Is this morally wrong /b/?
greentext back story
>about to go out on a date with a girl
>she backs out because of her boyfriend
>go out on a date with her sister instead
>we go on our date
>she's not to keen to do much because of her sister and I
>tells me her sister cheats on her boyfriend and even had a 3some with this chick
>mood turns sour
>drop her home say bye night ect ect
>few days later decide to message this girls boyfriend explaining the situation and that his girlfriend cheats on him
>forward to tonight
>receive text from girl saying "fuck you" "how could you ruin my relationship with my sister?"
I just wanted to help a bro out
so please tell me /b/ is this wrong?
No. fuck cheaters.
She is the one with the moral failing, she is trying to shift blame to you because you told the fucking truth. As if it was you that "ruined" her relationship with her sister and not her going psycho when she finds out her sister doesn't have as loose of morals as she does.
thanks man couldn't shake the feeling that I did wrong but now that you pointed that out I feel as if what I did was right, hey if I was in a relationship with someone and she was cheating on me, I'd wanna know also
Pretty much this.
Notice how she doesn't try attacking you for doing the right thing (letting a person know that their partner is cheating on them), but instead tried to make it about you doing something to her, and her relationship with her sister.
Also, bullet dodged, as she clearly didn't have that much of a problem with what her sister was doing.
>tl;dr you avoided putting your dick in crazy
well see the funny thing is
he messaged me back threatening to kill me and telling me to have nothing to do with her him or her family ever again....so apparently he is in denial if he wants to date a cheater it's his problem
>couldn't shake the feeling that I did wrong
yeah women will try and make you feel that way
reply with "it's not my fault your sister cheated", and for a bit of extra zozzle, add on "with someone that wasn't me"
>I just wanted to help a bro out
No you didn't. You wanted revenge you faggot. Now there's nothing wrong with revenge. But there is something wrong with not admitting it. You coward.
in which case, i don't think it was necessarily within your rights to go and tell them like that. however, because she obviously seems like a cheater, it would have happened sooner or later. don't be too hard on yourself mate.
you compromised yourself
you done goofed
consequences will never be the same
now get out
I'm not mad he's blew the cheater out. I'm just saying most non-autistic functioning members of society will know when to stay out of other people's relationships.
>cucks r mad cheaters gets blown the fuck out
Seriously mate, are you mentally retarded? I literally can't understand anything you're saying.
I'm sorry to let you in on this little buddy; your mummy has been too nice to tell you this but you're mentally handicapped. Please go to special school where they train you for jobs fit for tards.
jokes on you i don't have a wife ! hahahaha
You're right to give a bro a heads up because for all you know the dude could be fucking this slut bareback while she's getting STDs elsewhere.
However, it's clear by the messages that you let him know where you learned she was cheating, so you should have been more careful not to divulge the source of your information.
>I'm just saying most non-autistic functioning members of society will know when to stay out of other people's relationships.
Do you always call people with more balls than you names?
Weird story. You say she was gonna go on a date with you, but she cancelled BC of her boyfriend - so didn't you already know she had a boyfriend, but was messing with you? So what, you got jealous when you found out she was fucking other guys too?
I dunno, guess you should have told the guy but your intentions sound weird.
>about to go out on a date with a girl
>she backs out because of her boyfriend
>I just wanted to help a bro out
No you didn't. You were fine with her cheating when you thought it was your dick she was gonna ride, you did it out of spite.
you are a fuckhead.
a self entitled fuckhead.
an idiot. you don't know how to live.
you should do everything to say you are sorry.
what a fucking idiot you are. you don't even realize the pain you have caused.
fucked millenials who thinks they have to share everything online.
it's the social norm to not get involved in the relationships of people you don't know well. if you see a couple arguing in the street most normal people would walk by, rather than jumping in all, how may I be of assistance miss *tips fedora*. similarly if she's cheating that's their problem.
however, that being said, inevitably the boyfriend had to find out at some point that his gf is a whore.
this. he did it out of spite because he is a little loser. he caused pain, useless pain.
I am triggered. I can't understand how in the fucking world a human can be this selfish. rotten to the core.
the only thing you can do is to get on your knees and say you are sorry
You were wrong.
First, it's none of your business.
Second, you don't know the sister's motivations for telling you. is she jealous of her sister? Doe she want her sister's boyfriend for herself (she seemed to jump on you as soon as her sister dropped you).
Third, you don't know what the girl's relationship with her "boyfriend" is. Are they exclusive? Just dating? Open to seeing others?
Mind your own fucking business.
okay I missed out a few bits
I'm her ex from a few years ago, she agreed to go out on a date with me before I knew she had a boyfriend
didn't think anything of it took her sister out found out my ex is a cheater decided I should do it
this. if the girl is a cheater the boyfriend will be a fucking idiot if he can't realise that himself. for all the virgin fags who think in a relationship, you can get away with that shit 100%, it's not the case. he'll be aware she's going to see other guys often, and it's his own problem if hes too beta to dump her ass.
tldr. don't try to justify yourself by saying you were trying to help a bro out.
first no it's none of my business
second her sisters motivation for telling me in her exact words were
>I thought I'd tell you because I thought you'd find it funny
knowing full well I originally tried for a threesome with her and her sister at one stage
third, the relationship between her and her boyfriend are she goes through his fb and messages to find out if he's cheating on her, he bashes her and yeah
Poor guy thought women have morals. Women don't deserve the time of day.
I left my ex like moments after I found out she was cheating on me. She tried to make it seem like it was my fault for not trusting her and I laughed hysterically in her face and called her a craigslist whore [which she was]. I laughed the whole time I was packing my shit as she cried saying I "victimized" her
This isn't some random couple on the street though and he knows what's going on rather than just having witnessed a contextless argument.
If the cuck boyfriend was friends with OP nobody would make qualms over him exposing the truth. What's wrong with extending that courtesy to your fellow man rather than just those you have a pre-existing duty to?
this sheds a new light on it all. why didn't you say before. do you mind me asking why you guys broke up in the first place? did she go on dates with other guys when she was with you?
i wasn't aware he knew the girl for a while before the date, because he stated he wasn't aware the girl had a boyfriend at the time of the date (so i assumed he didn't know her well).
I had no suspicion at all she was basically a church girl when I was with her, I took her virginity we were on and off about 6 months after she broke up with me (after 4 years)
After reading through the thread including OP's further explanation, I think OP did ok.
People with a "mind your own business" mentality are usually just fucking around themselves and don't want to get caught on their stupid shit (while they'd still hate being cheated on and so on, a big LOL for hypocrisy, you fucking cunts). We don't exactly live in the dark ages anymore, truth always comes out one way or the other, privacy is slowly dying, so the best you can do is work on a "no regrets" attitude, you be honest, do what you want and help others out as you can, hoping the same will happen when you're in a tight spot.
OP's ex is a cheating whore and needed to be called out and everyone that thinks otherwise is an immoral moron that deserves that shit happening to them so they can taste the bitterness of it and realize their previous stupidity. Grow the shit up, we're rational human beings, "mind your own business" is what insecure kiddies go around spouting to each other. Be honest and truthful, try your best, and maybe this world won't keep going to shit.
What did you have to gain by telling him? Moral superiority?
All you ended up doing was hurting a bunch of people including the guy you "helped" while you just sit there unphased because it had nothing to do with you.
You could have asked her to stop cheating instead of going straight to the jugular.
You're not much of a better person for doing this.
I think you know that it wasn't wrong. All is fair in love and war. her cheating? fucked up, but fair. you telling a fellow bro? (I would want to fucking know...) fair.
bitch should have kept her mouth closed.
"how dare I ruin my relationship with my sister by blabbing her sensitive information to a guy I barely know"
she's an idiot. fuck her if you can then GTHO.
cry about it.
I would want to know if my girl was cheating.
it is actually the sisters fault for assuming OP would just sit on this potentially damaging info.
heres an idea, you dont want to cause turmoil in your families life? dont blab their secrets....
gotcha. my whole point was basically, if she did this sort of shit to you before then you were 100% justified in exposing her. i dunno man, I don't really get the concept of why you're trying to help him out. He's an idiot if he can't see what type of girl she is and deserves it.
you're full of shit.
We don't care about morality or whatever. We do what is just. We go for the jugular because doing half mesure doesn't achieve shit. We don't seek to become a better person, we tell the truth. And the truth hurts. And if the mindless faggot full of autisism that you are can't understand that, stay a cuck and get cheated on over and over again. Coward.
Now the cucked guy knows the truth about his own life and isn't at risk of catching an STD, raising another man's child etc.
Go cry to the SJWs about feelings, truth is more important than feelings.
yeah that bit didn't make sense to me but I just shrugged it off as she didn't seem like the cheating type she probably just hates me for being to busy with work trying to make a living for myself
Personally I don't give a single fuck about some anon I've never met, I'll fuck his pussy in a heartbeat and not think about it again. I'd probably tell him afterwards for shits and giggles.
I don't give a fuck about vacuous pussy complaining about ruining her relationship with her retarded sister either
This teen drama should be in /soc/
>it's the social norm to not get involved in the relationships of people you don't know well.
Who gives a fuck, you ARE a cuck if you care about what society says you should do, do whatever the fuck you want. I was sort of on your side until you started saying shit like this you fag.
He did not know about said boyfriend. Do you fags even have the cognitive power to follow a story?
Good on you OP. As someone who just got out of a relationship with a cheater, you absolutely, undoubtedly did the right thing. I don't care what your motivations or reasoning was, but telling him was the right thing to do. I wish someone would have told me, it would have saved me a lot of time.
Someone who is willing to cheat is broken. I don't give a shit if you fuck outside your relationship, but not telling your SO? Removing critical knowledge practically removes their right to an informed choice. It feels like the total loss of free will. Someone willing to do that is broken in the head and isn't salvageable.
>knowing full well I originally tried for a threesome with her and her sister at one stage
Hey man. I'm proud of you for trying.
I don't care if you're a glorious winged faggot or not. To me, you are the man.
thanks my dude
cmon OP, here are the facts and what they mean
1. she was cheating on him
were you cheating on him? nope?
2. her sister told you she was cheating
were you cheating on him? nope?
3. her sister got pissed off at you for telling her.
were you cheating? nope?
4. you told her boyfriend that she was cheating
were you cheating on him? nope?
5. her boyfriend got pissed off at you because you told him
were you cheating on him? nope? nope.
she is obviously a piece of shit, ruining her relationship with her sister because her sister told you she was cheating. her sister is also an immature little girl, blaming you for something that you had literally no part in. the boyfriend is a fucking moron, i hope he wakes up enough to thank you one day
tl;dr: you dodged 2 bullets in the best way possible
It's not your place to say anything. It's pathetic spiteful little pussies like you that are making a world filled with douche bags. Mind your own business. It's a shame no one can read your mind, and tell everyone the fucked up thoughts you have. Or the times you didn't make moral decisions. I hope you die in a car fire OP. Kill yourself. Please.
You'd make an adorable swing set, you disgusting whore. :)
Proper conduct depends upon several always changing factors. Location. Race. Time period. Etc. Which shows your statement wasn't that thought out. And you're not as intelligent as you like to pretend.
You should have minded your own business and gotten far from that train wreck. But you are obviously young so sticking your dick in the mashed potatoes will seem priority at the moment. This, or some degree of these shenanigans, will happen as long as you deal with women in your life. Cut women out of your life and about the most dramatic thing you will be subject to will be if your supermarket is out of a particular brand of something you need.
That's your fault. If you weren't such a loser you wouldn't have gotten cheated on. Plus she was probably tired of your worthless tiny cock. Get used to it pencil dick, you'll always get cheated on.
How does it change anything? Propriety is propriety, regardless of the particular flavor.
OP revealed a whore for being a whore. The guilty suffered. Propriety. Maybe think a bit before you reply next time.
I did think. More than you did. Privacy is highly important. Society cannot survive in complete honesty. Human psyche doesn't work like that. If it's not your business, and no one is getting physically hurt, you should stay out of it. Nice try though.
You deserve it, m8. In fact, when you are done crying you need to get real and thank this girl profusely. She really cared for you. Imagine if she had saved this for a decade from now, and was kissing your daughter good-night with another man's semen still dried to her upper lip from her after work hook-up that day. Seriously, thank her.
>so please tell me /b/ is this wrong?
Telling her wasn't wrong but your reason for telling her was. It'd've been one thing if you didn't have feelings for her but clearly you just look selfish.
My ex dumped after 9.1/2 years. Was going to ask her out in June last year. She became the lover of a guy who had a fionce with breast cancer. I found out, told the girl. She confronted him, he dumped her, stayed with my ex. She' calling me each week. She's been cheating on him with me (her ex) for the last 9 months. He's been deployed to Afghanistan for 7 months. Been hitting it even when he came back. He doesn't know, I'm still balls deep in her and he won't find out till I hell him on the day they will get married. I assume she also cheated on me during our relationship but hell... She sucks mad dick. And I won't take her back. You did right by telling him, still I won't since they both cheated on their partners.
This is such bullshit, autism was invented by jobless white females in order to avoid actual work and demote white children (while sucking off government money)
tl;dr - autism is feminazi plot
OP wants to pull some strings get his own bit ur a dude for sure no prob there its the tellin instead of lettin the bitch get caught redhanded that caused the backlash, if u'd excuted this right nobody could even look to u
I don't support cheating. But I'm not going to be a bitch and rat out cheaters.
I don't support the use of cocaine, but I'm not going to calm the cops on my cousin.
I don't support my neighbor cheating on his taxes. But that doesn't mean I'm going to call the IRS on him.
Holy fuck. There's a lot stupid her on /b/. It's sad, really.
>How are you anything but garbage?
1. I'm a woman.
2. I'm Jewish.
3. I fuck lots of men while my husband is at his law firm (pretty sure he has a side piece as well).
4. The garbage I think you are referring to is presently cleaning my house. I will give her some of my husband's hard earned money not before this house is spotless.
5. I have a date at 3:30 this afternoon.
You wish you had my life.
You shouldn't be trying to date girls with boyfriends. You shouldn't then try to date her sister. You shouldn't then spill the beans to her boyfriend because you didn't get laid.
Yes it's true that they shouldn't be such cunts and their mistake for telling you anything. However, this isn't about them. In fact you should have run as far as you can from people like them in the first place.
So now for the aftermath. No what you did is wrong BUT it's done so don't work yourself up too much. What's done is done. You should block them both and move on before it gets worse for you. Care not for them as they dug their own graves. Also you don't deserve this advice so relish it
>Fucking other people without an understanding with your husband
>assuming the classic woman logic "he must be doing it too so its ok!"
>assuming everything will be ok when the trust is destroyed
>assuming we believe any part of your shitty troll.
So if you fear something, gov, opinions of others, etc your automatically bad? If you hide something you're a bad person? Or does it just depend upon YOUR opinion regarding what's bad?
There is a retard here. But it's not me. It's you little guy.
What you're doing is gross deresponsabilization. Saying you have some sort of principle, but not sticking by it nor defending it just makes you a hypocrite. Where's the ethic in it? What's the point of saying "I don't support cheating, but I don't care if others do it"? Do you happen to live all by yourself and are self-sufficient or do you live in a society which requires your contribution to stay healthy and functional? God damn it, stop being such an egocentric fuck or worse, an amoral piece of shit.
I'm apart of the problem? Really?
So you're 100% honest about everything you say, think or do? You'd eat out your own parents? Your own children over petty bullshit?
Cause I call BS on that one. You're a lying scumbag already.
In a heartbeat. I'm lucky enough that my family and friemds happen to be upstanding.
I'm sorry you're surrounded by terrible people, but that's no excuse to compromise your own alleged morals. Also explains why you doubt me. The thief imagines all men dishonest.
im gonna lol whenever he finds out, and gets to decide how to fuck with you
I don't support cheating. Therefore I don't cheat.
Muslim don't believe in eating pork. Does that mean they have the right to force not eating pork upon us? And if they don't, are they also hypocrites?
I love by a moral code. But I will not force others to live up to my moral code. Nor will I force my opinion of a moral code upon them over petty circumstances. I will choose my battles wisely.
Good effort on your part though.
Go kill yourself. You are what's wrong with this world, you whore.
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I'm not lazy at all. Again, you're wrong. Lol. You've been wrong a lot so far.
And I'm allowing society to decline because I mind my own business when it doesn't pertain to me, and it won't physically harm anyone? I'm adding to the decline of society because I won't rat out friends and family over petty bullshit?
Lmmfao. Funniest shit I've heard all day.
Monogamy was a mistake. You fags are being cucked by women or fantasize about being cucked in to a relationship. Cheaters are just acting on their natural instinct to fuck other people.
Back it up how? Say who I am over 4chan? Disclose my name. Leading to my business and my family? Grow the fuck up kid.
I could care less if you believe me or not.
Besides, you're the one who acted all superior. You're the one who drug family into this. So, put your money where your mouth is. You tell us who you are. And let us judge he successful you are in life.
Are you dumb?
If you agree to go into something like marriage and dont agree to see others its wrong
If you want to sleep around, dont get married or get together, just fuck each others brains out, or tell the other party what you want.
Lying cheaters btfo, stay cuckd
People that agree to marriage are just falling inline with what they've heard all there life. Happily ever after. Nuclear family. Lust is of the devil. Reproduce reproduce reproduce reproduce. God and country.
There is no afterlife and life is meaningless. Fuck as many people as you can.
Agreed marriage is retarded, but if youre in a relationship, or married, you tell the truth instead of sneaking around like a nigger
Why get married or get together if you want to fuck everything in sight, if not just to milk the other party from whatever resources he has?