Well it's not like mind control, you can't just cause an emotion that has no basis for existing to occur. You need to have some kind of leverage or angle of attack to cause the emotion in the first place.
But basically, if you CAN cause an emotion in someone through some action, words or expressed belief, ect, then that's how you do it. But that isn't always advantageous.
Like, it's easy to make a person pity you, just do something pathetic, but... do you want them to pity you? Does that help you in any way?
On the other hand, you could concoct a bunch of lies over some period of time that makes people think the world has wronged you and they should help you - but it only works if they're that kind of person.
It's really quite obvious when you think about it, it's just most people don't feel any desire to do it.
>>702534441 Nah fam, I'm in a relationship where I feel like I'm the one being controlled. Not in the 'cuck' way, but more in the way of caring about the other. It's like the one that cares the least is also the one that has the most power over the other. I have to learn to stop caring I think
>>702535034 Ah, good that you are still in that phase of a relationship. I know exactly how you feel, I care to much about my girlfriend. And let's just say it lets me look like a whiny bitch who writes her every 5 second.
Sometimes the best you can do is ignoring her for a week. If she wants to talk to you, talk to her. But don't chase her. I know it's hard, but I think I ruined my relationship with Caring to much.
Hi OP. I'm not sure if you're asking how to control another person's emotions to get out of a perceived manipulative relationship, or if you want to turn the tables and make your girlfriend care about you as much as you seem to currently be obsessed about her.
But let's start with the latter. Let's say you want your girlfriend to be in your shoes, and not just for a mile or two. You are first going to need to start injecting yourself into her life on a regular basis in a way that her routines revolve around you more regularly. This will be hard to do if you're already seen as clingy or obsessive, so try to tone it down and just do something simple like talk to her for five minutes every morning to let her know you care about her. Routinely visit her work place at lunch break (if she has one) and bring her a lunch. Make a point to talk to or do something with her every weekend. It doesn't have to be big - it can be as simple as eating dinner together at home. You get the idea. Eventually she will get so used to these, she'll see them as part of her life. You'll be part of her life. She'll look forward to these events if she cares for you, and she may feel empty if they don't occur.
And now let's go with the former. Controlling another's emotions to get out of a relationship.
This isn't the way to go. You get hurt, they get hurt, it takes too long, it's too messy. Approach her directly and speak to her face to face. Tell her you need to speak to her privately. This is best done on a weekend, when you both will have time to vent afterward.
Just tell her straight that you feel the relationship is one-sided and you no longer want to be with her. Nothing else has to be said.
>>702536196 Hory shet that's exactly what happened to me, but it ended up going well for a bit, and one day she fucking loves me and the other day she's doesn't give a fuck. I'm not chasing her anyway when she's being such a bitch but it's pretty annoying
>>702536384 Wow thanks that's actually a good advice >>702537132 Yea it's funny how /b/ can actually be a place where you can be heard and interact without judgement, and it can also be one of the worst places of the internet (exept deep Web stuff ofc)
>>702536196 If she says that she doesn't know if she loves you, then she doesn't. Don't play stupid games like ignoring her for a week or some middleschool bullshit like that, just break up with her and move on to someone worth your time and energy. If you think she is someone worth your time, then you need to work on yourself lad.
And like >>702537449 said, before you start with my routines, make sure you look at yourself as if you were a bystander. See what makes you special or unique. Most people like to think there's nothing special about themselves, but there's always something they excel at. Maybe you like to cook; start cooking meals for her often. Maybe you play an instrument; start doing covers of songs you know she likes and play them for her after she gets home from work. Maybe you work out and your pecs have pecs. Show yourself off to your girl, but more importantly, get her involved somehow. Ask if she'd like to go jogging or hiking. Don't bring her to the gym, though. Besides, chicks dig nature.
>>702536196 >She said she don't know if she still loves me. You not see?, She doesn't love you anymore, and is not her fault or your fault the feeling simply ended like everything in life who has a beginning and an end. Remained the good memories, the learning, you are afraid of losing something that you not even have anymore.
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