how long do u last in pussy?
i have decent big dick, good at foreplay n eating pussy but i last only 3 mins inside girls.
so my relationship cant last longer than 2 months usually
im so sad n sick of this situation i want to fix myself
any helpful tip??
Your problems is that you get overheated to the coitus. Thats why you don t last longer. Skip all that shit of foreplay and oral and go directly on dry. They wouldn t cum but if you last 10-15 minutes women will think you are doing it Ok, yes they are that stupid.
Is this a myth though? 26 anon here. Lost my virginity at 23. Honestly thought sex was an urban legend until it happened, but was worried it wouldnt take long to cum. Normal sized and I last long enough that the girl gets off. I mean I can go a full hour if I wanted. And thats not even masturbating before the act. I think its all in your head anon. Typically also because the pace girls cum in isnt the same us guys like I think. So just keep it at her pace and sometimes at the pace you like, then as shes getting off do what you like.
take a muscle relaxant like weed. itll stop you from activating your kegal muscle in your dick which is what causes you to burst.
porn scenes lasting 30 minutes of constant fucking is not real. shots are edited and such. dont let that confuse your dick either.
10-15 minutes is more than good.
It doesn't matter how fast you cum as long as she cums first.
Either make her cum during foreplay, or let her get on top and get herself off by rubbing her clit on your hip bone while riding.
If you want to last longer, ejaculate more often. Helps dull the senses.
Thats not true, maybe a 10% of instructed women can be that rational the other 90% are just as slave has the prejuice has we are and think that a man how doesn t last long in the bed is not manly. Many woman will left you after a 2 minutes coitus, barely none will after 10 minutes of dry drilling.
>how long do u last in pussy?
It varies wildly man, probably half as long with head as foreplay though but somewhere between 5 and 20 minutes for a first run, getting significantly longer each time after that.
>any helpful tip??
Rhythm/pace, try to work out a combination that doesn't set you off, for me, if I go slow and grindy I'm fucked whereas if I go for it I'll last till I change pace, problem is I like slow and grindy.
Sometimes I can jackhammer the shit out of it until it feels like my chest is going to explode, other times I'm ready once I bottom out. Just depends on the girl and arousal and what she's doing to turn me on
When I was younger I could fuck as long as I wanted to. I don't have a big dick or anything, it was just some weird skill I had.
Fast forward ten years later and I'm a 5 minute guy. No idea why.
I'm in this boat man, I think it's from fapping for too many years before having actual sex, and still fapping because I'm not getting enough sex.
No one but myself can make me cum, girls like the stamina, but I don't get mine.
Depends... I have pretty good control. If she comes first, we're in a hurry to go somewhere, in semi-public situation, etc. I can finish quickly.
If we've got time I'll go up to 45 minutes on a chick if she hasn't cum, but after that I'll throw in the towel. Not my fault if her pussy is broken.
Longest I've went was 2 hours with one of those tantric hippie type chicks, and it was pretty insufferable the second hour, and I definitely couldn't have kept it up had I not taken viagra before hand. Tons of cum at the end though which felt great.
If you want to hold out longer, just jerk off a lot more and make it a goal to hold out as long as possible each and every time you jack it. I've heard mixed stuff about one of those stamina training fleshlights, but might be worth a shot.
Honestly if you can make a chick orgasm they probably don't care if it's with a dick, hand, tongue, dildo, etc. as long as the mission is accomplished. If you're gonna cum just bust in a rag or something so things are clean and finish her off with cunnilingus. Maybe lick her cunt until you're hard for round 2.
Sorry, can't relate. I had surgery on my dick when I was little, no big deformity, just a slight Chordee, it's completely normal now.
They had to cut across the base of the glans and remove quite a significant portion of my foreskin, wich means a lot of nervous conections got severed, the scar show's where they had to cut.
Anyway, I last as long as I want, in fact it's a bit of a struggle to actually cum, my girlfriend sure doesn't complain since she almost always cums before I do.
Another thing, my dick is curved upwards, wich seems to hit exactly at the G spot when I'm taking it out while pistoning.
It varies for me, mainly with position.
But anywhere from 3-10 minutes, luckily my dicks a decent size and my gf usually gets off before i do.
If not gotta eat pussy like a champ and get her off before you fuck
Work on your kegel exercises and breathing. Don't rush into the main course and go all out, take your time, eat her out for as long as she wants, but work your way up from her neck. Once she's really into it you work your way in but take it nice and slow. When she's near climax just keep a steady pace don't try to go hard or anything. Porn teaches us nothing.
I can last a few hours and have had sex with hundreds or girls. I would just think of something else. But being as my pecker is so big the girls cum before I do.
You have it lucky. Cumming too quick is better than taking forever to cum. It takes me almost an hour. That's with foreplay, a bj, and fucking. It really does suck to be tired and trying to cum and at the end I just give up.
I can choose... at max about an hour or so usually about 25-30 minutes.
Basically to gain mastery over your orgasm, although I've never been able to come super quick, usually about 5 minutes with allot of work.
But basically I trained by edging, watching porn and edging because it wasn't the right kind of porn for my orgasm.
I would edge about hmm 10 times per session, enjoying close to orgasm, sometimes I would edge for 5 hours or more... which although pleasurable was a huge time sink...
But yeah that will give you orgasm control and make you less sensitive to coming fast.
Well it's really not that hard, just not easy. I can cum easily while masturbating but during sex it's a bit harder. I just ave to concentrate and relax a bit more.... my gf usually jokes that I'm like a woman when it's about cumming "ment cums to relax, woman relax so they can cum".
Anyway, I don't need to complain about size or anything else really (I believe 18cm would be 7 inches, it's not that big but I think I'm above average), I consider myself quite lucky in fact.
Had a 4 hour session on Saturday. She came really easily, probably 12 plus times and I came 3 times and was spent. Never finished in her pussy though, she always sucked me off to completition. But yeah, heading there again this weekend.
I was circumcised at age 16 because my foreskin was so fucking tight. It was painful to clean anything and it got so bad because it was so tender. After i was circumcised it became less sensitive and it was harder to cum.
I was reading into the average dick size to star in porn, and some other guides to method and stamina. I was considering going into porn because im really endowed and it takes like 20-30 minutes of rough fucking just to cum, and thats when im trying to. I can last a super long time.
hab sek long tiem
I read most of it and applied its teaching in a half assed way, and there was a noticeable improvement
6 inch dick
girlfriend loves it
im decent at foreplay but my forearm stamina for instance is terrible lol,
however in bed abt 30 mins average
longest ive been is an hour with lube, i dno u just feel less...
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Further, it is known that during the ejaculation process there is increased activity of these same muscle groups. Consequently, it is likely that men who have premature ejaculation have hyperactive muscles that are already on their way toward the threshold to producing ejaculations.
Over the past few years that we have been evaluating and treating men with impotence and premature ejaculation at the Male Health Center (in excess of 3,000 men), we have noticed that men with premature ejaculation have increased sensitivity to vibration in the penis when compared to men without premature ejaculation. It is likely that premature ejaculation, at least in some men, may be due to a combination of hypersensitivity of the penis and hyperspasticity of the pelvic muscles.
1. The squeeze method
Developed by Masters and Johnson, this method has the partner stimulate the man's penis until he is close to ejaculation. At the point when he is about to ejaculate, the partner squeezes the penis hard enough to make him partially lose his erection. By circling the hand just below the head of the penis, a squeeze will prevent ejaculation. The goal of this technique is to teach the man to become aware of the sensations leading up to orgasm, and then begin to control and delay his orgasm on his own. This technique progresses from manual stimulation to motionless intercourse to intercourse with both moving. Masters and Johnson reported that 98 percent of couples who learned and used these techniques had success treating premature ejaculation.
2. The stop-start method
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It's amazing how almost everyone in this thread can go at least an hour and also has a big cock.
You guys must be total studs.
Go to a doctor and say you have anxiety and have them place you on an SSRI. Really, don't do that, but I was put on an SSRI and I can still get it up but I can never cum. My gf loves it and I am not the biggest fan of it.
I've been with the same girl for 15 years and I just can't come anymore. I've tried closing my eyes and imagining someone else but it just doesn't work. She comes after 5-10 minutes and I just work away for another 20 minutes until I get bored and stop. Lately I've been using a condom and just faking it, then pulling out and quickly throwing it away before she can see I haven't cum. I'm 36. Is this it? Will I never cum during sex again? I have to admit I don't find her terribly attractive anymore and we only have sex at her initiation. I can still cum to porn though and that my only release.
If I was to sleep with someone else that I found attractive would I go back to busting a nut in 10 minutes? Has anyone found this happen?
>caring if the woman gets off
>believing in the myth of the female orgasm
so many fucking virgins in this thread
I wish I was you. I can fucj for upwards of 2 hrs sometimes. I literally have been in relationships that fail but exist only on a fuckbuddy level. It may sound cool but shit sucks. Its a fuckin curse
but normally it's to some sort of visual aid, be it porn or picture
I try to take my time and enjoy it but it doesn't take long to reach climax so I usually hold off cumming and just lightly fap etc for several more minutes before deciding to cum.
My method of fapping, usually the typical make a fist with right hand and stroke up and down, but quite firmly and somewhat fast
Am uncircumcised and the foreskin never goes over the head because it tends to hurt/is tight
Its amazing how you are talking utter shit. Nowhere near a majority of people have said that, its just wishful thinking by your faggot mind. You just can't stop thinking about big cocks going for hours.
when it starts to feel a bit too good down there i usally start pounding away so hard that i have to put all my concentration into performing whtever i'm doing and my dick goes pretty numb. or slow down. either way, you have to know your own body and how you can manipulate it. try masturbating 3 times a day for a minimum of 30 minuts each or something.
This right here. It's how I get the wife of multiple times before I pop.
On the flip side, BP hookers and massage hos know this and will try to do the no-contact reverse CG super dick squeeze from the beginning, to get you to nut as fast as possible - since they're not trying to get off, just get you gone.
something as happened during sex, its not her or u just wouldnt get a hard on, she or u did something that excited u, and your body cant cum without recreating it, maybe a spanking or throttling, u have to find out what it is or youll not only be like this for her but for other sexual partners too
you need to jerk off more or have more sec on the regular. it's somewhat mental also. if you can make it past 3 minutes you can make it longer. average time for sex is like 5.5 minutes
For getting her off. Lots of foreplay FOR HER. Play with her clit a lot till she is a bit past ready for it. Go down on her if she wants and you are into it.
Work at different positions to see what is best for you not cuming. I wont cum if a chick is on top so she can ride to her hearts content. Then eventually I'll get on top and a few minutes later I will cum.
Jerking off earlier in the day can help also.
oh jesus that's a shame...well you sound well versed in the area, so I assume you know some of the exercises etc? Might be worth a shot, circumcision sounds bad mmkay and fuck needed to have lube every time you fap haha
Topical steroid creams such as betamethasone, mometasone furoate and cortisone are effective in treating phimosis and may provide an alternative to circumcision. It is theorized that the steroids work by reducing the body's inflammatory and immune responses, and also by thinning the skin.
Stretching of the foreskin can be accomplished manually, with balloons or with other tools. Skin that is under tension expands by growing additional cells. A permanent increase in size occurs by gentle stretching over a period of time. The treatment is non-traumatic and non-destructive. Manual stretching may be carried out without the aid of a medical doctor. The tissue expansion promotes the growth of new skin cells to permanently expand the narrow preputial ring that prevents retraction. In a study, 86% of individuals were cured and could retract their foreskin in 6 weeks, by applying a cream and skin stretching twice daily
See a doctor man
so what i have the same problem my gf doesnt give a shit, i usually get her off first then ill get off and cum in her or all over her titties. youre just dumb
1) Masturbate 2 hours before sex. Only a short-term solution
2) When masturbating, try and go on for around 20 minutes. Stop and start. This will "train" your reflex. To enhance this process, lube up dick
3) Kegels, three times daily - find an appropriate kegel routine
4) If you are not seeing improvments, try dapoxetine, a recently approved medication that is very effective
5) It could be psychological, talk to your partner. Maybe have a drink beforehand, just try and relax. Its really not the end of the world if you cum quick. And if you do, at least satisfy other ways before you do
Combine these factors and you will become the ultimate man
I have the opposite problem, i can`t stay hard long enough to come.
I don´t have a problem to fab or get erected just while i fuck i get disgusted by the woman. I mean i get excited about her and hard but after couple of "rams" i lost my excitement.
It`s not that i am afraid to fail or to come too early i don`t mind that i would be happy to come after 3-5 min no probs with that.
Even if i stay sober(no fab, no porn) for long time it`s the same.
First we must identify the problem
Do you 1) Not stay excited because your mind is distracted, perhaps anxious about losing your erection? 2) Have a general loss of libido 3) Stay excited but lose your erection?
Do cardio. When I go a month with out my cardio work outs I not only feel the difference in terms of over all laziness but I last an abysmally short amount of time during sex.
Do a combination of sprints, jump rope and long distance 5 days a week for two weeks and you'll see drastic improvement in endurance
Do you fap to heterosexual porn?
If you say you get disgusted by the woman, are you sure they are your preference?
If you are attracted by the woman, then perhaps this is a habitual response. What are you exactly feeling when you lose your erection, what goes through your mind?
I usually last between 15 and 30 minutes. I've cum straight away a few times, but also haven't been able to cum at all more times than I care to remember
Average size cock here
I last forever long, like can fuck her all night if i want. Its because i lost my virginity late at 18 and had been relentlessly fapping since like 13 often up to like 5-6 times a day.
I imagined pussy to be well better than it actually is and my addiction to fapping has made it extremely hard for me to cum at a reasonable time. I once had to pull out and wank myself stupid to finally end up finishing.
My gf and I both know its because I wank so much that it takes me forever to finish but I find it really fucking hard to go without wanking cos ive done it methodically for so long. I actually want to cut down wanking so I dont last as long
>tl;dr wanking makes you last longer believe me just dont overdo yourself
>Pic related my GFs tits enjoy
>first time fucking a bitch
>nerves get me cause /pol/ traumatized me with all these feminist sex pregnacy traps
>last about an hour before i nut
>pride myself on being able to nut an hour into sex
>cum within 10 minutes
>she sucks my dick for about 15 minutes
>she goes ontop but she cant ride for shit and it lasts about 5 minutes
>i take control and nut within 5 minutes of taking control
how do i teach a bitch to ride the dick properly?
Its got fuck all to do with it mate, there is no biological reason why losing weight would make you orgasm quicker. There are a number of factors however
1) Perhaps you have gained weight through changing your lifestyle and diet, which could in turn manifest as a reduction in testosterone, and thus premature ejaculation.
2) Perhaps your fiancée genuinely is tighter, or maybe she is just fuckin hotter bro, ever consider that?
3) Maybe you feel more pressured to perform for your fiancée because there is a greater emotional attatchment with her than your prior girlfriends, perhaps she has stated her disatisfaction with you before, which has affected you psychologically?
Tightness is great and all but your goal should still be to last ten minutes in her IMO. Seriously, a good healthy heart is the key to a lot in life and sex is a huge benefactor of cardiovascular endurance.
Ten 20 yard dashes with a minute jump rope between each and then a 2 mile jog. Should take under and hour at first and after two weeks you should see some great improvements man
no trap or sissy porn for me Sir.
i am attracted to women if that would be the problem i would have already the answer.
I think it`s because it was always only a woman where i did`t have any affection with.
Just some random girls like " Wanna have Sex? Ähmm hmmm ok!(literally) or some prostitutes :)
I usually last between 15-40 minutes
I went at least 40 minutes last night and my gf sucked me for a good 10 minutes before that.
we came at the same time too, happens quite often but not every time
She is hotter and I still get her off and she still wants to fuck like a rabbit after 4 years together so I don't think she's dissatisfied but if I stay in one position for 5 minutes it's over for me haha. If I switch positions often I last longer.
The big differences between her and previous girls is she's the first girl I've been with who has a nice large toned ass from being a runner who also works out a lot (squats and shit) and she likes fucking very rough (choking biting scratching) and hard which is a huge turn on.
Could be lower testosterone who knows.
Yeah she's convinced me to start working out and running again (work sucks and I'm always tired from it) so I'm working on it.
think of shit that doesn't turn you on at all when you feel you are close to cumming.
This isn't a major problem I've ever suffered from, occasionally I'll bust in like 2-5 minutes, but usually it takes me quite a while
there have been times where I've needed to think of nasty shit to stop myself from cumming too soon and a favorite of mine is to imagine a dog eating my dick....
Wondering if any anons can give me advice on this.
Lost my virginity a few years ago and was on meth. For several months following I had sex with this same girl almost always high usually on meth and I could last as long as I want and usually longer than I wanted to. About a year ago I tried to have sex with a girl and I couldn't keep erection and almost had to come immediately after penetration and this embarrassing event has made me reluctant to try having sex with another girl as I don't do drugs anymore and am drug tested for work. Anyone else experience something similar?
When you're in mid piss stream try to stop it periodically while you're peeing at first you won't be able to then you'll get better.
I have the opposite problem completely. I straight up can't cum with a condom on, and it still takes a long time bare too. Luckily my gf is on the pill, but sometimes it just feels like sex isn't worth it with how damn long it takes to cum.
Bro you need to learn to orgasm with out Cumming. Get the book cultivating male sexual energy. Here are some quick tips.
Learn to use the button. There is a fleshy soft spot right in front of your anus that when firmly pressed stops you from climaxing. Find it while masturbating. Use it while having sex.
Your state of mind is the mist important. Dont fantasize at all while making love unless you want to prompt an orgasm. But also dont try to think of "something else" either as this will also lead to orgasm. Just be in the moment and focus your attention on your breathing and movements. When you feel climax coming press that button and release it when the orgasm has passed eventually when your PC muscle is trained enough you will be able to manually control your button. I decide when I cum. I wait for my wife to start coming then I fantasize about her body and let it blow.
Checked and also I have the same problem. Mine's developed over the past two years. I swear every time I'm about to make my girl cum, bam I get the feeling I'm about to. If I stop or slow down to curb it, same happens to her until I either just get lucky and it stays away or I say fuck it and just cum. The latter is more common and pisses my girl off to no end.
decent dick, but in the last 2 weeks i last to long. After around 30min of pounding it hurts for her and i just want to cum. Sometimes even with 3-4 times sex each day I don't cum for around 2 days
Foreplay helps. I like to finger my wife until she's close to cumming, and then join the party. She cums almost as soon as I'm in, and then it feels like the pressure is off. I last longer once she's already cum at least once.
It's a weird mental thing for me, dunno if it might be the same for you.
One of the keys to curing premature ejaculation, so that you can last as long as you want in bed and stop worrying about how long you last, are simply learning specific techniques that stop your ejaculation while it’s happening.
One of these techniques is very simple to do, and with a little practice, you can start using it right away to delay and stop your ejaculation all together.
This specific technique I’ll show you has been used for thousands of years in Taoism, which is a religion originating from China. While I’m not telling you to follow this religion, the religion has so many sexual practices that millions, if not billions of people have used for thousands of years.
There is a certain tipping point for a man to be endless or not last longer than a few seconds or minutes. Our penis needs a specific amount of stimulation and delayed ejaculation to truly become endless.
- See more at: http://endlessman.com/1-easy-technique-stop-ejaculation/#sthash.YuvuhrkI.dpuf
This, If you know your getting some that night, fap like 4 hours before hand. Also as you get older and keep fucking you will start to last longer.
Also theres the old pornstar trick just start thinking about baseball or the national anthem or something stupid like that.
You'll not only last longer, but you'll stay hard after you cum which should give you enough thrusts to finish the job if you haven't pleased your mom yet.
>get in motorcycle accident
>fuck my leg up
>lucky if I can even cut sometimes
Your legs have control over your dick(or atleast help it) jab or pinch yourself right behind your knee when you start getting close. Try it jerking off and find out where some points are on your legs
Lucky fuck. I have the opposite problem and it's driving me insane. I simply can't cum during vaginal or anal sex. I enjoy it quite a lot, but the only way for me to cum is with a long, arduous handjob or an even longer blowjob. This isn't me boasting, but rather complaining over my dick having a mind of his own. What do I do to improve my sensitivity? I don't have an erectile dysfunction, I get rock hard and just fuck for like a solid hour, but get really fucking bored at some point, by which the girl is already finished and I'm left hanging for her to finish me off. I tried fucking a sissy, but as it turns out I'm not gay. It's pretty shit dealing with it. I tried not jacking off or having sex for like 2 weeks, but the problem persists. I'm running out of options here and I don't want to continue to be bored by sex any further.
Pretty much this, yeah. Depends on the angle and depth of the pussy, friction coefficients, frequency of prior orgasms, attractiveness index of the girl and her kinkiness rating.
I mean, do you guys even intercourse?
If I haven't had sex in a while, it's difficult to last and might last maybe 10.
If I've been haveing sex about once or twice a day for a few days I can last as long as I want. Its a great skill and when I discovered that I could do it, it was like a eureka moment.
Bad thing about that is if the girl goes to long and gets chafed and sore the next day. Then it's no sex for about 2-3 days.
I've found the same, and it has also made me immune to blowjobs.
20-ish minutes. I believe it's mostly a mechanical thing. I need more stimulation via higher frequency of movement on muh dik, much like what jerking off provides. Slamming some whore will never be as fast and has more distractions. I do mostly jerk it to 2D girls too.
when i wanna cum i just switch to beast-primal mode in my head, like don't think about anything and focus on my penor head, and pound relentlesly for a min-two, works 95% of the time
With my previous gf I didnt last more than 15min...no orgasm for her
With the current one I last for an hour easily, if she wants hard pounding I can at least do it for half hour, and she easily orgasms
Lube makes all the difference for me
You only last three minutes? Man, you need to control your senses. It's all about focus. I can go for hours, or a few minutes - just don't focus on cumming. Focus on making her cum until she begs you to fill her.