I found out that the girlfriend of my best friend is cheating on him... i dont know if i should tell him.. what would u do b?
Tell him you little shit
fuck off this isnt even a questions
Apparently he's not your best friend if you're gonna let his bitch go behind his back.
>>703333848
Do what's good to do.
Tell him.
ofcourse guys but come one i also know her for a long time and i dont want to be the one that fucks up the relationship....
>>703333848
take pictures, blackmail her, get free blowjobs
>>703334093
wtf? SHE is the one that fucked up the relationship.
Tell him, fuck her
Yup tell him fuck her. You're only saving him from wasting more time on the cunt.
>>703334233
i kinda snooped on her laptop when i was installing adobe shit for her
>not telling guy immediately
op is obviously a girl. show tits.
Do the right thing OP, tell your friend after you give him a blowjob.
>>703334555
at least i think about the consequences
>>703333848
Was in this situation but wasn't my best friend but a good friend.
>At a party with all friends
>Best friend, J tells me that our good friend Z's gf is cheating and has been cheating for a minute with multiple guys.(some of the guys were even our friends, I would've totally hit her as well if I'd have known)
>We spend about 20 long, drunk and high minutes figuring out what to do
>Z's both parents are dead, dad died in the line of duty as a fireman, mom was killed(we think) by his step dad who then proceeded to kill himself
>All of this happened in a span of 3 years
>I decide fuck it I'm telling him
>Tell him
>He looks at us for about 2 seconds then full sprints out of the house
>This was about 4 years ago he got over it
> Saw him again about a month ago, says he appreciates me telling him even though he reacted badly
Do it op it might suck for a bit but eventually he'll appreciate it
>>703334764
shit.. how is he now? im just afraid they gonna blame me for snooping
>>703334426
well, then guide him to finding out for himself. Make him be suspicious about the guy she is cheating with ?
>>703333848
You don't sound like a best friend at all!
tell him. imagine how much it will hurt him when she does it again.
Tell him or your not really his friend
>>703335030
>>703335065
the problem is that i never heard of that guy before and i never believed she would do something like that... she is a shy innocent girl at least i thought so... they seem happy together so thats why im afraid im gonna ruin it
>>703333848
Offer to double team her
>>703334950
Lol your a fucking coward
>>703335221
Stop making excuses. Bros before hoes, always.
Stop boinking your friend's bitch
>>703333848
if you feel like being a scumbag, blackmail her into some kinky shit
or if you gonna be a bro expose the hoe and humiliate her
>>703334950
Dude SHE is going to blame you no matter what...but she is a cunt. TELL YOUR FRIEND, tell him how you found out, tell him the details. Honor and bro code DEMAND you tell him. You are duty bound to this.
>>703335221 what exactly was the evidence, then?
>>703335668
she was still logged in her fb and i read a pretty explicit conversation
It's non of your business. These other fucks know nothing. It's not the job of a friend to do this. I was dumb enough to tell a friend when I was younger. Not my friend anymore. He will always associate it with you afterwards. There are other options you aren't considering. Maybe he's a cuck or they have an open relationship and he doesn't want anyone to know and you coming by being the hero means he has to break up with her for appearance. It's not your relationship, stay out of it.
>>703336113
that was also my thoughts thats why i came her for advice.... i know /b/ is bad place for advice but yeah..
>>703333848
Use the info to blackmail her into fucking you. Or sending nudes at the very least and share them here.
>>703336588
im not a guy
>>703333848
mind your own business
cheating is fairly normal even though its not the heathiest of things
your thoughts/beliefs have little to do with anyone elses relationships ... the way to approach such matters is useful when you make it clear that its none of my business that any emotional attachment with whoever is seemingly questionable
>>703335880
DID YOU SAVE THE SCREEN CAP?
>>703333848
OP, the answer is very simple. Do unto others as you would do unto yourself.
Imagine the situation were reversed. Would you expect your bro to tell you? Would you want him to? Would you rather live in 'blissful' ignorance?
If you can honestly, truly tell yourself that you would rather you weren't told, then you should not tell him.
>>703333848
This happened to me a few years ago. I decided to confront the girl. She gave me the best blowjob I ever got.
I'd bring it up to her every few months and get another one until they eventually broke up.
>>703334107
This is literally the only option
>>703336661
no she was also here so i only saw it briefly...
>>703336309
>>703336309
Ignore the cuck. Consider this, with all the std floating around out there and the fact that cheaters rarely use any kind of protection, by not telling your friend you could help expose him to a life changing disease or the sentence of raising a child not his own.
Cheating on a spouse or SO is absolutely the worst kind of betrayal and if you know and don't tell you are supporting the cheater.
You're worried he'll be mad if you tell? Imagine how much he will hate you if he finds out you knew and DIDN'T tell him.
>>703336309
I'll also say that I know many people who cheated and if the relationship is a good one, they eventually have to confront it on their own and by doing so they deal with the underlying issues. Makes them stronger. My step dad and my mom for example. One of my good friends he marriage is doing better than ever now. But if it's a public issue, cause friends know, it's over. They cant work out the problems they can only deal with everyone else, hence how my last relationship ended.
>>703336862
make a fake account and write a message to his fb , he should check if something is going on with this guy (place fb id here)
If he is clever he know how to figure it out, if not, he deserve what he got.
>>703336862
Ok if you really want to help out your friend try to get a excuse to get back on her laptop. Try to get screen caps of the convos, or save something related (get a usb/ or just take a pic on your phone). Is she computer illiterate? You could relate it to a update/adobe. Though that still doesn't get you the log in for her facebook so try to get that first. So idunno
>>703337290
This is good, if she wants to say anon, but OP could confront the cheated bf about it, and tell him to try to log in on her girlfriends account to see for himself?
>>703333848
Blackmail the bitch
tell her youl spill unless she fucks you win win
>>703333848
Don't do it OP. I was dating the love of my life in college. We were "pre-engaged" to be married after we graduated. My best friend at the time revealed to me that she was cheating on me with one of the football players. Ruined my life. I confronted my GF and she broke up with me. I stopped being friends with that guy and haven't been in love since. Started taking antidepressants. If he kept his mouth shut I'd be happily married and getting regular sex.
>>703333848
Black mail her, make her lick your ass
>>703337273
It's possible they can overcome it - But only if it's brought out in the open. If OP doesn't tell his bro, there's a risk he'll end up not only heartbroken but actually catching some fucking STD as well.
>OP, how would you feel if your best friend got AIDS because you're a pussy?
>>703337581
No you wouldn't idiot
>>703337581
Beta as fuck. Just kill yourself already. The world doesn't need weaklings like you. You do not have the strength to deal with life. You contribute with NOTHING to the world and to society. Either get your shit together or just die. Now.
>>703337290
>>703337338
she has a macbook but honestly i cant think of a good excuse to get on her laptop.. i just installed adobe shit and blocked connections following a readme.. telling him under a other name might be not such a bad idea! maybe ill create a fake fb account idd
>>703337193
>>703337193
I don't agree with you, therefore you are a cuck. Actually, if you must know, my current relationship my girl likes to watch me fuck other girls.
I have experience on every side of this issue, being cheated on, cheating, being the friend that told, and being the friend that kept his mouth shut. Everyone cheats. People either work through it on their own or some hero comes by and fucks things worse.
>>703337755
Oh believe me, I think about it everyday. Probably track down my old best friend who ruined my life and do it in front of him so he can know it was his fault.
>>703337581
sucks to be u, but not everyone falls to pieces after one shitty event. Dont be a beta bitch like this. it's better to tell the boyfriend the truth so he doesn't feel betrayed by his girlfriend and encase his friend for not telling him
>>703337504
if fb is open for anon, it will be open for bf too.
When taking screens, everyone knows that anon is a spy. Dont know if he wants to get bad reputation just for telling his friend that he gets cheated.
lol come on guys dont fight... im just trying to get advice and weighting the options.. u guys just have different point of views
>>703337926
Do that. Hopefully he'll laugh at you. In my eyes, he's like Batman - Taking out the trash of the world, such as yourself.
>His fault
I think you mean his accomplishment.
If you're really best friends, man up, tell him once. Bring all of the facts to the table and tell him "look, it is what it is, I'm your bro, this is what I know.. take it or leave it" and if he don't believe you, wash your hands and let him get himself hurt
One of my best friend got cheated on at a party where all of his other supposed friends were at... besides him. No one told him.
My ex is currently fucking my ex-best friend, and all of my friends knew about it and no one told me either.. soo.
Tell the man
>>703337926
Stop being a edgy little bitch for your friend trying to help out. It's not his fault you have no backbone and you would have happily lived on in a relationship with a whore.
>Stream it when you eat buckshot
>>703334622
There are no consequences. Bros before hoes. Your friend will be heart-broken, but he will also know that you got his back.
If your friend gets pissy instead, then his man card is revoked.
>>703333848
Iv'e done that before, I knew that my best firend's girlfriend cheated on him, my own girlfriend also friend of the whore girlfriend was aware about that too, I said I should tell him about that, then my grilfriend said if you say that to him I leave you... The first thing Iv'e done after that is talking to my best friend about his whore girlfriend.
>>703338070
If you tell him, he is hurt, they break up.
If you don't and she keeps cheating, he is hurt maybe they break up maybe they don't.
You don't and she stops on her own, highly unlikely but everyone happy.
I don't see how you're helping him by saying anything
>>703337989
People don't get in bad reputation for being the one who finds out, even if so it would at top 1 or 2 friends close to the cumdumpster. Everyone else would appreciate it and the boyfriend would thank you.
Of course unless your this anon >>703337926
a beta bitch who would have happily lived on with a cheating whore
>>703338236
This is the correct answer.
>>703338443
Saving him from AIDS, and allowing him to find someone worthy of his time instead of being with his current whore. You are looking at it from a "I'm a wizard" perspective where you assume his friend won't find someone better in a few weeks. It's not that hard.
the problem is she is really sweet and they look perfect together... both seem very happy.. i dont want to ruin that
>>703338443
You can't possibly be serious anon
>You don't and she stops on her own, highly unlikely but everyone happy.
Once a cheater always a cheater. OP if you think like these boneless anons at least do it out of principle for your friend
>>703333848
Blackmail her, Fuck her in the ass then tell him anyway
>>703338735
Femanon here. Sometimes a girl cheats a little but it doesn't mean anything. If they look cute together, leave them be. That's my advice tbh.
>>703338304
Have a pepe for being a Bro in a tide horrible friends, seen in this thread. What sort if thought process was your ex in thinking that would be a good idea?
>>703333848
Tell her if she does not give you a bj you are going to tell your friend.
>>703338918
Fucking kill yourself cunt
>>703338918
Tits or GTFO
>>703338597
Has fb still these sound when getting a message? One could just pretend to have paid attention to it when it came up, instead of saying "I browsed your gfs laptop".
>>703338909
wisdom
I know what u should do.... fucker her I did. You know she is hot and tidy. And she jean for cheating.
>>703338735
Femaon pls just just help a bro out, you know for a fact that if this was happening to you, you would want the info
>>703339067
They also have date and time. The last time they spoke on messenger was last thursday
Bro Code: You have to tell him, it is only right. Unless that guy is you, thn you are no bro shit stain.
>>703336661
faggot......screen proves nothing. easy to fake it.
Fuck the bro code he did follow it when he was balls deep in ya mum
>>703333848
you could try to fuck her. Just as a test to make sure she cheats.
>>703339226
wow, tell me more about this invovative programm
Hella just send her a text saying I know
>>703339318
Not everyone would instinctively think it would be fake. Especially a chat log, if you really think this all OP has to do is try to take a pic of it with her finger in frame on her phone of the chat log.
>>703333848
Don't tell him yourself, you don't want to get dragged into that drama.
Make a throwaway email address or whatever, message your bro saying "your gf is cheating on you"
That should do it, his suspicion will be kindled and he'll start watching her and figure it out. Unless he's retarded
>>703337569
this, if you do try and blackmail her do it face to face or over the phone, dont send any texts/emails that can fall back on you
>>703339627
This is good but OP if you think the dumpster if manipulative enough of the Bf you need to step up and explain everything you know to help support his suspicions
>>703338918
fuck of aids spreader, go back to fucking niggers you worthless cunt
her fb: sofia.fifi.soufiani can someone msg her saying: "i know" ? Dont say its coming from me tho
>>703339965
This one?
>>703337857
>Everyone cheats
No. People with scruples don't cheat, just sluts like you who try to justify it with lines like this.
You wanna do the whole open relationship thing that's fine, as long as everyone is on board. When one partner in a relationship makes that decision unilaterally, it's cheating. And it fucking hurts peoole in ways nothing else does. I've heard betrayed spouses say it would hurt less if their cheater had died suddenly than it did when they found out about the affair.
>>703340155
Fucking mobile
>>703339965
>sofia.fifi.soufiani
haha message sent!
>>703337857
>Meanwhile in shit that never happend
>>703337799
Sit him down, give him a beer, and EXPLAIN what you saw and under what circumstances.
>>703337926
Dude was trying to get your back. It looks like you did him a favor by not talking to him anymore. Nobody needs a little pussy beta cuck faggot as a friend.
>>703340249
yes but please dont let her know how u know
I wish ,y girlfriend would do this then describe every detail to ,e - wouldnt want my best friend knowimg though
>>703339965
Could you maybe provide a direct ink to her fb?
>>703336650
the fact that you don't have honor or respect for your best friend to tell him immediately what happened gave it away.
another proof that loyalty and especially honor are male abstractions.
fuck you, you're the type of person who doesn't stand up for your BEST FRIEND.
how could you stoop so low, whore?
>>703340530
fb.com/sofia.fifi.soufiani
>>703340501
Ok well we have her FB know but no physical evidence, we cant really do much, any ideas?
>>703337799
JUST
TELL
YOUR
BEST
FRIEND
are you fucking retarded?
>>703340573
so me thinking and afraid breaking his relationship equals disloyality?
Maybe a /b/ro should tell Nicolas Frescina
>>703340755
>Fav Tv show
>To Catch a Cheater
ohmygod....
>>703339965
ok OP,
het is je beste vriend. vertel hem, kutwijf. ben je nou echt zo dom?
>>703340755
Is the guy on her friends list?
>>703336113
>>703336309
It's worth it, at least if he's a friend.
I might hesitate to get involved if he were just a guy I met briefly, but a real friend? Even if it ends the friendship, you might save him from marrying a whore.
If they're in an open relationship, no harm done.
>>703341182
dont remember the name.. dark guy in the gym
>>703338304
If your bitch didnt want you to tell him she was probably fucking around on you too
I hope you dropped her too
>>703340853
Yes it does
>>703336113
this guy speaks the truth anon it's none of your business, leave it alone.
>>703338304
whores of a feather flock together
So other than giving us her fb WE can't do much given the lack of physical proof from random anons, all WE can do is say hearsay, much else. YOU on the other hand can tell the bf and call out the gf
>>703340853
Yes because the relationship is super unhealthy and your friend is being manipulated in one of the worst ways by you're still worried about them splitting up. THEY SHOULD NOT BE TOGETHER ANYWAYS IF YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT YOUR FRIEND HOW COULD YOU NOT UNDERSTAND??
>>703340853
no, you are disloyal NOT telling your friend immediately.
would you want to be in a relationship with a cheater?
wouldn't you want your best friend to tell you?
are you dumb?
what your friend does after the talk is his business, but he deserves to know and you are a fucking shitty friend.
where is your honor? where is your loyalty? where is your compassion for your fucking comrade?
>>703341421
yes ok guys please dont contact her i made up my mind im gonna tell him in person
>>703341292
Wait she's a cheating coalburner?
Whelp let brimstone and fire be let lose
>>703341070
rot op kanker kaaskop
>>703337581
>pre-engaged
God you're such a cuck its kinda sad.
>>703334093
>Don't want to be the one that fucks up the relationship
She already did. Grow some fucking balls and tell him. I can't even stand why people like you choose to stay fucking quiet about serious stuff like this I mean WTF is wrong with your shit...
I smell bullshit, this ain't real
>>703341292
can't find him
>>703341470
i mean clearly this edglord still wants to but thats really besides the point completely agree with you
>>703337581
>>703337926
>>703333848
Excuse me but I dont know what kind of site this is or what this is supposed to be a joke? But please stop messaging me on facebook. I dont even have a boyfriend.
dont bother guys. thanks for input. im gonna tell him in person
>>703337926
you are a waste of skin you piece of shit. Get life insurance, make your old bro the sole beneficiary, then kill yourself. You owe him that much for being such a piece of shit.
>>703341688
>pre-engaged
I can't even imagine how that works. Did he buy the box for the engagement ring but not the ring itself yet?
>>703338918
you are the worst kind of person
>>703333848
>hesitates in telling best friend
>tells by /b/ tard proxy
You ain't a best bro, you're a bitch bro.
>>703342061
I think that just means dating but pampering a golddigger more?
Looks like thread going to die good luck to OP confronting the whore, best of luck
>>703337581
Jesus Christ
>my friend pulled me out of a burning car, and now my life is ruined and I can't be friends with him anymore
Your friend proved his loyalty and you bitched out right when you needed him most.
You are not a man.
>>703333848
Tell her your gonna tell him if she doesn't break up with him, it will hurt less for him just for her to break up randomly other than being cheated on.
>>703337581
It's sad to see that there can be people this self absorbed
>>703333848
Story time OP.
My gf of 6 years cheated on my while I was out of town. Bitch was stupid enough to do it publicly, of course there was a friend of mine there. He was not even a super tight bro, just a friend. He texted me, telling me everything I saw.
Woke up by the text (I was on a business trip and it was a friday night). I asked if he was perfectly sure it was her. He confirmed.
I called my ex and told her to pack her shit, said she had to be out of the apparment we lived in (which I own) when I returned next tuesday.
She immediately started crying and tried to explain, claiming whoever told me was lying ect. I ask her where she was. She said at home. I asked her to take a picture. She didn't.
I hung up the phone.
Haven't seen her in 3 years, I am the happiest guy ever. Had 2 girflriends since then, nothing serious though, and have had several one night stands. Life is good.
I am super thankful to my friend for telling me.
>>703342986
i hope its gonna be the same!
>>703333848
told her. pretty girl.
she isn't the smartest, since she kept asking me stuff that i already answered or said i didn't know.
she said that you're probably a jealous slut, since nothing happened.
she'll find out someday who did that, and the bitch fight will be glorious and spread all over worldstar.
>>703333848
tell her you'll tell him unless she gives you a bj
Talk to the cheating gf and find out what is actually going on. She should open up then you can tell her it's not fair for the bf, stop the cheating or break up
>>703342986
Nicce
>>703343497
actually there was nothing nice about it, I felt like shit for weeks. But what else was I to do?
www.survivinginfidelity.com
>>703343376
haha do it op and post results!!
>>703334426
>>703343456
this.
>>703343660
You could been like other anons in this thread shut up, and just let happen, so good on you for stepping up
Femanon here. Id cheat on that faggot too. #Teamblackboys xD
>>703343456
i did
-> >>703343226
>>703344295
enjoy food stamps as your main source of food
>>703342986
nicely done anon
don't suppose you kept any noods of her did you?
>>703340913
This
>>703333848
Spill the beans.
she's innocent, talked to her. guys, OP is just some jealous slut who wants them to break up.
Bitch telling us this story is using /b/ to break up happy couple to try to hook up with crush.
>nypa
>mfw
threaten the girlfriend about telling unless she fucks you too
>>703333848
>I found out that the girlfriend of my best friend is cheating on him... i dont know if i should tell him.. what would u do b?
I've heard of people doing this, and being resented by all parties, including the person they were trying to help
Just tell him anonymously, preferably with proof because he could fuck up his personal investigation and blow it off
Do it.
>>703334093
Send anonymous message
DUH
>>703341980
>implying people who don't come here know how to posts/reply to posts
This site is Greek to normies
>>703333848
Tell him,you mongoloid.Wouldn't you want to know if you were in his place?
FUCKING LEAVE MY GF ALONE. YOU LONELY FUCK. WE WERE NEVR FRIENDS. LIE ABOUT HER AGAIN AND ILL BASH UR HEAD IN. Fuck you
>>703346004
>implying you can't google it in like 10 seconds
>>703333848
1. Take photo/video footage of them together
2. Present the footage to her and blackmail her into sex/blowjob/other
3. Present the footage to your best friend anyways because not doing so makes you an asshole
This is getting confusing as fuck
EXTORT HER INTO HAVING SEX WITH YOU, MAKE HER DO ANYTHING YOU WANT IN EXCHANGE FOR NOT TELLING HER BOYFRIEND, THIS IS A ONCE IN A LIFETIME OPPORTUNITY
>>703335056
/thread
>>703336113
fuck this guy and fuck you OP you bitch. any real friend would have your friends back and tell him. fucking piece of shit.
