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/b/ me and my girlfriend are kinda on a break, we may not get back together but there's a chance, i still have alot of feelings for her.

here's the problem last time we saw eachother i went into her phone and went though her messages and found dick pics from a dude we both know, the guys's huge, may be almost twice my size, id estimate him at 8-9 inches.. just the thought of him fucking her with that monster pisses me off so much. how can i get him to back off /b/ ? or should i ask her herself not to do it ? pîc not related (also i must add that i posted this yesterday, but people were just being assholes so i'm trying again so inb4 repost)
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Just fuck it all and go through 12 months of depression. Worked for me
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>>694824575
Lift weight and exersice
Focus on yourself
Fuck the world around you
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Y'know your entitled to fuck women too. Just get out there and find some easy sleazy hoe or get an ugly girl or older woman by about 8 years and have fun. Try everything bud. You may surprise yourself.
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>>694825018
that's not very encouraging
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>>694825316
i know how this sounds, but i don't really want to go and fuck anyone else.
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had this happen. she's prolly fucking him now.
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>>694825800
did your go through with it after getting pictures ? i do hope she isn't...
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b8 him and cut off his dick when you get the chance
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>>694825973
while i'm up to potentially fighting him, i don't want to go to jail
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>>694824575
let her do it OP, a 9 incher isn't always good, let him ruin her and she probably won't want to do it again unless she's a size queen. which she probably isn't seeing she fucked your tiny dick
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>>694825961
found dick pics on her phone. we broke up for a few days and she was at his place during those few days. she denied it... but she was a ho
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>>694826542
Why would you want her back after she did all those things with him that she never did with you during those days?
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realistically, you're better off finding another chick. at this point, if shes saving other dudes dick pics, she aint worth your time.
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>>694826705
cuz i thought i loved her lol
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>>694826713
she didn't really save them per se, he sent them and she just commented on the sze.
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>>694826705
wait what a weirdly worded question.... but true
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You can't stop this now. The wheel is already turning. I suggest you, if you love her (we can't control love, is a feeling), to turn the relationship to open, instead exclusive. And try to get some girls asap.
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>>694826850
what did she say?
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>>694825612
Then it's not a break anon, you're just getting cucked

Who initiated the "break"?
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>>694826973
i don't think i could do that. if i make it an open relationship she'll probably.. you know. while i really have no interest in fucking any other girls.

>>694826996
she was kind of amazed by it, said she'd never seen anything like it before
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>>694827211
i'm not being cucked, the date on the pictures was fro mafter we went on a break, i wouldn't be able to stand it anyway, i have to fight to keep the image out of them having sex out of my head
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What would you do to her?
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>>694827445
Dude, just keep your dignity. Shes already fucking him or thinking about it. Eventually she will rationalize a way so she doesnt feel guilty when she fucks him
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>>694824575
OP how about you give us her kik ? someone can send her a picture and ask is dhe's ever fucked anything bigger than said picture. atleast you'll know if she's been plowed by him yet
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>>694827830
intriguing idea
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>>694827254
I understand your feeling. You love her and don't think about any other girl. The problem is, if we are talking in a psycological level, you are "losing"... The only way to win this, is accepting the new rules of the game. The other way will try to repress her and maybe it will work in short range, but usually it'll not work in long range.

Sorry, english isn't my language.

I'm in love with a married woman (I have 30y old), every fucking day I think that she is fucking another guy. The only way to get my feelings better was trying to fuck any other woman (in the beginning I didn't want, but forced me), eventually, I had a real curiosity and will to fuck other girls...

That's the way that I got out the sadness that possessive feelings got me
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>>694827830
dis nigguh machiavelli
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>>694824575
You have already been cuck'd negro. Just find a Chinese mail order bride and start collecting military memoribilia
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>>694827830
i'm not sure about this; someone could sell me out, or too many people could be sending at once
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>>694828747
don't worry about it, we've got your back, if not her kik, what's she look like ? it says alot about a person
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>>694829310
i second this
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>>694829521
>>694829310
this is what she looks like,e might've sene her before i've posted her in a r8 thread a few times, still not sure if i should post her kik though
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>>694829816
alot of red flasg already OP, she does look slike she likes a good pounding, but if you wnat to be for sure, her kik will settle it
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>>694829816
that's a human fleshlight if i ever saw one
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>>694830439
fuck off.
>>694830088
guess it could clear some things up,
it's metalchickj233 please don't spam or make it too bovious
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>>694829816
that's a hooker son
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>>694830865
This gonna be good
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>>694831189
please don't screw me over.

>>694830872
whatever man
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>>694831757
it was only your turn mate
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your girls a hoe man

move on
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>>694831826
my "turn" ? we've been together for years
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>>694832037
have been, not anymore. But hey at least you had her at her best
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>>694830865
anyone test OP's gf yet ?
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>>694829816
mind posting more ?
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>>694832679
has anyone ?

>>694832862
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>>694825018
This is the answer
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Anon, she wants to fuck other guys while cucking you, best advice would be to ditch the bitch and deal with your feelings in another way, not worth it.
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>>694833437
/thread
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Hmm...did you save those dick pics breh?
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>>694833437
if she wanted me on the side wouldn't she just not talk about the break and do it behind my back ?
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>>694833868
i didn't, they were on her phone i just went through her messages real quick, she didn't change her lockscreen
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yeah looks like she loves big cock and looks like she can handle it. i'd love to show her mine.
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>>694833089
She looks like a whore
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>>694833945
go for it anon

>it's metalchickj233 please don't spam or make it too bovious

make her mouth water
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>>694833945
you get that from her picture ?

>>694834056
she's never cheated as far as i know
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>>694833871
Okay, so she wants to fuck other guys and not you. My advice is still the same.
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>>694834200
Dude she saving dick pics.

She getting slammed
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>>694830439
seconded. looks like she'd be a fucksleeve for anyone interested
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>>694833089
Guaranteed she's taking every inch of that monster cock, look at her OP
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>>694834554
she didn't save them, they were just still in her messages
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>>694834756
even if you think she's having sex with him you don't have to be so graphic about it. i'm trying NOT to think about that
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>>694834768
She getting slammed man

I've been where you are
She's raking her nails across another man's back, calling another man's name as he goes balls deep.

The sooner you accept it the sooner you'll get over it.
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>>694824575
OP, it sucks I know. Many of us know. Why do you think we are a bunch of assholes? Welcome to the Brother Hood. It ain't going to be easy. Delete and block all the contacts you have of her. You'll be depressed, but at least you'll have self respect. Quit making fucking excuses for her and move on. Apparently she has already.
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>>694825018
>12 months
Your baby is one year old
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>>694834974
you could just say you think she's having sex....
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>>694835485
He's probably creampied her
Apparently when the dude has a monster dick they can feel the jizz getting plastered all over the cervix
Chicks are biologically designed to love that shit, evolutionarily speaking it makes them really likely to get pregnant
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>>694832679
anything yet ?
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>>694835727
fuck off she wouldn't just let him do that, she's always worried about std's and pregnancy, even i had to wear a condom when she was on the pill
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>>694835938
Girls will do anything for the monster cock chad
It's biology man
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>>694836074
as far as oi know most women find it very uncomfortable to be fucked by anything over 7 inches, so i wouldn't be so sure
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>>694825307
This holy god OP this
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Hey guys I'm here to derail the thread. I'm having issues on Windows 7 installing any drivers from disc (primarily Internet/Bluetooth driver) I know it's not a compatibility issue. Any tips?
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>>694824575
I'll say what I said last thread: if the dude sent those pics and she didn't want them whatever. If she asked and saved copies that's another issue. If you like her and she was receiving advances she turned down them keep things going. Trust will have to be rebuilt and that will take time.

If she is asking to see some cock and saving pics and stuff? Dump her. It will hurt like a bitch, but her cheating on you and being disloyal will be so much worse. You're torn up just because she was looking at one, if she is cheating you'll get hurt bad.


Tl;Dr
If guy texted and she said "eww" whatever, if she wants the big D leave her.
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>>694836449
>as far as oi know

well cuck, you don't know shit apparently. She's been boned by him, call it a day and move on. And quite frankly be glad you are rid of the manbeast
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>>694837507
she just said it was the biggest thing she've ever seen, but didn't specifically say she liked it or anything
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>>694837867
Why did he send it though? Is he an ass hole trying to cuck you, wanted to show off and doesn't get boundaries or did she ask. Also can you post the pic he sent?
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>>694838087
i don't know why, other thna just ot get in her pants. i don't have the pictures i just saw thme on her phone, i didn't send have time to get them even if i wanted pictures of his dick
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>>694824575
bail on her asap and assert your dominance by fucking some other chick there is no such thing as a "break" its over OP just accept it and move on
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>>694838644
even if it's really over i just really don't want to fuck anyone else ? why is that so weird ? atleast not right fucking now
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>>694838338
I suggest you meet up with her and sit down and talk. Public place helps diffuse tension (like a coffee shop). Offer to pay regardless of results, you're better for it. You need some clarity OP. If she is loyal and it's a misunderstanding and she had no tact to talk about how it's big then keep the ditz. If she a whore stop pretending she could be a house wife. Trust me. It'll hurt way more.
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>>694838988
dis man knows

"Hey can we meet for coffee?"
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>>694839120
I just know that personally being in public helps me behave better. If she cheating and we in public I'm less likely to snap her neck.
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>>694838932
its not weird but its going to hurt like a bitch emotionally until you mentally disconnect from the idea of her as a mate this fucking primate brain that the human race evolved from sucks

speaking from experience here OP
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>>694830865
still dissapointed nobody showed off their giant cock to OP's gf
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>>694833089
So how ran-through does her pussy look? On a scale from virgin-tight to Sonny Liston's Boxing Glove?
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>>694829816
Lol ink. Walk away. She is fucking at least 2 other dudes.
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>>694828704
Then mow down 50 capitalist pigs,"for da empowaw"
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>>694824575
>kinda

In other words, you can both fuck other people but she's much better at seduction and flirting than you are.
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>>694840005
what ? her pussy looks perfectly fine ?
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>>694824575
she said "break"
you are now an option
she let you see other guys dick pics
so realistically you're like 3rd or 4th option
run away unless you want marriage
(but then again she's pretty nasty)
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>>694840358
tbf if she walked up to me looking and dressed like that, i'd be balls deep in like 30 minutes.
>>694833089
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"Hey sweetie. I know were on a break, but I went through you phone the other day and notice that a guy with a much better penis than mine is trying to have sex with you. Would you please decline his offer of sex? If you accept his sexual offer, it would really make me feel weak and inadequate and it might take me more than a year to get my confidence back. I mean, if you really have any feelings for me at all, you would only have sex with guys who are physically inferior to me."
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>>694840363
Surely not if she's taking 8-9 inches on the reg. Which I'm sure she is. While you're at work,whenever you think she's paying a visit to her parents.Whenever she leaves the house. Whenever you leave the house. She's taking a big meaty dick and you're wondering how you can get her to reconsider this break. Glad to see you've got your shit together.
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>>694824575 On a break?
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>>694833089
The moment a girl gets a tattoo she instantly loses 2 points from the overall 10 point attractiveness scale.
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>>694841370
for me it adds +2 i'd smash
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You're all a bunch of small dicked beta faggots. If you want this bitch, prove it to her by beating his fucking ass and then ravaging her. Stop being such a fucking pussy and talking about your feelings.
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>>694841169
lol. Might as well start drinking now, Op.
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>>694841292
stop bullshitting, i'm not going to deny she might be now, but she never did anything like this before,
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fucking repost using meme magic to turn the west into cucks
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>>694841169
lmao.

Op, kys.
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>>694841594
If she is now, she probably has been for a while. Maybe if you cry hard enough she'll let you watch. And you can sit in the corner and cry and masturbate.
Or here's a few alternatives.
Stop being a cuck.
Stop being a cuck.
Stop being a cuck.
Kill yourself.
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>>694824575
you know you two are not getting back together. if your on a "break" she will go find a bigger nigger dick than yours and never want you again.
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>a girl once committed to having a relationship with me

pics or it didn't happen
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It sounds like you need to have an honest discussion with her about this, for a few reasons:
1) It sounds like you really care about her, since you got so angry about it and you decided to forgo sex with somebody else just to get back at her.
2) I don't know if she's actually having sex with other people, but if she is it could be a serious health concern if you're sexually active with her.
3) What she did isn't okay, and what you did isn't okay, so you both need to be open and let each other know what's going on.
I don't know if you want more of my take on the matter, but I'll just say this for now.
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Twice your size? 8 or 9 inches? my god you're toting a little handgun
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>>694843317
yes... i'm aware i'm pretty small.
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>>694842895
good thing she doesn't like black guys
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It looks like OP isn't replying directly, so I'll just give my two cents anyway.
I forgot to mention that you should talk to this guy as well. The key here is understanding why this girlfriend and your friend did this. Understanding why it happened will be more useful than simply getting him to back off or her to not do it. That's just a patch on the problem; it won't guarantee that she (or the guy) don't do it again.
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>>694842072
ikr ?
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>>694844564
i'm not replying to some comments because they're not what i asked for, evne if it's not the best solution i want to PREVENT it, not wait it out, or dump her, or any of that, i just can't stand the idea of them doing it
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>>694841169
underrated post
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>>694841169
Ha, that actually might help quite a bit!
...perhaps the solution is a threesome? Although I don't know how well those work.
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plenty of horny moms of your city on changirl.jimdo.com
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>>694824575
Let me be clear with you

You woman is whore. Like most women she enjoys being fucked hard, yes women love sex as much as we do, they like, not only they like sex, but they dislike )most of this making love bullshit), they enjoy getting fucked hard, it makes them feel desired.
For your woman to not lose interest in you you have to keep the desire alive. How to do it?
You don't need a giant 10 inches cock, even though a big cock helps, cause size does really matter and in the same way we like big boobs and a round ass, women love a big meaty cock.
What you need is to keep your woman down, show her who is superior and fuck her harder than she can conceive another man fucking her...
Regarding your specific case, you should not focus on wether or not she fucked this guy, you shoud focus on rage fucking her real hard and humiliating her, put her in her place.
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>>694845005
Yes. The solution is a threesome. You should mention it to her the next time you see her.

Just don't do anything really insecure like buy Viagra or anything. Turning the threesome into "who can last the longest" contest will ruin it for her.
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>>694844905
I think that's a bad idea. I mean, what if this is simply a symptom of a larger issue? Perhaps she has commitment issues? I mean, it's one thing if she's got pictures of penises from the internet floating around on her phone but if it's somebody you both know, that would worry me.
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>>694841169
/thread
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>>694845268
but i really don't want a threesome, i don't want her to have sex with anyone else
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>>694845247
As a woman, I can say that most of that isn't true for all women. Really, women's desires and feelings on sex are as diverse and hard to categorize as men's are.
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>>694845268
Also, possibly hazardous. Is there a long-term determent to using Viagra? *heads to google*
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>>694834701
thirded, definitely acting as his fleshlight now
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>>694845482
Well, then you gotta tell her that!
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>>694845805
it's not that simple, i only know because of the pictures. she doesn't know i saw + if you're bon a break you're supposed to give people breathing room, not demand things.
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>>694845624
you know the rules...

show us your tits or we can politely ask you to leave and disconsider your opinion...

PS: dont forget the timestamp
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>>694824575
>twice
>8-9 in
dude wtf are you 4 in? 4 and a half? You have bigger *teehee* problems to worry about than your relationship with some grill.
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>>694845482
I guess my main question is whether or not you really love her. Yes, you don't want her to have sex with other people, but is that because you genuinely care about her or because you don't want to share somebody with another person? Or both, which would be reasonable?
I don't really know you, so it's hard to give advice without knowing much of the underpinnings of this problem.
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>>694845482
She isn't yours. It was just your turn and the ride is over. How well you deal with this emotionally will determine the quality of your manhood.

The best method of accomplishing the act of dealing with this emotionally is to just get on a new ride. You obviously aren't good at obtaining tickets to get on rides, so here is a brief video that will give you the basics of how to properly flirt with women:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9i7WvCe8ko
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>>694845268
lol, you're the devil
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>>694846003
You've both been dishonest with one another, and you need to come clean. Besides, it doesn't sound like you want to have a break if you're asking fucking 4chan for advice.
Seriously, by the way? What, you didn't have the patience to ask Dear Abbey?
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>>694846293
yeah i'm not going to pretend to be a whole different person than i am just to get a girls. that's lying before you even start dating
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>>694846120
But you have no way of knowing if the tits I show are mine... Can I just post fanart of something I like instead?
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>>694846581
> not going to pretend
Wasn't advocating doing that. Game isn't about memorizing pickup lines.
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>>694846747
>Game isn't about memorizing pickup lines.
yeah i don't look at it as a "game" i'm not that kinda person.
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>>694846868
here's your reply.
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>>694846581
That's good, the only good pickup lines are traffic jams heading to Home Depot.
And even those are pretty annoying.
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>>694824575
Tinder. OKC. Bang a bunch of chicks. It's worked for me.
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>>694847076
how many times do i have to repeat that i don't want to fuck anyone else ?
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>>694847076
And if it worked for me, there is a 100% chance it will also work for you.
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>>694847222
"It's the internet" times!
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>>694824575
Ok man questions:
She saw those pics, you say that Asher only commented on the size, before you went onto her phone, she told you something about it?

Is she like evading a conversation lately or acting differently (before you saw her cellphone)
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>>694847391
she didn't say anything about it to me herself, she's been acting differently yes, but we've never been on a break before either so... i dunno
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>>694847391
Good question! I'd like to get a read on her feelings on the matter.
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Get some self respect, fuck that hoe. Love is a chemical reaction, you can and will beat it.
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>>694847593
How come you're so reluctant to talk to her about it?
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>>694847747
i haven't seen her since i saw the pictures, and i can just bring it up since she'd probably be pissed i went through her phone
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>>694846730
Thats what the timestamp is for silly, you can also tend to some of our requests...
We'll know *winks*
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>>694829816
Come on man, she will fall for any man, not worth it.
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>>694847927
Well yeah! You violated her privacy. But what you saw IS genuinely worrying, so it's not unreasonable to talk to her about it.
...Hm, maybe it'd be a better idea to talk to your friend? Not in an accusing way, just asking what's going on.
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>>694829816
Good lord I hope those pictures you've posted of her weren't sexual because that'd be fucking terrible.
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plenty of horny whores of your city on changirl.jimdo.com
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>>694848344
they weren't just these and similar, nothing bude
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OP, it's harsh but it's over. If you found the pics, then she saved them and that's a bad sign. Most likely, they've already fucked. Not even not that, in her mind it's really your fault that she fucked the other guy. If you beg to get back together, she'll have all power in the relationship and it will die anyway. Cut all ties and move on.

Here's what you do now:
1) /fit/
2) returnsofkings.com
3) take what you learn at ROK and get back out there

Trust me, anon, you'll be better for it.
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>>694824575
You could just fuck other girls why are you comparing yourself to this guy?
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>>694848043
How is knowing what time I posted the thing going to help you know if they're mine? I mean, if it took me longer I suppose you could assume they're genuine because I took the time to take a picture and upload it, but what if I have a bank of genuine pictures on hand?
Plus, it's easy for me to just root around the internet for some pictures of tits anyway.
Pic related.
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>>694848451
*wipes sweat off brow* Oh, good. She seems like a pretty cool lady!
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>>694848574
again how many times do i have to tell people i DON'T WANT TO FUCK ANYONE ELSE
>>694847222
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>>694848574
Because he doesn't want to have sex with other girls.
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>>694848613
no it's not, stop bullshitting, photoshopping a timestamp to look believable takes time. admit it you're just a dude
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Here's a general rule of life that you should follow. If they want a break, break up with them for good.

Chances are that they want to fuck someone else, if they haven't already. Just accept your loss, move on, and be a goddamned man about it for fuck's sake. It's one girl. They're all the damned same, there's no special "the one". That's all disney bullshit.

She wasn't yours for good man. They're only ever yours for right now. It was only your turn.
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>>694848531
so a extremely sketchy "news" site is supposed to help me ?
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>>694847670
Ok man another question:
There was a moment before all this that you might said "this is going downfall", "she is not the same", "she is making different things" and what made you said or thinking that.
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>>694848923
*breaks out into hysterical laughter*
Wow, that picture I posted really IS relevant to this discussion! Ah... *cough* Hm... Well, I suppose that's true--I've never tried to Photoshop a picture in such a way. But then again, I'm not sure there are any consequences to my not posting of boobs.
Pic related. Again.
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>>694849456
nobody will give a shit without tits, and as such i will no longer respond to you either.
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>>694849339
I'll assume you're talking to OP--my girlfriend is in a state of both existence and nonexistence.
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>>694827719
Deport her
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>>694849292
Ignore the news part. Click on the "New? Start here" section.
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>>694849043
nah some of them are fat slobs and those are the only ones i get fuck me
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>>694849664
Aw... okay. It was fun talking with you!
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>>694849740
Sorry man it was for OP, my bad
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>>694849882
Haha, no problem!
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plenty of horny women of your city on changirl.jimdo.com
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>>694849664
Well.. at you, I suppose.
That was rude of me to simply start talking about stuff you didn't care about--sorry.
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>>694824575
if she has genuine feelings for you, it doesn't matter how big someone elses dick is. Sex isn't just about dick size either.
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>>694850028
Didn't you already post a while ago?
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>>694850108
REPLY OF THE YEAR HERE FOLKS
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>>694824575
k man another question:
There was a moment before all this that you might said "this is going downfall", "she is not the same", "she is making different things" and what made you said or thinking that.
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>>694850108
What about being loyal to your partner? Following your logic, she would fuck any guy she wants but as long she loves him everything is alright, fuck off.
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>>694850625
my point being if she really loves OP, it doesn't matter how big another guy's dick is - she's not going to fuck him.
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>>694850625
I think they were trying to make the point that OP shouldn't feel inadequate because of his dick size, not commenting on the cheating aspect of this problem.
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>>694824575
relevant video

https://youtu.be/RC-e5vs6NeY
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>>694851131
this guy knows what i mean
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>>694850233
Well it looks like OP is gone
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>>694851337
*takes a bow*
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>>694848759
Yeah? Well, certainly seems like she wants to. Realistically, you have two options. Talk to her and sort it out (it will be awkward, she will get mad at you for snooping, and it will suck), or ditch her because if she even harbors the slightest thought of fucking someone else, she will do it.

Guess which choice I recommend. Cut your ties and move the fuck on, because you don't deserve a girl who makes you feel so inadequate.
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>>694851631
yep. Sadly... Oh well, people've got real lives.
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>>694824575
>>694824575
>>694824575

OP, I've heard dozens of these kinds of stories here on /b/, and while this thread is only slightly more genial and calm than some others, the general arguments seem to be the same.

You seem to be very clearly monamorous, whereas your girlfriend is polyamorous. So unless you decide to, at the VERY least, learn to get over your jealousy/possessiveness, this shit's gonna fail hard and fast. Get used to it, or move on. I speak from experience. I'm a poly guy who was dating a poly girl and a mono girl. The mono girl wanted to try and make it work, even though she was super jealous. While it sucked to have to break apart, the truth was that she would never get over her jealousy. Once she realized that, she had to move on.

Do you want to redefine your understanding of what a relationship can be, or do you want to move on to someone else who DOES see things the way you presently do? Those are your only two options by this point.
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>>694852506
well you were a pretty shitty boyfriend then. kidna sad how you try make her out to be the person who was being difficult while you wanted to fuck everything
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>>694852506
>>694852785
I dunno, that seems reasonable to me. Sometimes people just don't match up--after all, everybody has different things that are important to them.
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Just accept it an become their cuck, everyone's a winner.you get to keep her.he gets to use her.you get to clean her after he's done.maybe you get to sit in the next room an listen while he fucks her , maybe they let you watch ,you'll eventually get to like it.ask them to put you in chastity/ panties as your not the Alpha male an you got to know your place,
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>>694852785

I did no such thing, and I'm sure she would (violently) disagree with you. It's a long, complicated story whose details were irrelevant to OP. As they are now, even.
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>>694846293
>https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G9i7WvCe8ko

Wait, is this a really a pick up artist video? Cause that wasn't anything like what I was expecting at all. This actually seems reasonable.
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>>694853531
>I'm a poly guy who was dating a poly girl and a mono girl.

you dated fucked 2 people at the same time., you certaintly did such thing. stop trying to find excused for not being able to keep it in your pan ts
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>>694847222
Stop being such a fucking bummed out pussy, you faggot. Your "girlfriend" wants a break and you don't. Brass tacks, mother fucker, you can't do shit about it other than try to be cool and hope she gets back with you. Meanwhile, she's getting dick pics and is intrigued enough to not reply negatively. Maybe she'll fuck Mr. Bigger Dick, maybe not. It doesn't matter. Why should she, him, and every other person get to have fun and get laid while you cry about "I don't want to have sex." If that's how you really feel, than fuck you, get off this board, and watch your cock grow smaller. But if there's any part of you that is a man with pride and self worth, than go out and slay pussy. For every dick she might fuck, go fuck two or three pussies, and fuck those pussies way better than whatever dick she's getting fucked by. It won't get her back but at least you'll start feeling better about yourself and if, IF, you get back with your "girlfriend", you won't feel like such a fucking loser faggot cuck.
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>>694854080
yeah i'd do that if i had no emotions and didn't care at all about people. they' aren't just pieces of meat to fuck, you asshole. if you really have "slaying pussy" in your vocabulary then i really feel bad for any girl you might have a "relationship" with
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>>694854411
You must be 12 years old because plenty of grown adults are fine with fucking just to fuck.
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>>694854080
tl;dr
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>>694855181
are you really trying to defend "slaying pussy" by saying "dude i'm not 12 it's what adults do" really man ? really ?
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>>694853888
Come on, don't judge somebody else's situation when you don't understand it.
Look at Doctor Zhivago--the tragedy of that story was how he loved two women equally but was forced to pick between them. Maybe it would have been better if he could've had a healthy relationship with both of them.
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>>694853888

Let me rephrase:

>kidna sad how you try make her out to be the person who was being difficult

I did no such thing. Now, on that note...

>you dated fucked 2 people at the same time

How did you know I had a threesome with them?
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>>694855181
But by that logic, that means that all adults vote, since 12-year-olds don't vote and plenty of grown adults are fine with voting.
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>>694855512
how did i know ? because you fucking said it yourself in your orginal post

>I'm a poly guy who was dating a poly girl and a mono girl
>I'm a poly guy who was dating a poly girl and a mono girl


you didn't say threesome you said DATE, so you find it perfectly normal to date soemone who you know wants to be mono but you fucked around anyway

>I did no such thing. Now, on that note...

no ?

>The mono girl wanted to try and make it work, even though she was super jealous. While it sucked to have to break apart, the truth was that she would never get over her jealousy

she was the jealous one, she was the one that had to go . yep you didn't make her out to be the problem at all manhore
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>>694825612
lol not yet

and then this: >>694825307


and this:>>694825018
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>>694855181
>plenty of grown adults are fine with fucking just to fuck.

enjoy your aids
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>>694855907
But she insisted on trying to make it work...
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>>694835938
lol when she wants it she lets you do all sort of shit

pleasure is the opposite of judgment
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>>694856152
exactly she tried her best and you weren't happy with a girl that wanted you and did her very best because you wanted to fuck around
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>>694835938
Well yeah... I mean, if I had to rank them I'd say a disease is much worse than a baby. At least a baby is something humans are likely to handle well.
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>>694827254
so she loved seeing another guys dick and ur OK with this? by saying love her and shit you're suing it's OK for her to cheat on you. advice anon, if a girl initiates a break, it's bc she wants someone else cock. dump her. you'll find another slut
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>>694856227
But the girl was in a relationship with another girl and the guy at the same time--it wasn't nessessarily just "fucking around." Everybody was in a relationship with each other, as far as I can tell.
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>>694827719
she looks like a qhore. probably aucked 50 ducks by age 17
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>>694829816
haha yo for real anon. she looks like a maneater. she's playing you and stringing you along for the attention. kick her as to the curb
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>>694826850
Wait... so these pictures weren't even solicited?
That's pretty fucked up.
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>>694856540
>Everybody was in a relationship with each other, as far as I can tell.
ah so you were basically all just fucking around except that one mono girl that ended up having to go. because she had morals
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>>694833089
what drug is she on in this picture. she's a prostitute anon
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>>694856661
Should he do it AS quickly as possible!?
!??????!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!??!!?
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>>694835938
wrong. girls love the big dick. she'll throw out her morals for a fat cock. stop asking for advice if u r just going to ignore it
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>>694856753
yeah yeah we know, tats = worst possible human being alive /pol
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plenty of horny girlss of your city on changirl.jimdo.com
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>>694837867
if she didn't comment on it, then I could understand. but she's obviously intrigued by it, if not been fucked already
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>>694856731
Hm... well, saying that the one mono girl was the only one with morals implies that the other two people were terrible humans, but if everybody in the relationship disbanded on relatively cordial terms I don't see how anybody is being worse than anybody else.
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>>694856883
As a girl, I have to disagree.
Pussy's where it's at, at least to me.
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>>694833089
she probably spread the first moment she saw him after those pictures. only question is what did she spread ? her legs of her cheeks. what do other anons thing ?
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>>694841370
ir depends. if it's all over her arms and legs, then it's negative. if it's a couple small ones then I don't mind.
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>>694857332
i call pussy first, but probably spread her cheeks only the next day
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>>694856731
Did that reply sound condescending?
I read it over and if I wasn't the one who wrote it I could see it coming off as douchey, I'm sorry!
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>>694845624
hahaha ha yeah whatever bitch. tits. and ur lying. all women love a meaty cock and they want to be fucked hard and with passion.
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>>694857519
i thought fucking a different girl while you're dating a girl who you knew wanted to be monogamous was a douchey thing. my bad,
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>>694857405
He isn't talking about how it looks on her aesthetically. He's talking about the decision to get a tattoo being a read flag for poor moral character.
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>>694857682
>a tattoo being a read flag for poor moral character.

not trying to be that guy but after working at city hall for 3 years i've found ties to be far more prevalent among those with poor moral characters than tatoos.
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>>694857570
No no I am a girl, see? Here's my picture.

...I'm a terrible person.
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>>694857655
But, again, the girl who was monogamous entered the relationship knowing that. She probably wanted to try and see if she could handle it, found out she couldn't, and decided to move on.
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>>694858362
as i expected, all her fault of course who elses would it be ?
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>>694856868
if he wants. if she keeps viewing msga, not deleting them. then yeah asap
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>>694858441
It's nobody's fault--somebody decided they didn't want to be in the relationship anymore.
...
by the way you know I'm not the person who was in this relationship, right? I... I don't know if I made that clear...
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>>694856894
no not tata, she legit looks like she's on heroin.
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>>694825316
>>694828225

Problem with this is she is female - she can get dick as easy as pie.

He is male, therefore it's 10,000x harder to find a girl. She can have a new dick every night, he has a new pussy once. Maybe.

It's fucked.

OP, if you have any dignity, you will just end it, I am assuming of course she started the 'break' - if she liked you, she wouldn't have gone on 'break' with you. SImple. I know it's hard, but you have to man up and actually take control of the situation, or you'll end up depressed - trust me on this.
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>>694857268
lol so why are u talking if u r a lesbian dumbass. goddamn. oh and tits
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>>694858720
>msga
...the Maryland State Golf Association?
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>>694858761
lol have you seen people on heroin before ?

>>694829816
her skin is way too nice for that. but sure
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Show us her vag OP
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>>694857682
getting a few small tatto If it means something isn't an indication of morality tard. however, if you cover yourself completely, it obviously screams low self esteem and I want attention.
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>>694858209
>catfish
>can't even post real pic.

eat dookey nigur
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>>694858748
>somebody decided they didn't want to be in the relationship anymore.

yeah i would too if the person i was with was fucking people other than me. but if i dumped that person it would be nobodys fault right ? because idecided to leave ? i can't believe the stupidity...
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>>694858869
nigur u know what I mean u autistic fucktard
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>>694858873
yes I have. and her face looks haggaed. legs are nice but that means. guck all
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>>694859080
actually... nobody does. wtf is a msga
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>>694859119
" haggaed" ? i tried looking it up but it's not a word, are you sure you're not the one on heroin ? because while she looks like am assive slut, her face looks pretty smooth
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What colour was the cock OP? Black or white
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>>694858816
I'd say that my inexperience with romantic relationships is what makes me unqualified to try and give OP some advice, not my sexuality.
Plus, I'm talking 'cuz I like talking!
As for tits, I've got a drawing of somebody far hotter than me. Does that work?
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>>694855907
Haha, I got distracted elsewhere. Sorry. I wasn't sure I cared enough to correct you. But then I thought: "I like talking. Especially about me."

Look, the mono girl was well aware of me dating the poly girl in advance. No "fucking around", as you put it. Get your assumptions outta here. And yes: the mono girl was ridiculously jealous. She was frustrated several times over it. We had numerous talks about how to help her get over her jealousy. Initiated by her, no less. Don't see how that's making her out to be the problem.

Do you like to jerk it while getting aggressive with other people on 4chan or something? Cause I can't imagine many other reasons for you getting your jimmies rustled like this. Unless you really are just a hair-trigger shit-flipper who loses their tits over the tiniest little thing--like your own erroneous assumptions?
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>>694858977
I dunno, what if you just like how it looks?
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>>694824575
You are retarded and deserve this if you're actually still contemplating keeping her. Break up or you'll regret it.
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>>694859020
Wait... is it catfishing if I posted a picture of a guy?
...
because that's a guy.
Pete's poor masculinity is banging its head on the wall repeatedly in frustration.
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>>694824575
Just give into your fantasy you little cuckhold bitch. God, no wonder your girl wants to fuck other men.
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>>694859542
>We had numerous talks about how to help her get over her jealousy

how good of you, it was completely stupid of her to feel jealous while you were out banging other people, i'm glad you corrected her.
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>>694859072
But if you entered the relationship with them knowing that if you did they would continue to be with the other person as well as you, it only makes sense for it to take time for you to realize that that kind of relationship doesn't work for you, right?
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>>694859542
this guy is doing some real mental gymnastics to make this seem ok
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Big dicks pls chicks
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>>694859868
extremely common for people to think they can "fix" their partners to be exactly what they want. Very common problem and its why so many women choose bad boys till they fucking learn.
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>>694859868
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>>694859080
I honestly don't, I'm sorry. Newfag here.
You gotta admit, though, your statement is far more amusing if you pretend that you're talking about golf.
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I would just suck his big dick every day so there is nothing left for her.
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>>694859289
I think they meant "haggard"
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>>694860224
OP's gf is probably already sucking it first thing in the morning
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>>694860034
I suppose, but I wouldn't assume that's why this mono girl entered the relationship. I don't know her, after all.
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>>694859732

I didn't think of it as "stupid"; just different. Kind of like those old white people who used to get so infuriated when they saw a colored folk holding a white lady's hand. He wasn't hurting nobody, but it pissed them off, all the same.

No, "stupid" is you trying to scold me for some imaginary harm I apparently committed.

>>694859919

I think the same exact thing of mono people when they try and justify raging and throwing temper tantrums because they still haven't learned to share.
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>>694860046
Huh that sentence is rather difficult to parse...
I guess the question is "if all three people entered the relationship agreeing to be okay with the fact that some of the people in the relationship would have sex with other people, is it bad that when one of the people decided they weren't okay with it the other two people decided to end the romantic relationship rather than split up with each other to make them happy?"
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>>694860843
>didn't think of it as "stupid"; just different. Kind of like those old white people who used to get so infuriated when they saw a colored folk holding a white lady's hand

you heard it here folks, fucking different people while in a relationship is the same thing as interracial relationships, it's perfectly ok to fuck around people who don't like their partner doing so are just not with the times
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>>694860843
And here I am, somebody who's not really into relationships, wondering what all the drama's about.
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>>694861129
But the girl was originally okay with it, wasn't she?
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>>694861042
>s it bad that when one of the people decided they weren't okay with it the other two people decided to end the romantic relationship

so if you cheat and the other person is not ok with it, nobody did any harm man they just should've been ok with it
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We're getting rather off topic, huh.
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>>694860843
you're starting t sound like a cult man. just fuck everyone, and everyone should be ok with it. you are aware polygamy is illegal is many a country right ?
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>>694824575
You have a fucking 4 inch dick, anon?
8 is average.
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>>694856540
kek, lets ALL FUCK EACHOTHER, yeah ofcourse that'll end up well, you idiot
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>>694861397
But... it's not cheating if the person says "I'm okay with you having sex with other people"
If they change their mind, that's another matter, but it was never said that the girl thought the other person was cheating, just that she felt jealous.
I've never been in a relationship, really, so I don't know too much about it. You've probably been in relationships, so what's your experience?
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plenty of horny women of your city on changirl.jimdo.com
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>>694861554
Wait it's illegal to date multiple people?
..what countries are you referring to?
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>>694861866
>I'm okay with you having sex with other people
if a mono person says that to you, especially a girl she's just either testing you or so desperate she'll let you do anything not to lose you, that's not something that's ok at all, that's like how many people are in relationships where they get beaten and abused but tell their other they're ok with it because they have some mental issues where they don't want to lose the person, that doesn't make it ok either. exact same thing except this is purely mental abuse, not physical
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>>694862040
oooooooh so you have no problem having a "serious" relationship but still fuck around/dating others is fine but marrying and doing so is 1 step too far ? hahahahaha it's like double standards on double standards
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>>694862210
That's true! But there isn't really a way to know if that person is genuinely willing to try polygomy or they're testing you/desperate not to lose you--should you simply not start a relationship with any person who says they're mono, even if they say they're willing to branch out? People's sexualites do evolve over time, so it's possible that somebody who once considered themselves mono came to realize that they're okay with polygamy.
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>>694861129

Pretty much, yeah. I mean, logically: what's the point in getting jealous? Does having sex with another person cause bodily injury to you? No. Does it mean you love the previous one any less? I couldn't tell you the exact statistics, but the vast majority of people who cheat on their partners end up staying with them and leaving the "other" person. So it's very unlikely that they would stay with someone they love LESS.

So really: get over yourself. Stop trying to monopolize a person's affections and sexuality. The deepest love is that freely given. I'd argue that you don't know for 100% certain that your partner completely loves you until they've dated other people and come back to you after. THAT, I would say, definitively demonstrates that you mean more to them than the others. Because otherwise, they'd have left you and stayed with them, instead.

>>694861554

What have I said that is in any way, shape, or form cult-like? And yes, I am aware. You don't need to be married to somebody to love them, though. So I'll date as many people as I like, thank you very much.

>>694861218

Eh. I don't think of relationships as "objects" so much as I do as "a descriptive label of how I feel toward someone". If I hit it off really well with a person, and we're super close? Sure, I'd call that a relationship. But I don't think I'd go seeking one out, per se. Going by memory... that never works out well, haha!
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>>694862365
...what?
That's not what I meant, I was just asking for clarification...
Plus, I'm wondering what the definition of "polygamy" you're using, since my understanding of it is pretty vague too--does it refer to marriage, or just dating, for example?
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>>694863120
Polygamy (from Late Greek πολυγαμία, polygamia, "state of marriage to many spouses.

polygamy ALWAYS envolves marriage...
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>>694863086
>Eh. I don't think of relationships as "objects" so much as I do as "a descriptive label of how I feel toward someone".
That sounds like a very healthy and mature way to look at it! If I go by your definition, I'd say that I don't really go out of my way to feel romantic or sexual feelings for somebody.
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>>694863086
>Pretty much, yeah. I mean, logically: what's the point in getting jealous? Does having sex with another person cause bodily injury to you?
No

kek you're actually saying cheating is perfectly fine and the other person can't even be jealous?

>Does it mean you love the previous one any less?

yes it does ? i would never in my live cheat on my girlfriend, if you love someone you don't WAN'T to fuck anyone else, you' might understand that if you actually feel love once in your life
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>>694863298
Oh, okay! I thought "polygamy" was just dating multiple people.
I suppose it's like how until recently in the US, people who were gay couldn't get married, so they just dated and sometimes called an upgraded relationship something else.
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>>694824575
Tell her that you know he is gay, because you sucked him off.
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>>694824575
move on buddo, the skank ain't worth it.
i'm with my current girl contrary to your problem.
her ex was 9in and i'm only 6,he was too big and could only have sex with him once or twice a week coz it was too painful
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>>694824575
Tell her that you know he is gay, because you sucked him off.
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