Please help me bros, idk if this girl really loves me or just feels bad...
I met her at the gym about a year ago (she works there) and we've grown so close. People even questioned if we're a couple because how close we were. The only bad thing is in 5'4" and she's about 5'5", a little bit taller than me. I've got good muscles though.
Anyway one day this 6'3" douche who I know from friends joins up my gym and he's a real Player. He took her up within a few weeks and about the same time I asked if she liked me or him.. unfortunately she chose him, and I overheard her saying she wouldn't go with me because she wanted a man she can "look up to" and "feel protected".. she didn't want me because I was short.. I been trying and loving her for a year and this tall chad douchebag gets her in a few weeks.
The guy was with her for a few months and she posts about them kissing, ontop of each other and being a fit couple etc... and even posted memes on Instagram like "when he's short and trys to lift to impress" and "when hes under 6ft", etc.. it broke my heart... she started ignoring me at the gym and I decided to get membership at another gym for a couple months.
Anyway fast forward to recently and the bastard cheated on her. After he cheated I noticed she deleted all those short-guy hate memes and slowly uploaded brokenhearted ones, plus ones like "being blind the whole time". She sends me the longest ass text saying she fucked up and she keeps crying every night thinking about me and how I didn't deserve it (I never replied) and she missed me, etc.. she's called me so many times and so many texts... she's pouring her heart out for me.
Idk what to do /b/ I loved this girl and still do but she broke my heart.. I mean what happens if he never cheated on her she would continue making fun of my height ignoring me and posting them two together.. idk what to do.... especially considering how much she's grovelled to me every day after he cheated. It's been over a month and she is still begging for me again. Even her work colleagues and friends have told me that she's not the same and say I'm the only one that can make her feel better again.
What do I do /b/?
I dont ever want to lose my virginity to her, only if i truly know that she loves me.
But she keeps crying and bedgging me back for over a month... surely she would be tired if it was just to get back at someone...
Talk to her and see how she really feels. Don't be afraid to ask her those questions. If your as close to her as you say then maybe she will admit she was wrong. If not then it just wasn't meant to be. But it sounds like she needs you. Also don't compare yourself or your relationship with her with the other guy, honesty might hurt too much. And it's not fair to you OR her.
22. Shes 19.
I wanted to wait til i find someone i truly love to lose my virginity but it seems all bullshit false happiness to me now. I had plenty of chances with sluts but didnt want them. This is the first girl i truly loved.
I know how she feels she feels shit and crap and wants me to be her 'last' boyfriend. Suddenly she wants me more than life itself.. it hurts me though
Its like im a security blanket foor her but shes been keeping this up for ages..
Maybe she truly does love me..?
Actual serious reply, ita a difficult one bro because on one hand she may have realized her mistake, learnt a lesson and changed with all the small guy hate might and shit coming from chad douche manipulating her i to it. Or she might still be the same as she was and wont be good to go out with. All said OP if uou dont try youl never know, maybe date her fora but but dont rush into a relationship. And if you do get into one domt be surprised if she mugs you off.
Me again. A bit more advice btw. All you need is 30 seconds of courage. Muster up everything inside you and be fearless for 30 seconds. Then ask her out. Don't be embarrassed if she turns you down.
I think most guys forget women have insecurities just like men do. Compliment her. They eat that shit up.
You're called a fallback dumbfuck, all you are is that one guy she knows likes her so she'll always have someone when her current leaves. The bitch dissed you and you think she likes you? You're getting played.
How can you love somebody that doesnt love you? Dont you love yourself?
Also stop waiting your faggot, women ARE slits to insert your dick, this will never change.
Just accept it and quality of life will increase significantly
This is jer most recent text to me... it made me think about everything.
She treated me pretty much like her boyfriend but she never seemed to eant to be with me but now she seems to cant live without me..
Its not just her saying this its her family and friends too.. idk if i should give her a chance after all shes done to me.
Dont do it weakling. She had his dick in him while she knew you loved her.
The only thing is you could fuck her now and cheat on her so you are even.
Wtf so i say? I dont want to come across that i actually am happy to hear from her or anything..
This sounds like good advice. But keep her in last chance saloon until you've seen her choose you over the next guy that hits on her, which is going to be inevitable given that she works in a gym full of chads. It won't take long to figure out whether she's fickle or whether she genuinely likes you. For the record, I don't really think she does love you like that, and not once in that text message does she actually imply she likes you, only that she feels guilty of stringing you along. But that means you have little to lose, so take the free bet.
FUCKING SAY. YOU FORGIVE HER, YOU EMOTIONFULL SON OF A FUCKING CUCK. AND TELL HER YOU MASTURBATED TO THE THOUGHT OF HER DOING LEG PRESSES YOU CUNT. I SWEAR TO FUCKING GOD IF YOU KEEP ACTING LIKE THIS IM KILLING MYSELF
"Are you for real? Like the shit I felt when you post that shit clearly aimed at me. Yeah he may have suggested and you did it to make him happy but everyday I checked on you cause I couldn't get over you. Every day I saw how little I meant then. That time will come again, it just will. Those are your true feelings. This bs now is alonelu heart and it's incredibly unfair. I cared for you, you know it.. Don't take advantage, have a shred of humanity in your next text, tell me how the fuck that can be forgiven and benefit me more than yourself?"
no she would not be tired, girls go far for that type of shit. also just take her back but fuck her you don't have to show her love if she wants you that bad just make her understand what you think and make her show regret
just fucking tell her you forgive her, but dont want to jump into a relationship, take shit slow see what shes actually like with you for a good month or so, take your time, the chad cunts gonna end up coming back at some point so you better hurry
Op here. Holy shit i didnt know how desparate she was. Shes coming over now and idk wtf to do im thinking of talking to her like >>702634180
Wish me luck bros. I'll keep yous updated
Ha looks pretty gay don't it.. Thinks fairy tales coming from this. She's had another man spunk in her for the last few months.. I well couldn't go there me.. She's swallowed his seman and everything
She's sad not because she loves you, but because she realizes how much of a douche she's been for the last year. She didn't respect you then, does she respect you now?
You should probably tie her up and fuck her. To teach her some respect.
ignore her. shes not worth it. the moment you give an inch she'll forget she ever did anything wrong and do it again. the next time she'll say she feels bad and thought about you the whole about how she hurting you and how bad SHE feels about doing to you again. but that wont stop her.
Dont ever talk to her. Never answer her calls or txt for any reason. She may even try to trick you with emergency shit.
99% of women will trade up if given the chance. This is why they arnt worth shit. She would have traded on the tall dude, she will trade up on you again. She will never be thankful for what she has. You dont have to hump and dump, just be a man about it and dont talk to trash. She is trash.
Shut up b4 I fuck you with a roll of quarters.
I will literally go to the bank, stand in line, withdrawal 10 dollars in a roll of quarters, find you and fuck you in the ass with it.
Fuck that bitch OP, it's not worth it, and if you're insecure about your height, I'd recommend combat boots, real men's shoewear, it will give you about 5 cm in height, I myself am 194 cm and those 5 cm in plus are just a nice side thing, God speed OP, bitches aren't worth so much heartache.
I feel your feels OP Ihad a similar situation that I (so far) won against like 3 guys that have taken my gril. But I do feel as if I am her " security blanket " but after the third guy never working out, she's warmed too me instead.
My advice is when she is "weak" you go in and comfort them and make them feel as if you are always a backup.
Soon if she fails at other relationships she will realize her backup was truly the one who even cares.
So, just be her "backup" because she'll learn.
Also,the only B word you call women is beautiful, because bitches love it when you call them beautiful
op best advice you'll get.
tell her this
bitch, fuck you and your chad. im the real alpha, ill bend you over his mom and fuck you in the ass till its red. then ill nut on his moms face while hes tied up. you have about 300 dick suckings to make up to me. Go
Well if I was in your situation, I would tell her no because I'm not a fucking beta crybaby. No offense OP but look for kther women. Don't go for the ones that are after looks or a long dick. You sound like the type of dude that doesn't want that kind of shit. If you're truly an alpha, just tell her no thanks, post dank fucking memes about her and move on : ^ )
tldr: Say no, & quit being a bitch
Meet up with her, nowhere classy, don't pay for shit. Maybe a low level diner, Chat for a while, casual shit. "How are you", etc. When it gets quiet, hit her with the 'Why did you do it?', 'Why are you suddenly running back to me'.
If you're pleased with her answer, take it from there. If not, cut all ties and tell her to fuck off.
Lets keep this thread going till update from OP. In the mean time, an ex.
when your heart is broken but you're too short to hang yourself because you cant reach the lowest branch
Shes decent anon, also those dubs also my ex lmfao
People make mistakes OP.
Give her a shot at loving you. What do you have to lose? End up getting your heart broken? She turns out to be a bitch? You'll figure her intentions out in no time.
But if there is a chance at real love, fucking do it. There's too much bullshit in this world already. Just text her "We need to talk." and meet up with her. Don't do this shit over text.
Good luck /b/ro
She's staying the night. She's already showered and in her sleeping clothes and just been crying. At the moment shes in the bathroom and im using my phone.
I think it will be a long night but all shes done so far is cry on my chest. What shit should i ask her before she gets back /b/. I may not reply again til later in the night.
Here's the thing OP. Not just for your situation but life in general. Pay close attention to how people treat you on the way up and when things are going their way cause that is the real them. What you see when they are on the way down is nothing more than desperation and they will grab on, say and do anything and it's all a lie.
just tell her that you're here for her now but you're not taking her back until shes had time to adjust to the shit, give it some time, you obviously still care for her and telling her to fuck offs out the question so just be there, give it 2-3 weeks and see what everythings like, if she is still mad bout you go for it, if she even mentions chad or even begins talking to him, stab the cunt, oh and if it all does go south and she does get back with chad, show him the messages
FUCKING UPDATE US WHEN SHE COMES BACK. DO IT ON YOUR FUCKING PHONE RIGHT INFRONT OF HER. FUCK SAKE UR SUCH A BITCH THATS WHY SHE DOESNT WANT YOU. MAN UP ASK HER, GET HER REPLY. LITERALLY FUCKING TYPE IT RIGHT INFRONT OF HER ON YOUR PHONE.
>caring this much about your height and what people think of it
if you let people saying meanie things about you being under 6 feet bother you then you deserve to get cucked by 6'6 chads hope when shes done crying at your house about how mean she was to you she calls the chad over to suck his dick in front of you while you cry in the corner
you idiot. she is crying because the guy she wanted cheated on her, not because she wants you. You are a waste of a dick and balls and betcha there are dykes out there that would kill to have them. Not fair to them
No offence OP but you're being stupid here. Tell her how you feel, straight and stern. Stop asking us to guide you, just do what you need to. Tell her sternly, no '...', no sad little pussy voice, just fucking tell her. She's fucked you over so hard. Do the same to her, literally or metaphorically, you choose.
Wait a minute she thinks she's spending the night? WAT
OP... March in there singing this ancient battle hymn...
>I WOULD WALK 500 MILES
>AND I WOULD WALK 500 MORE!
>JUST TO BE THE MAN WHO WALKED 1,000 MILES
>TO KICK YOU IN THE CUNT!
(You should be kicking/stomping her cooter at this point...)
>DA! DA! DA-DA! DA! DA! DA-DA!
>Caps hurt my feelings
It is understandable that it is hard. Push through it, there is no easy way through this. If it's braking you this hard, maybe you shouldn't see her, and move to another gym and find another women or you maybe should make up a decision to either comfort her, or if you are really desperate lead her on and have sex with her, but it is really up to you what you do.
Wow not even funny to make fun of people born that way. My little brother was born that way.
He was born with CAPS and he can't help but to use CAPS when he types. How dare you.
if you get back with her, you will view all tall good looking men a threat, and you will have only gained her by default. ignore her, or friendzone her, but do not repeat. she has shown her ugly, selfish self to you, and now she wants you back to make her feel better and not guilty...it is not about you.
WHY DID YOU NOT JUMP RIGHT IN THERE!!!
GO GET HER ANON !!!!
appreciate that you two are together now. In the end things have worked out. Remind her that and be happy.
the sad thing is that while you are in love with her and you think she is the perfect partner for you, sadly you are not perfect for her. its a sad reality that people soon understand given time. i would give up on her and move on, as previous anons have said its clearly a case of that she is feeling hurt and lonely cause her boyfriend cheated on her and she wants someone nice and will make her feel good in the mean time, so if you go with her, she will dump you in a month or two, find another cunt and repeat the circle
She's a bitch. Block that fag.
Choosing somebody you know for 1 month because of the "size" :^) over somebody else you know for a year is ridiculous and a total bitch move. Ignore her for the rest of her life. She deserves that.
so you met a bitch who is so dumb that all she can see is your height, chases another fucktard, gets fucked over, realizes she's dumb and comes back to you. She sucked other dick and made fun of "short" people(hell, she's short too). And you're asking what to do? It's simple, you idiot:
an hero, you're miserable and dumb too.
So... she's a vain bitch and didn't care enough about you with her douchecannon boyfriend to not post all that bullshit.
It might be hard, but if you don't walk away, you're a gigantic sucker. She already explained you don't have a chance.
Friendzone is about as high as you're going to get- BUT she's not remotely loyal enough to be friend material, so basically... fuck it.
OP here. This is how it went down.
>In the kitchen making tea when she appears through the doorway.
>Tells me that she made a huge mistake and wants to make up for it.
>Grabs me by fedora and pulls me in closer
>My feet are dangling as she pulls me an inch off the ground to kiss her.
>She reaches her hand down to my penor
>I splitting upon immediate contact
op here with an update.
We talked for a while and im planning to make things go slow. She understands this and said she'll wait however long it takes.
She's going to book some gym and health fitness events for us to attend to which is good in a way since its not just solely to get to know her or be with her. Luckily her mutual friends are mine as well so we should mostly all get a long (most of us are freakness freaks)
She cried and sobbed a bit more and talked about our 'future' together. Idk though.
She just cried until i heard her snoring lightly.. she cried herself to sleep while on me. And its now im looking at her and thinking how much i still love her.
Anyway she's asleep on my chest now. She's been awake since 4am this morning so im not going to wake her up.
Goodnight /b/ ill update in the future.
Stay strong dude. Don't get caught up in the moment and just take it as is. Take things slow. If you see signs of her flaking out on you again. Don't be a faggot be sure to Drop her this time and for good.
Don't get back with her. There are other girls out there. Do not reply or talk to her until you get with another girl. She is not and will never be loyal to you my man. Loyalty goes first, and if anyone violates it, cut them off forever. Get with her, she will use your kindness, and love to get better, and then cuck you hard again.
Don't do it op, do not get back with her. If you really have unfinished business and need to close that chapter, find some temporary girl and then reply to ex's messages and calls.
IF YOU FALL UNDER HER FEET YOU MIGHT AS WELL KILL YOURSELF YOU STUPID FUCK
Look, turn her down and MAKE HER SUFFER. She fucked with this chad motherfucker, knew you loved her, and she didn't care. Get with some slut, and show off right in front of her. If she wants to mess with your feels like that, then do the same.
honestly bro, even against my better knowdledge I wish you the best of luck. Keep us updating sometimes, I`ll be cheering for you.
op you're a cuck. She is feeling bad now and needs you to get over chad. the moment she finds another chad, you are dead to her again. She will remember you for sure, when chads fucks her over again. Do not be a pussy you fucking faggot cuck. When she wakes the fuck up next morning, tell her she needs to leave and not contact you again.
Tell her you talked to her and calmed her down to spare her more heartache or something.
Cut her out. Of your whole life. Forever. You're a pussy and she is not done hitting the pinata that is your weak cucked heart.
Fucking faggot honestly.