Why the fuck do I lose all urge to fuck the second after I cum?
All my sexual interest drains from my body as jizz drains from my nuts. I know every other guy is like this, but why?
I'm the same way but I keep going because I got a reputation to uphold.
Generally start getting back into the mood 5-10 minutes after I nut the first time anyway so its not that long that I'm not in it for myself.
yeah but girls can go and go.
Before I nut in my mind I'm like "I'll bust this first nut and be ready to start pounding like crazy" then I cum and I don't want anything to do with sex
wish it wasn't like that
Well, i'm not like this, usually, i just want to keep going, it maybe too intense, so if my girlfriend is on top she just keeps going. if I'm on top then i just pause a little and after a minute or so, without pulling out, I resume. But that's just me
It can also be related to the fact I truly love her, so there's that.
I think what it comes down to is whether you were interested in her or just interested in getting off. If your only interest was getting off, then once you've done it it's Mission Accomplished and off to do something else.
When I'm with someone and the relationship is going well and I'm super into her and she's super into me, then it's more like a party that never ends. Or only ends because we are exhausted or got shit to do. I get off, but I'm still into her and it's not too long before we're going at it again because the subject matter in my mind didn't change after the first go.
I'd like to think it's a primal thing. Imagine back before civilization was a thing and you could just go around raping girls if you wanted. If you didn't lose that urge after a nut literally all guys would ever do is go around raping all day all night and only stop to eat and shit.
jesus man, just that page alone is creepy as fuck
>yeah but girls can go and go.
That's also adaptation. The theory being, our ancestor women were sexually active with multiple partners, since that raises the child's chances of survival, having multiple dads to look after it.
It's called refraction period
You get really fucking tired instead of orny and your dick will be really sensative
there is a theory that that behavior developed to facilitate group mating. When one male finishes he looses interest and leaves, making room for another male. It essentially serves the same (potential) purpose as multiple orgasms in females. In early stages of human society this was advantageous because it led to a more communal society. When no one really knows who the father or any of the kids is, everyone is gonna do their part to care for them.
They can go and go indeed, sometimes they need a pause. My girlfriend orgasms and keeps going, but when she cums she can't move for like 2 minutes, so I just go on top and continue
>>Implying girls want to stop after they cum
You ever ask girls who orgasm their day away how often they do it? They quickly learn depleting all the happy-feeling chemicals in their brains make them sad and bitchy by the end of the day. So unless there's an epidemic of female orgasm addiction no one's talking about, there is only one virgin here.
Physical limit <--------------------------------------------------------->Perpetual emotional downside to orgasm more than 20 times in a day.
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My girl separates orgasms from cumming. SHe has many orgasms during sex, and that's cool, but then there's when she cums, then sometimes, when she cums she asks to stop, sometimes just a brief pause. And she tells me usually the most intense ones she needs a pause
Seriously? Take a fucking basic human sexuality or bio class. Or just google it dude! Are your fingers too busy fapping? It's called a refractory period. One word... hormones. Your testosterone falls, your oxytocin and prolactin levels spike. It's not a mystery. PS lots of women experience the same thing.
As poet lil Wayne once said "all my bitches love me, and I love all my bitches, but as soon as I cum, I come to my senses" what mr. Wayne means is trust no hoe bust a nut and move on
We all go through this.
If you have morning wood, you tend to stay hard no matter what. It can even make you last longer before you have to cum. And even when you cum, it stays hard.
Low on energy afterwards and can't keep pumping? Nah, it's her turn to ride and put some work in.
Over-sensitive cock after cumming? Dude, ride the wave. She'll go wild and get even more into it by seeing it effect you so much.
The second cumming is the bee's knees.
Okay guys I've learned a way to last long in bed. At it's my way of lasting long. When you're fucking and you're about to cum, pull out and don't jack off or let her jack you off. Whatever comes out, just let it come out. After it comes out, wipe off the excess cum. Make sure you clean up very carefully and neatly. Now after you've done this, your dick should still be hard and you won't be as sensitive because it's like you tricked your body into thinking there was an orgasm but it wasn't. I call it a "half nut". Try it out guys.
I enjoyed this, great post anon
Because we men have stuff to do. So when we cum, our bodies is programmed to move on to the next item on the agenda. Women are programmed to live meaningless existences where the only good they're doing is having sex and making babies and do chores. So they're programmed to cum multiple times.