I've been dating this girl for about 8 months. We just moved in together two weeks ago.
I lost my phone yesterday, so she let me borrow hers because I have to have a phone for my work.
I just found out that my girlfriend has a Tinder account. I can see that she has the app installed on her phone, but I can't log into it. I guess that's the part that is really bothering me. She actually logged out of all of her social media accounts before giving me her phone.
Should I be worried? Is the fact that she has a Tinder account a red flag?
yup trash.. shes flirting with other dudes..
my gf and I use eachothers phones at times for random reasons, but we have nothing to hide. I don't log out of my shit, nor does she. I'm 28 and shes 32, so were probably older than you two, but still. move on.
though I agree with the idea of personal space and privacy, I'd also feel suspicious if my gf did that. Besides, tinder is a huge red flag. Women that are not sluts are indeed rare nowadays. Not a good time to be alive as a man
If she had concluded that she was done with tinder, she would have already deleted the app rather than logging out. He says they've been together for 8 months, good enough time to delete an app
Op think about it... If you guys have been dating for 8 months and she has tinder on her phone, she's obviously cheating. If she really loves you, she would've gotten rid of it during those 8 months. Otherwise what's the point of keeping an app for so long you don't use? This could prove that she has been using it.
Btw op please post more pics preferably nudes.
I just found this pic on her phone. I've never seen it before.
Girls that hot get hit on 20 times a day.
But for the sake of accuracy, let's be ultra conservative and say that your girl only gets hit on 5 times a day. It's a whole lot more than that, but lets just say it's only 5 to make our estimation very conservative.
Girls are little social butterflies and they are always going out and socializing with friends, but lets be ultra conservative an say that your girl only goes out 3 days a week. In reality, it's more like 5, but lets just say 3 days a week to make our estimation very conservative.
5 times a day times 3 days a week = your girl gets offered sex from 15 different guys each week.
4 weeks a month = 60 different guys offering your girl sex each month.
In ten months, that's 600 men offering your girl sex.
Guys never understand the VOLUME of sexual offers women receive. If you think she is a bad person for saying yes just two or three times out of 600, ask yourself how many times you have turned down a girl who offered you sex.
No it isn't. It's the mentality of a realist. It isn't realistic to expect girls to be monogamous in this day and age.
The notion of finding a girl who doesn't cheat occasionally is a fairy tale. Grow up kid.
OP, just have fun with that body while it lasts. The only type of men who can keep a girl like that down are the type of men who would never be in a relationship in the first place because of the amount of sex they get from women with bodies like that.
yeah lol did you really move in with another person without getting complete control over them? like you really moved in with her without making her tell you every thought she has and without handcuffing her to the kitchen when you're not with her? lol cuck.
Doesn't look too good, anon. Tinder itself could be a red flag, but I myself have a history of not deleting things I don't use anymore. How many forms of social media did she log out of?
>tfw they were never dating, only good friends
>tfw she just thinks they are roommates to save money on rent
>tfw OP deluded himself into thinking he's in a relationship
>implying a b/tard is capable of getting a girl this hot to date him
Get real. No one who lurks here is capable of getting a girl like this. Also, there are no girls that hot on Tinder.
itt: control freaks and the fag called op
Yo, I share my phone with my boyfriend as well idgaf what he reads or whatever. I think she just deleted or logged out of stuff because sometimes there's /conversations/ that are /private/ by that I don't mean sexting or whatsoever.
I also had a very private conversation with a friend and my boyfriend read through it, I felt somewhat intrigued by it and felt like I cheated on my friend because I told her It'd stay between us.
I'm just trying to say maybe she's trying to keep it private. Or. Shes cheating.
I love threads like these that are obviously 100% fiction. Harry Potter was more realistic than this shit.
Op here, sry, I'm still at work. All of the nudes I have of her were on the phone I lost, so the only nude I have of her I've already posted in this thread.
Long story short, I installed EaseUS Viber data recovery tool and used it to read the texts she deleted. She's fucking two other guys behind my back on the regular and she also has had a lot of one night stands over the past 8 months. I'm still reading the threads. So far, I'm counting 9 one night stands, not counting her two lovers. I've only read about 10% of the threads.
I'm dumping her as soon as I get home and I'm moving out. I've already called my landlord and she said I can get out of the lease for $1,200.
Good for you OP.
Also from the pics she looks like a total slut. I get that you liked her but for fuck sake sometimes you gotta judge a book by its cover and just choose not to read.
you should definitely be worried by the simple _existence_ of Tinder on her cellphone.
I could understand a female that after 8 months doesn't want me to check her socials and emails - but the *EXISTENCE* of Tinder is simply the reddest of the red flags, more red than a red pepperoni whipped in a red communist redflag in red light.
>tl dr: Tinder in her cellphone = YOU'RE A TOTAL CUCK ---- she has you to pay for her dinner, and Chads for dicks --- she's cheating on you since before you started dating
at least you were lucky. She could've uninstalled Tinder for a short while.
Women will always try to trade up if you will.
If something better comes along rest assured you will be replaced.
I am a dude, and i got a tinder account like a year ago for shits and giggles. Tried tp hook up like twice, with no success. I have been in a relationship for about 5 months with a great girl. I still have the app, and havent used it for months. You are all a bunch of retards if you think somebody should wipe their phone of any dating apps just because you are with them. I have a shitload of old apps that i dont use. You are just paranoid, and should leave your girl so she can get with a more confident man.
If this story is true OP, then she wanted you to find.
Just think about it. She knows whazt shes doing. Giving you her phone. 2 weeks after you move in. She's clearly letting you discover why you should dump her. It's either conscious or unconscious way to say "I'm a cheating bitch, don't stay it's too dangerous for you".
It hurts like a motherfucker OP... but at least you know the truth. Just fuck her a lot before confronting her. Then once you feel more suffering than pleasure tell her you discovered. But whatever choice you make, she clearly told you in a sneaky way you shouldn't stay with her.
Cheers man. Stay proud, it's not entirely your fault. Loyalty is a forgotten value these days.
>Girls cheating on me is okay
>Its just natural for them to do it
>No guy ever turns down sex
Been with the same Girl for 2 years. We have both repeatedly turned down sexual offers because when you actually love someone you don't even want to bang anyone else. Its called being in an adult relationship.
And this is why you do not move in with someone THAT early.
In several US states btw. after 1 year of living together you are legally in a "common law marriage" and she can sue for alimony. Always keep that in mind dudes. ^^
complain about gf about some tinder
on her phone
get naked pic
post on 4chan
sure YOU can't trust her...
Big mistake OP. Almost all bitches cheat at some point; some are just better at not getting caught.
You're living with a hot girl that is presumably easy to get along with and obviously likes to fuck. I would keep hitting it as long as it's good, then when you get tired of her tell her you know she cheats and kick her out.
Confront her!! Tell her the only way to fix this is to make a video of her taking a dick from a random dude. Share it with us afterwards. Become the MVP and the best OP ever...
RUIN HER REPUTATION.
It's the only way dude.
No sex tapes (thats illegal) and no sex period (possible rape accusations)
Just spread the evidence that she is a whore. Tell her (and the guys she texted) that you are HIV positive and they ALL should get checked.
Put the word out.
That 10/10 bod won't last a month with all that stress.
>RUIN HER REPUTATION.
How? Tell everyone she likes to have a lot of sex? Girls aren't shamed for that anymore. No one will give a shit.
Her girlfriends will probably give her a high five.
OP OP OP OP
HOW ABOUT YOU COMMUNICATE WITH HER AND.......CONFRONT HER
YKNOW, LIKE A FUCKING MAN
IF YOU GOT A SPINE YOU'LL SEE THROUGH THE SHIT THAT COULD COME OUT OF HER MOUTH
>Tell her (and the guys she texted) that you are HIV positive and they ALL should get checked.
You REALLY dont see how that will backfire?
I guess he shouldnt care for his reputation either, right?