The real answer is, whenever you feel like it. If the mood strikes you, you strike her, it comes down to natural instinct. She should never feel safe but you can't do that right away, you only get to hit her when you know she's fucked up. Later on once it's clear she's not going to grow a pair and leave, you go ahead and beat her whenever.
Girls, ladies, moms, females, chicks, sisters, aunts, they all get special treatment. They get one free shot, like retards, cripples and children. Once they hit you once, and they see how ineffective it was, they'll stop. If they don't, go ahead.
>>683966238 That what the feminists that took your balls told you?
A woman is still a human being. If they hit you in the face, you hit them back in the face, with equivalent force they hit you. Easy enough. They made a decision, they reap the consequence just like the rest of us.
>>683967441 No, and you're wrong for several reasons. The first and foremost one is, you shouldn't ever have to hit one. Grab her hand before she hits you, subdue her, but don't hit her. The second one is that it's your own fault if a woman hits you. They are wily and emotional creatures who can't be held responsible for what they do
>>683966025 When a woman "thinks" she can get away with anything.
We protect the fairer sex. That's what we do. It's called respect. But respect is a door that swings both ways. In the face of disrespect, put her down. Just suckerpunch that little doozy cunt. It's your privelige. And don't get me wrong. Respect and fear are mutually exclusive. We don't want women to fear us. Just that token of good will we call respect. It's easy. Respect should come culturally. If it doesn't, you're not facing a woman, but an uncouth savage. Put it down. Hard. Immediately and summarily. Not to "teach it a lesson". It won't learn. Just to make a point. Respect.
>>683966025 In my case, my wife found me messaging a long time friend, a fem anon,best friends for years, nothing sexual, just asked how out kid and she was going, Picked up a crystal ashtray, and glassed me,, 2nd time she did it,, Didn't hit her,, just dragged her by her hair and threw her into the pool to cool off,, Me broken nose, scars on my face, from the crystal shattering, she calls her friends and mother, police as well, everyone thinks I'm a cunt for doing it,, Thoughts /b/ros?? I feel justified for doing it,. M industry you I live in Bali,, and wife's a shitskin muslim, 28 and I'm 35 if it means anything,, I posted here once before,, a few months ago,,, to tell my story,, and had an overwhelming response,,, and because of that response, I've put her in her place, and am still with her,, Thoughts?
>>683968635 Hitting you with a crystal ashtray without asking you >Who's that anon? She deserved it, and she's being a cunt. Kick her out, since she want control over your personal life as well, and is using force to do it without even questioning you. >Divorce settlement
>>683966025 >when she gets lippy >when the food's undercooked >when the food's overcoocked >when she spills something >when the blowjob isn't 10/10 >when the blowjob's too good and you suspect she's been cheating >when coffee and breakfast aren't out right when you wake up >when the house isn't cleaned and you're having people over >when you're watching something and she changes the channel >when she's being a slut and tries to initiate sex >when she doesn't put enough effort into sex >when she breathes too loud
There are plenty of times when it is perfectly fine to hit a woman. These include, and are not limited to
Not having the dinner ready when you finish work Not doing the washing Not doing the ironing When football is on, and they want to watch something else When they have a "headache" when you go to bed.. One solid blow to the head will knock the ache right out the head.
>>683969269 So, the govt. is essentially forcing you to be with her for the assets... That's fucking rough. Either way, a lawyer talk would be nice, in case it happens again. And if it happens again, do not respond with force, just go to the lawyer and/or police and explain. If the police doesn't care, it can be used in court I would assume
Any other things that are important in this relationship?
>>683968635 With the power of hindsight, I'll tell you what's what. Dragging someone by the hair is equal to punching someone. Not necessarily in force, damage or pain, but in the legal aspect. You can't justify the act by saying "I didn't hit her", because you still committed an act of physical violence. Now, she attacked you with the ashtray. Assuming that was all of her attack, you should have called the police and present this assault. If she was looking for other things to throw at you, before you grabbed her hair, you should have seized her or simply left the house until the cops showed up. Attacking a person, any person, after the assault was over, does not count for self defense. It just counts as a different assault, initiated by you. When the cops see this, they'd only assume you acted first, and she second.
I've been to such cases were hindsight is so good at spotting where I fucked up.
>>683966025 id give a girl two maybe three slaps before i slap her back.... depends on how generous im feeling. but if she punches me then ill probably just push her because women fall like toddlers.... if it was some big ass bitch id probably lay into her with a closed fist
>>683969645 >>683969648 Regardless of prenup, she would get everything, as I'm a foreigner in her country,, this is actually a good thing that the indo govt does,,it looks after its citizens,,
And yes I agree with, but having a broken nose and glass shards in your face and eyes bleeding, blood everywhere would make you see red too,, I'm not saying what my wife did to me or what I did to her was right,, but if I had of glassed her,, I would've been sent to kerobakon jail for the next 20 years for self defence, I'm just trying to explain my personal situation
In general, women are inferior to men. They get payed less, they aren't sought after like men are. There mostly good for breeding, making them clean your place and feeding you. I have the big swinging dick and I'm the one that works and gets payed. We need to go back to the point in history when women didn't have rights. Those were the glorious days.
some bitch slaps me i slap her back, someone puts me in a head lock their life is forfeit. Any move you make that could potentially endanger my life means surrendering your rights to life to me. I sometimes wonder if my mental preparation of killing anyone who pulls a gun on me will be considered premeditated murder.
>>683970469 Exactly, maybe they should think for a second on why they dont have equal pay. Its because we men are known for fucking working our asses of 24/7 to support your lazy ass at home. I don't see women building fucking skyscrapers, maybe they could come up with the project idea but the hard work is what we do.
>>683967167 ive taken a punch from a dude in highschool. he was three years older than me and punched me in the jaw and i just stared at him.... it hurt like fuck and at the time i felt like a beta bitch but i think it gave off more of a "......and?" kind of vibe
Which leads me to a question for you all.... is taking a punch from a dude beta or alpha?
I thought we were smarter than this. If someone damages you without concern for your well being then fuck them. They need to feel what they did to teach them how reality works. You faggots already gave up your man card for a false reality that mommy indoctrinated you with. Women / men it doesn't matter. All play by the same rules and if you fail to understand this you are no man. White knight trash.
>>683970815 That's still not convincing me that women aren't better than men. less violent, fewer women in prison, less crimes committed by women, they even DRIVE safer. You ignore all the obvious, clear signs and then call ME a baiter? I hope you never get laid again you piece of shit.
>>683970477 Look into visas first,, jobs are easy as fuck to get here,, but pay is shit,, a good job is around 400 us a month,, you need a skill set,, I work as a executive chef and clear after tax about 6500 us a month,, I've seen a lot of Bule/foreigners working on dive boats,, maybe get your padis license, good pay and tons of women,, also you get to explore indonesia a bit,, Most of my bali friends are tattooists or bar owners,,but as I said pay is shit
>>683971044 Explain how you are better than us? Driving? Is that all? How about when we work all day to support your ass when all your doing is complaining about how you have a vagina and you can make babies. Like stfu
>>683971256 >Explain how you are better than us? Read the rest of my post besides focusing on just one of the valid points. That will require extra paying attention, but I'm sure your mighty superior brain can handle it.
Do not reply to me again until you have read my entire post and realized women are superior.
>>683971044 You do realize that there IS such a thing as a pussy pass? That women are more likely to abuse and kill their children? That women are just as outrageously violent and negligent as men? No gender is better than the other. It's all down to the individual.
And thanks to your whiney crap, my GF is all alight. So I'll get laid within the hour, if I shower.
>>683968766 I'm not sure what's your definition of the west, but in any modern country, the law doesn't specify when a woman or a man can hit each other. The law talks about all people as one. You cannot assault anyone. No physical assault is allowed. When you come to court to defend your assault case, you may present the act of self defense, which applies only if you used an appropriate physical retaliation in an attempt to stop the assault inflicted onto you. I learned this in like... 8th grade. If someone, guy or a girl, comes up to you and socks you once and turns to walk away, you can not retaliate by any physical means, because you're not stopping the continuation of the attack. And say some girl comes up to you and slaps you on your cheek, and she is clearly about to hit you some more, you can not retaliate by running her over with your car. If she's smaller than you, you can seize her until she chills or push her away and thus justify your force in self defense. In cases where a mild application of force will prove useless, such as a woman of a large frame, a woman in better shape than you, or an extremely angry woman who would keep fighting after being physically pushed away, you might use stronger force, as long as it's moderate and appropriate to the situation. And even if the policeman arrives and sees a hurt man and a hurt woman and decides to take you, as the man, to the station for assault, you can defend your case and get free. And then you press charges against the woman who attacked you in the first place.
>>683971816 I already explained it, you ignored it. I'm not going to repeat myself like that. All you saw was "driving" and focused on that instead of the rest of my post. That is YOUR problem, not mine.
>>683972034 You stated that you are less violent, But I don't see men fucking drowning their children in the bath tub. Also we don't text and drive faggot, so please before you come on here and try to make an invalid point, go get some excersize I can hear your heavy ass breathing through the screen
>>683972034 You can copy and paste, highlight your points. Stats are a terrible way to judge the whole. If we used stats to justify everything, we'd commit genocides and call it a good thing. All I see in your past posts is false and then crying. Grow up, or just leave.
>>683971142 Kids have an excuse because they are noobs at reality and have no self control.
Women are not children. They are grown ass women and do stupid shit because they think they are special and don't need to follow the rules. If that needs to be explained to you then you must be a woman or a child yourself.
>>683972637 Mind your own business. She has help available to her if she wants it. look in a mirror and try to picture what she will see when you stumble over to her and ask "A-are you ok m-miss? You've got a b-b-b-bruise"
I've gone a long time without having to get physical with someone. I think you should just use other pressures on people to get what you want. When it comes to anger/revenge, being more successful is the best of both.
>>683967441 when you say equivalent force, what do you mean?
literal her newtons = my newtons, or are we talking about percentage of potential... like if she's only halfassing it, then I can only halfass it back, but if she's going 100% then... well, you get the idea.
>>683971801 well, the law does, in many cases, differentiate between men and women in the US (which I think counts as 'the west'). For instance, until the early 90s, there was no such thing as raping a man; he could be assaulted, but there was no special provision for a sexual assault like there was for women. in practice, the law is still VERY sexist on assault because it's interpreted and executed by judges who were mostly born circa WWII.
>>683973135 having worked with children for just under two years, I can verify that there are definitely bad kids. it makes sense when you realize that we're not born as a blank slate but with certain tendencies, some of which are, big shocker, bad.
physical discipline is sometimes the most effective means of instruction; it's not the right answer nearly as often as most people who support corporal punishment think, but it is a valid method of correcting behavior in some circumstances. saying you should never strike your child because there are other ways to teach them is like saying you shouldn't own a hammer because there are nailguns... it's just absurd.
>>683970098 Totally better, that's why they need government money more than anyone and can be physically harmed with words and are not able to meet basic physical entry standards for the military unless said standards are lowered.
>>683966025 Retaliate against physical violence with reasonable force. Don't surround yourself with women who don't have the restraint to not hit you. There isn't any reason for people to strike each other, hitting is how children solve their problems.
>>683976522 You people must be doing something very wrong if you are getting hit. Because with the exception of by my siblings, another person has never put their hands on me in anger. Seriously, how do you guys manage to find yourselves in these situations?
>>683973609 Depends on the situation, but yeah, equivalent newtons. You wouldn't bitchslap a child.
It doesn't really need to be equivalent, though. If someone needs to be stopped now, you escalate immediately. If someone is clearly half-assing it, go just hard enough to make it clear you can go harder.
>>683975689 but plenty of people refuse to behave like adults, and, contrary to what you learned in kindergarten, not all problems can be resolved without violence (because the other party refuses to accept anything less). There are definitely reasons to hit each other, but the only good ones are along the lines of 'I had no other choice if I wanted to resolve the problem'.
>>683976455 Nope, sorry. I call BS on your bs. It's the patterns. If you can't accept that you should have the conflict with the parents, you fail. There literally are no bad kids. They might be imprinted on rather poorly, but in the end, it comes from the parents. The child only develops proper in the contact with the responsible adult. The patterns comes from the parents, and if you don't even try to break these bad habits, you are not being responsible. It's always the parents. Always.
>>683977334 If this is true how do you explain the different personalities of siblings? My sister and I were raised in the same way and we are extremely different in our ways of life. I think kids do have some predisposed ways of acting.
>>683977278 yeah sorry rich kid but in the poor part of town it is difficult to go around all the people that can't behave as adults if you don't stand up for yourself you will become the neighborhood bitch
First, I never said there shouldn't be conflict with parents; you might have incorrectly assumed that I meant that, but I never said anything logically close to that.
Second, there are demonstrably bad kids.
Third, yes, bad parenting can result in a child that does not understand proper social behavior, but (sit down for this part; it's going to seem complicated to someone as fucking retarded as you), some children cannot be corrected, and plenty of good children are the products of bad parenting.
Fourth, children develop their understanding of relationships primarily (but not solely) by watching their parents. By extension, they get a lot of their instruction on social interaction and acceptable behavior by watching their parents; they don't learn how to act exclusively from their parents, and what they do learn (from any source) is subject to their own interpretation which is based on a combination of their previously learned knowledge and their genetic tendencies.
Lastly, and this is going to sound a lot like the first point, I never said you shouldn't try to teach your children things without using violence. I said you shouldn't discount violence as an effective teaching tool in the right circumstances.
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