
So I was looking for motivation, and that guy boosted the shit outta me
>>703877336
I could definitely be the better man. But who am I trying to impress at this point. Nobody knows except me and her. And she really fucked with my head. I can't see myself ever wanting to be with her again even if they do break up. It just doesn't work out. But at the same time I really want him to be happy. He's literally obsessed with her and I would destroy him if I told him.
>>703877256
Okay - knowing it all - I'd stay the fuck away from both of them.
She is a bitch. There's no way of getting over that. What she just did is the number one sign that all she's doing is looking for attention and she doesn't care about hurting your feelings or your friendship.
Forget her.
If your friend seriously doesn't know about you being with her - then just leave it. maybe tell her after it inevitably crashes and burns that you had dated for a while - but hadn't wanted to tell him as you didn't want to fuck up his relationship and hurt your friendship.
If he starts whining and wailing - push him out of your life too.
It sounds harsh - but if he can't see why you thought that was for the best - then it's just going to be too awkward.
Life sucks sometimes,
>>703877567
You sound like you're actually decent. I think it's clear you want everyone to be ok or happy. Sounds like you're happy, you got to fuck a hot girl. Just move on. Good job dude.
>>703877118
Well she's not worth it then
If you know that she'll want to stay with him, why even bother ? Move on buddy.
You have to accept one thing : sometimes you have to let go
>has casual sex
>talks like a retarded 15yo girl
she's a 2/10 at best.
>>703877720
because out of fear, that's all
she wants me, she openly admitted that
but would probably not get over the fact that she broke up with her ex, again.
also >>703874190
first paragraph sounds exactly like my situation
>>703877768
marriage material
>>703877928
>marriage material
Probably not for long if she's a casual slut.
>mfw women are always like this
>>703876520
Oh you bastard. Great story, well written so it's easy and good to read, then you put "have went" on the end. Bad English fucks up the readability of your story. Lost me. Fuck off
>>703872571
>feels thread
Wife miscarried on Sunday. Would have been 9 weeks today. Feelsbadman.
>>703878107
shit man
be there for her now
>>703878107
>he wants children
you're a fucking idiot.
>>703878191
Lucky I've got a really understanding boss. Given the week off work. Good cunt.
>>703878223
>Neckbeard virgin
>>703872571
oh jee, a girl gamer! totally rare...
people thing girl gamers are rare ´-´ girls dont play with little dolls forever.
>>703878533
how the fuck did i miss the k and write "thing" instead of "think"
>>703877835
We're both in the same situation /b/ro
>pic related
As me, you've done everything you had to : the girl wants you, you told her what you wanted from her (and trust me she knows it) plus you didn't hurt her or shit
Now it's ALL on the girl's side, SHE has to decide
>>703878726
well, thing is
she knows exactly why she is not jumping over her own shadow
yet will probably resort to staying where she is
with a childish, immature guy who is obviously not giving her what she wants/needs
>>703878808
>she knows exactly why she isn't out of her own shadow
>doesn't do shit
Then again, why would you want to be with such a girl ? Why don't you want to move on ?
>>703879048
i don't know
i'm not hung up on here or anything overdramatically
but i would find it nice if she chose me nonetheless
it's just that, this girl is someone i really get along with and seeing her stand in the way of her own happiness just makes me sad man, not because i want her, but because she as a person purposely looks in the other way, when what she wants is look at me
>>703878726
>>703877835
I was in the same situation a few months back, she wanted me, i wanted her, made that clear from the start. She even told me she was ready to leave him and move out... except she didn't... and i still believed that she would if i just fought hard enough... she didn't. The worst part is that i had to end it, she just kept going, she made me make that decision even though i had promised that it was hers...
That was a good 6 months down the drain, and i don't think i'm going to be able to forgive her for the way that she did it...
>>703879323
second anon here
she knows that leaving her guy for me won't be the way to go
and she doesn't want me to know, that she chose me because all she can see while we text is me
so dnno man
time will tell
if not then life goes on
>>703879678
>>703879323
Stop reading the texts and look at the facts
>>703879678
Heh, the only reason i haven't been in a relationship with her for 7 months now is that she is immensely scared of making her own choices, she is going through life on cruise control.
But i was going through a rough patch back in May, my uncle who came to our house every day died suddenly, then she started pushing me away, didn't stop texting every day, but said she had too much work, and she kept making appointments whenever i asked if we could see each other. week after that a close friend of the family died suddenly... two funerals in 3 weeks, and she was acting like nothing was wrong... i had to just ask her where the fuck we were going after 5 months of having this affair... she told me that she wasn't sure if she could ever leave him. So i stopped it, wasn't supposed to be my decision, but that is what it ended with. She told me to go find a "normal" girl instead.
>>703880010
I deleted all of the texts and facebook messages the day i stopped. No fucking way that i'm going to be reading through all of that, and keep myself in that hole.
>>703872571
Get over her and move on.
You need to get over her, nothing you say or do will make her come back, even if you beg and beg to have her back. The longer you go without forgetting about the worse it'll get. Just have a good cry or whatever and move on.
Was in the exact same position except after we broke up she was abusive toward me, yet I still pursued her. One day I just said fuck it, and stopped caring, and now I look back at it like you would a stubbed toe or something, like: 'yeah that kinda sucked, whatever.'
>>703872810
Only beta ass males get hung up on a hoe. What you had comes and goes everyday, deal with it you pussy.
I was getting too happy recently, so I asked my friend to tell me something that'll root me back to the ground
Dont give a fuck so ill put this out there
>Move away from home town
>Come back for 1 day meet qt girl from highschool at the local proceed to flirt and go home with her
>Both drunk and shes known to be a crazy so we just make out and grope each other till she passes out
>Have to leave next morning 9 am awkward talk before i leave I kiss her good bye leave talk for a few days after but we both knew nothing was gonna happen while I was out of town
>Think about moving back to town and check her FB out, turns out she'd been dating this guy that looked like me while I was out of town
>month later come back to town start talking to her again, ex Bf was a dumb cunt, she dumped
> cute little girl dates of snuggling and watching tv getting coffee.
>Find out shes sleeping around k wtf, tell her I wanna be together Imitate ignore initiated.
>Proceeds to talk to me on and off for a few weeks, felt like shit so I talked to a friend of hers.
Maybe could be bothered to do more
Lol monogamy problems
>>703873824
ill green text mine
>be 18 start drinking quite heavy get drunk
>get called up to this randoms house gets told my friends are there i walk in see my 5 randoms friends the chick that owns the house and her bf
>drinking more until friends say well we had a good day but we are off im 30 mins aways from.home im pissed they left me 10 mins into me rocking up
>decided to stay because it was owner her bf and some kid in knew in primary school
>start drinking heavy as soon as the owner leaves i say to the bf you are the luckiest cunt alive you better thank god your tapping that.
>drink more end up mixing pepsi beer and ice sounds fucked up but tasted amazing
>end up going ill skull this one and chocking on the ice
>kid from primary school saves my lives spew and ice goes every where.
cont?
>>703881266
>owner laughs and i just think wow she is amazing her smile is incredible
>i decided to leave about 30 mins after that and start to walk home with kid from ps his talking to me while im telling him that his brother should have killed himself hung himself he took the abuse for good 40 mins before someone came picked him up
>walk home after making a complete ass of myself thinking ill never see her again
>few weeks later i get a fb message in turning 18 wanna come to my 18th? im like the bf never told her what i said?
>freaking out inside i really liked this girl wtf do i get her for an 18th present
>i had 3 weeks to decided so i got her a giant crayon that had art supplies because she likes to draw.
>crayon head looked like a sex toy so a few sex toy jokes were said
>>703881557
wait thats it?
>>703881557
>drew a few more drinks and the night progresses we all sing happy birthday ect
>i start to grow feelings for her really really big feelings
>we start to hang out more i take her places i give her pitty backs im in heaven
>im thinking yay maybe she likes me as she calls me 1am in the morning sometimes to chat
>vents to me often and i feel like im helping her as i get closer to her
>this is where the downhill spiral started
> one night i let it slip i liked her she got scared as if to say no you cant like me and pushed me away
>we were friends again all well and good nothing much else was said we were all good friends
>she invites me out to the city thinking she was asking me out i agree to go i get there where she said to meet her and she is ogling at band players and ignores the fact im there
>i love this girl and shes ignoring me like i wasnt invited or she didnt no me
>>703881849
>i went up to her and was like hey? and shes like hi as she just stayed in the band room as if to say you didnt need to come
>wasnt like i really expected myself to travel 2 hours out of my way to see you in a random bar to pretty much get ignored it broke my heart
>I startes doing madori shots this was the first time doing these amazing shots 6 later i blurted out to all her friends its not fair
>i love her i cant help it i love her and shes not even seeing im alive wtf i love and care about her so much
>as i go to walk out her friend yells stop come here i need to talk to you! what i say as i look at her blury vision and all
>she(the girl i love) was raped and that is why she is distant dont let it get to u
> I remember thinking no way as i was like i got to go i went across the road pulled my pants down took a piss
>>703882138
>woke up freezing cold looking at where the fuck i was across the road from the bar i was at is a petrol station/service station
>as i was taking the leak i had passed out
> i woke up called the girl i loved and asked where are you as i woke her up she says anon? and then hangs up
>lost 3am no way home trains dont come for another 2 hours i went back to the front of the pub spewed my guts out
>called everyone i knew and before you say taxi i was drunk no money and honestly didnt think about drop me home then let the person at home pay for it
>sit there puking call boss ask him if he could pick me up and he did
>get home dont hear from her for a month
>>703882340
>a month passes and my phone rings my heart skips a beat hello?
>hi...as if to say are you mad at me? i was like wtf mad at you i thought you were mad at me for everything i said...
>she kinda shrugs it off and we talk i say to her i found out that night that you were raped
>she hangs up on me and makes me qait another 2 weeks before she calls me again
> i loved her so much i was obessed with her the smell she has each person has there own scent hers was heaven i cant describe it but if you smelt it you wouldnt want to smell anything else in the world
>she calls me and kinda goes ok...so now what i go i dont know where do we go from here you know i love you and i hate the fact we arnt friend's
>she then goes ok and we start to sorta hang out she doesnt call me at 1am and things are distant i could feel her slipping away from me i loved her i couldn't i didnt want to loose her she was all i thought about
>>703882621
>as i was loosing my grip on her i was also loosing my grip on reality i had just got unnumbed by her and fealt like the whole world of emotions were attacking me while i couldnt cope with them i loved her
>i went around the streets ar night egging houses egging cards smashed a car windscreen speed on roads just tryong everything to get over her.
>id send her emails thanking her talking to her ect just the friendship we had was getting ruined and i hated it that extra beat in my heart was dissapearing
>i invited her camping one night so she bought new boots was all excited then we didnt know where we were staying so we didnt end up going
>i could see the sadness in her eyes
>i gave her the 150 for the boots and we drank at mine.
>my 2 best friends that knew i was obessed with this girl stayed as we all drank and drank.
>>703882909
>drinking so much she said want to go to this place?
>i said no my other 2 mates said yeah fuck it lets go
>id been to this place enough times to know when a haunted house starts toying with you back you no to stay away i wanted no part of it
> out numbered 3 to 1 we went to this haunted house walked in her with tequila drinking it by the cup full me saying to her lets get out of here i dont want to be here
>my 2 friends walking into the other part of the house
>one starts to piss and the other looks around she looks me in the eyes as i look at her back i say to her im done i wanna go home shes like me 2
>im like ok lets go then she looks me in the eyes and says "i love you" the words i waited so long for her to say she finally said them
>but /b/ros if it was that bitter sweet i wouldnt be writing this as i looked at her say i love you she became dead weight on my arm
>she had past out and as i realized and went to grab her she swung and hit her head on the stage of this haunted house
>called my mates over as we lifted her up and was like right lets get the fuck out of here
>>703872571
Haha faggot
A message from Donald J. Trump for everyone who wants to fix their personal issues and begin to move onto becoming a successful person in life.
>>703883305
>we lift her up and take her outside she shouts i need to pee and as i go let me come with you she goes fuck off im fine not realizing what had just happened she did her wee
>we walk across the road to the petrol station and say we need a taxi fast i swear the taxi felt like an hour even though it was 10 mins
>i went in then they rested her on me and had my mate with an axe (this abanded building had alot of closed off doors) and my other mate in the front
>we arrive back to mine and i place her on the couch making sure shes alright
>morning comes im worried but excited the girl that i love finally told me she loves me
>i wake up look at her sleeping like a beautiful baby then my 2 mates wake up look over at her she wakes up and goes wtf you all looking at?
>she didnt remember a thing she cant remember saying she loved me she doesnt remember me rescuing her she doesnt remember smaking her head
>as we show her, her scratches on her head she goes :o and cant remember anything as i fill in the blanks for her
>shes thankful that we helped but it just made me more insane id finally got the girl i loved for ages to finally say she loves me her true feelings and now she cant remember it
>>703881266
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>>703883305
>>703883739
Very painful
to read
Does your keyboard has comma or dot ?
>>703883739
>felt like cursing everyone and everything i was mental angey pissed off a whole range of emotions
>hurt but she didnt remember it i said to her ages after what im about to type do you even remember looking me in the eyes and saying you loved me and she couldn't.
>she grew up in an aussie town so while she was away visiting them i was plotting revenge on something i had to vent this anger out of someone or something
> it was decided the building had to go so we got petrol we got spray paint and started lighting and pouring petrol all over the place
>as i sat and watched the building burn i said to myself do i feel any better i didnt i messaged her and said hey anon we burnt down that building
> she was like wtf why? to me because u said you loved me and dont remeber it but i thinki i said it hurt you so i hurt it as it went up in flames we left came back 45 mins later to fire engines and cop cars it was awesome
>she came Back and she kinda felt distant and i hated it id spent my whole time trying to love her and all it did was push her away further
>she said to me all i ever wish for is anyone that knows i got raped so looking at me like a damagee jig saw they got to fix and love me for me.
> those words stuck with me even to this day because i think i looked at her like that puzzle and not the girl she was but i did i loved her so much
>>703884157
for grammer nazis no
>>703884307
>call it fate call it what ever but we were getting more and more distant hated it
>we took her to where we burnt it and she was like i cant believes you all actually burnt it down and i said i had to mind you key point "we were all drunk again" well i wasnt nor was one of my mates but she and the other mate was.
>we are walking around there she screams sorry as if its her fault that the building was burnt
>we get to a pathway and my mate walks forward and shouts to me and my mate im not scared i got raped
>at this point my friend was like ok? and just continued on as if nothing happend the next day i call her.
> just for the record you told anon 1 and 2 you were raped her words have stuck in my heart this whole time :( "fuck you! i didn't you did" and blamed me
>the girl i had put all my love all my trust my everything i would have done anything for her jumped in front of a train anything
>and she blames me.
>at that point the friendship was rumble i wanted to save it she didnt believe me i was heart broken and decided the best way to win her back was kill her rapist so i set out on a 6 hour trip to this small country town to find her rapists.
>>703872571
Kinda happened to me, but I was just me throughout the whole thing, and she ended up loving my confidence and knowing that I can take care of her. I couldn't be happier, sorry about what's going on with you anon.
>step into the country town and send her a message hey anon im in small country town whats there to do
>she was ready to kill me
>stay away from there blah blah blah
>wanted to find her bestfriend and ask her
>found out best friend worked at mcdonalds walkes up to her
>was abused was told to fuck off
>left there went back to hotel room sent message meet anon shes a bitch!
>get a text back you stay away from her and there blah blah blah.
>never found the guy wish i had to this day
ill continue if someones reading
>>703885003
μπαμπ
>>703885003
I still am.
>>703876022
you want to date the girl even though you know your BEST FRIEND is in love with her for so long? what a dick move holy shit
>>703885003
I do
Continue please
>>703885003
>get back home expect this girl to hate my guts instead she calls me meet me here so i didnt she was drunk i told her im going home im not talking to you when ur like this.
>begs me to stay and tell her why i went there wasnt going to say to kill ur rapist
>i leave her, 2 weeks later calls me sounds sober come to this address so i turn up to basically our friends house uninvited because she took it into her own hands to invite me they were like wtf?
>i was like fine ill go and i was about to then theyre like your here now.
>i sat down and anon held onto me like a fly to shit please tell me why look im getting abused as it is im gonna go
> im coming with you no anon yes i need to no
>i say fine as we walk around trying to find ways home walk around the block
>get lift home
long story short she broke my heart
after all this bullshit
i sent her an email explaining everything 2 years after
and then asked her why the fuck she felt it was alright when she saw me at the local bar to not point and laugh but more say something whisper as if she cared i was there.
hacked her email and facebook gave it back 6 months later and havnt seen or heard from her since every once in a while i think of her and just want a life update on her but i dont want to open old wounds
>>703885520
Just simply don't try to talk to her again. Your story is full of pain.
Just go on man, it's fine, there are many girls out there.
>>703872571
>find guy
>ridiculously good looking
>smart
>funny
>gamer
>gets road rage
>tries to slam his car into another car
>"WOULD YOU PLEASE SHUT THE FUCK UP? DO YOU WANT ME TO KILL US?"
well that went well.
>>703872571
Give it time man. She pretty clearly wants you but isn't ready for a relationship. If you really think this is the girl for you just let her take the time she needs to get her shit straight. She'll either end up with you or someone else, and you'll have your answer when the time comes.
>>703886434
she takes her time = she will see that you're not investing yours in taking her
>>703886279
i let it go she was the first true love i had and to be honest it damaged me for quite a while i was numb for a good 7 years i didnt give a shit i could have died tomorrow and just gone well life is just a game continue playing it till you die
i just never understood her she knew i loved her even at one stage i said to her ive got 500 text messages on my phone all from u i cant delete them you have to and shes like no.
all this shit happened at 18 at 24 or 25 im at my local bar playing pool
just me and my mates chilling out of no where her her bf her best friend and her bestfriends bf set up table right next to mine as if to prove something...i just thought how pathetic are u honestly just acted like she was a stranger in the crowd but for some reason it was as if she was i dont want to say snicking cause it wasnt that it was more of a look at me im happy act and i was just like...wtf
>>703886658
I'm not saying give up for now and just wait, I'm saying just take a step back and let her take the time to decide she's ready. Keep hanging out with her, play some vidya, it'll work out eventually.
>>703886753
>>703886279
you know the most fucked up thing? you know how i Said this happened at 18 and for shits and giggles i hacked her at 24/25
we havnt spoken since 18 she hated me my emails went unresponded (mind u when i hacked her email) all the emais i ever sent where there so she obviously cared a little (i deleted them of course)
the first thing i did when i logged onto her facebook was message a friend within 10 mins all over her wall "annon" (me) who hasnt seen or spoken to her in 5+ years hacked her so clearly she thinks i was still out to get her and i wasnt i was bored one day and her email secrect question was what high school did i go to if you live in a country town with 2 high schools whos faults that pmsl
>>703886931
not him but
hanging out with her, playing vidya is also not gvigin her time
>>703880010
>Stop reading the texts and look at the facts
which are?
>she's afraid
>she's not getting out of her relationship what she's getting out of me
>she's trying to maintain a teenage love relationship just because
ITT: OP busy sucking cocks instead of being a man
>>703872571
Sounds like she's trying to play you OP, maybe even friend zone. Sorry man, it's best to just move on. Find someone better than her and get the last laugh. When you do, it's going to feel amazing. Good luck OP.
>>703887175
Yea, good point.
>>703872571
I'm with you my friend.
Time will heal the pain.
>>703887465
then again, if you give her time she WILL choose against you because you're not showing her what she wants
fuck this man
>>703874319
Correctomundo
>>703872571
>You're not him.
This is what the PUA fags call an "alpha widow". She's ruined for anyone else.
The good thing is that she let you know it's not gonna happen, and that's the best you can hope for in this situation. Seems like she lead you on for a while though, so she's still a manipulative cunt and you're better off without her.
Sorry, but one day you realize that women are not what you were raised to believe they are.
>>703874379
>VERY CORN NUTS ESQUE IN HER TAKEDOWN DEFENSE IS CHRISTY MACK, JOE.
>>703887040
Of course you can't act like she was a stranger. Like I can't with my first love either. I sometimes check her fb account even if I am truly happy in my current relationship...
Just move on, but it's not too bad to remind the past sometimes.
>>703872571
Lowering your expectations will protect you from the feels. Expect the worst and never be disappointed.
>>703888196
hahaha i dont have facebook so i cant check it lol :p i dont even no her account name to stalk her and honestly ive found the girl of my dreams that i want to marry just when i look back after all these years wish i could have a 1 on 1 with her and get all the answers i want and she wants
>>703873824
Just sit tight & don't over do it. Play it cool until she fucks some chad & thinks you're even.
I think I really am done with life. Tonight seems like the perfect night to off myself. The girl I love called me a psychopath. I have no friends to talk to. Maybe she is right. It's best to end it all tonight.
>>703872571
>4:21
If you didn't send "New number, who dis?" right after that, then you fucked up.
>>703877567
Please don't, I know exactly how you're friend feels and after finally waiting so long for the one thing he's wanted and he finally got it, just for his old friend to tear it down could fuck him up really bad.
Its not worth ruining someone you used to care about just for revenge over something that had nothing to do with him.I respect you for no doing it already and you are a sick person.
>>703892792
I mean sick as in good. Sorry for little kid talk there.
>>703872571
:(
>>703872571
BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHALOSER!HAHAHA
I just miss her
>>703873029
This
>>703872571
Forget about her before you destroy yourself. You're just a plaything. A diversion. A game. Leave while you still have some semblance of dignity. Find someone who actually views you as a person instead of disposable. Value yourself more than this bitch does, don't let someone treat your like this or you'll end up bitter and jaded like me. Don't become me. Be better.
show me https://www.dropbox.com/request/ki5wIoZYCEQPREJ9EgEI
>>703872571
fuck that lying bitch. wat shes saying really translates to:
>i want attention from two men at once
>youre smart so i dont think i should feel guilty about using you
>im a whore and i want you to keep giving me attention hoping that eventually ill come around but i wont
>>703893360
That guy was a lose but he could fix it... just make some friends. It actually isn't hard. Do what you do and do it where other people do it.
Faking out his dad makes him an even bigger loser. Plenty of time to make friends and he'd rather pull that shit...
His father was right to cry.
>>703878015
When you're young, hearing something like that feels edgy, but when you've been in enough relationships you'll begin to understand that it doesn't matter. People are anything if not predictable. OP is becoming just as pathetic as the girl who is rejecting him for the exact same reason. Love is fleeting. True love is for romance novels not real life.
friend of 4 years
I had the same thing kinda happen to me, she told me she wanted a bf but that she had just got out of a reltionship and didnt want to jump into another one right away. Bitch strung me around for another year or so till i nutted up and said i wasnt gonna wait forever to be her bf, shit ended that day. Sometimes she still randomly texts, one semester we had math class together by this year i had stopped being a shy faggot and was a little bit more outgoing. In that semester we got a little bit closer, at the end of the semester i noticed she started getting more cold and irritated at me, i was like wtf? So when the semester ended we stopped talking. I was hanging out with a mutual friend at the time, and he told me she was acting like that cause she was starting to get feelings for me. Ive never been soo confused in my life.
>>703872571
You are a Beta bitch. Only alpha thing to do now is cut her off and fuck her friend or sister. She will be back on your D in no time.
>>703895256
Just a reminder that saying what you think the alpha thing to do is doesn't make you alpha.
>>703895647
Omg stfu. This chick clearly has all the control here. Dude has to take some of that back by force.
This is the quickest way.
My only friend stopped talking to me a few days after my 21st birthday, never said why or anything
Back in the day, a woman was either under the control of her parents, or her husband. There was no such thing as being a woman's "friend". Seems to me the mistake you people make by being a woman's friend is stunting their ability to manage their own emotional problems. The reason they even have emotional problems is they no longer have strong men to show them what their place is on this earth. Instead, society has allowed women to have an opinion, to wear what they please, to choose whom they want among the sea of cucks who call themselves men. Back in the day, a woman would be slapped for playing these kinds of games with a man. There's a 1952 film called "The Quiet Man" starring John Wayne and Maureen O'Hara that illustrates this perfectly. A woman needs to be provided for. She has no real purpose beyond child rearing and pleasuring a man. She will do this even today with a real man, one who won't pander to her, one who will have her on his terms. This is why OP's girl rejects him for the other guy. Because women today want men who don't pander or beg for affection. There's a lesson to be learned here. Just as soon as you all quit crying like a bunch of bitches.
>>703894457
Give up anon. These guys who are posting "she's working up the courage to break up with her bf and I'll be there for her when she does" don't understand women.
Women want a man, not another girl.
Men are self possessed, aggressive, and ultimately unconcerned. Taking care of women should only be done when the woman is in actual trouble. If she is pretending to be a damsel in distress then she needs to be left out in the cold. That is your purpose as a man. To determine what is real danger. If a girl sees a bug and freaks out you need to smash it and admonish her for being weak. If she plays flirty games with you then you ignore her until she gets serious about fucking you. When you're done fucking you can reward her with a back rub or whatever, but once the satisfaction from sex wears off you need to cut off the reward until you get what you want.
Women are flighty basket cases who change their minds about what they want from moment to moment. The pretty ones are the worst because everyone indulges their flighty bull shit. DONT PLAY THEIR GAME. Play the game of the Chad. Chad is focused on his needs, and he knows that fulfilling his needs will also fulfill the needs of a mate. Women don't know why they're attracted to egocentric chads and not clingy betas, but ultimately they are.
Emulate guys who get laid. Stop trying to make women happy, because it's fucking impossible.
t. Married man
>>703898034
not OP but similar situation here
>>703898034
>Stop trying to make women happy, because it's fucking impossible
true shit right here
>>703896818
Muh niggah
My post >>703898034
I bet you're over the age of 25 aren't you?
>>703898112
Well what is your situation?
if dubs im going to kill myself
>>703898534
i'm this anon>>703876472
>>703898456
39.
>>703872571
Rolling for "Suck my bitchbreaker you mangy lube dispenser."
Dunno what you faggots are taking about
This is /b/ right?
>>703872810
There is no perfect girl.
Only girls that you can stand and girls that make you want to kill yourself.
>>703898916
this
there is no "the one"
there are fitting ones
>>703872571
be grateful she was being honest to you. Most bitches either avoid the subject and/or string you along.
You need to thank her for being so kind to you about it. I'm 37 and this kind of honest and kind rejection almost never happens from women.
Now what you need to do is move on, start to date someone else, and maybe by doing so shell realize that maybe she was mentally blocking herself from liking you. At that point it may make her come chase you.
Bump
ded
>>703872571
OH LOOK JUST LIKE ME. SHE HAS A BOYFRIEND
>>703899312
You are wasting your words/advice on this shithead. No one will listen to that, they have to go find out themselves Young Dumb Full of Cum
>>703898748
Clearly she's upset because she doesn't know what she wants. Make it easy for her and pursue another girl.
It's crazy how much girls want you when you're with another woman.
Like I said in my first post it is impossible to figure out what a woman wants. Stop trying. She needs to buy into what you're doing, not the other way around.
Have you ever noticed that women don't throw parties? This is because they are natural followers. Women go to cool parties that cool guys throw, or bars where there are cool guys.
Do yourself a favor and talk up a girl you've never met before. Ask her what her major is, where she lives, and who she knows. Put her on the spot and ask for her number. Should she reject you (and this is important) MOVE ON. The shotgun approach is the Chad super weapon. A Chad will be rejected time and again until he finds a girl to fuck. He doesn't give up. Friends of mine have gone all night hitting on girls and come up with nothing. The next night they'll find some hot slut whose bf has cheated on her and go home at the beginning of the night.
The shotgun approach always works
Once this little girl sees you or hears about you being out with other girls she will cancel all her plans to lock you down.
>>703900768
> Make it easy for her and pursue another girl.
that's what she told me a lot
"please get another girl fast or i'll off myself"
i can handle rejection good because of experience
>Once this little girl sees you or hears about you being out with other girls she will cancel all her plans to lock you down.
then why can't she do that like now?
why wait for me to go somewhere else, when she knows she wants me now?
>>703872571
You are not alpha enough for the feels op
>>703901068
Huh?
She is probably stretching her pussy with this new guy's dick, we all know that. Kissing your ex was just an excuse for blocking you.
>>703900894
Because she doesn't know what she wants!
Holy fuck! She's not a man!
SHE
DOESNT
KNOW
WHAT
SHE
WANTS
You know you want to be with her and paint her toenails and have her cuddle your penis. She's not sure if she wants that.
Take the option away from her. You are no longer available because you've moved on. She'll be like "OHHH NO I'm missing out, I need to TRY to get him back". At this point you need to be hard to get. Unavailable when she's free, and definitely stop talking to her. She's already got the relationship she wants with you. You are emotionally available and you probably respond to her every communication. Stop doing that. She might even think you're mad at her: this is FINE. Let her think you're mad at her, it gives you the power.
Women will get desperate after a while and begin throwing themselves at you. At this point you can choose to do what you want.
Be prepared for her to move on too, but from what you've explained I doubt that will happen because of the length of your "friendship".
And, also, be prepared to fuck her and afterwards she's clingy and you hate her. Stage five clingers have no remedy except death or moving to a different city.
>>703901980
why all those shit games then man
why not just do what you feel like doing
>>703895062
She blocked you so she will never read this. text it to her.
Regards,
J
>>703901980
Not that anon but c'mon those mind games are the worst in pre-relationship stuff. You either like each other and get along, or you don't simple as that
I miss what it's like being with a girl. How do I even go about meeting girls in person? I forget how to flirt or even tell if I'm being flirted with. Online dating is a joke and I don't go to bars.
wat do?
>>703902943
>I even go about meeting girls in person?
Tinder
>>703903031
Tinder sucks ass, I reinstalled it a few months ago and I've gotten maybe 5 matches. I initiate conversation and maybe get a response or two then nothing, shit sucks
>>703872571
Congrats. This site will be your new home.
http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up
>>703903168
I have dozen of matches and 2/3 dates per week and I don't even try that hard and I'm not a Chad.
>>703903384
>>703903031
tinder sucks ass
woman and guys alike seeking for attention thats it
mabye 1,2 girls which got lost and get messaged hundresds of texts
thats ti
>>703903463
Sure. Well stay at home then.
>>703903384
Wish I could be you. I'm not a Chad either but it could be the area I live in or just women on the app itself. Women just aren't attracted to me I guess I don't know what it is.
Chill out ... Dial it back ... and be that guy that is always there... She is confused AF... He just has to fuck it up.
>>703903933
what?
>>703872571
sorry OP
thread gone
Breaking up with her is literally destroying her idk what to do
I have no clue what to do or say
>>703904945
>>703905184
why DO you want to break up
>>703905184
you broke up with her, cut contact. let her figure that shit out. it's not your job to be her shoulder to cry on if you already left her.
>>703873010
*slow claps*
*steps out of the shadows*
Heh... not bad, kid. Not bad at all. Your meme, I mean. It's not bad. A good first attempt. It's plenty dank... I can tell it's got some thought behind it... lots of quotable material...
But memeing isn't all sunshine and rainbows, kid. You're skilled... that much I can tell. But do you have what it takes to be a Memester? To join those esteemed meme ranks? To call yourself a member of the Ruseman's Corps? Memeing takes talent, that much is true. But more than that it takes heart. The world-class Memesters - I mean the big guys, like Johnny Hammersticks and Billy Kuahana - they're out there day and night, burning the midnight meme-oil, working tirelessly to craft that next big meme.
And you know what, kid? 99 times out of a hundred, that new meme fails. Someone dismisses it as bait, or says it's "tryhard," or ignores it as they copy/paste the latest shitpost copypasta dreamt up by those sorry excuses for cut-rate memers over at reddit. The Meme Game is rough, kid, and I don't just mean the one you just lost :^). It's a rough business, and for every artisan meme you craft in your meme bakery, some cocksucker at 9gag has a picture of a duck or some shit that a million different Johnny No-Names will attach a milion different captions to. Chin up, kid. Don't get all mopey on me. You've got skill. You've got talent. You just need to show your drive.
See you on the boards...
>>703905184
she's threatening suicide trying to manipulate you into taking her back. if you fall for it, you deserve her.
>>703905378
>let her figure that shit out
fuck that attitude
tell her exactly why you broke up man
don't let her hanging in the dark thats literally the worst
>>703905630
it's never worth it to stay in contact with exes. ever. he needs to just move on with his life and let her move on with hers.
>>703905736
There's a subtle difference between staying in contact or explaining to someone you broke uo with why you did so.
>>703905896
this
>>703872571
Dump instantly, she will literally keep doing this to you, and she'll always sweet talk the shit out of you and call you "the one" or talk about your future. Then she'll go fuck someone "by mistake" because she was drunk or some shit, or get "taken advantage of" and that'll be an excuse for her feelings for you to be warped and unsure and put you back into this exact position, then when you're all good again, she'll do it again
>>703905896
so explain why, and then cut and run. i'm just saying it's not worth it to keep being emotionally available to a person you don't love anymore. he broke up with her for a reason. if she can't understand or accept that after he explains his reason for it, it's on her, not him.
>>703905601
Where do you see her threatening suicide? She's just sad, that's all. I felt the same first time I was dumped.
>>703906035
mfw i know a girl that broke up with her guy because he didn't acknowledge her working out
mfw they got back together after she fell in love with some other guy
mfw her prob lems still persists
>>703906118
"Don't want to be here... On This earth"
>>703906262
shes being overly dramatic
>>703906118
right here. followed by a "hello" for good measure. translation: "pay attention to me"
>>703872937
This man has a point. God damn, stop feeling sorry for yourself and move on. My advice? Don't text her for a week.
>>703906262
I didn't understood it that way, I thought she was just being dramatic.
>>703906314
Yup
>>703872571
>great cuddler
you're just a beta fuckboy kek, try being a man next time
>>703906348
exactly, she's just being an attention whore. that's what i've been saying. she doesn't mean it, she just wants to guilt dude into taking her back.
>>703906414
You're not helping asshole, this man actually needs help. Get your fake alpha ass out
bros i need some relationship advice, i was a 20yo virgin until i invited my manager over one night to smoke weed. we hit it off and fucked, she gave it up so easy. we were fuck buddys for like a week until i told her i wanted to date, she agreed. Now iv'e been with this girl for a month and a half, and we're practically living together. We spend every single moment together when we're not working and she even visits me while i work third shift. I'm already in love with this girl, iv'e been in love before so i know how it feels. I just don't know what to do with myself, she drives me literally crazy in the best and worst ways possible. Where the hell do i go from here? all i think about is her, i'm not eating sleeping, taking care of myself and it's running me into the ground. It feels like something is terribly wrong but everything is right at the same time. wat do?
>>703874049
this guy knows whats up
>>703872571
She wants you to fight for her.
Tell her you want her and you'll wait for her to make her mind and hope in the time you'll still be into her.
The problem with us is we give up so easy, we can't stand rejection and want some kind of "vengeance" on it. Show her you are still a nice guy without being a cuck...do stuff with her and in the mean time find another girl to have fun. Let time fly, its the best random events generator.
>>703906662
Maybe spend less time with her? Because right now she seems like the only thing you're attached to, wich is bad because you can't forge an healthy relationship only by spending all your free time with your girl.
>great cuddler
>very sweet
>you're not him
she wants a man, not whatever the fucking mess of a "nice guy" pathetic loser you are
>>703877494
Maybe, just maybe, you shouldnt have gotten involved with your BEST FRIENDS love interest, you massive dick thats really not cool
>>703877494
>>703907169
Wrong post to reply, sorry, meant this
>>703877567
>>703872571
Respond - "That's cool, good luck to you, see ya around".
>>703907169
uh...
>>703907378
oh okay
>>703907047
No, she's an idiot who is clearly stuck on her old ex
>>56596213
>>703884780
Are you a fucking child anon, you burned down a building because you have the emotional control of a toddler, you reveal all these things about her like her getting raped when that's no ones business but her own. You drink so much you can't even function properly and then expect to be understood?
You described yourself as fucking wasted in pretty much every situation you were with her. You never brought up your feelings for her directly with her after that first time.
And hiw do you think telling her you know she was raped was a good idea. You have to let people tell you shit like that on their own you fuckehead.
If you really want her back you have to grow the fuck up, this board is for 18+ and you sound like an angry 12 year old.
>>703872571
"This isnt easy for me"
Shes a cunt thats using you and doesnt care about your feelings
>>703902083
>>703902350
You guys are daft.
Women play games.
Get used to it or stop participating.
A woman's understanding of their reality is not the same as your understanding of reality. Stop trying to put things together logically and imagine being a woman. Imagine you have a period once and month with the accompanying mood swings. Imagine you have several men pursuing you. Imagine being physically weak and emotionally unstable. Imagine having half the sex drive you do right now as a man.
Also stop disagreeing with reality. This is the way things are. I'm trying to help you.
