Need help from you /b/
>Girls always attracted to me but I'm a faggot
>For some reason I back-off after I hit on a girl, can't even bring myself to hit on them becuase they're "not my type"-bullcrap
>Guess not much balls
>I want to not give a fuck about anything and give the D to ever-girl who ever wanted me
Speaking as someone with an anxiety problem, pick up a drug habit (but not any drug habit, experiment). Some people find different things fix them, personally I picked up marijuana about 4 years ago and I've had a steady relationship for 3 years now.
Extending on that, everyone's brain chemistry is different. A friend of mine has schizophrenia and swears a low dose of MDMA makes him more clear-headed than he's ever been in his life. Seems to be true too speaking as the observer
Start small, ease your way into it. Have a couple beer or maybe a couple puffs off a J and see how you feel.
I was pretty scared of it too at first, but you learn pretty quickly the crap you were taught in school is mostly BS (alcohol is more damaging than heroin for example)
Fun fact, even with heavy shit like meth only 10% of people who try it ever end up with any kind of dependence.
Heard things like this alot from friends who're smoking pot.
ok but other than that? how can I not give a fuck about me hurting those women and just fuck them and leave them?
and also being more manly,
I look really manly on the outside, 6'1" ( yeah yeah tiny ), kind of pumped
Lol dude, your size has very little to do with it. I'm a smaller guy than you and I've done what you're talking about plenty back in the day.
If you wanna not care about hurting these women you need to change the way you think about them / the way you see the world in general.
Personally I'm a firm nihilist - since we're all inevitably doomed talking monkeys it really doesn't fucking matter what I do to anyone since it'll all be undone anyway. But whatever works for you
>Personally I'm a firm nihilist - since we're all inevitably doomed talking monkeys it really doesn't fucking matter what I do to anyone since it'll all be undone anyway. But whatever works for you
You're correct, But I think maybe I'm too nice and thats not for me, even though I want this really much, I cant understand what I need to do
Expanding on that a little, what women really look for more than anything is confidence. If you don't have it learn to fake it through mimicry. And no, you won't become good at it overnight, it takes some practice. Then eventually once you realize you're good at faking it and grabbing girls you'll end up with genuine confidence.
To use / abuse people like that takes a certain degree of sociopathic behavior. Yes, it can be learned. If you feel you're too nice, desensitize yourself. Force yourself to do things like this you'd consider "not okay" and with each one you'll kill off that soft heart a little more.
Also on the nihilism thing - it also helps to realize that morality itself is a human construct and there's no true right or wrong.
>Also on the nihilism thing - it also helps to realize that morality itself is a human construct and there's no true right or wrong.
thought about doing this,
Thanks guys actually got decent advise over here :)
>it also helps to realize that morality itself is a human construct
but if you say it 'helps' it implies you feel bad for doing these things, but are looking for a way to justify them to yourself. using logic over a feeling you have inside your emotional and moral soul.
thats not a good thing to try to do mate dont live your life that way. that wasnt decent advice