I want to tie my girlfriend up to a chair with a vibrator on her clit. The only problem is I know nothing about BDSM. I have some rope and want to practice. Does anybody have how to pictures or anything?
also you might wanna visit /d/'s /bdsmg/ general thread. I hear good things about it (not a /d/ regular myself so I cant judge). If you got the balls maybe even ask there, but expect serious answers. This IS srs bsns, treat it as such.
This site has excellent tutorial. Get long thick ropes, (the thicker, the easier it is to get the knots undone)
Always triple check for consent, tell her to let you know the moment she wants to be untied (it will take a moment to do so, you don't want her in panic). Ask her if she trusts you (of course she does, but her saying so will put her in a better mood, don't skip this part. Be playful) Have scissors nearby. Have a clear safeword.
Don't tie her down too hard the first time, build it up. Be dominant but gentle.
Sorry if this is a bit of a mess of tips. All from the top of my head. Read up before doing so.
Most of all, have fun. Don't set high expectations.
Practice knots by yourself before doing things with her. They are not hard to do really, be sure to master the basic ones. Messing around is not a turn on, doesn't give an air of confidence that you need.
thank me later