My girlfriend only want's to have sex about once a week,
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My girlfriend only want's to have sex about once a week, I know for sure that she isn't cheating.
We've been together for 1 and a half year and we live together.
Has anyone ever been in the same situation? I'm starting to get really annoyed of her always having no will or an excuse to have sex.
>>688863860
She's cheating
Have you spoken with her directly about this?
What does she tell you when you ask her why only once a week?
>>688863860
The attraction is fading...
>>688864031
I know she isn't because she's most of her time either with me or working.
>>688864130
I did, about 3 times already, I expressed that the lack of sex is affecting me and our relationship, she simply couldn't give an answer and all she said was that she was more tired because of her job.
>>688864176
She says she is mostly tired or not in the mood.
>>688863860
If she doesn't satisfy you sexually a year and a half in then it's time to find someone new or be alright with the idea of jerking off the rest of your life.
Unless she's alright with a poly relationship.
Leave her. Get another. No need to get stuck in a relationship, bro.
>>688863860
She's not as turned on by you as she used to be. It's normal in relationships for this to happen.
Start acting like you don't care about the pussy as much, but don't do things secretly to get it, like chores or dates or listening to her problems.
Be your own man, and she'll wanna fuck you. If she doesn't start to shape up, go ahead and ship out. Not worth your time.
Some girls and even some men dont need sex more then once every time there is nothing wrong with this it can at most be itritating
>>688864422
Then start masturbating in her presence, maybe watch some porn.
That sounds like bullshit, she fucks at work.
Tell her you'll break up with her if there is not more sex.
>>688863860
Rape her duh.
>>688864448
We used to fuck like rabbits, our average was always on 3-4 times a week. Only in the past 2-3 months she's been like this.
>>688864460
She is a real 10 for me, has always been, I'm scared that this is just some sort of phase and I'll regret it.
>>688864661
You can't rape your girlfriend.
>>688863860
Living together kills all passion
I'm 29, have lived with two different women for a total of 7 years
Domestication is both inevitable and atrophying
Just fuck somebody else you faggot
Some people just have lower sex drives
>>688863860
This can happen. People have different sex drives, and they can vary through time.
If you want to improve your sex life, work on the other aspects of your relationship. Get out more. Be social with other people. Do non-sex things together (other than Netflix). Pestering her about sex will always backfire.
>>688863860
If she uses baby pills then it's normal for her to have a low sex drive.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AVGt54DsbHU
>>688864338
"Working"
You know how many girlfriends, fiancé, wives I've fucked while they were working for me?
>>688864729
Since when does she work? 2-3 months? Then she's cheating.
>>688863860
Probably depressed get her on some anti depressants and she'll get right back up.
>>688864745
Kill yourself before someone else does it for you.
>>688864541
I do all the stuff a boyfriend should do, I care about her, I offer her massages and stuff. She can't complain on that.
>>688864777
We do a lot of stuff together, I always come up with something to do.
>>688864787
When she started to take the pill she could actually orgasm faster and better and the sex drive was the same.
>>688865058
Femanon detected
>pls respond
>>688864971
I'm pretty sure she isn't cheating at work because I also know some people there.
>>688864972
The last job she got was about 2 months ago, it's heavy on the schedule sometimes but there is still plenty of free time.
>>688865033
She's the happiests she's ever been, she even said that today.
>>688863860
Fem here, I wouldn't want sex more than once per week, neither would any other fem who was being honest.
I guess you could ask her to fake it, but that's kind of a burden and it takes us awhile to regain sensitivity.
>>688865139
She's cheating. Stop lying to yourself
>>688864729
>she's a real 10
Need pics for approval and confirmation.
>>688865139
There is a difference of when she started taking the pills and when a lot of time has passed since she started taking them. I know a lot of people who complain about their sex life getting worse after taking baby pills. Plus they cause a lot of stress and depression.
>>688865364
YOU are the problem and you know this to be true
Stop thinking aloud on an anonymous message board and control your life
>>688865423
This. Another femanon here. My sex drive is actually even lower than hers.
>>688863860
Just go full muslim and rape her. Tell her it is your right as a man.
>>688865495
Indeed
Pics now OP
>>688865615
Could it be that? Is there any way to change the pill or something to get a higher drive?
>>688865436
I know she's not, I drop her at work everyday, she doesn't spend much time with friends and stuff.
>>688865423
I personally get really frustrated if I only get to have sex with my bf once a week.
>>688865667
>>688865423
Has it always been like that?
>>688865260
>Femanon detected
>>pls respond
Not femanon. Pic unrelated.
Does she have other meds tho? They might lower her libido too
>>688865423
>>688865667
Sorry but your both talking shit, been in 4 year relationship, gf wet as fuck everytime have sex at least every other day, OP is not turning on his bitch and neither are your bf by the sound of it, gtfo this thread you boring ass fucks
>>688865423
This, there's a person attached to the sexmeat, you retard. Just play with your dick in between fucks.
>>688863860
Try taking a shower.
>>688865905
No, actually my sex drive requires emotional bond. Now that I've broken up with a guy I used to date I don't really experience feelings of lust. When I am in a relationship though, I'd like to have sex maybe weekly, maybe monthly. But this is just a personal opinion
>>688865823
Keep lying to yourself.
>>688865919
Haha that's even worse
>>688863860
Tired and not wanting sex because of her job instead of wanting release from it
Lold . Delusional op
>>688865905
Yes. The longer we wait between masturbation, the better it feels, too. Playing with clit during the non-fuck days helps increase anticipation for sex. Complaining about not having sex often enough is sexually repulsive, by the way. Wait until the sensation's enjoyable, not just whenever you can get it up. Wait until you're (and she's ) HORNY. Pushing it is gonna make it booooring.
>>688866108
Very likely this. Make sure you retract your foreskin when washing. Also trim neckbeard.
>>688865823
I know that when my cousin was on her pills she didn't have sex with her bf for months... no matter how hard he tried she just didn't get in the mood. After she quit her sex drive got better.. so your case right now is good.. though it could turn from once a week to once every month. You two should go see a doctor together and ask for advice there.
Just how it works somethings, OP. No one's fault. Just roll with it. Ive been with my wife for 10 years. It's about down to 1 day a week. Just how it goes. No reason to be all upset. Jack off.
a lot of girls there 4changirls.jimdo.com
>>688866479
But I don't really want sex every single day, I just ask for 2-3 times a week to keep me feeling good..
I actually read that women hate when men ask them to have sex constantly, so I did stop for some time but nothing changed.
>>688866479
This is so true also
>>688866018
>I'm female
>it gets wet regardless because it's not a measure of being turned on, it's a matter of the body feeling sensation in the vagina and preparing for intercourse
>women are used to going along with it to get men to stop bitching, even when they are't turned on
Ever heard of "faking it"?
>>688865823
So do all the boyfriends of employees I've fucked
D'aww poor baby only has sex four times a month.
I haven't been laid in six years. Eat my scrotum.
>>688865033
That has never worked ever.
>>688864971
None?
>>688866771
Ok, so to make sure you're feeing good, you're ignoring that she most ikely has to just lay there and take it for 2 extra days a week while she's not turned on at all. This may be why your sex life is failing.
>>688867075
This.
holy shit it was so easy in hs
>>688867075
I think I'll do as the rest of the world has done and pass on that.
>>688866609
This.
>>688867075
He makes a very good point here
a lot of assfucking horny girls there 4changirls.jimdo.com
>>688863860
Either you ain't dropping enough dick or she has a hormonal imbalance. Polycystic ovary disease, fibroids... they can cause dips in sexual desire.
>>688867218
But we always used to fuck a lot, she was always really kinky and willing to fuck and experiment. I haven't changed anything to the worse since then
>>688864971
Dude shut the fuck up, you sound like a middle schooler. Not all women are cheating whores
Women do this when they feel secure in the relationship.
Cheat on her op. Or at least let hey know that you have no reason to suck around if you're unhappy.
>>688867277
>This.
>holy shit it was so easy in hs
Oldfag here. Getting laid way more an with higher quality than in HS. Age has little to do with it.
>>688866519
>Having to give a grown man advice on how to clean foreskin
This is why we have a bad reputation.
>>688867741
>Age has little to do with it.
Being around girls has a lot to do with it. I'm not around girls, havent had a girlfriend in years, etc.
>>688863860
OP I'm in the same boat. Don't worry, it's 100% believable that she isn't cheating, mine isn't either, it's frustrating but that's just what happens to couples over time. If you want to keep her, then first of all try jerking off more. Second, try stepping up your game a bit. Buy her flowers, light some candles, turn her on, don't expect her to do it. If you just don't think she's worth it then maybe it's time to move on o someone else
>>688867605
Yes, people try to see what each other enjoy/are into earlier in a relationship, but you're trying to make it into a chore to make sure you're getting all the pleasure you want. That's making you a shitty sex partner. Her body physically doesn't need it that often. Most couples fuck once a week. You use a sex toy 2-3 times a week, not a person who has to act like they want to fuck while theyre not enjoying it. That's bad communication.
My wife has an insanely low sex drive so I'm lucky to even get my fickle wet one a week, when we first started dating we fucked every chance we got its life OP if you love this women get you a pocket pussy or something and just rub one out trust me or you can be a douche and cheat on her, all I know is I don't chase my wife for pussy anymore and when she wants the D the sex is crazy awesome so just chill and if she is getting it somewhere else well then op man the fuck up and fuck her sister
>>688863860
You're shit in bed, have a small cock and she is cheating, 100% guaranteed. Probably with a nïg too.
>>688865823
It is the pill, my gf suffered the same lack of sex drive. It got better when she started eating healthier.
>>688868109
>I'm not around girls
I get that. There's always tindr or okcupid. It' usually works better with girls you meet in real life, but the internet is good practice.
>>688869415
Thought about it. ill just use the king arthur line until i get a positive response
>>688869611
King Arthur line? explain.
>>688868330
But she does enjoy it, she never fakes and I can tell that.
>>688868356
If I have a relationship where I could be sexually satisfied why should I buy sex toys to fap?
By that logic I should also stop giving her massages and other stuff women love which don't make any difference to me.
>>688868742
Her diet isn't shit to be honest, not the best but also not the worst
>>688869820
>he doesn't know
>>688863860
I bet Tyrone is having a great sex life.
>>688868330
You seem to think all women are the same, well they are not, been with my gf for 6 years and the sex has just recently gone down to about once a week from 3-4 times, doubt she was faking her arousal for 5 years. Everyone is different you fuck
>>688869820
Faggot
>>688867122
fuckin' savage
kek'd
>>688869820
http://imgur.com/R532pTw
>>688869886
>But she does enjoy it, she never fakes and I can tell that.
Count your blessings and fap as often as necessary. That's far better than either:
A. Frequent sex with someone who is not into it
Or:
B. Frequent sex with a crazzes bipolar sex fiend who will make your life a living hell.
>>688863860
I'd love to have qt that wanted to sleep with my weekly.
Guess what? In most relationships, once the honeymoon stage ends the frequency of sex decreases. It's also common for one person to want it more than the other.
>>688870765
london?
>>688870121
>>688870356
>>688870502
Oh, that thing. I didn't make the connection because I didn't see the relevance. Still don't. >>688869611
Anon should just do himself a favor and get over it.
>>688869886
Same as my gf. She ate normal, some fast food when we went so see the movies. However when she started this diet (she's trying to lose seome weight), it got a little better. She told me she felt it too.
>>688863860
Listen OP, these femanons do not speak for all women, nor do they have any idea how your gf's sex drive is. The best thing to do is sit down to have an adult convo about why she seems less interested lately. Don't be all whiney because you aren't getting any, but find out why she suddenly doesn't want to. When I worked 3rd shift at a factory I actually turned my gf down a lot because I was too damn tired. Could be that she is just not horny due to wanting rest
>>688865058
Faggot
She's getting satisfied by someone else. Something OP can't do because he's a faggot.
>>688871481
she's just fucking tired, why is that so hard to understand? she works hard and doesn't feel like getting pounded after a long day.
>>688871351
i should continue not caring about girls because at this point its a waste of time thinking about it.
if some girl that ride3s motorcycles and likes video games and computers wants to show up at my door and ask if i wanna fuck and cuddle all night long that'd be good but im not going to go out of my way looking for it.
>>688864338
You could always try fucking marathons when she does want to have sex to get enough to get you by for a week.
Male here who only likes sex once a week but gf likes it much more often. Pls don't be too hard on her...
>>688864745
Ever hear of spousal rape?
>>688870755
>I'd love to have qt that wanted to sleep with my weekly.
Since they live together, I assume they (literally) sleep with each other most every night. I understand his frustration and have been there, but the sleeping part is underappreciated.
>>688871655
That's what I said, working all day can really fuck with you, I know from experience. Most these tards just think women don't enjoy sex which is fucking retarded.
>>688871229
>london?
Explain.
>>688871590
Subhuman
welcome to adult life my friend
>>688872168
>being this new
>>688872063
That sounds so nice having a companion in bed with you every night to snuggle with. Why do normies not appreciate what they have?
>>688872551
Being this much of a dick. You explain it then.
>>688872831
Because most normies are too preoccupied with resenting and screaming at their bedpartners.
perhaps if you washed your stinky cock once in a while?
>>688873089
lurk more newfag
>>688873340
Maybe they are dating these femanons who hate sex and fake orgasms
>>688863860
After that period of time, even though you don't realize it, you may not be putting as much effort into the relationship.
Do you go out often and do things together, or are you both always hanging around the house? If you're always in the house make an effort to get out with her more.
Go walk in a park, go out to dinner, or see a movie.
Being inside all the time, or knot out for work is really damaging to any and all sex drive.
>>688873340
Seems so. I guess I'll never know what it feels like. I have to imagine the smell of her hair would be nice, and just the scent of her in the bed, and something warm to snuggle with, maybe keep the AC a tick colder so we can snuggle and be warm but not hot.
>>688873450
This has already been suggested. It is suggestive in itself that OP did not respond. Maybe he is in the shower. Or maybe he is already getting laid.
>>688873717
>I guess I'll never know what it feels like.
That's up to you, Anon. Take chances. The sting of embarrassment is quickly cooled.
>>688873694
This is true OP, I've been with my gf a lot longer and shit gets stale if you always just sit at home. Go see friends, have fun when she is off work, and don't expect sex afterwards
>>688871802
What are you, gay? Or is she a cow?
>>688874393
I've been trying this year. Got turned down twice, and I don't get much opportunity to find girls but I'm hoping one day I'll find someone. I get very nervous and I'm also afraid when I do get a date at how I'm supposed to act and such.
Do you two exercise? Try working out together. Take things slow, don't put pressure on her or yourself. GL
>>688874489
Straight. She's super thin. I'm just working long days and I'm tired on the weeknights. So like Saturday and Sunday I'm up for it, but.. yea...
>>688872831
It's the sad truth of life. I hope it makes you feel a little better about your situation though, everyone enjoys it at first but it always turns out the same
Did she recently switch birth control? My girl and I went through a rough spot like this too after she switched to getting the butt-shot birth control. As soon as she switched to the pill, her sex drive shot back up to normal again.
>>688874780
Maybe a little, but, honestly I think I'd appreciate it because I'm 30 and have never had a gf.
>>688874777
Just messin with you dude, makes sense.
Also checked
>>688863860
You're lucky. Mine's an autistic robot who just sits in front of her computer and codes some shit
>>688869886
"I can tell"- every guy, ever.
>>688869886
You're trying to punish her for not being physically able to be aroused often enough? She's better without you, honestly...
>>688875273
>roastie detected
>>688874953
Shit man that's depressing... Ever been with a woman at all? Hookers?
>>688871481
Women have no idea how vaginas work, OP. They all want to fuck all the time. Assume that she's cheating or guilt her into sex. -this thread
>>688871802
They're all idiots, I've given up on explaining this. Godspeed, man.
from what I've read here I conclude that most people here has 0 cnowledge about women.
Not wanting sex doesnt mean we dont feel attraction or that we are cheating, we can actually go for weeks without sex while living together with the man we love and lust for. Ofcoruse this is (or rather this shouldnt) be the norm.
When this happens it´s usually because somethig is wrong though it doesnt mean there is something wrong with you or with the relationship. She says she is tired of work and that might be just what happens, many of us just cant seem to find it when we are too tired, specially when it's our mind that it's exhausted from work or too much thinking.
I'd tell you to be patient and if you really want the situation to change (either because you want sex or because you love her) to help her.
>>Incoming manly shitstorm because some of you are just so incredibly alfa.
If she is the one making house decisions (like what's gonna be for dinner or when is time to clean the house) try to lift the burden up a bit, if you can learn even just a couple easy dishes try to do them from time to time specially when she comes back more tired, dont wait untill she want's to do loundry or clean stuff and do it before she has time to start thinking about it
I dont really know what is your daily routine but if you see she is always taking care of certain things just tell her when she comes back "sit for a bit and relax, I'm taking care of this" She wold greatly appreciate it.
Also if there are certain things you always do without her it wont hurt either to ask her to help you even if you dont need it (like gardening who knows) since doing new things it's always good (provided you have helped her doing other things ofcourse, just piling up more stuf wont do)
Actually doing new stuff could also work, take her to places you dont usually do, even if at first it seems silly (take her at least once to a really silly place, trust me lol) routine also kills the mood...
>>688863860
don't worry anon, it will get much better when you are married and she owns half your shit.
![356_offset_64067-356[1].jpg](https://i.imgur.com/qifQQqD.jpg "356_offset_64067-356[1].jpg")
>>688863860
chase is over, she's bored with your beta ass. You fail to give a woman her tingles and she'll lose all sexual attraction towards you. Don't blame yourself, it happens. get out of your dying relationship and get some fresh pussy, that's my advice. It aint going to get better than it is now, on the contrary
>>688875534
In high school got a hand job, had some kisses, girls have been in my bed before, never fucked. I always sperged somehow and ruined it. I'm more normal now though, so, hoping I can get laid at some point.
Thing is I'm afraid if I do get that far the girl will laugh at me for being so inexperienced. Maybe I'm just doomed to never get laid. I contemplated suicide but haven't had the balls to actually do it yet.
>>688874781
Wtf is the butt-shot??
>>688863860
Find someone with the same sex drive as you. That chick probably doesn't like it as much.
>>688874489
I know (attractive and sane) women who complain that their boyfriend or husband has no interest in sex. it can go both ways.
>>688863860
The problem is you are not ending the sex with her craving more. Trust me been down that boat, and if you don't get your act together she WILL cheat, also been down that boat.
So. I assume you are a guy with no significant experience with sex other than what you and she wants, thats not enough.
When you feel the physical pleasure of having sex, dont worry all the guys do it, you tend to focus on the physical part. Now what you want to do is try to be "In the sex" or like a master samurai would say "be one with the sex" the pleasure for her is primarily mental, it that with all women, and the physical rubbing and senses she experiences is just an added bonus.
It hard to describe through words, but try to focus on the body fluid, the bodies wrapped together, as if you arent just a cable you are the whole electricity all-together.
Dont focus more on her unless you arent giving her enough, but enjoy the sex as an act, as an experience not as a physical relief.
Trying to work this way will expand the time sex lasts and leave her craving more.
Now if she is cumming through sex you are blessed with a proper woman, but give her a second round afterwards. Just feel her up, help her stay in the mental state.
If she isnt cumming at all, then its a red alert and she might be cheating allready. If you arent satisfying her, she is not excites about sex. Also dudes begging foe sex is a huge turnoff for women, so try to let it just happen without making any verbal suggestions about it.
Also doing it around the place like in public or somewhere else is like a trillion times more exciting for them so there is that.
>>688874625
Keep trying. Also, there is this thing called the internet - you can find girls there.
>>688876040
depo-provera
>>688876303
The thing is sex drive changes. When my husband and I first started together we fucked all the time. But over time life gets in the way, hardships occur and things change.
The key to a long term relationship is to communicate and be understanding when sex doesn't happen. It's not the most important thing about your relationship.
>>688866167
Ever consider that might be why youre not in a relationship?
>>688875895
Agreed, she's probly tired from work, etc. Same thing happens to guys if they are too tired. All of you autists will probly not listen to the one intelligent female in this thread, but she's right.
>>688876698
I don't know the safe places to do that. Also I'm super wealthy and worried I might attract the wrong attention. Obviously I wouldn't say I was wealthy on the site but still...
>>688876020
Trust me, women aren't worth killing yourself over, keep your head high. If you're really worried about your lack of experience, maybe an escort would be a good way to get some practice. I know that's probably not how you want to lose it, but at this point you gotta do what you gotta do
>>688877014
if you are not lying, just go find a matchmaker.
for 10 to 100k she will fix everything up for you
>>688863860
Is that pic related? My gf is the same way. She's loyal and great to me, but has like no sex drive. There's literally no time for her to cheat on me, and she never master bates either. She doesn't want sex at all and it's so weird
>>688877094
Thanks, yeah I might do that. I live in Miami so should be easy but fuck I don't even know where to find an escort.
>>688877260
What's a matchmaker? They find you a gf? I'd be up for that for sure.
>>688877438
they certainly do, just google <your city> matchmaker and you will be on your way.
you lucky fuck , you
>>688876020
>Thing is I'm afraid if I do get that far the girl will laugh at me for being so inexperienced.
Girls are more likely to think it's cute and be helpful if you let them know what's up. Most girls are pretty nice. Don't sweat this.
>>688877825
you must be a woman if you believe that bs
So this seems to have turned into an advice thread for fuckless virgins. I think OP should count his blessings.
>>688877770
Thanks, I actually already did as soon as you said that. but, it seems to be focused on just me being wealthy, so I feel like I'd end up with a gold digger. You know what I mean? I guess I need to see where they find the girls they hook you up with.
>>688877825
That would be very nice, but it's also optimistic. I think my best bet is they'll like me enough for other reasons to allow my shortcomings.
>>688863860
please tell me pic related isn't your girlfriend
that man ass is pitiful.
>>688876727
That wasn't the reason we broke up but thanks for your concern
>>688863860
a few things could be possible.
-She doesn't have a high libido, some people just don't want sex as much
-She's got other shit on her mind and is distracted
-The relationship is losing its spark
-She's cheating. I'm banging a girl who only fucks her bf once a week, but we fuck about 3-5
>>688863860
Leave her. Ignoring the odds that she's either not attracted to you anymore and lying about it or she's having her needs met by someone else, which are pretty fucking high if you're millennials, your sex drives simply are not compatible. If she can't even attempt to find a middle ground, it's just not going to work out.
>>688878783
why did you break up?
>>688878943
Just gotta shoehorn in that hate for millennials, don't you pal?
>>688866828
I feel so sorry for the sack of shit that gets stuck with you then. GF is on me just about every night. Majority of the time because she initiates it.
>>688879000
Moved cities, had already been long distance but now that it became even longer and harder to meet we just kinda drifted away from each other.
>>688878220
Not a woman. They are neither better nor worse than men, but certainly different. If your experiences have been so bad, maybe the problem isn't them.
>>688878633
You will be very happily surprised, especially if you can go for the midrange (50k) packages.
You will get dating coaching, social etiquette, wardrobe shopping etc. you will feel pampered and special the whole way and that is before you get to meet the girls... oh boy those girls
who says that money can't buy happiness.
>>688863860
Kenny loved pepperoni pizza, or plain pizza, or garbage pizza with everything on it including anchovies. Kenny could eat an entire slab of barbequed ribs, beef or pork, and the spicier the sauce was the more he approved. He was fond of rare prime rib and roast chicken and Rock Cornish game hens stuffed with rice, and he was hardly the sort to object to a nice sirloin or a platter of fried shrimp or a hunk of kielbasa. He liked his burgers with everything on them, and fries and onion rings on the side, please. There was nothing you could do to his friend the potato that would turn him against it, but he was also partial to pasta and rice, to yams candied and un-, and even to mashed rutabagas. "Desserts are my downfall," he would sometimes say, for he liked sweets of all varieties, especially devil's food cake and cannoli and hot apple pie with whipped cream. "Bread is my downfall," he would say at other times, when it seemed likely that no dessert was forthcoming, and so saying he would rip off another chunk of sourdough or butter up another crescent roll or reach for another slice of garlic bread, which was a particular vice. Kenny had a lot of particular vices. He thought himself an authority on both fine restaurants and fast-food franchises, and could discourse endlessly and knowledgeably about either. He relished Greek food and Chinese food and Japanese food and Korean food and German food and Italian food and French food and Indian food, and was always on the lookout for new ethnic groups so he might "expand my cultural horizons." When Saigon fell, Kenny speculated about how many of the Vietnamese refugees would be likely to open restaurants. When Kenny traveled, he always made it a point to gorge himself on the area's specialty, and he could tell you the best places to eat in any of twenty-four major American cities, while reminiscing fondly about the meals he had enjoyed in each of them. His favorite writers were James Beard and Calvin Trillin.
>>688879514
in the contrary, I love women. But like you said they're different than men, just gotta be aware and act accordingly
>>688863860
She's getting bored. Stop asking for it. Hang out with other friends that are girls. Get a hobby or sink yourself obsessively into work or school. Stop feeding into it. She's got you by the balls. Don't complain. And don't listen to her words. Actions always speak louder.
>>688879258
Right? these femanons sound like the worst, any girl who fakes an orgasm just doesn't want to have an orgasm, which is insane since my gf loves to fuck. If she doesn't cum the first time around I finish her off cause she isn't retarded
>>688879564
Actual fucking human beings.
That's pretty normal, you have to remember that women don't require sex as my much as men do (for the most part). I've been married 7 years and only get sex twice maybe 3 times a month. Fortunately for me, I make enough money for escorts.
>>688879645
Are you suggesting that OP has grown fat?
>>688879927
Orgasms can take a hella long time dude. And when the fucking has been taking place at 2am for the last three years I'm not going to be awake enough to get there. And I'm not going to fake it.
I'm going to let him do what he needs to do, cooperate, and then go to sleep
>>688880203
wow you sound like a real catch
I have been in the same exact situation like you OP. I have talked to her and nothing changed, I had to find myself a new gf.
>>688865919
dat beehive.
>>688876608
despite sounding batshit crazy, much of what is said here is good, OP.
aside from the not begging and letting happen, there is also the "forcing" it to happen. so long as your girl isn;t a raging marriage-rape feminist, just pin her against wall, pull her pants down, slap a little spit down there and go to town.
Many women who get into this once-a-week-thing are trying to get you to dominate them by having you initiating forcefully. Not like "beat her until she'd knocked out" but definitely physical force and will.
I was stuck in the exact same rut you were until I started doing this. now get pussy on the reg from my wife and she's orgasming more as well, especially if I do it in "unusual" locations - laundry room, car, etc.
>>688864338
> most
>>688879963
true, true.
that is how rich people keep you guys in line though.
>>688880203
Well that's your fault for fucking when you want to go to sleep. Also sounds awful to fuck you, do you just lay there? My gf takes anywhere from 5 to 20 minutes to cum, depends on how long we have gone without sex and how horny she is. You sound like youre treating sex like a chore and not something you do to connect with your partner.
>>688880203
You are not helping you case at all. If you acknowledge that your sex life is this unhealthy then why the fuck don't you do something about it.
>>688880407
>dat beehive.
I know. Hnnngg...
>>688880388
Gotta do what you gotta do when you husband only wants to have sex late at night.
And since I'm not a freeloading nigger I do have a job to go to in the morning.
If it works it works. That's not to say there's never daytime sex, but my point was orgasms can take like a 30-45mins
>>688880203
see this >>>688880713
If you're really at the point where that is sex, then you no longer have real feelings or respect for your partner.
>>688880884
fair enough. at least he's still getting some
>>688880884
That's a long time. My orgasms take from a two minutes to 15mins. I guess it varies from person to person tho. Fem here, too
>>688863860
>only once a week
you ungrateful fuck
>>688880713
No, I don't just lay there. I participate, but he knows very well that if it's late at night I'm not going to bother going towards an orgasm when I know it won't happen. Good for your gf to be able to quickly.
>>688880742
It's not all that bad, I'm not nessecarily always exhausted at this time of night but that's usually when it occurs
>>688880884
You keep adding pieces to this puzzle one post at a time you fuckwit. You used the "2am" sex as a crutch to force your opinion about orgasms taking a lengthy amount of time when in reality it's fucking irrelevant.
>>688881175
It depends on the mood, but for me it's usually a while.
If you don't mind me asking, do you use a vibrator or is it vaginal orgasm?
>>688863860
if she doesn't want to match your sexual satisfaction gauge then she is being selfish. vise versa but you are satisfying hers so this is on her.
for her it's different. the whole ritual and physical of it all. it's a task. it's work. she probably didn't rub one out until she was 15. she probably had 2 bfs. i say fucking dump her. be real with her and don't argue. you gotta find a partner who has the same sexual drive as you do so you are both compatible. fuck off with this social structure bullshit. it's not that you are a guy, it's that she is a girl with a low drive. you'r girlfriend is weak as fuck. i bet she has guy friends she hangs out with in groups of friends.
>>688864971
Paying a prostitute doesn't count as someone "working for you"
>>688881299
that's married life for you. Better take notes
>>688880884
If they take that long you aren't doing it right. How interested are you in having sex with your husband? Or in general? You need to be mentally into it to have a good time, if your mind is wandering you need to work some stuff out with him. He may even want you to initiate, I know I get tired of always initiating sex, so sometimes I just let her do it without saying anything.
>>688880657
>Implying i'm not wealthy
>>688881299
No, I'm saying that an orgasm isn't a matter of "just do it" and you were judging the worth of a partner by his ability to give their girl an orgasm.
My point is that it's not an easy thing for a lot of women. And if a guy keeps pressuring about it there's a good chance she'll fake it so he'll drop it.
>>688881372
Both. Actually love anal also
>>688863860
Are you me? Haven't gotten laid in almost a month. She claims she has a low sex drive yet I see her Vibrator has moved so she obviously takes care of herself.
>>688881432
I love how confident you are. Seen it all. Done it all. Your relationship lacks passion. Fix it.
>>688881456
It's even like that by myself. It takes that long regardless of whether it's with him or not. I am very interested, but I also have extremely low self esteem and poor opinion of my body, so I know sex suffers because of that a bit. I'm also working on the initiating, that's a point that's come up.
>>688881666
Really? What about anal is nice for you?
>>688866479
As a male I'd preferably do it after 3 days I think. Maybe 3-7 days would be the best, I can't really remember but I don't think I notice a big difference after 7 days, 7 days for me is usually the peak and it would probably stay like that. Daily is hell for me, minimum I'd want is 2 days.
>>688864338
Break up tbh.
>>688881250
Then why don't you talk to him about having sex not that late? There is really no point in having sex if both people are not going to climax, I don't even have sex with my gf if she isn't in the mood enough to orgasm. What you are doing is unhealthy
>>688882083
I dunno, but it even makes me squirt and soo fast and hard
>>688882010
I'm not that guy tho. Single and happy about it. Been in a relationship for 4 yrs, now just having some me time
>>688882318
I have. That conversation wasn't very well received, we tend to be on different sleep schedules so apparently it came off as me not making an effort.
>>688882660
you're always the victim aren't you
>>688882083
My gf struggled with her self esteem for a long time too, it has a huge effect on sexual pleasure, been together for 6 years and since she is less shy or worried in the bedroom she enjoys it a lot more. Are you worried your partner sees the things you see in yourself? Try pushing the boundaries in the bedroom. Try something that makes you nervous, like 69 is one we did and it made us a lot closer
>>688863860
You have to talk to her and find out why.
If you go out on a date, if everything goes right, she should have sex at the end. If not something is wrong.
If you're just expecting sex without all that, you're stupid and immature.
This will continue to decline.
get out while you still can!
>>688882660
Well how did the convo go? The way you say things can really change how someone reacts. Or does he kind of act like his needs should come first? That's not really cool if that's the case
>>688883343
Extremely. And it didn't really help that when I was heavier he commented on it, it was years ago but it's taken me a while to get past that even though I'm not anymore. It's a work in progress, usually now if I want to try something new that I'm nervous about I have a couple drinks and it goes a lot more smoothly.
We've been together for five years so we've tried a whole lot, it's gotten a lot better.
>>688882262
this.
actually, is she acting different otherwise? depressed? that could be a cause too.
otherwise, and this is from experience, break up now or great ready for a slow spiral until you two resent each other.
>>688884192
Not very well. He told me that he thinks I'm cheating, that I just don't want to put in the effort for the physical aspect of our relationship. So I just let it go, it's not worth getting upset and arguing over something that's going to have the same outcome either way.
>>688884207
Yeah I could see that having a negative effect in the bedroom, that's really shitty to say stuff like that to your partner. He kinda sounds like a dick
>>688865682
This.
>>688884939
Eh. He didn't say it unkindly, I was just really sensitive about it.
>>688863860
Yeah, I had this problem a while back. I talked to her about it, she got upset because "I'm a jerk", our sex lives improved for a month or two, then things went back to normal.
This cycle repeats every 12 or so months. If she's got a low sex drive like mine, then there's not much you can do.
If she's cheating, like most of the other guys are suggesting, then you need to drop her.
>>688884800
wow living with your SO sounds so awesome
>>688885471
I mean that's really a small portion of the relationship. Other than that kind of stuff it's pretty nice.
>>688875964
THIS ANON
>>688885786
>he's not satisfied to the point where he suspects you cheating
yeah sounds just swell
>>688863860
if you still have shit to offer, then tell her youre seriously tired of the bullshit and ask her what the fucking point of being together is if she doesnt want to ever do anything anyway. chances are shes not cheating on you and especially if she has a bullshit job that stresses her out. yea i know the "women dont crave sex as much as men" is bullshit but some people can be super affected by stress and shit. also, if you spend a lot of time on video games or browsing 4chan stop when shes around and try to do shit with her.
>>688884800
Wow, okay so he sounds like he has some issues too. Big lack of communication on his part. Honestly if things don't get better from what you have described, don't beat yourself up, it's not you that is the problem if he's being a huge asshole. Don't stay in a bad relationship if the other person won't change and treat you better. And try to remember that most people don't care about the things you are insecure about, they like you for you.
>>688886052
thx, at least some people with half a brain here
I love romantic relationships, but they also die naturally. If circumstances don't allow you to break up you're just going to have a bad time
>>688864541
Second this
>>688886261
found the femanon
>>688885786
You sound like my sister saying her asshole husband isn't that bad. Now since I don't know your situation I won't judge, but make sure you aren't lying to yourself either.
>>688886815
they suck it up because they still want his perks, but on the inside they resent their whipped boy
>>688875964
>>688863860
don't listen to tht idiot lol. It happens you go into a funk basically. Been with my SO for 8 years now last time we were in a funk was 9 months ago when baby was born out of it now. off and on all the time. Also if ur serious getting engaged worked wonders she will let you do anything you want to her once u get engaged and more then once lol. Also When you get married it starts over. Then have her catch you flirting or hitting on someone its still a game jsut played differently
>>688886539
No I'm the guy who has been replying to her posts. What are retarded?
>>688886261
It's not his lack of communication, he's usually very clearin what he's thinking/feeling. It's more the reception to my commutation that he doesn't get, but we think in completely different ways.
I guess for better or worse I'm in it now, so it's just a matter of working on things the best I can.
Thank you though anon <3
>>688887115
the moment a man gives up his power to just walk away, she's won. But she didn't really win, because she'll come to resent this betafied shell of a human being she made out of him
>>688887319
No problem, hope it works out
>>688886815
He can be mean spirited sometimes, but that's the guy I love so I try to work past it. I'm sure there's plenty of undesirable things about me too.
>>688887149
my bad. found the bitch
>>688877014
>I'm super wealthy and worried I might attract the wrong attention
Renounce your wealth - give it to me - and then you will not have that problem.
Alternatively, rent a shitty apartment and hide your wealth from the ladies until you are sure enough of their intentions to intruduce them to your affluent family.
>>688863860
If she's working a lot, she's probably fucking tired, and doesn't want to have sex, find new ways for her to relax and you'll be ramming that pussy again.
>>688888373
Fight me irl faggot. Did pointing out that people shouldn't be assholes to their SO trigger your autism? Sorry bud, in the real world being nice to someone is the normal thing to do.
>>688887662
The moment a man just walks away he's no longer a man this is a battlefield find someone and go for the long haul someone has to win. I like getting a return on my investments tho and a little bit of an egotist but when ur semi successful and still so young you can be. ALSO pick a good partner they are important when your building yourself and your future
>>688890220
sure be nice to everyone, see how far that gets you
>>688863860
Grow a bigger dick
>>688865615
true that
>>688890226
what the fuck are you on about. a woman isn't an investment. just because you take care of her ass for a few years doesn't entitle you to jack shit. you can only invest in yourself
>>688890579
*Be nice you the person your dating
There faggot, I corrected it for you
>DOLLY CHAN>
http://dolly-chan.pw/
>>688864338
she is working on other dudes
>>688890220
haha little bitch thinks real world is nice. go suck a dick pussy
>>688891002
you're*
>>688891101
Real world is not nice faggot, that's why you're still a virgin
>>688890579
i'm won't be nice to your autistic ass also who said being nice to everyone you only need a partner tbh and maybe a few good friends. But fuck your retarded
>>688891290
how about get a life, some good friends and maybe a partner
>>688891157
Correcting my grammar just shows me that you don't have an argument. Faggot
>>688867075
But you jack it twice a day right? That man's hand is saying no thanks. Wat do?
>>688890579
>>688891290
also another pro tip proof read shit or you'll look as retarded, as I just proved. Same fag btw
>>688891442
don't get your jimmies rustled anon
>>688891537
you're boring
>>688891537
That second one wasn't me, but yeah I didn't even notice my mistakes on the first.
>>688891442
>>688891157
that was not me i'm not a moron I know what you meant without having to correct grammer mistakes .
>>688864661
Good answer.
>>688872831
Sad people will always be sad people, unless they have the will to change. If you manage to get a gf you'l be happy for a while and then you will go back to your old self (because you have no will).
Try enjoying life with what you have now or you won't ever be happy.
>>688891797
>i
>no commas
How do you expect to be taken seriously?
>>688871655
Dropping her at work doesn't mean she's not blowing her boss in the janitors closet.
Plenty of people cheat in their lunch hour, or after work.
Maybe she met someone at work she can't get out of her mind.
Timescale seems iffy. New job, no sex. Just sayin'.
OP, I've worked KFC, Tacobell, and Walmart. Girls at work get flirted on, flirt, chatter constantly, and fuck coworkers constantly. Relationships and marriages NEVER seemed to hold the ladies back.
Romance is simply a term used to define the momentarily sexual attraction between two ppl and does not represent a real phenomena.
>>688892118
now this guy gets it
>>688891406
i don't know i built my life with my partner from literally not knowing how we were going to pay for food to not having to worry about anything for a while. bought our first property at 21 2 years after being shit poor. I would say build your life with someone so you know the hard work that has been put into it
>>688876040
Depo provera, 3 month injectable contraceptive.
>>688892292
I'd say build your life so you're independent and happy as it is. Maybe afterwards you can think about sharing it with people who will tag along. But I can do without someone who can pull the rug from underneath me and make the whole castle crumble
>>688865423
Then you're boring. I fuck my girlfriend every night and she wakes me up with a blowjob every morning. It's draining as hell, but I love it.
>>688892053
lol small minded ppl will worry about small minded things thanks for proving that
>>688892549
>implying you're not getting rustled like a summerfag
>>688892521
thats true i suppose. But either wayyour gonna lsoe half your shit eventually. I guess whats more important is the now enjoy the ride and divorce is a bitch but its reality
Been together now for 6 years, and the sex is fading, since she have been working tomuch (110%) sure no cheating.
I am thinking about fucking someone else :)
>>688866479
>pushing it is gonna make it booooring
Expressing that you think your partner is beautiful enough that you have sexual attraction to them all the time is boring?
Sounds like you're just taking your partner for granted, you stupid bitch.
op u say again and again she is not cheating
if she is not cheating how it comes im fucking elisha every monday and friday?
>>688867218
If she's not turned on at all at his sexual advances, THAT'S why their sex life is failing, not because he expects his partner to give enough of a shit about him to make him feel good. Damn, you're selfish.
>>688864971
zero.
Anon here, I can 100% confirm that what OP is saying is true for some women. I have been in a serious relationship for about four years now.
It is true that at the start (the first few months) we fucked like rabbits, going at it multiple times per week or multiple times oer day. But now, 4 or 5 years later, we are living together and rarely have sex. Maybe once every two weeks or so.
Now I have a fairly good size dick (7.5") and she is a full-time worker and part time graduate student who literally has no friends. We are very close so I know she is not cheating on me. Hell, I even bought her a super nice and expensive vibrator and she wont even use it. She has never masturbated once in her life.
Over the years I have tried every trick in the book to get more sex out of her. From being a dream-boyfriend who does everything to her, to explaining the problem straight to her face, to even acting like I dont care about sex. Some of them worked for a few weeks but others just royally pissed her off.
Basically, the only advice I can give you /b/ro is to work out a deal with her. Sit down with her and say "I will do X every week and you will provide me with X amount of sex." If you even care about her that much. If you don't, then cut your losses, grt the hell out of there and find some super horny bitch at the local bar scene.
Tl;dr - Submit to becoming a domesticated husband or leave her.
>>688875273
whew, fuck you, you unwashed cunt.
Some people like to give, some people like to take.
If she was always a giver or at least a try-er, then something fundamental has changed.
Was in the same situation with partner of 9 years. Couple months later she dropped me. Turned out her new salsa instructor had been asking her how she knew I was the one she wanted to marry, in an effort to get in her pants. He didn't get lucky but apparently he hit a nerve, she ended up "trying" out other men.
At least she had the grace to drop me before she actually cheated, but only by a day or so..
>>688863860
does she works on weekends too? how much time do you last at the sex? are you good at sex?
>>688877014
stop putting '...' at the end of your sentences. It is douchey.
>>688879380
Ah, so it became harder for him to fuck you, and so it wasn't worth it. Gotcha. Good call on his part.
>>688881250
>I participate
>it occurs
You're distant. You're clearly not interested in a sexual, and possibly romantic relationship with your partner. Save him and yourself the trouble and end it.
>>688881402
>I bet she has guy friends she hangs out with in groups of friends.
Why do you say this line, anon? How does this connect to his girlfried being 'weak as fuck'?
>>688885224
>>688884939
>>688884800
>>688885471
You complain, and then you defend him.
You're lying to yourself. You're lying to us. You two should not be together anymore.
>>688890883
the time you invest in a relationship is an investment has nothing to do with her being a woman you invest time in friends all the time.
