The fact that I'm ugly I'm unattractive to all girls I have no creative drive I'm a virgin The fact I don't care that I'm a virgin The fact I have no friends I know I will be alone forever and have accepted that fact Yea life is pretty bad
Ive had än awful week I have got so many issues with my body (pain in ear, hand, suspicious mole, bad limbs etc) but the healthcare system is so fucking slow and shit (Sweden) i can't get anything fixed, ive been stressing a lot because of this (especially since i might have skin cancer but i wont get a time to have it looked at/removed) and i had like a breakdown earlier today, had some family worrying, just really felt down since nobody seemed to care or notice that i was super stressed and upset
>be me >be a useless, boring, and uninteresting fucking faggot >meet cute girl >girl seems to like me >holyfuck.jpg >friend tells her how I feel because I'm a fuckimg idiot >she says she finds me pretty cute >HOLYDICKNIPPLESBATMAN.mp4 >BUT she doesn't want to leave her bf >ImOKwiththis.dll >wait around talking to girl almost everyday >things be good >we start to talk less and less >meh maybe she is just busy >she breaks up with bf and posts stuff on Whisper about some guy >IT'S HAPPENING! >ditchs me for a drug addict >nigga wat >fast forward to july >breaks up with new bf >decide to actually try >ask her out >"I'm so sorry anon but no, I just don't feel that way about guys. I was pretending to like guys" >literally the day after my friends are talking about her (note they barely know her) >killme.avi >go to school today >friends joke about me having her in classes >tfw she is in one if the classes I didn't think she would be >tfw she is assigned right in front of me
Oh yeah and my friends now don't want to talk to me. So I ask this question /b/. Why am I so fucking useless?
>>701012415 well i'm generally depressed and have shizophrenia but the last few days i felt really good. but then i made a mistake... i was super bored a few hours ago and i started to browse the interwebs. i found some videos of christina grimmie on youtube and then i realized i actually never listened to a single song from her. watched https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QfifaWeiem4 and i just realized how amazing she is. then i just remembered that she was shot. started to cry and now i'm sad af... this incident showed me once again how fucked people are... i have some sort of trust issues which is also my reason for being depressed... its probably nothing special for you guys and i know that i've never met christina personally and i've never been an actual fan... but thats what you call depression i guess
>>701012415 another night thinkin about my ex-gf, missin her somehow. sitting here, looking on my phone considering to text her like every 10 minutes, just to remind myself were separated, shes pretty sure lying in another guys arms and we cant be back together.
>>701015716 I don't know what's wrong with me I can't have fun doing anything any more And for some reason I just don't give a shit about stuff and a really bad "I don't care about anything" personality
I just want to die I don't have a job I don't have a license. I'm not going to college. No drive to do anything everything is a chore, all I do now is drink and listen to music, friends don't want to hang out anymore and I suck at making new ones. Probably join the army
>>701012415 I love my girlfriend but I think I need a break and want to see other women. But i cant just do that to her, shes the sweetest normie on the planet and I'm living with her all of next year. Meanwhile I can't help but accept and go with every single girl who flirts with me to the point of receiving nudes and talking about having sex soon cause I had only shitty retard relationships (and only 2 of those) my whole life till now. Why penis why
Cat hasn't been home for a couple days, assuming the worst. He has a tendency to do this but never quite this pattern, hopefully he has just been coming home to eat and drink then taking off. Probably the worst place to post this but fuck it no one else gives a shit anyway
>>701016732 i already made the biggest mistake i could make
>was almost over her, like really >friend of mine met her at a festival - with her ex >he told me some days later about this >got drunk and high >went over to her at 4am >woke her up to talk with her >she said im too drunk, i should go to sleep - but we wont have sex or smth >as we woke up, we got horny >we had sex >said goodbye again
things went well until some days ago. the feels came back somehow. i know i shouldnt text her. i know this cant work. but it feels like ive made a huge mistake breaking up
>>701012415 Fuck I just made a thread like this without seeing this one. I'll just post here.
My list of problems are fucking endless and if anyone could give advice that would be great (or feel better about yourself because you're not going through this shit whatever).
First off I'm FAT AS FUCK. Like over 300 pounds fat. >inb4 "go gym lose weight" I have tried that but my anxiety gets in the way... you'll see why this is a problem soon. I absolutely hate my body and it depresses me to no end that I am like this. I have been trying to lose weight since I was 8, even being sent to a fat camp for a month when I was 9. I have severe depression and social anxiety which actually might be Avoidant Personality Disorder according to my doctor. I CANNOT be around people in any shape or form and guess what? I HAVE TO START A NEW FUCKING COLLEGE IN 2 WEEKS. If I don,t I will be kicked out of my house by my mother with whom I live. The anxiety it gives me thinking about it makes me want to kms. I don't leave the house for months on end (why I don't go to the gym). I have no friends (not in the cute loner way, more like I literally don't have any fucking friends) and my relationships with my family have broken down (apart from the one with my mum). My family even accused me of using my sexual assault as an excuse to not go to college and said it was my fault. Oh, and they said they expected it to happen to my much slimmer and prettier sister. I do not speak to anyone that I know and have done for years. I'm also broke (another reason why I can't sign up for a gym) and homeless (living in emergency accommodation atm). Any job that involves people (which is like all of them) is a no go. This fucking problem I have gets in the way of everything. I have deep emotional trauma from when I was bullied both physically and mentally in secondary school and I believe this is why I have such a problem with people now. To top it all off, I'm also a kissless virgin (excluding the rape).
>>701017678 TLDR: Fat as fuck, broke as fuck, can't talk to people, was raped, was bullied, very alone, might have AvP, kissless virgin, have to start college soon and I am suicidal from all of the above :)
>Gf of near 6 years broke up with me >I'm a useless NEET despite being pretty smart >Has no ambition >No friends >Socially inept >Girls not interested in me even though I'm a good 7.5/10 >Wasting my potential on image boards instead of doing something with life
Everything. I'm fucking 18 years old and I don't want to live anymore, fucking shitty life. I would kill myself now but tomorrow it's my mom's birthday and I don't want ruin it. Sorry for my shitty english Argentinian fag here.
any alphas here? been hitting it off with this chick at work really well. Work at a small business ( 5 people) We had to catch up on some stuff so ended up staying late together and knocked it out. Grabbed some drinks after. Ever since shes been extremely flirtatious. Has bf and likes to bring him up a decent amount ( usually to complain about something he did that bothered her), but goes out of her way to get involved in what I'm doing. Tons of body contact and obvious flaunting of ass and tits.
Wat do? Don't want to make shit weird at work if shes just seeking attention, but also want to get up in that ass. Her boyfriend is a fat fuck hick so not really worred about him.
>>701018115 I should clarify that there wasn't any penetration. Although the police and my therapist say that it is rape and that I shouldn't downplay it (fuck knows why. It was more like sexual assault).
>be me >vacation to California for kids first birthday with wife, kid, and best friend >staying with wife's family >supposed to go back to Oklahoma (where we live) >doesn't happen >stuck in California >can't go back >no monies >me and best friend are hated by family >gets kicked out >on the streets searching where to go night to night
>>701017890 well i could stop whenever i wanted too. but if i take medication i lose my drivers license, couldnt live alone, maybe quit my job etc. >>701017962 same here. my mother is actually the only reason i'm alive. she went into very deep depression after my grandma died and if i'd an hero she would too. if that happened my whole family would be detroyed bc of me. i dont want that. i just want my life to quit and not other peoples life. >>701018519 sorry to hear that bud. trust me college is a great way to start things from scratch. i did the same when i went to uni even though i'm depressed. >>701018687 fuck you then. you got what you deserved. harsh but thats the truth.
That my girlfriend broke up with me because I'm 6'2" and very broad because "if I ever decided to have my way with her she wouldn't be able to stop me" even though before and after that she said she knew I wouldn't do anything like that just the fact that I could
what is bothering me is >be me >find a qt girl on online game >she from the country imma live in in the near future >she is older than me by one year or so >i try to hint that i like her by spamming honey alot >she replies sometimes with sweetie and hun >idk what to do anymore >adv me fellow anons
Caught my girlfriend txting her ex that she wanted him to come over while I was at work to fuck. The only reason I found out is because I grabbed the wrong phone before going to work and read the messages.
> show back up at the apartment while she still sleeping > wake her up to tell her what I found out > tell her to start packing all her crap and get out of my place > crying but she does > call her mom to pick her up > waiting for her mom shes crying she's sorry that she didn't want me to find out > Is that supposed to make me feel better?? > mom finally picks her up and they leave around 8 a.m > fuck it I'm not going to work today > spend day drinking and feeling sorry for myself > find out I still have her phone on my couch > fuck it I'm already hurt I don't want to get worse so I leave it alone > hear a knock at my door at around 5 p.m. > she's back still crying > what do you want now? > says she sorry and doesn't want to lose me > whatever > promises to delete everything if that would help me trust her again > no > making a scene outside and I don't want to get in trouble I let her back in > still crying that she loves me and blah blah blah > ends up falling asleep while crying
She still on my couch asleep. don't get me wrong I do love her, and I woulda done almost anything for her but now I don't trust her and I don't know what to do. part of me wants to just end it between us but the other part doesn't. so I'm stuck on a wall do I keep her or do I just let her go?
I am 19 and still a virgin.. And I can't understand why. I am at least a solid 8/10, maybe it's because I'm very skinny? Tryina go to the gym next month to gain weight. The most depressing part is that I don't even mind fucking or not, I mean, surely it would be great, but what's bothering me the most is the lack of relationship. I would love to fucking cuddle with my gf, talking about stupid shit, going on holiday together, etc, even if that would mean no sex.. Lets add the fact that I'm in love with my best friend (girl), who in turn friendzoned me. I am talking about the girl who I fell in love the most until now. Maybe the problem is that I am that kind of "tough" guy who is always right, never show any weakness or shit like that, or maybe because I have to know very well a girl before I actually become interested in her... Fuck my life, /b/
>>701019154 But again, the thing that bothers me the most is the fact that I am noto ugly, instead I am more than good-looking. What the fuck is my problem? I will go to the gym soon, but I don't think this will fix things
>>701019150 i asked her about her fb and any other social netshit,she said she doesn't have any (i'm not sure she is being a liar ) , she speaks with her best female friend on viper tho so idk i'm still away from that.
I saved my ex life several times by talking her out of suicide but she breaks up with me because she "Doesn't want to hurt me anymore" now she's with some no future pot head that she doesn't really like too much and I'm spending my nights alone talking to you faggots.
>>701016777 TRIPS! But I guess I've gotta contribute...
I have no friends. The only friend I ever had moved out of my school, and after that I went to his house like once a year.
My brother is literally a demon. I don't mean literally as in he's really awful. I sincerely believe that he was put onto this earth to make everyone around him feel like shit. Even the times he's nice to me, I'm always thinking, "These times are just so I don't get so angry, I kill him." He constantly fights, he talks about all of his friends behind their backs, and he's generally an assbasket.
My family's poor because my grandma quit her job and my mom's working jobs at TJMaxx and 7-11.
I'm generally considered an outcast at my school. That guy no one talks to. Hell, in elementary, they had a phase with the 'Marcus Touch.' Guess whose name is Marcus.
I'm pretty sure I have a small dick.
I'm a quiet white kid who goes through that shit. I should be a school shooter.
I probably would be if I wasn't constantly happy as all hell. Man the fuck up.
I'm 21 and still live at home My gf is moving to the USA I love her and spending time with her but I keep cheating on her and the guilt is making me depressed but when I get depressed I get lonely and cheat on her She's the only person I can open up to and talk to and I can't. I really dislike her brother but I have to keep up this buddy buddy bulshit with him I left school at 14 and every attempt to get back to education has failed now I have a meeting with lawyers about the funding I received and me paying it back since I never did the shit cause I fucking suck
Also it hurts when I piss and Pokemon Go is laggy cause I live in the arse end of nowhere :'(
i'm in a job i hate and with a girl i'm just starting to feel.. i don't know, about. i feel like i love her and at the same time i feel like i don't. i can't imagine my life without her yet i feel like i'm just drifting away from her i don't know i can't fucking explain this goddamn i feel like an asshole just typing this out
Be me >father abused my mother and siblings >Caused me to fear that I may become him >I know I will never strike a women unless its for defense or my children but I fear I may. >I am a pussy because I fear this... >Causes me to repel women from a relationship ever occurring >Longest relationship was 2 years but after 1 year I started this fear and the last year I started drifting way from her. She ended up cheating on me and I ended up punching a wall in anger. The closest I came to hitting her and I fear I might to my future gfs/wifes. >I fear I may become what my father was because I am related to him. >I may end up living in the wilderness where I belong and where I am happy. >This has caused me anger issues and other things. >I refuse to date anyone because of this fear. Advice honestly Questions?
>>701019154 Your worried about being a virgin at 19 ? I lost mine at 21, which was great, but then realised that it doesn't fucking matter and nothing changed. Best thing to do is improve yourself slowly and if it hapoens, great, if not don't worry about it just get a whore and get it over and done with
>>701019053 Some advice that my father gave me... "Once a cheater, always a cheater"... My parents split up because my mother was pretty much a cheating whore and tried to fuck my dad's best friend and various other people. Which my father obviously doesn't associate himself with anymore
Moral of the story, if she had the audacity to try and cheat on you, It's going to happen again. And again. And once someone breaks the trust in the relationship, it's pretty much gone from 100% commitment to like 25%. My personal vote would be to break up with her, but don't make it too difficult ya know? I know it would be hard if I was in your shoes with my girl, and I wouldn't want to end it. But her mindset to cheat is still there, and always will be.
>>701017678 I was 200 pounds a 2 months ago, im not 165. my secret, not working out like a pleb I eat 400-800 calories every day only that exspensive shit from organic food placed like healthy pizzas which are like 300 calories and home cooked meals I lose about a pound every 2 days anyone can do it
>>701019736 Oh no, you have such a hard life. You cheat on your girlfriend? I feel sorry for YOU. You left school at 14? Too bad that was completely out of your control. Your dick hurts when you pee? Go see a doctor. Pokemon Go is laggy? Shut the fuck up.
>>701019614 Yeah about that, then I hope I'll fix this through the gym
>>701019430 Already asked her out, didn't say "I love you" because it would have been strange, anyway she said no and that she was sorry (wtf)
The worst part is that in less than a month she is going to study abroad (even worse she is going to study one of the most useless things ever, psychology) and I won't be seeing her until next summer, and so on for the next 5 years, or even more if she suddenly realizes that she don't mind staying there (she is in love with London) I thought a week ago that the last day I'm gonna be seeing he (probably with our friends at a party or some shit) I'm gonna tell her right before I'm going back home that I love her like no other girl I've ever met, just to feel a little relieved
>>701012415 sometimes i purposely hurt / hit / pinch/ push / smack my annoying little shit step-daughters age 4 and 5. They are rude and annoying little cunts and are mean as fuck to their mother. Am I wrong for putting these little cunt farts in their place? Their mother doesn't know I hit them.
>>701020691 yea ofc. if you make the mistake yourself its fucking your brain even more... i kinda feel sorry for you but part of me doesnt... i was in the same spot. let time past and keep fapping everytime this shit comes up to your mind.
>>701020686 i'm about to watch "about time" and cry over how i don't have the life (excluding the time travel bit) of the protagonist, get depressed, go to sleep then wake up the next day be a productive member of society
Don't be clingy. Be casual. Don't always be the first to engage in a conversation but make sure when you do, they interest her. Don't Facebook stalk or like every photo. Also, if she texts first reply. Doesn't have to be immediate just think of how you want the conversation to play out and steer it that way. Also, when you're together, make physical contact but make it seem natural. Like a brush of the hand, etc.
>>701019053 Kick that fucking bitch out. You'd be a complete retard to believe this won't happen again. Once a cheater always a cheater. End the cycle now and kick that piece of shit to the curb. No self respecting man lets himself get cucked, nor is anyone who does this worthy of respect.
>>701020535 I don't like us either, our news and media is filled with bimbo celebrity bullshit, our government tries to steal oil from random nations without worrying about its own, and we are infested with people that don't care that they eat up greasy food from chain restaurant while living without meaning.
Recently began falling for my best friend who's been a lesbian since middle school but has now had second thoughts on whether she likes guys or not. She says she likes guys sexually but doesn't see herself romantically attracted to men. I've always had feelings for her but never acted upon them because of her sexuality and this shift is fucking with me. She wants to become fwb aswell but I don't know if I'll be able to do it without creating more feelings for her because I'm a raging fag.
>>701016867 I'm with you anon... I've probably fucked over 100 women in the last 10 years but been with girl of my dreams. super awesome and does everything for me and super hot. My dick tells me to go out and cheat =( I can't help it. I just can't
>>701019053 wake her up, tell her you made your mind, and you dont want to ever see her or have anything to do with her ever again...she wouldnt be sorry if you didnt caught her so just dump her man you will find better one...
I want to tell her I want to kill myself. I want to tell her I have my suicide already planned out. I want to tell her about my crippling depression. But she won't care. It'll just be trouble for her. Or anyone for that matter. So I'll just die in silence.
>>701021164 Ask to talk to her alone, and then tell her. Dont even think about not doing it, it is better to just do it then to sit alone wondering what would have happened if you did it. I wish I had a girl I loved this much, I talk to nice looking women and they just don't interest me.
>>701020171 Wish i had kept it in mind. I know its not right to give up, but honestly, she stood out. Its the reason i love her. If i lose her, i have no idea when, even if, I'll find someone like her again.
>be me >be 17 >beta/bullied/nofriends/you get the idea >emotionally a fucking doorknob >somehow score a solid 7.5/10 >slowly but surely i open up enough with this person and trust them enough to show emotion around them >two years pass >shit goes downhill fast >we fight alot and eventually i flip out completely >only meaningful relationship ive ever been able to develop ends horribly. >100% my fault >100% regret >she wont talk to me at all >cry myself to sleep since I literally have nothing anymore.
19 years old kissless virgin Atracted to little girls Hates living with grandparents cause they are too annoying and strict Wanna quit college Hates studying or working Never enjoyed anything of life These are my main problems
I've only ever met one girl who's every made me feel anything. She's the only person I've ever looked forward to seeing. We've been friends for like 6 years. I'm crazy about her. She knew I was crazy about her /b/, but she still hung out with me like it was nothing. I was one of the 4 people she really talked to so I think she just wanted all the friend she could have, but it was cruel of her to keep me around and laugh with me when she knew I loved her. I told her one day guys, I worked up the courage and I fucking told her and she just kind of laughed. She literally had to stop herself from saying "ew". I never talked to her after that, and naturally I've never felt anyone else who made me feel anything positive. Now I just sit around on my synth and pop pills like candy. I distract myself with things like parties or drinking, but at the end of the day I still fucking hate being alive. Why? Why the fuck can't I be normal? Why can't I enjoy myself like everyone else? People tell me I'll meet another girl, but I fucking know I won't.
So if she's in your league just go out for drinks a few more times and on the third(ish) time, make sure it's a weekend and she has no plans the next morning and both get wasted. Then take her home and fuck her. If she is out of your league do the same shit just act like you're friends and your not really interested (when you start drinking) then later in the night come on strong. Hotter women tend to be more comfortable getting drunk around a guy that isn't acting all bill cosby on her. Good luck faggot
>>701021773 Thanks anon, i will tomorrow morning. Do..you think maybe you can help me with what to say? I know its hard for you but i know I'll mess it up.
Im thinking tell her tonight was a bit too deep and i let my past kinda become present, and tell her i may have needed help but i dont now as i feel fine and i dont even think about offing myself at all anymore
>>701020981 no but i expect them to not be little satan fuck stains while living under my roof. They only get the treatment when they don't listen or give shitty attitude. It's not like I'm coming out of the blue with it.
This girl I thought was just my bro in a girl's body sprung that she liked me in a romantic way. She really gave it her all in telling me, and I laughed it off thinking she was kidding. She hasn't been outside for a couple days, and called out of work. I'm not looking for a girl right now, not even a fuckbuddy. Feel like the lowest heel in the world since she's not bad looking, just dumpy.
>be me at college 2-3 years ago >one day QT walks into college >want to get to know her but she seems very shy >slowly but surely we start talking to eachother >find out we like the same things >Spend time talking to her everyday untill one or two weeks later >decide that we should be togheter >she says yes >as time went on we did what couple's do >start hugging, turns into kissing, tonguekiss, talk about sex >everything went well untill she met another guy two months later >she goes on a pink cloud for this guy that i thought was an asshole >she leaves me for that guy >feel depressed for a while but get over it and just ignore her mainly >three months later i suddenly hear that the guy she went with threw her out >said he didn't see a future with him and her through text towards her >feel bad for her and talk about it but not trying to invest my emotions into her anymore >time passes on again and i'm thinking to myself she just should've stayed with me >brush it off as i was thinking we didn't fit well with eachother because we were both shy at the time >time passes, both me and her get experiences with relationship through other people >become less of a beta, find out i'm more dominant in the end then anything else >think it's time to talk to her again >try to start a conversation asking her how she has been doing lately >"i'm feeling down lately since my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me" >tells me he is Asexual and that they did it a couple times but only because she forced it >tells me she finds quite alot of things annoying about him >she found out he masturbates more to hentai then do anything with her >i get frustrated about it that she is with such a beta faggot >ask her why she left me for the other guy way back when we were at college >tells me it was wrong of her to do and that she was just blindly in love with him >cont
>>701022054 You would be surprised how well your family would be able to support you. Unless your family is very extreme. Years back I had finally broken down and tried to kill myself. I was admitted to the mental hospital and met great people and it made me realize everyone goes through this. After I got out my biggest fear was a reality, my family found out about my crippling illnesses, but in fact this was the best case scenario. I've been able to get help and plenty of support. Of course we all have our ups and downs but since then I've never felt the urge to end it all. It's too selfish for me. I can't think of how fucked up my mom would be for the rest of her life if I did.
>>701022721 Thanks /b/ro. Seriously though I haven't felt actual happiness in years, I think there's something wrong with me. I don't know if I'll ever meet another girl like her because I'm such a miserable prick now. I hate who I've become, I've got vices out my ass and no other girl has yet to compare. It means a lot to hear you say that though, this is really the only place people get how I feel. I <3 u guys
Its done her mom just picked her up. I'll get over it. Not gonna lie though I really do feel like crap not sad more betrayed. I trusted her and we almost had a kid together (we lost it). We already had planed a future but she fucked it up. So imma dust myself off pick myself up and try to move on. Its all I can do
>>701023238 I really just go to get so people don't realize how shitty I am. It's a nice distraction for a while too so that's nice I guess. But yes, I can genuinely say I have not been attracted to anyone like I was attracted to the other girl, I don't know why or how but she fucked me up bad anons
>>701023463 I hate when my /b/ros are in pain like this... It really does suck because all I can think about is what I would do in this situation...
You made the right choice though anon, it's gonna sting like a bitch, but it's for the best. I'm glad that you don't seem to be trying to make this more dramatic. But all you can do is just dust yourself off and move on. Take this as a learning experience.
Do you have any hobbies or any friends you can go see anytime soon so you can try and get your mind off of it?
>be pretty well liked in school >shy girl at school, has about 6 total people she communicates with >she's easily the cutest girl at our school, just bad at talking to people >I'm one of those people she talks to >we've been friends since middle school and I've been obsessed with her since I knew her >she clearly knew this because I didn't hide it too well >one day she just tells me that she values our friendship and other related shit to ever feel the same way >this is the only girl I've ever even given two shits about and she just fucking crushed me >I'm a petty ass SOB so I stop talking to her, I'm heartbroken and super fucking sad >anyway, my pettiness kicks in when a few weeks later I'm talking to some roasties >I'm still super upset in general but I save face pretty well >anyway, it's big for her to come up to me while talking to roasties because she hates the roasties and she's very shy >tries talking to me >in the douchiest way possible I give the roasties a "why is she talking to me look" and just sort of brush her away >that's the last time I ever talked to her
Well my pettiness wouldn't let me be happy then and I haven't been happy in years:) but god damn it felt good being a dick to that cunt. She may have broken my heart but I was considered "cooler" than her so who really wins:-D
>be me >Neglected and abused from birth >mother left father >meet stepmother >over the years i am abused mentally, emotionally, and physically >tortured, wishing for death, i am only; 9, and i already want to end this >forced to be in my room all day with nothing in it >bullied by other children, accused of being gay, all because i was literally not allowed to really interact with the other kids >threatened to be sent away by my family >why all this? no reason >this keeps happening to me until i am 11 and a half >sent to arizona to live with my real mom >shes cool i guess >for the first time ever i can actually do something >videogames are the first thing i see, i realize i am really good at playing them >i realize i am anti-social, depressed, and angry about the past. >still bullied in school >eventually some things fixed, i pretty much taught myself how to interact with others.. >today: >i am still damaged from my past >i know i have many issues >no perscribed doctor (healthcare is shit) >angst, emotional, and living in fear >i will never off myself, but its hard not to >anime geek >generally attractive, and a homosexual >hoping for the best that everything goes well >and hoping for all of you to have a good end -Anon Faggot-chan
>>701025324 I was doing pretty well this summer by abandoning social media and basically ignoring my phone. Until I decided to post a photo of my closest friend and I. She for some reason decided to contact me, and I for some reason decided to talk to her. And now I'm basically feeling like shit again
>>701025294 >Over dramatic because one girl that trusted you and liked you as a friend didn't love you >Thinking that being cool in school is gonna mean that you're gonna be cool forever >Being this much of a cunt
I don't get why you're so proud of yourself for brushing her off and removing all contact with her? I used to like this one girl for years and once she found out and I told her she said that she didn't think of me like that. But I brushed myself off and were still best friends to this day, if anything it made us closer because now we can talk about virtually anything together.
>>701025840 Fuck girls like that. Seriously, they're the worst. They lead you on acting all friendly and shit. Just try to ignore her, you'll be sad in the long run but trust me it'll feel good in the moment
>>701025978 >being friends with a girl who broke your heart >being this much of a bitch cuck
I wasn't actually serious when I said being "cooler" made me better off, that was a joke you fucking egg. Also, why the hell would I be friends with someone who makes my chest hurt every time I look at them?
>>701012415 I had a partnership with a mentor of mine for 4 years. I recently found out she's attempting to hold the business we're starting hostage to get her way, and is willing to hold her money out of the partnership if she doesn't get her way. She'll be voted out by the other partners this weekend and I'll have to fire someone who I've liked and trusted for my career next week.
>>701026446 >Calling me a cuck The reason were still friends really is because she helped me out of depression and helped me make friends and not be a completely lonely sperg Lord. Shes always really attentive, and is one of the few people that I can trust will always be there >Just because she doesn't absolutely love you, doesn't mean that she hates you, there's a reason that they chose to try and maintain friendships.
I don't want to argue, it was just the way that you worded it sounded like youre in freshman highschool or something like that. My bad homie. How long has it been since you've last talked to her? Why don't you think you can move on?
>>701025840 I know it's hard man but if you know its not going to go anywhere you have to crush the feelings and try to more on >Be me >Finally hit it off with a girl >18 year old virgin at this point so I'm fucking ecstatic about it >Fast forward to us being drunk and fooling around >She blows me and I can't believe what's happening >She calls me the next day and apologies for it > Turns out she was using me for emotional support after spliting with her boy friend but it got out of hand > She wants to stay friends so I agree because I'm a spinless fag and just wanted to be near her I finally got over her though but only after distancing myself
No not really most of them moved away along time ago or they live kinda far from here. I'll just crash on my couch and drink some more maybe order a pizza and watch some movies. I kinda just feel like being alone anyway
>>701027224 It's all good, guy. I was a bit of a dick in my response, sorry. Anyway it's been at least 6 years since I've last seen her. She was just the only girl in my life that made me feel SOMETHING. I felt happy when I talked to her idk. Since her, I have yet to feel that same feeling and no girl really seems to come close. I just don't know if I'll meet a girl like her again or not but living by myself till I die doesn't sound too bad. I'd be content living a short life alone, doesn't seem so bad
I feel you man, I haven't gotten a decent night's sleep in almost a month because I can't stop thinking and worrying about all the semi negative things going on in my life right now.
My only real advice to you is to try and stay positive and don't over think, I know that's cliché as fuck but over thinking can seriously fuck you up mentally and physically, and can make it really hard to try and concentrate on the "now". Try to get out of your house, try to do something to just clear your head, what I've been doing is been getting up around 6 am and just sitting outside and playing guitar because it helps me concentrate and get my thoughts on track.
>>701017670 >>701017146 >>701016673 >>701016572 >>701015570 >>701015043 I tried finding people that no one replied to, we see what you said, its just sometimes theres no good advice. The best advice I can give is to treat your life like your enemy, your vengeance is fucking making it better and showing you aint getting snuffed out. Don't chickenshit out and kill yourself or give up. couple years back I thought my life was over, parents split (temporary now back together) I had nowhere to go, was going to be homeless. I now have my own house I split with my brother, and I just met a girl who wants to move in with me from cali all the way across the country. Life gets better, you just need to be there to see it.
>>701028984 I really don't know why I liked her so much. She was just flawless and had all these cute little details like the way she would laugh. When she laughed she would try to suppress it so it didn't make much noise and when she did this her eyes just showed a massive grin. She made my chest knot up and my stomach floated whenever I spoke to her. When ever I told a joke I would look in her direction to see if she laughed. She was just perfect to me anon, and the fact that she's probably happy with some other guy just kills me. I couldn't bear to speak to her now, it'd seriously just fucking kill me
>>701018095 Couple of things: >Be sure this shit isn't a case of cabin fever. You spend 8 hours a day, 5 days a week with a chick and she starts growing on you. >Be sure this broad isn't using you as a "work boyfriend." Sometimes they like to slide you into a friendzone without your knowledge using the close quarters of work. Since you HAVE to be there, you're less likely to see you're in the zone. She also feels safe because sex is less likely at work. >And FINALLY, make sure doing anything is worth it. You make a move and she thinks you're a friend (above), you guys get together then break up, or you make her mad in some way, say "bye" to your job. The lightest thing that could happen is it makes working with this person unbearable and, therefore, your job shitty. Seriously, workplace romance is a loaded deal; I've seen and experienced all the things above and have a strict rule of avoiding the situation unless I don't care about the job and/or have something better lined up. Good luck.
>>701029516 I gotcha, I feel the same way about another girl. I think the reason that you and I both fall for women like that is because they're real. They aren't obnoxious hoes who just chase men for their dicks. They are down to earth, and very trustable people. I think a problem that you may be experiencing is either regret, in which case, I would force myself to try and contact her on Facebook or something and just apologize, or you're lusting for her because you can't find another woman like her.
In all honesty, I'm not a therapist by any means, but I would recommend that you try to get back in touch with her, even if she has a BF or not. I think the lack of contact is hurting you a lot /b/ro.
>>701027704 Very understandable man, if anything just try to clear your head. I can tell that you're not really the type of person to stay in a slump, but just try to keep your head clear! Go for an early morning jog. Try to learn to play guitar or something, anything to try and take your mind off of it, or give you time to organize your thoughts
>>701012415 >Whats bothering you /b/? everything is bothering me
>>701014048 >>701014406 kinda the same but I'm 5 years older and being a virgin is just depressing, not really the sex itself, it's more the feeling that I'm unwanted, ugly, no humor, zero charisma, disgusting, unloveable, a loser and the list goes on like that
>>701030656 Thanks friend, and I think you're right about the girls we like, but I think I'm going to have to go without contacting her at least for now. I may not be happy but I manage. Ill keep it in mind but I don't know if I can really see her again without feeing 10 times worse than I do now. Thanks though
>>701030261 I know exactly how you feel anon! The best advice I can offer you is that you should always realize that your mind can become your worst enemy if you give it the power. Just try your best to not worry about things that aren't in your control!
If I may ask, what is it that you're over thinking about? Girl? Money? family? All of the above and more?
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