18 and virgin boy here. Can you guys tell me how did you feel when you lost your virginity and how much time did your first sex take?
About 60 minutes. She only came three times and badmouthed me to her friends as a result. I had to move to get another chance.
The pressure is huge, OP; don't screw up your first time or you'll pay for it forever.
>had to try surprisingly hard and force jizzm cause condoms suck.
>kept slipping out cause stroke game was bad
>you get way better at it the girl I'm with now is a screamer and I never use condoms
50 minutes, only one orgasm. That was last week. My friends are still laughing at me, and no girl wants to be near me anymore.
Thinking of an hero.
Don't fuck up, OP.
Id suggest someone who actually ia romantically interested in you, because then the sex wont be a huge deal.
>me at 17 in summer school
>my first was a black chick
>i only lasted 30 some minutes because i didnt know what i was doing
>came a shitload
Not too sure what went wrong. But it was ok. She liked me so it wasnt a huge deal. You could be honest with her and just try to go slow and learn.
First time was around 2 hours I was really uncomfortable with the girl because I literally met her about 6 hours before haha she was some chick that was friends with my best female friend (who I'm now dating and have been for 2 years but that's another story) but yeah first time was fun but kinda awkward especially because I took so long to cum
Just gonna put this here for all the people that lasted an hour.
I honestly don't know where these people are found? How can you even have fun in 2 minutes? An average fuck for me will take over 20 minutes. Know that's not huge but that's not trying to last that's just how long it takes. Where as wanking I'm done in under 2 minutes most of the time haha
First time was pretty hilarious. Was dark and we were drunk 14 year olds. Took forever to find the hole and lasted about 15 minutes. I was terrified to cum in her even with a condom on.
We had a good chuckle the next day and fucked like rabbits for the next 2 years.
>be 23yo virgin
>hot slut hired at my place of work with mental issues
>invited back to hers for coffee
>starts kissing me
>gets naked, great body, super slim, shaven puss.
>get in bed and she starts sucking, can't get hard
>she gets on top and tries rubbing pushy against flaccid penis, get a little bit hard.
>try my best to put condom on and stick it in.
>go soft in like 2 mins.
>she is confused
>proceed to get out of bed without saying a word and get dressed.
>she asks what is wrong
>"I don't know"
That was my first time. Didn't realise sex with someone random is fairly shit. Met my wife 8 years ago. Rock solid fucking and always bust in 2 mins. Feels good man.
took me 2 hours... no joke... if you want to have a good first time dont jerk off for a week... cum in 2 mins... wait for half an hour and go in again... then youll last 1 hour which will be more than enough.. do lots of foreplay beforehand... sweet talk, massage and all that jazz...
It was okay, a bit messy though since we were both virgins and didn't really know what to do.
We were going at it for about 40 mins, the cum-in-5-minutes first time is a meme as far as i can tell. That being said I was wearing a condom which was too small, making things significantly less enjoyable.
I do my best
For a real answer:
I guess the first time will most likely feel very awkward. It will be messy, sweaty, and you both will feel very amateurish (if you both are virgins). The first time can vary in time, since you will very insecure and unsure of yourself. My first time only lasted about 45 minutes. You will feel proud-ish, but you will understand why sex really isn't that big of a deal.
18 yo here too
A couple weeks ago had a chance to have my first time with a girl at her 18th birthday party (She wasn't virgin, in fact she was my buddy's ex) Not the hottest chick but didn't matter at the moment.
Ended up just fingering her, neither of us came, cause we were interrupted by other people. I must've been terrible though, she almost instantly noticed that it's my first time. When I was about to stick my dick in her, I FUCKING COULDN'T FIND HER PUSSY ANYMORE. As excuse, I was drunk af, it was dark af and she was fat af. And I'm pretty sure everyone knows, and that's a shame cause she has so many hot friends. I'm sad now.
Don't be sad OP. Just try to do it right, or at least under better circumstances.
>I FUCKING COULDN'T FIND HER PUSSY ANYMORE.
Don't worry mate you'd be surprised how frequently this can happen even when sober if you're into it and not looking down at your dick when trying to insert.
well i was dating this boy that i absolutely loved and i wanted my first time to be really special so i waited like a year and a half and he was really patient.
then i got scared that i waited too long and it was too special, and i just wanted to get it over with. so i fucked his best friend to "get it over with". did it like three times.
after that, i dumped my bf and got with the guy i actually liked and had really good sex with him THE END
>first few times really sucked
Felt like a wet version of my hand.
20 minutes and she came (I didn't).
Turns out I can't cum unless it's been 3 days since I last came, and even then I tend to last 45 minutes to an hour
>well i was dating this boy that i absolutely loved and i wanted my first time to be really special so i waited like a year and a half and he was really patient.
>then i got scared that i waited too long and it was too special, and i just wanted to get it over with. so i fucked his best friend to "get it over with". did it like three times.
>after that, i dumped my bf and got with the >guy i actually liked and had really good sex >with him THE END
You sound like a total bitch, you made someone wait and then fucked around on them? Shit lady that's low.
I was 14 she was 15. I was a total autist and dumb as hell. No idea what I was doing. She had to help me get it in her. Rag dolled around for a few Min's jizzed in her. Went back to party. I was stoked that I did it but I felt really dumb and bad for her for some reason.
Time goes on different girls different styles. Learn some shit try new shit get better. The big thing to remember is don't have any hang ups. Be willing to try new shit and fucking relax you sperg.
It felt good, chances are the experience is going to be overwhelming enough that you wont really take in the good feeling though.
First time lasted about two minutes. Now I average about fifteen depending on speed of thrusts.
Balancing how fast you go so she gets off while you also last long enough is pretty difficult sometimes.
Unfortunately my current lady friend isn't that into doggy-style and it's easy for me to last ages like that.
When I lost my virginity, it was outside by a lake and there was no blanket down so my knees were scraping the ground when I was on top of her. Took maybe 10 minutes, but that was solely because of the pain and my lack of coordination; would've been a few minutes otherwise.
>be on vacation in San Antonio
>bored as fuck so get on tinder and only right swipe
>swipe with 6/10, great tits and ass face was meh
> she drives to my hotel
> wants to fuck in her car
> fuck her on my parents bed
> she didn't like my uncut dick, I am yuropoor
> Fucked for about 10 minutes
> kicked her out of the hotel and unmatched her immediately
I felt nothing. We had been fooling around for a while. She had jerked me off a few times before. She was 20 and I was 17.
We had sex and she was on top. No condom but she was nervous and super dry. She went up and down slowly and I basically only got half way in. It was horrible and I lost my boner .
We tried a week later and it was better, came in her and we watched a move after. Not special at all.
> 25 (better late then never)
> didnt come the first time after 20 min, took a break, got a BJ, then fucked for another 30 min and both came
so it was alright, felt pretty ashamed after since it took me that long and i felt like i was doing a shitty job at it.
>i dont owe anyone sex. thats not how relationships work.
Of course not, but you have an obligation to tell the dude if you're not going to fuck him at all. The physical part of a relationship is just as important as the mental. Furthermore you're a fucking cheating whore regardless, break up wit the fucker before having sex with his friend eh
Was 18. Gf was 23. Whole thing lasted about a half hour. Actual fucking, maybe 5 min. Felt good, man. She knew it was my first time and didn't complain that I was fumbling around like a moron.
To add to my previous answer
The best thing you can do OP is talk to the girl you fuck afterwards about it, you're never going to get better if you don't ask women what they like.
This is me OP, one thing I realised after losing my virginity is that I cared waaaaaay too much about what a bitch might think about me, it really changed me for the better and I trat them like the two cent bitches they are
It was fun, I think there's a huge pressure to automatically be the best ever, but don't worry about it. Start with a lot of foreplay. Get to know your partner's body. Some girls really love nipple stimulation, don't neglect that. Oral is a great way to start out, try to give her an orgasm that way first and some of your performance anxiety will be lessened. Use it as a rough guide as to how sensitive her clit is and eventually start fingering her and you can figure out where the most sensitive part of her vagina is.
Time doesn't really matter, as long as you and your partner enjoy it. Even if you last 5 minutes, just wait an hour or so, then try it again.
And yes, condoms are a very very good idea.
Anon. Fuck em,
It's a race to the orgasem and no one likes a looser! Start giving a fuck when you find 'the one' until then enjoy yourself
Don't lose your virginity to a prostitute. Someone will fuck you. Work on your conversation skills. If you have a fear of approaching women, just ignore it and start casual conversations with women you encounter on a daily basis. Don't ask them out until you start to get positive results from your every day interactions. Don't be creepy about it. Just make small talk and see where it goes.
You could stop feeling sorry for yourself, cultivate interesting hobbies and work on talking to women. And if your Wright's a problem go to the gym, or just take up running and eat healthier.
It's not a secret formula, just have something to offer a partner and learn shit/get healthy so you feel confident enough to go for it.
I was 18 , I was in Amsterdam and met a really nice girl in a bar , we went for lunch, had a smoke or three , went for more food, more Grolsch and then back to her parents house.
She had only done it twice before and we were both nervous.
a lot of lickig and sucking and stop start stuff but she came first and almost drowned me adn withing about 3 minutes of actual penetration I was done too!!!
felt great , we were together for about 18 months then I moved to Utrecht and got involved with a psychotic Swedish nymphomaniac who is now my wife of 12 years.
OP you need to stop caring about these hoes and start seeing them as creatures that only exist for your enjoyment this is what they like, they like to be disrespected and fuck anyone that treats them like shit
First time didn't even happen, really. Foreplay but I never got hard. Couple of times after that, less intense than whacking it and a good deal longer, to the point that she had to call time. Got better though. Now it's like a half hour and feels amazing. Had to do with comfort levels certainly and angle of attack I guess.
Everyone saying they can last +20mins and dont understand those 2min times are obviously cutfags. Your dick is senseless.
>Everyone saying they can last +20mins and dont understand those 2min times are obviously cutfags. Your dick is senseless.
This comment doesn't make sense, uncut people have more sensitivity
About a minute.
It doesn't really matter though, don't worry about how long you last.
You're young enough that you'll be ready for round two in about 15 minutes. Just roll over and spoon and play with her tits.
On phone but I'll try.
>both alone at gf house
>start watching Netflix we put attack on titan, has never seen it.
> first ep she is leaning on i put my hand around her neck.
>second ep i start to kiss her in the neck
>she responded back kissing me in the mouth.
>we kiss for about 10 mins, but ever so slowly taking off her tank annd bra.
>i lay her down on the couch
> after 10 mins i start kissing her chest DDs, she starts moaning.
>after 5 mins i start working down her belly taking off her pants.
>i leave the panties, since it's her first time virgin (cash money bois)
>she takes off my shirt and we continue kissing as i lay on top of her, and having to keep myself up (170 lbs 5'11)
>should i continue?
Let me break it down for you:
>Everyone saying they can last +20mins and dont understand those 2min times are obviously cutfags.
>they can last +20mins and dont understand those 2min times
>are obviously cutfags
>Took about 20 mins
>I didn't cum
Felt really good but I was nervous. Went again the next day and came, don't worry about your first time it's always better after multiple times with the same person.
I'm going to say my first time in a greentext
>want to get it out of the way so I go to a sluts house to "hang out" after her exam
>go there and she tries to tickle me while showing me around her house
>when she tried to tickle I grabbed her tits
> laughs and moves my hands away then tries to tickle me again, so I continue grabbing
>gives in and let's me take her shirt off on the condition that I take mine off
>things lead to things and pants are off
>she just finished period a day ago or something and has to take tampon out
>worried me about the red river but she said she finished period so whatever
>lie down on her bed and starts sucking
>sits right down on my dick once done
>best feeling I've ever had, fapping doesn't even compare
>rides me for a bit, I doggystyle her but she gets back on top again
>just rides me slowly, speeding up and slowing down constantly
>occasionally let's a moan out
>I legit do nothing but sit there and thrust my hips occasionally, pretty good really
>cum inside of her (she had a pregnancy prevention thing)
>"I'm done, that was good"
>"but you're still hard anon"
>"it'll go soft in a sec"
>gets off me and cum leaks out
>wow you came a lot
>clean up and leave, she tries to kiss me but I said nah cause she had my dick her mouth
So yeah thats really it, basically was my bitch that day. Yesterday I also tied her hands up and held her head down while she sucked me off, she swallowed it too. 10/10 would recommend and do again, just not with her I don't think.
I lost my virginity when I was 17. It didn't feel bad at first. It felt very foreign, weird to be touching a girl, fingering her and at the same time, somewhat disappointing. It was much more exciting in my fantasies when I had been jerking off and all that shit and finally doing it in real life.
I think we pleasured each other with our hands for around 20~30 minutes or so before we actually started having sex. It took me around 1½ hour to cum(I was very nervous). The feeling afterwards was actually...again, very disappointing. I felt regretful honestly to have lost it to 'her'. Sure, I loved her at the time, but I also knew that it was just something temporary. (One night stands are fine because they're intentionally one-timers. Same with a fuck-buddy. A relationship? Well, that shit's trouble.)
So to sum it up. It felt weird but at the same time familiar, but ultimately disappointing.
>Everyone saying they can last +20mins and dont understand those 2min times are obviously cutfags. Your dick is senseless.
Ok, let's break this down.
>Everyone saying they can last 20+mins dont understand those 2min times are obviously uncircumcised. Your dick is senseless. so you last longer if you're cut
first time i did it was 11 i put it in and burned like hell needed to pull out for a couple of secs then back in felt more normal kept on goin felt literally with the angels im 20 now and didnt do it yet again apart from small sex like gettin jerked off, dry humps and kisses