how can i tell if i'm dating a trap?
went on a date with an asian but something feels off. i suspect trap but i don't know for sure.
That's one option. I've thought about fucking a trap hooker before, but just in the idle way you might think about fucking a celeb or random colleague that you know you never will.
now it feels a lot closer to home...if that's the situation!
i wish i could because i want to know, but i also know /b/ and know that's a bad idea.
i know you guys would say trap immediately anyway based on the pic, and i had my supicions before the date. but then on the date 'she' looked so cute and feminine. the pics and questions made me suspicious...the date, less so, but still a few oddities which could be easily explained by trap or maybe just foreign oddness.
never dated (or even spoken to jap) before so might just be how they are?
are jap traps common?
just package check that bitch, completely necessary when visiting asian countries, esp SEA countries. if checks out still look for reaching for lube first thing when going to the sack.
source: me, sailor who visits these type of countries monthly
am not in asia and s/he is jap not SE asian, but this advice is good, thanks.
as i said above, i get the feeling the penis is long gone if it was a he to begin with.
anyone ever fucked a post-op? can't imagine it's good...
if i was going to go down this route, i think i'd rather there be a cock. it's gonna feel gay regardless. but a bad fuck with gay self-loathing afterwards seems pointless. IF i was going to fuck a trap. i'd want it to be something worthwhile/different. already done lots of anal play with girlfriends so being the "bottom" wouldn't bother me. again, IF i was going to do this.
not sure i can...
though you're right. life too short etc. and its nice to cum in another human. and this one is super cute and petite and at least looks female.
Having lived and owned a bar in Bangkok for a long time previously, there are only two ways to tell short of looking at the pussy if the overall physic doesn't give it away straight off.
a) The men have had the plastic surgery to look good, too good. The real girls have softer features and aren't as pretty.
So if you picture what most western men would think of as hot and model material, that's possibly a man.
b) usually the men still have a deeper voice, but not always. Enough anyway to raise your suspicion.
#1 rule of dating Asian girls is don't go for the ones that look like a model if you want to play it safe.
moar info, if it helps:
lipstick was badly applied. as a man, i wouldn't expect to notice this. but i did.
hand were tiny. wouldn't expect a trap to have small hands.
two contradictory bits of "evidence"
Well i know this sounds gay but if he makes you happy then i would at least give it the old college try. I don;t know how long you've been dating but if it was that uncomfortable you would of ended it already. Check it out , if you don't like what you see you can just leave.
A lot of traps in BKK work in beauty salons to gain the money for the surgery and as they are "accepted" in those jobs. So possibly quite the reverse, bad makeup may be a sign it's female.
Just communicate you beta loser - "I'm really interested in going out with you but have a few blunt questions...STDs, Gender, etc. " for example. Quit being beta and ask about it. Trans usually have all kinds of strange relationships with their bits anyway - so start communicating right away if you want to have that relationship.
was going to argue i'm not a beta loser but i feel like it asking /b/ for dating advice. as one anon said up thread, though, /b/ knows traps.
you might be right about being honest. if she has a trap friend then she shouldn't be offended if i ask her outright.
All the traps in the bar I owned would always tell the customer first before anything physical happened - long before.
Once you see the pussy, though good it is still obvious. They don't want to get beaten up - so they are (as far as I know) always honest with the johns first.
So if she stays silent, another sign it's a girl.
I knew a lot of traps to talk to in the bar, and everyone was a great laugh so long as you treated them with the same respect you'd treat anyone else. If you were out and out a dickhead, then generally you came off worse.
yeah, i'm not anti-gay or anything. i wouldn't treat her badly if she told me she was a trap. unless she waited until after something had happened.
i'm just not sure what to do if she says she is...
i think you're right. i'll just ask her. the worst that can happen is she says no and gets offended and doesn't want to carry on dating. would be disappointing (would love to fuck a petite little jap) but not the end of the world, eh
If she's more than a trap and is mtf transgender, then your family might never need to know she's trans, just tell them she's a woman. Unless she's one of the crazy trannies who HAS to tell everyone and make a big show out of it, in which case you're better off without her. A sane mtf transwoman (and they do exist) will be perfectly happy being treated and called a woman by everyone and won't need anyone to know she's trans except her parents and intimate partners.
If you're so worried about some anons finding his/her Facebook or whatever just post a pic with the eyes blocked with a black bar, we really just need to see the nose, cheeks, and jaw structure to be able to tell. Also just don't be such a fucking pussy, post a goddamn pic and we can tell you immediately instead of trying to figure it out by you telling us things you think might indicate her being a trap
>ridiculously cute tbh. that's why im finding this to be a dilemma.
>see hot trap at college
>she really likes me
>flirts with me, hangs on my arm, go for coffee
>wants to get serious
>I get hung up on whether its gay or not, tell her i need 2 weeks to think about it because i feel weird.
>she looks pissed off.
>"Fuck you then i'll date someone who likes me"
>txt her a week later to apologize
>she replies "its fine, i'm over it (: i got a new bf!"
>she sends pic
>its my best friend
fuck. dammit. tap that while you can
How do they treat you? Do you feel more at home with this person then with others in the past. Do you feel 100 percent comfortable with them. If the answers to these questions are yes. Then it shouldn't bother you
this is a good parable.
i've always been a bit curious, of everything. not just sex/relationship stuff. evem stuff i don't like. i don't like the thought of being on my deathbed and thinking, "i wish i'd tried <insert whatever>".
maybe i should just do it. it might be horrible. but it's not going to fuck me up forever. not going for this while there's a chance might make me always regret it. i don't think this will ever happen to me again because i don't look for this kind of thing.
fuck's sake. why is everything complicated...
It sounds as tho you have the answer. Go be happy. We all deserve to be. I would like to know what happens so if you wouldn't mind, make another thread letting us know how it goes.
no, we're quite different morally/politically. i take drugs and smoke and she doesn't know about those and is quite against them. quite traditionalist (strange for a trap). i'm sure as soon as i 'disclose' those things then it's probably over anyway.
had fun on the date though. lots of laughing and good flowing conversation. but then, unless i'm on a date with a total retard, that's normal for me. i'm a pretty sociable person and can get along with anyone, even people really different to me.
this happened to me, turned out her little brother was a trap which was a surprise to me, and she wanted to give me to him for his birthday and was feeling me out about it.
Shit if she's a traditionalist you hold on to that. That's a diamond, but in any event you sound like you get along pretty well.It'll work out if they care about you. At the end of the day we are all looking for that special someone, if they make you happy that all that's matters
If the topic comes up about his/her/it's trap friend and you no want then just make clear you wouldn't be into traps.
It'll get the message regardless of gender and you'll get sweet puss if not.
the topic came up and she asked me what my thoughts were. i said as long as something doesn't affect me, i don't care what people do.
i think there was a bit of discussion about what it means when something "affects me" but i used religion as an example and said if someone believes in god, fair enough. but if they try to ram god down my throat then fuck them.
i wish i'd stayed on topic now because it would have been more informative. another regret....
You shoved if off, if you would've given your actual opinion you might've gotten a response or closure.
But fine then again, you are actually turning gay on the spot and not sure if you want to lick that post-op clit or feminine penis anyway.
Yet if it's a trap, which it is, it probably tried to probe your anus/opinion about it. Since you gave no definitive answer the trap might bring it up again. That'll do too as a way of finding out.
i was thinking something like, "you know how you asked me specifically about what i thought about gays etc...was there a more personal reason for asking? i know your friend is a trap but it seemed more important to you than that."
In your mind this plays out like:
>you know how you asked me specifically about what i thought about gays etc...was there a more personal reason for asking? i know your friend is a trap but it seemed more important to you than that.
>Y-yes anon-kun, I-i have a feminine penis and I want you to pleasure me, p-please.
It's an overcomplicated and autistic way of asking it really. It's doing covert ops while wearing a clown's suit.
I had a similar situation a while back.
All I did was mention that I was so glad to meet someone like her, that I was worried since my friend met someone and they turned out to be a trans.
Their face will either drop like a fucking stone in a pile of shit or they will laugh and say how awful that must of been.
>want to fuck a trap
>don't know where to look
You actually don't, you just think you do.
The moment they moan and lose control a bit, and you can hear it's a guy is instant noodle (unless you're gay of course).
The appeal is the illusion and the slight disgust, the turnoff is when he illusion fails. That's why trap pictures are hot but reality isn't.
It would still work, you can like a trans without wanting to date them.
I have a friend in college that is gay, I have no issues with him but I don't wanna date him under any circumstances. I've never met a woman that would react badly to me saying I don't want to date a trans.
If she does she is trans.
a man's cock.
he enjoyed btw, so did she, still does.
thanks. and >>703240482 too
gives me hope.
i think there's a strong possibility of either option. i've seen much more masculine looking women. and i've never known such a petite man. even the most effeminate of men, clear destined to be a fag, you can tell they're men no matter what they try.
this might just be wishful thinking though. i have no idea. probably just need to go with the flow and see what transpires.
Jeshua Christ /b/, when did traps become a real thing like this? When I was young we all knew that traps were just in thailand and the only thing they were good for was pranking people online into thinking they were looking at a woman until they scrolled down far enough
But now this shit is in peoples real lives? What the fugg
Transexuals have been around for a while lol, and in public they either just look like women, look somewhat questionable or just look like a man in drag (sucks to be those unfortunate souls).
Just get a blowjob then never call it again... go on believing it was whatever you wanted it to be.