Okay so is this true for most of you? Ive been trying to keep my boyfriend satisfied by sending him nudes/sexy pics & feet pictures because of his foot fetish when we first dated he had problems keeping a boner & then i found out it was because he watched a lot of porn, we moved in together so i thought he would watch it less since i made it clear i was available when ever & where ever but after we would have sex he would rush to the bathroom & stay there for a while, he confessed later he was watching porn. What can i do to satisfy him? I mean i dont look like the whores he watches but im also not an ugly girl and i have an athletic body type also many guys have complimented my feet when i post them online and its really starting to frustrate me that we cant have sex without him losing his boner multiple times. I try giving blowjobs throught the day but he always ends up jerking off. I need advise & i came here because i see this website on his history a lot
>>686309840
The human race is doomed to watch weirder and weirder porn until only gays.
what the fuck is wrong with your boyfriend
let us judge if you are athletic body type or not?
>>686309840
Look at his history
See what he is into and dress or act like what they do in the porno.. unless he is into chicks with dicks.. you might want to end it also titsnor gtfo
>>686309840
Some people would rather watch porn than have sex.
Its a side effect of having a porn addictionp
>>686309840
He's not going to stop unless he wants to. You need to talk to him. Just be honest and try to find a solution.
Maybe you're just not very good in bed? That could be the cause. But if you're decent or better then it's not a problem.
>>686310232
Hes into petite girls like ones with flat tits and also girls with big tits and big butts, he had a huge collection of porn on his computer & after he confessed that i wasnt doing enough (apparently being horny for him like every hour and wanting to blow him wasnt enough) i started taking nudes and feet pics and i would send him videos of my feet and licking my toes but he kept doing it so i honestly dont know whats going on. Also on his history i would always see that he would look through random girls pictures they were all mainly white im Hispanic
>>686310779
Strange
what do you look like op
>>686310434
My past partners would be very pleased with me, & after i knew about his addiction i watched the girls he would watch and i would do things that they would do. He was very persistent with having anal & when we finally did it he never asked for it again
>>686310779
weell a girlfriend horny for you should leave all the porn aside... that's really difficult to know why he does it
>>686311072
I would post a picture of myself but like i said he uses this site daily & he would freak out if he saw or knew that i was on here
>>686310779
well OP i sort of know why he's doing this, its bcuz he's on the lookout for something but have new (no offense) i had this addiction too myself. have him tell you what he wants at that exact moment, bcuz it sounds like he's a sporadic porn user
He has a porn addiction. He needs stop watching porn for like a week and only get off with you and then just not jerk off so god damn much. Reasons he should want to are hes going to get ED and this will just make sex feel better.
>>686311171
I wouldnt mind him watching porn or jerking off like every now and then but he does it daily and even at work. Im running out of ideas on how to make him pay attention to me & im tired of wanting him & knowing hes getting off in the bathroom while im right there.
He is just using you, just leave him he doesn't really love/need you it's obvious but keeps you on the side just to nut every so often and to have someone
The day he finds someone he likes, you're out of the game
I watch porn daily and I'm totally fine. I never really get off unless I tense up my dick anyways so it's not like it makes it harder or easier to nut.
>>686311973
its not something that will change, leave him or accept it two options thats it there is no playing into his interest because interests constantly change youre fighting a losing battle
>>686311728
Ive tried that. Ive tried role play & ive tried talking to him but nothing working. Now hes changed his phone lock and wont allow me to toch his phone. So im basically stuck horny and angry all day. When i ask him what can i do to please you all he says is nothing im very happy with how we are
I like real girls, date thr fuck out of me
>>686309840
Tits or GTFO!! What the fuck is going on here?
>>686312391
the sad sad truth is most men are like this nowadays porn is too easily accessible and its much easier to jack myself off than it is to play the game and get a chick each night far less expensive too
just need to find a dude that is highly motivated in sports and or workingout those dudes will dick you down left and right because there is no time to watch porn
>>686311768
I broke his phone after an argument we got into and he was left without it for 2weeks he was always irritated and moody through out the time & we had sex maybe once & i realized his eyes were closed the entire time he lost his boner & left then after he bought his new phone the same day he took a shower & i went through it and saw he was already watching porn again.
>>686309840
Show me your feet you worthless whore
>>686312391
hmmm, well i guess the only thing is cut off his service, and take away the internet and just porn-starve him, and maybe just maybe he'll come to you. But if it doesn't work, then idk what to say for you, unless you masturbate like hell
>>686312741
if you live in arizona ill dick you down every moment you need you better belive i get a boner when a slight breeze passes my dick
>>686312639
Newfags. Newfags are going on here.
>>686312737
He is like this, he works 2 jobs & works out and plays soccer and plays video games but what ever free time he has hes locked in the bathroom & hes in there for about an hour & its corny to say this but im not really looking to just get fucked. Im in love with this man & its ruining my life.
>>686312639
You're the newfag here.
>>686309840
this shit used to happen to me
he needs to completely cut porn especially if he has a gf. you should be his porn
unless hes fapping to ultra weird shit. then he needs to get used to normal porn again then quit
>>686310100
>>>686309840 (OP)
>The human race is doomed to watch weirder and weirder porn until only gays.
This basically. My wife is a 10/10 and I'd rather just spank it, my hand never nags me.
Leave him.
You're not happy. He's not happy.
There's obviously no reason to try to "fix" him.
Also, tits please.
>>686309840
Just tell him you will do everything for him but he has to promise not to masterbate or watch porn. You can mentally condition him to only be aroused by you.
>>686312391
uh...hes obviously cheating on you.
sorry OP. dump him...sounds like a headache tbh.
What the fuck is wrong with you ppl?
Tits or gtfo
>2016
>Falling for facebook memes
>Falling for any love meme
This is the fucking problem here. You're only loving your boyfriend by how society teaches you how to have a relationship and in truth you're being fucking blinded by the fact that your boyfriend has a porn addiction and can't be intimate or sexual with you because he rather prefers to jack off to the fantasies of porn instead of being intimate with a human being.
Do yourself a fucking favor and stop following memes and leave your boyfriend.
>>686312741
Yes, its an addiction. He needs to be a willing participant if he wants to quit.
>>686313347
>only aroused by you
You beta underage virgin faggot.
This is not how men work. Men choose to be loyal. That doesn't mean that there's nothing in the world that makes them horny.
Fucking children.
>>686312639
Fuck right? How has this gotten do far?
>>686309840
>when we first dated he had problems keeping a boner & then i found out it was because he watched a lot of porn
No. You're fucking ugly, and that's why he can't keep a boner. Guys don't have a problem keeping boners around hot chicks.
>>686313511
dubs = troof
send clothed pics, so we know if you are cute or ugly and give you a just answer.
>>686313347
Tried i used to wait naked for him
I used to play with myself in front of him
I would get in the shower with him
But i guess a lot of you guys are right ive tried talking with him and offering my help but its not enough. I think i have to leave him.
post feet atleast pls
>>686313579
Lol calling the 29yr old guy with a gf of 3 years a beta virgin. Porn and masterbation kills boners why? Because he conditioned himself to cum from his hand only. Second porn has warped his expectations to lose a boner if his view of the act becomes different to what he expects.
He's porn addicto femanon. Been there, he needs to stop watching pornog and spanking it. That's the solution but it's hard to do. I broke that habit and now my erections are powerful and pussy feels amazing
>>686309840
>he had problems keeping a boner & then i found out it was because he watched a lot of porn
That doesn't prevent you from getting a boner.
>i made it clear i was available when ever & where ever
THAT's something that prevents a boner. He can have every of his fantasies satisfied through porn at all times, why would you then be interesting if you're always read, too?
>>686314007
Leik, oh wow, I'm totes leik 74 yars oeld.
He didn't condition himself to his hand you beta fuck. Yes, a porn addiction. Visual imagery that cannot be achieved in the same way as a physical situation.
You've also failed to counter my point.
>condition him to only be aroused by one singular girl he happens to be living with at the moment.
Now fuck off, school is about to start back up isn't it?
>>686313924
Ok good now tits or gtfo
>>686313924
Is he taking medications? Anti depressnts numb your cock and libido. Maybe have him drink a few alcoholic beverages before the act. Just not enough that he gets whisky dick and can't get it up.
>>686313231
well sounds like hes a pussy to me that isnt interested in you he just keps you around cause its easy
>>686313924
No shit.
See below:
>>686313337
Its called addiction.
Its not rational and he needs proffessional help. Its not a question of your abilities or your aesthetics, he's ill.
Seriously, its not that hard /b/tards.
>>686309840
Armchair psychologist here. Your boyfriend is likely addicted to porn, preferring the fantasy over the reality (thus his one and done reaction to anal). Probably nothing to do with you since you actively fulfill fantasies and fetishes and say you don't suck in bed, but him still wanting more. Also, yes, basically every guy appreciates sexy pictures and videos.
That's as helpful as I feel. Now post feet, OP.
>>686314536
TITS OR GTFO WHY ARE UOU FAGGOTS HELPING HER LIKE THIS WITH NO TITS
>>686314707
>This
Just masturbate with him.
Seriously, have tried just watching porn together and just letting him toot his trumpey while you scramble your bean.
>>686314535
Nah man, I'd wager it's because sex loses its magic when you can have it "whenever & wherever". I start masturbating more often when I'm in a relationship either, because bitches that offer themselves are boring. Men are meant to pursue.
>>686312639
second this! why tha fuck are you the first response like that
>>686314950
That sounds exactly what a woman with self esteem issues would do.
You are such a little bitch its unreal, lol.
>>686309840
You fucking fags, before we give advise we need some tits and a timestamp.
>>686314707
Because some of us remember why Tits or GTFO exists, and this isn't that situation.
>>686312639
I know right fucking newfags
>>686314707
Because it took me thirty seconds to type and "tits or gtfo" doesn't apply here, dipshit. Get the fuck out, newfag.
>>686315166
What exactly would a woman with self esteem issues do?
>>686315441
It does apply you cancerous prick.
>>686309840
Put a porn blocker up on your internet.
Shackle his fucking dick and only take it off when you're ready to fuck
ween him off the porn.
Tits or gtfo
>>686314707
Because she's not attentionwhoring, you absolute newfag.
>>686315602
Nope, it sure doesn't faggot. At no point in this does OP say being a female is why we should help. If OP was a guy talking about his boyfriend wouldn't change anything. Learn how the rules work.
>>686314906
>toot his trumpey
>scramble your bean
lost my fucking shit
>>686315602
Tits or GTFO only applies to camwhores you fucking retard.
>>686313959
>>686316103
nice feet op
>>686315669
I like this idea. I might try before i give up permanently
>>686316219
Thanks anon
>>686315979
Nigger, you sound lonely. That is why you start helping this "girl". You broke protocol because she does need to show her tits and with a timestamp to get /b's help. Now go jerk off and come back when you are relaxed then type tits or gtfo and proceed with being one of us or just fucking kill yourself. I rather prefer the second option because you might be cringy as fuck.
>>686316083
Are u fucking retarded?
>>686316253
You could always just tell him it's a deal breaker and either work through it, or find someone else. As much as people don't want to admit it, sex is important in a relationship. Make it known, and if he can't work toward fixing it, and you work toward helping, then move on.
>>686316497
>anon
>triggered
>>686316497
Only applies to attention whores.
>when does this summer end
Check out Fight the New Drug. They might explain a lot.
>>686316497
>Nigger, you sound lonely
>Begs for tits
>you broke protocol
>one of us
>you're cringy
kek
>>686309840
just suck hus dick on a regular its simple
>>686316799
sex is not just important, a healthy sex life is the backbone of a working relationship
hes gay period
/thread
>>686316497
Oh go get bent faggot. Asking for /b/'s help isn't attention whoring. I do see you think /b/ is your secrete tree house club still, talking about protocol and being "one of us".
>>686311973
>>686313231
>>686313558
>>686313562
>>686314535
Porn addiction is a serious issue. You will not solve it alone. He needs professional help and/or an intervention.
Or shove a chastity belt on him, keep the key. PORN has no use if you cant wank it. Or you can just wank together, whichever.
>>686314707
GTFO, Summer. TOGTFO only applies if a woman is being an attention whore, she is not talking about herself nor bringing attention to herself but to her boyfriend and his issue. I see this as discussing a fellow man's issue, and not wether or not she should workout or I would bang her or any other issue TOGTFO applies.
>>686316083
Any attention whore in general actually, which op does not seem to be. just sayan.
Pic unrelated.
>>686309840
>how to keep yo nigga satisfied
>yo nigga
Pictures of basketballs or watermelons I would imagine
>>686317118
I do a lot actually but somwtimes he takes so long to cum my mouth gets numb hes made me go over 30 min & sometimes he doesnt cum at all.
>>686309840
Porn induced erectile dysfunction may be to blame
>>686311105
>He was very persistent with having anal & when we finally did it he never asked for it again
The fact that he worked so hard at it and then it wasn't satisfactory might be a clue, no? Why would he bother to go through that bullshit again? Deep inside he probably wants someone better than you. You sound like a lot of work.
>>686317760
>hes made me go over 30 min
That's just a warm up. What the fuck is wrong with you?
>>686309840
>I need advise
tits or gtfo is "advise"
>>686318143
dont listen to this fag
>>686317760
As a man in his shoes (I do not cum from blowjobs). I can say one of two things:
A: Despite popular belief, getting a real man off (not a premature-ejaculating-virgin-teen) is not as easy as you would believe. It's kinda like getting a woman off. It's part psychology, part physical, and part the girl's skill.
B: His porn addiction might be stacking the odds against you, making it impossible for you to "blow him the way he likes".
C: And I hate to say this, maybe your blowjob technique sucks (pun intented).
In my case, I just physically need more than just my dick sucked to get off. I need more physical contact than just on my dick. Might be the same for him. Who knows. My girl and I gave up on her getting me off with just blowjobs, so she will do that to get me hard but we will move on to other things from there.
Some times though, it still does not help, if the room is too hot, or I'm really really tired (I work shifts till 2 am) etc. Sometimes only porn will be able to get it up for me.
Making love and Porn-stress-relief are two different things for me. IE it sometimes feels like the two are mechanisms that are completely unrelated to one another. Like I can fuck her, get off, and still want to jerk it an hour later if I have exams etc.
Hopeless dopamine addict. Only difference is in my case it does not impair my day-to-day or relationships.
Don;'t know if this helps, but there ya go.
>>686318387
More like 'how young is she if "she" spells it that way.
Might actually be underage ban and not Tits or GTFO.
>>686318028
I sound like a lot of work? Okay well i cook for him i wash his clothes i wash his dishes i pick up all his trash that he leaves lying around i have to remind him which bills need to be paid but me asking for sex once in a while makes me too much work? Wow
>>686318143
He never comes regardless of how long im blowing him. It can be 30 min or over an hour it just doesnt happen
>>686318947
OP plz keep in mind that these are /b/tards your asking for >"advise" here okay
Post tits?
>>686318942
Im 21
>>686318768
Welcome to 2k16, where feminism has made it that even men can be complicated to get off.
You wanted equality? YOU WERE NOT PREPARED!!!
>>686319297
Ive gotten good responses and the rest im assuming are just here for nudes but ive gotten a glimps of how he might think so it wasnt all for nothing.
>tfw girlfriend never sends anything
>tell her she's beautiful all the time
>still says no
>long distance and unable to fuck her
at least i have a gf right
>>686318768
Thanks anon