Holy fuck I don't know what to do.
I think I got cuck scammed.
>me 24 yo meet qt314 23 yo waiting in line at customer service at department store.
>Lets call her Pam
> we hit it off and go out
> things go good and start dating
> after about 3 months we are a “couple”
>We talk about stuff and some of it is maybe we should get married.
> she visits my parents for dinner
> mom / dad are ecstatic (I can see that we are finally going to get some Grandkids look on their faces)
> few weeks later we go to her parents for dinner.
> Pams asks “where is Kevin?”
> “he's spending the night with a friend”
>Pam tells me that Kevin is a foster child her parents are taking care of.
> They seem uncomforatable
That should have set off warnings but I am too stupid to think
> Couple days later she brings up Kevin. Mentions he is black, k
> I'd like you to meet him anon, k
> You love me right anon, sure do baby...
> We go have dinner with her parents again.
> I meet Kevin. He is almost 9. He has an almost blond afro
Pam has Blond hair
> dinner comes and goes, I am so oblivious to what is going to happen
> Going home all she can talk about is what do I think about Kevin, whatever
> We get home
> Do you love me anon?
> I have to tell you, kevin is my son.
She fucked some 30 year old black guy when she was 14 and got knocked up.
I left, blocked her number but fucking have no clue what to do
I really do love her but not sure I can handle raising her half nig kid
Anyone is a similar situation got any advice?
Good on ya, op. Never EVER date a single mother, I dated a chick I found on meetme. Her profile never mentioned that she had a kid. We met at the park she brought her kid. It wasn't as bad as I thought she was smoking hot but she had tons of tons of issues. This lasted 2 months before I told her to fuck off to get with my then 18 yo gf. I fucked her on and off for a year after. Wouldn't do it again tho I'll tell you that, she wanted to blackmail me.
Two pieces of advice I can offer from experience:
1. NEVER try to raise someone else's kid unless you have absolute authority to beat the kid.
2. When you are not emotionally invested in a kid's life like a birth parent, it is MUCH harder to tell the difference between beating for discipline and beating for fun.
Marry her or you're a racist op. it's as simple as that really.
Besides he's 9.. He's literally days off getting killed by cops or another black guy, marry her now and score massive bonus points when you're there to comfort her about the death of her son.
I didn't know she was a single mother.
I guess I was pussy blind until she told me.
She must have thought i was in too deep to walk out.
But man, this is just a fucking shot to the gut. I just physically hurt over this.
Her parents are raising the kid
I hope big brother's is still a thing. All these kids from broken homes without male influences in their lives...
But yeah, don't bother with single mothers. they don't ever stop being shitty people for the most part. odds are not in your favors, cucks.
she didn't need to tell you straight away, but after three months you should have already known she had a kid. Especially because she should have seen how YOU reacted to the kid, because she needed to move on if you weren't interested.
Yes. And my comment was entirely genuine and was meant to be taken serious
Neither is exclusive, i know it's baffling but two bads can stack on each other
She lied about it.
When we went to her parents for the first time she said he was a foster kid.
I don't know if it scared off old bfs when she tried telling guys in the past straight up.
I think she was hoping I'd fall so far in love I wouldn't give a shit
fuck that shit. dont let the white man have to take care of the black mans kid. that bitch fuckin lied to you. and odds are if shes fuckin black dudes and she a snow bunny she a HOE
In all honesty op, all bullshit aside.
I know it fucking sucks, but you want the girls who are scared and have been betrayed, they know more than anyone else why it's important to stay loyal and devote yourself 100% to the once you love.
Atleast they got a much better chance than those who gotten through life slutting with no consequences ever.
So seriously op, consider staying with her.
Look bro you dont OWE her your love
Putting aside the insecure /b/tards in this thread (hurr bbc) having a child is something you tell someone before you even get a week in, she knows it would have deterred you from furthering the relationship and that is why it took her so long to tell you
Also, it's not your folks' financial and emotional responsibility to deal with a child, it would be yours.
Don't look back
I'm hurt anon
Not having the opportunity to fuck up is not having the restraint not to anon.
No it's just that the edges on you poked my forehead
OP should raise that child and encourage the mother to keep her BBC Bull.
For 400 years white privilege has forced the Black population to live below its mean while reaping the fruits of slave labor.
Just consider this your contribution to reparations.
Meh you're thinking too much into it anon, you can get a girl 2pts or more higher than your level if you deal with their bastard. Just tell him all kinds of crazy shit as he grows up it'll be hilarious
Look I let guys fuck me in the asshole and i wear skirts, I think i transcended beta at this point
Hard fact: she lied, she manipulated
She doesn't love you, no one lies to or manipulates someone they've loved for 3 months
She tried to reel you in to heal her own loneliness and psychic pain and "not telling him I cheated" and countless other fun possibilities can fall right under this pattern in the future.
Stay with her, and you'll never really know who you're with.
I dated my colleague in work who is a single mother. Worst nightmare of my life We were together for 4 months, it was always about the fucking kid (who was fucking retarded)
You entirely missed the point of my argument.
If you end up eating shit you're guaranteed to never do it again.
If you never ate shit you just might end up trying it.
Genuinely sorry for violating your safe space
Don't even fucking think about going back op. You did the right thing. Would you be able to raise another man's nigger? She is a liar and a whore. There is plenty of Fish in the sea. Fish without nigger children.
Hey op, its me, fate.
Just hopped in here for a moment to tell you that sometimes there arent any positive outcomes. Just remember to trust your own judgement above all others, and envision how you, a white guy, is walking in the park with a niglet kid.
Trust yourself op
I'm gonna lose an eye on one of these edges
How about this instead? It's my best moment on 4chan too
Well, OP. I would leave in that situation. But I really hope someone does stay with her. It would take a hell of a man, but being there to make sure a kid has the structure that he needs, and grows up with a positive role model... That's a really awesome thing. My mother was a single mother, and had a son. My half brother. His dad went to Vietnam, went crazy and became a vile evil person. My father raised my half brother, and I have a certain respect for him for that and men who can do that. But I couldn't.
She has only now realised that once you go black you can't come back.
NO one else wants here. Which is why she has resorted to lying to get a relationship to a point whereby she gets a man who will look after her and her nigger offspring.
You fucked up. your parents will get over it once you tell them want happened and the deception. Do not be a cuck and raise a nigger child to a woman who ultimately just wants a stable paycheck.. She'll divorse you and take half your money beacuse ultimately she's in it for herself.
You are a lucky fucker you missed a bullet here. Your stupidity in dating this cunt didnt get you fucked up for the rest of your life.
Lol, classic case of future cucked. If you loved her, you'd get by the whole black kid thing, It's special when a girl goes back from black. If you couldn't handle it, it wasn't love. I for one would put up with the little runt and teach him to camp and shit.
For better or worse, she lied to you and deceived you about something rather important. She wanted you to fall for her first, so she could emotionally blackmail you. That's horrible!
Don't dump her because of her child, but dump her because of that! Her lies and deception. You cannot trust such a person.
You're a fucking girl. You have to be. even faggots aren't this good at being cunts.
Everyone's asking you to fuck off. You are not enjoyable. Go be sad elsewhere or post your tits and we'll all suddenly be your friends.
Hey dumbass, the kid may not know that she is his mother. Sometimes families keep it that way. If so, and she told you, then she is letting you in her world.
Anyway, wtf do you want to get married? It's a bad idea in the long run, unless your unattractive in which case marry the first thing that comes along.
Wait until you get older, wimmins will all have kids and talk that marriage shit. You nod and go along, buy the kid some stuff, and dip when you're sick of the shit or something better comes along.
Your first mistake was catching feelings. All women are whores, and want a man to fuck them and support them, and all can be replaced. The sooner you figure this out, the sooner you start living your life and being happier.
If it's too much for you, bail, and it looks like you did. I think it was a dumb move because she wasn't asking you to be dad, but in the end you did what was best for you.
I'm a pseudo intellectual and I only hang out with like 3 people
and they are all morons so they do it all the time.
My whole family is a bunch of retards as well
so I have no fucking idea what normal people do.
Lol, if you can get passed the fact that she made a mistake, then you can see she set the bar low as fuuuuuuuuuuuuck. You can be a douche and she will probably be a good wife. If your decent to her and treat her well while being a good role model to the kid, she'll worship you. Also you can get over yourself.
I get it, we men can be very immersed in relationships with women.
I dealt with my shame during therapy, which I had around sexuality, maybe you have issues with that as well, she probably does (getting pregnant so young). If so, you were likely attracted to each other because of that.
Because of that and all the other complications (named Kevin) I would first deal with my own shit, also to deal with what the betrayal you are experiencing right now and go on dating her or anyone else after that.
She messed up as a teenager. If she's mature now stay with her. You leaving and blocking her shows her how serious you are.
Talk it out with her. Find out where she's at in life. If she has in fact matured.
This man speaks the truth. I have 2 step children that I have raised for the last 15 years. Neither of them are a nignog, but the discipline is a bitch when they hit teen and start saying shit like I don't have to listen to you because your not my father.
Put an end to that shit by saying yep, your right. Your real father was too much of a bitch to stick around and raise you. Didnt have any problems after they realized their dad was a piece of shit and they have it good.
Your situation will be worse because the kid is going to hang with his own, start thinking he is thuggish and you'd have to murder him. Its ok though because it would be white on almost white crime
>She fucked some 30 year old black guy when she was 14 and got knocked up.
women are fucking whores my god
maybe she really likes you but she's clearly using you as well
if you really really love her and think she really loves you too i don't know what to tell you but raising a black man's kid is one of the most cùcked thing in the world. if the dad was white and died or something and the kid was really nice it would be sort of ok i guess but that's just 100% cùck, her age, his age, his race, that's just too much for me. and how she's ready to marry you after 3 months that's pretty shady as well
she banged a 30 year old when she was 14 and your biggest problem is the kid being black? the fuck is wrong with you inbred's??? the colour of the kid is irrelevant here... she got knocked up by a 30 year old when she was 14... your girl is trash... dump that slut
Trust me breh you seem like you have a serious case of oneitis. I got with a girl for two years, took my virginity, thought she was the one, we talked about marriage within 6 months and all that jazz.
After about two and a half years I told her I needed sometimes to clear my thoughts, to figure out what was going on, not that I was leaving her, just that I needed some space ( she was super clingy and I failed to recognize all of the red flags). You know what she did a week later? Fucked my best friend(well, ex best friend now). Haven't fucking looked back.
It's your happiness and your life, you have no connection to this kid and no serious connection to this woman( 3 months? come on dude).
Grow some fucking balls and make your own decision. Do you want a kid at this point in your life? Do you want a kid that isn't yours? No? Then leave.
Have you ever heard the term: once you go black, you never go back?
Well, the niggers like to push that saying as if they are good fucks. When in fact they are horrible. Most don't even know where the pussy is (seriously).
What the term actually means is that once a girl goes black, she's ruined and not welcome back into real society. The saying was started by whites as a warning. Once you go black, you'll never be allowed back was the original saying.
So, she's ruined. She knows it by hiding the kid from you. It's your call.
She was once a dumb bitch. Will she be a dumb bitch again?
I'm raising a black kid... I even gave him my name. He is not my biological son and I am no longer together with his mother but I've been raising him since he was 1 year, he is 10 now and I actually went to court and won his custody. I love him like he is my own flesh and blood.
Honestly you're asking for advice on /b/ and you're a retard for listening to any faggot on here. That being said let me say this: getting back with that girl could possibly be the biggest mistake of your life. Don't get involved with girls with baggage ever. It will always drag you down. Always. Good luck faggot.
You're only in your 20s. You have a lot of fucking time to find the right girl. She is clearly not the right one. You've already have serious conflict with her.
Go smash pussy for a bit to release the stress.
Start dating again.
Find the one.
you kid looks like goku... I think he is half sayan.
I'm a psychiatrist and I believed, strongly, that you are at risk of depression. To help curb the onset of depression, I feel that if you post her newds you'll feel gratification and revenge. Those feelings are natural defenses to depression.
It is therefore ordered.
Just take the free pussy and keep her as a side bitch, you overly sentimental beta.
Exactly you don't have to marry the bitch and raise the kid. Just keep fucking her until you find a new girl. So emotionally attached, it's laughable. Only known her for 3 months and acting like a wimp.
Has she expressed her fantasy of being nailed by five nignogs at the same time, collect all their cumshots all over her tits and face and have you lap up the cum until she's spotless?
"more like rape" - It was or it wasn't. I know legally it was, but be careful not to be emotionally manipulated i.e. women want to get white-knighted. Sounds like she is trying to play the victim card when saying that - and in regards to rape she may as well be! But not when it comes to lying to you, that's where she messed up.
Or the girl of their dreams who fucked Chad all the way through her 20's finally 'realises' it was them all along she wanted and marries them at 30 while they have a big shit eating grin in all the wedding photos.
If she had the kid at 14 she may have been 13 when she got knocked up.
Anybody think she fucked that guy just once?
Anybody think she fucked just that one guy?
OP you need to run away from this mess.
>tfw you are a white alpha in club full of teenage niggers
>slap the fuck everyone in there security dont even bat an eye on you
>grab the young white whore bring her back to her parents house
>get accused for rape becouse obamacare
>I left, blocked her number
Good on ya, m8! It was the right thing to do
>I really do love her
WHY?! Who's to say she won't wanna go back to black? Who's to say she dosen't have some fucked up nigger disease? Personally I'd never fuck a bitch who's been with a nig nog, poo in loo, or a spic. If she's been with a jap, gook or chink, that's questionable at best. I feel a lot more comfortable fucking a woman who's only been with white guys.I mean, i prefer fucking a religious virgin type or perhaps a prudish weeb type who's anywhere from 18 - 20 something. At least you know they'll be clean also they're a lot easier to impress
Says some spacious loser in a 8 year relationship with his sock. A tossmong who ejaculates in his pants if a girl sits next to him in class. A can't so good at relationships he's at home on b alone on a Friday night.
Not the other guy btw
They make good plates though. My ex is a single mom and now engaged. I'm currently implying that we might get back together and 'be a family' just so she will send me some nudes and talk dirty on the phone because I'm bored today.
Kekking at this absolute retard to be honest
The kinds of girls who make those shitty decisions in their past are much more likely to fuck your life up. But sure, pick up the pieces if you want, just don't be surprised when it all falls to shit shortly down the road
Pretty much this, my last gf already had a daughter when we got together, I accidently gave her another one and now my life is ruined. My daughter is nearly three and I love her, but her Mum's a piece of shit. I also have responsibility for the one that wasn't produced in my balls.
Good for you. That is what I would have done. Now go find a non-tainted one.
Oh my god, I can't believe you have to ask what to do. Dumbass. She lied to and probably told her parents not to say anything. She is trash. How does a 14 year old get in a situation where she is able to bang a 30 year old nig. I bet she was dating him secretly getting fucked by him all the time, I bet her parents found out that their daughter was trash when she had to break the news that she was pregnant at 14. Duck you are retarded to take that shit on my man. Move the fuck on, you are in love with what she was pretending to be, not really who she really is. A piece of dirty nigger loving trailer trash whore.
Welll, it's par for the course. As such, the lesson for this thread, ultimately. Mostly something to think about, to consider.
This is also how the eating disorders get their cuck.
ok, heres some actually good advise.
1. you do not "really love her" you are barely out of the cupcake phase.
2.If you are really into her then maybe do this. Sit down and talk to her and have a heart to heart conversation about it. What should would expect for you, would she want you to hop into daddy mode or do the whole "you dont have to be his dad" thing.
3. ask your self if it is worth the trouble, take a day or two on this one.
4. If you do decide to stay with her, tell other people to piss off.
5.if you dont think its worth the time and effort, dont just leave high and dry, explain to her that you are just not ready for that kind of relationship and to respect your choice. That way you are not a cunt and if sometihng down the road brings you two together again, you could take that shot if you want.
Good luck faggot
She's not too bad really I suppose, she's just at the age where not matter what she talks about I can't bring myself to give a shit, I fake it pretty well but it's tiring. It's all Justin beiber and makeup. Just didn't expect to be in this position before 30.
this guy is retarded, don't weigh any desisions, because the weight of a having a child is the heaviest fucking weight, no matter how much you think you like this person, its not fucking worth it. eventually she will assume YOU have to be the fucking father figure, and the kid will be around WAY more fucking often. DO NOT FUCKING DO IT GET AWAY FROM THIS LYING BITCH IMMEDIATELY. what other fucking lies is she hiding from you?
ITT: >raising another mans child
What are you talking about? Shit I raise all the god damn kid in the world. I'm taking over this shit. I only got that much juice if you wanna give me your kids ill brainwash them to treat me as their leader no problem.
You are one particular kind of annoying faggot, aren't ya? I bet your divorced parents had you convinced you're either funny or special, didn't they, "special cupcake". Go choke on your lame ass reaction images and die, you terminal fag.
Don't know what to do?
You mean you're actually considering staying with this worthless whore because you think so little of yourself?
Nigga pls, cut her off and go find someone better at your local dive bar.
You white knight cock rideing faggot im the guy fucking your bitch while your gone and yea you little bitch take care of my son and waste your money while im still out here fucking little sluts
>3 months in, talking marriage
She was trying to trap you anon...she rode the coal train, and wants YOU to help pay the toll.
You did the right thing. If she hadn't waited so long i might be more forgiving but this bitch waited til she was sure she had her hooks in you.
If you marry her she will be asking for a divorce, all your shit, and half your paycheck in 2 years.
she'll get it, and will proceed to go back to fucking Tyrones while you pay for little kevin's 8th pair of Jordan's.
Tough break anon, this is a personal nightmare of mine.
well my Mom just called.
Pam is over at my parents house crying her eyes out.
Believe it or not my dad seems pissed off at what I did.
I guess I better go over there and see what the fuck is going on.
My fucking life has turned into some sort of soap opera.
Ffs, you're going to judge her bythe fact she was a victim of a crime at 14? Yes she should have mentioned it at the first dinner, but if the parents are raising it then it's not really a lie, it is their foster kid, its more of a half truth. She just wanted you to meet him first. You didn't think she was a virgin did you? No, well the only new thing you've learned is that her parents are against abortion and are really supportive for taking over the kid.
Grow up op and call her, maybe don't rush the wedding but if that's the only thing that's wrong, just deal with it.
She was trying to trap you into this anon. Don't look back.
Normally I'd say that there's nothing with dating a woman who is a single mother, ain't nothin wrong with that shit as long as you're cool with it on a personal level. in this case though, holy shit
> Talk seriously about marriage after only 3 months
> 3 months in and she never mentions her son/single parent status (She loves you enough for marriage but not enough to mention even once "Hey also I have a son" yeah okay)
>Lies to you about the kid
I am in no similar situation, have never been, but I can tell you right now if I ever manage to end up in that situation you need to fucking bail, that's a lot of lies and hiding information
the fact that the nigger will always be his real dad, and no matter how much of a fucking deadbeat nigger he is, kids are retards that trust their parents unquestioningly. so all the hours you spend trying to teach the half-niglet will be undone when he goes to see Tyrone on weekends and he tells his kid to fuck off with his newly learned human behavior
Dont make a decision yet.
Dont let them push you to it.
You need some days to think about the question. And you need to get really clear if you want to take care for the rest of your life for a half black kid who will grow up knowing you are not his father.
Do you really need to carry taht for the rest of your life?
The bottom line is she lied to you, about something very big. She even did it in front of her own parents and made them visibly uneasy. Just imagine what other things she'll keep from you down the line. Let her go, anon.
your parent's will get over it eventually, OP. and if they don't they can go fuck themselves. They're not the ones that are going to be paying Kevin's child support when that cunt sucks you dry and leaves you for someone else
In what degree of seriousness, is unknown, I've had girls hypothetically talk about marriage within a week or two of meeting them, it was just talk though.
>op is always a faggot.
Hey op, i'm brazilian man. I create menes.
See ya ;D
OP, if you have ANY self respect you'll cut off that nigger fucking whore and never speak to her again. Fucking race traitor scum is looking for some cuck sucker to raise her niglet because the coon she spread her legs for, when she was 14 YEARS OLD, ditched her as expected.
You're better than that OP and if you go back to her you'll fucking regret it for the rest of your life, pissing your existence away with some fucking slut and having your time/money wasted on some cockroaches cumstain!!!FACT!!!
Furthermore, I have more respect for someone who sucks horse cocks on camera than a white woman who fucks niggers!
You know why I hate niggers? It's not because of their skin color, because that would be stupid, no, it's because they are evolutionary throwbacks.
Think about it. As we developed as a species, the more intelligent of us started to explore the world because of higher I.Q. s which led to intellectual curiosity. As time progressed those people evolved into other races and started to build modern civilization. Meanwhile niggers sat content to wallow in their own nignorance and graze in fields like the dumb fucking animals they are. The worst thing an advanced civilization could do is let these fucking chimps in because they contribute nothing and breed like cockroaches.
Bringing these fucks to North America was the worst thing anyone could have done and now we're seeing the end result. They drain resources and add nothing of worth to our societies. Go to any major city in the USA, look at it today then compare it to the way it was 50-60 years ago. Look at everything we built and then look at the ruins left today as these knuckle dragging fucking Neanderthals drag our world back into the dark ages.
I envy people who are in their 70's as they got to see our civilization at its peak and don't have to live much longer to see it go further into the fucking shitter because of niggers, SJW's, cucks and fags!!!FACT!!!
Dude im a nig I would have done the same shit,
>go back to parents house
>tell them they already have a grandson for them
>half nig grandson
>live rest of life going to basketball games living life in shame
Fuck that shit nigger if I was you id give her another baby then leave
Finally, white women fuck niggers either because they're getting back at Mommy and Daddy for not buying them a pony when they were little OR they think that it somehow defines them and makes them seem more like an individual. So white women see niggers as a fashion accessory, like a pair of shoes or a handbag, nothing more.
Meanwhile, niggers aspire to fuck white women because they know they're knuckle dragging sub-humans and want their offspring to be successful which they know wont happen if they breed with another nigger. So knocking up some race traitor whore is their goal in life because they subconsciously want to eradicate their own worthless race through eugenics!!!FACT!!!
That is how people act you fucking moron. They've probably met this woman, what, once, twice? She barely fucking knows them.
How fucking dare she drag them into it?
Everything else aside, that would be reason enough to dump her.
You're either quite young, or a fucking naive fool.
HAHAHA YOU FELT IN THE TRAP YOU FUCKING IDIOT NOW GET THE FUCK OUT OF MY BOARD YOU PIECE OF NORMIE CUCKOLD SHIT ROOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
Then she was LYING TO YOU THE WHOLE TIME! imagine what else she's been keeping from you or what secrets she'll have after a few years of being with her. No OP, you did the right thing by dropping that fucking trash!!!FACT!!!
Anon, holy shit, 3 months and she feels like it's okay for her to go to your family for help at this point? You need to separate her from your family immediately when you get there and explain the situation to your parents. Yes, you care for her still, but she was hiding incredibly important information from you and breached trust in a huge way. Even if she hasn't been raising Kevin herself, he's still her son and therefore it's important that you knew he existed before this. If your parents can't understand why you're upset, fuck Pam and fuck them too