Because after we broke up she didn't want to date me right away. So she met a guy and then dated him until she realised he was a dick. Then we pretty much dated but never made it official because she wasn't ready to get tied down. Then she met a guy at a convention and she started liking him. 2months later after I propose a break after she rudely sat o. Her cellphone the entire time we were out on her birthday , she fucked her boss. She liked him more than she let on and when she finally asked him about dating he turned her down. So now the nice small city guy(me) isnt dating g the girl I love because she wanted to see what somendouche from l.a. was really like.
>>702346725 because i'm tired of doing the same stuff over and over.
>meet a girl >fall in love >stay together >get accustomed >continue growing while she stays the same >still kinda love her but i can't say it anymore >become frustrated when she is content with being mediocre >things fall apart >melancholy when thinking about all she could have been >all we could have been >get over her >repeat
happened 5 times in my life, i'm not sure i want to waste my time like this again. i just try to break things off neatly shortly after falling in love, just before i decide to stay with her.
I decided to take a break from the pursuit of women 4 years ago. I didn't intend for it to last 4 years, but the truth of the matter is it's been the happiest 4 years of life--for many reasons not just the lack of women-related stresses being a constant thorn in my side.
I've come to find that I kind of like having my queen-sized bed all to myself. I kind of rather be alone at night if it means I'm not being nagged at. It's nice to be able to get up whenever I want on the weekends. It's great actually having money saved in the bank instead of constantly being pressured to do "fun" things that cost a bunch of money.
I guess it also bares mentioning that the few women that have gone out of their way to convey any sort of interest me since seemed to really just want something out of me, money/kids, and that also sours my outlook at dating right now.
There's part of me that kind of misses the whole bf/gf dating thing, but y'know... as the years have gone on... that voice has gotten softer and softer.
Because my last girlfriend left me after an emotionally heavy funeral that left me in more of as more of an emotional wreck than I was before. She's recently told me that she has discovered other guys aren't as nice and that she regrets leaving me. I have told her that I want her out of my life despite me still being deeply in love with her which is an issue when I'm dating/ fucking other people
You don't have a GF because you're so socially inept that you spend your nights trolling /b/. I'm only here to laugh at the posts like this because I have a wife who's great to me and I discovered /b/ after I was married, and /b/ entertains me.
Trust me, if you find anything here on /b/ interesting to you - whether it's the porn that's posted, or the stupid ROLL THIS TO GET THAT games, or trying to figure out what a card stand is or a finger box is, you're already about 10 steps behind anyone who actually has the social skills to get a GF.
My advice for this thread is that you should stop spending your nights on /b/ and go out and do something. Meet a girl somehow, and do it without referencing anything on the internet. Start with the piggy friend of the hot girl and work your way up from there. If your ideal GF is someone you only know from a picture - or from a friend of a friend - you're setting your sights too high.
Your soulmate is not someone you met before you were 24. If you think that's true, you're just a dumb infatuated kid and you need to expand your horizons.
Small town? Go outside that town. Out of shape and nasty? Improve your shit, it's not hard, and the first step is to get off this fucking place.
Women don't care about your ability to post memes to /b/. The decent ones don't really even care about how you look or your dick size. They don't care if you like video games or anime.
They just care about how you treat them. Learn to cook. Take care of yourself and look proper. Get a job and move out of your parent's house. Struggle with your lifestyle and don't get in debt. You may not make any of this happen before you're 30, but truth be told, once you have it together the chick you liked when you were 24 will look like shit compared to the girls that you meet when you have your shit together.
Are you in high school? Then anyone you meet there will be nothing to you in 5 years.
Are you in college? Then anyone you meet there will be nothing in 5 years.
Are you 25 and out in the real world working for $15 an hour at your first job? Then the girls you meet may have a chance.
Don't be a dick. Be a man, not an Alpha or Beta but just be honorable and treat a girl right and realize when she's a shit storm and realize when she's a keeper. And during your fucking period, keep a condom on your dick so you don't impregnate her and be stuck with that slob for the rest of your life.
Because I don't need a woman to make myself happy I'm not even happy now, I'm not keeping my body healthy, I'm not keeping my mind exercised with personal study and it's come to the point that I don't give a shit about my self If I don't give a shit about myself how can I care for another woman? I don't love myself so I don't see how any other person can, and if I someone happen to get into a relationship it wont last because I hate myself so much I'll just ruin it. But I wont be better of with a woman, I'd have to share the little I have and one day she might leave me which would make things even worse. I get sad and anxious when I see pretty women, and I know what I'm missing out on.
I am not able to express my emotions seriously without either turning them into fucking jokes or by denying them completely hence I am affraid to open to people for I am scared of them turning away from me when they find out who I actually am and realize I am not as I pretend to be
>>702346725 i have 2 girlfriends living a double life i never complain they are both on jobs right now just chilling snoring cocain i have all the money i could dream of it bothers me to hear so many disliking girls it is all life is about i dont understand you guys
Where the fuck do i find one that isn't degenerate
I mean christ dude
I've tried mutual friends, asking girls our in public, fucking even cuck online dating. I just cannot fucking do it. I always get fake internet girlfriends but I want something real damn it
I don't wanna hire an escort because then ill just want sex even more. I have no fucking interests because I have no god damn direction because ive just been shit on for so long the only way I'm content is by not having any expectations so i never get let down
Fucking Jesus is a cute loving gf really so much to ask for?
Because it seems I can't open myself enough to trust someone and because I keep avoiding and declining every romantic date or situation I might involve myself in. Listening to the girls I've been with I am a passionate and handsome man, for friends I'm a terrific lover capable of conquer every woman I want to and yet I still can't manage to feel attracted to someone enough to grow that feeling of trust and love.
>>702350211 if i didnt think this was bait, the following would be my response--yet you're here on /b/. your wife must be radiant, to keep you so entertained. good luck with the inevitable divorce, conformist brainwashed preppy wannabe normie. After your marriage where will you be? right here on /b/ superiorfag. hopefully at least then you might redeem yourself and become anhero.
Reminder that if you are looking for a shy girl: your only chance is during school years otherwise once school life is over, those "shy" girls will be picked up by other guys and all your chances of finding someone like yourself is over.
Anyway, never dated anyone, virgin 20, and a girl shows interest, I kinda show interest but didn't seal the deal because I was nervous and an idiot. I have trouble showing people affection and stuff > fear of rejection, insecurity, etc
So I decide I will ask her out once college gets back in session. Well, over the summer she probably thought I wasn't interested and got a bf. So yeah, smart, pretty, funny girl that I had so much in common with I let go because I was scared.
My lover, misery… She was too alluring to refuse Her offer of what lies beyond So I took her hand and held her close She showed me wonderful things And promised me eternity If I would promise eternity with her Just a taste… And she devoured me Just a taste… And all I’ve been left with is Self hatred… The only thing I wanted Just a taste… Of the abyss https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tK76VZM7XcY
Why are people who are non virgins depressed if they break up? You got to fuck a girl and not become a mid 20's virgin so deal with it! Think about the unfortunate ones who never experienced any love during school years and that the only females who they can fuck now are wrinkly aged women
Never had a girlfriend. Only one night stands. FML. Seriously....fuck. My. Life. I looked good as a kid, but then my nose decided to grow like fucking Pinocchio making my face 30% nose and I'm not even a fucking Jew. Each chick I've asked out I got rejected. EVERY. FUCKING. TIME. Even drunk ones reject me. At this point, I'm gonna seek out blind chicks because fuck normal chicks.
>>702350211 Fuck that shit. I'm not gonna work my ass off to get a lady. It shouldn't be that fucking hard, but some fucking reason it is. PLUS why the fuck do I want to marry and risk divorce 4 years down the road? Fuck that shit. I'm not gonna even waste my time, fuck this advice. Fuck you as well pal. Go gloat on about how I'm a fucking loser, I don't give a fuck. I'll just rape your wife and call it good. At this point, fuck this whole earth and everyone on it.
>>702361748 It's a step in the right direction, but they're still pretty passive. In another 5 years they'll hopefully be actively seeking out guys to fuck rather than waiting for the fuck they desperately want.
>>702361876 Depends how desperate you are for a fuck. If you need a fuck, you go for it at every chick and deal with the 90% rejection rate. If you aren't, you cbf it, live your life however the fuck you want and let things pan out and if the right opportunity arises you take it.
I could get a girl if I wanted. I'm no looker, but I know where to find gals who are into my type. (There are in fact girls out there with a fetish for fat hairy small-dicked autistic computer nerds, and even if there weren't, my down-to-earth personality helps my case.) I've even been hit on a few times. Some of them were guys, but I'm bi, so that's fine.
But I've rejected all of them. And sure, I creep on sexy people sometimes, but I'd never want to do anything with them. The reason is simple: I'm not mentally stable enough. I don't want to hurt anyone emotionally or do anything I might regret. I don't want to burden anyone else with my daddy issues and inferiority complex. I'd rather just be alone. Relationships are too threatening and don't seem worth the trouble.
>>702361876 let me try to explain. as a man, it comes off as desperate if you try really hard to build rapport and ask a girl out if you dont give it enough time. most girls have a bunch of guys in the maybe zone, and they dont like to be rushed into a decision. thus if you are constantly messaging them or spending a lot of your effort on them, its threatening their freedom.
instead try to build an attractive lifestyle, groom yourself, have a decent personality and subtly show off wealth/talents if you have any.
Sure, make the first move in terms of introductions so you're both comfortable around each other, then stop. if she shows an interest in you and makes a move on you, then by all means go for it (and be direct about it. draw the ground rules early so things aren't in a blurry zone). otherwise move on. you dont have all day to waste chasing women who are "maybes"
it is the folly of our generation of men to be going around chasing girls, when they should be making something of themselves. around mid 20s to 30s the balance tips and males are typically worth more, now that career goals are being met.
as for girls, their value diminishes over time as guys place more emphasizes on looks as opposed to other more subtle features.
just make sure you dont end up with a slut whose been around the block, realizing her value is diminishing and settling with the white collar beta for financial stability.
I like being myself, but women don't like who I am. Why would I change who I am, just so I can waste my money taking care of a grown unrelated woman who can take care of herself? I would rather be alone and keep my money.
Because I'm a boring human being that's too lazy to do anything with his life, and is too afraid of rejection (previous attempts to ask someone out on a date has ended up with people that I was getting along with not even wanting to even talk to me anymore)
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