>>702819322 Thought I was for a while. Gf for 3 years, living together for 1.5. Things were great before she moved in. Now I definitely don't love her anymore, not even sure if I really like her all that much anymore.
>>702819322 No but I've been there. I thought I'd been there 3 times but looking back I've ever only loved once. Still talk to her even though we broke up nearly 8 years ago. And hell I still love her. Luckily though it's no longer a romantic love. In my experience you'll never know if it's true love until you've lost it and enough time has passed but YMMV
>>702819745 Break up as soon as possible. I've been in that situation. It won't be better. If you let her break up with you, you will feel like shit. If you break up, you won't feel a thing. Do it, faggot. I know that you've been looking at those hot teeny asses every time you went to town. Break up and they will all be yours.
The best way I can describe it to anyone who's never really experienced it is this; it's like an amazing high, something akin to mdma. You feel like the world could be ending but as long as you're with them, everything will be alright. This, much like any great high, is also accompanied by a great comedown. Eventually you'll split ways for one reason or another and reality comes crashing back down. It's one of the worst feelings I've ever had.
nope i cant be bothered with all my warhammerpainting and basementdwelling ... did have couple of hot girls in the past but since they all broken my soul to maximumautism i just prefer the company of me for a while
>>702820207 whats wrong with control? Well, anyways, I'm not so certain. I had a girlfriend when I was 18 and we split up and stay in contact. We both moved on, and I fucking hate her half of the time but we have probably a better connection then most couples do, even each other. I would say that is a strong form of love. We are just not healthy for each other so we mutually stay away.
>>702819745 Break it up now because if you wont you will enetually sabotage your realationship subconsciously and it will fall into pieces with shitstorm. Do this now to avoid very unpleasnt experience.
Yeah. We've only been together for a little under a year. She's an 8/10, and i'm a 5/10 beta, but she has autism and thinks it evens out because of that. It's really nice, though. She just enjoys the fact that I actually care about her because she has no friends.
>>702820513 Mine were first and only, no befores. And im aware of this shit thing that is going on. People live in fear so they get involved in wrong persons and afraid to search right person. That is why there are so may fucked up relationships.
Me? I prefer to be alone than in fucked up situation like that. I like myself i have many hobbies and interests and i will not get involved in something i dont want to be.
>>702820378 >>702820583 I actually did break it off a few months ago. Moved my shit into the guest room. Told her she could take some time to find a new place. Went and found some strange. A couple weeks go by and she still hasn't found a place. We start talking, she promises to change everything. She actually does a complete 180 for the next couple of months so I give it another chance. But now she's back to being the same bitch I broke up with. People don't change, I don't know wtf I was thinking.
>>702820432 yeah, the problem with girls you are in "LOVE" with is that you are not so much "in love" its the novelty of something new and idealized. The longer you spend with girls who seem perfect, the more you notice they are not perfect, they are just people. So its not the heart racing, every moment is an adventure shit that matters. Its that they aren't trying to use you because a LOT of that goes on unintentionally or not. A lot of girls you will date you will find there is an unequal balance. She is usually around because she NEEDS you and less because she WANTS you. My current girlfriend doesn't NEED me. She has a job, she is independent, she is more attractive then I am, she doesn't cheat and at the end of the day she gets in my bed and we fuck and talk about stuff. That's love in your 30s. Its not exciting but its very comfortable.
>>702821197 People dont change. The only change that has sense is change that is a result from Consciousness Expanding and Developement. If ones force self into something that he/she doesnt want it will be fucking hard and unpleasnt. So just drop it, hard.
I'm in the casual stages of love, the romantic stages were like a rollercoaster, and the highs were pure ecstasy but, casual sex (like real casual, fuck this one time we got out a torch, shone it to our faces, and started telling spooky stories whilst fucking), cuddles, and getting handfed are great to have and a comfortable environment for any man to flourish
Our anniversary is coming up on the 11th of this month, what should I get her?
>>702820442 cont. Last gf was 8 years older half asian very attractive but batshitcrazy ..wanted kids with me (im 26...) im was actually considering but all went to shit fast couldnt stand her crazyness anymore (she told me im the love of her life blabla ).. 1 month later some slavguy.jpg looking guy is fucking her and theyre in love now ......just kill me man dont show me the light and take it away
>>702821493 Because relationship with love is like you favourited pair of slippers - gets you comfortable as You are, understands You and allows You to be as You are, not changing shit, not fighting or any shit like that.
>>702819322 Yes, I asked the girl of my dreams to come to hawaii and help me grow weed and macadamian nuts. She already bought her ticket so we have a winter to spend in tropical paradise growing shit and fucking like rabbits
>>702822661 The worst was the fact that she has chronic hepatitis B. She wasn't ever going to tell me, until a routine blood test showed I had highly elevated liver enzymes. Fortunately it was unrelated and I had received a vaccine for hepatitis B before traveling a couple of years before I met her. But if I hadn't, there's a good chance I would have caught it from her.
This is the first time I'm saying this to anyone, I don't love my girlfriend that I've been with for 5 years now. I don't think I ever did either.
She's really nice to me and is an easy 8/10 in my view. But I don't know, I never felt that click with her. She's honestly just safe for me because I know she'll never cheat on me and I've already been an asshole for most of the relationship. Acting like I don't care or acting like I don't even love her but she still stays with me.
So I told myself I have an 8/10 girlfriend that won't ever leave me and I won't need to be alone. I guess I'll just stay with her. I also like having sex with her and she gives it almost whenever I want it.
Don't get me wrong though, I definitely love her as a person. It just feels more like the love you have for a friend.
>>702823045 If you refer to my kid as a mistake, his not. I care a lot about him and would not be without. Its not like I hate his mother, she is a good girl, I just don't love her. If she ever left I would'nt care. It would be sad for the kid though, guess thats why I'm still around her. I'm 32 and had a lot of gf's, never met one that I had feelings for. So why don't keep the girl who is a good girl, not a stupid cunt and clearly love me?
Just broke up with Gf of 7 months. We were in love. But she was generally an unhappy person. I would do great things for her, take her out on daytrips and spend a lot of quality time together. But then at the end of the day she would literally invent some shit to bitch about.
I told her that she needs to look deep inside herself, and start appreciating all the good things around her, instead of focusing her energy on one tiny bad detail.
At the end of the day im 22 years old, and im in college. As much as i did love her, i dont have time for literal bullshit, especially when i have my whole life ahead of, and im surrounded by a sea of women everyday.
Sep 26 would be our 1 yr anni. Long story short: op moved from ar to tx, exgf moved 3 hrs to be together. Exgfis straight edge. Op has drug problem. Op finds heroin. Op gets hooked. Op then finds heroin + coke and iv's daily. Op hides drug habit for 3 mo. Gf goes out OF town
Op on heroin and coke, became a sadist and playing to roughly ACCIDENTALLY KILled her cat. Big big fucking mistake. And so, op wanted to run.
She forgave op but it was rough after having to explain. Fighting. Op spirals down, exgf gets onto ops fbook (she said I left it open maybe I did), finds op talkin about dealing. And this was after OP broke up with Her out of anger and lack of sex.
Op starts using heavily and slangin back home (15+ hr drive).... after 1 week op wants girl back. Op visits. She had been on ops fbook that day. She kicked op out. Been trying to het ger back 2 months
>love my gf, but not really in love >can't imagine waking up with her every day >she's insecure and will randomly ask me about other girls, and then get mad, regardless of how I answer >every time we fight and I feel like we're gonna break up, I get legitimately sad >don't want to be with her, but don't want to be without her
>>702824547 She was born and raised in China. Apparently that shit is everywhere in Asia. Like 95% of the population has been exposed to it (it doesn't always turn chronic). They just don't see it as a big deal.
Moral of the story: watch out with those Asian bitches, anons. Make sure that bitch gets tested and make sure you got all your shots.
Yep, and it's completely mutual. I've been through some relations but I've never felt this. Me and her, it's like we live in symbiosis.
We understand eachother, we think the same things and I really feel that she loves me just as much as I love her. In the beginning of the relationship I was a jerk to her (without her knowing) and now I regret it more than anything. I've found something really really special.
My parents love her which is amazing, and my friends adore her and are all like "how did you find her" etc etc. She develops me and I develop her, I'm more creative and she's more logical and both of us feel so complete when we now have access to the missing part of ourselves. It sounds stupid as fuck even to me, but I just know that I will be with her for a very very long time, it's not impossible that I'll be with her forever.
Also, she's way hotter than me (for scale she gets around 3-500 likes on instagram and all of them are from her school/city, very popular.
Op became bipolar.ocd texts. Speedballs all day mean as fuck. Op saw dr and got on bupropion / lamictal a miracle combo. Op no longer on drugs. Op still trying. She ignores me 90% but said she 'might ' see me. Treats me like shit. Ignore her?
>>702819322 I haven't felt love like that in a long time. However, I feel sustained in my thirst. Draining women of sexual ambition till lust is like hunger, a nessisary need of life. But this thirst has left me empty, viod of any true warmth. Like the ashes of the dead, I'm dry and devoid of heat. The embers that may be are for those who I will see grow and prosper, without me. >>702825741
I was for more than 2years, when we started living together I saw that she is a fucking idiot. When you choose to live with someone, trust me, nothins is the same anymore and I personaly think that a LOT of females are not something you would like in your life and daily routines. You would be suprised how messy they are, how many bad habits they have, even own hygiene is bad sometimes, fights 24/7 over nothing, constanlty pushing my buttons because she is sometimes bored. They dont even fucking know what they want to trust me anons. I feel 10000x better as a single guy with casual sex once a month or twice depends, a litlle flirt and living life on my own. I wont go down that road again cuz I am not only one that heard that stories about females and living with them, its hell! And if you think I used to date worst females trust that I am the guy that gets call from girls to fuck them etc...so its not me being beta in relationships. I am not even suprised when I see some "lady" on front page of newspapper in bruises and being beaten, it was on my mind at least 100times to seriously beat gf, I mean those two that I used to live with. So. solution is to find someone to born you a child and have a child if you want, have sex and fun and romantic with girls when you need, fuck love fuck those sheets trust me
>>702825875 known each other since highschool, we dated for like 4 years then basically i got into drugs and partying. she moved to the states (i'm in ireland), we reconnected a few years ago while she was visiting family and have been pretty close messaging and long-ass phonecalls. she's invited me over to stay with her but irl shit's not great, money is tight, and i don't wanna drag her down after she got her shit together y'know. there's definately a vibe, we have fucked since reconnecting, but with a history as long and colourful as ours it's pretty complicated.
>>702825342 So I got off drugs only because I took bupropion and lamictal. A miracle u guys. But she lives 5 hours away. Ignores me last two months , mean as fuck. Made me suicidal. Meds fixed it. Last night she said she 'might" grab some coffee
>>702828678 So here I am two months later. Clean a week. Relatively happy. Bipolar fixed. What the fuck do I do? I have tried so hard. But drugs? She cant forgive . Do I ignore her a month? She responds 10% to a "have a nice day". Op is attractive w big dick so
>>702828803 Bupropion with lamictal. 1 of my junkie friends said "dude u are bipolar" the heroin and coke made me crazy. Lamictal saved my life. It got so bad I told her while crying , after scoring h and yayo, "WHY ARE YOU SO MEAN? IF I HAD AGUN ID SHOOT MYSELF"
In love with best (female) friend. I totally think she is the hottest girl in the world (even if she objectivelly isn't) but we keep fucking pther people, she even hooks me up sometimes. It's fucking shitty
There's this girl I have had crush on since the first moment I saw her in HS. Just today I met her after one year, talked a bit about life etc. and then hugged her. She was waiting for a kiss on the cheek, I guess. Since I am a total noob, I did not kiss her.
>>702829946 >>702829946 I am going 30 days no contact. I got clean. Its a miracle. I told her I love her unconditionally. Whereas prior to my psych meds id be a raging asshole due to this. But im mellow. She sees me trying. She sounds so sad every time I talk to her on phone (three times in a month) shes ignored last 3 calls. Im fucking lost.
I was mildly obsessed with my first crush for a few months. didn't work out
few girls since then that i've been attracted to but nothing ever flourished
24 now, not quite sure what love is or if it's real. been feeling urges lately to find a women, breed her and begin a family. it's a strange new urge to me, this must be like when women talk about their biological clock telling them to have a baby.
I have trouble talking to people. Boss at my last job pulled me aside one time and told me he had gotten a lot of complaints about me from other managers, but he didn't know how to handle the issue. I asked him to explain further and he said my short abrupt speech comes off as rude. Most of the time all I said is yes, no, or okay. He said my body language was aggressive and made people uncomfortable. Apparently you're not supposed to face people and make eye contact while they're talking to you?
Maybe I'm just too retarded and will be weeded out of the gene pool. Whatever. Nihilism and apathy are slowly consuming me anyway.
I have never experienced love that people describe as being totally high and so on. Me and my gf just kind of rolled in our relationship because we had a very good click and just liked eachother, it's like we are friends but then in a relationship.
Sometimes it makes me insecure because i have never had that "love drug" feeling, even for my gf, but then on the other hand I really like my gf and wouldn't have it any other way.
>>702830770 she's so beautiful (but so fucking hot at the same time), grey dyed hair, brown eyes, the prettiest nose and lips ever, gets dimples when she smiles, has the voice of an angel, goes off about things she's passionate about in her sweet voice and then apologizes for it when she notices it, she loved me for a year straight when i was with someone else. i don't fucking deserve her
>>702830800 Thank you. We argued all the time. I thought id rather sell drugs. So I did. And a week into it I thought "wtf have I done?" So u guys think intermittent "have a good day" to probable silence. Or hold my tongue. Ive literally told her I would do anything. I mean fuck, I didnt know I was bipolar shooting up every day. I quit that shit for ME. but just an example of what I will do to get her back. Ive poured my heart out to cruelty and 90% silence but she did not say No when I asked if I drove 5 hrs for a cup of coffee...."I might". 30 days no contact or keep getting kicked in the nuts by being ignored?
>>702831133 >>702831133 Also ive been unemployed forever. Part of the problem. I financially fucked her for awhile now shes drowning too. With a business degree and a cdl WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO? ive got $7 gas, food and my parents are maxxed helping me thru this
Fell in love. Didn't pan out the way I hoped. To be fair I had no game at the time. Still love her, which she's aware of, and we're still best friends, but she's moved on as far as that goes. Oh well. Still gettin' laid, so it could be worse. Just bury that shit deep down anons. Pour some whiskey on top of it if you must.
>>702819322 I haven't really been in love in... 13 years. Sure, every time a girl gives me any sort of attention I imagine how life with her would be but I'm mature enough now to realize it will never happen and experienced enough to swiftly knock ideas like that out of my head.
>>702831555 i won't, she actually tells me how scared she is that she's going to lose me everyday (even though things are okay between us), she's scared that she won't be as good as my ex (even when i tell her she treats me far better than my ex ever did), she reassures me every fucking day of how much she loves me, she's so fucking perfect man. i love her so much
In love with my best friend. For the past six years. She has been in a relationship with two of my friends since then and while we chill and hang out and have fun, the only thing i think about is being with her and kissing and carresing her. Was about to tell her about my feelings, but i just don't want to make things awkward. I still want her as a friend cause she's cool. Having lost the gene lottery and being of greatly inferior looks than her doesn't help much either. Fml
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