Currently a homeschooled girl. How the fuck do I make friends. I would rate my self at least a 7. Fuck my life /b/ I'm so lonely
I forgot to add- I don't think I'm that ugly. And I try to be as friendly as I can, and give away stuff to random people. Why can't I socialize?
This. Join a club that satisfies your interests. Let me tell you that true happiness comes from within though. You kind of have to learn to love the person you are with when you are alone. Also, post pics.
Watch what other people watch like game of thrones walking dead and breaking bad ect thatll be a talking point find a club u like then those ppl will hav something in common with u besides that remember names and always say hi with a smile. Good luck :)
Thats going to be hard as fuck then, most kids dont want to put in the amount of effort to please your parents and develop trust with everyone just to be a friend with no perks. Sucks but just being truthful.
ya have you been checked out? If so my best advice is to try and join some kind club. There are usually a lot of rec leagues put on by towns an cities and some specifically for teens. Helped my branch out and make some really quality friends
How would you feel if some weirdo walked up to you and offered you a cookie huh? It could be filled with spit and cum for all you know!
Giving out random treats to strangers isn't going to make people like you regardless of your intentions. As for making friends well you usually make those in school so..i don't know what to tell you here.
First of all, nice trips. Second of all, as a way of dealing with anxiety I do some meditation. It may be something that would help you. And lastly, with the groul thing, make sure it is not a church group. Reason why is because they know how to gossip and exclude better than most groups/people.
Give me stuff and I'll be your friend.
Well I would start by getting to know them, and after a while offer treats. The one instance I gave stuff out to total strangers was to incoming freshman as a welcome.
Here's half my face
The real question is northern or southern California OP? If southern then you could always just go to a party and make friends that way, it northern you're kinda fucked until college starts up again then you could try to make college friends.
it's probably your parents that have caused you to have those panic attacks, by disallowing you to the outside world.
If you can't get out and join clubs, if you can't get out at all and brave these panic attacks then how do you ever expect to make friends?
Step 1) Master the panic attacks
Does this count? I've been crying so I'm embarrassed to show my face..
Am 22. did homeschool/continuation from junior to senior year/ graduated.
MY ADVICE AND BIGGEST REGRET. GET YOUR ASS BACK TO SCHOOL AND STICK THRU IT. HOMESCHOOL ISNT WORTH IT FAM
nice lips. norcal? I know a church group, and if not that a school that supports homeschooling and you can go to center classes like 1-3 times a week if you want, it's modeled after college so you can just go to whatever classes work for you. It's called CORE camptonville academy, check it out sometime.
guys it's time to take her seriously
School isn't a place for smart people, Morty.
>I'm not that far gone
oh, you will be...when I came here I thought I'd never go to fluffy threads. this starts you on a path to degeneracy, leads you to discovering your deepest, darkest desires and then gives you a source for viewing them on a daily basis. Just continue with your normie life, there is no light to be had here.
Unfortunately OP has ignored probably the best advice of this thread, needing to know a location in California because the northern and southern halves are completely different in their social behaviors.
Another vocaloid fan!? ️ I've cosplayed Miku before
I'm always looking for more people to talk to. If you posted some sort of contact info I'd love to talk. *shrugs*
More generally though, if you have bad panic attacks, I'd recommend trying to meet someone online and getting to know them and then meeting them in person when you're close.
Joining clubs and stuff is also just an excellent way to make friends. Depending on what brings on your panic attacks, I'm not sure if that'd be a good idea for you right now though.
Hey! I'm a huge vocaloid fan. My waifu is GUMI :heartpulse: I love everything vocaloid! (Including NSFW :wink:) Favorite song, hands down, in Nou Shou Sakuretsu Garu/Spinal Fluid Explosion Girl. I have an ever growing figure collection. I love cosplay. I'm a giant weeb.
I'm about to go to college, and I'm Filipino. Nearly 18, female cisgender bisexual. Dank meme enthusiast. I'll always follow back (=ﾟωﾟ)ﾉ
Will post art sometimes. Maybe even singing.....?
Weebs make friends quicker than you think doe so you wont find it that hard if you just look for it ;3
Lived in Japan from 3 - 6. Homeschooled until 2nd grade, and then again in Middle School. Would advise you to try getting back to public school, or maybe a private school if public school has too many people. Try to find people who like anime, games, etc. Can be hard, but normally when you find one, there are more.
Oh fuck, that's terrible. I should probably make a break for it then. I don't know what you call them, but the other pages or whatnot are there better ones? This place seems like it has some chill people.
Yeah, but Filipino genetics are Spanish genetics.
But Filipino panic attacks makes sense, yeah. All the Filipino girls I've known have been total head-cases, some were downright sociopathic.
Okay, I'm relieved. Hispanics still confirmed immune to panic attacks. Whew. All is right with the world.
I should probably be giving you advice. I would suggest you go to counseling or therapy to deal with the panic attacks. Unless there was a legitimate reason you were afraid to go to school (bullies, niggers, etc)...?
ITT: WHITE KNIGHTS , NO TITS POSTED. SAGE
Assuming this is OP, you're 19. Check out SB parties if nothing else, easy way to make some temp friends that can introduce you to better ones. If nothing else you seem to have an interest in gaming and stuff like that so you might want to check out some local game stores; SoCal Comics, theres a pc gaming places down here I think it starts with an E.
just depends on your interests. I like /co/ (comics and cartoons) /sci/ (science and math) /x/ (paranormal) and /wsg/, which is for work safe gifts/webms, the ylyl threads are funny and there are lots of interesting threads. I just browse /b/ out of habit man, but yeah there are much better boards on 4chan
lol i just reverse image searched your profile picture, you should be more careful about which photos you use on public websites, it's very easy to find a lot about someone
but the response tells me at least that it's actually you, not just some hairy basement dweller posting pictures of a girl he found online lol.
Mmk you Hikikomori. Best way to make friends is to just make a YouTube channel and be autistic there. Then be a normal patron of the bs society we live in and you automatically get a free friend when you give up your dreams.
I'm just kinda a floater, only real interest is socialising, I play a few video games casually and watch movies like Star Wars and shit. Maybe go to parties and shit. This place just really isn't for me. Thanks for trying though!
You are a pretty attractive person and you live in Cali you would probably have no trouble making friends. But you shouldn't come to 4chan its not the best option just sit down with your parents and ask them if you can make friends or go to a public school
I've thought about making YouTube videos or live streaming but... I wouldn't know what to talk about besides weeb stuff or buffalo wings idk
Seems the idiots are out in force tonight.
Me n my gf Are looking for another girl with similar tastes we want a gf or a friend idk were from the bay
I stopped watching anime, all of them dont seem interesting no more
Don't care it's fun
>I just couldn't enter campus without feeling like death
Yeah, I felt like that all through college, and when I quit and worked at various jobs.
If you're clever, you should find a way to make money from home (working online, selling things, etc.). Then, you can afford your own apartment and get the hell out of your parents' house.
Once you turn 16, they can't legally force you to stay. You don't even have to stay enrolled in high school. And... just between you and me... nobody (and I mean NOBODY) ever checks to see if people actually graduated from high school or not.
If you want to go to college for some reason, you can just take the GED tests.
Start thinking of an exit strategy, kid. The sooner you leave your parents' house, the sooner you can live your own life.
Girl talking weeb shit while playing games will go fucking gangbusters on twitch
especially if you don't come across as an attention grabbing whore like 90% of the female streamers
congrats you're the female jun. what are your hobbies? that could be a decent place to start
honest opinion. you seem like a bit of an autist. by that i mean its very obvious you spend too much time on the internet. you have potential, believe me.
maybe start by going to class a little drunk. not wasted, but have like 2 shots just so you feel like you can talk more. i mean ive never done that but im usually an autist around people i dont know unless i have some alcohol in me. its like, the only reason i can get my dick sucked.
anyway, youre ok looking. its kind of obvious youre manipulating your angles with your selfies but thats ok because most girls do. this is the best advice i can give you. also, make a tinder.
do you have any social media i could follow you on also or na
You're super cute OP. Would do inappropriate things to you.
Give it time, you'll get friends as soon as your out of the house.
Home schooled kids always have it a little rough. I met a ton in college. 90% of them got over their depression once they started the dorms.
Awww sweet ur an otaku like me! Hey so listen when i moved to a new town i was having the same problem as you. Every time id talk to someone id just start shaking, still do. Just try to get experience so u can level up this ability :) you will proly end up the quiet one but thats ok go for the mysterious type and when u do speak it will be on something imortant or show your character just like those anime characters. Itll be hard but keep remembering names saying hi and smiling you will do pretty well with just that
Well fuck me. OP is not a faggot.
(no real need to post tits in this situation)
Real talk: you're in the Bay Area? Look up a Rationalist meetup. They're a friendly little ... I dunno, cult? They're friendly and incredibly autistic and they'll be friends with you.
I'm a dumbass who hadn't read the thread. Jaded from too many fakes, I see you posted a timestamp now.
If I lived nearby, you sound like the sort of person I'd be mates with. Since I live on the other side of a rather large puddle of water, I'd suggest falling in with the Rationalists instead, half of them seem to live in the Bay Area.
Anon, I'm in the exact same situation. My parents never let me go out because they're convinced I'll be murdered/raped/robbed and I live in a tiny town with nothing to do.
I love playing basketball and volleyball but there's no girls or mixed teams around here, just boys teams. Last time I had a actual friend was in sixth grade right before I starting doing digital school. Kms.
Just get a job if your so desperate i mean i part time job like at a fast food joint you can make many friends there tbh and if your parents say anything make some crap up like it would be good for me and I could help the family with the extra income
The panic attacks are what's making your life difficult. Do yourself a favor, find the nearest biofeedback office and get cured in a month or two. You look not only not ugly, but even kinda hot. You probably just lack normal social skills which you'll easily acquire once you're able to go out of the house.
Says the guy who probably sits at a computer his whole life reminiscing about how he could have spoken up and not have been a pussy through out his life so he could have some real friends instead of lurking on a chat board all day.
Ouch. I used to be homeschooled too. Had a lot of trouble socializing when I started attending public schools. Shit is rough.
Don't expect to always make freinds with the people you'd like to. And steer clear of people who put on an act of any kind. Fake people make the worst freinds.
Social skills are skills like any other-- you have to practice to get better. It's just going to be a little cringey and uncomfortable improving your game
actually good advice right here. if you dont have a school to make friends at, make em at work. and this chick could clearly make friends as hot as she is. its like you dont even need a personality.
Sometimes I wonder what I'm doing here arguing with people like you. Do you ever realize what the fuck you're doing with your life? Memeing your life away is a pretty sad way to live.
Trips demanded tribute.
You want real advice here you go: everyone here is a dumb faggot including me for being here, but slowly start doing things you see that you like. Like if you want to get good at talking to people, talk to everyone you encounter. Cashiers, waiters, whatever just say nornal things to spark a little convo. Doesnt matter whatits about, it will get you comfortable with interacting socially so you wont be as much of a insecure socially retarded weeb like 90% of /b/.
>push yourself out of your shell
>nothing can ever change without sacrifice
>sacrifice your shy weeb dignity
I will be your friend you will need no other friend other than me because I'm such a good friend
I don't do K12 but I do FLVS, anyone else? It's really easy to cheat and that's pretty much the only reason I'm passing tbh.
I know how you feel, my parents won't let me get any job - even if I tell them I'll give them my paycheck.
I don't know about the rest of you guys but I'd be jumping at the chance to friend this person. Everyone I know in real life are complete normies, and having a qt weeb femanon as a friend would be a breath of fresh air.
Okay, how about joining a forum? She already said that whatever she does she isn't allowed to go outside. She either sneaks out and comes back before they notice, because talking with them won't work. Or she finds friends online, like through forums or social media.
She can't be friends with any of us. We can only help her find friends.
OP one day you will go to college, it's the best place to make friends. Getting a job should help you, I guess you can work few hours a week, after homeschooling.
You have anxiety/panic attacks, you should visit a therapist. I'm not saying that you are 'psycho', but maybe you have some not solved issues from your past and that's why you have those attacks. Good psychotherapy should help you. Maybe you will have to take some medicines for a short period of time, to help your brain calm down.
And you are really pretty, I have no idea why so many pretty girls are very insecure about themselves.