My girlfriend of 8 months is asking me to co-sign a $30,000 loan or threatening to end the relationship.
Back story: She bought a dilapidated house last year (when I first met her). She is originally from an Eastern block (US citizen) moved to a large U.S.A city for half her life and then moved to my city.
She is a model and her agency isn't working her like they used to for the past 5-7 months. She is utterly broke and when she first started dating me said she needed a man that could take care of her.
At the time she was making money and things were extremely good between us. She recently ended a modeling trip overseas because she wasn't making any money. She is renting her broken house out and this is her only source of money (which I am helping her rent).
She flew back in recently (to large city USA where all her friends/family are) and told me to not come to see her. She will fly to see me in 2-3 weeks.
She has been SHIT depressed for the past few months and it's getting WORSE. She wants to badly fix her house up and has NO JOBS/NO MONEY coming in. Her friends are married to millionaries wall-street bankers, men in their mid to late 30s.
She is comparing our relationship to theirs and says her friends ask why don't she ask to borrow money from her boyfriend (me) since she is in such dire trouble with her house and bills (she had to let her phone lapse cause she had no money to pay it at one point).
Yesterday she gave me an ultimatum. To co sign $30,000 loan for her house or she'd find a man that would support her. THIS FUCKING CRUSHED ME AFTER ALL THE SHIT IVE DONE FOR HER/HER SHITTY HOUSE.
What should I do /b/? She is giving me 2-weeks to decide.
Pic related, not her but looks exactly similar to her. To me russian models all look the same.
>>685187877
Break up with her you fucking cucklord
Honestly, breakup is the best choice. Kick her ass out and use your money on yourself
bruh, you gotta end it, because this is only the beginning of her sucking you dry
Don't even think about it. Do not cosign. Big mistake
>>685188024
We are so integrated into each others lives. I basically go to her house everyday doing airbnb shit for her. Then she has a third of her shit at my house and I've taken her to so many nice places and we would spend 24.7 with each other. We'd often spend nights just at my place not doing shit other than watching movies and her cooking russian meals.
She would constantly be around me and we wouldn't take breaks. But past 2-3 months I haven't seen her cause she's been overseas and now shes in another city.
She is getting very angry at her job situation and taking that shit out on me. She thinks shes too good to work a normal job too.
>help me with payments or I'm leaving you
Fucking dump her you moron.
>>685188363
If bait, fuck you
If not bait, holy fuck you're pathetic
>>685188363
You wrote all that shit and none of it fucking matters you god damn moron if you didn't want to take the advice I gave then don't fucking ask for it you fucking idiot
Listen to this carefully. This is literally the best advice you'll get.
Break up with her and act like you don't care. Tell her you don't want to be with someone just because of money. You break up, act like you don't care. She will either come back crying to you 2 weeks later and realize she's mistaken or she won't because she doesn't love you and only seeks money.
In both cases, that's for the best. If she's with you only for money, this won't be the last thing she asks of you. There will be more and more. Be wise, OP.
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>>685188024
This will fucking crush me. I love this girl with all my heart. I love her family/her family loves me and Im friends with her close friends....
I love flying to visit her family and hanging out with her friends as well...
I'm afriad I'll loose her to some faggot wall street banker or some shit. I think she's being COMPLETELY IRRATIONAL.
I SUGGESTED SHE GET A FUCKING JOB AS A WAITRESS/HOTEL AND SHE SAYS SHES TOO GOOD FOR THAT
even her mom said she has a princess syndrome.
She wants a man that will fucking pay everything for her so she no longer has to work. How realistic is her fanasty?
>>685187877
You'll have so much regret, Don't do it! Leave her, she clearly only cares about money, else she wouldn't do this to you.
>>685188732
Then kill yourself
>>685188732
Kill yourself
>>685188732
Sometimes you just gotta let go.
Here you can let go of this girl or you can let go of the weak grasp you still have on your testicles you fucking pussy.
>>685188732
Nobody gives a fuck about what you like to do and blahblahblah you asked for advice the thread has been crystal clear you refuse to accept it
Thread is over
>>685187877
Tell this cunt to get gone.
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>>685188024
Ok. Then it is clear. The relationship needs to end. I'm fuck all a mess.
Since she said this shot yesterday I barely texted her but she texted me earlier acting like nothing happened.
Now she isn't really talking to me, but I havent bothered trying to text her.
I have to do one final airbnb shit thing for her house and I'm done with it (she has a friend taking care of it now anyways, this was planned month in advanced and he is a good family friend of hers and he told me the same advice. That I need to end it and she is being sinister)
>>685188363
Youre fucking pathetic. Seriously, youre pathetic even for a chineese cartoons forum standards.
I hope she will exploit you even more, you deserve it. Disgusting cuck.
Also saged
>>685188722
this
dubs speak the truth
>>685188732
Put a bullet in your temple, people like you shouldn't be allowed to breathe
>>685188732
You're a stupid fucking idiot, break it off NOW or live like how you're feeling for the rest of your days. Sometimes you must cut your losses and man up for yourself, take it from us shitheads that she is NOT worth your time if all she wants is cash from you.
>>685187877
>She recently ended a modeling trip overseas because she wasn't making any money
escorting.
leave that hoe, man. she's only interested in money and has already cheated on you.
good girls don't give ultimatums.
OP you're an incredibly annoying bitch. Stay with this cunt and let her run you like a dog. You're pathetic.
>>685188732
Can u afford a trophy? Answer no? GTFO
>>685187877
fuck no anon, i've been with my gf a year and even a few hunded is too much. Just don't mix financial shit with any relationships, gf, frind, or famalams
>>685188732
Leave her you fucking cuck
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>>685188722
Ok instead of breaking up with her I will simply tell her no I won't cosign. She'll break up with me and I'll listen to your advice and not act affected by it. I want to wait 2 weeks though to make myself strong and break all attachment and feelings for her so when it happens I'm ok
now i feel like i can never do better than her. How could I possibly top dating a fucking model?
Beat the living shit out of her. That's all those eastern bloc rushans understand. Fuck her up!
>>685187877
Fuck you and fuck her. Run far, and run hard, Sir.
She will keep demanding, and you'll keep giving, until you're broke as fuck and irretrievably wasted as a human being.
Have her get her shit in order, make demands of her in return; it's only fair. Then you'll see her find the next sugar daddy, i promise you
>>685187877
Poor fellows 30k is not much :D
>>685189410
Drinking bleach well help your particular situation newfriendo
>>685189410
Kill yourself
>>685189543
What sucks is over the 8 months Ive learned part of the russian language and russian culture. now i just associate her to all that shit.
>>685187877
Go away evil dogger!
>>685187877
You got in to a relationship understanding that you would have to pay for her, now you're surprised she wants more? Seriously? Idiot.
>>685187877
bang her one last tine abd tell her you dont date money grubbing whores.
I married a Russian girl. Very much in love with me, I dont make a whole lot but its enough to support her, myself and our son, while she slowly makes it through college. Every night my diner is on the table and ever morning my lunch is made for me.
Ots not one sided though. I do a lot for her, like check her homework, reassure her, take care of her...anyway, relationships are like that, they are a team effort. When one says "do this or else." its no longer a team, its now a slave and master.
>>685189410
You could date someone with a shred of humanity, dude.
Everything else is just a fucking fleshlight with legs.
>>685189410
Put your head on some railroad tracks and wait, faggot
>>685189410
No, no no! You must be the one to break up. You must show she can't control you and that you don't care, even if you do. Don't even make a mess out of it. Tell it to her quickly and shortly and leave.
>>685189726
i didnt think it'd be to this level. i thought she meant pay for her shit when i took her out on dates.
On special occasions I dropped $120 on lunches in Manhattan on her ass and she acted like it was nothing.
>>685189060
Post her noodz, faggot. FFS.
>>685189410
You may not find another model or even girl for a while but that is better than getting walked over m8, have some self respect.. You got to learn to love yourself before someone will love you back OK.
>>685189895
>I dropped $120 on lunches in Manhattan
should have took her ass to mcdonalds. gold digging hoe.
whatever you do, don't sign that fucking paper. You will be on the hook when she defaults. Is that worth it?
>>685189818
Should it be before she flies down here over the phone or after she flies here? It'd be the first time ive seen her in 2.5 months
>>685187877
>She flew back in recently (to large city USA where all her friends/family are) and told me to not come to see her. She will fly to see me in 2-3 weeks.
There is your problem. she is trying to find a way to dump you, because she has a new boyfriend back home. She is going to kick you to the curb regardless if you co-sign or not, so she is trying o squeeze every penny out of you before she ditches you, so tell her you know about her boyfriend(even if you don't), and that you're done with her. Show her you're not a cuckold who can get extorted that easily, and it will put her in a position she is not counting on.
8 months. Cut her loose before you find yourself saddled with a 30k loan.
>>685188363
So you had a girlfriend. And did boyfriend and girlfriend stuff. Big deal. You can find another one, much more cheaply. Guys break up with their girlfriends and get new ones all the time.
>>685190057
ok i wont pay. i wont do it
>>685190050
i took her to cheaper places but manhattan is fucking expensive
>>685188732
Her wish is realistic. If a bigger money bag/banker type comes along she is gone anyways, so fuck her and drop the bitch.
Invest in yourself, not the most expensive hooker you met and think you are in love with.
Also, laugh really hard at her
>>685190152
>she is trying o squeeze every penny out of you before she ditches you
This.
How are you guys falling for this?
>>685189410
Looks aren't everything. The best looking girls will upgrade the moment they can, but the plain girls will do anything to keep YOU.
>>685190152
this is excellent advice, you guys are starting to make some sense
also she claims its so she can work with her agency, as there isnt a big agency down here
>>685187877
She obviously only wants you for your money
Move the cunts things to her house and leave her
If she actually loved/cared for you, she wouldn't pressure you for money like that
>>685190217
they have mcdonalds in manhatten.
>>685190060
All this is b8 as fuck but I'll bite. Do it over phone call as she told you not to come see her you faggot. I bet she's getting fucked right now while you act like a bitch.
>>685187877
throw this shit away
>>685190152
thissss
don't be fucking stupid OP. Dump her wth a straight face
>>685188732
>>685188732
Don't sign, and move on from golddiggin cunts like this. Just keep contact with her mother to fuck around.
Pics of said bitch.
>>685187877
8 fuckin months???!!!!! if you are really in tight with her family then talk to them first. and tell them what is happening. fuck it. then if they are telling you that this is a bad mistake.
and it totally is, 100% a bad fucking idea. you could get stuck paying probably over 40k after interest. she will fuck you and take the money. give you fucking set of fucking balls and move on. just do it man.
>>685190232
> If a bigger money bag/banker type comes along she is gone anyways, so fuck her and drop the bitch.
she threaten me yesterday she was looking for such a man to take care of her and if she found him for me to not be surprised. this was after i didnt answer about cosigning.
but how likely will a wall street faggpt agree to give her $30,000 dollars?????
i hope she doesnt find what she looking for and ends up alone
she may look hot but she has a horrible attitude and gets angry a lot
here's what you do. Since she's already fucking another man... tell her you'll sign it. Have sex. Tell her you changed your mind, not signing it and also dumping her. say with straight face.
Leave and don't answer her calls.
>>685188732
>SUGGESTED SHE GET A FUCKING JOB AS A WAITRESS/HOTEL AND SHE SAYS SHES TOO GOOD FOR THAT
>her mom said she has a princess syndrome
>She wants a man that will fucking pay everything for her
Obviously you need to leave this woman.
>>685187877
>obviously money is more important to her.
she has no way to pay back the loan. do NOT sign. you will end up owing all this money and she will dump you anyways eventually when someone with money comes along.
>>685190365
ok i can do it over the phon ebut she will physically fly down here in about 2 weeks
i thought about telling her then in persn
>>685187877
LOL - no.
Tell her fuck off.
>>685187877
how old is she turning? it sounds like shes not getting jobs because shes getting older, which is common with models.
>>685187877
>girlfriend of 8 months
>$30,000 loan
>Eastern European
>model
red flags all over the place OP. end the relationship now, save yourself a lot of debt and headache later. trust me.
women that make financial support a condition of the continuation of the relationship deserve to be selling pussy in the gutter, which is where they end up if they can't find a daddy.
>>685187877
She doesn't love you. If she did she wouldn't give you an ultimatum.
Break up. Or better: burn her alive. One less stupid idiot on this world.
>>685188732
I'll bite. Co-sign the loan and be a cuck. That's obviously what you want to hear to fulfill your cuck fantasy.
>>685187877
Instadump this person!
>>685188732
Dude she's only in it for the money. She has no income and she wants you to cosign a loan? So basically she wants YOU to borrow 30 grand and just give it to her which she's going to expect you to pay back by yourself. Even if you do that, she's going to want more and more. When you can't afford to keep her happy anymore, she'll find someone who can. Get out now and deal with the broken heart before you have to deal with a broken heart + a huge debt.
>>685187877
Dude she will suck you dry then find a rich sugar daddy, dump her while you are ahead and next time date a 7/10, it's what I did and I have never been more happy
>>685187877
Tell her you are gonna co-sign. Fuck her brains out while the loan is pending. Make her do anal. Then don't show up at the closing. Get your shit out of her place and block her phone calls and text. Send her an email and tell her to fuck herself.
>>685190769
32 turning 33
she looks 25 at most
how likely is it some wal street dude with money is going to pick her ass up with all her baggage?
I HOPE NONE
and i forgot to add honestly if you got with one model you can get with another. chill out and enjoy the worlds endless supply of poon while you can. shes probably not one in a million even if you think she is.
>>685190742
She's might stab you
>>685187877
same here
also a russian model-girlfriend.
i help her with rent and anything. around 5000 euros a month.
>>685190612
>but how likely will
lol you did.
some other moron will too.
is she even hot? is the pussy even good? any head game?
what the fuck are YOU getting out of this?
I need pics.
>>685191001
ok then ill tell her over the phone im not doing it before she flies down.
100% she will end it
>>685191001
*she
>>685188732
dump her OP she just wants a cuck to pay for all her shit and will probably cheat on you
>>685187877
If the money is that important to her I'd tell her to fuck off
OP isn't going to listen. He's waiting for someone to validate what he already wants to do. What a little bitch.
If someone has to tell you how to be a man, it's because you aren't one yet. Grow up.
Also, check em. Pussy.
your fucking pathetic. stay with her, your clearly retarded and cant see it, you deserve it...you fucking moron. you should be wearing the skirt
>>685191108
she is a 10/10.
blonde hair, blue eyes, tall, skinny, nice perky boobs. she'd be nude around me when we were home and just watch movies and shit.
she'd also cook every night and i didnt do shit
>>685190769
>>685190962
She's not a model. instagram doesn't count. and most instagram "models" are escorting for rich clients.
shes a prostitute, dude.
>>685187877
exactly the same... damn. i even care for her airbnb-shit. and still she needs arouns 5k every month. and when i ask for just giving her 6 or 7k instead of doing airbnbshit, she refuses.
>>685187877
dump her
get a better gf
>>685190962
it doesn't fucking matter if they do. if you got one model you'll get another. theres an endless supply of poon in this world. you might think you've found the "one", but they are tons of "ones". trust me.
>>685188732
>I love this girl with all my heart
she doesnt feel same way smol friend
money is what she wants
Tits or gtfo
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>>685191180
ok i will tell her fucking no and then man up when she dumps me and act like it doesnt bother me.
i need the 2 weeks to get over her first though
>>685191305
yet, no pics?
lies.
my girl isnt half as bad and I'm leaving her \
get out NAO ! OP do it!
>>685187877
This motherfucker creates these elaborate cuck threads with different themes, every fucking week. And most of you dimwitted drooling faggots fall for it, every fucking week.
>>685187877
Don't.
>>685187877
Dude, sunk cost fallacy applies here. You know what you need to do - get the fuck out.
>>685187877
>Yesterday she gave me an ultimatum. To co sign $30,000 loan for her house or she'd find a man that would support her.
>>685187877
>What should I do /b/? She is giving me 2-weeks to decide.
Why do you need 2 weeks?
Tell her to get fucked, you idiot.
>>685191363
>-shit. and still she needs arouns 5k every month. and when i ask for just giving her 6 or 7k instead of doing airbnbshit, she refuses.
tell me your story. is she a model too?
>>685191527
i need 2 weeks to get over her emotionally,
im nt fucking cosigning anything
>>685189410
>How could I possibly top dating a fucking model
its not all about perfect looks.. you can get a decent looking chick that appreciates what she gets
Wait wut
Shes a model and no pics yet?
Fuck you, what part of /b/ do you not understand
>>685187877
Hahahahaha if you dont have the answer now keep cucking my friend. Makes it easier for chads like me
OP is a bitch.
/thread
>>685187877
For the love of god don't. She's setting you up for failure. Don't do it
>back in a town with her friends,
>does not want you to come see her
>wants you to cosign her loa
She doesn't want you to see her because she's running a train with all of her new potential replacement boyfriends while she's waiting for you to give her financial stability.
>if you cosign her loan I will personally find you and punch you in the nuts for being such an idiot.
>>685191760
yeah i took this bitch to hawaii for 2 weeks and had the top resorts (not the huge hotels but private resorts) and she doesnt fucking care at this point about any of that shit
she says vacations dont matter when it doesnt change her situation (ie that she is fucking broke)
>>685187877
No brainer - don't give her money - find someone worthwhile
>>685188363
haha fucking cuck
she has no respect for you and neither will anyone ever in your life if you don't end it
>>685191854
i wont sign it
>>685187877
Break up with her and upgrade to a newer model.
>>685189765
dude thats a cute story
>>685191965
ill tell her that i wont cosign it. when she tells me its over and she's finding a man that will take care of her i wont show any signs of weakness
>>685191977
Yeah you will.
Sign it so she can dump your ass and move on.
>>685187877
you can always find another pussy, but 30k....
>>685190060
make her fly down, but don't pay for it then end it.
your no millionare wall street banker or whatever, if her friends can find a "boyfriend" they are going to cheat on whats stopping her from taking your money and running? especially if shes a model.
Op dont get taken advantage of EVER you have to be strong in this world or people like her will be walking all over you you may get depressed for a few mmonths after you break up with her but after those few moths comes the happiest time of your life, trust me.
>>685192217
i wont sign it. i'll get over her within the next 2 weeks. see her when shes come down and just tell her upfront. unless she calls me before then and ill tell her then. i already decided 100% i wont fucking sign it or any amount of a loan she presents
>>685187877
Anon, I have a deal for you.
I will pay you 30k if you let me have one week with your girlfriend, I'll fly here out to my place but I promise I will treat her like a lady. After that she will have the money she wants and you all can live happily ever after
>>685192094
Good don't.she's a fucking gold digger. If you co sign the loan, you're gonna have to pay it back. You're gonna waste money, and fuck up your credit all for a girl you've dated for eight months
>>685191537
she was more or less rich when we got together 6 years ago. due to some investments i earn quite good now. she lost a few contracts in paris, so she dont have that much money anymore. at first she wanted to keep her french apartment for jobs, so she took airbnb. i pay for her other apartments in germany and italy. also i pay for my apartment where she basically lives. so now i also care for her airbnbstuff and for her pocketmoney or whatsoever. she is my 10 really. lingerie and dessous at home, anallove, nice and relaxed with movies. she cooks for me and i am enjoying it. but still. the airbnbshit is crap.
dont end it op. most of the time, thats temporary. but dont give her too much and dont give her shit, You dont have.
>>685187877
It seems like she really loves you and this relationship is promising. You should stay with her and sign the loan
>i'm dating a girl who has been up front about using me for my money
>she now wants money or she's going to leave me
>i don't understand
she's obviously a hot gold digger. she's not even hiding that. either you can give her your money and be with her, or not. don't deceive yourself that she loves you or some shit, because she's pretty up front that she doesn't love anything besides your money
>also, she didn't want you to come see her because she spent that time with the guy she actually loves
>>685192357
thanks for this
>>685192312
she could walk outside and find whoever she wants, but im not paying her 30k. I already loaned her like $600 im not getting back
>>685192298
ok i will do this. use the 2 weeks to get over her, have her fly down, not sign it and end it then
>>685187877
>>685188363
Seriously, your ''gf'' is a spoiled lazy cunt and is threatning your relationship for you to sign a $ 30.000 loan? how do you in your right mind think that is anywhere remotly acceptable? you're in love, get your head out of your ass and break up with her RIGHT NOW.
>>685187877
Face it, she has some issues in keeping up with the Jones, in terms of luxuries & she is looking for a one way meal ticket.
Get rid of her.
>>685192391
Dude just sign it, then she'll go away on her own. You clearly don't want to break up with her, but when you sign away the $30k, she'll do the work for you, bitch.
>>685192398
Hey Timmy, get of the Internet your momma's looking for you
ill pay her 500 dollars a hour to fuck her... no joke... she wont be broke no more... you will be happy... and I will be happy... Win Win... post email if your intersted
>>685187877
dood.. sounds like a trap. fuck off the relationship, leave this bitch cuz shes gonna hurt u
>>685187877
seems to me like you already know the answer to your question since it's fucking obvious dude, ask yourself this what advice would you give to a friend who told you the exact same thing as you are telling us now. That's right ditch the bitch...
>>685187877
>My girlfriend of 8 months is asking me to co-sign a $30,000 loan or threatening to end the relationship.
Stopped reading there. Further context is irrelevant. Sign NOTHING, and get the hell away from that leech immediately!
>>685192778
great idea. op seems like a real cuck. he'd probably want to watch, but he might settle for letting her record it for him
>>685187877
Cucklord
>>685187877
Leave the bitch. Her expectations are out of whack. Women are crazy to begin with but MUCH worse when they have insane expectations like yours. You can't fix her bro.
>>685188363
>8months
>lives are so integrated
choose one
>>685188732
Then don't ask for advice then you fucking retard. Fuck off and die!
>>685192834
ill give myself 2 weeks. then see her and do it.
i'm going no contact on her ass and already consider the relationship over.
now spending these 2 weeks getting over her and i will tell her to talk to me about it in person when she flies down.
then ill give her the news and move on with my life
now im just fustrated about how any girl i get from her on out will ever come close to a fucking model
>>685192969
hahaha im sure you will know about it... if it happens
>>685193212
no im listening i wont sign SHIT
me again. same situation 5k dude.
really.
talk to her, that you cant do that. dont be crazy about everything. i am sure she can handle that. and jeez. 120dollars? you cant even go to fastfood with that.
>>685188722
Good response.
>>685187877
your girl sounds like a cunt.
model depression isn't real depression.
you and her got together 8 months ago, around when she started not getting as much work. you are just an object to her that symbolizes an achievement in her life at a time when she needs to feel like she has achieved.
now she wants a house to show off that achievement too.
you and the house are the same thing. trophies to show her friends how grown up she is.
ditch the bitch bro, any chick that gives you an ultimatum is bad news. double points if she's a self obsessed cunt which it seems like she is.
>>685187877
Don't let her manipulate you like that op. That's not love.
>>685188732
SIGN THE LOAN IDIOT, OTHERWISE SHE WILL LEAVE YOU.
>>685193228
Seriously, you care more about looks than whats inside? keep on living like that and you're going for a devorce in no time...
>>685187877
Sue her for emotional and financial damages. Press extortion charges. Ruin her. Walk away. Find a better girl.
>>685188732
i never understood assholes like you. you come around looking for advice, then when everyone throws common sense in your face, you make excuses, find ways to bitch about the help you asked for and keep entertaining faggot ass questions that don't matter. you're fucking pathetic you dickless shit for brains
>>685193327
i found it common to drop $150 on standard meals. guess dinners can be more expensive. But I did shell out in hawaii. i'll tell her i wont cosign, see how she reacts and go from there. she made an ultimum once and i didnt completely follow through and her threats were shallow. but this time i suspect its different as its around her house
>>685193408
she is a total cunt and you're right.
>>685187877
>She flew back in recently
>She will fly to see me in 2-3 weeks.
>has NO JOBS/NO MONEY
>she had to let her phone lapse cause she had no money to pay it at one point
>>685187877
>Looks exactly similar to her
What the fuck does this mean?
Also, tell her to go fuck herself
>>685193504
NOT MY GF
mine is blonde, blue eyes, tall
>>685187877
>My girlfriend of 8 months is asking me to co-sign a $30,000 loan or threatening to end the relationship
Run dude.
Or ignore this and regret it forever. No skin off my boner.
>>685187877
Dude, she's already broken up with you. She just needs some liquid assets to float her new life or to have a clean cut from her old life. It's already over. Cut and run.
I bet I know what kind 9f modeling she does.
http://mobile.bangbros.com/home?from=http%3A%2F%2Fbangbros.com%2F
ok i feel like shit
I WILL NO COSIGN
Take her out to dinner, tell her you'll sign, get laid one last time, then walk the fuck away.
Offer to do it, but that she has to sign a contract using the house as collateral, and let you put a lien against it for 50k. Then, if all goes well in the relationship, no problem - but if it ends, you'll get the money and be paid for your effort.
>>685193943
THIS
>>685187877
So now you know that her only interest in you is for your money. Shallow bitch is always going to be shallow. Dump her ass. No sex is worth that.
>>685193928
Trust me, alternate timeline you will be jealous in the long run.
>>685193780
its my ex....she is my ex bc money means more... and now you got o see her... so its ur turn
>>685193958
How does that work? If she doesn't sign I get the value of her house and in addition to that get to put a lien against her house for 50k?
>>685193685
Cucks cant stop bein' cucks.
>>685194080
Amen to that
How much is her house worth?
Tell her you want part ownership
She will say no because she already has someone else but that is what I would do
>>685187877
OP YOU ABSOLUTE FUCKING PUSSY, do you not realise that once you sign she'll fuck your spineless ass over?? This is 30k, 30 fucking K I earn just over that much a year
This is my GF in a nutshell:
Gold digger
Thinks she should marry rich
Wants a rich handsome husband
Wants kids
Wants a nice house
Wants a man that will give her $30,000
Wants a man to fund her own business ideas
Says shes a vitcim in life, that she done everything by the book and by the rules and is broke
No modeling agency will consistently work with her now. She also has a terrible atttitude problem with everyone and i think that is a big reason why
She wont work a normal 9-5 job and thinks its beneath her
She complains when she does get jobs its only for 500 and 500 for one day is shit money to her
I could go on
>>685187877
OP, wait out the full 2 weeks so she has less time to find a way to get the money
Okay now that youve dumped her post nudes
>>685194465
she offered me many times for me to buy half her house.
It needs about 10k of kitchen repairs and needs central air. Not sure how much that is? 5-8k?
I'd estimate her house is between 50-60k. She wants 100k for it but thats too high
>>685188732
your stuck in love, show her a ultimatum, break up, she either gets a real job and comes back to you when she has to pick up the house or your better off.
>>685187877
If you're dumping her, please have some common courtesy and dump the nudes.
Golddigger / 10
Kick her to the curb, if your having fights over money now it only gets worse.
Also the second she finds a guy with money your done.
>>685193920
this x100
>>685187877
Fuck that bitch
lol, BYE BITCH
nah, this will of course end well, go for it you fucking dipshit. tie your credit and financial future to a loser, do it. what could go wrong?
>>685194684
i think if i dont cosign she'll stay where she is living with her mom.
contact her retailer, try to sell the house for 100k, get like 50-60k and then she'll use that to buy some other shit house and at the same time try to find some rich man that will take care of her
>>685194673
what fucking shithole does she live in with a house that is only $60k
You don't need a bitch like that. Leave her ass
>>685194796
>Also the second she finds a guy with money your done.
this is true.
she told me this yesterdat as a 'warning'
If shes gone for 2 weeks, pack up your stuff and get out of there asap.. do not contact her do not see her, break up over text.
You see her, and she'll accuse you of rape just to give you a final fuck you.
>>685195012
she doesnt live there she rents it out and this is a major reason shes so slow to come back
it is a shit place but with potential.
but she doesnt have enough to fix it up to its potential and wants me to do it which i wont
now im trying to figure out how to tell her no
either wait for 2 weeks see her in person
or
tell her over the phone before she flies down here
either way she'll be in town
Leave you fucking retard. omg.
>>685187877
Cut the ties now. Don't let her rip your wallet out of your asshole. If she metastasizes any longer, you may not survive further down the road.
>>685187877
Fucking retarded, don't let some stupid cunt screw you out of 30k. Anyone who gives an ultimatum like that isn't worth being with, not emotionally not financially
>>685195364
ok ill end it
>>685195046
Well there's your answer. The pain of getting cheated on is worse than breaking up with a golddigger.
- Advise from a happily married dude.
>>685187877
russian women age like milk. dump that ho
>>685187877
That's called an ultimatum. When someone makes that it's time to get out.
Unless you're willing to accept she's a whore, not a girlfriend. If you're cool with that, and willing to risk 30k on a whore, then by all means go ahead.
>>685195641
>>685195638
Ok. I'm giving myself 2 weeks to get this shit out of my system. Then I'll call her to tell her I'll talk to her when she gets here
Sign it you bitch, you'll be the guy who payed 30k for one last pussy, she's fucking another guy already or will eventually, 8 months in and you're in love? Fuck outta here. Need to weeks to break off but you're manning up? You're a bitch boy that deserves to be homeless so sign it
>>685189410
an average girl who loves you is 10,000 better than an out of work model gold digger who didn't appreciate you.
>>685189410
>"How could I possibly top dating a model?"
Idk OP, maybe dating someone who isn't a money hungry cunt and has a enough humility to work a normal job.
The people who want to be rich but don't want to work for it are literally the worst.
Cheat on her with the ugliest fucking girl you can find, let her catch you, make her feel like utter shit.
>>685194796
>This nigga is right.
>>685195921
i just need 2 weeks to break my attachment from her. i wont cosign and when i talk to her i wont show any emotions
>>685187877
No. Just flat no.
If she is threatening you then you are just a tool for her. The only thing that matters is what you can give.
There are no other things that either of us need to say. Deal with this how you may, while knowing she is wrong. Period.
>>685195947
no you're completely right.
eventually she'll loose her looks and end up alone i suspect
ditch the bitch
>>685195894
Nah, don't call after weeks. Never
>>685187877
fuck that bitch
burn her shit house down
>>685195988
Perfect.
>>685196088
End it now faggot, if my girl gave me an ultimatum I'd kick her ass to the curb till she comes crying back. Models are fuck toys, you don't date them, it's not that hard to bag one for a couple months. You waiting weeks is her control over you
>>685194505
Kek
The 8 months, that is what's awesome to me. You don't even know a person until after you live with them for a FEW YEARS! And the letting her leave your hip in 2016 thing, what do other men's semen taste like? Dump her you cuck, or you are in for a shitstorm, lvl.5...
>>685196254
ok so basically go no contact on her period?
she will eventually call me then
if she calls me before she gets here then ill tell her over the phone
but if shes here then ill tell her in person
>>685192686
How retarded are you exactly?
>>685187877
This is the gayest made up shitposting ive ever seen. Pro D-Trump shitposts are better than this.
>She is a model
Give her a STD or two.
>>685187877
>My girlfriend of 8 months is asking me to co-sign a $30,000 loan or threatening to end the relationship.
Don't be stupid, op.
>>685190060
dick her first
>>685195988
dubs speak the truth
im sorry op but what you said in your words shes a Gold Digger you deep down know that if she dont even want to work just fuck off / if she do agree to work anything then stick with here other wise just flat out dude
Rape her!
OK question
DO I TELL HER NO OVER THE PHONE before she flies here
OR TELL HER NO IN PERSON?
>>685195988
do it op, even if is a money hungry whore, this would make her fucking depressed
>>685187877
>ultimatum
>compares your relationship to others
What is she going to do without you. You have the upper hand here Anon let the bitch go. Find another one.
>>685187877
I have heard a similar situation with a coworker of mine (minus the model part), and she freakin conned in into paying all this shit for her. Don't do it. I repeat, don't do it.
>She flew back in recently (to large city USA where all her friends/family are) and told me to not come to see her. She will fly to see me in 2-3 weeks.
Are you fucking stupid? You would still consider co-signing a loan?
>>685187877
If you do this with her i know you are gonna be fucked later. You'll be back here on b whining how you got fucked.
>Fucking beta op
Get fucking over it.
>man up op. Drop the bitch.
>all she wants is your money
> she will find her money either through you or someone who has more.
>if you do it...
>mfw she leaves you for someone else after you co sign and pays nothing, leaving you responsible.
>>685187877
You're an idiot if you do it. The second an ultimatum is introduced to a relationship it's time to step out because that person is using you.
>>685187877
Anon. Be logical and put your emotions aside when making a decision like this. Think of your future and do what YOU want.
>>685196772
Text that bitch, she don't deserve a phone call
>>685196825
>You have the upper hand here Anon let the bitch go. Find another one.
You're completely right.
I am young, have a stable job and am going place.
broke as fuck and her situation doesn't look like it'll be improving. She also relies on me to take care of her house and keep airbnb shit running.
She relies on me a lot.
>>685196772
Tell her in person, after banging her like it's the last time.
>>685196772
Phone and breakup with her. Get rid of her shit and wash your hands and be done with it.
You breaking up with her will teach her some humility.
This will be good for her. If she breaks it off you with you she will feel justified this will make her a worse person.
>>685187877
get rid of her idiot, 8 months are nothing. you will get over her pretty quick.
>>685195988
Fucking this.
>>685187877
lol, give her the money cuck. then come back and tell us how that went. ..
How do people even get these problems? It almost seems inherent to avoid these types of personalities. Leave her ass, express your thoughts and tell her why she sucks and end it. Let her find another guy, because if she walks on you she is still going to. Start finding shit to do with your hands or go lift, breakups build amazing skills if you harness your pain correctly. After reading this I am 100% confident in your relationship coming to a close regardless, because she threatened it openly and hit you with an ultimatum. Plus beauty fades nigga, go develop yourself and relish how you did life solo. Look for love not beauty man, wish there was something less cheesy to say, but find a female you can stand to be around and breathe your air forever. But if you stay with this girl she is going to make you both poor lowkey, I've seen it done.
>>685187877
>threatening to end the relationship in order to extort monetary gain
Fucking dump her, it's only going to get worse
>>685196532
implying she doesn't already have STD's doing all that 'modelling'
>bait thread
>story is fake
>mfw faggots keep replying
Thanks bros.
I won't sign shit.
I'll make this thread again later with my new action plan/advice.
I'm going to fuck off and study/get something to eat.
Also this
>>685195988
>>685195988
>>685195988
is based and made me laugh KEK
>>685197380
Thanks anon I saved this advice. She is in her 30s now and not getting younger. I can't imagine her finding a longterm golddigger that complains everyday/has a bad attitude. Eventually it'll get old and they can find someone younger/more welcoming. I hope my gf looks back on this one day (maybe it'll be years and years later) with regret.
if you're in Houston OP I can test her for you. I'm not a millionaire but I'm her age and drive a luxury car and live in huge house. I can test her.
>>685197667
Not fake 100% real
i wouldnt be saying the same shit over and over again if i faked it
anyway this >>685197699
OP out
>>685197731
also the test would work thats why im coming more terms with ending the relationship
>>685190057
I'd advise you to not see her.. Might make it worse/harder and you might chicken out. Be sure to go through with not agreeing. I've seen lots of people getting ruined by this sort of thing and honestly it's just not worth it, no matter how good the looks. Also grow up, looks aren't everything.
Drop her gold digging ass and get with a gal who appreciates you
>>685197867
You get off on this shit somehow, the "you're a cuck"replies I'd imagine. You didn't provide an ounce of proof that any of this is real. Because it's fake.
>>685188732
What a cucklord
>>685195283
Do it over the phone, fuck sake man, I feel you, but cut the cord. Drink some whiskey, call that bitch, tell he you're not a fucking piggy-bank, and its over.
Trust me, 12 months from now, you'll look back and laugh at how utterly retarded you almost were.
>I speak from experience
Also, since when is 4chan acceptable for relationship advice? for fucks sake...
>>685187877
Man and i was starting to feel emotional fot the chick that was murdered on the first 48...
>>685198628
especially since it only lasted 8 months. Getting over something that has lasted 4 years is way harder, so end it now
nigga if a bitch gon leave you for 29'999, drop her
Get your stuff and just dont talk to her... Not for like 6 weeks
Maybe she will default till then and you did gods work
She is too old to be a good model anymore, no banker will give her 30k in the next few month
>>685197699
It was genuine. I know it's just shit posting here, but if this is a real story you just gotta go through it fam. The breakup will make you a man, believe me it will build you up of you do it right. I'm in my late 20s and dated a parasite for a few years, she was fucking gorgeous and after we broke up I was super depressed. The breakup actually was a blessing and I went to the gym, found a powerlifting coach and picked heavy things up, and put them back down, and ate <em>kinda</em> better. I looked good felt good, got a few ugly hoes under my belt and then was back on. Hit on a pretty girl at the grocery store and now I am proposing after 5 years in a week, after living with her for 3 years and helping her build her business. I'm not rich, I am not a 10/10 and I am short. Together though we got it goin on, and OF COURSE there is always a risk she'll leave, but I know that I can handle myself in this world on my own two. But your person is out there man. GET THE FUCK AWAY FOR THIS HOE BRUH
But forreal if troll... is 10/10
>>685187877
You can either step up or move on. I don't know the situation (how much you make, if she really loves you, if she's a golddigger--just wanting the man to take care of her doesn't mean that in the places I mentioned necessarily), so I can't really judge. Just thought I'd throw that info out there, though, to let you know that it is like that in places.
How is this even a question? This won't be the last time she pulls this. She wants a man who can buy her way out of trouble. You aren't one.
>>685199056
dammit that was only the second half...
the first half goes: some women are still like that in the world, where the US' poison hasn't taken hold of them...Italy, Russia, Eastern Europe...there are lots of women who want a man to take care of them.
>>685187877
check em
how about you put your pants on and let her catch you fucking an ugly chick
How much you make op? Sounds like you are kinda loaded
But dont sign anyway
>>685189410
Dude... Looks mean shit. 20 years from now they will all look like shit anyway.
/b/ro you can get any other pussy in the world. Is her pussy worth 30,000? I don't think so. What a ungrateful bitch
>>685189060
a person blackmailing you into a loan (more so, a person that doesnt have an actual job) should not be your significant other.
ditch her, OP. you'll see her doing porn in less than 15 months, so you can fap while thanking yourself for dodging a bullet.
Samefag more OP. You have real fucking issues.
>>685195947
>Qft
>>685189682
>ameriblob fell for the muh hot russian gf meme
lmao, in my country they are literally strippers and whores. nothing special.
>>685199451
/thread
>>685199444
This. Run.
>>685196375
>No contact on her period
kek
>>685192620
>>685193166
>>685187877
These two honestly OP. If it's only EIGHT months in the relationship and she's already giving you an ultimatum/acting like a spoiled princess-ish bitch then you need to get the fuck out before your life is ruined
$30,000/8months = $3,750/month
AFTER 8 MONTHS
You think if you give in now, whats year 5 look like? Glad you asked...
>You're homeless
>shunned by friends & fam, because you're a cheap asshole
>Not really a cheap asshole, but broke as fuck
>Meanwhile shes off sucking cock like a champ in the Hamptons
Moral of the story?
KEEP YOUR FUCKING MONEY IN YOUR OWN FUCKING POCKET
LOSE THIS BITCH REAL QUICK
>>685189765
>my wife's son
have you already met her black bull?
>>685199451
Fuck yeah!
/thread
>>685187877
If this shit is legit break up now you moved
>>685197699
Congrats op Ur not a cuck anymore
You're an idiot if you do it. She obviously does not care about you one bit. She cares about money. You do this,and you're credit is going to get wrecked, and she'll still end up leaving.
>>685190050
$120 for lunch practically IS McDonald's in Manhattan. NYC is a sick joke
>>685199451
>>685191488
Well I don't know since I don't hang out in this shithole 24/7 like a pathetic loser.
>>685187877
Nobody here should have to read past the first sentence. End the relationship. For one, if she can give you an ultimatum like that then she doesnt give a shit about you. Also, you never cosign for someone. Especially someone you only dated for 8 months. The only people I would understanding taking a risk like that for would be an immediate family member. If she cant pay the money back, which without work she clearly cant, so it will fall on you. Unless you are willing to pay the $30,000 do not cosign. If you are willing to pay, just pay her directly and avoid the interest on the loan.
tldr: She is using you for your money. She will leave you if you cant keep giving all she wants.
Cosign a loan: NO.
Acceed to someone's threat: NO.
Make any kind of long term financial committment with someone you've been in a relationship with for 8 months: NO.
Just dump the bitch. Or say no and let her dump you. Either way get the hell out of there. Why do you even need to ask, you moron?
>>685187877
No she's going to leave you and default the payment to u
>>685189410
By dating someone more humble and nicer, that's how
Text her now and post screenshot as payment to your /b/ros for saving your ass
>>685187877
Not reading the whole thread op but co-sign for NO ONE, EVER
She will fuck you over
