I've tried hooking up with different girls and the same thing happened as last night, 2 girls were naked in my bed and i couldnt get hard and have sex with them. any one else pathetic and impotent? anyone know any cures? i can get hard when I jack off but I just cant when I hookup with girls
Yes I'm impotent
I know I'm not gay
I've had sex with girls before
But I would often get soft while fucking
It got to the point where I just didn't get hard at all
Since then I'm cold and alone
I used to get nauseous and throw up when I was about to have sex, all because of nerves. I didn't think I was nervous, but it still had an affect on me. You just have to calm down, get your fucking dick wet, and impale these bitches
i cant fuck someone unless we are in a relationship or clearly heading there.
dosent feel right.
like i get a boner and all but when we get to the sex part i just instantly lose the boner
Don't take nitrates with Viagra unless you want to die OP you dumb fuck
Nitrates = Vasodilation (dilation of the blood vessels), which leads to hypotension. It's used for people with chronic heart problems.
Viagra = Vasodilation, sure get your dick hard but do you really want to add low blood pressure over already low blood pressure (nitrates)?
Don't be a dumb fuck OP
This, this, and this. You fried your brain (literally, look it up) with too much porn. Stop jerking off so goddamn much and you'll be rock hard when the real thing happens.
Yep, I have had that too a few times.
Definitely nerves for than anything else.
I was getting close with a chick way out of my league, and when it came time to finally jam it in, I choked. She dumped me a week later :(
quit the porn. why would you need it anyway if you can get threesomes that easily? to embarass yourself by being a limp dick?
or imagine that you're in a porn scene if you're so much into it. although that's a rather shitty solution for porn addicts
Hey man, don't stress it only makes it worse.
My dick is pretty much broken and I have no libido, so i know how it is.
Mine is a bioloigical problem, had it for a year and a half and it has ruined my life.
Yours is likely paycholigcal and easy to fix,
Stop watching porn, completely.
First two weeks will be tough, but after that it becomes easier.
Afterwards, fap to your imagination, plain stuff like penetrating a girl you know.
When you are with the girls, relax and take it slowly.
Do not think about what they might be thinking, in fact, don't think of anything.
Just do what you feel like, if you have the urge to touch their thigh, do it, explore, If you want to kiss them, do it.
Make them come with your hand or mouth first, it takes the pressure off and you can do what you like.
Concentrate on the sensations, the smell, the softness and warmth of her skin, her voice as she moans, her hair, how her lips feel on yours.
Don't think about your dick, your dick works fine and can take care of itself.
If you think about your dick, it will deflate because the blood is in your brrain instead.
With practice, you'll be fine.
I get the same way if I've had too much to drink. When I'm taking a girl home and I know I've had too much to drink I stop at the gas station and grab a pack of those sex pills. They make your heart beat unnaturally, but you're hard as a rock. The best imo is Yohimbee, grab it at GNC and shoot a couple droppers full into your water bottle, then chug it. Also makes your heart beat unnaturally but makes your dick so hard it hurts. pic related
Maybe you're a hands-on kinda guy. For exmaple, I enjoy oral on a woman, fingering, kissing, pretty much everything except the actual fucking. I get turned off quick. But everything else gets me rock hard.
i had that happen a few times
as gay as it sounds you need an emotional connection, not just a piece of meat to fuck
i got some pretty hot chicks in bed and i could barely keep it up with them, it was shitty, in contrast to awesome day-long fuck sessions with my ex gf of 4 years whom i once fucked 7 times in 24 hours
casual fucking is for noobs and desperate people, you gotta wear a rubber, you dont know what she likes, she doesnt know what you like, nobody puts in a lot of effort, it's way better when you connect and know someone.
case in point my current gf who i fucked on the first date, i barely got it up and it kinda sucked even though she's hot as fuck and young (22y/o), after a few weeks we kept going out and stuff and it became amazing, im going to her place tonight and i cant wait to lick her allover and stick my dick in all her holes to drive her crazy
find someone who isnt completely fucked up and build something more
do you have !morning wood ever?
if you aren't ejaculating and don't have morning or daytime erections, you need a urologist.
Ask for a full hormone panel blood test.
Don't let them give you exogenous testosterone, make them try all tests first. if you are young, you don't want to be on testosterone for the rest of your life.
there is probably a solution for you.
You have what's called Performance Anxiety.
You're worried if you'll be any good before you have a chance to be any good. Or you worry that the girls will make fun of the size of your penis.
Get a cock ring. Once you have it on, have the girl stroke your meat. Have the head teased and rubbed. Once it feels good and she's not saying anything, your fears are unfounded. And with the cock ring, you won't go soft too soon.
And once you forget your worries, you'll be pounding that ass like nothing else.
i have same problem as op
but thank you dude this post very helpful
seriously man thank you
OP, don't jerk to porn for a while and your boner troubles in bed will go away.
Stop beating off every 5mins and give that shit a rest...seriously, don't touch yourself for a week or so and that should sort the whole mess out, if not maybe make an appointment with your doctor and go from there
This guy knows his shit, I had the same problem when I was younger, it's because you jack off too much, give that shit a rest for a few weeks 2-3 and you're good to fuck. I would also suggest buying a fleshlight instead of jacking off. It will prevent this from happening again in the future.
You're gay man. Used to happen to me too. I'd try to hook up with girls and take 20 mins to get an erection or go soft half way through sex.
Started sucking dicks and getting fucked in the butt and now I have no problems staying hard.
I seem to always lose 30% of my boner during the moment when I'm putting a condom on.
I've tried everything, the condom is always a boner-kill.
OF COURSE I WILL NOT FUCK WITHOUT ONE. NEVER.
I just hate the decrease I get when putting it on. It's not sexy to me. Putting something on my dick kills my concentration somewhat and it just isn't the same boner I had before I put it on.
Such is life until I find a way to stay as super horny with a condom on as I am just before it.
Yoooo, a little while back I fucked these two bitches until I couldn't fuck anymore but they kept begging me to fuck even more!!! I told them the only way my shit was gonna get hard again was if they eat each other out.
Man, as soon as the one chicks face touched the other chicks pussy I was instantly back in the game!!
I don't get down one a lot of lesbo porn but there's something about experiencing it in person that does the trick.
It's a lot like a live concert!
You tell those two dirty girls the next time they're visiting Orlando...."Holler at me!" If you wanna come watch I will show you how it's done, too. Who knows....maybe you like that and we can fuck them together. High-fives across their backs bro!!!! Lol.
It's a psychological erectile dysfunction, just don't porn unless its POV. Best to use your imagination and only fap every 3 days or something.
When you're in bed just completely relax, start moving in slow motion, don't think or worry.
Outcome will be better than if you were worrying about your weiner.