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Sup /b/, serious question here. How does someone become gay?

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Sup /b/, serious question here.

How does someone become gay? Are they born that way or do they have experiences that lead them into becoming gay?

I struggle with this question because I don't know what I am. (I know exactly what you're thinking after I say this) I'm attracted to passable (voice, body, face, and tits) transgender mtf.

However I don't find males attractive whatsoever. I'm not asking if that makes me gay or not because, "Oh, he has a penis and that's gay." I just don't understand how this one thing turns me on, but some attractive guy just doesn't cut it for me.
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>>703340902
Ok spiderman. Peace out.
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>>703340751
No one is born gay. It's experiences, in my opinion.
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>>703340751
>I'm attracted to passable (voice, body, face, and tits) transgender mtf.
>However I don't find males attractive whatsoever.

Congrats. You're not homosexual, you're just gay.
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>>703341304
Thanks for the feedback anon. Does this have to do when you were younger or in your teens? Or simply just trying new things in life as an adult?
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>>703341349
Obviously you didn't read my whole post.
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>>703341304
You are retarded. You can be born gay just the same way people are born hetero. It's genetics.
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>>703341462
It can boil down to choice. But mostly when you're a teenager. Teenage years are a time of experimentation and learning. So over that period, what happens in your life can shape what your sexual preference is. In my opinion.
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>>703341780
I agree.
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>>703341882
Thanks for the feedback Spiderman. I'm enjoying this new insight. I'm still struggling with my past to try and figure out my sexual orientation.
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>>703340751
You in love with the penis, but not the body attached. Just buy a dildo and be a closet fag
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>>703341780
>Marxists believe this

Lmao
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>>703342277
Take your time. You don't need to make a decision about it just yet.
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>>703340751
In my experience it's a combination of a lot of things. I'm sure it's a big complicated mix of nature vs nurture, but it's not as simple as a "choice" (at least in the short term).

Things I think may affect you are:
+ Birth
+ Hormones
+ (Sexual) experiences
+ Any kind of experience really
+ Habits
+ Diets

I think that's most of what I'd think influences it in order of importance.
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Your born gay but you discover it imo
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I like my penis. Also the thought of having something stuck up my asshole is a no go for me. Just won't do it.
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Various studies have shown there's a genetic component to being gay, of course there's no 'gay gene' because a gene codes for a specific polypeptide and if you think just one polypeptide turns you gay then you shouldn't be commenting on evolutionary traits in the first place. More likely it is a specific interaction of genes that give rise to a likelihood of it. More over it is then determined more wholly by hormonal environment in the womb whilst brain delevlopment occurs and being genetically predisposed and having a certain hormone exposure that leads to being gay.
There are many theories that explain the prevelance of homosexuals in nature, as it should give a genetic advantage to a gene pool for it to be in such high frequency.
I like the idea that it derives from inheritance of genes for attraction to masculinity as women would have more children and men less so an overall balence is achieved or slight advantage. I also like to think that as humans require so much nurturing as children it came about as a result of need for reduced offspring but a large adult population to provide the care.
As for you OP you're fucked in the head mate.
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12 posters and 53 images. Samefagging hard
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>>703340751
Shitposts aside, it's proven that it's not a choice

It's I believe a result of circumstances in utero that we don't entirely understand involving genetics, chemical intake, and other conditions in development
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>>703340751
I think it's a combination of experiences and hormonal imbalance
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>>703340751
Okay serious answer here. I know people on this site argue 'gay' and 'straight' and what qualifies as either. The thing is though that those are categories that human sexuality doesn't really fit neatly into. Sexuality is a spectrum. Not in some sjw 'pansexual demi-gender fluid alligator-kin' bullshit, that's still a category. Whatever you're into, you're into.

If you like most women and no men, fine. If there's some trangendered people you like, fine. If you like men dressed as women pretending to be pansexual aligator-kin, whatever.

Tldr: there is no 'gay' and 'straight'
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Same here i like traps but guys are disgusting. Idk how it started but it seems to be getting stronger everyday
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>>703340751
you're attracted to femininity, with or without penis.
it's normal, have fun.
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alright, I'm done posting spidey. Have a good one.
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>>703340751
Hey OP as a faggot i can tell you that being gay just comes with experiences, how you were raised, people you hung out with, what media you consumed, just a lot of variables
TL;DR it just comes, nobody is ever really born gay
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>>703340751
Well i got this weird fetish which i picked up through experience and as far as i'm concerned beeing gay is a fetish - therefore i'd say the vast majorety of gays got gay through experiences. And then there are these few who actually have fucked up cromosomes - those were born gay.
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quite apropos ending.
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